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đď¸ Spiritual Clarity; Living Life Beyond the Ego (podcast)
Author: Tiger Singleton
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This podcast, hosted by Tiger Singleton, offers casual, direct, and compassionate explorations into the heart of life and being human. The intention is to help you open up, fear less, and love more. The bi-monthly live video broadcast occurs on the first and third Tuesday of each month and is currently free to join and watch live.
Tiger shares insight and wisdom that focuses on seeing yourself, others, and all of life more clearly. The invitation is always to discern the difference between the mind's fearful or anxious imagination and connect more deeply with life as it truly is.
You can enjoy show clips across our social media channels, or watch the full episodes and join us live (currently free) by subscribing at HeartBased.io
This is one of 3 podcasts by Tiger Singleton & HeartBased.io, the 2 others include a collection of short and sweet guided meditations, and a podcast exclusively for HeartBased Solopreneurs looking to gain clarity, get focused, and be profitable.
Learn more at HeartBased.io/podcast
Tiger shares insight and wisdom that focuses on seeing yourself, others, and all of life more clearly. The invitation is always to discern the difference between the mind's fearful or anxious imagination and connect more deeply with life as it truly is.
You can enjoy show clips across our social media channels, or watch the full episodes and join us live (currently free) by subscribing at HeartBased.io
This is one of 3 podcasts by Tiger Singleton & HeartBased.io, the 2 others include a collection of short and sweet guided meditations, and a podcast exclusively for HeartBased Solopreneurs looking to gain clarity, get focused, and be profitable.
Learn more at HeartBased.io/podcast
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This is the raw recording of the live broadcast mentioned yesterday. Will be available for free subscribers for 72 hours, and then switches to archive for paid subscribers. In this live broadcast, Tiger Singleton dives into a profound exploration of human connection through the lens of a manâs love for a woman.This isnât your typical relationship advice video filled with tactics or checklists. Instead, itâs for the seeker who is tired of the struggle and ready to see the âtruth of things.â Whether you are currently in a partnership or preparing for one, this session is vital because it exposes the innocent misunderstandings that make love feel like a transaction or a battlefield.By sitting with these five core questions, youâll discover that what youâve been searching for in another person has been waiting inside of you all along, inviting a radical shift toward effortlessness and genuine intimacy.Summary & NotesThis document is designed to be your study guide for journey of discovery that Tiger walks you through. It is intended to help you relax into a deeper understanding of your own heart and your relationships.The Heart of the Exploration (00:00)Tiger opens this session by acknowledging that we all carry heavy assumptions about what it means for a man to love a woman.But this isnât a strategy session.Itâs not about tips or tricks to âdoâ relationships better.Itâs about a profound discovery that is unarguably true.As Tiger says:âIâm inviting you to relax into a deeper understanding of whatâs happening. And as that happens, things begin to transform on their own.â (04:11)A Note of Caution (05:59)One of the greatest traps we fall into is thinking we âknowâ something just because weâve heard the words.Understanding happens in waves.You might see 1% and think youâve seen the whole tree.If this exploration doesnât drop you to your knees and open your heart to a radical, humble embrace of life...Then there is more to understand.1. What Do You (Really) Want? (11:20)If we donât understand this first point, nothing else in life will make sense.Most of us are running around in a state of hypnosis.We think we want something âout there.âWe think we are searching for something in the world.The Great Internal SearchEverything you think you want from another person is actually a search for something inside yourself.To seek something on the outside is only to seek something on the inside.* The Projection: âI want someone to love me.â* The Truth: I want to feel love within what I am.* The Projection: âI want her to be a certain way.â* The Truth: I want to feel a certain way inside of myself.âThe more clearly you understand what it is that you actually want... the more you will see just how close it is.â (15:04)The Disaster: Giving Away Your PowerIf you donât see that what you want most is an internal state, you assume other people have what you want.This creates a landscape of powerlessness.You start to see others as having power over you.You either try to convince them to give you what you want, or you try to forcibly take it.The Radical Reality for a ManWhen you get radically honest, you donât want her to be different.You want a deeper capacity within yourself.You want to be helpful.You want to be useful.You want to protect and provide for the woman you have chosen.Doing so doesnât just benefit her.It fulfills the purpose behind your being alive.2. The Real Purpose of Relationship (20:21)Relationship is not a mechanism to extract love from someone else.Relationship is the act of experiencing yourself.There would be no experience of âselfâ without relationship.You relate to a chair, to money, to a job, or to a partner.Each interaction is a mirror.The Mirror PrincipleWhen you look at a mirror, you donât see the glass.You see the one looking into it.âWhen I look at my partner, what I see is how I see her.â (23:37)How you see anything is filtered through how you see yourself.If you think love is missing in you, you will see a partner who is withholding love.The Self-Relationship Mirror:* Drama âOut Thereâ: Reflects a self-relationship in conflict.* Peace âOut Thereâ: Reflects a self-relationship that is whole.The Disaster: The Conditional DemandIf you donât see that she is a mirror, you reject the reflection.You blame the mirror for what you see in it.This leads to the âI will love you, if...â dynamic.This is effectively saying:âI donât like what Iâm seeing inside myself. So, please stop being honest. Pretend to be who I want you to be so I can avoid taking responsibility for my inner world.âThe Sacred Duty of the Mirror (31:43)Because she shares your deepest intimacy, she is your most important mirror.She is your greatest helper.She isnât âin your way.âShe is perfectly designed to help you see where you are denying the love you crave.3. Why Relationships Feel Painful and Difficult (33:29)The reason relationships are difficult is that you donât like the reflection you see.We avoid the truth of the matter by blaming it on stupid, surface-level arguments.We try to avoid what is going on inside ourselves by blaming others.The Emotional MisunderstandingWe think emotions respond to the world.They donât.Emotions respond to how you are perceiving.âYour emotions donât respond to what somebody else is doing or not doing. Theyâre responding to how you see it.â (35:56)The Alarm System of Negative EmotionUnderneath every negative emotion is an alarm.It is telling you:âThe way you are perceiving this is not in alignment with what is true.âIf you feel unloved, the mirror is showing you that you are looking at yourself with less than loving eyes.The Disaster: The Tyrant and the PrisonerWhen you think others create your emotions, you become a prisoner to their behavior.To feel safe, you try to control them.You become a tyrant.You use weapons of judgment and shame to force them to change so you can feel âpeace.ââHow difficult is it to love well when you think that somebody else has power over your internal state of being?â (37:52)The Remedy: Radical ResponsibilityShe is not your problem.She never was.She doesnât have the power to disturb you emotionally.Only you can do that by how you see.4. The Power of Real Love (46:19)We assume love is a transaction.âIâll give you this, if you give me that.âThis assumption implies you are inherently unlovable and must conform to receive love.It implies love is a finite resource that can be lost.The Infinite SupplyThe truth is that there is an infinite supply of love within you.âReal love is as the very core of what you really are.â (48:41)Love as a Stream, Not a TransactionYou are not with her to get love.You have chosen her to be the stream in which you allow your love to flow.As you allow it to flow, you experience it.* When you withhold love: You are the one who feels the coldness.* When you give love: You are the one who feels the warmth.The Safety of âNo TransactionâWhen love is a transaction, it is always deficient.It is always accompanied by fear.When you know the love you feel is your own, you donât have to hide.You donât have to pretend.You can have the difficult, honest conversations required for a deep relationship.5. Turning It All Around (57:45)Where did it go wrong?It didnât.It was a learning opportunity.Suffering is simply information.The Three Primary Confusions* Confusion about the Self: Thinking you are your ego.* Confusion about Relationships: Thinking they are transactions.* Confusion about Love: Thinking it is outside of you.The Remedy: Humility and SincerityArrogance and pride pretend you already know who is to blame.Humility and sincerity ask you to look inside and take responsibility for your experience.âIf you look at any relationship conflict and drama, you will find arrogance in pride. If you look at any relationship healing, you will find humility and sincerity.â (45:07)The Floodgate vs. The Drip (01:02:13)Most of us let this truth in as a âdrip.âWe blame a little less. We get a little more honest.But there is a floodgate.The entirety of the universe is designed to point you toward the infinite supply of love inside you.The degree to which this transforms your life is in direct proportion to your devotion to seeing it.Final Reflection: The Choice of Sincerity (01:05:14)What you want most is also the thing you fear most.We are masters at finding excuses to hide from the truth of what we are.We numb ourselves.We find distractions.We blame our partners.But if you saw the full picture, you would put an end to all of that.You would just love.Not because you âshould,â but because love is the truth.âWhat I really want is to see whatâs true... Because as I do, it takes me straight into the heart of what I really crave.â (01:08:33)With love and grounded clarity, Get full access to Spiritual Clarity | Relax, All is Well at tigmonk.substack.com/subscribe
Really. The noise is only an imaginary ego. Relax. Join me (Tiger) here for a few and you will see. Thereâs nothing to fear, all is well. Look below for a deep dive - walk through, for more clarity in what Iâm pointing towardThis session is a quiet, practical invitation to be still and see whatâs true right now. Beneath the mindâs noise and the egoâs chase to âbe enough,â thereâs a simple wellness where nothing is missing. From that stillness, acceptance softens pain, love flows by giving it, and freedom is remembered â not achieved.Chapter ListCHAPTERS:* 00:00 Stillness â Letâs just be here - Letâs pause the scroll and breathe, letting the ego settle so we can notice whatâs actually here without urgency to fix.* 01:15 Mind Noise vs. Reality - Much of what agitates us is the egoâs storytelling; when we simply be here, reality right now is okay.* 04:57 Nothing Is Missing: Presence Lesson - Under the struggle lives an egoâassumption that something important is missing; presence reveals a quiet wellness.* 09:54 Acceptance Reduces Egoâs Pain - Even with pain, acceptance is available; egoâs resistance and drama amplify suffering, while presence softens it.* 15:22 Stop Chasing the Egoâs Future - We treat life like a serious game to become enough; thatâs the egoâs chase into an imagined future that hides the living miracle now.* 19:30 Give Love, Feel Love - Youâre not here to get love; ego withholds to protect an image, but as you give love, you experience it.* 24:06 You Create Your Experience - In honest stillness, itâs seen your experience arises from you; seeing through the egoâs conditional love frees the grasping.* 29:16 Freedom Is Already Here (but not for the ego) - The way out isnât more doing; relax and remember a freedom the ego canât manufacture, only overlook.Deep Dive â Walk ThroughWhy You Canât Find What Youâre Looking For (Because You Already Have It)Mood: A massive exhale for our overactive minds.Hi, Iâm Sam. Iâm learning (being) with you during this exploration with Tiger. Letâs do a deep dive.I donât know about you, but most days I feel like Iâm running at about 110% capacity. Between the career, the mortgage, the kidsâ schedules, and trying to be a decent partner, my default state is âgo, go, go.âIn life, itâs easy to become a professional problem solver. It seems to be how we got where we are. But â Iâve started noticing that no matter how many problems I solve, or how many goals I hit, thereâs this quiet, nagging background noise suggesting that something is still missing.I keep telling myself that if I could just get to next quarter, the next vacation, or finally renovate the friggin kitchen, then I could exhale.In this episode, Tiger invites us to do something that feels totally counterintuitive to my productive brain: Stop. Only to see that my heart has been begging for exactly that.He takes us on a deep dive into the âEgoâ â that voice in our heads that is constantly scanning for monsters and lack â and it made me realize that the peace Iâm grinding so hard to find might actually be sitting right underneath my feet.Here are a few things that came up for me while listening. Maybe youâll see yourself in them too.1. The âSomething is Missingâ TrapI caught myself nodding vigorously when Tiger pointed out this pattern. Today Iâm stressed about this problem. Last year, it was that problem. Next year, it will be a new problem.The circumstances change, but the feeling remains the same: âIâm not there yet.âI usually blame this feeling on my job, my bank account, or even my spouse. But listening to this, I had to ask myself: Is this actually true? Or is this just a story my ego tells to keep me seeking? It feels like a cover for a deeper insecurity: the fear that âI am not enough.âđŻ Quote to Remember:âToday itâs one thing and tomorrow it would be something else... Itâs just a different story wrapped around the same thing. Somethingâs missing. And yet no matter how many years weâve traveled this journey... here we are right now.âSelf-Check: When I check my direct experience right now, not my thoughts about tomorrow, but literally right now â is anything actually missing? Or is there just a story in my head saying I should be somewhere else?2. Taking the Game Too SeriouslyThis analogy really stuck with me. Tiger talks about playing a board game with family. Itâs fun, right? But what if I believed that winning that board game determined my actual worth as a human being? What if I thought losing meant I was unlovable?Suddenly, the game isnât fun. Itâs terrifying. Iâd be anxious every time I rolled the dice.It hit me: this is exactly how I approach my career. Iâve confused the âgameâ (my job, status, social roles) with my reality. I take it so seriously that I forget to enjoy the play. It makes me wonderâŚIf I realized my worth wasnât on the table, could I actually play the game better (and with way less frustration)?đŻ Quote to Remember:âImagine youâre playing a game, and you think itâs serious. You think your worth and value is wrapped up in the game... You canât just enjoy yourself. Thereâs too much on the line.â3. The âPrison Guardâ ParadoxThis part felt like a personal call-out. It actually irritated me. Must be something to look at, I guess.Tiger talks about the tragedy of finally getting the thing you wanted â the dream job, the perfect relationship, the status â and instantly becoming a âprisonerâ to it.I realized, begrudgingly, I do this constantly. The moment I get a âwin,â my ego becomes terrified of losing it. I need another win to protect the previous win. Yea, exhausting. I transform from a seeker into a prison guard, constantly watching my assets or checking the temperature of my relationships to make sure nothing changes.I twist myself into knots to keep the âdreamâ alive, which means Iâm not actually free to enjoy the life I built. Real freedom, it seems, isnât having a perfect setup that can never crumble; itâs realizing my safety doesnât come from the setup in the first place.đŻ Quote to Remember: âThe moment you get it, you become afraid of losing it... You have to spend the rest of your time like a prison guard, making sure it does exactly what you want it to do, so it doesnât leave.â4. The âUpside-Downâ WorldviewI definitely operate on this transactional model of happiness:* I do good work -> The world gives me money -> I feel secure.* I act nice -> My spouse gives me affirmation -> I feel loved.Tiger calls this âupside-down,â and heâs right â itâs exhausting. It puts my emotional state entirely in the hands of things I canât control (the market, other peopleâs moods, the weather).It made me pause and consider: What if I donât âgetâ love, but extend it? The miracle Tiger points to is that when we extend love or joy to someone else, we are the ones who feel it first. We are the source. I donât need the world to give me permission to feel good. Thatâs a game-changer.đŻ Quote to Remember:âYou are not here to get something, because that would imply you came into the world missing something... The miracle of this is that as you give, you experience what you give... You are giving it to yourself for the sake of your own sanity.â5. Freedom isnât a âTo-Doâ ListAt the end of the episode, the high-achiever in me immediately asked: âOkay, I get it. I want this freedom. What are the action steps? Give me the SOP.âThe comedyâand the reliefâis that we canât âdoâ anything to get free, because we are free. Itâs like searching for my shoes while they are on my feet. I donât need to go out and by new sneakers; I just need to realize they are already there.For me, this isnât about adding a 20-minute meditation to my already packed morning routine to âachieveâ enlightenment. Itâs about noticing, in the middle of a chaotic Tuesday, that the stress is a story, and the stillness underneath it is real.đŻ Quote to Remember:âThe way out of this has nothing to do with doing something... You have to see that you are already free, and you just donât know it yet.âFinal Thought:If you feel like youâre constantly waiting for the future to arrive so you can finally be happy, I hope youâll listen to this with me. It was a gentle but firm reminder that the âprizeâ of life isnât at the finish line. Itâs right here.â Sam Get full access to Spiritual Clarity | Relax, All is Well at tigmonk.substack.com/subscribe
đŁď¸ Take a breath, see the mirror, it's only trying to help you get what you "really" want.____It's wild how often we look at relationship drama and think the other person is the problem. We believe that what we're searching for is held by someone else, or that they're somehow withholding what we want most. This assumption paints a world that is not a very nice place.But what if all your external relationshipsâfrom your partner to a tree you pass on the streetâare fundamentally in service to helping you heal the relationship you have with yourself?In this deeply honest sharing, Tiger Singleton breaks down the Illusion of Seeking and shows you the vital, painful, and often beautiful mechanism of the mirror.Relationships are not the prize, they are the road map. They show you yourself. If you see something ugly or feel hatred toward someone, you are experiencing the conflict you have within. The pain of conflict is an alarm that tells you: the way youâre seeing is not to see what is.The goal isn't to change what's in the mirror; the goal is to see something differentâto see something with more love. This requires courageous self-honesty, vulnerability, and letting the truth be the truth.Stop trying to find a human being to rescue you. You can't have a deeply beautiful relationship with anyone else until you have a deeply beautiful relationship with yourself.VIDEO CHAPTERS/Topics00:00 | Introduction: Why Relationships Are Here to Heal You00:46 | The Illusion of Seeking in the World04:09 | The World as a Mirror of Self06:14 | The Tree Analogy (Seeing Your Own Conflict)09:56 | Giving to Another is Giving to Yourself13:29 | Relationships Are For Healing Your Inner Conflict17:21 | The Desire to Be Rescued (The Trap)19:39 | The Mirror Cannot Be Wrong21:39 | How to Heal What You See (Seeing with Love)24:11 | Life is 100% in Support of You26:05 | The Opportunity for Deep Honesty28:43 | The Cost of Avoiding Vulnerability32:25 | Conclusion: Be Still, Open Up, Love More Get full access to Spiritual Clarity | Relax, All is Well at tigmonk.substack.com/subscribe
If you enjoy this inquiry (opportunity to heal), check out this written substack article on the same topic; expressed in a more direct and digestible way.Stoicism? How to (Finally) Be Undisturbed by Life and Other PeopleBeing human â doesnât require you to be bothered by whatâs showing, whatâs happening, or what may or may not happen. The principles of Stoicism, which invite you to see whatâs actually in your control, are also universal spiritual principles of seeing yourself more clearly. In this talk, Tiger walks with you on a journey of discovery, to SEE how itâs possible to be undisturbed by Life. CHAPTERS:* 00:30 The Undisturbed Life: Stoicism and the Human Dilemma* 03:10 Control, Peace, and Where Disturbance Truly Resides* 06:13 The Mindâs Role in Disturbance and the Practice of Forgiveness* 09:56 Emotional Disturbance vs. Physical Reality* 13:34 Seeing Reality and Getting Out of the Mindâs Illusion* 17:07 Violence, Hurt, and the Non-Personal Nature of Conflict* 20:31 Healing Relationships Through Radical Self-Responsibility* 24:09 The Pathway to Truth: Honesty and Surrendering the Ego* 28:41 The Prayer of Illusion vs. The Prayer for Truth* 32:43 Why the Ego Takes Everything Personally* 36:40 The Devil, The Ego, and Confusing Story with Reality* 40:03 The Humble Power and Salvation of Unconditional Love* 43:37 Finding Peace with Conflict in the Forest of LifeHelp me Understand Your StruggleâŚFor those willing to play with me, after reading this, Iâm truly interest to hear in the comments how it landed for you.* What was your biggest takeaway?* What seems unclear or frustrating?* What would you like to hear me speak on (write about) next?Thanks for being here. Get full access to Spiritual Clarity | Relax, All is Well at tigmonk.substack.com/subscribe
RecapWhy Does It Feel So Exhausting to Be Human?We all know that feeling of pushing, striving, fixing. Itâs easy to believe that life itself is exhausting, but is it really?"The exhaustion isnât lifeâitâs the egoâs fight to protect an image of who you think you are."We talked about how the ego is always chasing somethingâcontrol, validation, perfection. But what if you didnât need to fix yourself?What if, instead of striving, you could relax into being exactly who you already are?Key insight:Youâre not a project to fix. Youâre already enough.The Mindâs Stories and the Noise They CreateThe mind loves to spin storiesâabout who we are, what we lack, and how life should be. It convinces us that weâre broken and that if we just solved this one thing, weâd finally be okay."The irony? The more we try to fix the noise, the louder it gets."But hereâs the truth: these stories are harmless, temporary, and ultimately not real.The mind isnât the enemyâitâs just doing its thing.You donât have to solve its noise; you can simply notice it and let it pass.Reflection: What stories are you holding onto that arenât serving you?Trusting the UnknownItâs the start of a new year, and naturally, we think about plans and resolutions. But as I shared in the talk:"Nothing in my life has ever gone the way I thought it wouldâand thatâs actually beautiful."We spend so much time trying to predict and control the future, but what if the unknown isnât something to fear? What if itâs the very thing that makes life magical?Instead of controlling, trust.Instead of fearing, allow.Instead of striving, relax.When we stop trying to direct life, we might just notice that itâs carrying us exactly where we need to go.Reflections Worth Holding OntoHere are a few takeaways to sit with:âYouâre already the beautiful human you think you need to become.ââRelax, buddy. Everythingâs okay.ââWhat if you stopped trying to be Godâand just let God be God?âAn Invitation to Let GoIf thereâs one thing I hope you take from this talk, itâs this: Youâre already home.You donât need to strive, fix, or solve. Life isnât a problemâitâs an invitation to see the miracle thatâs already here.And when youâre ready, go out and love on people. Love in the most effortless, joyful, and honest way possible. Get full access to Spiritual Clarity | Relax, All is Well at tigmonk.substack.com/subscribe
Life as an AdventureWe started by recognizing the human journey for what it is: a great adventure.An adventure isnât complete without its twists and turnsâthe highs, lows, moments of uncertainty, and times where everything feels perfectly aligned. Itâs messy, exciting, and yes, sometimes even terrifying. But thatâs exactly what makes it an adventure.âFor there to be any flavor of adventure, there has to be this element of fear that wonders, âIs it all going to be okay?â And yet, here we areâwhole and complete, untouched by anything weâve been through.âThe truth is, despite the stories we tell ourselves, everything weâve experienced has brought us right here, right now, whole and complete.Whole and Complete: The Truth of What You AreOne of the central insights we uncovered was the realization that the real you is whole and complete.Not the version of you the mind constantly comments onânot the âyouâ wrapped up in your past or anxiously chasing the future. Beneath all that, thereâs an untouched, unbroken reality to who you are.âThe deeper reality of what you are has never been touched by what youâve been through. Sure, the mind will tell its storiesâbut thatâs all they are, stories. The truth of what you are is already enough.âThis realization changes how we see everything. The mind loves to make life feel heavy and serious, but when we recognize that what we are has never been at risk, the seriousness starts to dissolve.Given Enough Time, Tragedy Becomes ComedyOne of the most freeing perspectives we discussed is how time softens the weight of what weâve been through.âGive any tragedy enough time, and it eventually becomes comedy.âWeâve all had moments where something felt like the end of the world. Yet, weeks, months, or years later, we look back and laugh at how worked up we got.Itâs not about dismissing painâitâs about seeing that everything weâve experienced is part of a grand, playful adventure.I shared the example of a child dropping their ice cream cone. For them, it feels like devastation. But from a bigger perspective, we can see the humor and lightness in it. The same is true for our lives.The Stories We Tell and Emotional PainMuch of our suffering comes not from what happens, but from the story we tell about what happens.âYour emotions donât respond to realityâthey respond to the story youâre telling about what you think is happening.âWhen we feel overwhelmed, anxious, or lonely, itâs not life itself causing that painâitâs the narrative our mind creates about it.This doesnât mean emotions arenât valid. It means theyâre an invitation to pause and ask:âWhat am I believing that isnât true?âOur emotions guide us back to clarity, reminding us that weâre always whole and complete.The Playful Nature of ExistenceAt its heart, life is playful. Itâs not meant to be taken too seriously.We talked about how taking the âpointsâ in life seriouslyâwhether itâs achievements, relationships, or strugglesâmakes the game feel heavy. But when we realize those âpointsâ donât define us, life opens up.âThe more you think the points are real, the harder the game becomes. But when you see that none of it defines your worth, life becomes light, free, and playful.âLike playing Monopoly with someone who takes the game too seriously, believing the money is real, we make life unnecessarily tense. But life, like any game, is an opportunity to connect, learn, and grow.Key Takeaways to Sit WithLife is an adventureâembrace it.The fear, uncertainty, and joy are all part of the journey.You are already whole and complete.Your true self remains untouched by the stories in your mind.Given enough time, all tragedy becomes comedy.What feels heavy now will eventually reveal its playful nature.Emotions are guides, not punishments.Pain invites you to look at the story youâre tellingâand to see more clearly.Play the game, but donât take the points seriously.The real opportunity in life isnât to âwinââitâs to connect, learn, and grow.An Invitation to See ClearlyAs we wrapped up, I shared this thought:âWhen you see the truth of what actually is, you canât help but smile. And eventually⌠you canât help but love everything.âThis is the deeper invitation: to see lifeâand yourselfâas inherently complete, playful, and free from the seriousness the mind tries to impose.Take these reflections with you. Play with them. And remember, this adventure youâre on isnât something to conquerâitâs something to enjoy.Thank you for sharing this space with me.With love and playful curiosity,Tiger Get full access to Spiritual Clarity | Relax, All is Well at tigmonk.substack.com/subscribe
In this exploration of The Sacred & Conscious Design of Life, we uncover the profound beauty and intentionality woven into the human experience. This is an invitation to pause, reflect, and see beyond the surface of our struggles and stories. Together, weâll investigate the truth of lifeâs design, one that reveals there are no mistakesâonly a lack of seeing the bigger picture. Get full access to Spiritual Clarity | Relax, All is Well at tigmonk.substack.com/subscribe
In this episode, we explore the profound connection between truth and freedom, uncovering the ways we often mistake control and external validation for the liberation we seek. Together, we take a closer look at the human experienceâwhat binds us, what sets us free, and how to recognize the difference. Get full access to Spiritual Clarity | Relax, All is Well at tigmonk.substack.com/subscribe
What is desire, really? Is it the pull toward something outside of us, or does it reveal something deeper? In this episode, I explore the mechanism of desireâhow it functions, why it often gets distorted, and how it can lead us back to a deeper truth. Together, weâll examine the subtle distinction between the *sensation* of desire and the *image* of what we think we desire. Get full access to Spiritual Clarity | Relax, All is Well at tigmonk.substack.com/subscribe
Life is supposed to be hard⌠but what if thatâs the point? In this session, I explore why embracing challenges, both in life and relationships, is the secret to growth, authenticity, and connection. Whether itâs lifting weights at the gym or having those uncomfortable yet transformative conversations, this video offers insights that will help you stop resisting reality and start showing up fully for the life you actually want. If youâre ready to laugh, reflect, and see the beauty in the hard stuff, this audio is for you. Get full access to Spiritual Clarity | Relax, All is Well at tigmonk.substack.com/subscribe
Join us in this heartfelt meditation, you'll be guided to set aside life's stresses and return to the stillness within. Through gentle reminders and compassionate wisdom, Tiger will help you recognize where true comfort is found - in each calm breath and the ease of letting go. Get full access to Spiritual Clarity | Relax, All is Well at tigmonk.substack.com/subscribe
Are you feeling stuck in endless cycles of suffering and pain, but longing for a deeper understanding and connection with life's truths? Tired of running from your difficulties only to find more distress? This episode explores how our mental stories amplify life's challenges into needless torment. Tiger offers profound yet practical guidance on transcending human anguish by understanding its roots and surrendering resistance. Through compassionate wisdom and guided meditation, he invites us to see beyond illusion to the freedom of presence. Take some time for yourself to listen with an open, inquiring mind - you may gain insights that can transform your relationship with life's ups and downs. Get full access to Spiritual Clarity | Relax, All is Well at tigmonk.substack.com/subscribe
Are you allowing fear and self-doubt to overshadow your true potential? Join us in this heartfelt meditation as we explore honesty, presence, and embracing our true selves. Let's break free from limitations and share our unique gifts with the world. Get full access to Spiritual Clarity | Relax, All is Well at tigmonk.substack.com/subscribe
Do you feel ready to let go of rigid beliefs and experience reality directly? This episode offers a rare glimpse into Tiger's insightful yet lighthearted style of deconstructing common misconceptions around non-duality. Over the course of the discussion, he gently challenges the mind to question its most basic assumptions, unfolding profound insights into our true nature in a way that feels surprisingly simple and familiar. If you're seeking to transcend mental limitations and experience life without boundaries, this session provides an opportunity to let go and remember who you really are beneath the surface of thoughts and images. Get full access to Spiritual Clarity | Relax, All is Well at tigmonk.substack.com/subscribe
Dive into a space of honesty and reflection as we let go of illusions and come home to the love and freedom within. Join us as we explore the profound journey of reclaiming ourselves, embracing sincerity, and acknowledging our truth. Discover the essence of self-discovery and authenticity. Get full access to Spiritual Clarity | Relax, All is Well at tigmonk.substack.com/subscribe
Are you worried about the past or future? This meditation will help you release worries and find peace in the present moment. Tiger acknowledge we don't always know what will happen but somehow life has worked out. He invite you to breathe into this moment and experience the profound difference between imagining life and truly living in it now. Get full access to Spiritual Clarity | Relax, All is Well at tigmonk.substack.com/subscribe
Are you feeling disconnected from your true self and longing for more peace in your daily life? Tired of being at the mercy of your thoughts and feelings? This episode offers a refreshing perspective on stepping out of mental identification and into heart-centered living. Tiger insightfully explores how our minds often cause undue suffering and provides practical guidance for connecting with the calm wisdom within. Take some time for yourself to listen with an open heart - you may be surprised by how much inner clarity and ease you discover. Get full access to Spiritual Clarity | Relax, All is Well at tigmonk.substack.com/subscribe
Take a moment to step back from your busy thoughts and relax into the present moment. Tiger invites you to recognize life's simple permission to just "be" - outside of mental demands and expectations. Breathe deeply as he guides you into an awareness of reality beyond the thinking mind. Get full access to Spiritual Clarity | Relax, All is Well at tigmonk.substack.com/subscribe
Discover how to shift your perspective from lack to abundance in this insightful talk. Tiger explores how our perceptions of "lack" are often simply lenses we place on reality, and how recognizing our innate abundance can transform our experience of life. Through thoughtful discussion and guided meditation, gain insights to help uncover your natural state of wholeness. Get full access to Spiritual Clarity | Relax, All is Well at tigmonk.substack.com/subscribe
Take a moment to drop into reality, to simply be present. Come home to yourself, breathe, and realize that everything is okay in this very moment. Life isn't the problem; it's our resistance to it. Join us in finding peace within ourselves. Get full access to Spiritual Clarity | Relax, All is Well at tigmonk.substack.com/subscribe






















