That Husband Podcast

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S3] EPISODE 4: MARRIAGE ON AUTOPILOT This Valentine’s season, That Husband Podcast flips the script. Instead of centering romance around wives alone, this episode creates space to ask a powerful and often overlooked question: how do wives intentionally celebrate and honour their husbands? In this conversation, we’re joined by Buli Makhubo who brings honesty, depth, and practical wisdom as she shares what it looks like to show up for her husband in ways that go beyond clichés. Together, we explore the idea that celebration isn’t about grand gestures, but about attentiveness, thoughtfulness, softness, and presence. From understanding love languages to breaking patterns of familiarity and complacency, this episode challenges the quiet assumption that men don’t need affirmation. It speaks to husbands who feel unseen and to wives who desire healthier, more connected marriages but may not always know where to start. Whether you’re married, engaged, dating, or simply curious about building strong relationships, this episode invites you into a deeper conversation about honour, respect, and intentional love. This Valentine’s, we’re asking: what does it truly mean to celebrate your husband? Press play and join us as we learn how small, consistent acts of honour can transform marriages from the inside out. FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast?_r=1&_t=ZS-933eAjVurPV INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/ #thathusbandpodcast #HusbandsMatter #MarriageConversations #HonouringYourHusband #ValentinesWithPurpose #MarriageTalk #healthymarriages #intentionallove #marriagegrowth #christianmarriage #faithandmarriage #modernmarriage #marriagepodcast #MenNeedLoveToo #husbandsupport #CelebratingMen #marriagemindset #RelationshipWisdom #BiblicalMarriage #MarriageGoals #lovewithintention #MarriageCommunity #strongfamilies #marriagehealing #realmarriage

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S3] EPISODE 3: TRUST GOD OR STAY STUCK Sitting across the table is a husband who understands that love is not about perfection, but about choosing to show up again and again, especially when you fall short. Together, we reflect on what it means to love sacrificially, to race to the back of the line, and to embrace servant leadership in a world that often teaches men to take rather than give. We go deep into the realities that shape men and marriages in South Africa: fatherlessness, emotional neglect, unspoken wounds, and the quiet struggles many husbands carry alone. From navigating rejection and addiction to learning how to communicate how you want to be loved, this episode reminds us that healing in marriage begins with honesty. A loving father, a present husband, and a gentle man are not born, they are formed through accountability, grace, and intentional growth. At its core, this conversation is a reminder that husbandhood is a journey of “failing forward.” We are not where we want to be, but we are certainly not where we used to be. This episode is for husbands who are trying, husbands who are tired, and husbands who want to do better tomorrow than they did yesterday. If you believe marriage is worth fighting for, worth learning for, and worth becoming better for, this one is for you. Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast?_r=1&_t=ZS-933eAjVurPV INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/ #thathusbandpodcast #husbandhood #ByHusbandsForHusbands #modernhusband #marriageconversations #blackhusbands #faithandmarriage #HealthyMasculinity #marriagegrowth #marriagegrowth #fatherhoodmatters #FatherhoodMatters #breakingcycles #mendoingthework #emotionalintelligence #servantleadership #marriagejourney #HusbandsInCommunity #knowbetterdobetter #marriagepodcast #menandmarriage #HealingHomes #realmentalk #buildingstrongfamilies

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S3] EPISODE 2: HAVE WE DEMONISED A GOOD THING? In this episode, we slow the noise down and step into a conversation many husbands carry quietly but rarely articulate. What does connection really mean, not just physically, but spiritually, emotionally, and relationally? Through honest reflection and lived experience, we explore how true intimacy is far deeper than proximity or performance. It’s about being known, recognised, and met at a soul level, long before bodies come into play. This episode invites husbands to reconsider where connection begins, how it’s nurtured, and why it matters more than we often realize. We also confront the stories many of us inherited about sex, marriage, and manhood, especially the ones that taught us to fear, suppress, or misunderstand desire. With humility and clarity, this conversation unpacks how silence, shame, and unspoken expectations can quietly erode intimacy in marriage. We reflect on how unlearning harmful narratives, practicing honest communication, and embracing tenderness are not signs of weakness, but acts of courage and leadership within the home. At its core, this episode is a call to presence. To show up fully, for our wives, for ourselves, and for the covenant we’ve committed to. It reminds husbands that intimacy is not sustained by instinct alone, but by intentionality, kindness, and a willingness to grow. This is not a conversation about perfection, but about pursuit: choosing, again and again, to build bonds that are rooted in trust, truth, and love that lasts. Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast?_r=1&_t=ZS-933eAjVurPV INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/ #HusbandsPodcast #ByHusbandsForHusbands #MarriageConversations #biblicalmarriage #intimacyinmarriage #healthymasculinity #christianhusbands #faithandmarriage #realmentalk #marriagegrowth #emotionalintimacy #SexAndMarriage #marriagematters #leadingathome #CovenantOverCulture #IntentionalHusbands #marriageworks #menandmarriage #spiritualleadership #deepconnection #husbandlife #kingdommarriage #ModernHusbands #marriagepodcast #menwholead

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S3] EPISODE 1: BEING THE HEAD IS COSTLY This episode is a conversation between husbands who are still learning what it truly means to be married. We reflect on how many of us entered marriage well-intentioned but underprepared, carrying single-life rhythms, unchecked assumptions, and a shallow understanding of leadership, submission, and accountability. What we once labelled as “control,” we now begin to recognize as covenant responsibility. This episode names the quiet shock many men experience when marriage asks more of us than we expected — emotionally, spiritually, and relationally. Together, we wrestle with the deeper work of husbandhood: building healthy systems, and intentionally shaping the culture of our homes. We explore what leadership really looks like beyond clichés, presence, protection, emotional provision, spiritual direction, and courage in moments of tension. We speak candidly about resistance, shame, past failures, dry seasons, and the temptation to seek fulfilment outside the home when marriage feels costly. This is not theory, it’s lived experience, marked by mistakes, resilience, repentance, and growth. At its core, this episode is a call back to brotherhood and responsibility. A reminder that no man is meant to carry marriage alone, and that healing and strength often come through honest community with other men who call out greatness, not weakness. This conversation is for husbands who are wounded but willing, unsure but committed, and hungry to lead their families with humility, courage, and faithfulness. If you’ve ever felt the weight of marriage and wondered, “Am I doing this right?” — this episode is for you. Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast?_r=1&_t=ZS-933eAjVurPV INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/ #Husbandhood #MarriageLeadership #MenLeadingWell #FaithAndMarriage #ChristianHusbands #BiblicalManhood #MarriageWork #LeadingAtHome #HealthyMasculinity #MarriageConversations #MenAndMarriage #HusbandsCommunity #CovenantOverConvenience #IntentionalMarriage #FamilyLeadership #MenDoingTheWork #MarriageGrowth #BrotherhoodMatters #SpiritualLeadership #ModernHusband #MarriageCulture #MenInProcess #FaithfulHusbands #MarriageTruths #LeadershipAtHome

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S2] EPISODE 47: THE GROOTMAN'S TABLE In this episode, we sit down for a real and honest conversation about masculinity, what it means today, how society defines it, and how men actually experience it. Instead of reacting to loud cultural narratives, we slow things down and look at masculinity through the lens of everyday life: responsibility, identity, pressure, leadership, and the quiet questions men rarely get space to ask. We break the conversation into three parts, starting with the mind, how men think, process expectations, deal with internal pressure, and navigate modern culture. From mental resilience to emotional awareness to the silent weight many men carry, we explore what a healthy thought-life looks like for men who want to grow. Then we move to the soul and the body, unpacking purpose, character, spiritual grounding, physical well-being, and how these three areas shape one another. This is not a lecture, just men talking to men, trying to understand what it means to show up fully, faithfully, and intentionally in a world that often misunderstands men. Tune in, reflect, and take what you need for your own journey. Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/ #masculinity #modernmanhood #husbandpodcast #MenTalkingToMen #mensmentalhealth #healthymasculinity #mindbodysoul #husbandlife #marriagegrowth #mensupportingmen #ManhoodJourney #purposedrivenmen #StrongMenSmartMen #IntentionalLiving #menswellbeing #HusbandsCommunity #FaithfulHusbands #characterbuilding #meninconversation #realmenrealtalk #menofhonor #MasculineIdentity #MalePerspective #CulturalMasculinity #maleperspective

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S2] EPISODE 46: YOU CAN LEVEL UP This episode is about the real journey of becoming men who refuse to settle for comfort when growth is calling. We dive into the moments that break us open, the decisions that reshape our identity, and the brave, often painful process of letting go of the boy so that the man can emerge. If you’ve ever felt stuck, unsure, or overwhelmed by the weight of who you’re trying to become, this conversation will find you exactly where you are. This episode is a portrait of husbandhood in motion, of men wrestling with expectations, confronting old versions of themselves, and learning to lead not from ego but from purpose. Musa takes us into the heart of his story: the crisis that cracked him, the therapy that rebuilt him, the marriage that matured him, and the faith that steadied him when the ground beneath him shifted. Together, we reflect on how husbands can transform passive frustration into intentional influence, how identity gets reshaped in the presence of a strong partner, and how clarity often arrives not in the noise of hustle but in the quiet courage of decisive action. And through it all, we return to the truth that guides this podcast: we are husbands who aren’t where we want to be, but certainly are not where we used to be. Men imperfect, failing forward, committed to knowing better so we can do better, for ourselves, our wives, and the families entrusted to us. Whether you're in a season of growth, a season of confusion, or standing at the crossroads of who you were and who you need to become, this episode will remind you that you are not alone, and that transformation, though costly, is always worth it. #thathusbandpodcast #husbandhood #marriagematters #SouthAfricanMen #BlackHusbands #MasculinityJourney #MenGrowing #failingforward #purposedrivenmen #husbandtalks #realconversations #marriagegrowth #mensupportingmen #husbandlife #fatherhoodjourney #buildingfamilies #emotionalintelligence #visionclarity #purposedrivenliving #leadershipformen #HusbandWisdom #familyfirst #menoffaith #growingtogether #legacybuilding

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S2] EPISODE 45: HEARING A MAN In this episode, we journey into the inner world of husbands who are trying to grow, heal, and show up better than the men who raised them. Danny joins Blaque for a deeply transparent conversation about the complexities of manhood, the weight of provision, and the quiet battles men fight long before anyone sees the cracks. From confronting generational cycles to redefining what it means to be healthy as a husband, this episode invites men to finally hear themselves in someone else’s story. Together they peel back the layers of marriage, identity, faith and pressure, exploring moments where being a husband feels like carrying contradictions. They speak openly about anger that has no name, silence that was taught too early, and the exhausting expectation to be strong everywhere except at home. Their dialogue reaches into father wounds, money wounds, the tension between public respect and private struggle, and the deep need for safe friendships that hold men accountable to the husbands they want to become. This is an episode for every man who has ever felt unseen while trying to lead, every husband who is trying to love from a place he is still learning to understand, and every couple navigating the uncomfortable but necessary work of growing together. Through stories of faith, failure, provision, boundaries and redemption, this conversation reminds us that perfect love does not come from perfect people, but from people willing to heal, willing to learn and willing to stay. This is a space for husbands who are not where they want to be, but are refusing to stay where they used to be. Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/ #ThatHusbandPodcast #HusbandsForHusbands #marriagetalk #realmenrealtalk #menhealing #modernmarriage #husbandhood #faithandfamily #blackfathersmatter #mensmentalhealth #marriagewisdom #HealthyHusbands #breakingcycles #generationalhealing #christianmarriage #ManhoodJourney #husbandlife #marriagegrowth #MarriedMenTalk #EmotionalHealthForMen #marriageconversations #husbandsupport #RealMarriageRealTalk #menwholead #MenWhoLove

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S2] EPISODE 44: REDEFINING PRESENCE   In this episode, we sit down for one of our most honest and soul-stirring conversations yet. TK opens up about his journey as a husband and father in a way that feels both familiar and deeply challenging as he reflects on what it means to grow into the kind of man who protects his home not only with provision but also with presence, tenderness, and intention. His story reminds us that marriage matures us, shapes us, and reveals us, and that the small choices we make every day slowly build the foundation our families stand on. As TK recounts the beauty and weight of discovering that he and his wife were expecting twins, we hear a man wrestling with fear, excitement, and a fierce resolve to show up fully for his family. He shares how vulnerability, trust, and honest communication became the pillars that carried him and his wife through loss, new beginnings, and the unpredictable terrain of parenthood. His reflections invite every husband to rethink leadership as something deeper than authority, something rooted in service, emotional steadiness, and spiritual anchoring. This conversation is for every husband who is trying his best to be better than yesterday, every man navigating the tension between who he was raised to be and who his family needs him to become. It is a reminder that growth is possible, that healing is ongoing, and that love becomes real when it is practiced in the everyday rhythms of presence, patience, and partnership. If you are a husband on your own journey of failing forward, learning forward, and loving forward, this episode will meet you right where you are. Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/ #thathusbandpodcast #marriagematters #faithandmarriage #HusbandTalks #realmenrealtalk #christianmarriage #MenOfFaith #MarriageJourney #menoffaith #marriagepodcast #BlackLove #husbandlife #marriagegoals #FaithfulHusband #christcenteredmarriage #marriagewisdom #MenInMarriage #godlyhusband #loveandleadership #marriageconversations #marriageandfaith #PurposefulMarriage #ModernHusbands #marriagereflections #DoingBetterTogether    

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S2] EPISODE 43: THE SHUT DOWN There are moments when a nation’s wounds demand more than words, they demand repentance and resolve. In this episode, I step into one of South Africa’s most urgent conversations, gender-based violence and the purple wave spreading across our country. What may look like a trend on social media is, in truth, a cry for justice, a cry that echoes through every home, every marriage, and every man’s heart. This isn’t about pointing fingers, it’s about asking the harder question, what am I doing to stop it? This isn’t a conversation about marriage, communication, or compatibility, it’s about silence. The kind of silence that shelters abusers and isolates survivors. I share honestly about how good men often turn away, how faith calls us not to retreat but to confront, and how the gospel offers us a way back, not through guilt but through responsibility. Strength, I’ve learned, isn’t about domination, it’s about restraint, gentleness, and the courage to protect. Through this reflection, I’m calling us as men to stand, not as spectators but as mirrors, mentors, and safe spaces. To listen to the cries that heaven hears, to start the healing where it must begin, in the heart of a man. Because when we rise with integrity, women can finally rest, not in peace beneath the ground, but in peace within this nation we’re trying to rebuild together. Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/ #thathusbandpodcast #ShutdownEpisode #MenAgainstGBV #genderbasedviolence #southafrica #PurpleForChange #WomenForChange #MenWhoProtect #faithandjustice #HealingTheNation #HusbandsForChange #RealMenStandUp #endgbv #silenceisviolence #biblicalmanhood #GospelAndCulture #justiceandmercy #menofintegrity #protecther #RighteousMasculinity #RepentanceAndRenewal #MenInConversation #faithinaction #RebuildTheNation #ForTheDaughters

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S2] EPISODE 43: THE WEIGHT OF ROLE MODELS In this deeply reflective conversation, Blaque Nubon sits down with Tumelo, a husband molded by faith, shaped by his father, and stretched by love, to talk about what it really means to become the man your family can lean on. From the illusion of potential to the reality of presence, Tumelo shares the inner wrestle of a husband who grew up with a godly example and now faces the sacred pressure of raising the bar without losing his soul in the process. They talk about the quiet war between provision and presence, about how the drive to build can sometimes rob you of the very home you’re building for. Tumelo opens up about lessons from his father, a man whose apologies were as strong as his convictions, and how that legacy both steadies and challenges him in marriage. This is a story about unlearning what even the “good things” taught us, and realizing that the work of being a husband is not about perfection but repentance. For every man who’s trying to become the kind of husband his son can learn from and his daughter can trust, this episode is a mirror, tender, raw, and real. It’s about learning that potential means nothing until it’s lived out in love, that success means nothing without surrender, and that maybe, just maybe, knowing better is finally starting to look like doing better. Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/ #thathusbandpodcast #marriagematters #faithandmarriage #HusbandTalks #realmenrealtalk #christianmarriage #MenOfFaith #MarriageJourney #menoffaith #marriagepodcast #BlackLove #husbandlife #marriagegoals #FaithfulHusband #christcenteredmarriage #marriagewisdom #MenInMarriage #godlyhusband #loveandleadership #marriageconversations #marriageandfaith #PurposefulMarriage #ModernHusbands #marriagereflections #DoingBetterTogether

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S2] EPISODE 42: WHEN FAITH IS TESTED Marriage will test every part of a man, not to break him, but to reveal what’s real. In this episode of That Husband Podcast, Blaque sits down with Gregory Cassim for a raw, redemptive, and deeply personal conversation about fatherhood, faith, and the long road from brokenness to covenant. From infertility and loss to the miracle of fatherhood, from growing up in the hood to leading a family and a church, Greg opens up about the unseen battles that shape a man’s character. They talk about what it means to be a covenant leader - a husband who protects, nourishes, and provides even when life feels like it’s falling apart. This is not a conversation about perfection; it’s about presence. It’s about husbands who are learning to unlearn, fathers who are choosing to show up, and men who are breaking the cycles they were born into. It’s about grace, redemption, and the kind of love that doesn’t quit when it hurts. So if you’ve ever wrestled with waiting, if you’ve ever wondered where God is in the silence, or if you’ve simply longed to be a better man, this one’s for you. Pull up a chair, lean in, and listen as Blaque and Gregory talk man to man about covenant, character, and what it truly means to be That Husband. Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/ #ThatHusbandPodcast #MarriageAndFaith #CovenantLove #FatherhoodJourney #FaithfulMen #MarriageIsCovenant #BreakingCycles #MenWhoPray #RedemptionStory #LoveThatStays #ChristianMarriage #Husbandhood #FaithAndFamily #MenOfFaith #RealConversations #MarriagePodcast #FaithInTheWaiting #FatherhoodUnfiltered #FromBrokennessToCovenant #MarriageThatHeals

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S2] EPISODE 41: INTENTIONAL BUILDING BLOCKS Marriage isn’t for the fainthearted, it’s for men who are willing to die to self so that love can live. In this episode of That Husband Podcast, Blaque sits down with Luxolo Kentane for a brutally honest and beautifully redemptive conversation about what it truly means to lead, love, and live faithfully in marriage. From the quiet sacrifices to the loud laughter, from words that heal to wounds that teach, this one goes deep into the heart of husbandhood. They talk about presence over performance, choosing love over ego, and the sacred weight of being seen and affirmed by the one person who knows your flaws best. These aren’t men who have it all figured out, they’re husbands learning, failing, repenting, and rebuilding daily. What you’ll hear here isn’t theory, it’s testimony, it’s the language of men being transformed by love, one small death at a time. So whether you’re newly married, wrestling through the tension, or just longing to be a better man, this episode will remind you why marriage is both the hardest and holiest journey you’ll ever take. Pull up a chair, lean in, and listen as Blaque and Luxolo Kentane talk, man to man, about what it means to be That Husband. Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/ #thathusbandpodcast #BlaqueNubon #Lux #marriagetalk #HusbandConversations #faithfulmen #christianmarriage #realmenrealtalk #marriagegoals #husbandlife #godlymen #menwholead #loveandmarriage #marriagematters #BlackLove #marriagejourney #HusbandsForum #relationshipwisdom #marriageandfaith #marriagereflections #faithbasedpodcast #marriagegrowth #thathusbandpodcast #menoffaith #marriagepodcast

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S2] EPISODE 40: COMMITMENT In this week's episode, we sit down with Tebogo Maribe, a husband, father, and man who has walked through seasons of loss, rebuilding, and redemption. From the sting of unemployment to the tension of wanting to provide but being unable to, Tebza opens up about the realities many husbands face but rarely voice. His story isn’t just about surviving hard times, it’s about choosing faith, humility, and responsibility even when life humbles you. As we dive into his journey, we explore what commitment really means when it’s no longer poetic but practical, when it’s waking up each day to try again for the sake of your wife and child. Tebogo's reflections on fatherhood, accountability, and love reveal a man learning to live out what he believes, one small decision at a time. It’s raw, real, and redemptive, the kind of honesty that calls men back to their purpose and their people. For every husband who’s ever asked, “What do I do when I’ve tried everything?”, this conversation is both a mirror and a map. A mirror to show where you are, in between failure and faith, and a map pointing toward the kind of man you still can become. Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/ #thathusbandpodcast #HusbandsForHusbands #marriagematters #realmenrealtalk #faithandfamily #modernmarriage #menoffaith #marriagepodcast #husbandlife #fatherhoodjourney #BlackLove #christianmarriage #MarriageInRealLife #FaithfulMen #godlyhusband #MenTalkingMarriage #ManhoodAndFaith #loveandcommitment #marriagereflections #MenBeingMen #marriagestories #marriagegrowth #purposedrivenman #marriageandfaith #ThatHusbandCommunity

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S2] EPISODE 39: MARRIAGE REALITIES In this episode of That Husband Podcast, Blaque Nubon sits down with husband, father, and community builder Papi Luu, a man whose story is as real as it is inspiring. From humble beginnings on a sleeper couch to leading an organization that’s transforming lives, Papi’s journey is a reminder that manhood is not about perfection but about progress, purpose, and perseverance. He opens up about love, leadership, and legacy, and what it really means to carry the weight of being a husband in today’s world. Together, they explore the quiet strength that sustains a marriage through hardship, from financial struggle to personal loss, from the discipline of staying when it’s easier to run, to the courage of healing when pride says “stay silent.” Papi’s honesty about his own battles, and his growth through therapy, mentorship, and faith, challenges every husband listening to do better, not just for their wives, but for themselves. This is not just a conversation about marriage, it’s about becoming the kind of man your wife, your children, and your community can depend on. So grab your coffee, lean in, and join the brotherhood of men learning to love with intention, lead with humility, and build with vision. Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/ #marriagejourney #husbandlife #marriagegrowth #strongmarriages #marriagematters #lovewithintention #MenWhoGrow #personalgrowth #selfimprovement #therapyformen #emotionalintelligence #healingandgrowth #fatherhoodgoals #IntentionalFatherhood #dadlife #familymanagement #buildinglegacy #leadershipmatters #communitybuilder #leadwithpurpose #MenOfImpact #visionaryleadership #leadbyexample #PerseveranceAndPurpose #MenWithIntegrity #lifelessonsformen #beabetterman

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S2] EPISODE 38: VULNERABILITY vs TRANSPARENCY In this episode, we tackle one of the most misunderstood concepts in today’s culture: vulnerability. Men are constantly told that “real strength is being vulnerable,” but what happens when that vulnerability is offered in unsafe places? Instead of healing, it often leaves men more wounded, more guarded, and more hesitant to trust. Together, we wrestle with the reality that vulnerability without safety isn’t courage, it’s exposure, and we unpack why vulnerability is far too sacred to be cheapened in the wrong hands. As husbands, we carry the responsibility of leading with courage, and that includes the courage to open up in the one place where it truly belongs: within the covenant of marriage. Vulnerability with your wife creates intimacy, trust, and unity, while withholding it builds invisible walls that eventually turn spouses into strangers. We share how Christ’s example of exposing His wounds for the sake of healing becomes a model for us as husbands, and why going first in this area sets the tone for love and connection in marriage. This conversation isn’t just about theory, it’s about reclaiming a healthier, God-designed way of being men. For single men, it’s a call to practice transparency with brothers and mentors while wisely guarding their hearts. For married men, it’s an invitation to stop hiding and start building deeper intimacy with their wives through vulnerability. This episode is raw, real, and personal, a reminder that vulnerability isn’t weakness, but the most courageous gift a husband can give. Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/ #HusbandPodcast #marriagematters #godlymarriage #menoffaith #marriagecovenant #husbandsandwives #christianmen #marriagetalk #faithfulhusbands #marriagewisdom #VulnerabilityInMarriage #marriagegodsway #CourageousHusbands #marriageandfaith #HeadshipAndLove #marriagereflections #HusbandLeadership #ChristAndTheChurch #marriagejourney #biblicalmarriage #marriagegrowth #strongertogether #HusbandsForHusbands #FaithFilledMarriage #MarriageIntimacy

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S2] EPISODE 36: PULL BACK THE CURTAINS In this special Heritage Day edition, the conversation turns inward. For the first time in a while, we are joined by my wife, Lilly not just as a guest, but as a partner who lives the very realities this podcast speaks about. Together, we open up about the weight and beauty of marriage: the fights that once felt familiar, the lessons learned through patience, and the slow but powerful healing that comes when both husband and wife choose not to give up. This episode isn’t polished perfection, it’s raw, honest, and sometimes even a little awkward. We reflect on how faith, vulnerability, and even disagreements have shaped our marriage. There’s laughter, confession, and a lot of learning, but at the heart of it all is a desire to do better, not just talk better. As we remind each other, small improvements, even 2% shifts, can make a world of difference in how a husband shows up for his wife, and how a wife nurtures her husband with her words. Whether you’re a husband striving to grow, a wife longing to better understand your man, or a couple navigating the everyday weight of love, this conversation will resonate. It’s a reminder that marriage is not about arriving at perfection but about failing forward together, with grace, curiosity, and patience. Pull up a chair, you’re not just listening to a podcast, you’re sitting with family. Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/ FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets and other resources [S2] EPISODE 35: HUSBAND PREPARATION Marriage has a way of waking us up to realities we never imagined. Many of us stepped into it unprepared, thinking love and good intentions would be enough, only to collide with the weightiness of responsibility, our hidden wounds, and the expectations we never knew we carried. In this episode, four husbands sit down to have the kind of raw, unfiltered conversation every man needs: about the struggles we didn’t anticipate, the fears we never admitted, and the slow realisation that being a husband requires more than just showing up. We talk about the baggage we brought into marriage, fatherlessness, trauma, detachment, and the unspoken pressure to “just figure it out.” We open up about the moments that humbled us: when conflict revealed our lack of capacity, when our wives’ strength challenged our fragile egos, and when our unresolved past showed up in our homes. These are not polished stories; they are scars carried into manhood that still ache. But in the telling, there is healing. This is a podcast by husbands, for husbands. Not to give you a five-step formula, but to remind you that you are not alone in your confusion, your failures, or your longing to grow. We are men in process, imperfect, often overwhelmed, but committed to failing forward together. If you’ve ever wondered whether you’re the only one struggling, this conversation is for you. Pull up a chair, listen in, and let’s walk this journey of husbandhood side by side. Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/ #HusbandPodcast #marriagematters #husbandlife #realmenrealtalk #marriagepodcast #christianmarriage #marriagejourney #MenInMarriage #marriagestruggles #marriagehealing #faithfulhusbands #marriagegrowth #marriagereality #mensupportingmen #MarriageReflections #marriageconversations #menoffaith #MarriageAndFaith #MarriageCommunity #marriagechallenges #marriagehelp #Husbandhood #marriagesupport #marriagewisdom #failingforward

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets and other resources [S2] EPISODE 34: THE MAN IN THE MIRRIOR In this episode, we dive deep into one of the greatest battles men face: lust. But not in the way you might think. We go beyond the surface to uncover the hidden longings, unmet desires, and unresolved wounds that quietly shape how we live, love, and lead in our marriages. These aren’t just struggles with the flesh, they are echoes of deeper cravings for acceptance, power, validation, and freedom. And left unchecked, they can quietly sabotage the very relationships we long to protect. We get raw and real about the masks men wear, the silent wars we fight in our private thoughts, and the ways we often create illusions to escape unmet needs. Whether it’s the lust for validation that drives us to please people, the lust for power that makes us reckless with money, or the lust for freedom that tempts us to rebel against commitment, these inner battles demand courage, self-awareness, and honesty. This is not just about naming the problem but about learning to recognise where it comes from and how it shows up in our everyday choices as husbands. This conversation is not for perfect men, it’s for men like us who are wrestling, stumbling, and still choosing to fight for healthier marriages. If you’ve ever felt the weight of secret battles you couldn’t put into words, this episode will give you language, perspective, and hope. It’s a call to curiosity instead of judgment, to courage instead of denial, and to building marriages that are conscious, patient, and rooted in love. Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com   FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON...  TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast  INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/ #thathusbandpodcast #husbands #marriagepodcast #healthymarriages #manhoodmatters  #realtalkformen #LustAndMarriage #faithandmarriage #marriagewisdom #marriagegrowth  #husbandlife #marriagematters #marriagecounseling #AuthenticMarriage #menoffaith  #HusbandJourney #strongmarriages #marriagestruggles #marriagehelp  #marriageconversations #marriageandfaith #marriagehealing #marriagerestoration  #loveandmarriagehuntsville #buildingmarriage

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets and other resources [S2] EPISODE 33: COMMITMENT IS A DAILY CHOICE Marriage is more than a title, it’s a daily decision to show up, to love, and to choose each other through the highs and lows. In this episode of That Husband Podcast, we sit down with Una Rams, not just as the artist you know, but as a husband and father who opens up about the weight and wonder of love, responsibility, and choosing family. His story is not about perfection, but about the courage it takes to embrace vulnerability, to redefine strength, and to pursue love that is intentional and enduring. Together, we talk about the conscious decision to step into fatherhood, the raw reality of what safety looks like for men in marriage, and the power of walking alongside, not ahead or behind, your partner. From the magic and chaos of childbirth to the sacred responsibility of raising children, Una shares moments that shaped his journey and challenged him to love without the baggage of the past. This isn’t theory, it’s the real, unpolished beauty of marriage lived out in daily choices. What emerges is a picture of love that isn’t built on fairy tales, but on respect, faith, and resilience. This episode will challenge husbands to reimagine what it means to protect, to partner, and to grow together. It’s a conversation for every man who knows marriage isn’t about arriving perfect, but about failing forward, learning daily, and holding on to the hope that when we choose love, fully and freely, we choose life. #RealMenLove #HusbandPodcast #marriagetalks #marriagematters #husbandgoals #lovewithoutfear #marriagewisdom #LoveLikeAMan #LoveHerRight #marriagegodsway #marriagejourney #intentionallove #faithfullove #husbandswholead #husbandlife #MarriageCourage #strongmarriage #LoveBoldly #marriagestrength #HusbandWisdom

Visit www.thathusband.com for merch, event tickets and other resources [S2] EPISODE 31: GOD'S WORK vs GOD'S DAUGHTER Marriage isn’t just about love stories and Instagram moments, it’s about the daily choice to show up, sacrifice, and sometimes die to self for the sake of the one you vowed to cherish. In this episode, we sit down with Allan.P to talk about what husbandhood really looks like when the butterflies fade, the fights get real, and life throws both joy and hardship our way. His story reminds us that being a husband isn’t about perfection, it’s about persistence, humility, and faithfulness when it’s easier to walk away. From the early years of marriage to raising kids and navigating the pressures of work, dreams, and ministry, Allan.P opens up about the hidden battles husbands face, the pride, the fatigue, the temptation to drift, and the weight of responsibility. Yet woven through his story is a testimony of grace: a wife who fuels his ambition, a faith that reshapes his perspective, and a vision of marriage that sees “death to self” not as loss but as the soil where love and legacy grow. This conversation isn’t just for men who think they’ve figured it out, it’s for husbands still stumbling forward, husbands carrying unseen frustrations, and husbands who need to be reminded that they’re not alone. If you’ve ever wrestled with ego, with balance, with choosing your wife over your comfort, then this episode will speak to you. Because at the end of the day, being a husband is less about having it all together, and more about being willing to learn, to sacrifice, and to keep choosing love, day after day. #thathusbandpodcast #HusbandTalks #marriagematters #husbandlife #FaithfulHusbands #marriagegodsway #marriagejourney #HusbandAndWife #christianhusbands #realmarriage #marriagegrowth #marriagepodcast #HusbandsUnite #Husbandhood #marriagestruggles #marriagewisdom #HusbandsSupportHusbands #loveandmarriagehuntsville #HusbandEncouragement #MarriageSacrifice #healthymarriage #marriageinchrist #MarriageLegacy #dietoself #MarriageFaith