The KYLO Show

In part two of our live KYLO Show from Birmingham, Alabama, we move from awareness to action. Last episode, we talked about the dangers of disconnection beneath the surface. Now we explore the practical side—how to slow down, tune in, and start leading from emotional honesty and ownership. What You’ll Learn: Why awareness alone won’t transform your relationships How unprocessed emotions sabotage connection The role of safety in creating honest relationships Simple rhythms to build emotional presence Why spiritual formation happens in hidden, everyday moments Key Takeaways: You can’t drift into health—you have to design for it Most people cope instead of processing emotions Emotional safety is built through consistency, not perfection Leadership creates an emotional environment—intentionally or not Growth begins when pretending ends Join the Conversation:How are you practicing emotional ownership in your life right now? Share your journey with us in the comments or tag us on social media. Stay Connected:Want more tools to build healthy connection in your relationships?Visit www.LovingOnPurpose.comFollow us on Instagram: @dannylovingonpurpose @brittneyserpell Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Episode Overview Recorded live in Birmingham, Alabama, this episode is part one of a tour conversation focused on leadership, connection, and transformation. The discussion centers on the reality that leadership doesn’t just happen on stages or platforms—it shows up in marriages, families, friendships, and how leaders respond to pressure and conflict. This conversation explores why real change requires honesty, vulnerability, and presence, especially for leaders who are used to being strong for others. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: Why leadership is more about asking the right questions than having the right answers The tension between wanting transformation and resisting the process that produces it How success can mask internal disconnection, exhaustion, and loneliness Why high-capacity leaders often struggle to slow down and be honest about what’s really going on The cost of isolation and why it leads to burnout and implosion Key Takeaways: Transformation requires honesty before it produces freedom Vulnerability is part of the process, not a weakness in leadership External success does not guarantee internal connection Isolation increases pressure and disconnects leaders from themselves and others Integration matters: who you are on the inside needs to match how you live on the outside Join the Conversation: Where do you feel the gap between how things look externally and what’s happening internally? Reflect on where you might need to slow down, stay present, and invite others into what you’re carrying. Stay Connected: Website: www.LovingonPurpose.comInstagram: @dannylovingonpurposeInstagram: @brittneyserpell Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Live from Cleveland, Danny and Brittney Serpell close out the KYLO Show Live Tour with a deeply practical and wide-ranging conversation on correction, connection, and cultivating healthy relationships—in families, workplaces, and the Church. This episode covers everything from navigating hypersensitivity to correction in marriage, to creating gossip-free communities, to raising sons in a culture that devalues masculinity. Packed with wisdom and humor, this episode is a reminder that truth, accountability, and love are essential to building Whole Healthy Families and strong communities. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: How to stay powerful in a relationship when your correction is rejected What to do when your spouse (or loved one) is hypersensitive to feedback How to process problems without turning conversations into gossip How to bring the culture of revival into your workplace What healthy masculinity looks like—and how to model it for the next generation Why brotherhood and accountability are essential for calling boys into manhood Key Takeaways: When correction turns into judgment or punishment, connection breaks down—keep your love on and stay in the light. Your goal isn’t agreement—it’s understanding and connection. Stay clear on your goal and surround yourself with people who help you live it. Healthy community culture calls people to direct communication, not venting behind closed doors. Accountability protects relationships. Revival in the workplace looks like integrity, generosity, and honor—people should want to retire at your company because of how they’re treated. Boys don’t become men on their own. They need fathers, brothers, and healthy examples of masculine strength, sacrifice, and covenant. Join the Conversation:What are you doing to build connection and culture in your home, workplace, or church? Share your story—we’d love to hear how you’re putting these principles into practice. Stay Connected:Website: www.LovingonPurpose.comInstagram: @dannylovingonpurposeInstagram: @brittneyserpell Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Broadcasting live from Cleveland, Ohio, Danny and Brittney Serpell tackle some of the most urgent and complex issues facing the Church today—from fallen leaders and disconnected marriages to the everyday challenge of offering correction without losing connection. With real audience questions and vulnerable stories, this episode unpacks how a lack of accountability and self-awareness is tearing apart families, marriages, and ministries—and what we can do to build cultures of truth, trust, and transformation. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: Why so many churches and leaders are breaking down—and how to prevent it The dangers of “king-style” leadership and how it isolates pastors from correction How to offer correction in marriage without punishing or controlling The difference between healthy shame and toxic shame—and how to tell which one you’re using How to build a marriage culture where truth is welcome, not weaponized What repentance actually looks like (it’s not just saying “I’m sorry”) Key Takeaways: Unaccountable leaders aren’t just at risk—they’re already isolated. Culture breakdown starts at the top when connection is replaced by control. Marriage correction without self-awareness leads to resentment and disconnection. You can’t disciple your spouse into being like you. Healthy shame leads to change and reconnection. Toxic shame leads to punishment and hiding. If you’re spending more than 5 minutes explaining how hurt you are, you're probably doing it wrong. Tell the truth about you—not them. Repentance isn’t confession. It’s change. And it only works when both parties stay connected and do the work. Join the Conversation:Have you experienced correction that restored trust—or caused disconnection? What helped you grow through it? We’d love to hear your story. Stay Connected:Website: www.LovingonPurpose.comInstagram: @dannylovingonpurposeInstagram: @brittneyserpell Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

In this heartfelt and unfiltered episode from their stop in North Tonawanda, Danny and Brittney Serpell dive deep into some of the hardest relational dynamics—what to do when connection seems impossible. From family members who resist correction to church leaders who reject feedback, this episode explores how to keep your love on when everything in you wants to shut down. Through honest audience questions and raw discussion, Danny and Brittney model what it means to stay powerful, protect your peace, and lead with love in your family, church, and community. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: How to communicate needs without demanding behavior change Why your goal in conflict must be connection—not being right What to do when your parent (or child) values control over relationship How to maintain boundaries without turning your love off Why accountability in leadership is essential for a healthy church The difference between harmony and true connection in marriage and parenting Key Takeaways: Love doesn’t require agreement—it requires ownership. You can tell someone what you need without trying to control them. Correction that flows through connection brings change—anything else feels like punishment. When someone chooses being “right” over being in relationship, you still get to choose love and protect your peace. Healthy leadership starts with accountability. If no one can give you feedback, you're not leading—you're ruling. Raising whole and healthy kids is about consistent love, not perfection. Connection, not control, is your greatest legacy. Join the Conversation:Have you struggled to stay connected to a parent, child, or leader who resists feedback? Tell us your story—your vulnerability can inspire healing in others. Stay Connected:Website: www.LovingonPurpose.comInstagram: @dannylovingonpurposeInstagram: @brittneyserpell Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

In this live episode from North Tonawanda, New York, Danny and Brittney Serpell respond to powerful audience questions about parenting, correction, and connection. From overcorrected kids and resistant teenagers to “I don’t know” shutdowns and sibling conflict, this episode is full of real-life moments, raw honesty, and practical tools for parenting with love and leadership. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: How to shift from punishment to wisdom when offering correction Why connection is the foundation for lasting influence with teens How to draw out your child when they shut down or avoid engagement What to do when sibling rivalry becomes the norm How to model repentance and rebuild trust as a parent Key Takeaways: Correction without connection breeds resistance—prioritize relationship over being right.When kids say “I don’t know,” it’s often self-protection—create safety by managing your reaction. You can’t control your kids, but you can control your access to resources, opportunities, and permission. Sibling relationships are training grounds for love—don’t settle for conflict as the norm.Leading your family well means owning your mistakes, leading with humility, and choosing connection every time. Join the Conversation:Have you navigated resistance, shutdowns, or sibling rivalry in your home? We’d love to hear what helped you reconnect. Share your stories and continue the conversation. Stay Connected:Website: www.LovingonPurpose.comInstagram: @dannylovingonpurposeInstagram: @brittneyserpell Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

In the final stop of their Northwest tour at Risen King in Redding, California, Danny and Brittney unpack the emotional terrain of parenting adult and soon-to-be-adult children, navigating grandparenting, and repairing fractured relationships. This episode is rich with wisdom, heart, and practical tools for maintaining love, connection, and grace in every season of family life. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: How to transition from parent to consultant as young adults gain independence. The importance of sustaining connection with children who feel ready to launch—and when things get messy. What supportive grandparenting looks like (and isn’t!). Steps you can take to repair relationships that were strained by criticism or control. How to foster oneness in marriage through vulnerability, honest communication, and mutual trust. Key Takeaways: Launching adult kids is less about permission and more about staying connected—your love and availability matter most. As a grandparent, your role shifts to support—not control—and that “yes space” becomes your sweet spot. Restoration begins with humility: admit your mistakes, apologize, and invite connection without insisting on change. Healing relationships is rooted in curiosity, not advice: ask how you’re experiencing them and what they need to feel understood. True marriage oneness comes from shared vulnerability, speaking truth about your experience, and inviting your spouse into your heart—not pointing out theirs. Join the Conversation:Are you navigating the “launching” season, a grandparenting role, or relationship restoration? Share your stories and insights—we’d love to hear how connection is being cultivated in your home. Stay Connected:Website: www.LovingonPurpose.comInstagram: @dannylovingonpurposeInstagram: @brittneyserpell Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Live from Risen King Church in Redding, California, Danny and Brittney tackle some of the most asked-about topics in relationships and parenting—including how to deal with someone labeled a narcissist, how to raise responsible children, and how to guide kids through big emotions without losing connection. Whether you're navigating disrespect in your marriage, parenting toddlers with tantrums, or raising teens who resist chores, this episode offers deep wisdom, practical tools, and real talk from two leaders who’ve walked it out. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: Why trying to fix or change someone else (especially a narcissist) is a losing strategy. How to use the KYLO 5 to protect yourself and preserve connection. What it really means to set boundaries with love, not rejection. How to cultivate responsibility in kids through feedback and connection. Strategies for guiding children through sadness and anger with maturity and empathy. Key Takeaways: You can’t change someone who doesn’t think they have a problem—focus on managing yourself. Boundaries are not punishment; they are a message of hope for reconciliation. A ten-year-old isn’t too young to begin learning how to steward their part of the relationship. Emotionally explosive moments are opportunities to teach—not control—your children. As a parent, your job isn’t to stop emotions but to protect the culture of your home with self-control and leadership. Join the Conversation:What stood out to you in this episode? Have you been in a relationship where you tried to fix someone? How do you approach parenting through connection rather than control? Stay Connected:Website: www.LovingonPurpose.comInstagram: @dannylovingonpurposeInstagram: @brittneyserpell Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Live from Empowered Life Church in Talent, Oregon, Danny and Brittney dive deep into three of the most challenging relational dynamics: humility in marriage, anger and emotional regulation, and the evolving role of parenting teens and adult children. With powerful personal stories and practical strategies, they model how to keep your love on even when emotions are high, triggers are firing, or relationships feel strained. Whether you’re navigating covenant in marriage or coaching your teenager through anxiety and independence, this episode is packed with real talk and transformational truth. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: How humility can de-escalate conflict and restore connection in marriage. Why disconnection is more dangerous than you think—and what to do about it. Practical tools for recognizing anger before it turns into destruction. How to guide your children from childhood into adulthood with wisdom, empowerment, and connection. The power of co-regulation and feedback in a healthy home environment. Key Takeaways: Humility isn’t weakness—it’s a superpower that diffuses disrespect and fosters trust. Disconnection is like a couch on fire: don’t ignore it. Move toward the people you love quickly. Learn to recognize the signs of fight-or-flight in your body—and hit pause before reacting. Parents move from cop to coach to consultant; don’t try to skip stages or cling to control. Empower your kids by building trust, not fear. They’ll keep you in their life if they know you can handle their mess. Join the Conversation:What’s your go-to strategy for reconnecting after conflict? Share your experience with us online, or let us know which part of today’s episode hit home for you. Stay Connected:Website: www.LovingonPurpose.comInstagram: @dannylovingonpurposeInstagram: @brittneyserpell Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Live from Talent, Oregon (just outside Ashland), Danny and Brittney share insights on cultivating spiritual connection and growth in everyday family life. From hosting the presence of God with your kids in creative and playful ways to managing triggers in marriage with mature, loving responses—the conversation is rich with practical wisdom, heartfelt encouragement, and replay-worthy truths. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: How to invite God into your home in fresh, age-appropriate ways. Why holding space for creativity and play shapes spiritual growth in kids. How to identify—and lovingly address—when someone lacks awareness of deeper issues. The “Kylo Five” model for regulating yourself with intention in relationships: Power, Love over Fear, Connection, Respectful Communication, and Healthy Boundaries. How to respond to triggers with love, humility, and spiritual fuel instead of defensiveness or shame. Key Takeaways: Spiritual connection doesn't require perfect formats; it thrives where there's playfulness, honesty, and openness to God’s work. Ease off “doing church everywhere.” God shows up most powerfully in everyday life when you're paying attention to your kids and how they're connecting. Don't try to fix someone who hasn’t acknowledged a problem—scaffolding help only works when it’s invited. Choose to respond from strength, not from pain: “My God has called me. I am prepared. I may not feel prepared—but I am.” In conflict, say, “My goal with you is connection,” and communicate your experience first—then extend grace and set boundaries. Join the Conversation:Which idea resonated most—“How are you experiencing me?” or choosing connection over distance? We’d love to hear how this insight is showing up in your home or relationships. Stay Connected:Website: www.LovingonPurpose.comInstagram: @dannylovingonpurposeInstagram: @brittneyserpell Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

In this heartfelt live episode from a historic church in Springfield, Danny and Brittney reflect on their visit to Kairos Church and dive deep into one of the most crucial topics in relationships: repairing disconnection. With humor, authenticity, and practical tools, they offer steps for addressing hurt and restoring connection. The conversation also explores how our view of God impacts our ability to receive love, the power of community in healing, and memorable God-moments that have shaped their journeys. This episode is rich with insight for anyone longing for deeper connection with God and the people they love. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: How to identify and express disconnection using five simple words Why taking ownership is essential for restoring relationships Practical ways to shift from judgment to vulnerability in conversations How to receive God’s love and confront lies rooted in shame Keys for single parents to raise their children in a godly home Key Takeaways: You can’t restore connection by judging others—healing starts with “let me tell you about me.” Avoiding vulnerability only delays healing; honesty invites restoration. Unresolved lies will keep you trapped in self-righteousness—truth sets you free. Children learn what love looks like by watching how their parents live it out. God’s love rushes in when we stop hiding and allow His truth to wash over us. Join the Conversation:What stood out to you in this episode? Share your insights on social media, leave a review, or send us a message—we love hearing from you! Stay Connected:Website: www.LovingonPurpose.comInstagram: @dannylovingonpurposeInstagram: @brittneyserpell Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

In this special live episode from Springfield, Oregon, Danny and Brittney take audience questions that range from pursuing ministry after a life-changing injury to creating a culture of connection and growth in your home. From practical parenting tips to the power of asking, “How are you experiencing me?”, this episode is full of wisdom, humor, and heartfelt encouragement. Whether you’re building a new path forward or just trying to maintain peace in your household, this episode offers the tools and truth you need to stay connected and keep growing. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: How to transition into a ministry career while supporting your family. Why courage is a key part of developing confidence and calling. The importance of unity with your spouse when stepping into ministry. What it means to stay hungry for growth and embrace discomfort. Simple, powerful ways to protect connection in marriage and parenting. Key Takeaways: Commitment precedes courage, and courage builds the confidence needed to follow your calling. Ministry is a team effort—your spouse needs to be fully on board to walk in unity and power. Growth requires discomfort. Staying in the process brings clarity, fruit, and family breakthrough. “How are you experiencing me?” is one of the most transformative questions you can ask in any relationship. In a culture of connection, disconnection is treated like a four-alarm fire—nothing else matters until it’s resolved. Join the Conversation:What stood out to you in this episode? Share your insights on social media, leave a review, or send us a message—we love hearing from you! Stay Connected:Website: www.LovingonPurpose.comInstagram: @dannylovingonpurposeInstagram: @brittneyserpell Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

In the final episode recorded live at Jesus Pursuit Church in Albany, Danny and Brittney tackle two powerful questions. First, they speak directly to foster parents navigating the challenges of building family culture when children come from difficult backgrounds. Then, they offer deep insight into the biblical meaning of “the fear of the Lord,” clarifying how it differs from the fear of punishment. This episode is full of wisdom, practical parenting tools, and spiritual clarity for anyone walking through uncertainty or leadership in their home. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: How to create a healthy home culture as a foster or first-time parent. Practical tools for building trust, structure, and stability with a child in transition. The difference between punishment-based parenting and love-based leadership. What the fear of the Lord truly means—and how it leads to wisdom. Why heaven’s justice is always about reconciliation, not punishment. Key Takeaways: Lead on purpose: Whether you're parenting biological or foster children, the culture of your home should be built intentionally, not accidentally. Aim small, miss small: Start with attainable goals and celebrate every win—especially when parenting in difficult circumstances. Punishment isn’t power: True power in parenting and leadership comes from consistent love, not control. Fear of the Lord = fear of disconnection: It’s not about punishment; it’s about protecting your relationship with God. God’s justice reconciles: Unlike the world’s justice that demands retribution, heaven’s justice leads to repentance, reconciliation, and restoration. Join the Conversation: Are you a foster parent or navigating a new season of parenting? Have you wrestled with the meaning of “fear of the Lord”? We’d love to hear your reflections—join the conversation at www.thekyloshow.com. Stay Connected: Website: www.LovingonPurpose.comInstagram: @dannylovingonpurposeInstagram: @brittneyserpell Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

In this live Q&A from the Albany tour stop, Danny and Brittney answer two deeply relatable questions: how to engage with controlling family members and how to overcome the crushing weight of mom guilt. With humor, honesty, and wisdom, they share practical tools for setting healthy boundaries, taking ownership of your emotions, and remembering your identity in Christ—especially in the high-stakes relationships of family. Whether you’re navigating toxic dynamics or second-guessing your parenting, this episode will leave you grounded, encouraged, and empowered. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: Why no one can control you without your permission. How to communicate from a place of self-control and clarity. What makes a powerful person and how to become one. The difference between toxic shame and healthy conviction. Why you were chosen to be your child’s parent—flaws and all. Key Takeaways: You are a powerful person: You have the God-given ability to control yourself and choose how you respond in every situation. Control is an illusion: Others may use fear or manipulation, but you still get to choose how you show up. Mom guilt is not from God: You were chosen to parent your children, and He equips you for every season—even the messy ones. Healthy shame builds connection: When handled well, correction and conviction strengthen relationships and model growth. Lead with love and truth: In parenting and family dynamics, your confidence, honesty, and humility create a culture of safety and growth. Join the Conversation: Are you learning to say “no” in a relationship where control once ruled? Or finding freedom from mom guilt in your parenting journey? We’d love to hear your story—join the conversation at www.thekyloshow.com. Stay Connected: Website: www.LovingonPurpose.comInstagram: @dannylovingonpurposeInstagram: @brittneyserpell Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Danny and Brittney tackle some of the most vulnerable and meaningful questions yet—from handling painful family inheritance situations to leading a business with integrity and learning to hold on to joy in the midst of grief. This episode offers wisdom, encouragement, and practical tools for staying powerful and connected during life’s hardest seasons. If you’re in a challenging time or walking alongside someone who is, this one will speak straight to your heart. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: How to respond with maturity and integrity during family inheritance conflicts. Why staying a “good son” or “good sibling” matters more than what you receive. How to lead a godly business that reflects Christ in culture, excellence, and kindness. What it looks like to grieve powerfully and ask for help without losing yourself. How to access joy and hope even when life feels overwhelming and dark. Key Takeaways: You control your response, not the outcome: When it comes to inheritance or injustice, you can choose honor, integrity, and connection regardless of others’ decisions. Let your character lead your business: A godly business isn’t just about Christian language—it’s marked by the fruit of the Spirit and excellence in every interaction. Ask for help when you're grieving: Owning your need is a powerful step toward healing. You don't have to grieve alone. Joy is cultivated, not circumstantial: Don’t wait for life to go your way to choose joy. Build habits of gratitude and obedience that reconnect you to God’s presence. Stay connected even when it’s hard: Grief and hardship can make you want to isolate—but choosing connection, even imperfectly, is part of staying powerful. Join the Conversation: Have you been in a season where joy felt far away? What helped you return to hope and connection? Share your story with us at www.thekyloshow.com—we’d love to hear from you. Stay Connected: Website: www.LovingonPurpose.comInstagram: @dannylovingonpurposeInstagram: @brittneyserpell Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

In this candid Q&A from the Bethesda tour stop, Danny and Brittney respond to questions on dating, identity, and how to build relationships that are both healthy and lasting. From practical wisdom on staying true to yourself in dating to the importance of aligning your life mission with your partner’s, this episode unpacks how to keep your love on from the very start. Whether you’re single, dating, or mentoring someone who is, you’ll gain insight on what it means to pursue connection with clarity, confidence, and community. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: Why self-awareness and confidence are critical before entering a relationship. How to discern if you're adjusting yourself to be what someone else wants. The importance of building relationships within the safety of community. Why shared life vision and mission matter more than chemistry alone. How early alignment can lead to long-term unity and growth. Key Takeaways: Don’t change your ticket: Choose relationships where your life mission and calling are already aligned—you’re heading the same direction. Be confident in who you are: Healthy relationships start when both people know, like, and are developing who they are in Christ. Stay in community: Surround yourself with trusted people who can speak into your relationships and help you stay grounded. Chemistry fades—clarity lasts: Compatibility rooted in purpose and values is more sustainable than just emotional or physical connection. Join the Conversation: Have you ever changed your “ticket” to make a relationship work? What’s one area of your identity that you’re learning to love and protect? We’d love to hear from you—join us at www.thekyloshow.com and keep the conversation going. Stay Connected: Website: www.LovingonPurpose.comInstagram: @dannylovingonpurposeInstagram: @brittneyserpell Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

In this powerful continuation from Bethesda, Danny and Brittney tackle real-life questions from a live audience about conflict, connection, and covenant. Through raw and insightful stories—from car ride disconnection to navigating orphan mindsets and newlywed advice—they highlight the courage and humility it takes to lead in relationships. Whether you’re married, mentoring others, or healing from disconnection yourself, this episode will challenge you to protect connection, prioritize self-awareness, and embrace the path of growth and reconciliation. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: How listening better than someone is talking changes the emotional climate of a relationship. Why hurt often masquerades as anger—and how to respond with compassion. What to do when someone is stuck in self-protection or an orphan mindset. Why curiosity and self-awareness are keys to thriving in marriage. How to use five simple words to communicate emotional truth and protect connection. Key Takeaways: Listening is an act of protection: When you slow down and truly understand what someone is feeling, you create safety and open the door to healing. Self-justification is the enemy of connection: Owning your part, even when it’s uncomfortable, is the path to deeper trust. Curiosity transforms conflict: When you stop blaming and start getting curious—about yourself and others—you create space for growth. Connection must be protected at all costs: React to disconnection like your couch is on fire—drop everything and deal with it. Simple words bring powerful clarity: Words like “ouch,” “yikes,” and “ugh” help you name what’s happening inside and move toward reconnection. Join the Conversation: Which part of this episode challenged you most? Do you need to slow down and listen better, or have the courage to speak your truth in love? We’d love to hear from you—join us at www.thekyloshow.com and let us know how you're keeping your love on. Stay Connected: Website: www.LovingonPurpose.comInstagram: @dannylovingonpurposeInstagram: @brittneyserpell Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

This week on The KYLO Show, Danny and Brittney take us to Vancouver, Washington, where they respond to powerful audience questions about family disconnection, political disagreements, and parenting through transition. Whether it's a daughter using "boundaries" to cut off relationship, a seventeen-year-old disrupting family game night, or a holiday skipped because of political differences, the heart of this episode is about restoring connection without compromising your values. With wisdom, laughter, and plenty of real talk, Danny and Brittney offer practical tools for loving your people without losing yourself. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: The difference between boundaries and punishment in relationships. How fear drives disconnection—and how love casts it out. Why adult children sometimes distance themselves and how to rebuild trust. What to do when siblings in the same home become strangers. How to build a culture of respect in your home through shared family values. Key Takeaways: Boundaries keep the door open for reconciliation. Punishment shuts it. When a child disconnects, start by asking: “Do I have a mess to clean up?” Family time is a culture you create, not an obligation you force. Your job isn’t to control your adult kids—it’s to become a trusted friend. Clarifying your family values (like a “Family Creed”) helps everyone know what’s expected and what matters most. Join the Conversation: Have you ever been on the receiving end of a "boundary" that felt more like rejection? Or maybe you're a parent learning to navigate new dynamics with adult children. We'd love to hear from you—join us at www.thekyloshow.com and tell us how you're learning to keep your love on. Stay Connected: Website: www.LovingonPurpose.comInstagram: @dannylovingonpurposeInstagram: @brittneyserpell Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Whether you’re single, parenting adult children, or recovering from relational pain, this episode is packed with wisdom for staying powerful in the face of disconnection. Recorded live at Eden Church in Newcastle, Washington, Danny and Brittney answer real audience questions about singleness, narcissism, motherhood, boundaries, and healing from toxic relationships. They share stories, scriptures, and practical tools for cultivating healthy identity, confronting manipulation with courage, and protecting connection without enabling dysfunction. This is a must-listen for anyone who wants to build strong relationships without losing themselves. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: Why the KYLO 5 is essential—especially when you’re single. How to create joy-filled, life-giving relationships that align with your purpose. What real boundaries look like when dealing with manipulative or toxic adult children. How to differentiate between your role and God's role in your child's life. Why Jesus is the ultimate model of healthy boundaries. Key Takeaways: Singleness isn’t waiting—it's preparation: Cultivating self-love, healthy community, and clear boundaries now sets the stage for healthy connection later. Love isn’t enabling: Setting boundaries with someone you love—even your child—isn’t cruelty, it’s wisdom. You are not your child’s savior: Your job is to love them, not rescue them. Trust Jesus to be who only He can be. Boundaries aren’t rejection: They’re protection—for you, and for the relationship. Jesus had perfect boundaries: He never violated another person’s will, even in crisis. He honored self-control and invited ownership. Join the Conversation: Have you had to set a hard boundary with someone you love? How did you stay connected without being controlled? We’d love to hear your story. Connect with us online or submit a question at www.thekyloshow.com. Stay Connected: Website: www.LovingonPurpose.comInstagram: @dannylovingonpurposeInstagram: @brittneyserpell Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

What do you do when your feedback is met with stonewalling, shutdowns, or accusations? In this episode of The KYLO Show, Danny and Brittney return with more live Q&A from their tour stop in Newcastle, Washington, tackling tough questions about feedback, conflict, narcissism, and relational disconnect. Through personal stories and real-life coaching moments, they offer wisdom for navigating relationships where feedback feels impossible and disconnection seems inevitable. If you’ve ever felt stuck in a one-sided relationship or struggled to confront dysfunction in love, this episode will equip you to stay powerful, connected, and courageous. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: What to do when someone resists or shuts down your feedback. How to stay calm, clear, and connected when emotions run high. Why asking “What did you hear me say?” is a game-changer for clarity. The difference between repentance and self-justification in broken trust. How to approach accusations of narcissism in a culture that overuses the term. Key Takeaways: Don’t confuse judgment for feedback: True feedback is sharing your experience, not labeling or controlling the other person. Safe connection takes time: If someone has never experienced feedback as love, they may need consistent safety before they engage. Stay powerful, even when others aren’t: You get to choose self-control, honor, and clarity, regardless of how the other person responds. Build trust with repetition: Healing relational dynamics takes practice, courage, and time—not a one-time conversation. Repentance isn’t promises—it’s change: When trust is broken, words don’t restore it—consistent changed behavior does. Join the Conversation: Have you ever struggled to give feedback to someone who wouldn’t receive it? What helped you stay connected and powerful? Let us know by leaving a review or connecting on socials. Stay Connected: Website: www.LovingonPurpose.comInstagram: @dannylovingonpurposeInstagram: @brittneyserpell Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.