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It’s my 37th birthday today, and instead of talking about achievements or goals, I wanted to reflect on who I’ve become — what I’ve learned, what I’m still learning, and how each season has shaped me. Every year brings both a shedding and a deepening, and 37 feels like both. My 20s were about striving and searching for purpose, while my 30s have been about rooting, aligning, and choosing myself. With three years left in this decade, I want to soak them up and embrace what’s next with gratitude. In this episode, I’m sharing seven core lessons I’m taking into this new year: you can’t rush becoming; healing is about integration, not fixing; there’s power in small, faithful steps; purpose is discovered, not created; my body is a messenger, not an enemy; motherhood has been my greatest refining; and aging is a gift, not a curse. If you’re in your own season of becoming, my hope is that these reflections remind you to be where your feet are and trust that slow, unseen growth is still growth. Here’s to becoming — not the perfect version, but the present one. HOW TO CONNECT WITH ME: Find me on social media @chantelleenelson for more engaging and practical content on how to show up to your life! And don't forget to visit comealivelifecoaching.com for more information on my offers and coaching.

This week, I’m sharing from my heart about what I’ve come to call The Cave of Motherhood. When I first entered this cave, it felt dark and overwhelming—like I had lost myself. Motherhood can feel isolating, exhausting, and honestly, nothing like the “glowing” image we’re often sold. From sleep deprivation to mom guilt, from survival mode to endless days that all look the same—it can feel like you’re stuck in the shadows. But here’s what I’ve discovered: the cave isn’t just a place of loss. It’s also a place of transformation. In this hidden space, something in us shifts. Yes, parts of who we were die, but new parts are born. Our values, our identity, our love—everything gets reshaped here. And slowly, if we let it, the cave reveals its hidden beauty. There are sacred, unseen moments—rocking a baby at 2 a.m., watching little milestones, realizing growth is happening in the dark long before the fruit shows up. Now, I feel like I’m in the emerging stage. I’m rediscovering my creativity, my ambition, and myself—not just as a mom, but as a whole woman. The cave has been both the hardest and most beautiful place I’ve ever walked through, and I want you to know you’re not alone in it. Motherhood may feel like a cave, but it’s also the birthplace of transformation. Who you walk in as is not the same as who you walk out as. HOW TO CONNECT WITH ME: Find me on social media @chantelleenelson for more engaging and practical content on how to show up to your life! And don't forget to visit comealivelifecoaching.com for more information on my offers and coaching.

Have you ever felt a shift in your life and thought, ‘This doesn’t feel exciting… this just feels uncomfortable’? That’s where I’ve been, and I think a lot of us know what that in-between space feels like. Some seasons feel fun — new school years, dating, getting married, having babies. You know what’s coming, and there’s something to look forward to. But other seasons feel… murky. You can’t see the whole picture, and it feels a little unsettling. I’ve been looking at Abraham’s story in Genesis, and wow — talk about living in the unknown. He’s moving from place to place, not really knowing what’s next. God gives him wild promises and asks him to do things that feel impossible or even contradictory. And yet, Abraham chooses to trust and obey — and God blesses him in every way.  I think the most vulnerable place isn’t the old season or even the new one — it’s that awkward in-between. It’s like when you repot a plant. The most fragile moment is when the roots are dangling in the air between the two pots. That’s where trust in the Gardener really matters. And it’s often in those moments that old fears, anxieties, or coping patterns pop back up, tempting us to run back to what’s familiar. Hebrews 11 reminds us that faith is the evidence of what we can’t see yet. It’s not vague or fluffy — it’s real and solid. And it even says without faith, it’s impossible to please God. Which means the not-knowing isn’t failure — it’s actually part of the plan. So here's what we're unpacking today: What Abraham’s story teaches us about faith in the unknown Why the in-between can feel so vulnerable How old patterns show up when you’re stepping into something new What faith really is and why it matters in transition Maybe this is a reminder for you, like it is for me: if you feel shaky or uncertain, if you’re tempted to run back to old patterns, if you’re hanging in that uncomfortable middle space, this is your invitation to trust God. Faith isn’t about having it all figured out. It’s trusting that even here, dangling between the old and the new, God knows exactly what He’s doing. HOW TO CONNECT WITH ME: Find me on social media @chantelleenelson for more engaging and practical content on how to show up to your life! And don't forget to visit comealivelifecoaching.com for more information on my offers and coaching.

Have you ever felt angry and wondered why? In today’s episode of The Own It Podcast, I’m breaking down how unmet needs fuel anger and what you can do to get to the root of it. This is what we’re going after in this episode: Why anger shows up so often in everyday life — with kids, spouses, or even yourself The difference between primary emotions (fear, sadness, joy, etc.) and secondary emotions like anger How anger usually masks deeper feelings like fear, hurt, sadness, or shame The connection between anger and unmet needs Why your needs have to be about you, not about changing someone else A framework for understanding core human needs using the acronym SCRIPT: Safety + Security Connection + Belonging Rest, Recovery, Autonomy, Play Identity + Esteem Purpose + Significance To Be Seen, Known, Loved What happens when needs go unmet — anxiety, resentment, disconnection, even shutdown How to begin identifying and communicating your needs in a healthy way Why meeting your needs is trial and error, and how to stay curious in the process Anger isn’t the end of the story. It’s a signal pointing you to a deeper feeling and a real need. When you start naming those needs, you’ll find clarity, connection, and a way to thrive in every season and every relationship! HOW TO CONNECT WITH ME: Find me on social media @chantelleenelson for more engaging and practical content on how to show up to your life! And don't forget to visit comealivelifecoaching.com for more information on my offers and coaching.

Today I’m sharing PART 3 of my 3-part series on maturity. I'm talking about what it really means to grow in maturity—mentally, physically, emotionally, and spiritually. Maturity is what creates rich soil in our lives, where God can sow seeds that actually take root and bear lasting fruit. Jesus’ parable of the sower reminds us that shallow soil can’t sustain growth. If we stay immature—quick to anger, undisciplined, neglecting our quiet time with God—we simply won’t be able to handle the weight of promotion or blessing. God is a good Father, and He won’t give us more than our soil can hold. Unfortunately, there are so many things that can delay our development: unhealed trauma, lack of discipline, chronic stress, neglected emotional needs, fear of vulnerability, lack of self-awareness, unhealthy relationships, pride, and neglecting spiritual disciplines. I'm going to unpack each one, but wherever there is underdevelopment, immaturity will show up.  The truth is—cycles won’t break if we keep running to the same habits and comforts. But when we start exercising our will over our emotions, we build authority and maturity. We build trust with ourselves. And that’s when we position ourselves for breakthrough instead of staying stuck in the wilderness. It's time to grow up so you can step into the fullness of what God has for you! That's what we all want right?!  ✨ Final Reminder: The doors to Thrive Collective close TODAY! This is your last chance to join us for this semester. Go to www.comealivelifecoaching.com/thrive and use code THRIVETODAY at checkout to get your first month free. Enjoy the episode + I hope to see you inside Thrive!  

In part two of this series, I’m continuing the conversation on what it looks like to grow up in every area of our lives. A healthy, mature believer doesn’t just know about God—they live it out daily. Here are some indicators of maturity that I share in this episode: You live out the fruits of the Spirit—love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, gentleness, and self-control. God chose fruit because the longer you wait, the sweeter it gets. Maturity works the same way. You’re slow to anger. Immaturity lashes out quickly, but self-control holds steady. You’re thankful. Gratitude is the overflow of maturity and the gateway into God’s presence. You don’t hold grudges—you forgive, set boundaries, and move forward. You’re not easily offended. Instead of walls, you ask questions and pursue clarity. You treat your body as the temple of God—moving it, fueling it well, resting it. You know how to rest and Sabbath—protecting margin, ceasing work, and choosing play. You avoid excess—whether food, work, social media, or busyness. You have a quiet time—a sacred rhythm of connecting with God. You live obediently and faithfully, trusting God with your yes. You live in connection and community with others. You walk worthy of your calling—not someday, but today, in whatever season you’re in. This isn’t about perfection—it’s about growth. Each one of these is an invitation to keep maturing in Christ and living out His character in a deeper way. And if you’re ready to walk this out with other like-minded women, Thrive Collective is officially open! Our fall/winter semester theme is Deep Roots, Steady Growth: Building a Life That Flourishes in Every Season. Inside, you’ll find teaching, coaching, guest stories, and breakout rooms that will encourage and equip you in your season. 👉 Join us at www.comealivelifecoaching.com/thrive and use the code THRIVETODAY at checkout to get your first month free!

In this episode, I’m kicking off a brand-new series called It’s Time to Grow Up. Development—mentally, physically, emotionally, and spiritually—exists on a spectrum. Just like children hit benchmarks, we do too. And when we don’t, we feel the weight of that gap. I talk about what it means to mature in every area of life: Emotionally: learning to regulate emotions, show empathy, and process pain. Mentally: developing memory, focus, decision-making, and problem-solving. Physically: understanding and caring for our bodies as they change. Spiritually: knowing who God is, who we are to Him, and growing in disciplines of faith. The truth is, we can grow older without growing healthier or stronger in these areas—and that’s when life feels chaotic, out of control, or even painful. Paul reminds us in Hebrews 5 that some believers were still like babies needing milk, not ready for solid food. And in Ephesians 4, he calls us to “grow up in every way into Christ.” This isn’t about perfection—it’s about maturity. We all have areas where God is inviting us deeper, and we don’t have to carry shame about that. Instead, we get to lean into growth. In this series, I'm unpacking 20 indicators that describe an emotionally, mentally, physically, and spiritually healthy person! And if you want to walk this out with other women on the same journey, the doors to Thrive Collective are officially open! This semester we’re focusing on Deep Roots, Steady Growth: Building a Life That Flourishes in Every Season. You’ll get access to teaching, coaching, guest stories, and breakout rooms that will encourage and empower you in your season.  👉 Go to www.comealivelifecoaching.com/thrive and use the code THRIVETODAY at checkout to get your first month free.

In this episode of The Own It Podcast, I share what it’s been like to lean into a slower winter season—being present with my kids, pulling back from external opportunities, and learning to embrace the tension of saying no in order to say yes to what matters most. I talk about how God met me in spring and invited me into deeper rhythms of peace, how vulnerability has been both a challenge and a pillar in my life, and why I’m choosing to show up more authentically in this next season. You’ll also hear what’s ahead for me personally, for this podcast, and for Thrive Collective as we step into our new theme: Deep Roots, Steady Growth. STAY TUNED! HOW TO CONNECT WITH ME: Find me on social media @chantelleenelson for more engaging and practical content on how to show up to your life! And don't forget to visit comealivelifecoaching.com for more information on my offers and coaching. 

** Sign up for my Overcoming Overwhelm workshop on Tuesday June 24! Join us live online from 11am-1pm or watch the replay. Register for the 2-hour online workshop here. Use code WORKSHOP10 for $10 off! In this final episode before I take a summer break, I’m diving into a question so many of us wrestle with: How do you balance being a mom, a wife, and still pursue the dreams God has placed in your heart? It can feel impossible at times, but I’m sharing the rhythms, decisions, and spiritual anchors that have helped me navigate these roles with intention. From discerning seasons through the Word of God to practically mapping out our family calendar and making space for marriage, dreams, and parenting—I unpack how I’ve learned to honor the season I’m in without losing the fire for what’s ahead. This episode is a permission slip to live led by the Spirit, rooted in your values, and confident that with God, you can actually have everything your heart desires. EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS: What it means to live led by the written and rhema Word of God How obedience to God’s timing shapes the way I build my family and business The rhythms we’ve created in our home for balance and alignment (yearly planning, seasonal resets, date nights) Why I no longer strive to “do it all” in every season How my dreams have evolved and stayed alive, even when I’m not actively chasing them The importance of inviting our kids into the journey and living under spiritual covering What it looks like for our family to move as one unit rather than juggling three separate silos I hope you enjoy the episode and I hope you have an incredible rest of your summer and I’ll be back in the fall! HOW TO CONNECT WITH ME: Find me on social media @chantelleenelson for more engaging and practical content on how to show up to your life! And don't forget to visit comealivelifecoaching.com for more information on my offers and coaching.

If your to-do list feels never-ending and motivation is hard to find, this episode is for you. Today, we’re diving into real-life, grace-filled strategies to help you stay motivated when you’re overwhelmed, tired, or just over it. You’ll learn how to shift your mindset, simplify your routines, and work with your energy instead of against it. We talk about: The psychology behind motivation and how your upbringing, personality, and values shape it How to identify your why and use it as a compass for your daily choices The power of managing your energy, not just your time Anchoring small tasks to daily rhythms to make life feel lighter Creating an environment (or “ecosystem”) that helps you thrive What to do when you just don’t want to do the thing—cleaning, cooking, appointments, etc. How mindset and language shifts can unlock motivation in hard moments Whether you’re driven by outcomes, rewards, or rhythms, you’ll walk away with fresh perspective, practical tips, and permission to do it differently this season. Remember: less is more, and you don’t have to do it all. Let’s figure out what actually works for you. Sign up for my Overcoming Overwhelm workshop on Tuesday June 24! Join us live online from 11am-1pm or watch the replay. Register for the 2-hour online workshop here. Use code WORKSHOP10 for $10 off! HOW TO CONNECT WITH ME: Find me on social media @chantelleenelson for more engaging and practical content on how to show up to your life! And don't forget to visit comealivelifecoaching.com for more information on my offers and coaching.

A Window Into My Heart: Sacred Seasons This episode is a real window into the season I’ve been walking out the past few months. I’ve been a ghost on here because life has been so full, but I’m excited to share an update with you as we enter into the summer season. It’s my hope that you’ve feel inspired and encouraged in your walk with God as you say yes to Him in faith and obedience.  I experienced stunning provision from the Lord a few months ago that shook my internal beliefs to my core and I was left with an invitation on how I was going to approach my life from that point forward. I’ve been tearing down an altar of isolation and self-sufficiency and this is a season where these old altars HAVE. TO. GO. Happy listening! HOW TO CONNECT WITH ME: Sign up for my Overcoming Overwhelm workshop on Tuesday June 24! Join us live online from 11am-1pm or watch the replay. Register for the 2-hour online workshop here. Find me on social media @chantelleenelson for more engaging and practical content on how to show up to your life! And don't forget to visit comealivelifecoaching.com for more information on my offers and coaching. 

*Trigger Warning* In this episode, I talk about my past struggles with body image, disordered eating, and unhealthy weight control behaviors. Please take care of yourself while listening, and feel free to pause or skip this episode if it's not supportive for where you're at right now. This episode is deeply personal. Over the past few weeks, I’ve been asked a lot about my eating habits and healthy lifestyle. And to be honest, it caught me off guard—and in mulling over it the past few days, I realized how free I’ve become. I used to obsess over every bite, every pound, every number. And now? I live in peace with food and my body.  Today, I eat consciously—not restrictively. I listen to my body. I nourish it. I don’t punish it. And I think that kind of maturity and peace comes with time, grace, and a lot of honesty and intentional choosing of better choices.  If you’re in a stuck place—whether with food, your body, or anything else—don’t despise the small steps. You might not notice the shift until you look back and realize you’re free. This is the story of how I got here—from disordered eating to conscious, intuitive freedom. HOW TO CONNECT WITH ME: Find me on social media @chantelleenelson for more engaging and practical content on how to show up to your life! And don't forget to visit comealivelifecoaching.com for more information on my offers and coaching.

Welcome back to another Window Into My Heart episode—a space where I open up about what God is doing in me, what I’m sensing in the spirit, and what I believe He might be stirring in you too. These episodes are meant to give you a behind-the-scenes look into my walk with God, with the hope that it encourages you in your own. Lately, I’ve been sensing a shift. A season change. And I don’t just mean the natural signs of spring—we’re talking about something deeper, more spiritual. I keep coming back to this passage in Song of Songs 2, where it says: "The season has changed, the bondage of your barren winter has ended, and the season of hiding is over and gone..." It’s as if God is whispering, “Can you not perceive it?” There’s new life breaking forth all around us—spiritually, emotionally, and even practically. The signs of God’s purposes are beginning to bud and bloom. This is a time of awakening, of rising, of going to a higher place with Him. But even in the midst of this beautiful shift, there’s a warning: “It’s the foxes.” I had a dream recently about spiders—a picture that, for me, represents distractions. The Lord brought me back to Song of Songs 2:15, which talks about the little foxes that ruin the budding vineyard of love. These distractions might seem small, but they have the power to sabotage what God is trying to plant and grow in this new season. I believe we’re in a prophetic moment—a divine invitation to move forward. But the enemy would love to keep us in the comfort of the past, in what was familiar, even if that season was barren or dry. He wants to tether us to what was, so we miss what is being birthed. So here’s my encouragement: be aware of the distractions. Pay attention to the things trying to steal your focus, your time, your energy. This is the time for spring cleaning—in your heart, your rhythms, your relationships. What once served you may now be crowding the space God wants to fill with fresh vision and provision for the next season. Let’s not miss the shift because we’re clinging to what was. HOW TO CONNECT WITH ME: Find me on social media @chantelleenelson for more engaging and practical content on how to show up to your life! And don't forget to visit comealivelifecoaching.com for more information on my offers and coaching.

I’ve been asked this question twice this week: “What would you tell your 20-something self?” And I get why people ask. Those years are full of decisions, confusion, stretching, and becoming. Looking back, I can honestly say I’m proud of the life I’ve built—flawed, beautiful, and shaped deeply by grace. A lot of my growth came through my insecurities, fears, and missteps, but also through leaning into God’s presence and learning to trust His process over my own. So here’s what I’d say if I could sit across from my younger self over coffee: You’re exactly where you need to be. You don’t need to be further along. Stop chasing your imagined timeline and be present in your season. Everything you’re walking through is shaping you in ways you can’t yet see. Prioritize your secret place with God. Make space for stillness. Get used to quiet. Learn to be anchored in His presence now, not just when you’re desperate. That connection will carry you through more than you realize. Stop doing so much. Learn how to just be. You’ve gotten really good at performing and producing. But being—resting, receiving, slowing down—that’s where real transformation happens. Don’t wait until burnout to learn it. God will exceed your expectations. You can’t plan your way into the life God has for you. It’s going to be more than you can imagine—stretching, surprising, and better than what you would’ve written for yourself. Tell the truth. Silence might feel safer, but it will eat away at you over time. Say the hard things. Be honest—with yourself and with others. That’s where healing begins. Your dreams will come to life. Not always in the timeline or form you expect, but they’ll unfold—bit by bit, often through pain and process. Stay open to how they show up. Deal with the beliefs that are keeping you stuck. “I’m not enough.” “I don’t have what it takes.” “I am what I do.” These are lies that sound like truth. Start confronting them now so they don’t dictate your decisions later. Learn how to cook—and enjoy it. It’s not just about food. It’s about slowing down, nourishing yourself, and learning rhythms that bring peace. You’ll thank yourself later. Wear sunscreen. You’re not invincible. You don’t need to prove anything to the sun. Take care of your skin—it’s not superficial; it’s stewardship. Invest in your friendships. Not the convenient ones, the real ones. These people will become your support system when life gets heavy. Nurture those relationships now. They’ll be a safe place when you need one most. If I could sum it all up: You don’t need to have it all figured out. Just keep showing up, keep telling the truth, stay grounded in who God is, and trust that the story unfolding is far more meaningful than the one you’re trying to control. ✨ The doors to Thrive close TODAY – and won’t open till FALL. Thrive is my online membership community for women who are ready to stop surviving and start becoming. Use the code THRIVETODAY to get your first month completely free. Join us at: www.comealivelifecoaching.com/thrive

In this episode, we dive into the difference between purpose and significance, and how getting the equation wrong can keep us feeling stuck. I share my own journey of discovering my purpose and how I realized that, instead of focusing on doing more to get to where I wanted to go, I needed to first be who I was created to be. This episode is about learning how to align with your true purpose so you can move forward in your destiny with confidence.   EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS: Purpose vs. Significance: Purpose is the reason why something exists or is done—it's something that's inside of you, waiting to be discovered. Significance refers to the importance or value of something—often, we confuse this with purpose, chasing success and external validation instead of realizing that purpose is already within us. The Backwards Equation: When I first started pursuing my purpose, I was focused on doing everything to get to where I thought I should be. Social media, growing followers, chasing success—I thought it would lead me to the purpose God had for me. The key realization: Instead of trying to “get there,” the focus should be on being who you really are. When you lean into your true self, you'll naturally get to where you're meant to go. Be Who You’re Made to Be: It’s about doing what you’re made to do—whether it’s connecting with others, leaning into hard moments, experiencing joy, or simply being faithful in the season you’re in. As you be who you are and do what you’re made to do, you'll become who you're called to be. It’s a process of growth and alignment. Purpose Is Inside You: We often think purpose is something external, something we have to chase, but it's already inside us. God has placed it there for us to discover. We spend so much time hustling for significance that we forget purpose isn’t something we need to perform for—it’s already part of who we are. The takeaway? Your purpose is already inside of you. Stop chasing external markers of success and significance. Lean into who you were made to be, and the rest will follow. HOW TO CONNECT WITH ME: Find me on social media @chantelleenelson for more engaging and practical content on how to show up to your life! And don't forget to visit comealivelifecoaching.com for more information on my offers and coaching. 

In today’s special bonus episode, I’m talking about something that so many of us wrestle with: why we stay stuck, even when we deeply want to grow.  If you’ve ever felt like you’re doing all the “right” things but still can’t seem to move forward, you’re not alone. In this episode, I unpack ten of the most common reasons we get stuck—and what it actually takes to start moving again. We’re talking about things like limiting beliefs, mental overload, nervous system patterns, and the subtle self-sabotage that keeps us circling the same mountains. Here’s what might be holding you back:  – You’re carrying old limiting beliefs like “I’m not good enough” or “This is just how I am.” – You feel overwhelmed by mental overload, decision fatigue, or analysis paralysis. – Your nervous system is wired for survival, keeping you in fight, flight, or freeze mode. – You haven’t been taught how to recognize or meet your real emotional needs. – There’s unprocessed pain from rejection, betrayal, or childhood wounds. – You fear being seen, judged, or misunderstood, so you self-sabotage to stay safe. – You’re still attached to patterns or relationships that feel familiar—even if they aren’t healthy. – Shame or low self-worth whispers that you don’t deserve more. – You’re stuck in comfort habits—scrolling, overconsuming, avoiding—because change feels too hard. Lastly, inside this episode, I share a powerful framework for getting UNSTUCK: UNCOVER – becoming aware of the deeper roots of your stuckness, like past pain, identity confusion, or survival patterns. DISCOVER – learning the truth about who you are, how God sees you, and what’s actually possible when you show up differently. BECOME – walking out healing and wholeness in real life, with confidence, intention, and purpose. ✨ The doors to Thrive are officially open today. Thrive is my online membership community for women who are ready to stop surviving and start becoming. Use the code THRIVETODAY to get your first month completely free. Join us at: www.comealivelifecoaching.com/thrive

Today’s episode is a special one—because I’m joined by my husband, Donta Nelson, for a rich, real conversation about creativity, healing, and what it means to live fully alive in what you were put on this earth to do.  As we prepare for Donta to co-teach inside Thrive this summer, we wanted to give you a glimpse into the heart behind what he carries—and why creativity isn’t just a gift for artists, but something every single one of us is wired for. In this episode, we talk about: - How creativity is connected to identity and wholeness - The myth of “I’m not creative” and how it keeps us stuck - How we move from creative inspiration to action on our dreams - How creating and expressing from wholeness moves you from doing to BEING …and soooo much more! This conversation is more than just a peek behind the scenes. It’s an invitation to begin reclaiming the parts of you that have gone quiet or the dreams you’ve been too afraid to act on and to being to imagine again and create from wholeness and fullness! ✨ And guess what? Doors to Thrive are officially OPEN today. If this conversation stirred something in you, if you’re tired of just surviving and ready to start showing up in your life with intention and wholeness—now’s the time. Join us this summer as we go deeper into the connection between healing, creativity, and becoming who you were created to be. Head to www.comealivelifecoaching.com/thrive and use the code THRIVETODAY to get your first month free. We can’t wait to walk with you. HOW TO CONNECT WITH ME: Find me on social media @chantelleenelson for more engaging and practical content on how to show up to your life! And don't forget to visit comealivelifecoaching.com for more information on my offers and coaching. If you’re interested in joining Thrive, the doors are OPEN so you can join by heading to www.comealivelifecoaching.com/thrive. Use the code THRIVETODAY and get your first month completely free!

In this episode, we dive into a powerful topic that many of us can relate to: feeling stuck in cycles that we can't seem to break, no matter how hard we try. I know the struggle—doing all the right things, like praying, changing habits, and seeking help, yet still feeling trapped. But what if it's deeper than just habits? What if there are invisible altars—false comforts or agreements—that are holding us back? EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS: What Are Demonic Altars?: A demonic altar is any place in your life—physically, emotionally, or spiritually—where you’ve made an agreement with something other than God. It becomes a place of sacrifice, worship, or covenant, even unintentionally. Altars Aren’t Gone, They’ve Changed: In the Old Testament, altars were physical. Today, they take on the form of habits, mindsets, addictions, or idols that we place in our hearts. Why Altars Keep You Stuck: Spiritual Legal Rights: Demonic altars give the enemy access to parts of your life until they are renounced and torn down. Cyclic Patterns: We revisit the same struggles (addiction, fear, poverty) until the altar is destroyed. False Comfort Zones: Altars offer temporary comfort but long-term bondage, like food, alcohol, or self-sufficiency. Unconscious Agreements: Altars can be inherited from family, culture, or trauma, keeping you stuck in generational cycles. How to Tear Down the Altars: Awareness and Identification: Recognize where you're repeating cycles and running back to old altars. Repentance and Renouncement: Confess any agreements with lies or false comfort, and break them in the name of Jesus. Tear Down and Replace: Dismantle the altars spiritually and symbolically, and rebuild with truth through worship, prayer, and obedience. It's not just about tearing down altars; it's about staying aligned with God's truth. Daily invite the Holy Spirit into areas where false comfort once lived and rebuild your relationship with God through worship and truth. HOW TO CONNECT WITH ME: Find me on social media @chantelleenelson for more engaging and practical content on how to show up to your life! And don't forget to visit comealivelifecoaching.com for more information on my offers and coaching.

In this episode, we’re diving into the topic of boundaries—how to set them without guilt, what to do when someone doesn’t respect them, and why they’re essential for protecting our emotional, mental, and relational well-being. Boundaries aren’t about shutting people out; they’re about creating the safety needed for deeper, healthier connections. Boundaries protect what you value. They help define what’s okay and what’s not okay in different relationships. Some examples: Not discussing certain personal topics with your boss. Choosing who you process emotional pain with. Not allowing toxic family members into your inner circle. In this episode, i unpack common misconceptions about boundaries, questions that come up about boundaries, and how to set them in a healthy way.  Proverbs 25:28 says, “Like a city whose walls are broken down is a person who lacks self-control.” Boundaries are like city walls—they protect what is valuable inside. Without them, everything that comes our way has full access, and we’re left exhausted, overextended, and maybe even resentful. The older I’ve gotten (and the fuller my life has become), the more I’ve realized: I need boundaries. Boundaries aren’t about pushing people away. They’re about protecting what you value the most and what God has asked you to steward in this season! HOW TO CONNECT WITH ME: Find me on social media @chantelleenelson for more engaging and practical content on how to show up to your life! And don't forget to visit comealivelifecoaching.com for more information on my offers and coaching. 

There’s a real tension we feel as women—How do I walk out God’s call when my season doesn’t match my dreams? When I first got married, God told me, “Do what’s in front of you, and I’ll take care of the rest.” So, I did. I faced insecurity and codependency, went to therapy, let go of my performance-based identity, and redefined success. I learned that thriving starts with stewarding what’s right in front of me, even when it feels small. Many of us are grateful that God brought us out of Egypt, but we hesitate to step into the Promised Land. The biggest battle is often in our beliefs—rewiring the survival mindset and daring to trust God for more. Stewardship is faithfulness in the present, even when we don’t see the full picture. EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS: - Your YES to God holds every season – You can’t step outside His will unless you say no. - The S.E.A.S.O.N. Framework helps us navigate seasons: S – Say YES to where God has you. E – Embrace the Assignment. A – Align Priorities. S – Steward Resources well. O – Own the Grace for now. N – Nurture what’s in front of you. - Scriptures to Anchor You Philippians 1:6 – God will finish what He started. John 10:10 – Jesus gives life—abundant, overflowing life. Psalm 119:105 – God’s Word lights the path. Your calling isn’t tied to a perfect set of circumstances—it’s tied to your obedience. Steward this season well, and trust that God is leading you exactly where you need to go. HOW TO CONNECT WITH ME: Find me on social media @chantelleenelson for more engaging and practical content on how to show up to your life! And don't forget to visit comealivelifecoaching.com for more information on my offers and coaching.