The ANTD Podcast

If you cheated and don’t know how to tell the truth, this episode could change everything.Telling the truth after cheating doesn’t erase the pain — but how you tell it can either begin healing… or cause even more trauma.In Episode 79 of The ANTD Podcast, Amee and D Widders break down:Why trickle truth hurts more than the affair itselfHow to confess cheating without gaslighting or retraumatizing your partnerWhy hiding details is selfish — even when you think you’re “protecting them”What real remorse actually looks like (and what fake remorse sounds like)How to respond when your partner explodes emotionally after betrayalWhy honesty is the beginning of healing, not the endIf you’re trying to:Tell your partner the truth after cheatingGet someone to finally stop lying and come cleanUnderstand why betrayal feels traumaticDecide whether your relationship can survive infidelity…this conversation is for you.💔 Betrayal changes everything — but honesty done right can stop the damage from spreading.🔗 SUPPORT & HEALING RESOURCESIf you’re stuck after infidelity, you don’t have to do this alone.We offer:Weekly group coaching1-on-1 coachingA 6-week healing courseA 31-day devotionalDownloadable healing PDFs👉 All resources are available at shopantd.com🎥 Tik Tok → https://www.tiktok.com/@antdsply📸 Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/antdsply/🎧 Apple Podcasts → https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-antd🎧 Spotify → https://open.spotify.com/show/3uH9u5kTi7VcqN2x1zJ9xP🔥 EPISODE 79 – YOUTUBE TIMESTAMPSHow to Tell the Truth After Cheating00:00 “I Thought I Was Protecting You… I Was Lying”01:42 Why Trickle Truth Hurts Worse Than the Affair05:08 The Biggest Mistake People Make When Confessing Cheating08:47 What the Betrayed Partner Is Actually Hearing12:36 Why Partial Truth Is Still Manipulation16:04 What Real Accountability Sounds Like20:18 How to Tell the Whole Truth Without Destroying Them25:31 How to Get a Liar to Finally Come Clean30:44 When the Truth Comes Out Too Late35:09 Can a Relationship Survive Infidelity?39:58 What Healing Actually Requires From Both People

Can you ever fully trust someone again after cheating? After infidelity, many people feel trapped between wanting to heal and feeling like their body will never feel safe again. In this episode of The ANTD Podcast, Amee and D. Widders break down what trust actually looks like after betrayal, why pre-betrayal trust is gone for good, and how real healing begins after cheating. We talk openly about betrayal trauma, hypervigilance, panic, and the physical toll infidelity takes on the nervous system. If you’re struggling with rebuilding trust after cheating, this episode will change how you think about recovery. You’ll learn why trust isn’t restored—it’s rebuilt through consistency, transparency, boundaries, and emotional safety. Whether you’re the one who was betrayed or the one who cheated, this conversation offers clarity, compassion, and real tools for infidelity recovery. Healing after betrayal is possible—and your relationship can become stronger than it ever was before. 👇 RESOURCES MENTIONED 👇 🧠 Coaching → https://shopantd.com/collections/custom-collection 🗓️ Join Our Live Web Class → https://shopantd.com/products/webinar 🗓️ 31 Day Devotional → https://shopantd.com/products/1-antd-healing-devotional-31-day-devotional-videos-pdfs 📘 6-Week Healing Course → https://shopantd.com/products/6-weeks-to-peace-after-betrayal-course-video-pdf 📖 Complete PDF Pack → https://shopantd.com/products/7-antd-complete-healing-pdf-bundle-pack-all-7-of-our-pdf-guides-for-recovery-restoration 🎥 Tik Tok → https://www.tiktok.com/@antdsply 📸 Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/antdsply/ 🎧 Apple Podcasts → https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-antd 00:00 – Can You Ever Trust Again After Cheating? 00:47 – Why Pre-Betrayal Trust Is Gone Forever 01:18 – Trust After Infidelity Must Be Earned, Not Assumed 02:05 – Transparency Isn’t Punishment, It’s Repair 03:04 – Why Actions Matter More Than Apologies 04:11 – Betrayal Trauma & the Nervous System Explained 05:02 – The Physical Effects of Cheating on the Body 06:56 – Why “Just Get Over It” Makes Healing Worse 08:31 – How Long Healing After Cheating Really Takes 09:59 – Why 100% Trust Isn’t the Goal—Safety Is 11:15 – Boundaries After Infidelity (The Alarm System Analogy) 12:32 – How Trust Was Actually Rebuilt Over Time 14:22 – Final Truth: Trust After Cheating Is About Safety

Rebuilding intimacy after cheating is one of the most painful and confusing parts of healing—but it is possible when you rebuild it the right way. In this episode, Amee & D. Widders break down the REAL steps they used to slowly restore physical, emotional, and spiritual intimacy after infidelity shattered their marriage. From nervous system triggers, shutdown responses, and hysterical bonding to resetting your intimacy timeline and learning how to rebuild a brand-new relationship—this conversation gives you clarity, hope, and the exact roadmap couples need to move forward. We also discuss the role of spiritual intimacy, why connection must come before sex, how to create safety after betrayal, and the daily practices that helped us reconnect, forgive, and rebuild trust. Whether you're the betrayed or the betrayer, this episode gives actionable steps and faith-based wisdom to help you rebuild closeness without pressure, fear, or guilt. If you want your relationship to heal, grow, and truly transform—this is where you start. 👇 RESOURCES MENTIONED 👇 🧠 Coaching → https://shopantd.com/collections/coaching 🗓️ Join Our Live Web Class → https://shopantd.com/products/webinar 🗓️ 31 Day Devotional → https://shopantd.com/products/1-antd-healing-devotional-31-day-devotional-videos-pdfs 📘 6-Week Healing Course → https://shopantd.com/collections/antd-courses 📖 Complete PDF Pack → https://shopantd.com/products/7-antd-complete-healing-pdf-bundle-pack-all-7-of-our-pdf-guides-for-recovery-restoratio 🎥 Tik Tok → https://www.tiktok.com/@antdsply 📸 Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/antdsply/ 🎧 Apple Podcasts → https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-antd 00:00 – Why intimacy after betrayal feels unsafe 00:25 – How betrayal affects the nervous system 01:10 – Safety signals couples must relearn 01:39 – Truth, God, and the foundation of intimacy 02:05 – Trauma responses during closeness 03:00 – Hysterical bonding & shutdown cycles 04:02 – Why intimacy must be rebuilt slowly 05:18 – Connection before sex: rebuilding the timeline 06:03 – Letting the betrayed partner lead intimacy 06:46 – Rebuilding a “new relationship” after cheating 07:27 – Why healing isn’t linear 08:08 – Hidden layers: SA, trauma, and sexual triggers 08:35 – Why cheating isn’t worth the long-term pain 09:01 – Emotional consequences that linger 10:08 – Confession, guilt & repentance 11:01 – Healing enough to help others 11:46 – The turning point: non-sexual intimacy 12:38 – Why rushing intimacy backfires 13:23 – Doing intimacy backwards vs. the right order 14:20 – Non-sexual connection that changed our marriage 15:08 – Truth as the deepest form of intimacy 15:36 – Daily intimacy routines that rebuild connection 16:22 – Praying before, during & after intimacy 17:29 – Choosing a healed life over the old life 18:03 – Why honest living is “worth sounding crazy” 18:12 – Available resources for healing 18:55 – Spiritual intimacy: rebuilding what betrayal destroyed 19:46 – How prayer changes the atmosphere 20:11 – Speaking life over your partner 21:27 – Giving fears and triggers to God 21:51 – Final encouragement for couples rebuilding intimacy

Infidelity shakes the foundation of any relationship—but should you stay or leave? On this episode of The ANTD Podcast with Amee & D. Widders, we dive into a real-life infidelity story and explore the emotional journey couples face after cheating. From heartbreak and betrayal to the decision of whether to forgive or walk away, we cover the raw truth and practical advice for anyone navigating this painful experience. Amee and D break down why some couples choose to stay, what red flags to watch for, and how to evaluate whether a relationship can be rebuilt. You’ll hear honest perspectives on trust, forgiveness, and emotional healing. This episode is designed to give clarity, guidance, and hope for your next steps in love and relationships. If you’ve ever asked yourself, “Should I stay or leave after cheating?”, this episode is a must-listen. Learn from a real infidelity story and get actionable insights to decide what’s best for your heart. 👇 RESOURCES MENTIONED 👇 🧠 Coaching → https://shopantd.com/collections/coaching🗓️ Join Our Live Web Class → https://shopantd.com/products/webinar 🗓️ 31 Day Devotional → https://shopantd.com/products/1-antd-healing-devotional-31-day-devotional-videos-pdfs 📘 6-Week Healing Course → https://shopantd.com/collections/antd-courses 📖 Complete PDF Pack → https://shopantd.com/products/7-antd-complete-healing-pdf-bundle-pack-all-7-of-our-pdf-guides-for-recovery-restoratio 🎥 Tik Tok → https://www.tiktok.com/@antdsply 📸 Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/antdsply/ 🎧 Apple Podcasts → https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-antd Timestamps: 0:00 — Intro: Why This Topic Matters 1:30 — Real Infidelity Story Begins 6:50 — Emotional Impact: Shock, Anger, Confusion 10:20 — Why Some Couples Stay Together 14:40 — Red Flags vs. Signs of Remorse 18:50 — Deciding: Stay or Leave 23:30 — Steps to Begin Healing & Rebuilding Trust 27:10 — Lessons Learned & Final Thoughts 29:30 — Outro & Encouragement

In this episode of The ANTD Podcast, Amee and D dive deep into one of the most overlooked spiritual battles in relationships — soul ties. After betrayal, many couples feel trapped in invisible bonds that keep them emotionally and spiritually stuck, no matter how hard they try to move forward. Amee and D share their personal story of breaking free from unhealthy attachments, exposing how these ties can linger even after repentance — and how true freedom only comes when you invite God into the healing process. Whether you’ve been betrayed, battled guilt, or are simply searching for clarity, this episode will give you practical steps, biblical insight, and raw truth to help you recognize, break, and heal from ungodly attachments. Stay tuned until the end for a powerful prayer of release and spiritual breakthrough. 👇 RESOURCES MENTIONED 👇 🧠 Coaching → https://shopantd.com/collections/coaching🗓️ Join Our Live Web Class → https://shopantd.com/products/webinar 🗓️ 31 Day Devotional → https://shopantd.com/products/1-antd-healing-devotional-31-day-devotional-videos-pdfs 📘 6-Week Healing Course → https://shopantd.com/collections/antd-courses 📖 Complete PDF Pack → https://shopantd.com/products/7-antd-complete-healing-pdf-bundle-pack-all-7-of-our-pdf-guides-for-recovery-restoratio 🎥 Tik Tok → https://www.tiktok.com/@antdsply 📸 Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/antdsply/ 🎧 Apple Podcasts → https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-antd Adultery Sermon: https://www.youtube.com/live/GGQLeikB2Y0?si=UjnIdeZ09E-TUg5H

In this powerful episode of The ANTD Podcast, Amee & D. Widders tackle the agonizing question of infidelity recovery and the stigma of staying after cheating. Everyone loves a redemption story... until you tell them your partner cheated, and you’re fighting for your marriage. We dive deep into the "silent stigma" where the outrage, support, and loyalty from friends "dries up" the moment you choose reconciliation. We unpack why people assume staying means you are "desperate, weak, [or] have no self-worth," and how to navigate this intense external pressure. Did you know a 2023 poll found that 62% of people believe relationships should end immediately after cheating? Tune in as we expose the judgment and the gossip that follows a betrayed partner who decides to work through it instead of walking away. The conversation gets personal as we debate the central question: Should you tell your family and friends you were cheated on? We discuss the reality that external people often "come and go," but your marriage is for the long term. Ultimately, we share why your decision should be "made up... with God" first, and then you can choose to tell—or not tell—everybody else. If you are working through marriage after an affair or dealing with the emotional labor of reconciliation stigma, this episode offers the clarity and conviction you need to prioritize your relationship. Don't forget to like, subscribe, and hit the notification bell for more real-talk on navigating the hardest parts of life and love! 👇 RESOURCES MENTIONED 👇 🗓️ Join Our Live Web Class → https://shopantd.com/products/webinar 🧠 1-on-1 Coaching → https://shopantd.com/collections/coaching 👕 This Month’s Merch Drop → https://shopantd.com/products/bet-on-the-blood-t-shirt 🗓️ 31 Day Devotional → https://shopantd.com/products/1-antd-healing-devotional-31-day-devotional-videos-pdfs 📘 6-Week Healing Course → https://shopantd.com/collections/antd-courses 📖 Complete PDF Pack → https://shopantd.com/products/7-antd-complete-healing-pdf-bundle-pack-all-7-of-our-pdf-guides-for-recovery-restoratio 🎥 Tik Tok → https://www.tiktok.com/@antdsply 📸 Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/antdsply/ 🎧 Apple Podcasts → https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-antd 00:00 The Stigma of Staying After Cheating: Should You Tell Anyone? 00:26 Point One: The Silent Stigma 00:49 Losing Support: Why Friends Distance Themselves After You Reconcile 01:33 "You Chose Him Over Us": The Family Conflict After Infidelity 02:38 Why We Kept the Cheating a Secret from Our Parents 04:25 How 50 Years of Marriage Saved Our Relationship 05:27 Why 50% of Couples Stay: Exposing the Truth About Reconciliation 07:02 Point Two: Their Pain, Your Pressure 07:52 How to Spot Bad Advice Rooted in Unresolved Trauma 09:44 Should Unhealed People Get a Say in Your Marriage? 11:15 Support Break: 1-on-1 Coaching & Biblical Counsel 11:46 Point Three: The Cost of Restoration 12:38 Is a "Relationship Purge" Necessary for Healing? 13:27 The Friend I Thought I Lost (The Story of Jean) 17:12 The 4-Part Order to Prioritize Your Spouse and Rebuild Trust 18:12 The Golden Rule: Make Up Your Mind with God First (Then Tell People) 19:42 Final Word: Your Marriage is for 100 Years, Friends Come and Go 20:42 Outro & Resources for Healing

Forgiving a cheater feels impossible… but with God, healing after betrayal is possible. In this episode of The ANTD Podcast with Amee & D. Widders, we share the raw truth about how forgiveness, healing, and rebuilding trust really happen after infidelity. Amee opens up about hearing God’s voice in her darkest moments, and D shares what it took to forgive himself after being the one who betrayed. Together, we unpack the difference between forgiveness and reconciliation, how to let go of resentment, and why surrendering it all to Christ is the only path to freedom. ❤️‍🩹 If you’re struggling to forgive, to heal, or to move forward after cheating, this episode is for you. Learn how to release shame, find peace in God’s grace, and begin your own journey toward restoration — one choice at a time. 👇 RESOURCES MENTIONED 👇 🗓️ Join Our Live Web Class → https://shopantd.com/products/webinar 🧠 1-on-1 Coaching → https://shopantd.com/collections/coaching 👕 This Month’s Merch Drop → https://shopantd.com/products/bet-on-the-blood-t-shirt 🗓️ 31 Day Devotional → https://shopantd.com/products/1-antd-healing-devotional-31-day-devotional-videos-pdfs 📘 6-Week Healing Course → https://shopantd.com/collections/antd-courses 📖 Complete PDF Pack → https://shopantd.com/products/7-antd-complete-healing-pdf-bundle-pack-all-7-of-our-pdf-guides-for-recovery-restoratio 🎥 Tik Tok → https://www.tiktok.com/@antdsply 📸 Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/antdsply/ 🎧 Apple Podcasts → https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-antd 🕒 Timestamps 00:00 – Forgiving feels impossible… but one choice changes everything 00:33 – Forgiveness vs. reconciliation: what’s the difference? 02:21 – How forgiveness heals your heart and health 05:23 – Hearing God in the pain 08:28 – Forgiving yourself after betrayal 16:04 – The science behind self-forgiveness 18:25 – Forgiveness is a process, not a one-time event 21:15 – How unforgiveness opens doors spiritually 25:28 – 3 key takeaways for healing after infidelity

In Episode 72 of The ANTD Podcast Amee and D. Widders dive DEEP into the topic of DEFENSIVENESS in relationships and how it DESTROYS TRUST and STOPS INTIMACY. Follow along as we explain how being defensive after infidelity blocks healing and transparency, shifts focus away from responsibility, and delays the rebuilding of trust and intimacy. If you apply what we teach in this episode you will drastically speed up yoru healing after betrayal and through humility, accountability, and transparency - not defensiveness -you can being to heal, rebuild trust and have a stronger relationship that WILL LAST! 👇 RESOURCES MENTIONED 👇 🗓️ Join Our Live Web Class → https://shopantd.com/products/live-web-class-09-21-2025?utm_source=copyToPasteBoard&utm_medium=product-links&utm_content=web 🧠 1-on-1 Coaching → https://shopantd.com/collections/coaching 👕 This Month’s Merch Drop → https://shopantd.com/products/bet-on-the-blood-t-shirt 🗓️ 31 Day Devotional → https://shopantd.com/products/1-antd-healing-devotional-31-day-devotional-videos-pdfs 📘 6-Week Healing Course → https://shopantd.com/collections/antd-courses 📖 Complete PDF Pack → https://shopantd.com/products/7-antd-complete-healing-pdf-bundle-pack-all-7-of-our-pdf-guides-for-recovery-restoratio 🎥 Tik Tok → https://www.tiktok.com/@antdsply 📸 Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/antdsply/ 🎧 Apple Podcasts → https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-antd ⏱️ Episode Time Stamps 0:00 – 0:37 | Intro & Theme: Defensiveness as a silent killer in relationships 0:37 – 1:09 | Why defensiveness destroys rebuilding after betrayal 1:09 – 3:48 | Point 1: Defensiveness blocks healing and transparency 3:48 – 5:35 | How to approach your partner without triggering defensiveness 5:35 – 11:26 | Point 2: Defensiveness shifts focus away from responsibility 11:26 – 13:41 | Intimacy, defensiveness, and different phases of relationships 13:41 – 15:25 | Why prayer and intentional intimacy matter in marriage 15:25 – 19:35 | Point 3: Defensiveness delays rebuilding trust and intimacy 19:35 – 20:37 | Healing takes humility, patience, and accountability 20:37 – 22:52 | Closing thoughts, resources, and prayer

In this episode of The ANTD Podcast with Amee & D. Widders, we talk about 5 ways that are guaranteed to speed up your healing and transform your relationship after being cheated on. If you’ve been cheated on or have done the cheating, this episode will help you. You will Learn how to release pain and find peace through prayer, anchor yourself in God’s Word for clarity and guidance, recognize the spiritual side of betrayal, discover the freedom forgiveness brings, reclaim your true identity in Christ and see how sharing your testimony can inspire healing! 👇 RESOURCES MENTIONED 👇 🗓️ Join Our Live Web Class → https://shopantd.com/products/live-web-class-09-21-2025 🧠 1-on-1 Coaching → https://shopantd.com/collections/coaching 👕 This Month’s Merch Drop → https://shopantd.com/products/bet-on-the-blood-t-shirt 🗓️ 31 Day Devotional → https://shopantd.com/products/1-antd-healing-devotional-31-day-devotional-videos-pdfs 📘 6-Week Healing Course → https://shopantd.com/collections/antd-courses 📖 Complete PDF Pack → https://shopantd.com/products/7-antd-complete-healing-pdf-bundle-pack-all-7-of-our-pdf-guides-for-recovery-restoratio 🎥 Amee Daily Live → https://www.tiktok.com/@antdsply 📸 Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/antdsply/ 🎧 Apple Podcasts → https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-antd ⏱️ Timestamps 00:01:01 – Prayer as the Foundation 00:07:38 – The Bible & Devotional Time 00:13:21 – Cheating is Demonic (Spiritual Warfare) 00:21:14 – Forgiveness Brings Freedom 00:26:33 – Reclaiming Your Identity in Christ 00:33:21 – Sharing Testimony & Building Community

Episode 70 of The ANTD Podcast with Amee and D. Widders dives deep into how to heal daily after infidelity and betrayal. Healing isn’t just about one decision—it’s about consistent, faith-filled choices that bring peace, restore trust, and rebuild your marriage. In this conversation, we break down 5 daily habits that help you overcome triggers, stop living in the past, and start creating a stronger future together. From beginning your mornings with God to ending your nights in peace, we share practical and spiritual tools you can use right now. If you’ve been cheated on, are struggling with broken trust, or want to understand how to recover from betrayal, this episode gives you a roadmap for hope and healing. Join us as we share our own journey and encourage you to take your next step forward. 👇 RESOURCES MENTIONED 👇 🧠 1-on-1 Coaching → https://shopantd.com/collections/coaching 👕 This Month’s Merch Drop → https://shopantd.com/products/bet-on-the-blood-t-shirt 🗓️ 31 Day Devotional → https://shopantd.com/products/1-antd-healing-devotional-31-day-devotional-videos-pdfs 📘 6-Week Healing Course → https://shopantd.com/collections/antd-courses 📖 Complete PDF Pack → https://shopantd.com/products/7-antd-complete-healing-pdf-bundle-pack-all-7-of-our-pdf-guides-for-recovery-restoratio 🎥 Amee Daily Live → https://www.tiktok.com/@antdsply 📸 Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/antdsply/ 🎧 Apple Podcasts → https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-antd 00:00 – Why healing daily matters 01:00 – Start your mornings with God 08:20 – Practicing gratitude every day 11:30 – Choosing responses over reactions 15:00 – Caring for your body & mind 18:00 – Ending the day with release & rest 20:30 – Final encouragement + resources

In this episode of The ANTD Podcast with Amee & D. Widders, we share the Infidelity Survival Guide — real strategies to heal after cheating, rebuild broken trust, and overcome the painful triggers that follow betrayal. Healing is not a straight line, and we talk about what to do when you’re caught in the ups and downs, why accountability from the unfaithful partner is non-negotiable, and how couples can reset arguments before they spiral out of control. We also discuss how prayer, transparency, and vulnerability can transform your marriage, turning moments of chaos into opportunities for connection. Whether you’re the betrayed partner or the one who was unfaithful, this conversation will give you hope, practical tools, and biblical wisdom for finding redemption. If you’ve ever wondered if your relationship can survive infidelity, this episode will show you that with consistency, accountability, and grace — healing is possible. 👇 RESOURCES MENTIONED 👇 🧠 1-on-1 Coaching → https://shopantd.com/collections/coaching 👕 This Month’s Merch Drop → https://shopantd.com/products/bet-on-the-blood-t-shirt 🗓️ 31 Day Devotional → https://shopantd.com/products/1-antd-healing-devotional-31-day-devotional-videos-pdfs 📘 6-Week Healing Course → https://shopantd.com/collections/antd-courses 📖 Complete PDF Pack → https://shopantd.com/products/7-antd-complete-healing-pdf-bundle-pack-all-7-of-our-pdf-guides-for-recovery-restoratio 🎥 Amee Daily Live → https://www.tiktok.com/@antdsply 📸 Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/antdsply/ 🎧 Apple Podcasts → https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-antd 🎧 Spotify → https://open.spotify.com/show/3uH9u5kTi7VcqN2x1zJ9xP Timestamps: 0:00 – Healing after infidelity isn’t a straight line 1:13 – Why setbacks and triggers don’t erase progress 2:31 – How the betrayer can respond in tough moments 4:23 – Using prayer as a reset in conflict 6:10 – Fighting as teammates, not enemies 7:14 – Eliminating trigger words and setting boundaries 10:11 – Building trust through vulnerability and honesty 13:30 – Accountability as the foundation of rebuilding trust 15:05 – Why transparency creates safety in marriage 16:30 – Can couples really make it after cheating? 18:08 – Healing old wounds and childhood pain together 20:03 – Becoming softer, not harder, after betrayal 22:25 – Understanding your partner’s past and trauma 23:04 – Marriage as a covenant worth fighting for 24:31 – Studying the Bible together to restore intimacy 25:10 – The power of prayer and Scripture in marriage 26:35 – Final encouragement: ups & downs mean healing

Healing after cheating isn’t easy—but there IS a proven path forward. In this episode of The ANTD Podcast, Amee and D. Widders break down the 7 Stages of Healing After Betrayal. Whether you’ve been cheated on or are trying to recover from infidelity, this roadmap will help you process the pain, find hope, and rebuild stronger than before. We share our own story of infidelity recovery, practical tools, and faith-based steps that helped us overcome betrayal. If you’ve ever wondered “How do I heal after being cheated on?”—this episode gives you answers, encouragement, and a step-by-step guide to move forward. 👇 RESOURCES MENTIONED 👇 🧠 1-on-1 Coaching → https://shopantd.com/collections/coaching 👕 This Month’s Merch Drop → https://shopantd.com/products/bet-on-the-blood-t-shirt 🗓️ 31 Day Devotional → https://shopantd.com/products/1-antd-healing-devotional-31-day-devotional-videos-pdfs 📘 6-Week Healing Course → https://shopantd.com/collections/antd-courses 📖 Complete PDF Pack → https://shopantd.com/products/7-antd-complete-healing-pdf-bundle-pack-all-7-of-our-pdf-guides-for-recovery-restoratio 🎥 Amee Daily Live → https://www.tiktok.com/@antdsply 📸 Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/antdsply/ 🎧 Apple Podcasts → https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-antd ⏱️ Time Stamps: 00:00 Intro 00:56 Stage 1: Shock & Discovery 07:32 Stage 2: Anger & Grief 11:34 Stage 3: Searching for Answers 16:01 Stage 4: Boundaries & Safety 17:43 Stage 5: Acceptance & Processing 19:03 Stage 6: Forgiveness 22:02 Stage 7: Rebuilding & Hope 25:25 Final Encouragement

Cheating isn’t just a “mistake” — in this episode of The ANTD Podcast with Amee & D. Widders, we unpack why cheating is demonic and how it opens the door to spiritual warfare. We dive deep into what the Bible says about infidelity, how the enemy plants seeds that destroy relationships, and the real-life spiritual experiences we’ve faced in our own marriage. Whether you’re married, engaged, or dating, this conversation will help you guard your heart, close spiritual doors, and break free from the chains of betrayal. We also share practical steps to repent, cut soul ties, and build a relationship rooted in purity and faith. If you’ve been hurt by cheating—or if you’ve made mistakes yourself—this episode will give you both biblical truth and hope for restoration. Watch until the end for prayers, scripture, and steps you can take today to protect your relationship and walk in God’s freedom. 👇 RESOURCES MENTIONED 👇 👕 This Month’s Merch Drop → https://shopantd.com/products/bet-on-the-blood-t-shirt 🗓️ 31 Day Video Devotional & PDF Journal → https://shopantd.com/products/1-antd-healing-devotional-31-day-devotional-videos-pdfs 📘 Healing After Betrayal: 6-Week Course → https://shopantd.com/collections/antd-courses 🧠 Book 1-on-1 Coaching with Amee & D → https://shopantd.com/collections/coaching 📖 The ANTD Complete PDF Pack – 7 Healing Guides → https://shopantd.com/products/7-antd-complete-healing-pdf-bundle-pack-all-7-of-our-pdf-guides-for-recovery-restoratio 🎥 Amee is Live Daily on TikTok → https://www.tiktok.com/@antdsply 📸 Follow Us on Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/antdsply/ 🎧 Listen on Apple Podcasts → https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-antd ⏱ TIMESTAMPS ⏱ 0:00 – Cheating is Demonic: Why This Matters 0:41 – Spiritual Warfare and Infidelity 2:12 – How the Enemy Uses Cheating to Destroy 8:00 – Real Spiritual Encounters in Our Marriage 15:08 – Seeds of Dissatisfaction and Temptation 19:18 – Biblical Examples of Adultery 23:47 – Why This Applies to Marriage AND Dating 25:16 – How to Close Spiritual Doors After Cheating 28:09 – Guarding Your Heart and Walking in Freedom

In Episode 66 of The ANTD Podcast with Amee & D. Widders, we answer a question we get asked all the time: How do you LOVE AGAIN after you’ve been CHEATED ON? We dive deep into the truth, tools, and faith it took for us to rebuild after repeated years of infidelity. If you’ve chosen to stay after betrayal, this episode gives you the hope and practical help to heal and love again. Learn how daily choices, emotional safety, and spiritual maturity create a foundation for love that lasts—even after deep betrayal. We break down the power of consistency, prayer, forgiveness, and grace when you're working to rebuild what was broken. If you’ve ever felt like giving up, this episode will remind you that redemption is real—and love is still possible. Stick around to the end where we will show you how to pray together and build a bod that cannot be broken! 👇 RESOURCES MENTIONED 👇 👕 This Month’s Merch Drop → https://shopantd.com/products/bet-on-the-blood-t-shirt 🗓️ 31 Day Video Devotional & PDF Journal → https://shopantd.com/products/1-antd-healing-devotional-31-day-devotional-videos-pdfs 📘 Healing After Betrayal: 6-Week Course → https://shopantd.com/collections/antd-courses 🧠 Book 1-on-1 Coaching with Amee & D → https://shopantd.com/collections/coaching 📖 The ANTD Complete PDF Pack – 7 Healing Guides → https://shopantd.com/products/7-antd-complete-healing-pdf-bundle-pack-all-7-of-our-pdf-guides-for-recovery-restoratio 🎥 Amee is Live Daily on TikTok → https://www.tiktok.com/@antdsply 📸 Follow Us on Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/antdsply/ 🎧 Listen on Apple Podcasts → https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-antd 00:00 - Why love after infidelity must be a choice, not a feeling 01:22 - Point 1: Love is a daily decision (1 Corinthians 13:7) 02:00 - Why feelings are temporary and actions matter 03:49 - Love is about giving, not receiving 05:13 - The risk of loving again after betrayal 06:26 - Daily tip: Do one deliberate act of kindness 07:20 - The struggle of the betrayed spouse vs. the remorseful cheater 09:07 - Men, responsibility, and why cheating is always a choice 10:20 - Why this podcast focuses so much on infidelity 11:09 - Point 2: Small consistent actions rebuild emotional safety 12:31 - Connection rituals that actually work (Gottman Institute data) 13:02 - Why the little things are the big things 13:56 - How the cheater should rebuild without being told 15:26 - Daily effort and non-negotiable habits 16:45 - Why men especially need hugs and affection 17:54 - Physical and spiritual unity in relationships 18:18 - Point 3: God’s model of love and daily mercies (Ephesians 5:1-2) 19:33 - Why prayer together matters (Family Life Study) 20:38 - Daily tip: Close your day in prayer together 21:21 - Why people fear prayer more than intimacy 22:17 - How to pray simply and specifically 23:00 - Final challenge: 3 action steps to try this week 23:26 - Closing prayer for couples healing from infidelity

Why do some people keep cheating, even after they’ve been caught, forgiven, and promised they’d change? In this episode, we break down the real reasons behind serial cheating—from trauma and emotional immaturity to the craving for validation and lack of boundaries. If you’ve been hurt again and again by repeated betrayal, you are not alone—and there is a path forward. Amee and D. get honest about their story, the patterns that repeat without healing, and how to break the cycle—for good. Whether you're the one who was betrayed or the one who wants to change, this episode offers insight, hope, and real steps for recovery. 👇 RESOURCES MENTIONED 👇 📘 Healing After Betrayal: 6-Week Course → https://shopantd.com/collections/antd-courses 🧠 Book 1-on-1 Coaching with Amee & D → https://shopantd.com/collections/coaching 📖 The ANTD Complete PDF Pack – 7 Healing Guides → https://shopantd.com/products/7-antd-complete-healing-pdf-bundle-pack-all-7-of-our-pdf-guides-for-recovery-restoratio 🎥 Amee is Live Daily on TikTok → https://www.tiktok.com/@antdsply 📸 Follow Us on Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/antdsply/ 🎧 Listen on Apple Podcasts → https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-antd 00:00 - Intro: It's Not Just a Mistake, It's a Pattern 00:45 - Why Serial Cheating Happens 01:16 - "Once a Cheater, Always a Cheater" – True or False? 02:00 - Trauma’s Role in Repeated Betrayal 03:01 - Excuses Serial Cheaters Use 04:24 - Why Some Stay… and Keep Cheating 05:10 - How Old Wounds Still Affect You Today 06:48 - Point #2: Cheating & Emotional Immaturity 07:37 - The Need for Real Healing, Not a Rebound 08:28 - Why Intimacy Isn’t the Same as Sex 09:37 - Early Childhood Wounds and Adult Patterns 11:09 - From Immaturity to Growth: The Long Road 12:17 - What Would You Still Do if Everyone Knew? 13:05 - Taking Forgiveness for Granted 13:26 - Marriage = Mutual Service, Not Just Love 14:14 - You Can Be the One to Break the Pattern 14:36 - Point #3: Serial Cheaters Crave Validation 15:23 - What Really Causes the Disconnect? 16:14 - Can a Validation-Addict Change? 16:42 - Childhood Abandonment & The Need to Be Seen 17:22 - The Ripple Effect of Betrayal 18:02 - The Role of Obedience and Spiritual Growth 19:07 - Planting Seeds That Lead to Healing 20:16 - Boundaries Aren’t Control—They’re Safety 21:39 - The Open-Door Policy That Invites Affairs 22:22 - Everything Starts with a Thought 22:39 - Personal Reflection: D Was a Serial Cheater 23:06 - Addictive Patterns and the Need for Risk 23:34 - If You're Struggling, Here's How We Can Help

Emotional cheating is one of the most overlooked yet devastating betrayals in a relationship. In this episode of The ANTD Podcast, Amee and D. unpack what emotional affairs really are, how they start, and why they hurt just as much—if not more—than physical cheating. We share signs to watch for, boundaries to protect your marriage, and how to heal if you’ve been hurt by secret texts, work spouses, or online flirtation. We also dive deep into biblical truth, identity in Christ, and how to rebuild trust when it’s been shattered. Whether you're the betrayed or the betrayer, this conversation will bring insight, conviction, and hope. Share this with someone who needs it. 👇 RESOURCES MENTIONED 👇 📘 Healing After Betrayal: 6-Week Course → https://shopantd.com/collections/antd-courses 🧠 Book 1-on-1 Coaching with Amee & D → https://shopantd.com/collections/coaching 📖 The ANTD Complete PDF Pack – 7 Healing Guides → https://shopantd.com/products/7-antd-complete-healing-pdf-bundle-pack-all-7-of-our-pdf-guides-for-recovery-restoratio 🎥 Amee is Live Daily on TikTok → https://www.tiktok.com/@antdsply 📸 Follow Us on Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/antdsply/ 🎧 Listen on Apple Podcasts → https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-antd ⏱ TIMESTAMPS 00:00 – Intro: What is emotional cheating? 00:43 – Emotional vs. physical affairs 01:33 – Real-life examples of emotional betrayal 03:05 – Why hiding it proves it’s cheating 05:06 – Boundaries matter 06:42 – The emotional cost of online relationships 09:12 – Lust, temptation & self-control 12:04 – Signs you're emotionally cheating 14:20 – Why it’s still betrayal 16:14 – Trusting God after being betrayed 18:25 – Rebuilding identity after infidelity 20:23 – Why cheaters manipulate 22:15 – Vengeance vs. healing 23:38 – How to heal & prevent emotional affairs 25:30 – Boundaries when they’re not fully honest 26:50 – Final encouragement

In this raw and powerful episode of The ANTD Podcast, Amee and D open up about the real meaning of forgiveness—what it is, what it’s not, and how to actually walk it out after betrayal. Whether you're trying to rebuild trust or choose healing for yourself, this conversation dives deep into how forgiveness sets you free without minimizing the pain. D shares what it was like to be forgiven, and Amee brings the wisdom of someone who had every reason to walk away—but chose obedience and healing instead. Together, they explore biblical truth, personal transformation, and the reminder that forgiveness is a decision, not a feeling. If you’ve been cheated on, hurt by someone you loved, or just stuck in bitterness, this episode is for you. They cover how forgiveness doesn't mean reconciliation, why it's not about excusing what happened, and how choosing to forgive can literally improve your health and bring peace. Tap into God's strength, get real encouragement, and take the next step in your healing journey. Subscribe for more real conversations, and don’t forget to check out the six-week course, 1-on-1 coaching, and healing PDF guides below. You don’t have to carry that weight any longer—let God handle it. 👇 RESOURCES MENTIONED 👇 📘 Healing After Betrayal: 6-Week Course → https://shopantd.com/collections/antd-courses 🧠 Book 1-on-1 Coaching with Amee & D → https://shopantd.com/collections/coaching 📖 The ANTD Complete PDF Pack – 7 Healing Guides → https://shopantd.com/products/7-antd-complete-healing-pdf-bundle-pack-all-7-of-our-pdf-guides-for-recovery-restoratio 🎥 Amee is Live Daily on TikTok → https://www.tiktok.com/@antdsply 📸 Follow Us on Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/antdsply/ 🎧 Listen on Apple Podcasts → https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-antd ⏱ TIMESTAMPS 00:00 - Forgiveness Doesn’t Mean They Were Right 00:59 - Forgiveness is a Decision, Not a Feeling 02:18 - Letting Go of Anger and Bitterness 04:07 - When Forgiveness Becomes a Spiritual Breakthrough 05:40 - Forgiveness for You, Not for Them 07:09 - The Greek Meaning of Forgiveness 08:15 - You Can’t Bring Baggage into the Next Season 10:38 - Taking Your Power Back 11:06 - Forgiveness vs. Reconciliation 13:42 - How Unforgiveness Affects Your Health 15:00 - Why You Shouldn’t Wait Until You’re Dying 17:08 - Personal Stories of Forgiving Deep Hurt 20:03 - Forgiveness is a Process, Not a One-Time Thing 22:36 - What Radical Transformation Looks Like 24:11 - How God Uses Forgiveness to Heal 27:06 - No Bags Allowed 30:00 - Final Thoughts & Letting Go

They cheated... now they won’t talk. 😔 If you're trying to rebuild trust after infidelity but feel like you're pulling teeth to get honesty from your man, this episode is for you. Amee and D. open up about their real-life journey through betrayal, what helped them finally have breakthrough conversations, and how YOU can create a safe space for truth — without losing your mind or begging for answers. You'll learn: ✅ How to create emotional safety without enabling ✅ Why trickle-truth delays healing ✅ What to say (and what NOT to say) to get him to open up ✅ How to handle the truth once it finally comes out Whether you're still in shock, trying to decide if you should stay, or desperate for closure — this episode gives you clarity and hope. 👇 RESOURCES MENTIONED 👇 📘 Healing After Betrayal: 6-Week Course → https://shopantd.com/collections/antd-courses 🧠 Book 1-on-1 Coaching with Amee & D → https://shopantd.com/collections/coaching 🎁 Use code “41” for D's birthday discount on all coaching calls! 🛍 Get the limited edition “Seinfield” Shirt → https://shopantd.com/collections/antd-coffee-mugs 📖 The ANTD Complete PDF Pack – All 7 Healing Guides → https://shopantd.com/products/7-antd-complete-healing-pdf-bundle-pack-all-7-of-our-pdf-guides-for-recovery-restoratio 🎥 Amee is Live Daily on TikTok → https://www.tiktok.com/@antdsply 📸 Follow Us on Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/antdsply/ 🎧 Listen on Apple → https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-antd-podcast/id1759101149 🎧 Listen on Spotify → https://open.spotify.com/show/2G2NNCz9zXj82hv5ffrud8?si=NKfranEURb6XXF-IqrAJlA ⏱ TIMESTAMPS: 00:00 – The truth won’t come out unless he feels safe 00:45 – Why pressure shuts him down (and what works instead) 01:10 – 63% of cheaters don’t tell the truth because of fear 02:00 – When you want to explode but need a real conversation 04:40 – Scripture and wisdom that shifted everything 05:50 – Why you must be calm to get clarity 07:00 – How long healing really takes (and why) 10:15 – The damage of trickle-truth 12:00 – When full disclosure leads to real healing 14:00 – Why honesty is better than imagination 16:40 – How we stay healed — boundaries, calls, coaching 18:00 – Our encouragement to anyone still hurting

Cheating doesn’t start with the act — it starts with a lie. In this episode, Amee and D. expose the 10 excuses cheaters use to justify betrayal, break down the truth behind each one, and share their raw journey of healing, forgiveness, and redemption after infidelity. Whether you’ve been cheated on or you’re trying to understand why people cheat, this episode will give you clarity, hope, and the steps to heal. 👇 RESOURCES MENTIONED 👇 📘 Healing After Betrayal: 6-Week Course → https://shopantd.com/collections/antd-courses 🧠 Book 1-on-1 Coaching with Amee & D → https://shopantd.com/collections/coaching 🎁 Use code “41” for D's birthday discount on all coaching calls! 🛍 Get the limited edition “Seinfield” Shirt → https://shopantd.com/collections/antd-coffee-mugs 📖 The ANTD Complete PDF Pack – All 7 Healing Guides → https://shopantd.com/products/7-antd-complete-healing-pdf-bundle-pack-all-7-of-our-pdf-guides-for-recovery-restoratio 🎥 Amee is Live Daily on TikTok for Support and Q&A https://www.tiktok.com/@antdsply 📸 Follow Us on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/antdsply/ 🎧 Listen on Apple Apple → https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-antd-podcast/id1759101149 ⏱️ TIMESTAMPS 00:00 – Intro: “Cheating Starts With a Lie” 00:52 – The First Excuse: “I wasn’t getting what I needed at home” 04:20 – “This is just what men do” 07:15 – The lie of “It just happened” 09:55 – “I didn’t mean to hurt you” 14:50 – Sex addiction, porn, and spiritual warfare 17:30 – “I was going through a lot emotionally” 20:10 – “I didn’t think I’d get caught” 22:45 – Jezebel spirit and public backlash 25:50 – “They tempted me” 27:00 – “I didn’t feel loved or appreciated” 29:45 – “We were on a break” 31:20 – D’s confession during Amee’s pregnancy 33:55 – “I thought it was already over” 36:10 – What cheating really costs your soul 38:00 – Redemption, restoration, and how God used the pain 44:00 – Closing encouragement + how to heal with God

🧠 Infidelity shattered your confidence? You're not alone. In Episode 60 of The ANTD Podcast, Amee and D. Widders open up about what really happens to your identity after cheating—why it triggers obsessive comparison, self-hate, and deep insecurity—and how you can start healing. If you’re asking “How do I trust again?” or “Why do I feel like I’m not enough?” — this episode gives you real answers. We walk through: ✨ Rebuilding your identity in Christ ✨ Creating safety and connection after betrayal ✨ Real strategies for stopping insecurity spirals ✨ Boundaries, affirmations, and trigger protocols ✨ How the betrayer can support healing with patience, consistency, and love Whether you’re the one who was cheated on or the one trying to repair the damage, this episode brings hope, help, and a path forward. 👇 RESOURCES MENTIONED 👇 📘 Healing After Betrayal: 6-Week Course → https://shopantd.com/collections/antd-courses 🧠 Book 1-on-1 Coaching with Amee & D → https://shopantd.com/collections/coaching 🎁 Use code “41” for a birthday discount on all coaching calls! 🛍 Get the limited edition “Seinfield” Shirt → https://shopantd.com/collections/antd-coffee-mugs 📖 The ANTD Complete PDF Pack – All 7 Healing Guides → https://shopantd.com/products/7-antd-complete-healing-pdf-bundle-pack-all-7-of-our-pdf-guides-for-recovery-restoratio 🎥 Amee is Live Daily on TikTok for Support and Q&A https://www.tiktok.com/@antdsply 📸 Follow Us on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/antdsply/ 🎧 Listen on Apple Apple → https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-antd-podcast/id1759101149 📖 “You are fearfully and wonderfully made.” (Psalm 139:14) Infidelity may have broken your heart, but it doesn’t get to break your future. This episode helps you rebuild both. ⏰ TIMESTAMPS: 00:00 – Identity Theft After Infidelity 02:00 – When Insecurity Takes Over 04:30 – Affirmations That Actually Work 07:10 – How Hormones & Triggers Intersect 10:00 – Boundaries & Safe Conversations 13:30 – Why “Checking Out” Is a Trigger 16:00 – Grounding Tools for Triggers 20:00 – The Power of Solo Dates & Worship 23:00 – Supporting Each Other Through Healing 27:00 – Physical Intimacy After Betrayal 28:00 – Courses, Coaching & New Merch 29:00 – Final Words: You Are Not Less Than 🔔 Subscribe for more honest, faith-filled conversations on infidelity, identity, and healing. ❤️‍🩹 You’re not broken. You’re rebuilding.