The Adoption Roadmap Podcast

In this episode of the Adoption Roadmap Podcast, host, Rebecca Gruenspan and guest, Jennifer Morovic discuss the complexities and evolution of adoption profiles, emphasizing the importance of authenticity and emotional connection in the profile creation process. They explore the frustrations many hopeful adoptive parents face when creating their profiles, the significance of quality photography, and the necessity of showcasing diversity in adoption profiles. Important LinksRG Adoption Consulting• Website → https://rgadoptionconsulting.com• Book a 30-Minute Consult → https://rgadoptionconsulting.com/contact• Our Chosen Child - Use code ROADMAP for $100 off the Social Media Plan + Post Program.→ https://ourchosenchild.comChapters00:00 The Evolution of Adoption Profiles04:30 Understanding the Frustration of Profile Creation12:34 The Process of Creating an Adoption Profile25:49 The Importance of Quality Photos38:51 Diversity in Adoption ProfilesTune in to The Adoption Roadmap Podcast every Wednesday. If you like what you hear, I'd appreciate a follow and 5-star rating & review! THANK YOU!For questions about adoption, episode suggestions or to appear as a guest on The Adoption Roadmap Podcast, email⁠⁠⁠⁠ support@rgadoptionconsulting.com⁠⁠⁠

In this episode of the Adoption Roadmap podcast, Michelle Madrid discusses the complexities of adoption, focusing on identity, the significance of names, and the emotional challenges faced by adoptees. She emphasizes the importance of openness in conversations about adoption, the pain points that adoptees experience, and the need for adoptive parents to create a safe space for their children to explore their identities. The discussion also touches on the concept of ambiguous loss and the importance of recognizing and addressing the grief that comes with adoption. In this conversation, the speakers explore the complexities of adoption, including the emotional challenges faced by adoptees, the importance of openness in adoptive families, and the healing journey that comes with understanding one's identity. They discuss the intersections of adoption-related grief and other family traumas, the significance of using metaphors like quilts to describe family dynamics, and the resources available for both adoptees and adoptive parents. The dialogue emphasizes the need for compassion, understanding, and the transformative power of forgiveness in the adoption experience.Important LinksRG Adoption Consulting• Website → https://rgadoptionconsulting.com• Book a 30-Minute Consult → https://rgadoptionconsulting.com/contactOur Chosen Child• Use code ROADMAP for $100 off the Social Media Plan + Post Program.→ https://ourchosenchild.comMichelle Madrid• Website → https://themichellemadrid.com/• ⁠Instagram⁠• Unboxed, Unburdened, Unstoppable Podcast→ https://themichellemadrid.com/podcast• Book: "Let Us Be Greater" → https://themichellemadrid.com/bookChapters00:00 Navigating Adoption and Identity02:53 The Importance of Names in Adoption06:12 Understanding the Adoptee's Perspective09:04 Pain Points of Adoptees12:11 The Journey of Trust and Self-Acceptance15:05 The Role of Openness in Adoption17:54 Ambiguous Loss and Grief in Adoption26:44 Listening to the Wind: Embracing Adoption Stories27:58 Intersections of Grief: Adoption and Family Trauma35:42 The Journey of Adoption: From Pain to Healing38:05 The Quilt Metaphor: Redefining Family for Adoptees41:16 Finding Your Voice: Resources and Support for Adoptees44:54 Advice for Adoptive Parents: Openness and UnderstandingTune in to The Adoption Roadmap Podcast every Wednesday. If you like what you hear, I'd appreciate a follow and 5-star rating & review! THANK YOU!For questions about adoption, episode suggestions or to appear as a guest on The Adoption Roadmap Podcast, email⁠⁠⁠⁠ support@rgadoptionconsulting.com⁠⁠⁠

In this episode of the Adoption Roadmap Podcast, guest Michelle Madrid delves into the complexities of identity, healing, and acceptance in the adoption journey. Michelle shares her personal experiences as an international adoptee and the importance of reconnecting with one's 'first me.' The conversation explores various healing modalities, the significance of supporting adoptees in their journeys, and the impact of reunion with birth families. Michelle emphasizes the importance of embracing ancestral connections and the ongoing journey of self-discovery and acceptance.Important LinksRG Adoption Consulting• Website → https://rgadoptionconsulting.com• Book a 30-Minute Consult → https://rgadoptionconsulting.com/contactOur Chosen Child• Use code ROADMAP for $100 off the Social Media Plan + Post Program.→ https://ourchosenchild.comMichelle Madrid• Website → https://themichellemadrid.com/• Instagram• Unboxed, Unburdened, Unstoppable Podcast→ https://themichellemadrid.com/podcast• Book: "Let Us Be Greater" → https://themichellemadrid.com/bookChapters00:00 Navigating Identity and Acceptance09:11 Reconnecting with the First Me14:34 Exploring Healing Modalities22:12 Supporting Adoptees in Their Journey27:01 The Impact of Reunion and Healing39:05 Embracing Ancestral ConnectionsTune in to The Adoption Roadmap Podcast every Wednesday. If you like what you hear, I'd appreciate a follow and 5-star rating & review! THANK YOU!For questions about adoption, episode suggestions or to appear as a guest on The Adoption Roadmap Podcast, email⁠⁠⁠⁠ support@rgadoptionconsulting.com⁠⁠⁠

In this episode, Dr. Max Weinberg discusses the seven core issues of adoption and their impact on children in school settings. He emphasizes the importance of creating adoption-affirming classrooms and the role of teachers in fostering a sense of belonging for adopted children. The conversation also touches on the challenges of disclosure and advocacy for parents navigating the school system, highlighting the need for supportive relationships between families and educators. In this conversation, the speakers explore the multifaceted experience of adoption, emphasizing the importance of community support, the joys and challenges of parenting through adoption, and the need for trauma-informed education in schools. They discuss the significance of building connections within communities, the surprising joys that come from parenting adopted children, and the complexities of navigating trauma in educational settings. The conversation also highlights the domains of belonging for adopted children and offers valuable advice for adoptive parents, ultimately framing adoption as a journey filled with love, resilience, and growth.Important LinksRG Adoption Consulting → https://rgadoptionconsulting.comBook a 30-Minute Call with our an Adoptive Parent on our Team → https://rgadoptionconsulting.com/contactSolace Gift Boxes→ https://adoptsolace.comDr. Max Weinberg→ Belonging Education → https://www.belonging.education/→ IG → https://www.instagram.com/belongingeducation/→ ⁠Strengthening School Belongingness for Adopted/Looked After StudentsChapters00:00 Understanding the Seven Core Issues of Adoption07:57 Creating Adoption-Affirming Classrooms18:01 Navigating Disclosure and Advocacy in Schools24:37 Building Community Support for Adoptive Families27:44 The Surprising Joys of Parenting Through Adoption30:45 Navigating Trauma-Informed Education34:42 Domains of School Belonging for Adopted Children40:09 Advice for Adoptive Parents45:20 The Complexity and Privilege of AdoptionTune in to The Adoption Roadmap Podcast every Wednesday. If you like what you hear, I'd appreciate a follow and 5-star rating & review! THANK YOU!For questions about adoption, episode suggestions or to appear as a guest on The Adoption Roadmap Podcast, email⁠⁠⁠⁠support@rgadoptionconsulting.com⁠⁠⁠

In this episode of the Adoption Roadmap Podcast, Dr. Max Weinberg discusses the importance of belonging in educational settings, particularly for adopted children. He shares insights from his personal experiences as a white father raising Black children and emphasizes the need for inclusive, trauma-informed classrooms. The conversation explores the challenges faced by students who feel marginalized and the role of educators in fostering a sense of community and care. Dr. Weinberg advocates for a shift in educational practices to better support diverse learners and highlights the significance of building relationships between students and teachers.Important LinksRG Adoption Consulting → https://rgadoptionconsulting.comBook a 30-Minute Call with our an Adoptive Parent on our Team → https://rgadoptionconsulting.com/contactSweet Peach Tree→ https://sweetpeachtree.com — use code ROADMAP10 for 10% offDr. Max Weinberg→ Belonging Education → https://www.belonging.education/→ IG → https://www.instagram.com/belongingeducation/→ Strengthening School Belongingness for Adopted/Looked After StudentsChapters00:00 Introduction to Dr. Max Weinberg and His Work03:50 Understanding Belonging in Education08:05 The Importance of Welcoming Environments10:05 Creating a Community of Care15:17 In Loco Parentis: The Role of Educators22:21 Personal Experiences Shaping Perspectives on Equity28:50 The Complexity of Homework and Relationships31:09 Understanding Learning Differences in Adopted Children39:41 Building Student Agency and Connection to the WorldTune in to The Adoption Roadmap Podcast every Wednesday. If you like what you hear, I'd appreciate a follow and 5-star rating & review! THANK YOU!For questions about adoption, episode suggestions or to appear as a guest on The Adoption Roadmap Podcast, email⁠⁠⁠⁠support@rgadoptionconsulting.com⁠⁠⁠

In this episode of the Adoption Roadmap Podcast, the Rebecca Gruenspan and Birth Mother, Sydney Curtin delve into the complexities of adoption, addressing common myths and emotional realities faced by both adoptive and birth parents. They discuss the importance of open communication, the emotional impact of adoption on children, and the need for clear agreements in open adoption scenarios. The conversation emphasizes the necessity of understanding the emotional and psychological aspects of adoption, as well as preparing for unexpected situations that may arise. Important LinksRG Adoption Consulting• Website → https://rgadoptionconsulting.com• Book a 30-Minute Consult → https://rgadoptionconsulting.com/contactSydney Curtin• Website → https://www.coachcurtin.com/• Instagram• Our Chosen Child - Use code ROADMAP for $100 off the Social Media Plan + Post Program.→ https://ourchosenchild.comChapters00:00 Introduction to Adoption Roadmap Podcast01:17 Understanding Adoption Myths and Realities03:49 The Emotional Impact of Adoption on Children07:18 Navigating Open Adoption Agreements11:36 The Importance of Communication in Adoption17:22 Preparing for Unexpected Scenarios in Adoption18:47 Navigating Open Communication in Adoption21:14 The Impact of Adoption on Identity25:32 Coaching Women Through Trauma28:33 Radical Acceptance in Adoption32:26 Advice for Birth Moms Considering Adoption33:58 Courageous Considerations: A Resource for AdoptionTune in to The Adoption Roadmap Podcast every Wednesday. If you like what you hear, I'd appreciate a follow and 5-star rating & review! THANK YOU!For questions about adoption, episode suggestions or to appear as a guest on The Adoption Roadmap Podcast, email⁠⁠⁠⁠ support@rgadoptionconsulting.com⁠⁠⁠

In this episode of The Adoption Roadmap Podcast, Rebecca Gruenspan—adoptive parent, consultant, and founder of RG Adoption Consulting—sits down with Sydney Curtin, a birth mother, life coach, speaker, and author of Courageous Considerations: A Guide to Open Adoption, for a raw and deeply honest conversation.In Part 1, Sydney shares her personal adoption story—one marked by coercion, broken promises, and profound loss. After placing her daughter into what was promised to be an open adoption, Sydney describes how contact slowly diminished, boundaries were repeatedly shifted, and eventually her daughter was moved overseas, dramatically limiting their relationship. Through her lived experience, Sydney sheds light on how power imbalances, lack of informed consent, and unsupported openness agreements can leave birth mothers—and children—bearing long-term emotional consequences.This first part centers on the human cost of adoption when integrity breaks down. Sydney’s story challenges listeners to reconsider what openness truly requires, how promises in adoption impact a child’s identity, and why adoption must be approached as a lifelong relationship rather than a transaction. Part 1 invites hopeful and adoptive parents alike to sit with discomfort, listen closely, and reflect on the responsibility that comes with saying “yes” to adoption.Important LinksRG Adoption Consulting• Website → https://rgadoptionconsulting.com• Book a 30-Minute Consult → https://rgadoptionconsulting.com/contactSydney Curtin• Website → https://www.coachcurtin.com/• Instagram • Solace Gift Boxes → AdoptSolace.comChapters00:00 – Sponsor Message01:55 – Episode Introduction02:10 – “This Isn’t About Intention, It’s About Integrity”03:08 – Coercion and Family Pressure04:57 – What She Asked for in an Open Adoption06:36 – Being Told She Was Asking Too Much08:30 – What the Open Adoption Agreement Actually Said09:44 – The Adoption Was Finalized Without Her10:58 – Her Daughter Was Moved to France12:15 – Openness Reduced and Mediation Requested14:30 – The Agreement Is Nullified15:40 – Adoption Compared to a Marriage16:24 – Profit, Power, and the Role of Agencies17:04 – Post-Placement Support and Counseling18:29 – Legal Rights and PACA Agreements20:38 – When the Relationship Began to Break Down22:10 – Losing Her Daughter More Than Once23:45 – How She Survived the Early Days After Placement25:56 – A Birthday Call That Changed Everything26:45 – The Impact on Siblings27:30 – End of Part 1 / Tease for Part 2Tune in to The Adoption Roadmap Podcast every Wednesday. If you like what you hear, I'd appreciate a follow and 5-star rating & review! THANK YOU!For questions about adoption, episode suggestions or to appear as a guest on The Adoption Roadmap Podcast, email⁠⁠⁠⁠ support@rgadoptionconsulting.com⁠⁠⁠

In this episode of the Adoption Roadmap Podcast, adoption attorney Genie Gillespie discusses critical aspects of the adoption process, including the importance of putative father registries, the necessity of legal representation, navigating birth mother expenses, and identifying red flags in independent matches. The conversation emphasizes the need for adoptive parents to be informed and proactive in their journey, ensuring they understand their rights and responsibilities while securing the best outcomes for all parties involved. In this conversation, the speakers delve into the complexities of adoption, focusing on the financial aspects related to birth parent expenses, the legalities involved in the adoption process, and the critical role of attorneys. They also discuss the importance of understanding legislative changes that could impact adoption, particularly the adoption tax credit, and offer valuable advice for prospective adoptive parents, emphasizing patience and transparency in the adoption journey.Important LinksRG Adoption Consulting• Website → https://rgadoptionconsulting.com• Book a 30-Minute Consult → https://rgadoptionconsulting.com/contactGenie Miller Gillespie, Esq.• Website → https://illinoisadoptionlawyer.com/Academy of Adoption & Assisted Reproduction Attorneys (AAAA / Quad A)• Website → https://adoptionart.orgOur Chosen Child - Use code ROADMAP for $100 off the Social Media Plan + Post Program.→ https://ourchosenchild.comChapters00:00 Understanding Putative Father Registries07:30 The Role of Attorneys in Adoption15:32 Navigating Birth Mother Expenses23:50 Red Flags in Independent Matches23:55 Navigating Birth Parent Expenses26:02 Understanding Adoption Legalities29:04 The Role of Attorneys in Adoption33:52 Legislative Changes Impacting Adoption37:51 Advice for Adoptive ParentsTune in to The Adoption Roadmap Podcast every Wednesday. If you like what you hear, I'd appreciate a follow and 5-star rating & review! THANK YOU!For questions about adoption, episode suggestions or to appear as a guest on The Adoption Roadmap Podcast, email⁠⁠⁠⁠support@rgadoptionconsulting.com⁠⁠⁠

In this episode of The Adoption Roadmap Podcast, Rebecca Gruenspan sits down with Genie Miller Gillespie, one of the most respected adoption attorneys in the country, for a clear, grounded conversation about the legal realities of adoption—without the fear-mongering.With more than 30 years of experience in adoption, guardianship, and reproductive law, Genie breaks down what hopeful adoptive parents actually need to know about openness, contested adoptions, and legal risk. Together, Rebecca and Jeannie unpack common myths fueled by “Lifetime movie” narratives and replace them with real-world context, clarity, and reassurance.Important LinksSolace Gift Boxes → https://adoptsolace.comRG Adoption Consulting• Website → https://rgadoptionconsulting.com• Book a 30-Minute Consult → https://rgadoptionconsulting.com/contactGenie Miller Gillespie, Esq.• Website → https://illinoisadoptionlawyer.com/Academy of Adoption & Assisted Reproduction Attorneys (AAAA / Quad A)• Website → https://adoptionart.orgChapters00:00 Navigating the Adoption Landscape02:35 The Evolution of Openness in Adoption06:03 Understanding Legal Risks in Adoption15:53 The Complexities of Fatherhood in Adoption21:33 Defining Legal Relationships in AdoptionTune in to The Adoption Roadmap Podcast every Wednesday. If you like what you hear, I'd appreciate a follow and 5-star rating & review! THANK YOU!For questions about adoption, episode suggestions or to appear as a guest on The Adoption Roadmap Podcast, email⁠⁠⁠⁠support@rgadoptionconsulting.com⁠⁠⁠

In this episode of the Adoption Roadmap Podcast, Leah Outten and Raquel McCloud share their profound experiences as birth mothers, discussing the emotional complexities of adoption, resilience, and the impact of their viral reunion video. They explore themes of personal growth, the challenges of navigating open adoption, and the importance of being a safe space for their children. The conversation delves into the intricacies of family dynamics, the significance of identity, and the journey of breaking generational cycles. In this conversation, the speakers delve into the complexities of adoption, focusing on the relationships between birth mothers, adoptive parents, and children. They discuss the importance of open communication, the need for education about birth mothers, and the impact of trauma on children. The speakers also highlight the significance of storytelling in the adoption journey and introduce the Ampersand Initiative, which aims to build community and resilience among those affected by adoption.Important LinksOur Chosen Child - Use code ROADMAP for $100 off the Social Media Plan + Post Program.→ https://ourchosenchild.comRG Adoption Consulting• Website → https://rgadoptionconsulting.com• Book a 30-Minute Consult → https://rgadoptionconsulting.com/contactThe Ampersand Initiative• Website → https://theampersandinitiative.org• Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/theampersandinitiativeRaquel McCloud• Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/mccloudlife/?__pwa=1Leah Outten• Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/leahoutten/?__pwa=1Chapters00:00 Resilience Through Pain06:22 Breaking Cycles and Thriving11:31 The Impact of Viral Moments16:48 Navigating Open Adoption Dynamics23:30 The Complexities of Reunion and Parenting31:37 Navigating College Transitions and Relationships34:05 Understanding Birth Mothers: Misconceptions and Realities40:03 Supporting Children Through Trauma42:34 The Power of Storytelling in Adoption46:47 The Ampersand Initiative: Building Community and ResilienceTune in to The Adoption Roadmap Podcast every Wednesday. If you like what you hear, I'd appreciate a follow and 5-star rating & review! THANK YOU!For questions about adoption, episode suggestions or to appear as a guest on The Adoption Roadmap Podcast, email⁠⁠⁠⁠support@rgadoptionconsulting.com⁠⁠⁠

In this episode of the Adoption Roadmap Podcast, Guests Leah Outten and Raquel McCloud share their deeply personal stories as birth mothers navigating the complexities of adoption. They discuss their unique experiences, the challenges they faced, and the support systems that helped them through their journeys. The conversation highlights the importance of resilience, the impact of isolation, and the role of adoption agencies in shaping their paths. Leah and Raquel also emphasize the need for open communication and understanding in the adoption process, advocating for the voices of birth mothers to be heard and respected.Important LinksOur Chosen Child - Use code ROADMAP for $100 off the Social Media Plan + Post Program.→ https://ourchosenchild.comRG Adoption Consulting• Website → https://rgadoptionconsulting.com• Book a 30-Minute Consult → https://rgadoptionconsulting.com/contactThe Ampersand Initiative• Website → https://theampersandinitiative.org• Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/theampersandinitiativeRaquel McCloud• Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/mccloudlife/?__pwa=1Leah Outten• Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/leahoutten/?__pwa=1Chapters00:00 Introduction to the Adoption Journey03:09 Personal Stories of Resilience05:59 Navigating Adoption Decisions09:02 Support Systems in Adoption12:01 The Impact of Isolation14:59 Emancipation and Independence17:47 The Role of Agencies in Adoption21:13 Resilience Born from Pain24:13 Conclusion and Teaser for Next EpisodeTune in to The Adoption Roadmap Podcast every Wednesday. If you like what you hear, I'd appreciate a follow and 5-star rating & review! THANK YOU!For questions about adoption, episode suggestions or to appear as a guest on The Adoption Roadmap Podcast, email⁠⁠⁠⁠support@rgadoptionconsulting.com⁠⁠⁠

In this unforgettable conversation, former NFL superstar Ricky Watters—Super Bowl champion, five-time Pro Bowler, and one of the most versatile running backs in football history—opens up about the story most people don’t know: his journey as an adoptee and now as an adoptive father.Ricky shares how he accidentally learned he was adopted at age 10, the confusion and hurt that followed, and the sense of belonging he struggled to piece together as a child. He talks about the moments he wishes someone had spoken directly to his younger self—words he now pours into his son Shane with intention, honesty, and unconditional love.Together, Ricky and Rebecca explore how raising his son through interracial and international adoption helped him heal parts of his own identity story, and how transparency, openness, and affirmation became non-negotiables in his home. Ricky also reflects on the moment he met his biological family, the creative passions he inherited from them, and how rediscovering his roots helped complete the puzzle of who he is today.Important Links🔗 Important LinksRG Adoption Consultinghttps://rgadoptionconsulting.comBook a 30-Minute Consult with Rebeccahttps://rgadoptionconsulting.com/contactOfficial Site → https://rickywatters.comAbout Ricky WattersInstagram → https://www.instagram.com/rickywatters/?hl=enA Gift Called Shane (children’s book) →⁠ https://www.amazon.com/Gift-Called-Shane-Ricky-Watters/dp/1965438008Chapters00:00 Introduction to Adoption Challenges02:55 Ricky Waters: A Journey of Identity and Healing07:04 Navigating Adoption: Ricky's Experience and Lessons10:35 Raising Shane: Healing Through Fatherhood15:57 The Gift Called Shane: A Children's Book on Adoption20:09 Cultural Identity and Family Dynamics23:21 Advice for Adoptive Parents26:32 Conclusion: The Ultimate Love of AdoptionTune in to The Adoption Roadmap Podcast every Wednesday. If you like what you hear, I'd appreciate a follow and 5-star rating & review! THANK YOU!For questions about adoption, episode suggestions or to appear as a guest on The Adoption Roadmap Podcast, email⁠⁠⁠⁠support@rgadoptionconsulting.com⁠⁠⁠

In this powerful continuation of their conversation, Connie Going goes even deeper into what it really means to pursue ethical, child-centered adoption. She talks about why hopeful adoptive parents must process their own trauma before stepping into adoption, the danger of trying to be the “perfect” Facebook family, and how truly loving a child means also honoring and supporting their birth parents. Connie breaks down creative, attachment-focused parenting strategies (including why traditional discipline and “cry it out” can backfire for kids with trauma), and shares real-life stories from older child adoption, foster care, and reunions with birth families. She also unpacks intervention cases in Florida, federal and state subsidies, and how race and funding impact private and foster adoption. Throughout, Connie returns again and again to the same core message: build your toolbox, stay flexible, care for your own nervous system, and keep the child’s story—and their connections—at the center of every decision.🔗 Important LinksRG Adoption Consulting→ https://rgadoptionconsulting.comBook a 30-Minute Consult with Rebecca→ https://rgadoptionconsulting.com/contactLearn More About Connie Going→ https://conniegoing.com/Heart Gallery of Pinellas & Pasco→ https://gulfcoastjfcs.org/heart-gallery-kids/Sweet Peach Tree→ https://sweetpeachtree.com — use code ROADMAP10 for 10% offChapters00:00 Sponsor + Part 1 Recap01:40 Why You Must Process Your Own Trauma Before Adopting04:10 The Myth of the “Perfect” Home Study & Facebook Families06:05 Loving Birth Moms Through the Fire, Not Just With Resources08:20 Florida’s “Wild West” of Adoption, Money & Scams11:50 Full-Circle Healing With Taylor’s Birth Mom13:36 What Connie Looks For in Older-Child Adoptive Families15:30 Flexible, Creative Parenting vs. Rigid “Perfect” Parenting19:41 Attachment for Infants & Kids Who’ve Survived Neglect24:00 Time-In vs. Time-Out, Spanking & When Discipline Becomes Harm29:21 What Is an Intervention Case in Florida?35:10 Federal Subsidies, State Assistance & Who Qualifies40:10 Race, Private vs. Foster Adoption & “Biracial” Openness43:47 Building Your Trauma-Informed Parenting Toolbox45:14 Self-Care, Quiet Moments & Listening to Your Body47:12 What Kids Need Most From New Adoptive Parents49:14 Rapid-Fire Questions & Connie’s Final AdviceTune in to The Adoption Roadmap Podcast every Wednesday. If you like what you hear, I'd appreciate a follow and 5-star rating & review! THANK YOU!For questions about adoption, episode suggestions or to appear as a guest on The Adoption Roadmap Podcast, email⁠⁠⁠⁠support@rgadoptionconsulting.com⁠⁠⁠

In this enlightening conversation, Connie Going shares her extensive experience in child welfare and adoption, emphasizing the importance of connection for children in foster care. She discusses the challenges faced by adoptive parents, the role of birth parents, and the impact of media on adoption awareness. Connie also highlights the significance of support systems, creative parenting strategies, and federal assistance programs for adoptive families. Throughout the discussion, she stresses the need for self-care among adoptive parents and the importance of building trust and consistency in the adoption process.🔗 Important LinksRG Adoption Consulting→ https://rgadoptionconsulting.comBook a 30-Minute Consult with Rebecca→ https://rgadoptionconsulting.com/contactLearn More About Connie Going→ https://conniegoing.com/Heart Gallery of Pinellas & Pasco→ https://gulfcoastjfcs.org/heart-gallery-kids/Join The Adoption Continuum Community→ https://www.rgadoptionconsulting.com/waitlistChapters00:00 Introduction to Adoption and Child Welfare02:42 Connie's Journey in Child Welfare05:25 The Importance of Connection in Adoption07:51 Connie's Personal Adoption Story10:50 The Impact of Media on Adoption Awareness13:27 Challenges in the Adoption System16:10 Navigating Parenting in Adoption18:58 Transitioning from Public to Private Adoption21:47 Understanding Trauma in Adoption24:15 The Need for Support in Adoption26:51 Conclusion and Future of Adoption Awareness26:59 Navigating Adoption Concerns29:43 Understanding Personal Trauma Before AdoptionTune in to The Adoption Roadmap Podcast every Wednesday. If you like what you hear, I'd appreciate a follow and 5-star rating & review! THANK YOU!For questions about adoption, episode suggestions or to appear as a guest on The Adoption Roadmap Podcast, email⁠⁠⁠⁠support@rgadoptionconsulting.com⁠⁠⁠

In this episode, Rebecca Gruenspan Summary explores the evolving landscape of adoption, highlighting significant trends such as the decline in infant adoptions, rising costs, changing family dynamics, and the increasing selectivity of expectant parents. It emphasizes the importance of openness in adoption, the role of technology, and the need for support systems for adoptive families. The discussion also addresses the significance of identity and truth in adoption, the differences between consultants and facilitators, and the influence of social media on the adoption process. Overall, it provides a comprehensive overview of the current state of adoption and its future direction.Important Links• RG Adoption Consulting → ⁠https://rgadoptionconsulting.com⁠• Book a 30-Minute Consult → ⁠https://rgadoptionconsulting.com/contact• Solace Gift Boxes → AdoptSolace.comChapters00:00 The Evolving Landscape of Adoption00:56 Decline in Infant Adoptions02:23 Understanding Adoption Costs05:41 Changing Family Dynamics in Adoption08:12 The Need for Diverse Families09:53 Longer Wait Times and Selectivity12:53 Expectant Parent Trends16:33 The Importance of Openness18:17 Technology's Role in Adoption21:39 The Shift Towards Open Adoption24:44 Navigating Identity and Truth27:38 Consultants vs. Facilitators29:01 The Power of Authenticity in Profiles30:39 The Future of AdoptionTune in to The Adoption Roadmap Podcast every Wednesday. If you like what you hear, I'd appreciate a follow and 5-star rating & review! THANK YOU!For questions about adoption, episode suggestions or to appear as a guest on The Adoption Roadmap Podcast, email⁠⁠⁠⁠support@rgadoptionconsulting.com⁠⁠⁠

In this episode of The Adoption Roadmap Podcast, Part 2, Dr. Tony Hynes (author of The Son with Two Moms and training specialist at the Center for Adoption Support and Education) goes deeper on what adoptive parents must understand about race, language, and true openness. We unpack the Multiethnic Placement Act (MEPA) and its real-world ripple effects, why “love is enough” and colorblind approaches fail kids, and practical ways white adoptive parents can prepare to raise Black children well. Tony explains why the language we use (interracial vs. transracial) shapes outcomes, how faith communities can unintentionally reinforce colorblindness, and concrete steps to keep teens close—even when they roll their eyes. We close with what a truly healthy open adoption looks like beyond visits: ongoing, courageous conversations, shared history, and permission for your child to love all of their family.Important Links• RG Adoption Consulting → https://rgadoptionconsulting.com• Book a 30-Minute Consult → https://rgadoptionconsulting.com/contact• The Son with Two Moms by Tony Hynes• Center for Adoption Support and Education (C.A.S.E.) → https://adoptionsupport.orgAdoption Mosaic → https://adoptionmosaic.com/BIPOC Adoptees → https://www.bipocadoptees.org/Families Rising → https://wearefamiliesrising.org/On Your Feet Foundation (support for birth parents) → https://onyourfeetfoundation.org/The Adoption Continuum (Founding Member Waitlist) → https://www.rgadoptionconsulting.com/waitlistChapters00:00 – 02:15 Sponsor: Introducing The Adoption Continuum02:15 – 04:40 Recap of Part 1 + Tony’s return04:41 – 07:00 The Multi-Ethnic Placement Act (MEPA) explained07:03 – 09:24 Why there’s a shortage of Black families adopting Black children09:25 – 11:47 Training gaps and bias in interracial adoption11:48 – 14:10 Helping white parents prepare to raise children of color14:11 – 16:31 Confronting racism inside extended families16:32 – 19:00 “Transracial” vs. “Interracial” — Why language matters19:01 – 21:25 Same-sex parents and child well-being research21:26 – 23:47 Dr. Hynes’s PhD study on connectedness and community23:48 – 26:08 Religion and colorblind messages in adoptive homes26:09 – 28:33 Talking about race protects relationships long-term28:34 – 30:55 Keeping teens close through repetition and modeling30:56 – 33:19 Redefining openness beyond visits33:20 – 35:42 How to normalize birth family conversations35:43 – 37:23 Reunion, search, and the right to know one’s story37:24 – 39:40 Top lessons for adoptive parents (+ grace and curiosity)39:41 – 42:00 Rapid fire: Organizations and influences in adoption42:00 – 43:25 Final insight — Adoptees can experience trauma after adoption43:26 – End Rebecca’s closing reflection & review reminderTune in to The Adoption Roadmap Podcast every Wednesday. If you like what you hear, I'd appreciate a follow and 5-star rating & review! THANK YOU!For questions about adoption, episode suggestions or to appear as a guest on The Adoption Roadmap Podcast, email⁠⁠⁠⁠support@rgadoptionconsulting.com⁠⁠⁠

In this episode of The Adoption Roadmap Podcast, Rebecca Gruenspan—adoptive parent, consultant, and founder of RG Adoption Consulting—sits down with Dr. Tony Hynes, an adoptee, author, and educator whose story challenges nearly every stereotype about adoption.Adopted by two white moms as a young Black boy in the 1990s, Tony’s early years were marked by both love and loss. When a court overturned his adoption—declaring that two white women couldn’t raise a Black child—his life became the center of a decade-long custody battle that would forever shape his identity.Important Links• RG Adoption Consulting → https://rgadoptionconsulting.com• Book a 30-Minute Consult → https://rgadoptionconsulting.com/contact• The Son with Two Moms by Tony Hynes• Center for Adoption Support and Education (C.A.S.E.) → https://adoptionsupport.org• Solace Gift Boxes → AdoptSolace.comChapters00:00 — Sponsor: Solace Gift Boxes for birth mothers01:00 — Meet Tony Hynes: adoptee, author, and advocate02:10 — Growing up in the orphanage and early separations05:30 — Understanding attachment, safety, and “home”07:40 — Mental health, disclosure, and what parents should know12:00 — When love meets bias: the adoption overturned16:00 — “They’re going to take Tony”: the moment everything changed18:50 — Living as an adoptee—but not legally adopted20:00 — Navigating loyalty, identity, and two families at odds22:00 — What children need most when families clash25:00 — Racism, homophobia, and learning to self-advocate28:00 — The family member her mom cut off—and why it mattered30:30 — Seeing both sides: race, policy, and systemic bias in adoption33:00 — End of Part 1 + teaser for next week’s episodeTune in to The Adoption Roadmap Podcast every Wednesday. If you like what you hear, I'd appreciate a follow and 5-star rating & review! THANK YOU!For questions about adoption, episode suggestions or to appear as a guest on The Adoption Roadmap Podcast, email⁠⁠⁠⁠support@rgadoptionconsulting.com⁠⁠⁠

In this episode of The Adoption Roadmap Podcast, Rebecca Gruenspan—adoptive parent, consultant, and founder of RG Adoption Consulting—continues her powerful conversation with Jennifer Skiles, an adoptee, author, and survivor whose journey is one of deep faith, forgiveness, and full-circle healing.In Part II, Jennifer shares how she navigated profound grief after losing her birth mother, found peace through forgiveness, and followed a trail of faith and DNA that led her to her biological father—who never knew she existed. From sleepless nights and emotional discovery to the moment she heard her dad’s voice for the first time, Jennifer’s story reminds us that healing and belonging are never out of reach.🔗 Important Links• RG Adoption Consulting → https://rgadoptionconsulting.com• Book a 30-Minute Consult → https://rgadoptionconsulting.com/contact• Jennifer Skiles • Vault of Treasures: A Journey of Adoption, Family, Faith, and Forgiveness by Jennifer Skiles• Ancestry.com → https://www.ancestry.com• Julie Brumley, Coming Home to Self → https://cominghometoself.co• Sweet Peach Tree → https://sweetpeachtree.com — use code ROADMAP10 for 10% offChapters00:00 – Sponsor: Sweet Peach Tree01:15 – Recap of Part I02:00 – Grieving Her Birth Mother’s Passing04:30 – The Power of Friendship and Community06:00 – Learning to Forgive09:00 – The Search for Her Birth Father Begins11:30 – The Facebook Messages That Changed Everything13:40 – “He Felt Like Home”: The First Conversation16:00 – A Pact to Never Lose Time Again17:30 – Redefining Family and Belonging20:00 – Embracing Her Sicilian Roots25:00 – Writing Vault of Treasures as Therapy28:00 – The Hotel Card He Kept for 40 Years32:00 – Overcoming a Rare Illness with Faith34:30 – The Ripple Effect of Sharing Her Story35:50 – Shoutouts and Advice for Adoptive Parents37:40 – Final Reflections: Adoption in Three Words39:10 – Closing Message from RebeccaTune in to The Adoption Roadmap Podcast every Wednesday. If you like what you hear, I'd appreciate a follow and 5-star rating & review! THANK YOU!For questions about adoption, episode suggestions or to appear as a guest on The Adoption Roadmap Podcast, email⁠⁠⁠⁠support@rgadoptionconsulting.com⁠⁠⁠

In this episode of The Adoption Roadmap Podcast, Rebecca Gruenspan—adoptive parent, consultant, and founder of RG Adoption Consulting—sits down with Jennifer Skiles, an adoptee, author, and survivor whose story is one of extraordinary courage and grace.Adopted at three years old, Jennifer’s early life was marked by both love and deep pain. After enduring years of abuse in her adoptive home, she found the strength to reclaim her story—reuniting with her birth mother, uncovering long-held family secrets, and eventually seeking out the biological father who never knew she existed.Jennifer’s story reminds us that while we are not defined by our past, we can be refined by it. Her resilience offers hope to anyone navigating pain, identity, and healing after adoption.🔗 Important Links• RG Adoption Consulting → ⁠https://rgadoptionconsulting.com⁠• Book a 30-Minute Consult → ⁠https://rgadoptionconsulting.com/contactJennifer Skiles⁠• Vault of Treasures: A Journey of Adoption, Family, Faith, and Forgiveness by Jennifer Skiles • Solace Gift Boxes → AdoptSolace.comChapters00:00 — Sponsor: Solace Gift Boxes for birth mothers01:00 — Meet Jennifer Skiles: adoptee, author, survivor02:30 — Early childhood memories and being adopted at age three03:45 — The moment everything changed: discovering abuse at age 1205:30 — Secrets and silence inside her adoptive family07:00 — Learning she was adopted—and keeping it a secret herself09:45 — The start of six years of abuse and isolation12:45 — Why she stayed quiet and how fear shaped her choices15:30 — Losing her adoptive father and the complex feelings that followed17:00 — Choosing faith and forgiveness instead of anger19:15 — How compassion became her path to healing20:30 — Reuniting with her birth mother after decades apart24:00 — The shock of discovering she was born in Germany26:00 — Finding her biological mom through an AOL search and a letter27:30 — Their emotional reunion after years apart29:15 — Learning the truth about her birth parents’ relationship31:00 — Losing her birth mother unexpectedly after 12 years

In this episode of The Adoption Roadmap Podcast, Rebecca Gruenspan—adoptive parent, consultant, and founder of RG Adoption Consulting—takes you inside her signature presentation: a masterclass on the basics of domestic adoption.From her own story of 26 failed IUIs to becoming a single mom through adoption, Rebecca walks you step by step through what it really takes to build your family this way. She covers the questions hopeful parents ask most often—about open adoption, profiles, timelines, and costs—and doesn’t shy away from the realities, risks, and emotional work required.You’ll learn why readiness (emotional and financial) is critical, how to manage fears and expectations, and why building the right team around you makes all the difference. Whether you’re just beginning to explore adoption or you’ve already started your journey, this episode gives you the clarity, encouragement, and practical insight you need.🔗 Important Links• RG Adoption Consulting → ⁠https://rgadoptionconsulting.com⁠• Book a 30-Minute Consult → ⁠https://rgadoptionconsulting.com/contact⁠• Sweet Peach Tree (Sponsor) → ⁠sweetpeachtree.com⁠ – use code ROADMAP10 for 10% offChapters00:00 – Welcome & Sponsor Message00:42 – Rebecca’s Story: From Infertility to Adoption02:36 – The Emotional Storm of Family Building04:22 – Common Questions & Fears Around Adoption05:10 – Why Open Adoption Is the Norm Today06:59 – “Will We Ever Get Picked?” (Singles, LGBTQ+, Parents in Their 40s+)08:49 – Adoption Timelines, Dead Ends & Staying Committed09:54 – Readiness: Grief, Healing & Opening Your Heart12:45 – Managing Fear & Knowing the Risks13:55 – Why There’s No “Entitlement” in Adoption15:20 – Building Your Adoption Team (Home Study, Attorney, Consultant & More)19:20 – The Adoption Profile: Why It Matters More Than You Think22:40 – Don’t Put All Your Eggs in One Basket (Diversifying Agencies)24:08 – Questions to Ask When Presented with a Situation26:32 – Preparing for Transracial, Special Needs & Drug-Exposed Adoptions27:33 – The Rising Costs of Adoption & How to Plan for Them30:04 – Grants, Loans, Fundraising & the 2025 Tax Credit31:13 – How Consultants Support Families Step by Step32:35 – Final Encouragement: “You’ve Got This”Tune in to The Adoption Roadmap Podcast every Wednesday. If you like what you hear, I'd appreciate a follow and 5-star rating & review! THANK YOU!For questions about adoption, episode suggestions or to appear as a guest on The Adoption Roadmap Podcast, email⁠⁠⁠⁠support@rgadoptionconsulting.com⁠⁠⁠