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Your ADHD Besties
Your ADHD Besties
Author: Grace Koelma & Tara Breuso
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Your ADHD Besties is a podcast for people who are underwhelmed, overwhelmed and very attractive all at the same time... people who put the BDE in ADHD. โค๏ธโ๐ฅ Your hosts are besties Grace Koelma (founder of Future ADHD) and Tara Breuso (The ADHD Dietitian). Join us for episodes every Thursday where we unmask together and discuss your juuuuicy ADHD dilemmas.ย
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Hiiii besties! Today on the podcast we are discussing ADHD and social media/phone addiction. We share our theory as to why ADHDers often find their communities online, why we get stuck in dopamine DOOM SCROLL loops. We talk about how we are attempting to create digital boundaries for ourselves (while still being kind to our ADHD brains) and what might help us to get a bit more of our time back from Marky Mark Zuck and his sneaky ways. ๐ซ Ireggy Seggy (tiiiimeeee): We almost reignite top s...
After 3 months off, weโre BACK bestie babes - and WE MISSED YOU!!!! And for the first time ever, you can watch Your ADHD Besties on YOUTUBE! You guys asked, so we finally obliged. ๐ (weโre not nervous, YOU are ๐ซฃ) This week on the pod we discuss a bombardment of things... what we've been up to on our break, Graceโs official AuDHD diagnosis, as well as how we manage meltdowns in social situations, the internal stress dialogue and lack of emotional regulation that comes with being a ...
We're back (SOON!) bestie babes! We're just quickly popping into your feed to remind you that the PODCAST WILL BE BACK on the 14th of August!! AND to update on some CUTE things ๐ we've been working on while we've been on a break... ๐ฅ Get our brand new ADHD Snack Hacker HERE ๐ Join our Patreon live calls and get extra weekly 'More ADHD Besties' episodes! LOVE YOUUUUU 4EVZ G & T xxx ---------------------------- ๐ฆ WANT MORE ADHD BESTIES? JOIN OUR PATRE0N COMMUNITY for subscriber-only ...
Hiiiiiiii ADHD bestie BABES! Today we're sharing the recording of our VERY FIRST live podcast event (a few weeks ago) where we celebrated the launch of Graceโs book The ADHD Focus Friend... AND reaching the amazing podcast milestone of 250K downloads! We had such a wonderful time meeting some of our gorgeous listeners in person and we canโt wait to meet more of you in the near future! We discuss Graceโs book The ADHD Focus Friend and why it's different to traditional productivity tools ...
ADHD BABES! YOU ASKED, AND SO (AFTER 8 MONTHS, WHOOPS! ๐ฌ) YOUR ADHD ISLAND IS BACK! ๐๏ธ And who better to kick off our episode with, than the incredible and hilarious Emma from @emmasmindovermatter! Emmaโs island is an experience like no otherโฆ a maximalist pastel paradise where we promise youโll never get overstimulated, and thereโs no such thing as OVERSHARING (because itโs just called sharing, okay??) This island features psychedelic toads, astrologically relevant dolphins and robots that h...
Hello tiniest ADHD babies ๐โโ๏ธ WE ARE OFFICIALLY BACKKKK TO OUR LIVE WEEKLY EPS!! (Grace has been away on holiday for 3 weeks and Tara has been a shell of a human without her, obvs) This week we're bringing you an interview with content creator and AuDHD advocate Emma Llewellyn (@emmasmindovermatter) all about PMDD - which is pre-menstrual dysphoric disorder. This topic is one that we get asked about often, so we wanted to do a deep dive with Emma, who raises awareness about PMDD frequentl...
Hi besties! On the pod today: Our Second Official ADHD Besties Symposium is here and this time we're looking at ADHD and Friendships. Why? Because when you have ADHD they can be hard bby. --- ๐ฆ JOIN OUR PATREON COMMUNITY for extra subscriber-only episodes every week and the BEST community ever!! --- We have curated THE BEST ๐ค dilemmas on friendships from our very handsome (flicks hair into quiff) back catalogue and put them together for you to share with the people around you so ...
Hi tiny little ADHD babes, In todayโs episode, Grace is forcing Tara to do her recommendation in a Kiwi accent even though she's in the throes of PMDD (cute). We discuss important subjects: like โwhat ARE the cakes in menโs urinals made out of?โ and "public proposals, sweet or stressful?". Meanwhile, Grace shares an inattentive moment that she's still spiralling about (spoiler: her leather couch is NOT okay ๐ซ ) ๐ DIVERGENT DILEMMA: โI get why my ADHD makes me binge eat when Iโm sad, but ...
Hellloooo besties In today's ep Grace is doing unimportant author-y things like promoting her chart topping book while Tara is doing genuinely important things like avoiding washing her colander. Tara gives insight into why ADHD medication is very personal and specific to each person and why it's a journey not a destination for her. ๐ DIVERGENT DILEMMA: โMy mum doesn't believe I have ADHD and she has to fill out my ADHD assessment form for my psychiatrist" We cover: Generational ADHD G...
Hi bestiessss On todays episode, Taraโs out of meltdown and is a bit more organised* *sheโs doing HIGHLY profound things like sewing pants and brandishing bobbins with Chloe Wilder (Listen to Chloeโs ADHD island here), Meanwhile Grace is taking her journals on a little beach trip (donโt worry she asked them first) in her bid to stay unperceived and allowing herself to be indulgent about meeting her needs. ๐ซฃ RSD corner: Tara completely messed up on the style episode โAlice Bornsteinโ is ...
Oh HIII, bestie babes! In today's episode, we're ADHD-ing all over each other, and Tara is sick of people feeling bad about oversharing. Oversharing is the new sharing. Okay??? Good. ๐ DILEMMA OF THE WEEK: Nick asks: "I don't understand the difference between ADHD / AuDHD meltdowns and shutdowns! Can you explain?" Weโre recording this episode just an hour after Tara had an ADHD meltdownโbecause she wants to show you what an ADHD meltdown actually looks like. Have you ever felt extremely disco...
Hi bestiesssss This week Tara will apparently do anything for a Dorset accent and Grace is asking for advice on whether she needs new beauty products, however the only answer she will accept is a resounding and supportive yes. We have a lot of fun introducing our new segment ๐ซ RSD corner ๐ซ where an RSD shared is an RSD halved. A lovely listener sent us an email with some recommendations including: The Samsung digital door lock Our ADHD emoji texting code We discuss ADHD stimming (self s...
WE ARE BACK, BABY! ๐โจ๐ซ And we've missed you all! ๐ Weโre kicking things off after Chinese New Year, and in 2025, weโre bringing you a brand new segment you never knew you neededโteaching you *how* to RSD (wait, what?! Donโt worry, all will be revealed). โจ RECS: Tara: Double cleansing skincare routine ๐ซง Grace: @gaiamusiccollective on Instagram ๐ถ ๐ DILEMMA OF THE WEEK: Tahlia asks: How do I make New Yearโs resolutions ADHD-friendly? She loves that fresh start feeling but hates her inconsisten...
๐ HAPPY DECEMBER BEAUTIFUL ADHD BESTIES! Our gorgeous listener from the UK opens the episode for us and we're taking wrong exits and accidentally lying at the drive through. A big thank you to everyone who tagged us in your Spotify wrapped ๐ฅนโค๏ธ DILEMMA: โI feel under appreciated in my friendship and I canโt stop the RSDโ We discuss: Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria (RSD) in friendships and how it affects our relationships.How self-trust in ADHD can be challenging but is key to managing emotional ...
Hello ADHD babes! ๐ฅณโจ This week on Your ADHD Besties: Grace had a truly chaotic week, managing to both ponk her car and her brows (in unrelated news, Tara was Grace's brow technician but is she getting fired?). Important babes! ๐ฆ DON'T MISS OUR LIVE Q&A CALL ON PATREON TOMORROW!! We'll deep dive all your questions on supplements, don't miss the call - SIGN UP HERE! DIVERGENT DILEMMA: Registered Dietitian Tara helps us to answer the question that everyone wants an answer to: AD...
Hello, stunning ND brains! Ready to join us for some juicy ADHD dilem lems while sipping your metaphorical (or literal) white wine in the sun? In this week's dilemma, a newly diagnosed ADHD mum asks for help. She's trying to build her dream Etsy shop but keeps getting sucked into hyperfixation rabbit holes on her computer (cute), and is feeling frustrated at her lack of productivity. Sound familiar? We discuss: Unconscious Scrolling: Itโs not laziness; itโs unmet needs tapping us on the shou...
Heyy besties! โจBIG NEWS!! WE LAUNCHED OUR PATREON SUBSCRIPTION CONTENT THIS WEEK! โจ Thurs eps not enough? Join our Patreon community! You'll get BONUS subscriber-only episodes every week, bestie chat groups, live Q&As, downloadables and more. Sooo many of you have already signed up... our little happy hearts are split in two with love! ๐ฅน In this week's episode... DILEMM #1 - Medication, diagnosis and self compassion! We discuss: ADHD medication, diagnosis, neurotypes, tipping points,...
๐ฅณ OMG ITโS HERE! ๐ฅณ You guys have been asking for more of us in your ears every week ๐ so weโve finally launched our Patreon community! (Yes, itโs very cool and yes you DEFINITELY want to be part of it ๐) JOIN THE ADHD BESTIES PATREON HERE! If you love this show, and want to support us in doing the podcast long-term, consider joining our Patreon community! ๐๐๐ Thank you to everyone who has already joined, we see you! If you thought the Thurs podcast was good, prepare yourself for ...
Hellooooo dopamine-deprived babeeeees In todayโs episode: We're recording from our new studio and we're very excited and so are the drunk rascals below us on the street! Tara admits to reading the end of books before she finishes them (only sometimes!) and hating hairdresser scalp massages - forward your hate mail to @adhdbestiespodcast on instagram, she is expecting it. Today we're doing a RAPID FIRE DILEMMA ROUND โค๏ธโ๐ฅ (see: slightly faster than we normally answer dilemmas and not a...
Hi besties, we have something a little bit different for you this week! First up, we're struggggling to do admin tasks, but on the plus side we were so bored at the bank that we used the hand sanitiser 200 times so our hands are super dry ๐ซ In this raw and honest episode of Your ADHD Besties, Tara opens up about her personal journey with anxiety and how it intersects with her ADHD. She dives deep into the complexities of living with anxiety from childhood all the way through her postnatal e...





