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Uniquely You: Enneagram + Real Life

Uniquely You: Enneagram + Real Life
Author: Wendy Busby
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Welcome to Uniquely You: Enneagram + Real Life — a podcast that brings personality wisdom into everyday moments. Hosted by life and relationship coach Wendy Busby, each episode offers honest conversations, real-life stories, and practical tips for your everyday life. Whether you're new to the Enneagram or deep in your growth journey, this space invites you to explore who you are, how you relate, and what it means to live with more clarity, compassion, and confidence. Tune in, share with a friend, and keep becoming Uniquely You.
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The Enneagram 9 pattern is often misunderstood as merely "easygoing" when in reality Nines have a complex inner world filled with untapped wisdom and power they struggle to access. • 9s often have difficulty defining their own characteristics and may assume others think and feel the same way they do • Self-preservation Nines can appear similar to 6s due to shared behavioral patterns • Nines give others grace easily but struggle to extend the same compassion to themselves • Being "easygoing" ...
The journey of an Enneagram Two reveals a fascinating paradox – an extraordinary capacity to sense others' needs paired with a profound disconnection from one's own. This conversation with Molly Knutson-Keller takes us deep into the world of "The Helper," where we discover how mirror neurons create heightened empathy while simultaneously masking personal needs. Molly shares her winding path to discovering her true type, revealing how even Enneagram experts sometimes misidentify themselves bef...
What if the key to saving your relationship isn't trying harder, but seeing deeper? Relationship psychologist Tracy Baker-Lawrence reveals how our unconscious patterns can either destroy or transform our closest connections. After witnessing countless couples on the brink of divorce after decades together, Tracy developed the DNA method – a powerful framework that examines each couple's unique dynamics, neurobiology, and attention patterns. This approach helps partners understand what's real...
Join me for a Life, Family, Business, and Podcast Branding Update! I'm transitioning this podcast from "Your Enneagram Friend" to "Uniquely You: Enneagram and Real Life" to better reflect the blend of content I want to share with you. The new direction will expand beyond pure Enneagram teaching to include diverse topics and guest experts while maintaining the Enneagram insights you've come to expect. • First episode under the new name will feature Tracy, a Personality and Relationship ...
In this episode Wendy and Molly dive into the head PDP's of the Enneagram, unpacking the complexities of the subtypes of five, six, and seven. We discuss how fear drives their behaviors and the significance of understanding these nuances for personal growth and deeper connections. - Overview of Enneagram subtypes and their importance - Self-preservation five: the need for privacy and control - Social five: the pursuit of knowledge over connection - Sexual five: deeper ...
Explore the transformative power of the Enneagram with Milton Stewart (Type SP 7) as he shares his experiences, teachings, and insights. In this episode Milton and I talk about self-preservation Seven, techniques for managing energy, overcoming emotions, and the impact of continuous improvement on personal and organizational growth. • Milton's journey discovering the Enneagram • Managing high energy and finding balance • Confronting uncomfortable emotions • Importance...
Discover the transformative power of the Enneagram as your personal roadmap to self-awareness. Join me, Wendy Busby, on "Your Enneagram Friend" podcast, as I unravel the complexities of this intriguing personality system and address the 10 most frequently asked questions. Here are the questions I answer! 1. What is the Enneagram? 2. What are the nine types or numbers? 3. Can my Enneagram type change? 4. What are Wings and Arrows? 5. What do you mean when you are talking about Instincts...
Unravel the complex world of Enneagram subtypes with us as we journey through types 2, 3, and 4 in this enlightening episode. Ever wondered how individuals of the same type can behave so differently? Wendy Busby and her insightful teaching partner Molly Knutson-Keller help crack this enigma wide open by exploring the hidden layers added by instinctual drives: self-preservation, social, and sexual. Dive into Wendy's personal story as a self-preservation four and Molly's perspective as a self-p...
Ever wondered if a midlife transition could be more of a rebirth than a crisis? Join me, Wendy Busby, as I chat with Nevada Lane (Type SP 3) on Your Enneagram Friend Podcast. Nevada talks about the often misunderstood midlife phase, not as a crisis but as a crucial stage for reevaluating life's priorities and personal identity. This episode is brimming with insights that could illuminate your path through midlife's transformative waters. Nevada and I discuss how being surrounded by those who...
Imagine discovering a tool that not only helps you understand yourself but also transforms your marriage. That’s what my husband Josh and I experienced with the Enneagram. Join us on "Your Enneagram Friend" as we unravel the intricate dance between a Type Nine and a Type Four, sharing heartfelt stories from our 23-year journey. From Josh’s revelation of his conflict-averse Type Nine tendencies to my Type Four need for deep emotional connection, we offer a candid look at how understanding thes...
Ever wondered how the Enneagram can offer even more nuanced insights into your personality? Join us on Your Enneagram Friend podcast as we delve into the fascinating world of Enneagram subtypes with Wendy Busby and Molly Knutson-Keller. You'll learn why the Enneagram's 27 subtypes provide a richer understanding of human behavior. This episode is part 1 of our 3-part series on Subtypes. In it we walk you through the intricacies of the Self-Preservation, Social, and Sexual expressions of Types...
Ever wondered how somatic practices like breathwork can transform your life? As a breathwork facilitator, Courtney provides insights into the power of integrating body awareness with mental and emotional insights. We discuss how understanding Enneagram types can revolutionize personal and professional relationships by fostering empathy and effective communication. We challenge the cultural tendency to undervalue bodily intuition and advocate for a holistic appreciation of our centers of intel...
Ever wondered how the Enneagram can transform your understanding of yourself and your relationships? Join me as I sit down with Eric Scherrer, who shares his enlightening journey as a Self-Preservation Type Three! Eric offers a candid look at the pressures and anxieties faced by a self-preservation Type 3, including the constant balancing act of striving for success and maintaining financial security. Counseling and coaching play pivotal roles in his coping strategies, and we discuss t...
Ever wondered how understanding your dominant Enneagram instinct could transform your everyday life? Join Wendy and Molly as they unpack the intricacies of self-preservation, social, and sexual instincts. Discover how our self-preservation instincts influence everything from home organization to financial security, through our personal stories and anecdotes. We also delve into the fascinating concept of subtypes, where your dominant instinct pairs with your Enneagram type to create a unique p...
Ever wondered how the Enneagram can transform your life and career? Join Wendy Busby as she sits down with Hans, a fellow Enneagram Type Four, who transitioned from the high-stakes world of law and banking in London to a rewarding career in life and career coaching. Hans shares his heartfelt journey from growing up in Germany to discovering the profound insights of the Enneagram during a coaching training in California. His story is a testament to the power of self-awareness and the possibili...
What if you've spent years believing you were one type of person, only to discover you were something entirely different? Join me as I sit down with my dear friend Mary Shaw to uncover her Enneagram journey. Mary was first introduced to the Enneagram in the early 2000s but was mistakenly typed as a Six. This misidentification led to years of confusion until she finally sought accurate typing in 2017, only to discover she was a Type One. Mary opens up about her initial resistance and the compl...
Are you ready to gain a deeper understanding of yourself and those around you? Join Wendy Busby and her inspiring co-host, Molly Knutson-Keller, a certified Enneagram coach and former Lutheran pastor, as they talk about all Nine Enneagram types! Wendy and Molly introduce their collaborative venture, Enneagram in Action, which is designed to help you integrate Enneagram wisdom into your everyday life, enhancing your relationships, parenting, work dynamics, and spiritual journey. This e...
Tune into today’s episode for a revealing chat with Wendy and her guest, Kelly Scherrer, as they dive into the life of an Enneagram Type Nine. They explore the type's core passion of Sloth, delve into the fixation of Indolence, and discuss the virtue of Right Action. Kelly also shares some eye-opening realizations, like how her solo journaling sessions might just be her Sloth in disguise! Follow Wendy for more Enneagram insights: 👉 https://www.instagram.com/your_enneagram_friend/ Curious abou...
Welcome to the Your Enneagram Friend Podcast! Who is Wendy and why is she doing this podcast? Wendy invited her friend Tom Burks to ask her some questions about herself, the Enneagram, and why wants to start a podcast! Are you curious about what your Enneagram is? Click here to buy the online Enneagram Test https://wendybusbycoaching.com/online-enneagram-test For more Enneagram insights follow Wendy on Instagram @wendy_lifeandlove_coach www.instagram.com/wendy_lifeandlove_coach/ Are you rea...
Fatima, a clinical psychologist from Kuwait, shares her journey from people-pleasing to authentic living and how she helps women reconnect with themselves after trauma and disconnection. • Discovered her calling to psychology at age 11 without understanding what it meant • Studied anthropology before completing a master's in clinical psychology at the University of Edinburgh • Specializes in helping women who feel disempowered or unable to express their authentic selves • Explains how collec...