Neuro FM

In Part One of this 2026 kickoff series, Jeremy Rochford cuts through the noise and hands couples real tools they can actually use. Neurodiverse relationships don’t need more theory—they need language, rhythm, and a plan. That’s exactly what Jeremy delivers as he unveils the 5 most powerful relationship frameworks for the year ahead. Drawing from lived experience, coaching insights, and a communicator’s instinct for clarity, Jeremy breaks down the invisible forces that derail connection and replaces them with practical strategies that restore it. In this episode, you’ll learn the first half of the toolkit that helps couples shift from emotional overload to collaborative repair, communicate without self-defense, and finally understand the difference between being dumped on and dumped out in conflict. This isn’t just content—it’s a relationship lifeline for 2026.Jeremy walks listeners through the first 3 frameworks designed to lower friction and increase understanding in mixed-neurotype marriages. These tools help couples identify emotional tripwires, respond with regulation instead of reaction, and build shared expectations without losing their sense of self. With honesty, warmth, and just the right amount of challenge, Jeremy invites both partners into a new operating system for their relationship—one where feedback builds trust instead of threat, connection beats confusion, and 2026 becomes the year they finally make it work with confidence.This is Part One of a two-part masterclass, but it stands alone as a powerful catalyst for change. If you want to start 2026 strong in your relationship, this episode is your first step forward—because the right words can change everything.To learn more about our small groups or to check out NeuroFam, please visit https://www.ourneurofam.com/  Music for the show’s intro is provided (with permission) by Matt Langston & EleventySeven. You can check out their awesome stuff here - https://www.eleventysevenisalive.com/ Music for the show’s outro is provided (with permission) by Sean Rogers & Shineunder. They don’t exist anymore, but Sean is still doing great work and can be found here -  https://heyworldcreative.com/

In Part Two of this episode, we pick up exactly where we left off—unpacking lessons six through ten.These lessons speak directly to the Neurodiverse marriage experience, where it's not all about “fixing” the relationship or proving you’ve changed—but rather, it’s about becoming safer, steadier, and more relational over time. If Part One helped you start to understand what it takes to repair and restore a marriage, Part Two helps you understand how to make those new habits stick. To learn more about NeuroFam, or to get in touch, please check out https://www.ourneurofam.com/  Music for the show’s intro is provided (with permission) by Matt Langston & EleventySeven. You can check out their awesome stuff here - https://www.eleventysevenisalive.com/ Music for the show’s outro is provided (with permission) by Sean Rogers & Shineunder. They don’t exist anymore, but Sean is still doing great work and can be found here -  https://heyworldcreative.com/

In Part One of this two-part series, Jeremy steps back from theory and frameworks to share something more personal: five hard-earned lessons in the five years since he and his wife went through their separation. This episode isn’t about assigning blame or offering quick fixes—it’s about telling the truth of what separation, or the threat of, teaches when you’re willing to learn from it. Jeremy reflects on the internal shifts that only happen when a relationship breaks down, questions about identity, responsibility, emotional regulation, and the stories we tell ourselves to survive pain, and how it all factored back into restoring his marriage to be better than it was before. Rather than rushing toward closure, this episode invites listeners to slow down and listen for more nuanced lessons and what separation reveals about patterns, blind spots, and growth that can’t be forced. Whether you’re walking through separation yourself, processing a past one, or simply wrestling with the cost of relational loss, Part One offers ideas for experiences & repair that are often desired but rarely named. The remaining five lessons—and how they intertwine with the first 5—will unfold in Part Two.To learn more about NeuroFam, or to get in touch, please check out https://www.ourneurofam.com/  Music for the show’s intro is provided (with permission) by Matt Langston & EleventySeven. You can check out their awesome stuff here - https://www.eleventysevenisalive.com/ Music for the show’s outro is provided (with permission) by Sean Rogers & Shineunder. They don’t exist anymore, but Sean is still doing great work and can be found here -  https://heyworldcreative.com/

In this episode, Jeremy Rochford sits down with therapist-turned-coach Barbara Grant for a candid, grounded conversation about a question many couples and individuals silently wrestle with: What’s the real difference between counseling and coaching—and how do I know which one I need? Barbara breaks down the distinction with refreshing simplicity. Counseling, she explains, is about healing what’s been wounded, untangling old stories, and creating emotional stability. Coaching, on the other hand, is forward-focused—designed to help you build skills, apply tools, and create momentum toward who you’re becoming. Together, they peel back the misconceptions, including why coaching isn’t “therapy lite” and why counseling isn’t just for crisis.From there, Jeremy and Barbara explore how to get the absolute best out of coaching—especially if you’re wired neurodivergently or navigating a mixed-neurotype marriage. They talk about the importance of setting realistic goals, naming the problem you want solved, and showing up with both honesty and curiosity. Barbara shares practical tips for maximizing sessions, from embracing accountability to resisting the urge to people-please your coach. Jeremy adds his own lived experience from both sides of the table, reminding listeners that coaching works best when you’re willing to experiment, self-reflect, and take small, brave steps between sessions. Whether you’re on the edge of starting coaching or simply trying to understand the landscape, this conversation gives you a roadmap that feels both doable and empowering.To learn more about Barbara Grant, you can find her at https://bg-hc.com/To learn more about NeuroFam, please check out https://www.ourneurofam.com/  To send us an email or question- shoot a message to Jeremy@NeuroFm.com   Music for the show’s intro is provided (with permission) by Matt Langston & EleventySeven. You can check out their awesome stuff here - https://www.eleventysevenisalive.com/ Music for the show’s outro is provided (with permission) by Sean Rogers & Shineunder. The band doesn’t exist anymore, but Sean is still doing great work and can be found here - https://heyworldcreative.com/

In this episode of NeuroFM, Jeremy Rochford gets personal about something people don’t always expect to hear: why he’s thankful for his autism diagnosis. Not because it made life easier or tied everything up with a bow, but because it finally gave shape and language to patterns he’d carried his whole life. Jeremy breaks down the five reasons he’s genuinely grateful — from the relief of finally understanding his wiring, to the emotional clarity it brought to his marriage, to the unexpected confidence that comes from calling something what it is instead of fighting what it’s not.Jeremy also shares how the diagnosis reshaped his fatherhood, transformed the way he makes decisions, and gave him a sense of purpose he never saw coming. Through humor, honesty, and a few hard-won insights, he invites listeners to see diagnosis not as an ending, but as a beginning — a moment of truth that clears the fog and opens the door to a more honest, more aligned, more compassionate life. This episode is raw, real, and filled with the kind of hopeful gratitude that only comes from understanding yourself at a deeper level.To learn more about NeuroFam, please check out https://www.ourneurofam.com/  Music for the show’s intro is provided (with permission) by Matt Langston & EleventySeven. You can check out their awesome stuff here - https://www.eleventysevenisalive.com/ Music for the show’s outro is provided (with permission) by Sean Rogers & Shineunder. They don’t exist anymore, but Sean is still doing great work and can be found here -  https://heyworldcreative.com/

When the woman you love looks at you and says, “I think you might be autistic,” it can hit like a surprise plot twist you didn’t see coming. For some men, it feels like clarity. For others, it feels like criticism. And for most? It’s confusing, disorienting, and more emotional than they expected. In this episode, Jeremy breaks down what actually happens inside a marriage when one partner starts connecting the dots and the other isn’t sure they want to. With honesty, humor, and the kind of practical wisdom only lived experience can teach, he walks husbands through the very normal reactions—denial, defensiveness, curiosity, relief—and explains why this moment doesn’t have to be a crisis… it can be the beginning of understanding yourself in a brand-new way.But more importantly, Jeremy shows how this conversation can become a turning point for the relationship, not just the individual. He unpacks why your wife brought it up, what she’s actually hoping for, and how to respond in ways that build connection instead of conflict. This isn’t about labeling yourself or proving anything. It’s about learning to see what your partner sees, honoring your own pace, and deciding what to do with the information sitting on the table. Whether you’re skeptical, seeking answers, or somewhere in between, this episode offers a compassionate roadmap for husbands who want to understand themselves—and love their wives—better than ever.To learn more about NeuroFam, please check out https://www.ourneurofam.com/   Music for the show’s intro is provided (with permission) by Matt Langston & EleventySeven. You can check out their awesome stuff here - https://www.eleventysevenisalive.com/Music for the show’s outro is provided (with permission) by Sean Rogers & Shineunder. They don’t exist anymore, but Sean is still doing great work and can be found here -  https://heyworldcreative.com/

When you first hear the words “You’re autistic,” it can feel like the ground shifts beneath your feet. For some, it’s relief—finally, a name for years of confusion. For others, it’s resistance—does this label now define who I am? In this episode, Jeremy unpacks the tension between identity and diagnosis through the lens of what he calls The Autistic Identity Ladder—a four-part journey from denial to confident acceptance. He shares candid stories of his own process, the humor and heartbreak of self-realization, and why true understanding isn’t found in a label, but in how we choose to live with it.In this episode, Jeremy takes listeners on an honest walk through what it means to navigate identity after a diagnosis—especially when the label feels both clarifying and confining. He explores how we move from discomfort to confidence, from “I don’t want this to be me” to “I can live well with who I am.” Through grounded wisdom and gentle humor, Jeremy reminds us that autism may help explain your wiring, but it doesn’t write your worth.To learn more about NeuroFam, please check out https://www.ourneurofam.com/   To send us an email or question- shoot a message to Jeremy@NeuroFm.com   Music for the show’s intro is provided (with permission) by Matt Langston & EleventySeven. You can check out their awesome stuff here - https://www.eleventysevenisalive.com/Music for the show’s outro is provided (with permission) by Sean Rogers & Shineunder. The band doesn’t exist anymore, but Sean is still doing great work and can be found here - https://heyworldcreative.com/

Sometimes the hardest battles are the ones we fight inside our own minds. In this deeply honest episode, Jeremy opens up about a recent moment when a big life decision could have easily spiraled into conflict. What started as a simple disagreement began to trigger old patterns—rejection sensitivity, impulsivity, blame shifting, and worst-case-scenario thinking. But instead of reacting from fear, Jeremy chose to pause, regulate, reframe, and use the tool's offered in prior Podcast episodes. What followed wasn’t just a better outcome—it was a breakthrough in emotional maturity, empathy, and connection. With equal parts humor and vulnerability, Jeremy walks listeners through the exact tools he used to interrupt the mental chaos and find calm in the middle of uncertainty. He shares what it looks like, step-by-step, to move from defensiveness to self-awareness, from shame to ownership, and from catastrophic thinking to collaborative problem-solving. This isn’t a story about perfection—it’s a masterclass in progress. If you’ve ever replayed a conversation in your head or felt hijacked by your own emotions, this episode is a gentle reminder: growth isn’t about never being triggered—it’s about learning how to stay present when you are.To learn more about NeuroFam, please check out https://www.ourneurofam.com/  To send us an email or question- shoot a message to Jeremy@NeuroFm.com  Music for the show’s intro is provided (with permission) by Matt Langston & EleventySeven. You can check out their awesome stuff here - https://www.eleventysevenisalive.com/ Music for the show’s outro is provided (with permission) by Sean Rogers & Shineunder. The band doesn’t exist anymore, but Sean is still doing great work and can be found here - https://heyworldcreative.com/

In Part 1, we explored why neurodiverse love can feel so hard—and what makes it work. In Part 2, Jeremy Rochford and Dr. Stephanie Holmes continue their heartfelt conversation with world-renowned autism expert Dr. Tony Attwood, diving even deeper into the complexities of connection between autistic and neurotypical partners.Building on insights from his new book, Relationship Counselling with Autistic Neurodiverse Couples: A Guide for Professionals, Dr. Attwood unpacks how couples can move from misunderstanding to mutual respect, and from exhaustion to emotional safety. Together, the trio discuss the hidden layers of communication, why repair can be harder—but more meaningful—in neurodiverse relationships, and how small shifts in empathy and language can lead to profound transformation.With honesty, humor, and hard-won wisdom, this follow-up conversation brings even more practical tools for therapists, coaches, and couples who want to make neurodiverse love not just possible—but deeply rewarding.For more on Dr. Tony Attwood, check out:  https://attwoodandgarnettevents.com/  and his New BookFor more on Dr. Stephanie Holmes, check out: https://www.christianneurodiversemarriage.com/To learn more about NeuroFam, please check out https://www.ourneurofam.com/  Music for the show’s intro is provided (with permission) by Matt Langston & EleventySeven. You can check out their awesome stuff here - https://www.eleventysevenisalive.com/ Music for the show’s outro is provided (with permission) by Sean Rogers & Shineunder. They don’t exist anymore, but Sean is still doing great work and can be found here -

When love meets neurodiversity, even the smallest moments can feel impossibly complex. In this heartfelt and deeply insightful episode, Jeremy Rochford and Dr. Stephanie Holmes sit down with world-renowned autism expert Dr. Tony Attwood to unpack why neurodiverse relationships can feel so challenging—and what helps them truly thrive. Drawing from his new book, Relationship Counselling with Autistic Neurodiverse Couples: A Guide for Professionals, Dr. Attwood offers practical wisdom for both clinicians and couples who want to better understand the emotional dynamics at play when two minds love differently.Together, they explore what’s really happening beneath the surface of missed cues, emotional shutdowns, and moments of disconnect that can leave both partners feeling unseen. Through humor, humility, and decades of lived and clinical experience, they reveal how empathy, language, and patience can bridge the gap. This episode isn’t just theory—it’s a roadmap for real love in the real world, full of grace, laughter, and the kind of hope that comes from finally being understood.  For more on Dr. Tony Attwood, check out:  https://attwoodandgarnettevents.com/  and his New BookFor more on Dr. Stephanie Holmes, check out: https://www.christianneurodiversemarriage.com/To learn more about NeuroFam, please check out https://www.ourneurofam.com/  Music for the show’s intro is provided (with permission) by Matt Langston & EleventySeven. You can check out their awesome stuff here - https://www.eleventysevenisalive.com/ Music for the show’s outro is provided (with permission) by Sean Rogers & Shineunder. They don’t exist anymore, but Sean is still doing great work and can be found here -  https://heyworldcreative.com/

In this heartfelt conversation, Jeremy Rochford opens up about his personal experience with Rejection Sensitivity Dysphoria (RSD) — that intense emotional pain that can come from even the smallest hint of criticism or disapproval. With honesty and humor, Jeremy breaks down what RSD really is (and what it isn’t), exploring why it hits so hard for many neurodivergent adults and how it often hides beneath anger, shutdowns, or avoidance.But this episode doesn’t stop at awareness — it’s about healing and growth. Jeremy offers practical strategies to recognize emotional triggers, create safe relational spaces, and retrain your nervous system for resilience. He shares the tools that helped him move from reactivity to regulation, and from fear of rejection to deeper connection. Whether you’re living with RSD or loving someone who is, this conversation is both validating and full of hope — reminding you that sensitivity isn’t weakness; it’s an invitation to understand yourself more fully.To learn more about NeuroFam, please check out https://www.ourneurofam.com/  To send us an email or question- shoot a message to Jeremy@NeuroFm.com  Music for the show’s intro is provided (with permission) by Matt Langston & EleventySeven. You can check out their awesome stuff here - https://www.eleventysevenisalive.com/ Music for the show’s outro is provided (with permission) by Sean Rogers & Shineunder. The band doesn’t exist anymore, but Sean is still doing great work and can be found here - https://heyworldcreative.com/

In this episode, I share my personal journey of learning to manage anxiety and impulsivity—not through lofty theories, but through practical tools that actually work. From simple breathing practices to building routines that ground me, I’ve discovered that the right strategies don’t erase the struggles, but they give me enough space to choose my responses rather than being ruled by them. We also explore how these same tools apply when it comes to politics.Just like in our personal lives, the political world is full of impulsive reactions and anxiety-driven decisions. By looking at how tools for self-regulation can help us engage with politics in healthier ways, this conversation highlights why intentional practices aren’t just personal—they’re powerful enough to change how we show up in the world around us.To learn more about NeuroFam, please check out https://www.ourneurofam.com/  To learn more about The All Abilities, No Filter Podcast, please check out https://www.allabilitiesnofilter.com/To send us an email or question- shoot a message to Jeremy@NeuroFm.com  Music for the show’s intro is provided (with permission) by Matt Langston & EleventySeven. You can check out their awesome stuff here - https://www.eleventysevenisalive.com/ Music for the show’s outro is provided (with permission) by Sean Rogers & Shineunder. The band doesn’t exist anymore, but Sean is still doing great work and can be found here - https://heyworldcreative.com/

In this episode of NeuroFM, Jeremy breaks down the concept of Enemy Mode—which is when the brain is treating individuals as enemies to overcome, rather than people to love.  This leads connections to shut down, and for every interaction to start feeling like a battle. He explores how enemy mode shows up differently in neurodiverse relationships, especially when partners think, feel, or process the world in different ways. Jeremy shares real-life examples that reveal how easily couples can slip into this defensive posture and why it leaves both partners feeling misunderstood, isolated, and stuck in cycles of conflict. But this isn’t just theory—it’s a roadmap toward hope. Jeremy outlines practical ways to recognize when enemy mode is active and steps couples can take to move back toward empathy, curiosity, and connection. Whether you’re autistic, ADHD, neurotypical, or somewhere in between, this conversation invites you to see enemy mode not as a flaw, but as a signal—one that, if noticed and addressed, can actually strengthen your relationship. It’s a must-listen for anyone who wants to replace disconnection with deeper trust and love.To lean more about Escaping Enemy Mode, please check out https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/escaping-enemy-mode-podcast/id1651300799To learn more about NeuroFam, please check out https://www.ourneurofam.com/  To send us an email or question- shoot a message to Jeremy@NeuroFm.com  Music for the show’s intro is provided (with permission) by Matt Langston & EleventySeven. You can check out their awesome stuff here - https://www.eleventysevenisalive.com/ Music for the show’s outro is provided (with permission) by Sean Rogers & Shineunder. The band doesn’t exist anymore, but Sean is still doing great work and can be found here - https://heyworldcreative.com/

In this episode of NeuroFM, Jeremy sits down with his son Johnathan for an honest, funny, and surprisingly deep conversation about the power of accommodations. Through the lens of Johnathan’s experiences in both hockey and theater, they unpack what it means to be supported in ways that don’t erase differences but actually empower strengths. From the ice rink to the stage, Johnathan shares how thoughtful adjustments—whether it’s a coach breaking down a drill in smaller steps or a director allowing extra time to rehearse—don’t just make participation possible, they make growth and confidence flourish. Together, Jeremy and Johnathan show how accommodations aren’t about “special treatment,” but about leveling the playing field so every kid can thrive. Their back-and-forth is filled with insight, humor, and heartfelt stories that highlight how small, intentional changes can transform challenges into opportunities. Whether you’re a parent, educator, coach, or simply curious about what true inclusion looks like, this episode offers a hopeful and practical reminder: when we make room for differences, we create space for everyone’s potential to shine.To learn more about this episode’s sponsor, the All Abilities No Filter podcast, please check out https://www.allabilitiesnofilter.com/To learn more about ASAH Special Hockey, please check out https://www.specialhockey.org/To learn more about the Penguin Project, please check out https://paautism.org/social_group/penguin-project-mon-river-arts/To learn more about us at NeuroFam, please check out https://www.ourneurofam.com/  To send us an email or question- shoot a message to Jeremy@NeuroFm.com  Music for the show’s intro is provided (with permission) by Matt Langston & EleventySeven. You can check out their awesome stuff here - https://www.eleventysevenisalive.com/ Music for the show’s outro is provided (with permission) by Sean Rogers & Shineunder. The band doesn’t exist anymore, but Sean is still doing great work and can be found here - https://heyworldcreative.com/

So many neurotypical wives find themselves whispering—or sometimes shouting—the same question: Why can’t my husband follow through? In this candid conversation, Jeremy Rochford unpacks what’s really going on beneath the surface. It’s not laziness, carelessness, or a lack of love. More often, it’s a collision of executive functioning challenges, emotional regulation, and the unspoken expectations that swirl inside neurodiverse marriages.Through real-life stories, relatable humor, practical insight, and the introduction of the OCS Model, Jeremy shows why what looks like procrastination is often something much deeper—and what it means for connection at home. But this isn’t just about identifying the problem. This episode offers a fresh framework for moving forward together. You’ll hear strategies to shift from frustration to collaboration, build rhythms of accountability that actually stick, and create space for both partners to thrive. Whether you’re exhausted by broken promises or simply curious about the dynamics at play, this is your invitation to trade confusion for clarity—and blame for better tools.To learn more about our sponsor, please check out https://www.allabilitiesnofilter.com/ To learn more about NeuroFam, please check out https://www.ourneurofam.com/  To send us an email or question- shoot a message to Jeremy@NeuroFm.com  Music for the show’s intro is provided (with permission) by Matt Langston & EleventySeven. You can check out their awesome stuff here - https://www.eleventysevenisalive.com/ Music for the show’s outro is provided (with permission) by Sean Rogers & Shineunder. The band doesn’t exist anymore, but Sean is still doing great work and can be found here - https://heyworldcreative.com/

If you’re neurodivergent, you already know regulation can feel like chasing something that keeps slipping through your fingers. In this episode, Jeremy Rochford takes a practical look at what it really means to become more regulated—and why it’s not about “fixing yourself” but about creating rhythms that work for your unique wiring. You’ll discover how to spot your personal stress signals earlier, how to build in small resets before burnout hits, and why regulation is more about building systems that fit you than trying to copy what works for everyone else. Jeremy also dives into the staying-regulated side of the equation: the everyday practices, environments, and mindsets that help you hold steady instead of bouncing between calm and chaos. Whether you’re navigating work deadlines, parenting on overload, or just trying to get through a noisy grocery store without shutting down, you’ll walk away with simple, sustainable tools to help you stay grounded. This is about thriving in your neurodivergence—not in spite of it.To learn more about the All Abilities, No Filter Podcast, please check out https://www.allabilitiesnofilter.com/To learn more about NeuroFam, please check out https://www.ourneurofam.com/  Music for the show’s intro is provided (with permission) by Matt Langston & EleventySeven. You can check out their awesome stuff here - https://www.eleventysevenisalive.com/ Music for the show’s outro is provided (with permission) by Sean Rogers & Shineunder. They don’t exist anymore, but Sean is still doing great work and can be found here -  https://heyworldcreative.com/

Feedback doesn’t have to feel like walking into a minefield. In this episode of Better Feedback, Better Relationships, Jeremy Rochford unpacks the art of giving and receiving feedback in ways that build trust rather than break it. Drawing from personal stories, practical frameworks, and a few lessons learned the hard way, Jeremy explores why most feedback conversations go sideways—and how to shift them toward connection, clarity, and growth.Whether you’re navigating marriage, parenting, or professional life, the ability to both share truth and hear truth is a game-changer. Jeremy breaks down how to create safe spaces for honest dialogue, why your delivery matters as much as your words, and how feedback—when done well—can actually deepen relationships instead of damaging them. If you’ve ever avoided hard conversations or braced yourself when someone says, “Can we talk?”, this episode offers the tools to move from fear to freedom.To learn more about our sponsor, please check out https://www.allabilitiesnofilter.com/To learn more about NeuroFam, please check out https://www.ourneurofam.com/  Music for the show’s intro is provided (with permission) by Matt Langston & EleventySeven. You can check out their awesome stuff here - https://www.eleventysevenisalive.com/ Music for the show’s outro is provided (with permission) by Sean Rogers & Shineunder. They don’t exist anymore, but Sean is still doing great work and can be found here -  https://heyworldcreative.com/

So much of what the world “knows” about autism comes from stereotypes, secondhand assumptions, or outdated ideas. In this episode, Jeremy pulls back the curtain and shares 25 raw, honest truths that autistic people wish you really understood. From sensory overload to social fatigue, from the way words land differently to the need for recovery time—these aren’t just quirks or preferences, they’re real experiences that shape daily life. By walking through these insights with both clarity and compassion, Jeremy invites you to see the world through autistic eyes.Whether you’re a parent, grandparent, partner, teacher, or friend, this episode will help you bridge the gap between “knowing about autism” and actually understanding autistic people. The goal isn’t pity or perfection—it’s empathy & understanding. With candid storytelling and practical takeaways, you’ll walk away with a deeper appreciation of why connection sometimes feels complicated, and how small shifts in awareness can make relationships not just easier, but richer.To learn more about this episode’s sponsor, the All Abilities No Filter podcast, please check out https://www.allabilitiesnofilter.com/To learn more about us at NeuroFam, please check out https://www.ourneurofam.com/  To send us an email or question- shoot a message to Jeremy@NeuroFm.com  Music for the show’s intro is provided (with permission) by Matt Langston & EleventySeven. You can check out their awesome stuff here - https://www.eleventysevenisalive.com/ Music for the show’s outro is provided (with permission) by Sean Rogers & Shineunder. The band doesn’t exist anymore, but Sean is still doing great work and can be found here - https://heyworldcreative.com/

* Disclaimer- this episode is specificly for married &/or long term couples. There's nothing crazy, but we do use the word "itimacy" a few times and would rather be safe and let everyone know. Without further ado-Most advice about emotional intimacy and romance assumes you experience connection the “typical” way — but for many Autistics, that’s like being handed directions in a language you don’t speak. You may deeply love your partner, yet struggle to read the unspoken cues they rely on. You may crave closeness, but find the process of getting there exhausting or confusing. And no one ever sat you down to explain that this isn’t about being cold or unfeeling — it’s about having a different wiring for how you notice, process, and express emotions. The result? You both feel misunderstood, even when your love is real.In this episode, we break open the myths and unspoken rules around Autistics and emotional intimacy. You’ll learn why “trying harder” rarely works, what to focus on instead, and how to create a romantic connection that feels safe and authentic for both partners. We’ll share stories, practical steps, and mindset shifts that can help you move past the fear of getting it wrong and into the joy of getting it real. Because once you understand how your brain works — and how your partner’s does too — romance isn’t about meeting some impossible standard. It’s about building a rhythm of connection that’s yours alone.To learn more about the All Abilities No Filter podcast, please check out https://www.allabilitiesnofilter.com/To learn more about NeuroFam, please check out https://www.ourneurofam.com/  To send us an email or question- shoot a message to Jeremy@NeuroFm.com  Music for the show’s intro is provided (with permission) by Matt Langston & EleventySeven.You can check out their awesome stuff here - https://www.eleventysevenisalive.com/ Music for the show’s outro is provided (with permission) by Sean Rogers & Shineunder. The band doesn’t exist anymore, but Sean is still doing great work and can be found here - https://heyworldcreative.com/

Let’s be honest—being neurodivergent in a neurotypical world can feel like emotional whiplash. One moment you're fine, the next you're overstimulated, misunderstood, or spiraling into shutdown. In this episode, Jeremy dives into the raw and real experience of dysregulation—and why traditional advice like “just take a deep breath” often falls flat for neurodivergent folks.Instead of vague platitudes, you'll get practical, tested tools that actually work—like how to create a sensory recovery plan, ways to prevent overload before it hits, and a surprisingly simple phrase that can de-escalate even the most chaotic moments. Whether you’re an ND adult trying to navigate work and relationships or a parent desperate to support your child through meltdowns, this conversation meets you with both honesty and hope.This episode is presented by The All Abilities, No Filter Podcast—a show that offers the unfiltered table talk you didn’t know you needed! Join thier crew of specialists as they dive into the real, raw, and often surprising side of autism and disability advocacy.  You can learn more and check out some episodes at https://www.allabilitiesnofilter.com/.To learn more about NeuroFam, please check out https://www.ourneurofam.com/  To get in touch with us, shoot us a message to Jeremy@NeuroFm.comMusic for the show’s intro is provided (with permission) by Matt Langston & EleventySeven. You can check out their awesome stuff here - https://www.eleventysevenisalive.com/ Music for the show’s outro is provided (with permission) by Sean Rogers & Shineunder. They don’t exist anymore, but Sean is still doing great work and can be found here -  https://heyworldcreative.com/