🇯🇵The XQ Sumimasen Podcast

I’ve been living in Japan since 2011, and I recently realized I’m way out of the loop on the latest American meme slang—so in this episode I catch myself up by breaking down a handful of the most common terms I keep hearing online, then comparing them to the closest Japanese equivalents (with quick definitions, example usage, and whatever origin info I could reliably find). We get into stuff like bop, delulu, rizz, skibidi, and more, with a few side tangents and personal stories. (Heads up: mature slang and a bit of strong language.) If you enjoy the show, follow/subscribe and share it... and until next time...excuse-me-massen, and see ya!Official Website: ⁠https://www.xqsumimasen.com ⁠(⁠https://www.xqspodcast.com⁠)Follow Us: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/xqs_podcast ⁠Threads: ⁠https://www.threads.net/@xqs_podcast ⁠Listen on Other Platforms: Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0lYSuDCZisdjLwgYL3mR4a Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/channel/the-xq-sumimasen-podcast/id6480508928---🎧 Support the podcast (via Stripe secure checkout): ⁠https://buy.stripe.com/14AdR8dC08dbaPZdkQ1RC0c⁠Independent show. No sponsors. No affiliate links (…yet).

Prices are up everywhere right now, so I’m not gonna sit here and pretend Japan is the main character of global inflation—but I do live in Tokyo, and lately it’s been impossible not to notice how often you’re doing that little “wait… wasn’t this cheaper?” double-take at the supermarket, the konbini, and even on Amazon. In this episode, I give my layman’s take on Japan’s price hikes IRL—what changed, why it feels so different after years of “stable Japan prices,” and how stuff like COVID supply chain chaos, the Russia–Ukraine war, tariffs/trade friction, and the weak yen all stack together and show up on your receipt. If you live in Japan (or you visit a lot), I’d love to hear what your first “okay nah, this is getting crazy” moment was—DM me on Instagram or Threads @xqs_podcast, or hit the contact form on the website.Official Website: ⁠https://www.xqsumimasen.com ⁠(⁠https://www.xqspodcast.com⁠)Follow Us: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/xqs_podcast ⁠Threads: ⁠https://www.threads.net/@xqs_podcast ⁠Listen on Apple Podcasts: ⁠https://podcasts.apple.com/us/channel/the-xq-sumimasen-podcast/id6480508928⁠---🎧 Support the podcast (via Stripe secure checkout): ⁠https://buy.stripe.com/14AdR8dC08dbaPZdkQ1RC0c⁠Independent show. No sponsors. No affiliate links (…yet).Until next time—excuse-me-massen, and... See ya!

In this episode, I break down how I read Japanese “cuss words and insults”—from Level 1 venting (kuso, urusai), to Level 2 personal shots (baka, omae), to the Level 3 red-flag stuff (temee, kisama, kutabare, shine) that tells you it’s time to quietly walk away. I talk about why Japanese swearing works so differently from English, how "Kotodama" and politeness levels shape everything, why anime subtitles completely scramble your radar, and why some “rude” words between friends are actually affection. I also draw a clear line around the truly heavy discrimination-based slurs—things tied to history, disability, and minorities—that aren’t “swear words” so much as hate speech and not something anyone should learn as a joke. By the end, you’ll know how I tell the difference between someone venting, someone mad at others, someone ready to swing, and someone calling you 'baka' as a term of endearment. If you’ve got your own stories, hit me up in the comments, on Instagram or Threads @xqs_podcast, or through the contact form on xqspodcast.com.Official Website: https://www.xqsumimasen.com (https://www.xqspodcast.com)Follow Us: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/xqs_podcast Threads: https://www.threads.net/@xqs_podcast Listen on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/channel/the-xq-sumimasen-podcast/id6480508928---🎧 Support the podcast (via Stripe secure checkout):  https://buy.stripe.com/14AdR8dC08dbaPZdkQ1RC0cIndependent show. No sponsors. No affiliate links (…yet).Until next time—excuse-me-massen, and... See ya!

In this episode, I’m breaking down all the little mistakes I made living in Tokyo — the chopstick taboos, the wedding etiquette I didn’t know, the ramen “eat and bounce” rule, the last-piece awkwardness, and all the quiet cultural expectations you only learn after messing up in front of somebody’s grandma. These are the things I learned the hard way so you don’t have to, with some stories and a little guidance for anyone visiting or living in Japan.Official Website: https://www.xqsumimasen.com Follow Us: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/xqs_podcast Threads: https://www.threads.net/@xqs_podcast Listen on Other Platforms: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/channel/the-xq-sumimasen-podcast/id6480508928---🎧 Support the podcast (via Stripe secure checkout): https://buy.stripe.com/14AdR8dC08dbaPZdkQ1RC0cIndependent show. No sponsors. No affiliate links (…yet).Until next time—excuse-me-massen, and... See ya!

Tokyo summer = HOT AF. Heat blasts off asphalt, ricochets off glass, and wraps you like a convection fan. After years of trial and error, I’ve built a setup that lets me function (and not stink) in this madness—no sponsors, no affiliate links, everything bought with my own yen. Heat Survival Gear (Quick Hits):Underwear — BROS by Wacoal: Fast-dry fabric + targeted mesh = bye-bye swamp-itch.Shorts — Uniqlo boardshort-style hybrid cargo: Boardshort material, mesh cargo pockets, dries fast; pair with BROS for peak heat/humidity days.Cooling — Burtle fan shirt (Kyocera brushless) + sensu: Quiet wearable airflow; mesh back pocket fits a gel pack for extra chill.Passive “Ice” Neck Rings: ~30–50 min real cool, then steady heat-pull all day; rotate spares from a small insulated pouch—perfect for trains/cafés.Sunglasses + Cap: Polarized shades tame Tokyo’s glare “laser show”; cap blocks overhead leak-light.Weatherproofing: Sudden squalls? Pelican/Nanuk hard cases or weather-resistant packs (Peak Design/Hakuba) to protect your camera/tech.Socks — Uniqlo toe socks: Airflow between toes = less sweat, less stink.Shirts — Helikon-Tex TopCool Lite: Soft, quick-dry tees with practical pockets/loops.If you’ve got a heat hack I missed, drop it in the comments. If this helped, follow/subscribe and tap the bell so it reaches folks living in—or soon melting in—Japan.Official Website: https://www.xqsumimasen.com Follow Us: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/xqs_podcast Threads: https://www.threads.net/@xqs_podcast ---🎧 Support the podcast (via Stripe secure checkout): https://buy.stripe.com/14AdR8dC08dbaPZdkQ1RC0cIndependent show. No sponsors. No affiliate links (…yet). Stay cool, drink water, stretch your hips.Until next time—excuse-me-massen. See ya!

After 14 years in Tokyo, I've built a real life here—but it hasn't always been easy. In this solo episode, I break down the honest love–hate relationship I have with living in Japan long-term. From the everyday rhythm and built-in movement I've come to rely on, to the silent pressure of unspoken rules and the feeling of always being seen as an outsider, even after more than a decade.If you're living in Japan, thinking about staying long-term, or just want a deeper understanding of what life here actually feels like beyond the surface, this one's for you. I talk cultural expectations, identity, mental adaptation, and how I've found peace with not always fitting in.Let me know what your experience has been—DM me on Instagram or reach out through the site.If you enjoy the show and want to help the algorithm recommend it to others living in Japan or considering the move, consider following (or subscribing) and turning on the bell so you don't miss future episodes.Official Website: https://www.xqsumimasen.com Follow Us: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/xqs_podcast Threads: https://www.threads.net/@xqs_podcast

What should you mentally prepare for before moving to Japan? In this solo episode, I share the mindset shifts and hard truths I wish I understood before coming to Japan 14 years ago. This isn't about packing lists—it's about navigating language barriers, finding your identity as a foreigner, decoding Japanese politeness, managing mental health, and figuring out complex systems like hospitals and Hanko stamps.Whether you're planning a move, already living in Japan, or simply curious about expat life, this episode offers a genuine look at what it takes to build a life here long-term mentally.🧊 Bonus tip: I also talk about the coolest way to survive Japan's brutal summer heat—literally.Official Website: https://www.xqsumimasen.com Follow Us: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/xqs_podcast Threads: https://www.threads.net/@xqs_podcast

If you've ever wondered what it's really like to live in Tokyo—beyond the tourist traps and shiny travel reels—this episode's for you. After 14 years here, I'm sharing why I chose to settle down in Kasai, a neighborhood that often gets overlooked but offers comfort, convenience, and a strong sense of community. From local food spots and family-run businesses to easy access to Disney and Tokyo Station, this deep dive covers what makes Kasai feel like home. Whether you're planning a trip or thinking long-term, I hope this gives you a more grounded look at what daily life in Japan can actually be.Keito's (@NomadPush/ @SweatySuzuki) Video featuring FOODS&BAR Cerdo: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kQTq7T1LMn8Official Website: https://www.xqsumimasen.com Follow Us: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/xqs_podcast Threads: https://www.threads.net/@xqs_podcast Instagram Links:Izakaya Donguri(@sumikatuya) - https://www.instagram.com/sumikatuya?igsh=MW1hNjM5bDN5NTFrdA==Toriman(@kasai.toriman) - https://www.instagram.com/kasai.toriman?igsh=MXBvcWUydGxqeWdqZA==Foods & Bar Cerdo/Lumberhouse(@lumberhouse627) - https://www.instagram.com/lumberhouse627?igsh=MXFxaXp6eGRjY3hmcg==Nikuemon(@nikuemon_kasai) - https://www.instagram.com/nikuemon_kasai?igsh=Zno1aWJscGVkcnRkKURUMU(@kurumu2013) - https://www.instagram.com/kurumu2013?igsh=bm5qamRsdXNwdDJ3Web Links:Izakaya Donguri - https://akr3799285875.owsNiku No Murayama - https://tabelog.com/en/tokyo/A1313/A131305/13185486/FOODS&Bar Cerdo - https://tabelog.com/en/tokyo/A1313/A131305/13274107/Lumberhouse - https://r.gnavi.co.jp/4rsupzd30000/Nikuemon - https://www.hotpepper.jp/strJ001146667/KURUMU - https://montmorillonite.jp/

After 14 years of living in Japan (and 10 for Devin), we’re sitting down to talk about what really keeps us grounded. From binge-watching old-school dramas and obsessing over YouTube rabbit holes to gaming with our kids and revisiting karaoke favorites, this is what daily life looks like for us now. We’re not anime fanatics or J-pop superfans—we’re just long-term residents trying to stay sane in a country that never stops surprising us. We also touch on how our media habits have changed, how language fluency finally unlocked Japanese TV, and why we’re thankful for sushi that doesn’t break the bank. If you’ve ever wondered what life in Japan actually feels like after the honeymoon phase, this one’s for you.Official Website: https://www.xqsumimasen.com Follow Us: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/xqs_podcast Threads: https://www.threads.net/@xqs_podcast Listen on Other Platforms: Spotify: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/channel/the-xq-sumimasen-podcast/id6480508928

How has life in Japan changed since the pandemic ended? In this episode of The XQ Sumimasen Podcast, Sol and Devin explore major post-COVID shifts across Japanese society in 2025—from lingering mask culture and rising student absenteeism to tourism overload, cashless payment adoption, changing work habits, and the rise of the four-day workweek. With real-life stories, stats, and personal reflections, this episode unpacks what's new in Japan and how the pandemic's long shadow still shapes everyday life.Official Website: https://www.xqsumimasen.com Follow Us: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/xqs_podcast Threads: https://www.threads.net/@xqs_podcast Listen on Other Platforms: Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0lYSuDCZisdjLwgYL3mR4a?si=3b10d0f7b045454d Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/channel/the-xq-sumimasen-podcast/id6480508928

In this episode, we’re talking about tattoos as foreigners in Japan—what it’s like to have them, how people react, and how things are slowly starting to change. From stories about getting stared at in the onsen to chatting with yakuza in the bath (yep, that happened), we share real experiences about daily life with tattoos here. We also get into why tattoos are so expensive in Japan, how the ink quality holds up, and whether the old-school stigma is finally starting to fade.Official Website: https://www.xqsumimasen.com Follow Us: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/xqs_podcast Threads: https://www.threads.net/@xqs_podcast Listen on Other Platforms: Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0lYSuDCZisdjLwgYL3mR4a?si=3b10d0f7b045454d Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/channel/the-xq-sumimasen-podcast/id6480508928

In this episode of The XQ Sumimasen Podcast, we dive into Japanese proverbs and what they reveal about life, values, and mindset in Japan 🇯🇵. From the well-known “The nail that sticks out gets hammered down” to the poetic “One time, one meeting,” we break down classic sayings—comparing them to Western equivalents, sharing personal stories, and exploring how they shape everyday behavior. We even talk about school events like undōkai, bento culture, and moments that blend individuality with harmony. If you’ve ever wondered how ancient wisdom still influences modern Japan, check it out.Chapters00:00 - Preview00:51 - Intro01:35 - Nana Korobi Ya Oki04:58 - Deru Kui Wa Utareru09:51 - Juunin Toiro15:40 - Saru Mo Ki Kara Ochiru17:42 - I No Naka No Kawazu Taikai O Shirazu23:19 - Hana Yori Dango25:59 - Minu Ga Hana28:57 - Ichi-go Ichi-e35:21 - Ishi No Ue Ni Mo Sannen37:33 - Kuchi Wa Wazawai No Moto39:25 - What is Undoukai44:45 - Outro

In this episode, we dig into Japanese-English words that totally threw us off when we first heard them—like “pot,” “reform,” “ping pong,” and even “yankee.” Scoey and I share some wild personal stories (including how I almost ended up on a Cocoichi wall of fame), and we joke about everything from beer bellies to body lines. Some of these words sound exactly like English, but the meanings in Japan are way different. It’s a mix of language, culture, and a lot of laughs—plus a few solid dad jokes thrown in for good measure.Chapters00:00 Preview00:26 Hage+Washi=???01:09 Pot05:08 Reform09:28 NEET?11:11 Yankee15:00 Food Fight18:37 Movie23:16 Pierce25:54 Ping Pong27:54 Bodyline29:19 Beer Para30:55 BEER FACT!35:03 Shichuu (Situation?)36:43 Shimoneta (Seamonator?)39:20 Bakyuun (Vacuum?)

Japan is full of fascinating differences, and today, we’re looking back at the first culture shock experiences we had when we first arrived! From learning Japan’s detailed approach to trash sorting to navigating life without late-night trains, every new discovery shaped our understanding of daily life here. We’ll also talk about professionalism in Japan, the realities of owning a car in Tokyo, and how visiting rural Japan felt like a refreshing change from the fast-paced city life. If you’ve ever wondered what adjusting to Japan is really like, tune in and join us! 🇯🇵Chapters00:00 Episode Preview00:55 Shogun was Good04:45 Intro05:39 Cash-Based Society13:32 Address System16:36 Recycling30:14 Professionalism37:31 Public Transportation40:09 Tangent: Tsutaya Card45:38 Urban vs Rural Residents53:15 Seasonal Allergies58:06 Tokyo's Immigration Office1:05:14 Outro

In this episode, we break down the must-know slang words that’ll make you sound like a local in Japan! From the all-powerful "Yabai" to the Instagram-worthy "Insta Bae", we’re covering the words you actually hear in daily conversations. Wanna know how to say “That’s lame” or “For real?!” in Japanese? We got you. Hit play, learn some slang, and start speaking like a pro!Chapters:00:00 - Intro00:44 - What's the Talk of the Town? (Ado's Story)01:34 - Yabai04:59 - Kimoi09:59 - Maji12:10 - Uzai14:41 - Insta-bae15:52 - Hanpa Nai17:45 - Bimyo19:00 - Story about "Watashi"22:11 - Atsui 24:15 - Gachi25:35 - Dasai 28:55 - Outro & Final Thoughts

Ever wondered WHY KFC is a Christmas tradition in Japan? Or why Valentine's Day feels totally backward here? In this episode, Devin and I dive into Japan FAQs that left us scratching our heads. From train pushers (yes, that's a thing) to vending machines that sell Wagyu beef, we break down the origins of these traditions and how clever marketing shaped them. Plus, we swap stories about the struggles of public transportation—because if you've ever had a drunk salaryman fall asleep on you, you know the pain.Anything about Japan struck you as 'different'? Drop them in the comments, and we'll cover it in a future episode... and keep it PG, people! Until next time, Excuse-me-massen, and see ya!

Scoey and I kicked off this episode with a (questionable) Red Hot Chili Peppers-inspired harmony, but hey, we tried! 😂 This time on the XQ Sumimasen Podcast, we’re diving into Japan’s quirkiest Japlish abbreviations (ever heard of “KY”? It’s not what you think!). Plus, we’re ranking Japan’s top konbini fried chicken offerings—because fried potatoes and cultural exchanges totally go hand in hand. 🤣 Come for the laughs, stay for the insights, and maybe even leave saying “Furorida!”

In this episode, Devin and I share our experiences and shed some light on Japan's biggest challenge: its aging population. We'll share some fascinating (and a bit sobering) stats about this demographic shift and what it means for Japan's economy, society, and family life. We'll also explore the ripple effects on workforce participation and community dynamics and chat about some creative solutions the country is working on—like using robots, immigration policies, and local support systems. It's a mix of challenges, innovation, and cultural insight, so put on some cans and let's go!

Hey, guys! In this episode of The XQ Sumimasen Podcast, Scoey and I dive headfirst into the hilarious world of Japlish abbreviations that left us scratching our heads when we first heard them. From learning that “sumehara” isn’t a fancy dish but actually “smell harassment,” to realizing that “staba” is just Starbucks, we’re breaking down these quirky shortcuts that make Japan, well… Japan! We also share some laughs about body odor detectors (yup, they’re real), reminisce about family restaurants like Bikkuri Donkey, and swap stories about the weirdest abbreviations we’ve encountered. Got your own Japlish favorites? Drop them in the comments. Until next time, Excuse-me-massen, and... See ya! Official Website: https://www.xqsumimasen.com Follow Us: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/xqs_podcast X (Twitter): https://www.twitter.com/xqs_podcast Threads: https://www.threads.net/@xqs_podcast Listen on Other Platforms: Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0lYSuDCZisdjLwgYL3mR4a?si=3b10d0f7b045454d Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/channel/the-xq-sumimasen-podcast/id6480508928

Hey, guys! In this episode of The XQ Sumimasen Podcast, Devin and I reflect on what it was like when we first moved to Japan and how everything has changed for us since then. From my first 7-Eleven experience (trying to navigate promotions in rapid-fire Japanese!) to Devin showing up to job interviews in jeans, we share the funny and challenging moments of adjusting to life here. We also dive into how perceptions of Tokyo’s “zombie ant” vibe have evolved, what it took to make real friends in a “tatemae” world, and the small victories that made adapting to life in Japan easier. It’s all about how we’ve grown and adapted over the years. Don’t forget to share your own Japan stories in the comments—we’d love to hear how you’ve navigated life in this amazing country!