The Gothic Heart

Summary: Hey there! I’m so excited about today’s episode because I had a fantastic chat with Hannah from Marlin Fine Jewelry. Hannah's journey is super inspiring, from her artistic roots on Martha's Vineyard to creating beautiful, meaningful memorial jewelry. We talk about how she crafts these special pieces that honor loved ones and how she manages to stay true to her unique style. It’s all about finding joy in your work and connecting with others on a deep, personal level. We dive deep into the art of memorial jewelry and why it’s so important. Hannah shares her creative process and how she thoughtfully incorporates ashes and mementos into each piece, making them subtle yet deeply personal. She also talks about the emotional aspects of her work and the balance between her passion and self-care. This episode is a beautiful reminder of how we can honor our loved ones through creativity and stay true to ourselves in the process. Join us for an inspiring chat about the power of memorial jewelry, authenticity, and honoring memories. I can’t wait to share! Episode Highlights: Hannah's Journey into Jewelry Making The Process of Collaborating on Custom Jewelry Emphasizing Emotional Sensitivity in the Process Building a Supportive Community Around Your Brand Introduction: Creating Personalized Memorial Jewelry The Story Behind a Special Piece: Design Choices and Meaning Making Mistakes and Learning from Them Believing in Yourself and the Drive to Succeed Expanding the Brand: Customizable Pieces and a Full Collection   If you're loving what you heard, grab a screenshot and spread the word on Instagram! Tag me @amityalexandrajewelry so I can join in the excitement. And hey, if you're really feeling the vibe, drop a review and toss those five stars my way. Your support fuels this passion project, and I'm so grateful for every bit of it! 🌟 _____________________________ MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: Marlin Fine Jewelry www.itsmarlin.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/marlinfinejewelry/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@marlinfinejewelry Wampum feather jewelry carved by Hannah Heather’s memorial ring for Carter Amity Alexandra Jewelry colorless mother’s ring   Photos and links of the above can be found in the accompanying blog post at https://amityalexandrajewelry.com/blogs/the-gothic-heart/episode7 _____________________________ CONNECT WITH ME! The Gothic Heart Blog | https://amityalexandrajewelry.com/blogs/the-gothic-heart Check out the Amity Alexandra Jewelry Design Website | https://amityalexandrajewelry.com/ Schedule a Consult with Me! | https://amityalexandrajewelry.com/pages/work-with-amity _____________________________ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/amityalexandrajewelry Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/amityalexandrajewelry TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@amityalexandrajewelry  Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/amityalexandrajewelry You Tube: https://www.youtube.com/@amityalexandrajewelry 

Summary: Hey there, welcome back to the Gothic Heart! In this episode, "Standing Alone: Finding Peace in Being Polarizing," I delve into the universal desire for acceptance and the uncomfortable truth that not everyone will appreciate us for who we are. Drawing from personal experiences in management roles, I discuss the importance of prioritizing respect over being liked, especially in alternative communities where acceptance may be harder to come by. From dealing with trolls to navigating relationships with family and friends, I share strategies for maintaining self-esteem and surrounding ourselves with supportive individuals who celebrate our authenticity. Join me as I explore the journey of self-discovery, acceptance, and finding our tribe in a world where being true to ourselves is the ultimate liberation. Don't forget to hit subscribe and share this episode with anyone who could use a dose of encouragement and empowerment! Episode Highlights: Finding Peace in Being Polarizing Accepting That Not Everyone Will Like You Cutting Out Toxic Connections Finding Supportive and Accepting People The Power of Authenticity If you're loving what you heard, grab a screenshot and spread the word on Instagram! Tag me @amityalexandrajewelry so I can join in the excitement. And hey, if you're really feeling the vibe, drop a review and toss those five stars my way. Your support fuels this passion project, and I'm so grateful for every bit of it! 🌟 _____________________________ MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: Previous Episode: Do You Like Who You Are? https://amityalexandrajewelry.com/blogs/the-gothic-heart/episode4 _____________________________ CONNECT WITH ME! The Gothic Heart Blog | https://amityalexandrajewelry.com/blogs/the-gothic-heart Check out the Amity Alexandra Jewelry Design Website | https://amityalexandrajewelry.com/ Schedule a Consult with Me! | https://amityalexandrajewelry.com/pages/work-with-amity _____________________________ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/amityalexandrajewelry Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/amityalexandrajewelry TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@amityalexandrajewelry Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/amityalexandrajewelry You Tube: https://www.youtube.com/@amityalexandrajewelry 

Summary:  Hey everyone! Welcome back to "The Gothic Heart." Today, I'm super excited to chat with Cassandra from One Twisted Vixen. She's an incredible artist who sculpts some of the coolest, spookiest jewelry you've ever seen. By day, she's styling hair, and by night, she's creating these amazing pieces that any horror or gothic fan would love. Cassandra jumped into this about a year ago, and it’s seriously cool to see her embrace her passion without letting perfectionism slow her down. This episode isn’t just about checking out her awesome designs; it’s about the courage to chase what makes us happy, shedding those fears, and seeing the amazing stuff that happens when we do what we love. So, plug in and get ready to be inspired by Cassandra’s journey to follow her own creative path, making one-of-a-kind pieces that truly stand out. You’re gonna love this!   Episode Highlights: The Importance of Niching Down and Building a Community Creating with Passion and Authenticity Embracing Uniqueness and Overcoming Negative Judgment Sharing Experiences and Tips for Small Business Artists If you're loving what you heard, grab a screenshot and spread the word on Instagram! Tag me @amityalexandrajewelry so I can join in the excitement. And hey, if you're really feeling the vibe, drop a review and toss those five stars my way. Your support fuels this passion project, and I'm so grateful for every bit of it! 🌟 _____________________________ MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:  Twisted Vixen Shop | https://www.etsy.com/shop/shoptwistedvixen/ Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/onetwistedvixen/ TikTok | https://www.tiktok.com/@onetwistedvixen My own custom Twisted Vixen earrings Photos of the above can be found in the accompanying blog post at https://amityalexandrajewelry.com/blogs/the-gothic-heart/episode5 _____________________________ IMPORTANT UPDATES: The Gothic Heart Blog | https://amityalexandrajewelry.com/blogs/the-gothic-heart Check out the Amity Alexandra Jewelry Design Website | https://amityalexandrajewelry.com/ Schedule a Consult with Amity | https://amityalexandrajewelry.com/pages/work-with-amity   _____________________________ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/amityalexandrajewelry Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/amityalexandrajewelry TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@amityalexandrajewelry  Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/amityalexandrajewelry You Tube: https://www.youtube.com/@amityalexandrajewelry

In this episode of The Gothic Heart, I'm asking a big question that cuts to the core: Do you like who you are? This idea has been swirling in my mind a lot lately, especially since I've been noticing how my nine-year-old daughter is dealing with some of the same pressures and self-doubt I once faced. It made me think about my own journey of self-acceptance, which really started to solidify when I was 28. I share my story of a turning point in my life, where I realized that despite what other people thought or advised, I loved who I was and wasn't willing to change. We dive into how people, even those who care about us, can project their opinions and expectations onto our lives. But the key is deciding what feels true to you and sticking with it. I talk about the times I second-guessed myself, how some people around me made me question my choices, and what it took to say, "You know what? I like me, and that's all that matters." I hope this episode inspires you to embrace your unique self and live authentically, regardless of the judgments or stereotypes you might face. It's not always easy, but it's so worth it. Tune in to hear more about my journey, and let's explore what it means to like who you are. I'd love to hear your stories, too. So, do you like who you are? Let's talk about it. See you in the episode!   Episode Highlights: Realizing Self-Acceptance The Impact of External Voices Finding Non-Negotiables and Setting Boundaries Self-Reflection and Personal Growth If you're loving what you heard, grab a screenshot and spread the word on Instagram! Tag me @amityalexandrajewelry so I can join in the excitement. And hey, if you're really feeling the vibe, drop a review and toss those five stars my way. Your support fuels this passion project, and I'm so grateful for every bit of it! 🌟 _____________________________ CONNECT WITH ME!   The Gothic Heart Blog | https://amityalexandrajewelry.com/blogs/the-gothic-heart  Check out the Amity Alexandra Jewelry Design Website | https://amityalexandrajewelry.com/ Schedule a Consult with Me! | https://amityalexandrajewelry.com/pages/work-with-amity _____________________________ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/amityalexandrajewelry Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/amityalexandrajewelry TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@amityalexandrajewelry Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/amityalexandrajewelry You Tube: https://www.youtube.com/@amityalexandrajewelry 

Summary: In this episode of "The Gothic Heart," I'm joined by Dana DeMarco, the brilliant planner behind my unforgettable Halloween-themed wedding, aka my "Hallowedding." We reminisce about the entire journey, from my wedding dress debacle to the intricate details of our coffin shaped invitations. Dana shares how her team at Party and Be Married pulled off every element of my wedding, including the coffin-shaped invitations, the vampire-themed decor, and even recreating a book from Buffy the Vampire Slayer. We also dive into the logistics of planning a unique wedding on an old haunted ship and discuss the importance of creativity, flexibility, and adapting to unexpected challenges. If you've ever wondered how to bring your unique vision to life for a big event, this episode is for you. Join me as we explore what it takes to plan a Halloween wedding and why having the right planner can be a game-changer. You'll hear about some of the crazy requests I had and how Dana's team managed to turn them into reality. Trust me, you won't want to miss it. Tune in for a fun, engaging conversation that might inspire your own wedding plans or just make you love Halloween even more! 🎃   Episode Highlights: Introduction and Background of Party and Be Married Creative and Unique Requests for a Halloween-Themed Wedding Handling Unexpected Situations During the Wedding Unique Challenges in Wedding Venues The Importance of Personalized Touches in Wedding Planning Flexibility and Creativity in Wedding Planning The Benefits of Hiring a Wedding Planner Building Strong Client Relationships in Wedding Planning If you're loving what you heard, grab a screenshot and spread the word on Instagram! Tag me @amityalexandrajewelry so I can join in the excitement. And hey, if you're really feeling the vibe, drop a review and toss those five stars my way. Your support fuels this passion project, and I'm so grateful for every bit of it! 🌟 _____________________________ MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: Party and Be Married  Website: https://www.partyandbemarried.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/partyandbemarried/  Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/partyandbemarried/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/partyandbemarried  The Queen Mary https://queenmary.com/  Wedding Invitation Buffy VAMPYR book Necronomicon Ghost picture by Karen Leah Photography https://www.instagram.com/karenleahphoto/  Green screen photos in coffins and chopping off heads Wedding Cake Spooky Poems Skull Earrings Joann gave me Marilyn Manson “Sweet Dreams” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QUvVdTlA23w   Photos of the above can be found in the accompanying blog post at https://amityalexandrajewelry.com/blogs/the-gothic-heart/episode3 _____________________________ CONNECT WITH ME!   The Gothic Heart Blog | https://amityalexandrajewelry.com/blogs/the-gothic-heart  Check out the Amity Alexandra Jewelry Design Website | https://amityalexandrajewelry.com/  Schedule a Consult with Me! | https://amityalexandrajewelry.com/pages/work-with-amity  _____________________________ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/amityalexandrajewelry Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/amityalexandrajewelry TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@amityalexandrajewelry  Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/amityalexandrajewelry You Tube: https://www.youtube.com/@amityalexandrajewelry   

Summary: In this episode of "The Gothic Heart," I share a story from my law school days that reveals the struggle of staying true to your style while dealing with the expectations of society. I remember wearing a bright red pleather dress to our annual Barrister's Ball, thinking it was the perfect way to express my personality. But later, I found out that a professor I hadn’t even met was judging me for it, saying it was inappropriate and that I'd never make it in the legal world with that kind of fashion sense. I was like, are you kidding me? We were at a party, not a courtroom! But here's the thing—I didn't let those judgments change who I was or how I dressed. I kept my edge while still meeting the professional expectations of law school and, later, the courtroom. I designed jewelry that was subtle but had hidden gothic elements, and I got tattoos that could be covered with a suit. It's all about finding ways to be yourself without giving in to societal pressure. In this episode, I talk about the balancing act of expressing your true self while navigating environments that might not be so open to alternative styles. If you've ever felt like you had to tone down your style or hide your interests just to fit in, you'll relate to this. Join me as I share my experiences and give some tips on how to strike that balance. Because at the end of the day, you should never have to apologize for being you. Episode Highlights: Introduction: Navigating Self-Expression within Societal Norms Challenges of Workplace Expectations Finding a Balance: Personal Style and Professional Requirements Embracing the Evolution of Personal Style Discovering Support and Resources for Alternative Interests The Journey Ahead If you're loving what you heard, grab a screenshot and spread the word on Instagram! Tag me @amityalexandrajewelry so I can join in the excitement. And hey, if you're really feeling the vibe, drop a review and toss those five stars my way. Your support fuels this passion project, and I'm so grateful for every bit of it! 🌟 _____________________________ MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: Red Pleather Dress Vampire Fang Ring Photos of the above can be found in the accompanying blog post at https://amityalexandrajewelry.com/blogs/the-gothic-heart/episode2  _____________________________ CONNECT WITH ME! The Gothic Heart Blog | https://amityalexandrajewelry.com/blogs/the-gothic-heart Check out the Amity Alexandra Jewelry Design Website | https://amityalexandrajewelry.com/ Schedule a Consult with Me! | https://amityalexandrajewelry.com/pages/work-with-amity _____________________________ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/amityalexandrajewelry Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/amityalexandrajewelry TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@amityalexandrajewelry Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/amityalexandrajewelry You Tube: https://www.youtube.com/@amityalexandrajewelry 

Summary: Hey there, welcome to the very first episode of "The Gothic Heart"! I'm your host, and I'm stoked to kick off this podcast all about gothic and alternative lifestyles. We're diving deep into fashion, decor, and self-expression, exploring everything that's a bit left of center. In this debut episode, I'm giving you the lowdown on what this podcast is all about. Picture this: me, lifelong lover of all things Halloween, rocking out to nu metal while everyone else was on the grunge train. Yep, that's me! I'll spill the beans on how I taught myself to sew and embroider, just so I could deck myself out in the spooky, stylish gear I craved. From planning my own Halloween wedding to juggling the rigors of a courtroom attorney gig, my journey's been one heck of a ride. But it all led me to launch Amity Alexandra Jewelry Design, where I'm on a mission to make custom bling accessible to everyone. So, buckle up, folks! This podcast isn't just about me—it's about you too. I want to empower you to express your true self, chat about all things alternative, and swap DIY tips and tricks. Come join our community and let's share stories of carving our own paths in a world that sometimes feels a bit too vanilla. Can't wait to connect with you all! 🖤   Episode Highlights: Introduction to Gothic and Alternative Styles The Challenge of Finding Personal Style Exploring Jewelry Design The Mission of Amity Alexandra Jewelry Design Transforming Inherited Jewelry Balancing Personal Style and Societal Norms Creating an Alternative Style Community If you're loving what you heard, grab a screenshot and spread the word on Instagram! Tag me @amityalexandrajewelry so I can join in the excitement. And hey, if you're really feeling the vibe, drop a review and toss those five stars my way. Your support fuels this passion project, and I'm so grateful for every bit of it! 🌟 _____________________________ MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: https://www.facebook.com/gravitykillsofficial/  https://dopetheband.com/  https://static-x.org/ _____________________________ CONNECT WITH ME!: The Gothic Heart Blog | https://amityalexandrajewelry.com/blogs/the-gothic-heart  Check out the Amity Alexandra Jewelry Design Website | https://amityalexandrajewelry.com/  Schedule a Consult with Me! | https://amityalexandrajewelry.com/pages/work-with-amity  _____________________________ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/amityalexandrajewelry Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/amityalexandrajewelry TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@amityalexandrajewelry  Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/amityalexandrajewelry You Tube: https://www.youtube.com/@amityalexandrajewelry