Coming Inside OUT: An LGBTQ podcast uplifting gay fathers, men, and those exploring their sexuality.

In Part Two of our conversation with The Gay Sex Coach, Allen Marion, we move beyond awareness and into integration — exploring what it actually takes to build emotionally mature, intentional relationships as gay men. Brian, Mark, and Allen unpack the difference between chemistry and compatibility, and how unresolved shame, attachment wounds, and past conditioning can quietly shape who we pursue and why. The conversation examines emotional expectations in dating, the pressure of response times, and the importance of honoring your own pace rather than reacting from anxiety or scarcity. They dive deeper into vulnerability — not as oversharing, but as emotional honesty rooted in self-awareness. What does it mean to communicate your needs clearly? How do you sit with ambiguity without spiraling? And how do you stop performing and start relating?Part Two also explores boundaries in monogamous and non-monogamous dynamics, navigating relationships with partnered men, and understanding the emotional weight that casual connections can carry. The idea of intentionality returns as a central theme — encouraging listeners to slow down, reflect before reacting, and build a relationship structure that is consciously chosen rather than unconsciously inherited. At its core, this episode challenges gay men to move from reactive dating patterns to empowered relational choices — grounded in clarity, confidence, and emotional responsibility. Coming inside OUT is a safe space where listeners can find solidarity, inspiration, and the courage to embrace their true selves. Whether you're a gay father, gay parent, a person exploring your identity, or an ally seeking to understand the experiences of the LGBTQ community, this podcast is for you. Tune in for heartfelt conversations, insight and a sense of belonging that we all crave. Join your hosts, Brian and Mark, as they candidly share their own journeys out of the closet while navigating the joys and challenges of parenthood as openly gay fathers. In each episode, Mark and Brian connect with fellow gay dads, sharing their inspiring stories, victories, and struggles. They delve into the complexities of grappling with sexuality, discussing their experiences as teens, husbands, and dads. Together, they aim to foster a supportive community for those still in the closet, reassuring them that they are not alone in their journey. Join us on this journey of love, acceptance, and authenticity! Contact us at cominginsideout@gmail.com #gay #lgbtqpodcast #lgbtq #pride #gaymen #loveislove #gayfathers #gaydad #comingoutstory #TheGaySexCoach Keywords: gay men, sexual power, relational power, religious upbringing, shame, guilt, self-sabotage, sexual exploration, monogamy, communication, authenticity, dating apps, ghosting, emotional expectations, response times, intentionality, masturbation, relationship rules, body image, self-perception, fuck buddies Takeaways: Helping gay men reclaim their sexual and relational power is crucial. Religious backgrounds often instill shame around sexuality. Minority stress affects the mental health of gay individuals. Shame and guilt can persist even after coming out. Self-sabotage manifests in various ways in relationships. Letting go of past conditioning is essential for authenticity. Exploring sexual identity requires understanding one's desires. Finding community can be challenging for gay men in small towns. Communication is key in defining relationship boundaries. Masturbation should be normalized in relationships. Apps can provide access to community but should be used intentionally. Understanding your feelings before using dating apps is crucial. Response times on dating apps vary; it's important to honor your own pace. Being comfortable with ambiguity can alleviate pressure in dating.

Welcome to Part One of a powerful and deeply honest conversation with The Gay Sex Coach, Allen Marion. In this episode, Brian Janes and Mark Dembo dive into what it truly means for gay men to reclaim their sexual and relational power—especially after years of shame, guilt, and conditioning rooted in religious upbringing and minority stress. Together, they explore how shame compounds over time, often lingering long after coming out, and how it quietly fuels self-sabotage in dating, intimacy, and relationships. The conversation unpacks the complexities of sexual exploration, monogamy, and non-monogamy, while emphasizing the importance of slowing down, getting clear on personal desires, and letting go of heteronormative rules that no longer serve. Brian, Mark, and Allen also examine the realities of dating apps—ghosting, response times, emotional expectations, and intentionality—and why understanding your own emotional state before engaging online is crucial. They discuss the role of masturbation in relationships, normalizing it as a healthy form of self-connection rather than a taboo, and introduce the idea of a “relationship rule book” to prevent misunderstandings and unmet expectations. Throughout the episode, body image, self-perception, and the dynamics of casual sex and fuck buddies are addressed with nuance and compassion. At its core, this conversation is about authenticity: learning to communicate honestly, sit with ambiguity, and build connections rooted in self-acceptance rather than fear or performance. This episode sets the foundation for deeper exploration in Part Two—inviting listeners to reflect, unlearn, and reclaim their power with intention. Coming inside OUT is a safe space where listeners can find solidarity, inspiration, and the courage to embrace their true selves. Whether you're a gay father, gay parent, a person exploring your identity, or an ally seeking to understand the experiences of the LGBTQ community, this podcast is for you. Tune in for heartfelt conversations, insight and a sense of belonging that we all crave. Join your hosts, Brian and Mark, as they candidly share their own journeys out of the closet while navigating the joys and challenges of parenthood as openly gay fathers. In each episode, Mark and Brian connect with fellow gay dads, sharing their inspiring stories, victories, and struggles. They delve into the complexities of grappling with sexuality, discussing their experiences as teens, husbands, and dads. Together, they aim to foster a supportive community for those still in the closet, reassuring them that they are not alone in their journey. Join us on this journey of love, acceptance, and authenticity! Contact us at cominginsideout@gmail.com #gay #lgbtqpodcast #lgbtq #pride #gaymen #loveislove #gayfathers #gaydad #comingoutstory #TheGaySexCoach Keywords: gay men, sexual power, relational power, religious upbringing, shame, guilt, self-sabotage, sexual exploration, monogamy, communication, authenticity, dating apps, ghosting, emotional expectations, response times, intentionality, masturbation, relationship rules, body image, self-perception, fuck buddies Takeaways: Helping gay men reclaim their sexual and relational power is crucial. Religious backgrounds often instill shame around sexuality. Minority stress affects the mental health of gay individuals. Shame and guilt can persist even after coming out. Self-sabotage manifests in various ways in relationships. Letting go of past conditioning is essential for authenticity. Exploring sexual identity requires understanding one's desires. Finding community can be challenging for gay men in small towns. Communication is key in defining relationship boundaries. Masturbation should be normalized in relationships. Apps can provide access to community but should be used intentionally.

In this episode, Mark and Brian sit with the emotional weight of the moment— politics, social media, and the constant hum of bad news and talk honestly about how it all lands in the body. They explore the unique need for community among gay fathers, especially for men coming out later in life, and the quiet courage it takes to rebuild relationships while staying emotionally present. The conversation moves through gratitude, burnout, and the freedom that comes with raising personal standards—both in relationships and in how we show up for ourselves. Mark and Brian reflect on the reality that coming out isn’t a finish line but the beginning of a new chapter, one shaped by timing, self-compassion, and the willingness to feel everything—even the hard parts. This episode is a reminder that you’re not behind, you’re not broken, and you don’t have to carry it all alone. Joy still exists in small moments. Community still matters. And it’s okay to step back, breathe, and honor exactly where you are. Coming inside OUT is a safe space where listeners can find solidarity, inspiration, and the courage to embrace their true selves. Whether you're a gay father, gay parent, a person exploring your identity, or an ally seeking to understand the experiences of the LGBTQ community, this podcast is for you. Tune in for heartfelt conversations, insight and a sense of belonging that we all crave. Join your hosts, Brian and Mark, as they candidly share their own journeys out of the closet while navigating the joys and challenges of parenthood as openly gay fathers. In each episode, Mark and Brian connect with fellow gay dads, sharing their inspiring stories, victories, and struggles. They delve into the complexities of grappling with sexuality, discussing their experiences as teens, husbands, and dads. Together, they aim to foster a supportive community for those still in the closet, reassuring them that they are not alone in their journey. Join us on this journey of love, acceptance, and authenticity! Contact us at cominginsideout@gmail.com #gay #lgbtqpodcast #lgbtq #pride #gaymen #loveislove #gayfathers #gaydad #comingoutstory Takeaways: Emotional saturation from current events can be overwhelming. Community support is vital for gay fathers. Finding joy in small moments is essential for mental health. It's important to raise personal standards in relationships. Gratitude can shift perspective on life circumstances. Acknowledging feelings is crucial for emotional well-being. Coming out is just the beginning of a new journey. Timing in coming out is unique to each individual. Relationships may shift after coming out, and that's natural. It's okay to take a break from social obligations. Keywords: LGBTQ+, coming out, gay fathers, emotional health, community, social media, political climate, gratitude, relationships, personal growth

Brian and Mark kick off Season 3 with a candid and timely conversation about the responsibility of speaking up in a political climate that increasingly impacts the LGBTQ community. They explore why silence can feel safer—but often comes at a cost—and how social media, when used intentionally, can be a powerful tool for activism, visibility, and connection. The discussion weaves together political engagement with deeply personal reflections on coming out, navigating relationships, and finding community later in life. Brian and Mark share how fear, complacency, and self-doubt can hold us back, while small, intentional steps can lead to meaningful change. As they reflect on the start of a new year, the hosts talk openly about reinvention, self-acceptance, and what it means to live unapologetically as gay men. This Season 3 opener sets the tone for honest dialogue, personal growth, and active engagement—reminding listeners that it’s never too late to redefine who you are, use your voice, and support one another along the journey toward authenticity. Coming inside OUT is a safe space where listeners can find solidarity, inspiration, and the courage to embrace their true selves. Whether you're a gay father, gay parent, a person exploring your identity, or an ally seeking to understand the experiences of the LGBTQ community, this podcast is for you. Tune in for heartfelt conversations, insight and a sense of belonging that we all crave. Join your hosts, Brian and Mark, as they candidly share their own journeys out of the closet while navigating the joys and challenges of parenthood as openly gay fathers. In each episode, Mark and Brian connect with fellow gay dads, sharing their inspiring stories, victories, and struggles. They delve into the complexities of grappling with sexuality, discussing their experiences as teens, husbands, and dads. Together, they aim to foster a supportive community for those still in the closet, reassuring them that they are not alone in their journey. Join us on this journey of love, acceptance, and authenticity! Contact us at cominginsideout@gmail.com #gay #lgbtq #gaymen #gayfathers #comingoutstory Takeaways The importance of being vocal about political issues affecting the LGBTQ community. Social media can be a powerful tool for activism and awareness. Navigating relationships can be challenging, especially during the coming out process. Setting intentions for the new year can help guide personal growth. Reinvention is possible at any stage of life. Self-acceptance is crucial for living authentically. The political climate requires active engagement from the community. It's important to share experiences and support one another. Fear can hold us back from living our true selves. Small steps can lead to significant changes in our lives. Keywords: LGBTQ, coming out, political activism, social media, relationships, personal growth, gay men, community support, podcast, mental health

In this deeply personal episode of Coming Inside Out, hosts Mark and Brian open up about the emotional terrain of the holiday season, weaving together themes of coming out, grief, family, and the ongoing journey toward authenticity. Mark shares a heartfelt reflection on his father’s recent passing and the profound impact of having come out to him shortly before he died. His story invites listeners into the complex intersection of love, fear, relief, and loss—capturing the power and vulnerability of sharing one’s truth. As Mark puts it, “I’m glad I had the chance to tell him.” The conversation moves into the challenges many LGBTQ+ individuals face during the holidays, when family dynamics, traditions, and expectations can bring both comfort and pain. Brian and Mark discuss how grief can resurface during this time, how being “the outsider” can shape gatherings, and why letting go of preconceived expectations can create space for more authentic experiences. The hosts also explore the unique journey of coming out later in life, including what Mark jokingly refers to as his “gay adolescence.” They touch on dating, navigating relationships with openness, and the importance of vulnerability in forming deeper connections. Along the way, they highlight the crucial role of community—especially for gay fathers seeking belonging and support. Through honest dialogue and lived experience, they remind listeners that personal growth often emerges from embracing one’s true self, even in seasons marked by transition. The episode closes with words of gratitude and encouragement, offering listeners resources, solidarity, and the reassurance that no one has to walk this journey alone. Cominginsideout @gmail.com #GayDads #Closeted #ComingOut #LGBTQ #Gay Keywords: LGBTQ+, coming out, holiday season, grief, vulnerability, authenticity, family dynamics, community, relationships, personal growth Takeaways: Mark reflects on his father's passing and its impact on his life. Coming out can be a source of fear, but also empowerment. The holiday season can evoke mixed emotions for many. Grief can complicate family dynamics during holidays. Vulnerability is key to authentic relationships. Gratitude can be found even in difficult times. Community support is vital for LGBTQ+ individuals. Dating can be challenging, especially later in life. It's important to let go of expectations in social situations. Personal growth often comes from embracing one's true self

In this heartfelt episode of Coming Inside OUT, Brian and Mark open up about their personal experiences as gay men, exploring the deep themes of love, vulnerability, authenticity, and the ongoing process of coming out. They reflect on their own family dynamics, relationships, and the ways personal growth continues to shape their lives. The conversation dives into how love is expansive—not finite—and how vulnerability can create stronger bonds with family, friends, partners, and community. Brian and Mark also discuss the challenges of superficiality within the gay community and how “personal armor” can keep people from building the genuine connections they crave. Together, they emphasize the power of living intentionally, designing a life with purpose, and embracing change at any stage of life. From Halloween stories to the transformative impact of journaling, the hosts share honest reflections that remind listeners it’s never too late to come out, evolve, or rediscover themselves. They anchor the episode in the importance of community support for anyone navigating their sexuality or identity. Coming inside OUT is a safe space where listeners can find solidarity, inspiration, and the courage to embrace their true selves. Whether you're a gay father, gay parent, a person exploring your identity, or an ally seeking to understand the experiences of the LGBTQ community, this podcast is for you. Tune in for heartfelt conversations, insight and a sense of belonging that we all crave. Join your hosts, Brian and Mark, as they candidly share their own journeys out of the closet while navigating the joys and challenges of parenthood as openly gay fathers. In each episode, Mark and Brian connect with fellow gay dads, sharing their inspiring stories, victories, and struggles. They delve into the complexities of grappling with sexuality, discussing their experiences as teens, husbands, and dads. Together, they aim to foster a supportive community for those still in the closet, reassuring them that they are not alone in their journey. Join us on this journey of love, acceptance, and authenticity! Contact us at cominginsideout@gmail.com #gay #lgbtqpodcast #lgbtq #pride #gaymen #loveislove #gayfathers #gaydad #comingoutstory Keywords: LGBTQ, coming out, relationships, vulnerability, personal growth, gay community, family dynamics, authenticity, love, support Takeaways: Love can be many different things and is not finite. Coming out is an ongoing process, not a one-time event. Building authentic connections is crucial for personal growth. Superficiality in the gay community can be a barrier to genuine relationships. It's important to be intentional about designing your life. Vulnerability can lead to deeper relationships with family and friends. Journaling can be a powerful tool for self-reflection and connection. It's never too late to come out or make life changes. Living authentically can lead to a sense of being anchored in life. Community support is vital for those navigating their sexuality.

In this heartfelt episode, Mark and Brian open up about their personal journeys of coming out, embracing authenticity, and learning to live without shame. Through honest conversation, they explore the emotional complexities of self-acceptance, the power of vulnerability, and how community support can transform isolation into connection. From navigating family dynamics to rebuilding self-worth, the hosts reflect on the process of integrating who they were with who they’ve become. This episode reminds listeners that coming out isn’t a one-time event—it’s a lifelong act of courage, healing, and growth. Coming Inside OUT is a safe space for solidarity, inspiration, and the courage to live authentically. Whether you’re a gay dad, exploring your identity, or an ally seeking understanding, this podcast is for you. Hosts Brian and Mark share their own journeys of coming out and fatherhood while connecting with fellow gay dads about their victories, struggles, and stories. Together, they explore the challenges of identity, relationships, and parenting—reminding listeners that no one has to walk this path alone. 🎙️ Whether you’re navigating your own journey of self-discovery, or seeking ways to build deeper support and connection, this episode offers both inspiration and actionable takeaways for living boldly and unapologetically. 📩 Contact: cominginsideout@gmail.com #Gay #ComingOut #LGBTQ #LoveisLove #gayparents Keywords: coming out, LGBTQ+, self-acceptance, emotional vulnerability, community support, personal growth, authenticity, relationships, pride, mental health Takeaways: Over 2,700 events were held for the No Kings rallies. Attending marches can create a sense of community and support. Coming out is a unique journey for everyone. Vulnerability is a strength, not a weakness. Supportive friendships enhance emotional well-being. Unlearning shame is crucial for self-acceptance. Integrating past and present selves is an ongoing process. Healing involves sharing stories and experiences. Authenticity leads to deeper connections with others. The journey of self-discovery continues throughout life.

In this powerful episode, hosts Mark Dembo and Brian Janes sit down with renowned psychotherapist, author, and LGBTQ+ advocate Dr. Joe Kort @drjoekort to explore the emotional journey of coming out—particularly later in life. With over 40 years of experience, Dr. Kort brings deep insight into the challenges gay men face around identity, relationships, self-care, and community.Together, they unpack the stages of coming out, the weight of internalized homophobia, and the grief that often accompanies leaving behind heterosexual privilege and long-term relationships. Dr. Kort also highlights the importance of self-care, building genuine connections, and finding one’s tribe in the LGBTQ+ community.The conversation touches on mixed-orientation marriages, open relationships, dating in the age of apps, and the emergence of the “side” identity in gay men’s sexuality. Listeners will walk away with encouragement to live authentically, practice kindness, and embrace activism as part of their personal growth.Coming Inside OUT is a safe space for solidarity, inspiration, and the courage to live authentically. Whether you’re a gay dad, exploring your identity, or an ally seeking understanding, this podcast is for you.Hosts Brian and Mark share their own journeys of coming out and fatherhood while connecting with fellow gay dads about their victories, struggles, and stories. Together, they explore the challenges of identity, relationships, and parenting—reminding listeners that no one has to walk this path alone.🎙️ Whether you’re navigating your own journey of self-discovery, or seeking ways to build deeper support and connection, this episode offers both inspiration and actionable takeaways for living boldly and unapologetically.📩 Contact: cominginsideout@gmail.com #Gay #ComingOut #LGBTQ #LGBTQPodcast #Pride365 #GayMentalHealth #MixedOrientationMarriage #GayPodcast🔑 Keywords: coming out, gay men, LGBTQ+, therapy, mental health, identity, relationships, self-care, community, activism, Joe Kort, mixed orientation marriages, internalized homophobia, living authentically, tribe, dating, open relationships, acceptance, pride, belonging✨ Takeaways: • Coming out later in life can bring both grief and freedom. • Community and belonging are essential for mental health. • Self-care and relationship skills are crucial for navigating new chapters. • Internalized homophobia is common but can be healed with reflection and support. • Living authentically means finding your tribe—and remembering you are not alone. This episode is a must-listen for anyone navigating their identity, seeking community, or supporting others on their coming out journey.

In this episode of Coming Inside OUT, hosts Brian and Mark open up about the power of community, connection, and authenticity within the LGBTQ experience. Reflecting on their time at a gay fathers retreat, they share personal stories of growth, mental health, and the role therapy has played in their journeys. With Suicide Awareness Month as the backdrop, the conversation highlights the importance of uplifting one another, finding positivity in everyday life, and speaking out against challenges to LGBTQ rights. From navigating guilt and shame in relationships, to embracing leadership by living authentically, this episode is both deeply personal and universally inspiring. Whether you’re a gay dad, a person struggling with your sexuality, or someone seeking solidarity and hope, this conversation offers reminders that community is essential, connection brings strength, and no one has to walk this path alone. Hosts Brian and Mark share their own journeys of coming out and fatherhood while connecting with fellow gay dads about their victories, struggles, and stories. Together, they explore the challenges of identity, relationships, and parenting—reminding listeners that no one has to walk this path alone. 🎙️ Whether you’re navigating your own journey of self-discovery, or seeking ways to build deeper support and connection, this episode offers both inspiration and actionable takeaways for living boldly and unapologetically. 📩 Contact: cominginsideout@gmail.com #Gay #ComingOut #LGBTQ #LGBTQPodcast #Pride365 #GayMentalHealth #GayPodcast #Suicideawareness Keywords: LGBTQ, community, mental health, suicide awareness, personal growth, therapy, relationships, authenticity, positivity, gay fathers Takeaways: Community is essential for support and authenticity. The Michelangelo effect highlights the importance of uplifting others. Suicide Awareness Month reminds us of the struggles within the LGBTQ community. Therapy is a valuable tool for personal evolution and growth. Navigating relationships can bring up feelings of guilt and shame. Finding positivity in everyday moments is crucial for mental health. It's important to speak out against political challenges to LGBTQ rights. Personal growth often involves confronting what we avoid. Being out can enhance leadership and authenticity. Connection with others can provide hope and strength.

In this episode of Coming Inside Out, hosts Mark Dembo and Brian Janes sit down with Rick Clemons (@rickclemons), coach, author, and advocate for LGBTQ+ authenticity. Together, they explore Rick’s personal journey of coming out and the unique challenges faced by gay men in midlife—from navigating modern dating dynamics to overcoming patterns of people-pleasing and fear.Rick shares his insights on the power of community and support, the importance of self-acceptance, and how to embrace vulnerability as a path toward deeper connection. The conversation highlights practical strategies for building confidence, honoring personal desires, and finding relationships rooted in authenticity rather than expectation. Listeners will come away inspired by Rick’s reminder that living authentically means moving forward with “no excuses, no fears, and no apologies.”🎙️ Whether you’re navigating your own journey of self-discovery, or seeking ways to build deeper support and connection, this episode offers both inspiration and actionable takeaways for living boldly and unapologetically.Coming Inside OUT is a safe space for solidarity, inspiration, and the courage to live authentically. Whether you’re a gay dad, exploring your identity, or an ally seeking understanding, this podcast is for you.Hosts Brian and Mark share their own journeys of coming out and fatherhood while connecting with fellow gay dads about their victories, struggles, and stories. Together, they explore the challenges of identity, relationships, and parenting—reminding listeners that no one has to walk this path alone.📩 Contact: cominginsideout@gmail.com✨ Key Themes: • Living authentically as a gay man in midlife • The evolving dynamics of dating and hookup culture • Building confidence and embracing vulnerability • Breaking free from people-pleasing tendencies • The role of community and safe spaces in personal growth • Finding meaningful connections aligned with personal values🔑 Keywords • LGBTQ+ authenticity • Gay men in midlife • Coming out journey • Self-acceptance and confidence • Community and support • Dating and relationships • People-pleasing • Vulnerability and connection • Living authentically • Personal growth and self-discovery#LGBTQ #GayMen #ComingOut #Authenticity #GayDating #SelfAcceptance #PersonalGrowth #CommunitySupport #BeYourself #ConnectionMatters #GayPodcast #QueerVoices #LoveWithoutFear #GayMidlife #LGBTQPodcast #Gay #RickClemons #suicidepreventionmonth

In this episode of the Coming Inside Out podcast, hosts Brian Janes and Mark Dembo explore the importance of male friendships, the journey of coming out, and the complexities of relationships within the LGBTQ community. They share personal experiences, discuss the impact of AI on relationships, and emphasize the need for empathy and understanding in the community. The conversation also touches on the state of LGBTQ rights and the significance of personal growth and connection. Coming inside OUT is a safe space where listeners can find solidarity, inspiration, and the courage to embrace their true selves. Whether you're a gay father, gay parent, a person exploring your identity, or an ally seeking to understand the experiences of the LGBTQ community, this podcast is for you. Tune in for heartfelt conversations, insight and a sense of belonging that we all crave. Join your hosts, Brian and Mark, as they candidly share their own journeys out of the closet while navigating the joys and challenges of parenthood as openly gay fathers. In each episode, Mark and Brian connect with fellow gay dads, sharing their inspiring stories, victories, and struggles. They delve into the complexities of grappling with sexuality, discussing their experiences as teens, husbands, and dads. Together, they aim to foster a supportive community for those still in the closet, reassuring them that they are not alone in their journey. Contact us at cominginsideout@gmail.com #gay #lgbtqpodcast #lgbtq #pride #gaymen #loveislove #gayfathers #gaydad #comingout #mycomingoutstory, pride2025 Keywords: gay men, coming out, male friendships, LGBTQ rights, personal growth, empathy, relationships, AI, virtual connections, guilt Takeaways: The experience of watching a movie with close male friends can be transformative. Many gay men struggle with forming close friendships due to societal conditioning. Virtual connections can provide a sense of community and support. AI tools can be beneficial for self-reflection but require careful use. Guilt and shame often accompany the coming out process, even for those who are out. It's important to focus on the present and what is, rather than what was lost. LGBTQ rights are under threat, and awareness is crucial. Personal growth often involves recognizing one's role in the lives of others. Empathy is essential in the LGBTQ community, especially for those still in the closet. Building new memories and connections is vital for healing and growth.

In this episode, Mark and Brian discuss their recent experiences at Montreal Pride, reflecting on the joy and guilt that can accompany personal celebrations. They delve into the current political climate regarding LGBTQ+ rights in the U.S., including the challenges faced by the trans community. The conversation touches on the pervasive hate in society and the importance of community and mindfulness in personal growth. They also explore the significance of spirituality and support systems for LGBTQ+ individuals, and the need for networking and building connections within the community. The episode concludes with a focus on new beginnings and the excitement of upcoming guests. Coming inside OUT is a safe space where listeners can find solidarity, inspiration, and the courage to embrace their true selves. Whether you're a gay father, gay parent, a person exploring your identity, or an ally seeking to understand the experiences of the LGBTQ community, this podcast is for you. Tune in for heartfelt conversations, insight and a sense of belonging that we all crave. Join your hosts, Brian and Mark, as they candidly share their own journeys out of the closet while navigating the joys and challenges of parenthood as openly gay fathers. In each episode, Mark and Brian connect with fellow gay dads, sharing their inspiring stories, victories, and struggles. They delve into the complexities of grappling with sexuality, discussing their experiences as teens, husbands, and dads. Together, they aim to foster a supportive community for those still in the closet, reassuring them that they are not alone in their journey. Join us on this journey of love, acceptance, and authenticity! Contact us at cominginsideout@gmail.com #gay #lgbtqpodcast #lgbtq #pride #gaymen #loveislove #gayfathers #gaydad #comingout #mycomingoutstory, pride2025 Keywords: LGBTQ, Pride, Montreal, Guilt, Community, Mindfulness, Trans Rights, Political Climate, Spirituality, Personal Growth Takeaways: Montreal Pride was a joyful experience for Mark. Guilt can accompany moments of celebration. The political climate for LGBTQ+ rights is concerning. Trans rights in sports is a contentious issue. There is a growing backlash against LGBTQ+ rights in the U.S. Hate and division are prevalent in society today. Mindfulness and gratitude are essential for personal growth. Building community is crucial for support and connection. Spirituality can provide a sense of belonging for LGBTQ+ individuals.

In this episode, hosts Brian and Mark reflect on their summer hiatus, discuss cultural icons that have influenced their understanding of sexuality, and engage with listener topics ranging from dating dynamics to mental health resources. They share personal experiences in navigating online dating, the importance of community, and the challenges of finding balance in a chaotic world. The conversation also touches on humorous and satirical takes on current events, emphasizing the complexity of personal growth and healing in the face of change. Coming inside OUT is a safe space where listeners can find solidarity, inspiration, and the courage to embrace their true selves. Whether you're a gay father, gay parent, a person exploring your identity, or an ally seeking to understand the experiences of the LGBTQ community, this podcast is for you. Tune in for heartfelt conversations, insight and a sense of belonging that we all crave. Join your hosts, Brian and Mark, as they candidly share their own journeys out of the closet while navigating the joys and challenges of parenthood as openly gay fathers. In each episode, Mark and Brian connect with fellow gay dads, sharing their inspiring stories, victories, and struggles. They delve into the complexities of grappling with sexuality, discussing their experiences as teens, husbands, and dads. Together, they aim to foster a supportive community for those still in the closet, reassuring them that they are not alone in their journey. Join us on this journey of love, acceptance, and authenticity! Contact us at cominginsideout@gmail.com #gay #lgbtqpodcast #lgbtq #pride #gaymen #loveislove #gayfathers #gaydad #comingout #mycomingoutstory, #KenKrell #mydailyhugKeywords: LGBTQ, gay culture, dating, relationships, mental health, self-care, community, personal growth, pop culture, coming out Takeaways: The importance of community and connection for gay men. Cultural icons can play a significant role in self-discovery. Listener engagement shapes the podcast's direction. Dating dynamics change with new environments. Online dating requires a keen sense of discernment. Exploring gay spaces fosters a sense of belonging. Surprising experiences can occur in social settings. Positive affirmations can enhance mental well-being. Finding balance amidst chaos is crucial for mental health. Transitioning spaces can lead to personal growth.

In this powerful episode of 40 Plus, Gay Men, Gay Talk Rick Clemons sits down with Mark Dembo to talk about coming out later in life, the messy beauty of self-discovery, and the liberating (and terrifying) freedom that comes with being unapologetically you. They cover: Guilt, anxiety, and codependence in late-life coming out Why authenticity is a leadership superpower Couples counseling, redefining relationships, and facing your truth Coaching vs. fixing: helping people find their own answers The reality of political “allies” who aren’t really allies at all Whether you’re on the brink of change or deep in the thick of it, this episode is your reminder that it’s never too late to come home to yourself. Coming inside OUT is a safe space where listeners can find solidarity, inspiration, and the courage to embrace their true selves. Whether you're a gay father, gay parent, a person exploring your identity, or an ally seeking to understand the experiences of the LGBTQ community, this podcast is for you. Tune in for heartfelt conversations, insight and a sense of belonging that we all crave. Join your hosts, Brian and Mark, as they candidly share their own journeys out of the closet while navigating the joys and challenges of parenthood as openly gay fathers. In each episode, Mark and Brian connect with fellow gay dads, sharing their inspiring stories, victories, and struggles. They delve into the complexities of grappling with sexuality, discussing their experiences as teens, husbands, and dads. Together, they aim to foster a supportive community for those still in the closet, reassuring them that they are not alone in their journey. Join us on this journey of love, acceptance, and authenticity! Contact us at cominginsideout@gmail.com #gay #lgbtqpodcast #lgbtq #pride #gaymen #loveislove #gayfathers #gaydad #comingout #mycomingoutstory, #pride2025 Keywords: podcast, LGBTQ+, relationships, Pride Month, personal growth, community support, open relationships, polyamory, current events, emotional well-being

In this episode of the Coming Inside Out podcast, hosts Mark and Brian celebrate their 50th episode while reflecting on personal experiences and current events affecting the LGBTQ+ community. They discuss the significance of Pride Month, the importance of community support, and the complexities of navigating relationships, including open and polyamorous dynamics. The conversation emphasizes the need for vigilance in the face of adversity while also recognizing the beauty and joy in life. The episode concludes with a heartfelt discussion about healing relationships and the unexpected moments of connection that can arise. Coming inside OUT is a safe space where listeners can find solidarity, inspiration, and the courage to embrace their true selves. Whether you're a gay father, gay parent, a person exploring your identity, or an ally seeking to understand the experiences of the LGBTQ community, this podcast is for you. Tune in for heartfelt conversations, insight and a sense of belonging that we all crave. Join your hosts, Brian and Mark, as they candidly share their own journeys out of the closet while navigating the joys and challenges of parenthood as openly gay fathers. In each episode, Mark and Brian connect with fellow gay dads, sharing their inspiring stories, victories, and struggles. They delve into the complexities of grappling with sexuality, discussing their experiences as teens, husbands, and dads. Together, they aim to foster a supportive community for those still in the closet, reassuring them that they are not alone in their journey. Join us on this journey of love, acceptance, and authenticity! Contact us at cominginsideout@gmail.com #gay #lgbtqpodcast #lgbtq #pride #gaymen #loveislove #gayfathers #gaydad #comingout #mycomingoutstory, pride2025 Keywords: podcast, LGBTQ+, relationships, Pride Month, personal growth, community support, open relationships, polyamory, current events, emotional well-being Takeaways This is our 50th episode! It's important to acknowledge the technical glitches we face. Pride Month serves as a reminder of ongoing struggles for LGBTQ+ rights. Community support is crucial during difficult times. Navigating relationships can be complex, especially after coming out later in life. Open and polyamorous relationships require strong communication and trust. Love is not finite; relationships can take many forms. Healing relationships is possible, even after separation. It's essential to find joy and beauty in life despite challenges. You never know when a positive connection will show up in your life.

In this episode of the Coming Inside Out Podcast, hosts Brian Janes and Mark Dembo discuss various themes surrounding Pride Month, including personal updates, reflections on safety at Pride events, the significance of coming out, and the current political climate affecting the LGBTQ+ community. They also explore the importance of self-reflection and healing journeys, sharing profound questions to ask oneself for personal growth. Coming inside OUT is a safe space where listeners can find solidarity, inspiration, and the courage to embrace their true selves. Whether you're a gay father, gay parent, a person exploring your identity, or an ally seeking to understand the experiences of the LGBTQ community, this podcast is for you. Tune in for heartfelt conversations, insight and a sense of belonging that we all crave. Join your hosts, Brian and Mark, as they candidly share their own journeys out of the closet while navigating the joys and challenges of parenthood as openly gay fathers. In each episode, Mark and Brian connect with fellow gay dads, sharing their inspiring stories, victories, and struggles. They delve into the complexities of grappling with sexuality, discussing their experiences as teens, husbands, and dads. Together, they aim to foster a supportive community for those still in the closet, reassuring them that they are not alone in their journey. Join us on this journey of love, acceptance, and authenticity! Contact us at cominginsideout@gmail.com #gay #lgbtqpodcast #lgbtq #pride #gaymen #loveislove #gayfathers #gaydad #comingout #mycomingoutstory, pride2025 Keywords - Pride Month, LGBTQ+, coming out, safety, activism, self-reflection, political climate, community support, healing, personal growth Takeaways: Pride Month is a time for celebration and reflection. Safety concerns at Pride events are increasingly relevant. Coming out is a personal journey that varies for everyone. It's never too late to come out and support the LGBTQ+ community. The commercialization of Pride can detract from its roots as a protest. Self-reflection is crucial for personal growth and healing. Understanding the political climate is essential for community support. Bravery in coming out should be recognized regardless of timing. Engaging with LGBTQ+ news sources helps stay informed. Community support groups provide valuable resources for individuals.

Coming inside OUT is a safe space where listeners can find solidarity, inspiration, and the courage to embrace their true selves. Whether you're a gay father, gay parent, a person exploring your identity, or an ally seeking to understand the experiences of the LGBTQ community, this podcast is for you. Tune in for heartfelt conversations, insight and a sense of belonging that we all crave. Join your hosts, Brian and Mark, as they candidly share their own journeys out of the closet while navigating the joys and challenges of parenthood as openly gay fathers. In each episode, Mark and Brian connect with fellow gay dads, sharing their inspiring stories, victories, and struggles. They delve into the complexities of grappling with sexuality, discussing their experiences as teens, husbands, and dads. Together, they aim to foster a supportive community for those still in the closet, reassuring them that they are not alone in their journey. Join us on this journey of love, acceptance, and authenticity! Contact us at cominginsideout@gmail.com #gay #lgbtqpodcast #lgbtq #pride #gaymen #loveislove #gayfathers #gaydad #comingout #mycomingoutstory Keywords: coming out, gay fathers, true to oneself, gay community, loneliness, self-discovery, LGBTQ, connection, personal growth, my coming out story

In this episode of the Coming Inside Out podcast, hosts Mark and Brian share personal updates, including Mark's recent move and the emotional challenges that come with it. They discuss the complexities of coming out, financial struggles, and the importance of embracing change. The conversation shifts to listener questions about pride events and experiences in the gay community, revealing both the joys and challenges faced. They reflect on fatherhood, share songs that resonate with their coming out journeys, and celebrate the growth of their podcast and its impact on listeners. Coming inside OUT is a safe space where listeners can find solidarity, inspiration, and the courage to embrace their true selves. Whether you're a gay father, gay parent, a person exploring your identity, or an ally seeking to understand the experiences of the LGBTQ community, this podcast is for you. Tune in for heartfelt conversations, insight and a sense of belonging that we all crave. Join your hosts, Brian and Mark, as they candidly share their own journeys out of the closet while navigating the joys and challenges of parenthood as openly gay fathers. In each episode, Mark and Brian connect with fellow gay dads, sharing their inspiring stories, victories, and struggles. They delve into the complexities of grappling with sexuality, discussing their experiences as teens, husbands, and dads. Together, they aim to foster a supportive community for those still in the closet, reassuring them that they are not alone in their journey. Join us on this journey of love, acceptance, and authenticity! Contact us at cominginsideout@gmail.com #gay #lgbtqpodcast #lgbtq #pride #gaymen #loveislove #gayfathers #gaydad #comingout #mycomingoutstory Keywords: coming out, gay fathers, true to oneself, gay community, loneliness, self-discovery, LGBTQ, connection, personal growth, my coming out story, gay bar Takeaways: Mark shares his emotional journey of moving into his own place. Brian discusses the struggles of financial challenges and authenticity. The importance of embracing change during difficult times is emphasized. Listener engagement is highlighted with questions about pride experiences. The hosts reflect on the complexities of gay culture after coming out. Mark and Brian share their first experiences in gay bars. Fatherhood is described as both a gift and a challenge. Songs play a significant role in their coming out journeys. The podcast has reached listeners in 56 countries, showcasing its impact. The importance of community and finding one's tribe is discussed.

In this episode of Coming Inside Out, hosts Brian and Mark welcome their first guest, Shaun Williams, who shares his powerful journey of coming out as a gay man after decades of living a different life. Shaun discusses the challenges he faced, including mental health struggles and the importance of seeking help. He emphasizes the significance of community and connection among men, particularly those who identify as LGBTQ+. The conversation highlights the need for safe spaces where individuals can express their feelings without judgment. Shaun's story serves as an inspiration for others navigating similar paths, showcasing the resilience and strength found in embracing one's true self. Guest - Shaun Williams - Proud Father to 4 amazing kids, Founder of Gay Fathers Worldwide and Bent Couch Counselling - bentcouch.com.au Coming inside OUT is a safe space where listeners can find solidarity, inspiration, and the courage to embrace their true selves. Whether you're a gay father, gay parent, a person exploring your identity, or an ally seeking to understand the experiences of the LGBTQ community, this podcast is for you. Tune in for heartfelt conversations, insight and a sense of belonging that we all crave. Join your hosts, Brian and Mark, as they candidly share their own journeys out of the closet while navigating the joys and challenges of parenthood as openly gay fathers. In each episode, Mark and Brian connect with fellow gay dads, sharing their inspiring stories, victories, and struggles. They delve into the complexities of grappling with sexuality, discussing their experiences as teens, husbands, and dads. Together, they aim to foster a supportive community for those still in the closet, reassuring them that they are not alone in their journey. Join us on this journey of love, acceptance, and authenticity! Contact us at cominginsideout@gmail.com #gay #lgbtqpodcast #lgbtq #pride #gaymen #loveislove #gayfathers #gaydad #comingout #mycomingoutstory Keywords: coming out, gay fathers, true to oneself, gay community, loneliness, dating apps, relationships, self-discovery, LGBTQ, connection, personal growth, my coming out story Takeaways: Shaun came out in 2019 after decades of living another story. He emphasizes the importance of community and connection for men. Mental health struggles often accompany the journey of coming out. Creating safe spaces for men to talk is crucial. Shaun's coming out story was not pretty, but it was necessary for his healing. He encourages men to share their feelings without fear of judgment. The power of talking and being heard can change lives. Resilience is key in navigating the challenges of being true to oneself. Shaun's work with Gay Fathers Worldwide provides support for men in similar situations. Embracing authenticity is a journey that requires courage and support.

In this episode of the Coming Inside Out podcast, hosts Mark and Brian explore themes of gratitude, self-discovery, and the complexities of relationships within the LGBTQ+ community. They reflect on their personal journeys of coming out, the struggles of feeling stagnant in life, and the importance of self-love. The conversation delves into the dynamics of open relationships, the impact of past relationships, and the evolving norms of love and connection. Listeners are encouraged to engage with the community and share their experiences as the hosts prepare for future discussions.Coming inside OUT is a safe space where listeners can find solidarity, inspiration, and the courage to embrace their true selves. Whether you're a gay father, gay parent, a person exploring your identity, or an ally seeking to understand the experiences of the LGBTQ community, this podcast is for you. Tune in for heartfelt conversations, insight and a sense of belonging that we all crave.Join your hosts, Brian and Mark, as they candidly share their own journeys out of the closet while navigating the joys and challenges of parenthood as openly gay fathers. In each episode, Mark and Brian connect with fellow gay dads, sharing their inspiring stories, victories, and struggles. They delve into the complexities of grappling with sexuality, discussing their experiences as teens, husbands, and dads. Together, they aim to foster a supportive community for those still in the closet, reassuring them that they are not alone in their journey. Join us on this journey of love, acceptance, and authenticity!Contact us at cominginsideout@gmail.com#gay #lgbtqpodcast #lgbtq #pride #gaymen #loveislove #gayfathers #gaydad #comingout #mycomingoutstoryKeywords: coming out, Facebook, gay fathers, guilt, shame, cheating, rejection, financial challenges, gay community, loneliness, dating apps, relationships, self-discovery, LGBTQ, connection, personal growth, gratitude, open relationships, dating, my coming out storyTakeaways: Gratitude plays a significant role in personal growth. Coming out experiences can vary greatly among individuals. Self-discovery often requires introspection and patience. Relationships can evolve, and it's important to define them on our own terms. Open relationships require clear communication and trust. Self-love is crucial for personal happiness and fulfillment. Past relationships can impact current emotional states. Community support is vital for navigating life's challenges. The dynamics of dating in the LGBTQ+ community are complex. It's essential to allow oneself to feel and process emotions.