Butt Honestly with Doctor Carlton and Dangilo

Hey Booty Gang—pull up a chair, silence your group chat, and maybe hydrate, because this week’s episode of BUTT HONESTLY is equal parts curious, clinical, and casually chronic. We kick things off with a listener whose partner only seems interested in unleashing their wild side after a few cocktails. Is it liquid courage, a personality setting, or just a very specific two-drink minimum? Dr. Carlton and Dangilo unpack the science, the psychology, and the “are we okay with this?” of it all—no judgment, just raised eyebrows.Then we head straight into the medicine cabinet as another listener asks the question no one wants to Google at 2 a.m.: What medication actually helps your balls while on testosterone therapy? (Spoiler: WebMD panic scrolling is not a treatment plan.) Then things get emotionally mature—yes, really—as one listener asks the guys to talk about compersion. What is it? Can you learn it? And why does it sound like a Pilates class but hit like an emotional pop quiz? The boys break down joy-for-your-partner joy without making your brain hurt… too much.The guys zoom out to talk dating apps—what’s working, what’s broken, and why everyone somehow has the same five photos. Dangilo takes a nostalgic (and slightly unhinged) detour involving The Alamo and Pee-wee Herman’s bike, proving once again that history class would’ve been way more interesting if he’d been teaching it.Meanwhile, Dr. Carlton gets serious for a moment to remind everyone that colonoscopies are not a vibe—but they are a necessity. Consider this your loving, slightly stern reminder to take care of your insides… all of them.As always, the episode wraps with the guys’ “69 and a Half Foot Pole” of the week—things they’re politely, firmly, and sometimes medically distancing themselves from—and finishes strong with their Love Language of the Week, sending you off informed, entertained, and maybe questioning a few life choices.It’s thoughtful. It’s funny. It’s Butt Honestly doing what it does best: answering the questions you’re afraid to ask out loud… except here, we say them into microphones. 🍑🎙️Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hello, Booty Gang—and light the candles (but maybe not all at once), because it’s Dr. Carlton’s birthday week. That’s right: Dr. C officially wades into his mid-50s with grace, perspective, and just enough self-reflection to make aging look amazing!While Dr. Carlton reflects on what it means to level up another year, Dangilo balances the vibe by revisiting his own historically cursed birthdays. He shares a drunk San Antonio story. The joys of drunk girls.The guys also weigh in on the Las Culturistas drama, applying their signature blend of pop-culture literacy, emotional intelligence, and “we said what we said” energy. Is it serious? Is it learning opportunity? Is it both? Absolutely.Then it’s back to the heart of the show: your questions, your chaos, your butts. One Booty Gang member writes in about rods—hemorrhoids, to be clear—and yes, Dr. Carlton puts the doctor back in doctor. Another listener asks about throat pain, and let’s just say: anatomy is discussed, assumptions are challenged, and no one leaves without learning something.We also get a Pig on the Prowl story involving a FedEx delivery guy whose package delivery may or may not have gone exactly as intended. Logistics were involved. Timing mattered. Boundaries were… flexible.Plus, the guys toss a few more things onto the ever-growing list of “69 and a Half Foot Pole”—topics and behaviors they would not touch, approach, or acknowledge, even with legal counsel present.They close it all out with the Love Language of the Week, because despite the mess, the mayhem, and the midlife milestones, this podcast is still about connection… and maybe a little self-awareness.Aging happens. Birthdays disappoint. Packages get delivered.And somehow, BUTT HONESTLY keeps getting better. 🎂🍑🎙️Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Welcome back to another episode of BUTT HONESTLY, where the champagne is flat, the takes are spicy, and the butts remain undefeated.This week, Dr. Carlton and Dangilo ease you into the New Year the only way they know how: with questionable emails and a new segment. We kick things off with a Booty Caller who has an STI testing question that spirals quickly into “am I doing this right or just confidently wrong?” territory. Then, a Booty Gangster writes in wondering whether his attraction is authentic… or accidentally offensive. (Spoiler: intention matters, but so does listening.)Things really heat up at the “Horse Market–sized.” Two hot dads, one inbox, and more context than anyone asked for—but we read it anyway, because of course we did.The guys also recap the holidays and ring in the New Year . Then—because the internet is a cursed place—Dr. Carlton and Dangilo unpack the U.S. government’s list of the 25 worst things stuck up people’s bums in 2025. Educational? No. Memorable? Unfortunately, yes.Plus, the debut of a brand-new segment: “69 and a Half Foot Pole,”We wrap it all up with the Love Language of the Week, because after all that… everyone deserves a little tenderness.New year. Same podcast. Same warning: listen responsibly. 🍑🎙️Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hello, Booty Gang—and welcome to the final episode of 2025. Light a candle, clench your cheeks, and settle in, because Dr. Carlton and Dangilo are closing out the year exactly how they started it: honest, messy, and deeply invested in your personal business.This week’s inbox is stacked. We’ve got a Booty Gangster with questions about butt plugs and lube, a listener trying to escape a truly tragic situationship (thoughts and prayers), and an end-of-year update from Trampage—proving once again that some storylines deserve a season finale. Plus, your READY SET CONFESS submissions are serving equal parts chaos, courage, and “you probably shouldn’t have texted that.”The guys also recap their holidays, reflect on what they’re manifesting for 2026 (growth, boundaries, and maybe better choices), and help Dangilo San Antonio —help wanted, dignity optional. There’s also a spirited dive into the Heat Rivalry, because nothing says year-end reflection like sports opinions you didn’t ask for.As always, they wrap things up with their Love Language of the Week, sending you off into the new year slightly wiser, significantly gayer, and emotionally moisturized.Thanks for riding with us through 2025. Same cheeks, new year. 🍑✨Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Another vintage Bald and Bingeable, originally released on 04/20/2021, this is the first time Dangilo and Doctor Carlton ever talked on pod and you can hear the impotence for what eventually became BUTT HONESTLY. In this episode Dangilo brings you in on one of his favorite bingeable TikTok Creators, Doctor Carlton, a gay gastroenterologist (aka. G.I. Doctor) that knows the medical side of things but is no stranger to anal sex himself. Dangilo asks "The Butt Stuff Doc" about how it feels to wake up to 1 million views and 50k followers after his simple video tackling the taboo topic of BUTT SEX blew up overnight. The LOWER LEVEL segment has Doctor Carlton answering some of Dangilo's friend's and follower's questions like, "How much should I douche before butt sex?", "Is there an anal pap smear?" and even how hot the water should be when cleaning out. They round out their talk with the doctor's favorite binge: RuPaul's Drag Race and discuss the RU-union and the top 4 girls of Season 13.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hello, Booty Gang, and welcome back to another episode of BUTT HONESTLY. This week’s episode is equal parts medical mystery, holiday chaos, and “please don’t call your doctor like that.”We’ve got a Booty Gangster dealing with an unexpected and unwelcome reaction to DoxyPEP (because sometimes prevention comes with plot twists), a text from someone who drained their nut and somehow still got burned, and a listener who tried to call Dr. Carlton directly after last week’s episode. Sir… this is a podcast, not urgent care.The guys also recap Dangilo’s annual holiday party—where the drinks were flowing, the outfits were dazzling , and the memories are… fuzzy at best. Dr. Carlton gives us an update on his YEZTUGO shot, because nothing says festive like injectable science and side effects.It’s holiday cheer. It’s informative. It’s lightly confrontational. And it’s exactly why you listen.As always, the episode wraps with the Love Language of the Week, because after all that everyone deserves a little tenderness.Hit play—your butt will thank you. 🍑Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

This week, the guys trade in medical charts and moral compasses for something far more important: the Grindr Year in Review. That’s right — it’s time to go Bold, Bald & Bingeable as Dr. Carlton and Dangilo unwrap the messiest, thirstiest, and most “we need to talk about this” stats of the year.Who’s on top? (And yes… we mean statistically.)Which Grindr trends made the naughty list?And perhaps the most humbling question of all… how many album shares did you rack up this year? Be brave. Be honest. Be slightly ashamed.It’s data-driven debauchery, holiday edition — equal parts festive, pop-culture candy, naughty fun, and deeply revealing. There will be gasps. There will be group chats exposed. There will be cities that absolutely need to answer for their sins. And yes… there will be team pride.So pour a drink, lock your phone, and join the boys for a year-end wrap-up that proves once and for all: numbers don’t lie.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

This week, we’ve got double the douching drama with two Booty Gangsters, two emails, and two very different approaches to cleaning out — one listener is curious about tea tree oil (the tingle is implied), while another proudly reports finding a brand-new method that finally works. Innovation is alive, well, and happening… in the bathroom.We also saddle up for a fresh D-PIG on the Prowl story, because absolutely no public space is safe from chaos. In GIMME HEAD-Lines, we talk about World AIDS Day — and why not everyone is exactly being respectful about it — plus RFK Jr. somehow enters the chat and wants you to take his load. We wish we were kidding. We are not.Dangilo gives us the theatrical tea on “Wicked for Good” and Working Girl: The Musical, while Dr. Carlton survives — and recaps — his very own Emergency Thanksgiving, and dental kinks.And as always, they wrap it up with their Love Language of the Week, because after all that talk of tea tree, politics, and plumbing… we needed grounding.Strap in, flush wisely, and press play — it’s another classic Butt Honestly ride.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

This week, the guys unpack a few very spicy follow-ups from last episode, including one Booty Gangster who wants to know if he’ll be OK after… well… putting it back in his mouth (we’ll let you guess what it is). There’s also a voicemail from a listener with a personal question aimed straight at the hosts — and yes, it gets intimate.Plus, we’ve got a Pig on the Prowl story involving workplace chaos, bagels, and a whole lot of sitting. Let’s just say HR would not approve.Dr. Carlton and Dangilo chat about their upcoming Thanksgiving plans. Dr. C gives us the 411 on YEZTUGO,Stick around till the end for their Love Language of the Week, served warm, tender, and with the emotional maturity of two men who definitely didn’t just spend 45 minutes talking about buttholes.Tune in, loosen up, and let’s get into it — Butt Honestly style.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hello, Booty Gang! Welcome back to another episode of BUTT HONESTLY—your weekly reminder that therapy is expensive but oversharing on a podcast is free.This week we’re serving up a classic Butt Honestly episode, just the way you like it: no guests, no safety net, just your two favorite butt boys and a mountain of Butt Dials and Booty Calls.We’ve got two PEP situations—one from a female listener and another from a gay guy—proving that sexual health knows no gender, but the drama? Oh, honey, it ALWAYS delivers.Then we hear from a listener in India who absolutely destroyed his throat for the cause, and we cap it off with a voicemail from some of Dangilo’s straight female friends… which means chaos, confusion, and at least one question nobody saw coming.Dangilo recaps his San Antonio adventures (yes, the Alamo AND the men), while Dr. Carlton beams with pride over his daughter’s stunning New York debut—finally, a wholesome moment to balance out all the filth.And of course, they wrap it all up with their Love Language of the Week, because after everything we just covered… yeah, you’re gonna need a little aftercare.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hello, Booty Gang! Welcome back to another juicy, jam-packed episode of BUTT HONESTLY—your 18+ reminder that sometimes the cheeks clap louder than the applause.This week, it’s a CRAM JAM SESSION of epic proportions — we’ve got some Gimme HEADlines, a few Ready Set Confess moments that’ll make you blush through your earbuds, and maybe even a question or two that’ll leave you… clenched.BUTT FIRST — everyone, put your junk in the trunk because this week’s guest is queer royalty. We’re talking about the Brooklyn-born, globe-trotting, glitter-slinging, sass-serving icon himself — Jonny McGovern! From his days as The Gay Pimp to making us scream “HEY QUEEN!” and hosting the cult-favorite Gayest of All Time (now on Patreon), Jonny has been the patron saint of poppers, punchlines, and perfectly-timed pelvic thrusts.He’s here to spill the T, spin some tracks from his brand-new album Man Areas, and talk all things queer culture, comedy, and creative chaos with Dr. Carlton and Dangilo.So grab your headphones, adjust your rhinestones, and get ready for a ride that’s equal parts fabulous, filthy, and full of feeling. And as always, they finish off the episode with their Love Language of the Week—because after all that kiki, we could all use a little aftercare.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hello, Booty Gang, and welcome back to another delightfully filthy, questionably educational episode of BUTT HONESTLY.This week, Dr. Carlton and Dangilo dive deep into the three Fs—Felching, Fluids, and Fear (of your annual anal pap smear). One Booty Gang member overshares in the best way, another earns honorary “cum dump” status, and our inbox is bursting with a few Ready Set Confess .The guys also swap spooky stories from their Halloween escapades, talk about Charlie Sheen’s new podcast .As always, they wrap things up tight and tender with their Love Language of the Week, proving that even when things get messy, love—and a little laughter—can clean it all up.So open your ears, loosen your butts, and prepare for a truly unholy mix of health, humor, and hedonism.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Welcome back to another episode of BUTT HONESTLY — and yes, it’s Episode 69, baby. This week, Dr. Carlton and Dangilo are going head-to-head (and maybe head-to-other-places) as they tackle some sticky listener questions. One Booty Gang member’s got a bad case of jock itch that’s really cramping his style, another is seeing red after douching (and not in the fun, candlelit way), and a few others are trying to navigate the deep, wet waters of open relationships.The guys also tackle the age-old question: Do you like to 69?With plenty of laughs, lube, and life lessons along the way, they wrap it all up (safely, of course) with their Love Language of the Week.Because sometimes, the best way to connect… is face-to-face — literally. 😏Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hello, Booty Gang! Welcome back to another delightfully unhinged episode of BUTT HONESTLY, where no hole—er, topic—is off limits.This week, the boys are coming in hot and heavy with a GIMME HEADlines MPox update. We’ve got a Booty Gang member caught in a kissing nightmare that’ll make you pucker with fear, another seeking salvation in a tube of hemorrhoid cream, and—wait for it—a fisting puppet making its grand debut. Plus, the Reverse Ejaculation Guy is back with an update that’ll have you crossing your legs and saying “oh my God” out loud in public. And just when you think it can’t get any more chaotic, our READY SET CONFESS submissions will have you clutching your pearls… and maybe your partner.Dr. Carlton gets a little handy at the Rose Bowl (no, not that one 🌹), Dangilo gets some mom time in, and Tony spills all the sexy, sequined tea from San Diego’s Red Dress Party.As always, the boys wrap it all up nice and tight with their Love Language of the Week—because after all the filth, you deserve a little affection.county-public-health-investigates-potential-local-spread-of-clade-i-mpox-following-third-case-in-los-angeles-countyAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

This week, the guys are slipping into something cinematic as they sit down with Dominic Colón—the Bronx-born powerhouse who’s making waves in Hollywood. You’ve seen him flex his acting chops in Escape from Dannemora and TASK, and now he’s turning heads (and maybe a few cheeks) as a writer on Netflix’s hot new hit series “BOOTS.”⚠️ Spoiler alert! ⚠️ They won’t give everything away, but let’s just say… things get deep—emotionally and otherwise. The conversation touches on representation, creativity, and what it means to bring queer and Latin voices to the forefront, all with that signature Butt Honestlyblend of humor, heart, and just the right amount of filth.So grab your popcorn and lube up. Get ready to go behind the scenes (and maybe behind the Boots) with the brilliant Dominic Colón.Because when it comes to art, sex, and storytelling—these boys know how to keep it raw, real, and ridiculously entertaining.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hello, Booty Gang! Welcome back to another episode of BUTT HONESTLY.This week, things get a little wild (and maybe a little messy). One listener thinks they may have literally screwed their partner’s brains out, while another writes in with questions about reverse ejaculation—because, apparently, sometimes what goes in doesn’t always come out.The guys also celebrate National Coming Out Day with their own heartfelt (and hilarious) stories of self-discovery, awkward moments, and the glorious art of being unapologetically yourself.Meanwhile, Dr. Carlton finds himself in a very sticky situation with a case of Shigella—talk about explosive plot twists—and the mystery gym pooper saga gets another unexpected update. Dangilo heads to Bear Night, while Carlton’s got some salacious stories that’ll have your earbuds blushing.Of course, they wrap it all up the Butt Honestly way—with their Love Languages of the Week—because after all that chaos, who couldn’t use a little love (and lube)?So grab your wipes, your headphones, and your emotional support douche—this episode is equal parts filthy, funny, and full of feels.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hello, Booty Gang! Welcome back to another episode of BUTT HONESTLY—your weekly reminder that butts are never off-topic.This week, the guys serve up some GIMME HEADlines, dive into a spicy round of Hit It & Quit It, and unpack a scandalous little tale from the UK involving a cheeky four-way in a bathroom. (Because nothing says "proper British etiquette" like group sex in a loo.)BUTT FIRST… get ready for a guest who needs no introduction but is going to get one anyway: she’s unapologetically loud, proudly Latina, and the queen who turned Season 15 of RuPaul’s Drag Raceinto her own personal telenovela. From theater stints in Priscilla, Queen of the Desert and La Cage aux Folles, to music videos like BOOTZ and PAPI that gagged the internet—she’s the ESfierce, ESfilthy, and ESfabulous force of nature: Salina EsTitties!Expect drama. Expect laughter. Expect titties (lots of them). And of course, expect the guys to finish the episode the only way they know how—with their Love Languages of the Week, because even messy bottoms deserve a little love.So loosen your belts, tighten your tuck, and press play—because this one is as over-the-top as Salina herself.GIMME HEAD…LINESBREAKING: Austin Wolf sentenced in child sex abuse materials casehttps://www.pride.com/culture/breaking-austin-wolf-sentenced-in-child-sex-abuse-materials-caseNew York City police arrest nearly 200 men in undercover gay cruising crackdown at Penn Station Amtrak confirmed to Attitude that nearly 200 arrests have been made since June 1, a move they say has "[curbed] disruptive activity across the station"https://www.attitude.co.uk/news/new-york-city-police-gay-cruising-crackdown-penn-station-497008/?utm_campaign=feed&utm_medium=referral&utm_source=later-linkinbioAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

This week it’s just the boys holding down the fort, and things get… messy. In Open Chat, Dangilo dishes on his event featuring some shockingly good celebrity impersonators (because nothing says gay excellence like Britney Spears). Meanwhile, Dr. Carlton has a run-in at the park—was he being cruised, or was he doing the cruising? You be the judge.But the real investigation of the week: The Case of the Mystery Gym Pooper. The guys put on their detective hats (and nose plugs) to get to the bottom of it. Spoiler: Dangilo may or may not get hit with some pretty instant poop karma of his own.The tackle a relationship question: when is an open relationship just a little too open? Then it’s time for a steamy round of Hit It & Quit It featuring everything from gym hookups to kissing cousins and flushing your PrEP? Of course, they wrap it all up with their signature Love Languages of the Week—because nothing cleanses the palate like a little tenderness after all the toilet talk.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Welcome back to another episode of BUTT HONESTLY—your favorite unfiltered, over-18 podcast that somehow manages to talk about butts, blowjobs, and very real life all in one breath.September is Suicide Prevention Month, and the Booty Gang knows we don’t shy away from the tough stuff. This week, Dr. Carlton and Dangilo bring in a licensed mental health professional—Dr. Ty David Lerman, founder of TDL Counseling—to tackle some of the biggest mental health challenges facing our community. From suicide and depression to stress, anxiety, kink, and even hypnosis (yes, hypnosis—it’s not just for Vegas acts anymore), no topic is off-limits.The guys ask Dr. Ty:Is there a singular or more specific reasons someone resorts to unaliving themselves??Are LGBTQ+ folks more prone to suicidal ideation?Can “casual meth use” actually exist, or is that like saying “casual tax audit”?What’s the difference between a panic attack and an anxiety attack?And the big one—does hypnosis really work, or will we end up clucking like chickens?It’s an episode packed with honesty, heart, and (because it’s us) just enough irreverence to keep you laughing while you learn. And of course, they wrap it all up with their signature Love Language of the Week—because even heavy conversations deserve a soft landing.So grab your headphones, settle your cheeks, and get ready for an episode that proves you can laugh, learn, and cry—all in one sitting.https://www.instagram.com/tngoyankee?igsh=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ%3D%3DAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

This week on Butt Honestly, we’re raising the bar (and maybe your blood pressure) with a guest who knows more about sex, intimacy, and connection than your last three hookups combined. Joining Dr. Carlton and Dangilo is none other than Court Vox—certified sex and intimacy coach, surrogate partner, and somatic wellness educator.Court has helped individuals and couples explore their sexuality, overcome sexual shame, and actually communicate (wild, right?). From building body confidence to navigating kinks, Court’s work is about creating healthier, more fulfilling relationships—whether that means deep emotional intimacy or simply making your next “Netflix and chill” session a little less… awkward.The guys dive in with the big questions:What exactly is the “male loneliness epidemic,” and why should you care?How do couples with very different kinks and sex drives actually make it work without one person faking a migraine every night? And what does true sexual connection look like when you take the shame and fear out of the equation?Of course, they wrap things up with their signature Love Language of the Week—because even when it gets deep, this show always ends with a little sweetness to balance out the spice.Court VOX: https://thebodyvox.com/Vote for Dangilo:https://gunoil.netlify.app/https://www.instagram.com/courtvox/Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy