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That Twin Mama Podcast
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That Twin Mama Podcast features topics, concerns, and questions that touch on all things motherhood and beyond, with a special added lens for moms of multiples. Lauren interviews experts, celebrities, and influencers tackling topics that make you feel seen, uplifted, and of course laugh as a mama trying to survive.
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In this season 2 finale, Lauren takes you to Twinsburg, Ohio — home of the largest twins festival in the world. With over 2,500 twins in attendance for its 50th anniversary, Twins Days Fest is a celebration of connection, individuality, and the unique dynamics only twins (and twin parents) truly understand.From laugh-out-loud twin telepathy myths to deeply moving personal stories, Lauren chats with identical, fraternal, boy/girl twins, and even a pair navigating a gender transition — uncovering what they love about being twins, what they wish others knew, and the advice they have for parents raising multiples.In This Episode, You’ll Hear:The wildest (and weirdest) questions twins get from strangers.Birth stories told from the twins’ own perspective — including one you’ll never forget.Whether birth order really matters… and why some parents keep it a secret.Heartfelt debates on school separation: when it helps, when it hurts, and why it sticks with twins for life.The heavy weight of constant comparisons — and how gender plays into it.Boy/girl twin dynamics vs. identical twin bonds.A powerful conversation with twins navigating a gender transition together.Dating as a twin: why your relationship with your twin sibling is a non-negotiable.The top advice seasoned twins wish parents of multiples would follow.Why You’ll Love It:This episode is equal parts hilarious, emotional, and eye-opening — whether you’re raising twins, are a twin yourself, or just love people-watching at big family-style events. Lauren wraps Season 2 with a full-circle moment, starting the season with her own twin birth story and ending surrounded by a sea of twins who feel like extended family.Resources & Links Mentioned:🛍 Shop That Twin Mama merch (the “Mom of Twins” jersey featured in the video will be coming soon!): https://thattwinmama.store/ Follow That Twin Mama Podcast on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/thattwinmamapodcast/Follow Lauren on socials https://www.instagram.com/thattwinmama_/ https://www.tiktok.com/@thattwinmama_ Learn more about Twins Days Fest: https://twinsdays.org/Thanks to our new twin friends:Hafsteinn & Kristjan https://www.instagram.com/hafsteinnvaldimarsson/https://www.instagram.com/kristjanvald/?hl=en Cassidy & Caitlyn (and Renly & Evelyn, too!)https://www.instagram.com/cassidycherry/?hl=en Mike & Michellehttps://www.instagram.com/prettydimples_32/https://www.instagram.com/michaeladdison1/Renee & Deshayhttps://www.instagram.com/renee_cottrell/https://www.instagram.com/ebonyshay99/Fallon & Farrellhttps://www.facebook.com/beingfandfhttps://www.tiktok.com/@beingfandfhttps://www.youtube.com/@BeingFFPodcast Tawanna & Tonyahttps://www.instagram.com/them_damn_twinz/ Brooke & BethTony & AdrienneMonica & GitaKeith & KevinDina & GinaSeason Note:That’s a wrap on Season 2! Thank you for listening, reviewing, sharing, and being part of this community. Please continue to follow, share, & leave 5 star reviews as we gear up for Season 3 of That Twin Mama Podcast. Credits:Production: Berty EnterprisesEditing: Nomadic Orca Music: Far Eye HousePhoto: Birch ThomasDesign: Erin Fox CreativeSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/that-twin-mama-podcast/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
This spring, That Twin Mama took her mic to The Momference® — the premier, three-day gathering for Black and Brown millennial moms, powered by District Motherhued®. In a weekend built to nourish, uplift, and celebrate #BlackMomMagic, Lauren sat down with powerhouse moms, thought leaders, and healers to bring you these bite-sized, heart-full episodes straight from the DC mom squad that’s rewriting what community care looks like.In this mini episode, Lauren sits down with the incredible Simona Noce Wright — co-founder of The Momference® and District Motherhued® — for an inspiring, deeply honest convo about building the village she never had and raising kids who expect to see their mom loved, cared for, and surrounded by sisterhood. Simona shares how a random coffee shop meeting with Nikki Osei-Barrett sparked a movement that’s been rewriting the narrative of Black motherhood ever since — and why mothers need to be nourished, too, if we want to nourish everyone else.In this episode you’ll hear:How a coffee date turned into District Motherhued®Simona’s take on why your kids need to see you with a villageWhat our moms wish they had — and what we’re reclaiming nowA reminder that showing up for yourself is showing up for them💛 Simona Noce Wright — film publicist, creative connector, mom of three boys (plus a bonus daughter!), and co-founder of District Motherhued® and The Momference®. Find her daily magic and soccer mom adventures at @thesimonaochewright.If this one made you feel a little seen (or a little braver about brunch without the guilt) — share it with another mama who needs a reminder that her village exists. And don’t forget to leave your girl a 5-star review — it keeps this village growing. Subscribe so you don’t miss the rest of The Momference minis!📺 Subscribe on YouTube: That Twin Mama Podcast 🎧 Podcast Website: www.thattwinmama.com/podcast 📲 Follow on Instagram: @thattwinmamapodcastCredits: Production: Berty Enterprises Editing: Nomadic Orca Music: Far Eye House Photo: Birch Thomas Design: Erin Fox CreativeSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/that-twin-mama-podcast/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
This spring, That Twin Mama took her mic to The Momference® — the premier, three-day gathering for Black and Brown millennial moms, powered by District Motherhued®. In a weekend built to nourish, uplift, and celebrate #BlackMomMagic, Lauren sat down with powerhouse moms, thought leaders, and healers to bring you these bite-sized, heart-full episodes straight from the DC mom squad that’s rewriting what community care looks like.In this mini episode, Lauren kicks back with the brilliant Nikki Osei-Barrett — co-founder of District Motherhued® and The Momference® itself — for an unfiltered, hilarious, and deeply honest talk about what it’s like to raise kids across decades… and why that first child will always clock your growth. They unpack the evolution of motherhood (and marriage!) from teen love to grown-woman realness, how to handle the regrets we carry from our early parenting years, and why doing better now is the whole point. Plus: raising teens in the TikTok era, checking phones for secret searches, and why our kids will always read us for filth.In this episode you’ll hear:Why your oldest kid knows you like nobody else — and reminds you dailyNikki’s real talk on parenting as a teen vs. a grown momHow District Motherhued® became the village so many moms craveLauren & Nikki’s confessions about raising boys in the age of screens (and porn)💛 Nikki Osei-Barrett — creative, connector, mom of three, and co-founder of District Motherhued® and The Momference®. Follow her daily realness on Instagram at @chocl8fashionpr.If this one made you feel a little seen (or deeply called out by your oldest), share it with a mom friend who needs the reminder that grace grows with us. And don’t forget to leave your girl a 5-star review — it keeps this village growing. Subscribe so you don’t miss the rest of The Momference minis!📺 Subscribe on YouTube: That Twin Mama Podcast🎧 Podcast Website: www.thattwinmama.com/podcast📲 Follow on Instagram: @thattwinmamapodcastCredits: Production: Berty Enterprises Editing: Nomadic Orca Music: Far Eye House Photo: Birch Thomas Design: Erin Fox CreativeSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/that-twin-mama-podcast/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
This spring, That Twin Mama took the mic to The Momference® — the premier, three-day gathering for Black and Brown millennial moms, powered by District Motherhued®. In a weekend designed to nourish, uplift, and celebrate #BlackMomMagic, Lauren cozied up with powerhouse moms, thought leaders, and healers to bring you these bite-sized, big-hearted episodes straight from the DC mom squad rewriting what community care looks like.In this mini episode, Lauren chats with trauma therapist Kobe Campbell and her twin sister, Odua, for a raw, funny, soul-tingly convo about what it’s like growing up as a twin in a world obsessed with comparing you. They unpack birth order drama (twin A vs twin B), the weirdest twin questions they’ve ever gotten, and why it matters so much to help twins see themselves as whole, separate people. Plus: how parents can talk about differences before the world does — and why that can be healing for all our kids.In this episode you’ll hear:Why people love comparing twins (and how Kobe’s term comparative identity explains it all)How birth order shows up in twin dynamics (and why Lauren’s keeping it secret for now!)The wild questions twins get askedReal talk on how to protect your kids’ soft spots — twin or not💛 Kobe Campbell — award-winning trauma therapist, author, and soft space creator. Find her at kobecampbell.com and on socials https://www.instagram.com/kobecampbell_/ 💛 Odua — flight attendant, world traveler, and the other half of this beautiful twinhood. Follow her adventures https://www.instagram.com/nanayaa_odua/ .If you felt seen (or exposed, in the best way) — send this one to your mom group chat, your twin mom club, or that one friend who still thinks twins have secret telepathy. And hey, leave your girl a 5-star review so this village keeps growing! Subscribe so you don’t miss the rest of The Momference minis.📺 Subscribe on YouTube: That Twin Mama Podcast 🎧 Podcast Website: www.thattwinmama.com/podcast 📲 Follow on Instagram: @thattwinmamapodcastCredits: Production: Berty Enterprises Editing: Nomadic Orca Music: Far Eye House Photo: Birch Thomas Design: Erin Fox CreativeSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/that-twin-mama-podcast/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
This spring, That Twin Mama took her mic to The Momference® — the premier, three-day gathering for Black and Brown millennial moms, powered by District Motherhued®. In a weekend built to nourish, uplift, and celebrate #BlackMomMagic, Lauren sat down with powerhouse moms, thought leaders, and healers to bring you these bite-sized, heart-full episodes straight from the DC mom squad that’s rewriting what community care looks like.In this mini episode, Lauren chats with award-winning journalist Jummy Olabanji — co-anchor of News4 Today, advocate for Black maternal health, and new mom — about pregnancy in her late thirties, the reality of fertility treatments, and the importance of listening to Black women when they say something feels off. They unpack what it means to advocate for your own body, why “pain is not normal,” and how we can hold each other up as a community so we don’t just survive, but thrive.In this episode you’ll hear:-Jummy’s honest take on pregnancy at almost 40 (and the “geriatric” label 🙄)-Why Black women need to push back when their pain is dismissed-How community, conversation, and self-advocacy can literally save lives-The one piece of advice she never wants to hear again (“Sleep when the baby sleeps” — girl, bye.)💛 About Jummy Olabanji — Jummy co-anchors News4 Today, the #1 morning news show in Washington, D.C. A native of Northern Virginia, she’s a proud Hokie and Gonzaga grad, and has earned two Edward R. Murrow Awards, two Virginia Associated Press Awards, and eight EMMYs for her work. She’s also an advocate for organ donation and serves on the Board of Directors for the National Kidney Foundation.Follow her at @JummyOlabanji and tune in to News4 Today to see her in action.If this episode reminds you how important it is to advocate for yourself (or someone you love) — share it with a friend, leave a 5-star review, and stay tuned for more Momference Minis to nourish you all season long.📺 Subscribe on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThatTwinMamaPodcast/videos🎧 Podcast Website: www.thattwinmama.com/podcast📲 Follow on Instagram: @thattwinmamapodcastCredits:Production: Berty EnterprisesEditing: Nomadic OrcaMusic: Far Eye HousePhoto: Birch ThomasDesign: Erin Fox CreativeSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/that-twin-mama-podcast/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
This spring, That Twin Mama took her mic to The Momference® — the premier, three-day gathering for Black and Brown millennial moms, powered by District Motherhued®. In a weekend built to nourish, uplift, and celebrate #BlackMomMagic, Lauren sat down with powerhouse moms, thought leaders, and healers to bring you these bite-sized, heart-full episodes straight from the DC mom squad that’s rewriting what community care looks like.
In this mini episode, Lauren sits down with the brilliant Dr. Amber Thornton (yes, that Dr. Amber from Season One) for a quick but deeply honest chat about what it really means to parent your oldest child — and yourself — with more compassion. They unpack the emotional load oldest siblings carry, why we’re so dang hard on them, and how self-regulation is still the secret sauce for all the mama chaos.
In this episode you’ll hear:
-Why oldest siblings feel so much weight — and how gender shapes that story
-Dr. Amber’s take on protecting our oldest kids’ soft spots
-A reminder that parenting is messy — and that’s exactly how it should be
💛 Dr. Amber Thornton — psychologist, mom, oldest daughter, author, and truth-teller on parenting + self-regulation. Find her and order her incredible book at https://www.dramberthornton.com/.
💛 Listen to her episode on That Twin Mama Podcast Season 1 here: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/how-to-emotionally-self-regulate-as-a-stressed-out/id1720436427?i=1000670479913
If this one made you feel a little seen (or called out in the best way) — share it with another mom friend who needs the reminder that perfect isn’t real, but grace is. And don’t forget to leave your girl a 5-star review — it keeps this village growing. Subscribe so you don’t miss the rest of The Momference minis!
📺 Subscribe on YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@ThatTwinMamaPodcast/videos
🎧 Podcast Website: www.thattwinmama.com/podcast
📲 Follow on Instagram: @thattwinmamapodcast
Credits:
Production: Berty Enterprises
Editing: Nomadic Orca
Music: Far Eye House
Photo: Birch Thomas
Design: Erin Fox Creative
Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/that-twin-mama-podcast/donations
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Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
Motherhood changes everything—your body, your boundaries, your belief in yourself. This week I sat down with my wildly talented friend Daniella Rabbani — actor, creator, mom of two, and host of Mom Curious. In this episode, we have a raw and layered conversation about what it means to come undone in motherhood… and then slowly, steadily, put yourself back together again.
Daniella opens up about filming Oceans 8 while eight months pregnant (yes, she opens the movie with Sandra Bullock!), finding her voice in both motherhood and creativity, and navigating the deep work of raising kids while healing herself. We talk gentle parenting, mom rage, generational patterns, and why sometimes the most radical thing we can do is say, “I don’t know—but I’m showing up anyway.”
We get into:
Why her firstborn “opened the matrix” for her—and what shifted with her daughter
Breaking generational cycles without breaking yourself
Gentle parenting vs. actually parenting—what happens when the kids don’t listen?
Why our kids chose us (and what that means for how we show up)
“Parenting teaches you more about yourself than anything else. Sometimes I like what I see, sometimes I don’t. And that’s the work.”
📣 Listen if you’re:
Trying to parent differently than you were raised
Feeling stretched thin and wondering if you’re still “you”
In a season of rebuilding—creatively, emotionally, spiritually
Curious what happens when motherhood becomes your greatest teacher
✨ Mentioned:
Daniella’s podcast Mom Curious https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/mom-curious/id1602585064
The Better Sister (her latest show!) https://amzn.to/3GfG62g
Her iconic Ocean’s 8 scene! https://www.instagram.com/p/C2-bDzyuRyV/
Lauren and Daniella at the Doula Expo https://youtu.be/sAKIR5o_cAk?si=fHIzn7O7CHXEbNpT
Stay Connected:
Be sure to subscribe for more candid conversations on parenting, relationships, and life with multiples. If you enjoyed this episode, leave a review and share with fellow parents navigating similar journeys.
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🎧 Podcast Website: www.thattwinmama.com/podcast
📲 Follow on Instagram: @thattwinmamapodcast
Credits:
Production: Berty Enterprises
Editing: Nomadic Orca
Music: Far Eye House
Photo: Birch Thomas
Design: Erin Fox Creative
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If you’ve ever made three square meals for your family and then realized you haven’t eaten anything yourself all day… this one’s for you.In this episode, I’m joined by Allegra Gast—nutritionist, postpartum guide, twin mom of four, and the voice behind @aloha.nutrition—for a much-needed convo on how we actually care for our bodies after birth… and long after the newborn phase ends.Allegra breaks down what happens to your minerals, hormones, and energy when you’re giving everything to your kids and skipping meals without meaning to. Whether you’re breastfeeding, chasing toddlers, or just in a season where coffee is your main food group—this is your gentle reset.We talk about:The mineral most moms are depleted in (and what to do about it)Why protein is your best friend when you're running on fumesEasy, affordable meal ideas that don’t require five prep bowlsHow your postpartum nutrition impacts mood, milk supply, and sleepHow to teach toddlers about food without power strugglesThe link between low blood sugar and mom rage (it’s real)This episode is about remembering that your needs matter too—and that a peanut butter sandwich counts as self-care if you eat it sitting down.✨ Mentioned in the Episode:Breastfeeding gear for twin moms https://amzn.to/3ZJ37kENutrition resources: @alohanutrition on IG https://www.aloha-nutrition.com/Add these nutrient-dense snacks to your baby registry! https://amzn.to/45wvZQYBone Broth https://lvnta.com/lv_HNiR24J2RaHjrB2SIvAllegra’s offerings: Mineral Mocktail Guide, Beyond Birth course, Hair Tissue Mineral Analysis https://education.aloha-nutrition.com🎧 Listen wherever you get your podcasts. And if this episode helped, send it to your mom group chat or a mama friend who needs it.#ThatTwinMamaPodcast #PostpartumNutrition #TwinMomLife #FeedingTwins #LactationSupport #MomHealth #MineralMocktails #AlohaNutritionStay Connected:Be sure to subscribe for more candid conversations on parenting, relationships, and life with multiples. If you enjoyed this episode, leave a review and share with fellow parents navigating similar journeys.📺 Subscribe on YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@ThatTwinMamaPodcast/videos🎧 Podcast Website: www.thattwinmama.com/podcast📲 Follow on Instagram: @thattwinmamapodcastCredits:Production: Berty EnterprisesEditing: Nomadic OrcaMusic: Far Eye HousePhoto: Birch ThomasDesign: Erin Fox CreativeSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/that-twin-mama-podcast/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
Okay, so… I got my boobs done. Not implants. I got a breast reduction—and in this episode, I’m walking you through everything: the emotional backstory, the wild insurance hurdles, the drains (ugh), the Hooters farewell tour, and why I would do it again in a heartbeat.
From being the first girl in fourth grade told to wear a bra to breastfeeding three kids, this has been a long time coming. I share what pushed me to finally do it, how I chose my surgeon, and all the things no one really preps you for when it comes to healing and reclaiming your body.
We talk about:
Growing up with big boobs and feeling hyper-visible from a young age
Why this felt like a personal and physical reclamation—not just a cosmetic decision
The continued struggles with health insurance coverage
How painful and weirdly humbling recovery really is (have you ever tried showering without raising your arms?!)
Shower hacks, pain meds, body image shifts, and parenting while healing
Answering your DMs about cost, implants vs. reductions, and explaining it all to your kids
Why running out of Hooters in slow motion should honestly be an Oscar-nominated short film (someone call Pamela Anderson and ask her how she survived Baywatch beach runs!)
This episode is for the girls who’ve ever wanted to feel more at home in their body—and the ones Googling “can you sleep without a bra?” because same.
👀 MENTIONED:
Dr. Victoria Suh in Fairfax, VA https://www.victoriacosmeticsurgery.com/
My viral Hooters farewell video https://www.instagram.com/p/DGLgaEmJMzZ/
Post-op items I wish I’d known about before surgery https://amzn.to/442OPh6
💬 If you’re thinking about a reduction…
You don’t owe anyone an explanation. Not the internet, not your cousin, not some guy named Henry from Norfolk. 🙃 But if you want the story, this is mine—and I hope it helps you feel more prepared, informed, and supported (pun intended).
🎧 Listen in, share with a friend, and tag @thattwinmamapodcast if this episode hits home.
“I’ve had boobs since I was nine. I’m thirty-six. That’s a long relationship to end.” — Lauren Berty
Stay Connected:
Be sure to subscribe for more candid conversations on parenting, relationships, and life with multiples. If you enjoyed this episode, leave a review and share with fellow parents navigating similar journeys.
📺 Subscribe on YouTube
🎧 Podcast Website: www.thattwinmama.com/podcast
📲 Follow on Instagram: @thattwinmamapodcast
Credits:
Production: Berty Enterprises
Editing: Nomadic Orca
Music: Far Eye House
Photo: Birch Thomas
Design: Erin Fox Creative
Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/that-twin-mama-podcast/donations
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From designing Jordans and DJing for Prince to launching a day party for parents, Downtown’s Sweetheart Va$htie Kola has done it all—on her own terms. In this episode, Lauren and Va$htie get real about what happens when that girl becomes that mom: how your body, identity, friendships, and creative rhythms all shift… and how you build something entirely new from the mess. There's birth story realness, co-sleeping confessions, and a cameo from a baby boom–era applesauce empire. Yes, really.
In this episode, we talk about:
Va$htie’s origin story as a downtown NYC icon—and her shift into motherhood
Being the first woman to design a Jordan sneaker
How motherhood shattered (and rebuilt) her sense of identity
Why she created “A Parently Kidding” and what it means to make space for joy as a parent
Losing friendships, finding your mom village, and setting new boundaries online
Home birth plans vs. hospital reality: the unfiltered truth
Gentle parenting, big feelings, and TikTok therapy
Guest:
🎧 Va$htie Kola — Director, designer, DJ, and now… co-sleeper and applesauce visionary.
Follow her at @vashtie on Instagram or catch her spinning IRL at A Parently Kidding.
Mentioned:
A Parently Kidding day party for kids + grownups https://www.aparentlykidding.com/
Baby Boom (1987 movie we’re now fully obsessed with) https://www.amazon.com/gp/video/detail/B0B66QNW35/ref=atv_dp_share_cu_r
The Business of Being Born (documentary) https://www.amazon.com/gp/video/detail/B001IIHAGK/ref=atv_dp_share_cu_r
The mango cutting TikTok that changed Va$htie’s life https://www.tiktok.com/@dom.skii/video/7466267963977452808
If this episode made you feel seen:
Send it to your coolest mom friend.
Rate & review the show—it helps other women find their community.
Follow Lauren @ThatTwinMama on IG for more retro-feels, parenting chaos, and creative rebirth stories.
Credits:
Production: Berty Enterprises
Editing: Nomadic Orca https://www.nomadicorca.com/
Music: Far Eye House
Photo: Birch Thomas
Design: Erin Fox Creative
Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/that-twin-mama-podcast/donations
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What happens when a viral singer known for hauntingly beautiful Disney ballads shares her unfiltered motherhood journey? You get this gem of an episode. Lauren Berty sits down IRL in Nashville with internet-sensation-turned-mama Lauren Paley—aka the Stairwell Siren—for a tender, hilarious, and deeply validating convo on motherhood, identity, and the magic of Disney cruises. From viral fame to postpartum anxiety, we cover it all (and yes—there’s singing at the end).
In this episode, we talk about:
-How Lauren’s viral stairwell videos turned into a full-blown creative career
-The motherhood magic of their Disney cruise meet-cute
-Why singing in front of 15 million people is less scary than doing karaoke
-Postpartum anxiety, night-time dread, and the myth of “good sleepers”
-Pumping stress, milk freezers, and learning to let go
-What it looks like to parent with intuition (not the internet)
-Social media perfection vs real-life motherhood mess
-How Lauren’s birth unfolded—including the Niagara Falls moment 😳
Guest:
✨ Lauren Paley – Vocalist, viral content creator, and mama to sweet Piper. You’ve probably seen her singing in stairwells, garages, and your For You page.
Follow her on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/laurenpaley and TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@laurenpaley.
Mentioned in this episode:
-Disney Creator Celebration Cruise
-The Oura ring that snitches on your sleep deprivation https://amzn.to/4mvaTZ0
If you loved this episode:
Send it to a mama who’s in the thick of it.
Rate & review the pod—it really helps other women find our cozy corner of the internet.
Follow Lauren @ThatTwinMama_ on IG for more behind-the-scenes.
Credits:
Production: Berty Enterprises
Editing: Nomadic Orca https://www.nomadicorca.com/
Music: Far Eye House
Photo: Birch Thomas
Design: Erin Fox Creative
Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/that-twin-mama-podcast/donations
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If you’ve ever whispered “my body is not my own” after motherhood—or stared at your postpartum belly wondering what happened to your core—this one’s for you.
In this week’s episode, I’m joined by twin mama, yoga and Pilates instructor, and all-around calming presence Kristin McGee. We talk about everything from healing diastasis recti (yep, that dreaded core separation) to parenting solo, starting over after divorce, and how to actually make time for yourself when everything feels like “too much.”
We get into:
Becoming a mom later in life and navigating IVF, pregnancy in your 40s, and the “geriatric” label 🙄
The honest truth about twin birth (Kristin went to 39.5 weeks!) and recovering from both vaginal birth and a C-section
Why pelvic floor therapy should be standard postpartum care
Tips for managing life as a single parent (and finding a new path after a dream job ends)
Her new book Somatic Exercises for Dummies—and how reconnecting with your body is emotional and physical
Breathwork and tiny rituals that actually help in moments of mom-overwhelm
Kristin is the real deal—so grounded, so generous, and deeply honest about the beauty and the burnout that comes with this season of life. Whether you’re healing your core, healing your heart, or just figuring out how to hold everything you're carrying, this episode is like a deep exhale.
🛠️ Resources + Mentions:
Diastasis recti healing tips and KT tape (!!) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B006EPM74W/?coliid=I208X8EICS0B30&colid=PWBSW17T2J62&ref_=list_c_wl_lv_ov_lig_dp_it&th=1
5-4-3-2-1 grounding technique for anxiety
Breathwork for moms: box breathing + peace fingers
Kristin’s new book: Somatic Exercises for Dummies https://www.amazon.com/dp/1394298218/?coliid=I1K6SFQQ44VN1T&colid=PWBSW17T2J62&psc=1&ref_=list_c_wl_lv_ov_lig_dp_it
@kristinmcgee on IG and Substack (linked below)
https://www.kristinmcgee.com/
https://kristinmcgee.substack.com/
Podcast episode on resentment https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/tackling-resentment-in-marriage-and-parenting-w-ryan-berty/id1720436427?i=1000662363608
Stay Connected:
Podcast Website: www.thattwinmama.com/podcast
Follow on Instagram: @thattwinmamapodcast https://www.instagram.com/thattwinmamapodcast/
Credits:
Production: Berty Enterprises
Editing: Nomadic Orca https://www.nomadicorca.com/
Music: Far Eye House
Photo: Birch Thomas
Design: Erin Fox Creative
Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/that-twin-mama-podcast/donations
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What if your parenting style, work habits, and even your sleep struggles could all be explained by your energy type?
In this episode, Human Design expert Erin Claire Jones is back—this time to talk about her new book (How Do You Choose), the realities of parenting with young kids while launching creative work, and how understanding Human Design has shifted the way she parents, partners, and paces herself.
We cover:
What Human Design looks like in real life—with babies, back-to-back meetings, and someone always needing a snack
Why being “lit up” matters more than being productive (especially for Manifesting Generators)
How rest, space, and honoring your energy type actually makes you a better parent
What it’s like raising kids with four different energy types in one household
Ways to support your kids and yourself using Human Design—without adding more to your plate
Plus: Erin breaks down all five Human Design types—Manifesting Generator, Generator, Projector, Manifestor, and Reflector—and shares stories, myths, and practical insights to help you better understand yourself and your family.
✨ Whether you’re deep in toddler mode, navigating marriage after babies, or simply trying to get a decent night’s sleep, this episode will help you feel more grounded, more aware of your patterns, and more compassionate with your own capacity.
📚 Erin’s New Book
How Do You Choose: A Human Design Guide to What’s Best for You in Work, Love, and Life out TODAY (May 13)!
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🧠 Try This:
Notice how you feel at the end of your day. Are you “delightfully spent” or restlessly drained? Erin shares how this simple check-in can tell you a lot about whether you're aligned with your energy type—or headed for burnout.
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Editing: Nomadic Orca https://www.nomadicorca.com/
Music: Far Eye House
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In this special Mother's Day episode, I’m joined by my husband Ryan for a real and unfiltered conversation about parenting—what we expected, what caught us off guard, and how our relationship has changed over time. From toddler meltdowns to teenage moods to the mental load of planning dinner every night, we’re covering the parts of parenting that don’t always get talked about.We get into:What’s shifted in our parenting roles lately (and how we’re managing it)The surprising parts of motherhood and how it reshaped my identityWhy I used to sit in the car after daycare drop-off and now Ryan does tooHow the way your partner shows up affects the kind of parent you get to beWhat we’ve learned about parenting teens vs. toddlers (spoiler: both are wild)Our honest take on twin life—and how it’s different than we thoughtSupporting aging parents while raising young kidsPlus, I read some of your thoughtful and funny messages about what you wish you knew before becoming a mom—and we reflect on the comments that hit home the most.✨ Whether you’re in newborn fog, school drop-off mode, or parenting across stages like we are, I hope this conversation helps you feel a little more seen and a little less alone.Links:Postnatal care across cultures: https://www.themindfulbirthgroup.com/parents/blog/postnatal-rituals-from-around-the-world/That Twin Mama Podcast: Multiracial Adoption with the Schoeller Family https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P_TDuAkYPYQ📣 If this episode resonated, share it with a friend or leave a quick review. It helps us keep growing this space for honest convos about parenting and identity.Stay Connected:Podcast Website: www.thattwinmama.com/podcastFollow on Instagram: @thattwinmamapodcastCredits:Production: Berty EnterprisesEditing: Ryan BertyMusic: Far Eye HousePhoto: Birch ThomasDesign: Erin Fox CreativeSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/that-twin-mama-podcast/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
This one’s for the mom who saw one too many “you’re poisoning your kids” videos and panicked. In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Jessica Knurick—PhD in Nutrition Science and certified dietitian—to talk about the wellness misinformation targeting moms, especially during pregnancy and postpartum.
We unpack:
What “ultra-processed” actually means (spoiler: it’s not just junk food)
Seed oils, food dyes, and the scary headlines
Why formulas contain what they do—and what’s true about high fructose corn syrup
The difference between correlation and causation (and the shark attack example that changed my brain)
How to spot fear-mongering and bad science online
And we get honest about why moms are especially vulnerable to fear-based marketing—and how to protect our peace while still caring deeply.
“Your baby isn’t being poisoned. You’re just being marketed to.” — Dr. Jessica Knurick
🎧 Tune in now for science-backed clarity, myth-busting moments, and the reminder every mom needs: you’re doing better than the algorithm wants you to believe.
👉 Don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and leave a review if this episode gives you a little exhale—we’re building a softer, smarter internet for moms like you.
📚 Follow Dr. Knurick @dr.jessicaknurick
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Editing: Nomadic Orca https://www.nomadicorca.com/
Music: Far Eye House
Photo: Birch Thomas
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Want to get paid for being yourself online—but not lose yourself in the process? This one’s for you.
In this swapcast episode, Lauren shares her guest appearance on The Clever Girls Know Podcast with Bola Sokunbi—founder of Clever Girl Finance and all-around financial fairy godmother. They dive into the real work behind content creation, motherhood, and making a sustainable living online. From YouTube monetization to brand deals that don’t feel icky, this conversation pulls back the curtain on the business of influence—and how Lauren built a brand rooted in joy, not just metrics.
What You’ll Hear:
How Lauren went from “just posting” to full-time content creator
Lauren’s mindset shift around money, creativity, and boundaries
The power of saying no to off-brand offers
Why starting small—and starting real—always wins
Follow Bola @clevergirlfinance and check out her award-winning platform Clever Girl Finance for more on budgeting, wealth building, and financial freedom.
Be sure to subscribe for more candid conversations on parenting, relationships, and life with multiples. If you enjoyed this episode, leave a review and share with fellow parents navigating similar journeys.
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Podcast Website: www.thattwinmama.com/podcast
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Credits:
Production: Berty Enterprises + Clever Girls Know Podcast
Editing: 1 Life/Studio Alliance
Music: Far Eye House
Photo: Birch Thomas
Design: Erin Fox Creative
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Ever feel like you’re constantly putting out fires with your kids—whether it’s toddler tantrums or teen attitude? What if you could ditch the punishments and still raise emotionally intelligent, successful humans?
In this episode of That Twin Mama Podcast, host Lauren Berty sits down with parenting researcher Jon Fogel to explore a game-changing approach to discipline: punishment-free parenting backed by neuroscience.
Jon shares his personal journey into parenting research and how his academic background and lived experiences shaped his philosophy. He breaks down how understanding your child’s brain can lead to more effective and compassionate strategies—whether you're navigating meltdowns with toddlers or pushing boundaries with teens.
From practical tools for emotional regulation to ways of fostering collaboration and connection, this conversation is packed with transformative ideas to help you parent with less stress and more intention.
“The goal isn’t to control our kids—it’s to help them learn to control themselves.” — Jon Fogel
🎧 Tune in now for science-backed strategies, relatable real-talk, and the mindset shift every parent needs.
👉 Don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and leave a review if this episode speaks to you—your support helps us reach more mamas like you!
Jon's book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0593735463/?coliid=I2S82E3NG8ZEMA&colid=PWBSW17T2J62&psc=1&ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_lstpd_R5G4YT228GRPDBJ8JK53
Follow Jon: https://www.instagram.com/wholeparent/
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Podcast Website: www.thattwinmama.com/podcast
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Editing: Nomadic Orca https://www.nomadicorca.com/
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Join host Lauren Berty for Part 2 of her insightful conversation about the Enneagram with Enneagram Ashton on 'That Twin Mama Podcast.' This episode delves into how the Enneagram can enrich parenting and relationships. They discuss the strengths and challenges of different Enneagram types in parenting and marriage, emphasizing the importance of understanding motivations for better communication and conflict resolution. Lauren and Ashton also tackle the intricacies of deciding when and how to type your children. Perfect for parents and partners seeking to deepen their connections and growth.Follow Ashton: https://www.instagram.com/enneagramashton/Ashton’s links: https://enneagramashton.com/products-and-books Truity Enneagram test: https://www.truity.com/test/enneagram-personality-testEnneagram Universe: https://enneagramuniverse.com/enneagram/testStay Connected:Be sure to subscribe for more candid conversations on parenting, relationships, and life with multiples. If you enjoyed this episode, leave a review and share with fellow parents navigating similar journeys. Subscribe here: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCQjWP4J12_TCidrMATVZh_gPodcast Website: www.thattwinmama.com/podcastFollow on Instagram: @thattwinmamapodcastCredits:Production: Berty EnterprisesEditing: Nomadic Orca https://www.nomadicorca.com/Music: Far Eye HousePhoto: Birch ThomasDesign: Erin Fox CreativeSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/that-twin-mama-podcast/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
In this two-part episode of That Twin Mama Podcast, host Lauren Berty delves into the transformative tool of the Enneagram with Enneagram expert Ashton Whitmoyer-Ober. Together, they explore the nine Enneagram types, explaining the core motivations and fears that drive each type. Ashton shares her journey into discovering the Enneagram and how it has profoundly improved her relationships and personal growth. Tune in for the first part of this two-part series, ideal for both newcomers and seasoned Enneagram enthusiasts, who want to better understand themselves and their relationships. Come back next week for the second part of this interview with Ashton to get insights on how Enneagram knowledge can be useful in parenting!Follow Ashton: https://www.instagram.com/enneagramashton/Ashton’s links: https://enneagramashton.com/products-and-books Truity Enneagram test: https://www.truity.com/test/enneagram-personality-testEnneagram Universe: https://enneagramuniverse.com/enneagram/testStay Connected:Be sure to subscribe for more candid conversations on parenting, relationships, and life with multiples. If you enjoyed this episode, leave a review and share with fellow parents navigating similar journeys. Subscribe here: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCQjWP4J12_TCidrMATVZh_gPodcast Website: www.thattwinmama.com/podcastFollow on Instagram: @thattwinmamapodcastCredits:Production: Berty EnterprisesEditing: Nomadic Orca https://www.nomadicorca.com/Music: Far Eye HousePhoto: Birch ThomasDesign: Erin Fox CreativeSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/that-twin-mama-podcast/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
**This episode contains discussions of medical emergencies and may be sensitive for some listeners.**In this powerful and inspiring episode of That Twin Mama Podcast, host Lauren Berty dives into the extraordinary story of Marisa Christie, a Houston mom who survived a rare and life-threatening amniotic fluid embolism (AFE) during the birth of her triplets. Clinically dead for 45 minutes and in a coma for six days, Marisa defied the odds to return to her family and embrace the journey of raising four healthy children.Joined by neonatologist Dr. Rebecca Ballard, they explore the medical and emotional challenges of high-risk pregnancies, the realities of AFE, and the resilience it takes to navigate motherhood after a near-death experience. Marisa shares her harrowing yet uplifting journey of survival, recovery, and newfound gratitude for every moment of parenthood.Tune in for a deeply moving conversation filled with invaluable insights, practical advice for parents of multiples, and a reminder of the immense strength and love that define motherhood—even in the face of the unimaginable.Links:Support Marisa’s GoFundMe https://www.gofundme.com/f/aid-marisas-recovery-and-support-her-familyTo read more about Marisa's story, check out this article from People Magazine https://people.com/mom-forgets-welcoming-triplets-after-being-declared-clinically-dead-45-minutes-8747745 Stay Connected:Be sure to subscribe for more candid conversations on parenting, relationships, and life with multiples. If you enjoyed this episode, leave a review and share with fellow parents navigating similar journeys.Podcast Website: www.thattwinmama.com/podcastFollow on Instagram: @thattwinmamapodcastCredits:Production: Berty EnterprisesEditing: Nomadic Orca https://www.nomadicorca.com/Music: Far Eye HousePhoto: Birch ThomasDesign: Erin Fox CreativeSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/that-twin-mama-podcast/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy