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112 | The One Question I Asked God that Helped Me Find My Identity

2025-10-0613:58

Hi beautiful! ♥️ Have you ever struggled to understand who God created you to be? Maybe you've been googling... "How do I feel confident in myself?" or "How do I find who I am?" or "How do I find my identity in Christ?" If you’re in the middle of trying to discover your identity, this episode is for you! I'm sharing the one simple question I asked God that completely changed how I see myself - and how you can ask it too. We’re talking about what it actually means to stand as a daughter of the King, pick up your authority, and stop comparing yourself to who the world says you should be. By the end of this episode, you’ll have a practical way to hear from God about who YOU are and start walking confidently in that truth. So grab your journal, find a quiet space, and let’s invite Him in. He’s ready to remind you of exactly who He created you to be. Xoxo, Dani GOD-ROOTED CONFIDENCE ROADMAP: https://healherministries.com/start COME SAY HI ON IG: https://instagram.com/lovedanijackson

111 | Still Feel Attached to Your Toxic Ex? 5 Steps to Break the Emotional Soul Tie

2025-09-2921:03

Hi beautiful! ♥️ If you've ended things with your ex but still feel drawn to him, and you're trying to be strong enough not to go back... Or if you've found yourself caught in a cycle with him, but deep down you want to be free... Here are the five steps to finally break free from him emotionally AND spiritually! We're talking all things soul ties (from a biblical perspective), so you'll understand why you're so attached and how to detach—or really sever the tie in the spirit, because that's what it takes. Grab your journal and let's dive in! Xoxo, Dani GOD-ROOTED CONFIDENCE ROADMAP: https://healherministries.com/start COME SAY HI ON IG: https://instagram.com/lovedanijackson

110 | Keep Ignoring Red Flags? Rewire Your Mindset for Healthy Love

2025-09-2230:04

Hi beautiful! ♥️ Have you ever felt like you’re stuck in a cycle of unhealthy relationships and for some reason you keep attracting the same type of man, just in a different body? Or maybe deep down, you know you deal with low self-esteem and low standards but you're unsure how to raise them? You find yourself confusing love and security with attention and familiarity. Trust me, I definitely get it but that ends here. There's a reason they say you find yourself dating someone just like your parents. It's unfortunate that we aren't taught relationship skills or how to develop the skill of honest reflection so we can stop subconsciously attracting people that aren't good for us... But this episode is going to teach you how to raise your standards, strengthen your communication and identify red flags quicker - Grab your journal and let’s dive in. See you on the inside! Xo, Dani REGISTER FOR SEPT 28TH FREE MASTERCLASS: https://healherministries.com/masterclass

109 | LIVE COACHING: Fear of Success vs Fear of Failure

2025-09-0832:42

Hi beautiful! ♥️ Do you feel like you’re struggling with the fear of failure or the fear of success? Maybe you’re wondering which one it is so you know which to fight? Or maybe you’ve gotten used to the feeling of fear so you’ve learned how to live with it… Either way, this live training that I’ve pulled from one of my group coaching sessions is going to teach you the difference between the fear of success and the fear of failure, the source (where it’s coming from), and most importantly how to fight it! Ready to get free? Ready to leave fear in your past? Ready to step into the power and authority the Lord Jesus has already given you to cast this spirit out? Grab your journal and let’s get to it! REGISTER FOR SEPT 14TH MASTERCLASS: https://healherministries.com/masterclass

108 | LIVE COACHING: Don’t Let Delay Win - 3 Ways to Protect Your God-Given Vision

2025-09-0120:09

Hi beautiful! ♥️ Do you have a God-given vision but feel stuck, discouraged, or like you keep self-sabotaging right when things start to move? You’re not imagining it—the enemy targets your dream with very specific attacks so you never step fully into what God has for you. In this live coaching episode we expose the three sneaky assassins that kill momentum—Delay (procrastination), Perfectionism, and Distraction—and I coach the group through practical strategies to fight back. You’ll learn how to choose obedience over overthinking, shorten your execution window, prioritize progress over perfection, and eliminate the distractions that steal your most valuable resources: time, energy, and attention. Bring your journal - this one’s full of tactical next steps you can use today to protect your vision and start moving again. See you on the inside! Xo, Dani JOIN THE FREE COMMUNITY: bit.ly/healtoxicrelationshipsgroup

107 | The First Step to Healing (It’s Not What You Think)

2025-08-2529:28

Hi beautiful! ♥️ Have you ever done all the right things... journaling, therapy, prayers, affirmations, church, and still feel stuck in the same old patterns? I get it. So many of us chase activity and awareness, thinking that’ll 'heal us', but there’s one step most people skip that actually unlocks freedom. In this episode I’ll walk you through what that first step to healing looks like, how to identify hidden doors and generational strongholds, and a renunciation exercise you can do today to begin closing those doors for good. If you’ve been wrestling with recurring shame, doubt, or patterns that won’t quit, this is the hard, loving work that changes everything. So grab your journal, and I'll see you on the inside! Xo, Dani Grab Your God-Rooted Confidence Roadmap: https://healherministries.com/offer Come say hi on IG! https://www.instagram.com/lovedanijackson Renouncing + Declaring PDF: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1ml0J9q_DYf4FYs0NbTcZJylS9_s0DzAz/view?usp=sharing

106 | LIVE COACHING: Tired of Being Walked Over? Set Boundaries & Stop Shrinking

2025-08-0424:59

Hi beautiful! ♥️ Do you catch yourself tiptoeing around bosses or family, swallowing your voice just to keep the peace? Or maybe you fear stepping into your calling because you worry you’ll let everyone down (or yourself)? In this live coaching session, three students shared exactly where they’ve been “shrinking” and you'll see how I coach them through it: Morgan realized she’s a peacemaker who’s let her boss and mom walk all over her and learned why planting seeds of awareness and setting just one clear boundary can reclaim her power. Tiffany unpacked how past wounds and a fear of failure have sabotaged her confidence and and discovered that crafting a vivid future vision is the key to breaking free from her “never enough” mindset. Vida confessed she blocks her own blessings when success looms and committed to training her “giving muscle” now, so she won’t freeze at the finish line later. No fluff. Just raw breakthroughs and practical next steps you can use today to stop shrinking, start speaking up, and walk in the bold, God-rooted confidence you were made for. Grab your journal and hit play! Xo, Dani JOIN THE COMMUNITY: http://bit.ly/healtoxicrelationshipsgroup FOLLOW US ON IG: instagram.com/lovedanijackson

105 | 3 Hacks to Build Confidence as a Woman of Faith in Just 10 Minutes per Day

2025-07-2820:01

Hi beautiful! ♥️ Ever find yourself wondering why confidence feels so out of reach even when you know God has called you to boldness? Or maybe you’ve started a new project or season, and doubt keeps whispering that you’re not enough? You’re not alone and confidence isn’t a destination you have to chase. It’s a daily practice rooted in faith, not in your own strength. In today’s episode, I’m sharing 3 simple hacks you can do in just 10 minutes each day to build unshakable confidence as a woman of faith. Grab your journal and let’s turn those small daily habits into big confidence breakthroughs! See you on the inside, Xo,  Dani JOIN THE COMMUNITY: http://bit.ly/healtoxicrelationshipsgroup FOLLOW US ON IG: instagram.com/lovedanijackson

104 | On an Emotional Rollercoaster? Take Back Control in 4 Steps

2025-07-2130:07

Hi beautiful! ♥️ Have you ever felt like your emotions are running the show? One minute you’re praising God, and the next you’re drowning in anxiety or anger you can’t shake. Or maybe your feelings take over, and you end up saying or doing things you later regret. You’re not broken or alone, and you don’t have to live this way. You CAN experience emotional freedom, because God doesn’t call us to be tossed by every mood swing, emotional trigger, or harsh word. In today’s episode, we unpack three gospel-rooted practices to conquer your emotional roller-coaster and stay anchored in Christ no matter what comes your way. We’ll tackle the root of the issue by learning to reflect on our triggers, confess the lies that fuel our highs and lows, and stand firm in who God says we are, so His peace rules our hearts, not our feelings. So grab your journal and let’s dive in! Xo, Dani JOIN THE COMMUNITY: http://bit.ly/healtoxicrelationshipsgroup FOLLOW US ON IG: instagram.com/lovedanijackson

103 | LIVE COACHING: Breaking Up With Perfectionism

2025-07-1426:03

Hi beautiful! ♥️ Have you ever found yourself stuck—overthinking every detail, delaying launch, or recycling drafts—simply because it didn’t feel “perfect enough”? You’re not alone. Perfectionism disguises itself as excellence, but really it’s fear wearing a fancy mask. In this week’s live coaching session, we tear off that mask once and for all. We’ll redefine perfectionism as a coping mechanism (not a standard), compare it side-by-side with true excellence, and surface the “If I’m perfect, then I’m safe” belief that fuels your procrastination, burnout, and self-judgment. Then, we’ll walk through five clear signs you’re trapped in perfectionism—and exactly how to break free by choosing progress over outcome, growth over rigid rules, and courage over control. So grab your journal and get ready to: Spot those fear-driven thoughts that keep you frozen Flip your mindset from “perfect or bust” to “done is enough” Take immediate steps to replace shame-based self-talk with value-based action Let’s break up with perfectionism tonight—so you can finally step forward in freedom, confidence, and joy. See you on the inside! Xo, Dani

102 | 7 Brutal Truths No One Tells You About Choosing Your Life Partner

2025-07-0735:25

Hi beautiful! ♥️ Ever thought “I’m ready to settle down” only to get married and realize it’s way more complicated than you ever imagined? Maybe your spouse suddenly reflects every insecurity you thought you’d left behind, or you find yourself re-choosing love on the hardest days. Perhaps you’ve felt lonely even when you’re lying next to the person you promised forever to. Listen, I get it—marriage shines a spotlight on every part of you, and it can feel like stepping into uncharted territory. But here’s the thing: knowing what really happens behind the “happily ever after” doesn’t ruin your marriage—it equips you to build the deep, unshakeable love you crave. In today’s episode, we’re unpacking 7 truths nobody warns you about when choosing your life partner, so you can walk into forever with eyes wide open and a heart anchored in Christ. So grab your journal and let’s dive in. We’re tackling the ROOT of what makes marriage thrive (and what trips us up), so you can step into the partnership God designed for you. See you on the inside! Xo,  Dani JOIN THE COMMUNITY: http://bit.ly/healtoxicrelationshipsgroup FOLLOW US ON IG: instagram.com/lovedanijackson

101 | Tired of Feeling “Less Than”? Crush Comparison and Own Your Worth

2025-06-3029:19

Hi beautiful! ♥️ Ever find yourself comparing your beauty, your gifts, or even your marriage to other women and wondering if your husband secretly thinks she’s more attractive than you? Girl, you’re not alone. Comparison isn’t a sign you’re broken... It’s a leftover wound from past betrayals, and it shows up in our quiet moments when we feel most vulnerable. In today’s episode, I’m getting real about the comparison trap I’ve been stuck in and how Saturdays (my rest days) became an emotional minefield, what my fiercely confident mom taught me about owning my value, and the simple truths that have helped me fight back. Plus, I’ll share the heart-to-heart convo every couple needs to keep comparison from stealing your relationship security. Grab your journal and let’s break free from the “less than” lie so you can walk into any room completely secure in who God made you to be. See you on the inside! Xo,  Dani

100 | What If Self-Doubt Is Proof You’re Winning?

2025-06-2319:57

Hi beautiful! ♥️ Ever catch yourself looking at confident women and think, “They must never feel doubt—or I’ll never be that confident”? Newsflash: doubt isn’t the enemy of confidence—it’s the evidence you’re growing, stretching, and doing the hard things. In today’s episode, we’re busting the biggest myth about confidence: that it means “never doubting.” I’ll pull back the curtain on why your inner critic fires up whenever you leave your comfort zone, teach you how to see self-doubt as undeniable proof of progress, and walk you through three powerful reframes for doubt—so you can build your confidence brick by brick. So grab your journal and let’s go! See you on the inside, xo, Dani JOIN THE COMMUNITY: https://whop.com/thehealingcircle/

99 | LIVE COACHING: Stop Normalizing Anxiety & Fear—Take Authority Over Your Mind

2025-06-0223:16

Hi beautiful! ♥️ Have you ever found yourself caught in a cycle of worry, convinced that anxiety and fear are just “part of life”? Maybe you wake up with a pit in your stomach, spend your day second-guessing every move, and end your evening replaying worst-case scenarios on loop. If that sounds familiar, you’re not alone—and this episode was made for you. In today’s live coaching session, we’re tearing down the lie that fear and anxiety are normal—and showing you how to take authority over your mind. I’ll share why God never intended for you to live in constant worry, how an “orphan spirit” keeps you chained to those anxious thoughts, and the exact steps you can take to replace them with God’s promise of peace. You’ll walk away knowing how to spot fear’s lies, speak truth to your heart, and anchor yourself in the Father’s love. Let's move from “just surviving” to standing firm in God’s strength—no more accepting anxiety as the status quo. You can be free. See you on the inside! Xo, Dani JOIN THE COMMUNITY: http://bit.ly/healtoxicrelationshipsgroup FOLLOW US ON IG: instagram.com/lovedanijackson

98 | Confidence Isn’t Built in the Mirror—It’s Built in Him

2025-05-2621:46

Hi beautiful! ♥️ Have you ever looked in the mirror and still felt like you weren’t enough—no matter how many affirmations you spoke or how many compliments you got? Same, sis. Growing up, I carried the weight of rejection, shame, and lies about my beauty and worth… and for a long time, I thought confidence was something I had to earn. In today’s episode, I’m getting personal. We’re talking about what it means to rebuild your confidence when it’s been crushed by your past—and why real self-worth was never meant to come from you in the first place. If you’ve ever felt like you’re not pretty enough, confident enough, or healed enough… this episode is for you. Get ready to breathe, reflect, and receive what God has been trying to show you all along: confidence isn’t built in the mirror. It’s built in Him. Grab your journal, sis—let’s do this heart work together. Xo, Dani JOIN THE COMMUNITY: http://bit.ly/healtoxicrelationshipsgroup

97 | What to Do on a Hard Day (From a Girl Having One)

2025-05-1926:02

Hi beautiful! ♥️ Are you in the middle of a hard day? Feeling triggered, insecure, emotional—or just plain heavy? Sis, I get it… because I’m walking through one too. In today’s raw, from-the-heart episode, I’m bringing you into my world as I process the last 48 hours—filled with grief, insecurity, comparison, and emotional exhaustion. But even more than that, I’m sharing the exact things I’m doing to get through it with God, not just around it. This episode is for the girl who’s trying to heal, trying to show up, but feeling a little too human. You’ll learn how to anchor yourself in truth when emotions lie, how to give yourself grace without spiraling, and how to let God meet you inthe pain instead of rushing past it. So grab your journal and let’s talk. I promise this episode will meet you right where you are. See you on the inside, xo, Dani JOIN THE COMMUNITY: https://whop.com/thehealingcircle/

96 | The Pressure to “Be Healed” Is a Lie — What God Taught Me in Brazil

2025-05-1236:03

Hi beautiful! ♥️ Have you ever felt like you're trying to hurry up and “be healed already”? Like you're rushing through your pain just so you can be okay again—for your relationship, your work, your life? That was me… until Brazil. In today’s episode, I’m sharing what God showed me when I tried to fix myself too fast—and how He stopped me right in the middle of my pain to teach me how to rely on Him for real healing. Sis, healing isn’t linear. It’s holy. And sometimes, the most powerful thing you can do is pause, feel, and let Him hold you. So if you’ve been feeling pressure to be okay or you’ve been judging yourself for still struggling, this episode is for you. You’re not failing—God is just trying to meet you right where it hurts. Let’s talk about how to stop rushing your healing and let God lead you through it. See you on the inside, xo, Dani JOIN THE COMMUNITY: https://whop.com/thehealingcircle/

95 | LIVE COACHING: Still Waiting to Find Your Purpose? Here’s Why It’s Already In You

2025-05-0535:57

Hi beautiful! ♥️ Are you feeling stuck trying to figure out your passion or waiting for a clear sign from God about your purpose? Maybe you feel like it’s still hidden or far off, and you're wondering if you’ve missed it. What if your purpose isn’t something you have to chase down — but something that's already inside of you? In today’s live coaching session, you’ll hear me walk several women through reflections that help uncover the passions, patterns, and gifts God uniquely wove into them. We dive into what it looks like to recognize your purpose through your natural wiring and lived experiences—without pressure, striving, or comparison. If you’ve been waiting for permission to trust what’s already inside of you, this episode will encourage you and give you real steps to start walking it out. Your purpose isn’t ahead of you, sis—it’s already within you, ready to be activated. See you on the inside, xo, Dani JOIN THE COMMUNITY: https://whop.com/thehealingcircle/

94 | Forgiveness Isn’t Letting Them Off the Hook—It’s Setting You Free

2025-04-2832:22

Hi beautiful ♥️ Today’s episode is going to meet you deep in your heart—and set you free if you let it. I’m pulling a live training I recently hosted all about unforgiveness—what it really is, how it’s secretly holding you back, and why you can’t build a free, fulfilled life when your heart is still bound in bitterness, shame, or resentment. We walk through the hidden ways unforgiveness shows up in your business, relationships, confidence, and purpose—and how to start letting it go. Plus, I guide you through a powerful mirror exercise and journaling prompts that will help you release old wounds and reclaim your peace. This is real heart work—and the freedom on the other side is so worth it. Grab your journal, find a quiet space, and let’s walk through it together. See you on the inside, xo, Dani JOIN THE COMMUNITY: http://bit.ly/healtoxicrelationshipsgroup FOLLOW US ON IG: instagram.com/lovedanijackson

93 | If You Keep Settling, Listen to This—Your Mindset Is Lying to You

2025-04-2122:25

Hi beautiful ♥️ If you’ve ever felt like you know you’re made for more… but you keep shrinking, settling, or sabotaging the very things you prayed for—this episode is for you. I’m bringing you into a live coaching call I did with my sales girls that stirred up so much breakthrough around beliefs, habits, and self-sabotage. We talked about the real reason so many women stay stuck—not because they’re not capable, but because their mindset is operating off of old programming. If you don’t upgrade the belief, you’ll keep repeating the same cycle—no matter how badly you want out. Grab your journal and get ready to reflect, because I’m walking you through a powerful exercise to uncover the limiting beliefs keeping you from your next level—and how to step into the woman you know you’re called to be. See you on the inside, xo, Dani JOIN THE COMMUNITY: https://whop.com/thehealingcircle/

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Heal from Toxic Relationships | Self-Confidence, Relationship Boundaries, Red Flags, Trust in God, Healing Trauma