He Said, She Said

This week we’re recording on the eve of our long-awaited trip - and let’s just Louise and Ryan approach holidays VERY differently...We chat honestly about how travelling as parents hits differently, the mental load of planning, and why even a dream getaway can come with nightmares (literally).Louise opens up about adjusting to life with a stoma bag and how it’s impacted confidence around things like swimwear and holidays, while Ryan shares what it’s been like supporting from the sidelines. We also finally dive into love languages and how those differences can affect us. Add in our  Type A vs Type B approach and… yes, there are clashes. One thing we do agree on - the online storm surrounding the Bonnie Blue viral pregnancy story and what it says about the world our children are growing up. We also share where our heads are at when it comes to future family planning and the difficult decisions that come with it during uncertain times.🗓 New episodes every Wednesday📩 We’ve got a NEW email!Want to get involved? Email HSSS@srproductions.co.uk or slide straight into our DMs @hesaid.shesaid.podcast.We want it all. Your dilemmas, questions, voice notes, stories and opinions. If it’s pod-related, we’re listening.🩵 Follow us everywhere Instagram | TikTok | Youtube @hesaid.shesaid.podcastAnd of course… don’t forget to subscribe, follow, rate and review. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week on He Said, She Said, we’re chatting all about sleep habits, mums, and welcoming a very special (and very small) guest to the podcast…We kick things off with a catch-up on our trip to Scotland and what travelling with a four-year-old is really like.Then we dive into a surprisingly heated debate about sleep… which leads to talking about our own sleeping habits, snoring accusations, and whether couples should ever share a bed in the first place.With Mother’s Day around the corner, we spend some time reflecting on mums - from embarrassing childhood moments and the things we definitely took for granted, to the moment you realise your mum is just… a person. And finally… please welcome our youngest guest ever. Leo joins the pod to give his honest review of what mummy is really like at home and we put mum vs dad to the test in a game to see who actually knows Leo best.Spoiler: the answers are not what we expected.🗓 New episodes every Wednesday📩 We’ve got a NEW email!Want to get involved? Email HSSS@srproductions.co.uk or slide straight into our DMs @hesaid.shesaid.podcast.We want it all. Your dilemmas, questions, voice notes, stories and opinions. If it’s pod-related, we’re listening.🩵 Follow us everywhere Instagram | TikTok | Youtube @hesaid.shesaid.podcastAnd of course… don’t forget to subscribe, follow, rate and review. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Louise’s dad, Mike Thompson, joins us as our very first guest!From what Louise was really like growing up, to sibling rivalries with Sam, suspensions and a very disciplined upbringing, Mike gives us a glimpse into what life was like in the Thompson household. We also discuss why he carries quail’s eggs, how becoming a grandfather has softened him, and his advice for Louise and Ryan as they try for their second child.But the moment everyone will be waiting for: Mike has never watched Made in Chelsea. So we show him the iconic bridge scene with Louise and Spencer Matthews. His reaction is not what we were expecting…We also put him to the test with Love Island, Gen Z slang, BuzzBallz, and finally the ultimate question from listeners: who is his favourite child, Sam or Louise?--(00:00) Big Mike Enters the Studio(02:25) The Infamous Wallet and Quail’s Eggs(05:01) Mike’s Old School Discipline(10:20) Cleanliness Quirks and Daily Routines(17:31) Why Did Louise Punch Her Dad Up the Eiffel Tower?!(22:13) Mike Has Never Watched Made in Chelsea(32:30) Mike’s Reaction to THAT Made in Chelsea Bridge Scene(35:45) Is It OK for Men to Show Emotion?(38:30) Mike’s Rant on Love Island(39:06) Mike Tries to Decipher Gen Z Slang(44:09) Mike Tries a Buzz Ball for the First Time(47:26) Mike’s Best Life Advice(49:10) Who Is the Favourite Child: Sam or Louise?(50:00) Mike’s Advice for Louise and Ryan as They Grow Their Family(54:05) Mike’s Final Words… “What’s He Said, She Said”--🗓 New episodes every Wednesday📩 We’ve got a NEW email!Want to get involved? Email HSSS@srproductions.co.uk or slide straight into our DMs @hesaid.shesaid.podcast.We want it all. Your dilemmas, questions, voice notes, stories and opinions. If it’s pod-related, we’re listening.🩵 Follow us everywhere Instagram | TikTok | Youtube @hesaid.shesaid.podcastAnd of course… don’t forget to subscribe, follow, rate and review. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Sam is out of surgery and Louise goes to pick him up, expecting it to be funny. However, seeing him on vocal rest, with the roles reversed, feels very different to what she imagined.We get into the unexpectedly sweet and slightly strange things we love about each other. Louise admits she likes Ryan’s BO, and Ryan shares a small habit of Louise’s she’d rather keep private. Then come the letters. A whole bag from Louise’s past. She reads from her diary at 18, written just before her first breakup, including “tips” she gave herself nearly twenty years ago. Do they still ring true?We finish with Ryan. Why he’s taking on another Ironman, what’s behind it, and the reaction to Montana’s recent comments about parents going away, which opens up a bigger conversation about whether you’re allowed to choose yourself once you’re a parent.--[00:00] Coming up on this episode[00:30] Sam Thompson's surgery and recovery[05:08] How Louise felt seeing Sam in hospital[11:01] What is cuffing season?[22:13] Should you talk about exes with your partner?[27:30] Louise reads her old diary from eighteen[34:04] How do girls process emotions compared to boys?[38:15] Why Ryan is undertaking another Ironman?[43:58] Our thoughts on Montana Brown critiquing absent celebrity dads[46:08] Next week…Louise's dad joins the podcast!--🗓 New episodes every Wednesday📩 We’ve got a NEW email!Want to get involved? Email HSSS@srproductions.co.uk or slide straight into our DMs @hesaid.shesaid.podcast.We want it all. Your dilemmas, questions, voice notes, stories and opinions. If it’s pod-related, we’re listening.🩵 Follow us everywhere Instagram | TikTok | Youtube @hesaid.shesaid.podcastAnd of course… don’t forget to subscribe, follow, rate and review. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Louise has a foot fetish fan club?! Apparently so. It also reminded her of the time Lily Allen tweeted about her back when she was on Made in Chelsea… and let’s just say Louise was not pleased.Then we turn to Molly-Mae, reflecting on her announcement of her second baby. We share our thoughts on navigating pregnancy and public life, and the difference in how Ryan and Louise experience sharing personal news in the spotlight. Louise opens up about how emotionally challenging it was to come to terms with her changing body, shifting identity within the world of social media. We also address the adoption comments we’ve received, explaining why it’s not the path we’ve chosen right now and why that feels right for us.And we end our conversation discussing declining birth rates and why blaming women…looking at you, Steven Bartlett…isn’t helping. Louise shares how her work is actively challenging outdated ideas, and Ryan reflects on why it’s so important for future generations.--(00:00) Coming up on this episode…(00:30) Louise’s secret foot fan club exposed(02:45) Why did Lily Allen tweet about Louise?!(04:30) Why Louise is mortified by her dad(09:35) The fear of becoming embarrassing parents to Leo(10:40) What gives Louise the ick about Ryan…(16:30) Louise’s oral hygiene ick(18:22) Our honest thoughts on Molly-Mae’s pregnancy(26:30) Why Louise struggled with how she looked while pregnant(29:45) Navigating pregnancy in the spotlight(32:30) Why we’ve chosen not to adopt right now(36:59) Our reaction to Steven Bartlett’s birth rate conversation(43:46) Andrew Tate and the misogyny debate(45:30) Louise’s maternity commissioner petition(51:45) Why Ryan is so proud of the impact Louise is making(52:20) Final thoughts--🗓 New episodes every Wednesday📩 We’ve got a NEW email!Want to get involved? Email HSSS@srproductions.co.uk or slide straight into our DMs @hesaid.shesaid.podcast.We want it all. Your dilemmas, questions, voice notes, stories and opinions. If it’s pod-related, we’re listening.🩵 Follow us everywhere Instagram | TikTok | Youtube @hesaid.shesaid.podcastAnd of course… don’t forget to subscribe, follow, rate and review. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Louise and Ryan are going on their first date. Well, not technically their first ever, but one ten years after their first. Dressed up and ready to impress, they’re pretending it’s day one all over again.Over starters, they rewind to their actual first impressions and that very unexpected first date. They talk about what they love most about each other, what men really look for in a woman, and whether they’d swipe right on each other if dating apps had been a thing back then.As the mains arrive, things get a little deeper. Valentine’s Day comes up, along with the pressure that can sit around it and how romance looks different when you’re parents. They talk honestly about making time for each other, whether that means scheduling it in or keeping things spontaneous, and how ten years later they’re still figuring out how to keep things exciting.By dessert, there are gifts, a little unexpected ex chat including a Made in Chelsea Valentine’s breakup reveal, and a very sweet surprise from Leo for Mummy that brings it all back to what really matters.--(00:00) We’re Going on a First Date With Each Other! (01:17) What we think of each other’s First Date Outfits(03:27) Our Brutally Honest First Impressions of each other (05:06) What Men Really Look for in a Woman(14:06) We Create Hypothetical Dating Profiles(20:00) The Pressure and Expectations Around Valentine’s Day(21:12) The Origin Story of Valentine’s Day(24:30) Louise’s Dream Valentine’s This Year(28:50) The Valentine’s Break Up from Made in Chelsea…(29:07) What No One Tells You About Life After Having Kids(43:32) The Wuthering Heights Drama between Jacob Elordi and Margot Robbie (46:34) Our Valentine’s Gift Exchange(52:42) Leo’s Valentine’s Surprise for Louise(54:50) The end of our date…🗓 New episodes every Wednesday📩 We’ve got a NEW email!Want to get involved? Email HSSS@srproductions.co.uk or slide straight into our DMs @hesaid.shesaid.podcast.We want it all. Your dilemmas, questions, voice notes, stories and opinions. If it’s pod-related, we’re listening.🩵 Follow us everywhere Instagram | TikTok | Youtube @hesaid.shesaid.podcastAnd of course… don’t forget to subscribe, follow, rate and review. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Ryan and Louise kick things off with a new favourite word of the week, a very creative term for “down there”, which quickly sparks a conversation about crossing swords, body hair, and Ryan being put to the test on whether he actually knows the difference between a pad and a tampon.Things then take a more personal turn as Ryan opens up, for the first time, about a journey he’s quietly been on over the last few months. He speaks honestly about his decision to have a hair transplant, how it’s made him feel, and why talking about it openly matters to him, especially if it helps open up more honest conversations around confidence and self-image for men.We also share where we are on our surrogacy journey, opening up about what the process has really looked like behind the scenes. Louise speaks candidly about why she can’t carry her own baby, and we talk about our next steps in navigating this journey together. 🗓 New episodes every Wednesday📩 We’ve got a NEW email!Want to get involved? Email HSSS@srproductions.co.uk or slide straight into our DMs @hesaid.shesaid.podcast.We want it all. Your dilemmas, questions, voice notes, stories and opinions. If it’s pod-related, we’re listening.🩵 Follow us everywhere Instagram | TikTok | Youtube @hesaid.shesaid.podcastAnd of course… don’t forget to subscribe, follow, rate and review.--(00:00) Intro to the episode (00:56) Leo’s new favourite word of the week(02:06) What does “crossing swords” mean?! (05:33) Can Ryan explain the difference between tampon and a pad?! (15:33) Ryan opens up about his hair transplant decision(22:13) Breaking down the stigma around men’s cosmetic procedures(33:24) Talking through our IVF process(43:16) Understanding why Louise can't carry a baby(50:25) Exploring our surrogacy options(56:36) Ryan’s perspective on surrogacy(58:56) The Japanese philosophy of Misogi Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

We’re back with He Said, She Said! After a little pause, Ryan and Louise are opening up for the first time publicly about their fertility journey and the path they’re about to take together through surrogacy. They share the why, the how, and what this next chapter really means for them.We also hear what it’s like now that Louise’s younger brother Sam is her boss, the unlikely (and hilarious) bond between Leo and Pete, and Ryan even shares his theory that Louise might secretly fancy Pete... Plus, we get a revealing glimpse of what Louise’s dad is actually like and uncover a shocking phrase Ryan and Louise are hoping Leo doesn’t start repeating at nursery!This is a vulnerable, funny, and unfiltered conversation, full of laughter and moments that truly reflect what real life is like as parents, as a couple, and as individuals figuring it out together.🗓 New episodes every Wednesday📩 We’ve got a NEW email!Want to get involved? Email HSSS@srproductions.co.uk or slide straight into our DMs @hesaid.shesaid.podcast.We want it all. Your dilemmas, questions, voice notes, stories and opinions. If it’s pod-related, we’re listening.🩵 Follow us everywhere Instagram | TikTok | Youtube @hesaid.shesaid.podcastAnd of course… don’t forget to subscribe, follow, rate and review.--(00:00) Introduction and new studio(01:17) Our thoughts on Sam and Pete as our neighbours(06:24) Does Louise fancy Pete?!(10:15) Leo and Pete are now best friends(15:10) Will Pete become Leo's godfather?(19:00) Why we took a break from the podcast?(22:13) The importance of communication in relationships (25:38) Our fertility journey and surrogacy decision…(34:57) Leo’s hospital emergency (44:16) Human connection vs AI technology (53:00) The power of physical writing (59:15) Our time capsule letters to each other…(01:01:35) Our goal as Parents to Leo Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

WE’RE BACK! After a little pause, He Said, She Said is officially back. New home. New chapter. And we genuinely cannot wait to take you on this new journey we’re finally ready to share with the world.It’s the same podcast you love, as we talk through the highs and lows of parenting, our relationship, and life as individuals. But this time, there’s a brand new chapter unfolding and we’re bringing you along every step of the way….Launching TOMORROW, Wednesday 28th January! 🗓 New episodes every Wednesday📩 We’ve got a NEW email!Want to get involved? Email HSSS@srproductions.co.uk or slide straight into our DMs @hesaid.shesaid.podcast.We want it all. Your dilemmas, questions, voice notes, stories and opinions. If it’s pod-related, we’re listening.🩵 Follow us everywhereInstagram | TikTok | Youtube | @hesaid.shesaid.podcastAnd of course… don’t forget to subscribe, follow, rate and review. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Louise and Ryan are back with a BIG announcement this week…In the final episode of He Said, She Said (for now!) Louise and Ryan discuss why they’ve decided to take a break, share their favourite conversations they’ve had on the podcast and reveal what’s next for them in their lives.Plus, the pair unpack what the podcast has taught them about themselves and each other, and unveil their plans for the next iteration of the podcast…Follow @hesaid.shesaid.podcast, @louise.thompson and @ryan.libbeyCREDITS:Artwork by @brittyflynn Production by Astrid Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Louise and Ryan are back and there is a LOT to discuss…In this episode, Ryan’s gone viral! He’s been interacting with stars such as Khloé Kardashian and tells us all about how he’s found his recent fame. Plus, Louise shares what she learnt at her mole-mapping appointment, Ryan gives his thoughts on the recent killing of Charlie Kirk, and the pair discuss whether they would ever move abroad…Check out Ryan’s ‘Letters to Leo’ here.Send your voice memos or stories to hesaidshesaid@astridpodcasts.co.uk for Louise and Ryan to address your dilemma on the show.Follow @hesaid.shesaid.podcast, @louise.thompson and @ryan.libbeyCREDITS:Artwork by @brittyflynn Production by Astrid Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

It’s Monday, so you know what that means…it’s time for another Ask Us Anything episode!This week, Louise and Ryan discuss their big dreams outside of parenthood and take a peek into the most savage DMs they’ve ever received…Plus, Ryan shares what he’d love to discuss if he were to give a Ted Talk and the pair reveal the top questions they wish people would stop asking them.Submit your questions for our next AUA here and don’t forget to come back on Wednesday for our full length episodes.If you’ve got a dilemma, email us at hesaidshesaid@astridpodcasts.co.uk for Louise and Ryan to help you on the show.Follow @hesaid.shesaid.podcast, @louise.thompson and @ryan.libbeyCREDITS:Artwork by @brittyflynn Production by Astrid Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Louise and Ryan are back for another jam-packed episode!This week, Louise and Ryan talk about their experiences of boarding school, debate whether millennials work harder than Gen Z and Louise reveals how a viral TikTok of her dad has led to a private dinner with Rick Stein…Plus, Ryan gives us an insight into his skincare routine and the pair discuss their extravagant plans for Leo’s fourth birthday.Send your voice memos or stories to hesaidshesaid@astridpodcasts.co.uk for Louise and Ryan to address your dilemma on the show.Follow @hesaid.shesaid.podcast, @louise.thompson and @ryan.libbeyCREDITS:Artwork by @brittyflynn Production by Astrid Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Happy Monday! Grab a cuppa and settle down for another fun-filled Ask Us Anything episode.This week, Louise and Ryan dive into the essentials they’d take to a desert island and debunk some of the biggest assumptions people make about them…Plus, Ryan tells us about his recent trip to McLaren HQ, Louise reveals the one album she could listen to for the rest of her life and together they chat about how they hope to be remembered 10 years from now.Submit your questions for our next AUA here and don’t forget to come back on Wednesday for our full length episodes.If you’ve got a dilemma, email us at hesaidshesaid@astridpodcasts.co.uk for Louise and Ryan to help you on the show.Follow @hesaid.shesaid.podcast, @louise.thompson and @ryan.libbeyCREDITS:Artwork by @brittyflynn Production by Astrid Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Louise and Ryan have had their fair share of medical appointments recently, which have proved difficult for the very squeamish Ryan…In this episode, Ryan’s off to the National Television Awards! He takes us behind the scenes of suit fittings and red carpet plans, and reveals why Louise isn’t joining him. Plus, Louise tells us all about her eventful smear test appointment, Ryan discusses his recent fertility tests and the pair answer a listener submission: She Said “I need help finding my Ryan!”.Send your voice memos or stories to hesaidshesaid@astridpodcasts.co.uk for Louise and Ryan to address your dilemma on the show.Follow @hesaid.shesaid.podcast, @louise.thompson and @ryan.libbeyCREDITS:Artwork by @brittyflynn Production by Astrid Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Louise and Ryan are back for another Ask Us Anything episode, and it’s a juicy one this week!In this episode, Louise and Ryan write their own Real Housewives taglines, discuss who would play them in a rom-com about their lives and reveal the wild irrational fears they had as children…Plus, Ryan tells the story of a dramatic telling-off at school and Louise shares that she’s…joining a cult?Submit your questions for our next AUA here and don’t forget to come back on Wednesday for our full length episodes.If you’ve got a dilemma, email us at hesaidshesaid@astridpodcasts.co.uk for Louise and Ryan to help you on the show.Follow @hesaid.shesaid.podcast, @louise.thompson and @ryan.libbeyCREDITS:Artwork by @brittyflynn Production by Astrid Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Trigger warning: this episode contains reference to eating disorders and weight-loss. If this affects you, please know there is support available.It’s been an eventful week for Louise and Ryan!!In this episode, Ryan reveals that Louise’s flat has been broken into by less-than-trustworthy Airbnb guests, Louise shares her thoughts on Bonnie Blue and the pair discuss what Notting Hill Carnival is actually like…Plus, Ryan shares his thoughts on watching the news and Louise considers the long-term effect of weight-loss drugs on future generations.Design your own Diet Coke can, just scan the QR code on the can and you can make it completely your own! >>Send your voice memos or stories to hesaidshesaid@astridpodcasts.co.uk for Louise and Ryan to address your dilemma on the show.Follow @hesaid.shesaid.podcast, @louise.thompson and @ryan.libbeyCREDITS:Artwork by @brittyflynn Production by Astrid Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

We’ve officially reached Autumn, so it’s the perfect time to curl up and get cozy with another Ask Us Anything episode!This week, Louise and Ryan share what they’d do if they could be totally anonymous for 24 hours, discuss what lessons they hope Leo learns from them and reveal whether they’ll ever let Leo watch Made in Chelsea…Plus, Ryan shares what Disney villain he’d like to be and the pair give some advice to a parent who can’t quite immerse himself into imaginary play.Submit your questions for our next AUA here and don’t forget to come back on Wednesday for our full length episodes.If you’ve got a dilemma, email us at hesaidshesaid@astridpodcasts.co.uk for Louise and Ryan to help you on the show.Follow @hesaid.shesaid.podcast, @louise.thompson and @ryan.libbeyCREDITS:Artwork by @brittyflynn Production by Astrid Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Louise and Ryan are back from their trip to Marbella…and let’s just say the holiday didn’t quite go to plan.In this episode, Louise and Ryan discuss how they navigate family holidays as adults, Louise questions whether Ryan really thinks he’s handsome, and the couple unpack how an argument between Sam and Louise ended up costing Ryan £800…Plus, Ryan debates where it’s too early to start thinking about Christmas and Louise answers a listener's submission: She Said “I’m scared of losing my identity in motherhood”.Design your own Diet Coke can, just scan the QR code on the can and you can make it completely your own!Send your voice memos or stories to hesaidshesaid@astridpodcasts.co.uk for Louise and Ryan to address your dilemma on the show.Follow @hesaid.shesaid.podcast, @louise.thompson and @ryan.libbeyCREDITS:Artwork by @brittyflynn Production by Astrid Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Louise and Ryan are back for another round of Ask Us Anything - let’s go!In this episode, Louise and Ryan debate whether flirting counts as cheating, if it’s actually a red flag for a guy to have a girl best friend and share their embarrassing teenage crushes…Plus, Ryan reveals the wild thing he did as a teenager that he’s never told his parents about - until now!Submit your questions for our next AUA here and don’t forget to come back on Wednesday for our full length episodes.If you’ve got a dilemma, email us at hesaidshesaid@astridpodcasts.co.uk for Louise and Ryan to help you on the show.Follow @hesaid.shesaid.podcast, @louise.thompson and @ryan.libbeyCREDITS:Artwork by @brittyflynn Production by Astrid Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.