Now That I'm Engaged, How Do I Get Married

In this episode of Now That I’m Engaged, How Do I Get Married?, Kevin and August sit down with Jenny MacFarlane, owner of Eloping is Fun in New York City. With 15 years of experience crafting elopements and micro-weddings, Jenny has helped over a thousand couples throw out the rulebook and design days that feel authentically them—from private vows and first-look moments to donut-shop ceremonies and Dance Dance Revolution detours.Drawing on real client stories and NYC know-how, Jenny breaks down why “breaking tradition” isn’t anti-tradition—it’s pro-you. She shares how to reframe pressure, communicate with loved ones, and swap performative “shoulds” for meaningful choices. You’ll learn simple ways to personalize your ceremony, what to do when the guest list feels complicated, and why some couples elope now and party later for a calmer, more joyful experience.Highlights:Start with how you want the day to feel, then let that guide every choice.“Tradition” vs. meaning: keep what resonates, toss what doesn’t.Guest-list freedom: micro-weddings and elopements can preserve intimacy without losing celebration.Eloping now, party later: reducing perfection pressure by separating the marriage from the reception.Real-world inspiration: a shelter-dog walk in wedding attire, a DDR arcade morning, and a cozy donut-shop ceremony.NYC backdrops with personality: DUMBO’s bridges, the New York Public Library, Grand Central, and Coney Island.Stress you won’t miss: RSVP drama, seating charts, and expectation overload.No matter what kind of celebration you’re planning, Jenny’s presence-first, permission-forward approach will help you design a day that’s 100% you—so you can skip the pressure, savor the moments, and start married life on your terms.Madison Humphrey Venue VideoConnect with Jenny: Website Instagram TikTokConnect with Kevin and August: WebsiteInstagramYoutubeTikTokPinterestLinkedIn

In this special “Taylor-era” episode of Now That I’m Engaged, How Do I Get Married?, Kevin sits down with co-host August Yocher, Susan Stremlau, Owner and Creative Director of Marion Moss Floral Design & Farm, and Ariana Teachey, Founder of Ariana Teachey | Virtual Assistant, to talk all things Taylor Swift and Travis Kelce.From engagement-day reactions to predictions about the date, aesthetic, and overall vibe of the wedding, this Swiftie roundtable dives deep into what could become the most talked-about event of the decade and how it will influence real-world wedding trends.Susan brings over four decades of floral design experience and a love for lush, romantic, nature-inspired arrangements, while Ariana offers a behind-the-scenes perspective on wedding pros, organization, and creative storytelling. Together, they join Kevin and August to explore everything from potential guest experiences and hidden Easter eggs to the cultural impact of this “royal couple” moment.HighlightsWhere they were when the engagement news broke The date debate: fall timeline vs. football season realityNumerology, symbolism, and Swift’s signature attention to meaningAesthetic predictions: timeless vintage, secret garden romance, and Renaissance flairWhy this engagement is huge for the wedding industry and how it may shift trends for yearsThe balance of fame and privacy: intimate vows vs. all-star celebrationHow Taylor and Travis model modern partnership and mutual respectFavorite songs from the new album (and what they reveal about her creative mindset)Connect with Susan: WebsiteInstagramFacebookPinterestConnect with Ariana: WebsiteInstagram FacebookConnect with Kevin and August: WebsiteInstagramYoutubeTikTokPinterestLinkedIn

In this episode of Now That I’m Engaged, How Do I Get Married?, Kevin and August put AI to the test in a head-to-head format: they tackle common wedding planning questions, then ask ChatGPT the exact same prompts to compare answers. They explore that while AI can be a helpful starting point, real-world expertise, context, and taste make all the difference.From splurge-vs-save decisions to handling surprise costs, and from first-look logistics to adults-only etiquette, this episode highlights the nuances that pros bring, such as reading a venue, protecting guest experience, and balancing emotions. Highlights:Start with non-negotiables: let your top 2–3 priorities drive splurge vs. saveBuild a 10–15% budget buffer for common surprises (fees, overtime, delivery/setup, permits, alterations, gratuities)Reallocate smartly: trim “nice-to-haves” to cover essentials without overspendingFirst look vs. aisle reveal: choose based on light, venue logistics, timeline, and the feeling you wantAdults-only wording: clear, kind, and consistent language on invites + website, with precise envelope addressingPlanner advantage: guidance on trade-offs, timing, and budget pivots as plans evolveNo matter where you are in planning, this conversation shows how AI can spark ideas, but experienced pros help you personalize, prioritize, and protect your vision so your day feels exactly like you.Connect with Kevin and August:WebsiteInstagramYoutubeTikTokPinterestLinkedIn

In this episode of Now That I’m Engaged, How Do I Get Married?, Kevin and August sit down with Julian Ribinik, an award-winning wedding photographer, Creative Director of Julian Ribinik Studios, and founder of BioPrime Wellness. With nearly two decades behind the lens, Julian shares how thoughtful planning upfront leads to a calmer wedding day and images you truly love.From defining how you want the day to feel to vetting photographers for venue conditions and lighting, Julian breaks down simple, high-impact steps to get the most out of your photography experience without sacrificing presence or joy. He offers the key questions to ask in consults, why an engagement session doubles as a stress-saving rehearsal, and how to separate Instagram polish from real-world skill.Highlights:Why starting with “How do we want to feel?” sets every other decision up for successThe essential questions to ask: venue familiarity, similar conditions, and site visitsFull galleries over grids: what to look for across ceremony, reception, and dance floorRange over one look: handling harsh sun, candlelight, dark churches/ballroomsEngagement sessions as a dress rehearsal for chemistry, posing, and expectationsWhen (and why) to add second shooters for multi-venue, multi-day, or cultural eventsProfessionalism that keeps you calm: early arrival, patience, and positive energy“Editorial” vs. “documentary” explained - and why portraits aren’t truly candidDon’t be fooled by follower counts or paid “as seen in” badges. Evidence mattersNo matter what type of wedding you're planning, Julian’s practical, peace-first approach will help you plan ahead with purpose, so you can be present and walk away with photos that feel like you.Connect with Julian: WebsiteInstagram Facebook TikTokLinkedInConnect with Kevin and August: WebsiteInstagramYoutubeTikTokPinterestLinkedIn

In this episode of Now That I’m Engaged, How Do I Get Married?, Kevin and August sit down with newlyweds DJ & Jacob Pingue for the second installment of our series, “Now That I’m Married, How Can I Help Others?”. Married on June 28, 2025, with a ceremony at Mission Santa Clara de Asís and a reception at Casa Real at Ruby Hill Winery, DJ and Jacob share a candid look at planning a large, family-forward celebration from the ground up. They talk about dividing roles (vision vs. logistics), balancing opinions with empathy, and building a vendor team through trusted referrals and preferred lists. (Fantasy Sound supported coordination for the first half of the day and provided reception lighting!)From choosing meaningful spaces to mingling during cocktail hour, they unpack the small choices that made their day feel relaxed and personal. Plus, the lessons they wish they’d known sooner.Highlights:How deciding non-negotiables early simplifies every decision afterA practical way to split planning dutiesWhy mingling at cocktail hour can be the secret to enjoying more of your receptionThe case for a first look (and what made theirs so emotional for the whole wedding party)Building your team: using preferred vendor lists + personal referrals to vet pros you’ll loveDIY wins that stretch the budget and mixed centerpieces for scale without overspendingNavigating family opinions with empathyThe bouquet preservation tip they wish they’d heard before the weddingWhether you’re hosting a big, all-family affair or a cozy celebration with close friends, DJ and Jacob’s grounded advice will leave you feeling confident about your priorities, your partnership, and the path to a day that truly feels like you. Because really, there’s no better place to get planning advice than from someone who has just lived through it.Connect with Kevin and August: WebsiteInstagramYoutubeTikTokPinterestLinkedIn

In this episode of Now That I’m Engaged, How Do I Get Married?, Kevin and August sit down with Jamie Chang, Destination Wedding Planning Wizard, Designer of Joy, Champion of Sustainability, and Founder of Mango Muse Events. Jamie is a passionate advocate for creating celebrations that care for both people and the planet. With over 16 years of experience planning weddings across the globe, Jamie has seen it all, and she’s here to share why sustainability doesn’t have to mean sacrifice.From choosing a local venue to swapping beef off the menu, Jamie breaks down simple actions with high impact that any couple can take to make their wedding more eco-conscious without losing style, comfort, or fun. She also shares insights from her work with couples worldwide and why she believes progress, not perfection, is the key to planning responsibly.Highlights:Why your wedding location is the single biggest factor in sustainabilityThe surprising protein swap that drastically reduces your wedding’s footprintPlated vs. buffet: which catering style is more climate-friendly (and why)How florals and décor choices can support local farmers and reduce wasteEasy guest transport solutions that save money and emissionsCreative ways to give your flowers a “second life” after the big dayA fresh perspective on reducing, reusing, and recycling in wedding planningWhether you’re dreaming of a chic city celebration or a faraway destination wedding, Jamie’s approachable advice will leave you inspired to make mindful choices that are good for your budget, your guests, and our shared home.Connect with Jamie: WebsiteInstagramLinkedInConnect with Kevin and August: WebsiteInstagramYoutubeTikTokPinterestLinkedIn

In this episode of Now That I’m Engaged, How Do I Get Married?, Kevin and August sit down with Brittany Branson — a born and raised Jersey girl, destination live wedding artist, and coach for creatives based in the greater Washington, DC area. Since 2015, Brittany has helped hundreds of couples across the US and beyond turn their most memorable moments into meaningful masterpieces. Drawing on her “past life” in arts administration and legislation, Brittany blends her creative strategy expertise with a passion for the arts to help couples create one-of-a-kind wedding keepsakes. From live painting your first kiss to illustrating guests as take-home favors, Brittany shares how art can enhance your wedding design, guest experience, and emotional impact. She also opens up about her commitment to giving back, donating a portion of every service to the animal rescue where she and her husband adopted their two beloved dogs, Bolt and Ginger.Highlights:What a live wedding painter does (and why it’s a two-in-one experience)How live art enhances guest engagement throughout the nightUnique ideas for incorporating pets and loved ones into your paintingGuest fashion illustrations as one-of-a-kind take-home favorsCreative ways to infuse art into your wedding design, from stationery to signageTips for surprising your guests with a live artist (without the venue finding out)Memorable trends Brittany loves from the world of arts and humanitiesWhether you’re art-obsessed or just looking for a fresh way to wow your guests, this episode will inspire you to think beyond traditional entertainment and favors — and maybe even commission your own wedding day masterpiece.Connect with Brittany: Website Instagram TikTok LinkedInConnect with Kevin and August: WebsiteInstagramYoutubeTikTokPinterestLinkedIn

In this episode of Now That I’m Engaged, How Do I Get Married?, Kevin and August chat with Nora Culley Tuck, owner and creative director of Engaged with Nora, about the areas you should never skimp on when planning your wedding, and why spending smart in the right places pays off for both you and your guests.From the three things guests actually care about, to the hidden costs of cutting service staff, Nora shares candid, real-world examples of what happens when couples try to DIY or cut corners, and how to avoid those pitfalls. Whether you’re planning a grand celebration or an intimate gathering, this episode will help you prioritize with confidence.Highlights:The three guest priorities you should always invest inHow guest comfort impacts your entire wedding dayWhy service staffing ratios matter more than you thinkThe real cost (in time and stress) of DIY décor and floralsWhy photo and video are a gift to yourself, not just the guestsHow planners and coordinators save you from expensive mistakesNora’s pick for the one area worth splurging on every timePlus, Nora shares her perspective on entertainment as the heartbeat of your celebration, and why a great DJ or band can make or break the party.Connect with Nora: Website Instagram TikTok LinkedInConnect with Kevin and August: WebsiteInstagramYoutubeTikTokPinterestLinkedIn

In this episode of Now That I’m Engaged, How Do I Get Married?, Kevin and August sit down with the incredible Raman Bains, owner of R&R Event Rentals and Brownstone Gardens, to talk all about making the most of your wedding venue, beyond just the booking process.From understanding what’s actually included in your rental to working within venue rules without compromising your vision, Raman shares candid insights from her dual perspective as a venue owner and décor expert. Whether you’re eyeing a blank canvas or a full-service spot, this episode will help you feel confident, prepared, and inspired.Highlights:How to maximize your venue layout for flow, impact, and guest experienceCreative ways to personalize your space (even if the venue isn’t "on theme")The key questions to ask your venue team before signing the contractWhat you should know about catering, staffing, and set-up timelinesHow rentals, lighting, and small décor choices can elevate the entire lookTips for working seamlessly with your vendors and venue staffPlus, Raman shares why sometimes spending a bit more on the right venue can save you thousands on décor and the one thing couples consistently underestimate when planning their space.Connect with Raman: Website ~ R&R Event Rentals Website ~ Brownstone Gardens Instagram ~ R&R Event Rentals Instagram ~ Brownstone Gardens Connect with Kevin and August: WebsiteInstagramYoutubeTikTokPinterestLinkedIn

In this special live episode of Now That I’m Engaged, How Do I Get Married?, Kevin heads to The Lighthouse at Glen Cove Marina for a La Dolce Vita–themed showcase, where he chats with a lineup of incredible wedding professionals across planning, photography, videography, rentals, beauty, florals, and more.Each guest brings a unique insight and personality to the mic, offering honest advice, trend predictions, and behind-the-scenes stories that are sure to surprise. You'll hear tales of canoes, chocolate chip cookies, and a lost ring moment that will leave you in disbelief.Whether you're planning a wedding, building your vendor team, or just love a good love story, this episode delivers inspiration and practical advice.Highlights:The latest wedding trends from the pros - bold colors, handwritten stationery, and sustainable floralsWhy personalization is the future of wedding designTips for working with vendors (and what they wish you knew)Unexpected moments that made these pros fall in love with weddings all over againReal advice for planning timelines, beauty prep, and managing expectationsGet ready to take notes during this creative partner-packed episode and enjoy a few laughs! Connect with Our Guests: Maggie with The Lighthouse at Glen Cove Marina Jesse with Love Unique Studios Diana with Napa Valley Linens Belinda with Lucky Orchid DesignsKathy with AFR Furniture Rental Diana with Dia Photography + Lumina Studio CoLauren with Lo & Behold EventsGina with Inspirations By GinaJD with Status Salon Connect with Kevin and August: WebsiteInstagramYoutubeTikTokPinterestLinkedIn

In this Q&A-style episode of Now That I’m Engaged, How Do I Get Married?, we’re answering real questions from our listeners about the wedding planning process. From guest lists and expectations to creative details and guest dress codes, Kevin and August share thoughtful, honest advice to help you feel more confident at every stage of planning.You’ll also hear a few laughs along the way because while planning a wedding is a big deal, it doesn’t have to feel like a burden.Highlights:Why decision fatigue is common and how to move past itHow to manage family input without losing your voiceTips for choosing a wedding style you won’t second-guessHow and when to stop collecting inspirationMeg’s go-to planning advice: “Make a decision and move on”Common planning stressors and how to reframe themWhether you're newly engaged or mid-planning, this episode is filled with practical insights (and a few light-hearted moments) to help you move forward with clarity and confidence.Connect with Kevin & August: WebsiteInstagramYoutubeTikTokPinterest

Wedding attire plays a bigger role in your day than you might think—but most couples don’t realize they have more options than just picking a dress or suit off the rack.In this episode of Now That I'm Engaged, How Do I Get Married?, Kati Kons, a queer wedding fashion stylist, joins us to break down what a wedding fashion stylist actually does, how they differ from a bridal consultant, and why this service might be the missing piece in your planning process. With an emphasis on authenticity, inclusivity, and personal expression, Kati shares how to go beyond tradition and create a wedding look that truly feels like you.From mood boards and sourcing to navigating custom attire and avoiding common styling mistakes, this episode is packed with insight on how your fashion choices can elevate not only your confidence but your entire day.Highlights:What a wedding fashion stylist actually does (and doesn’t do)The difference between bridal shop stylists and independent stylistsHow to express your identity and personal style through wedding attireWhy your wardrobe should align with the vibe of your dayHow to avoid costly mistakes when ordering non-traditional outfitsThe surprising reason many couples default to tradition—and why you don’t have toHow fashion choices impact your photos, energy, and guest experienceWhether you’re rocking a suit, dress, pantsuit, or something in between, this episode will help you walk into your wedding feeling confident, comfortable, and completely yourself.Connect with Kati: WebsiteInstagram TikTokPinterestConnect with Kevin & August: WebsiteInstagramYoutubeTikTokPinterest

The wedding morning sets the tone for the entire day, but all too often, it’s rushed, stressful, and behind schedule.Janice Carnevale of Bellwether Events joins us to share her best-kept secrets for a smooth, stress-free wedding morning, based on 22 years of timeline-building experience. From strategic glam schedules to PJ photos and built-in snack breaks, Janice walks us through how to map out a morning that flows beautifully and gets everyone to the ceremony on time.In this episode, we dive into why most couples underestimate how long everything takes, how to avoid the dreaded 6AM wake-up call, and what seemingly small moments—like a well-timed bathroom break—can make or break your day. Whether you're planning a champagne toast in matching pajamas or just trying to avoid rushing into your dress, this episode is packed with smart, realistic advice for every couple.Highlights:What time hair and makeup should actually be doneHow many hours to plan from beauty to ceremony start timeThe best way to schedule PJ photos, lunch, and downtimeWhy “getting dressed” takes way longer than you thinkThe key person who needs to be ready before youHow to build in extra time without making your morning feel rushedWhy your planner might schedule bio breaksThe difference between a good timeline and a great onePlanning your wedding morning? Don’t just wing it—tune in for expert tips that’ll help you stay relaxed, look your best, and walk down the aisle right on time.Connect with Janice: Website Instagram LinkedInConnect with Kevin & August: WebsiteInstagramYoutubeTikTokPinterest

Can you really predict wedding day weather?Weather is one of the biggest stressors for engaged couples—especially those planning outdoor celebrations. But what if you could actually plan for it?Andrew Leavitt of Ironic Concierge Event Meteorology joins us to explain how personalized weather forecasting is changing the wedding game. With a background in concert safety and large-scale event logistics, Andrew and his team of meteorologists offer real-time, concierge-level weather insights designed specifically for weddings.In this episode, we dig into what most weather apps get wrong, how far out you can actually forecast conditions, and how understanding wind, heat, and even cicadas can help couples and planners avoid last-minute disasters. Andrew breaks down the difference between climatology and meteorology, how to interpret weather data the right way, and why just a little weather knowledge can make your wedding safer and less stressful.Whether you're planning a tented reception, dreaming of vineyard vows, or just really hoping it won’t rain, this episode is packed with insights that can help you stay one step ahead of Mother Nature.Highlights:What a “concierge meteorology service” actually does for weddingsWhy checking your weather app too early can cause unnecessary panicThe difference between climate trends and day-of weatherHow to know if your wedding venue is prone to flooding or windThe surprising timeline accuracy of weather models A client who requested cicada research before their weddingWhat you should ask your planner about rain plans, flooring, and moreHow high heel “sink tests” became part of their weather data processPlanning a wedding? Learn how to weather-proof your big day (literally) with science-backed strategies that go far beyond “hope for sunshine.”Connect with Andrew:Website Instagram LinkedInConnect with Kevin & August:WebsiteInstagramYoutubeTikTokPinterest

What’s the difference between having a venue coordinator and hiring a wedding coordinator? More than you might think.Elena Markwood of Adoration Weddings joins us to break down the different types of coordination support available to engaged couples—and why “day-of coordination” is often a myth.With over 100 weddings under her belt, Elena brings a detail-driven approach and a passion for personalized service that helps couples actually enjoy their wedding day. In this episode, she shares why so many couples are surprised to learn their venue doesn’t provide the hands-on support they assumed, and what to ask to avoid day-of disasters.We talk through the various levels of planning and coordination support, when to hire a pro, and how to make sure your wedding runs smoothly—without your mom pinning boutonnieres or your bestie chasing down a lost seating chart.From timelines and vendor communication to emergency kits and last-minute slideshow drama, Elena explains how a great coordinator does more than just show up on the big day—they make sure the couple, their families, and their friends get to soak in every moment.Highlights:Why “day-of” coordination doesn’t really existCommon misunderstandings about venue-provided coordinationThe real differences between planning, coordination, and designWhat questions to ask when interviewing coordinatorsHow a strong vendor timeline avoids the dreaded “battle of the timelines”The wildest last-minute surprise Elena ever had to solve (spoiler: it involves a ladder and Walmart)Planning your wedding without a coordinator? This episode might change your mind.Connect with Elena:WebsiteLinkedInFacebook InstagramConnect with Kevin & August:WebsiteInstagramYoutubeTikTokPinterest

What separates a ceremony everyone remembers from one that just checks the boxes? Brian Franklin from Vows and Speeches joins us to share the answer—and it's not what you’d expect.Brian brings over 20 years of experience helping people craft personal, memorable vows and speeches—not just for weddings, but for all kinds of meaningful moments. In this episode, he shares how he made the leap from political campaigns to writing love stories, and why personalization is the key to any great ceremony.We talk through the big mistakes couples make when planning the ceremony, how to avoid cringe-worthy speeches, and why practicing your delivery matters just as much as the words themselves. Brian also opens up about how humor, storytelling, and timing shape the emotional arc of a great wedding.He even walks us through how he works with couples, officiants, and speakers to make sure the tone, pacing, and length hit the mark—without relying on cookie-cutter templates or tired internet jokes. From tequila unity shots to emotional surprise moments, it’s all about making your ceremony feel like you.Whether you're writing your own vows, picking someone to speak, or just trying to avoid awkward moments at the mic, this episode will make you rethink how much attention your ceremony deserves.Highlights:Why personalization makes or breaks a ceremony.The biggest speech mistakes couples and their guests make.How humor and emotion work best when balanced.Why practicing your delivery matters more than people think.The value of timing, tone, and even mic placement.New trends like tequila shots, Star Wars quotes, and fireball ceremonies.Do you have any questions about your ceremony or want us to cover a specific topic? Send them in—we’d love to hear from you. And don’t forget to like, follow, share, and leave us a review on Apple Podcasts so more couples can find the help they need!Connect with BrianWebsiteLinkedInFacebook InstagramConnect with Kevin:Wedding IQFantasy SoundInstagramYoutube

Why do some wedding planners not offer 'day-of' coordination? Tannya DeMeyer and Lindsay Brys from Simply Lovely Events are here to break down the difference between day-of coordination and full-service planning—and why it matters for your big day.When it comes to wedding planning, there's much more than meets the eye. Tannya DeMeyer and Lindsay Brys from Simply Lovely Events join us to explain why they no longer offer 'day-of' coordination and how couples often misunderstand what this service entails. They discuss the challenges of stepping into a wedding with only a few weeks' notice, sharing how executing a couple's vision is challenging when there's minimal time to build trust and understand all the details.Instead, Tannya and Lindsay emphasize the value of starting with a planner months in advance. They share how timelines, family dynamics, and overlooked details can create chaos if left unmanaged. Plus, they share their personal experiences managing unexpected wedding day surprises—from nearly toppling a floral arch to navigating awkward family tensions.Throughout the episode, they offer practical advice for couples on communication, decision-making, and working with their planner to make the most of their services. Whether planning a small ceremony or a full-scale wedding, Tannya and Lindsay's insights will help you feel prepared and confident.Episode Highlights:Why Tannya and Lindsay stopped offering 'day-of' coordinationThe ideal timeline for hiring a plannerCommon mistakes couples make during planningHow planners handle family drama and unexpected situationsThe surprising roles planners sometimes take on.Why trusting your planner can make your wedding day smoother and more enjoyableWe would love it if you would share this episode with a newly engaged couple. Do you have specific questions about your big day? Send them our way! Don't forget to like, subscribe, leave an Apple review. This is the best way for more couples to find our show. Get in touch with Tannya and LindsayWebsiteFacebookInstagramConnect with Kevin:Wedding IQFantasy SoundInstagramYoutubeTikTok

You've planned the music, but what about the person running the show? Mark Addington joins us to break down why hiring an MC for your wedding is a game-changer — and trust us, it's more than just making announcements.When it comes to weddings, most couples know they need a DJ — but what about an MC? Mark joins us to explain why an experienced MC can make all the difference in keeping your wedding day smooth and stress-free. Mark shares how an MC’s role goes far beyond just picking up a microphone — they’re key in guiding guests, ensuring events stay on time, and making sure everyone feels included in the celebration.From keeping guests engaged to helping vendors stay coordinated, Mark highlights the often-overlooked moments that an MC can enhance. Whether it's announcing key moments without sounding cheesy or ensuring your guests aren’t wandering off when it's time for speeches, Mark reveals how an MC keeps things flowing — and keeps the dance floor packed.We also dive into common mistakes couples make when they ask a friend or family member to step in as an MC. Mark offers tips on how couples can create the right balance between personal touches and professional guidance.Lastly, Mark shares some of his most memorable wedding moments, from guiding a packed dance floor to turning a Disney-themed wedding into a magical experience guests will never forget. Whether you're planning a big bash or an intimate celebration, Mark’s insights will leave you thinking twice about the value of a great MC.HighlightsWhy an MC's role is more than just making announcementsHow to find the right MC for your wedding styleThe difference between a DJ and an MC — and why both are essentialCommon mistakes couples make when asking a friend to MCHow an MC keeps your timeline on track without feeling rushedFun stories about unique weddings, from Disney themes to meaningful family momentsGot wedding planning questions? Send them to podcast@fantasysound.com and we might answer them in a future episode! Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and leave a review — your support helps us bring you more valuable wedding planning tips.Connect with Mark:WebsiteFacebookInstagram Connect with Kevin:Wedding IQFantasy SoundInstagramYoutubeTikTok

Planning a wedding can feel overwhelming—guest lists, budgets, venues, and vendors all fighting for your attention. But what if we told you there’s one move that could save you time, money, and stress from the start? Today, we’re joined by Laura Brezel, a Bay Area wedding planner with 20 years of experience, to break down why hiring a planner first is the smartest decision you can make after getting engaged.Once you’re engaged, the excitement kicks in fast—but so does the stress of planning. You might be tempted to jump straight into booking venues, dress shopping, or Pinterest deep dives. But according to expert planner Laura Brezel, there’s one decision that should come first: hiring a wedding planner.Laura walks us through what couples should be thinking about right after getting engaged—from setting a budget and guest list to choosing a venue that actually fits your vision. Spoiler alert: just because a venue says it fits 200 people doesn’t mean it should. She also shares real-life wedding planning mishaps that could have been avoided if couples had a planner in their corner from the start.Beyond logistics, Laura explains how having a planner means you actually get to enjoy your wedding day instead of handling last-minute problems. Whether it's managing the vendor timeline, keeping things on schedule, or making sure your drunk uncle isn’t causing a scene, a planner ensures your only job is soaking in the moment.If you’re in the early stages of planning, don’t miss Laura’s insider tips on choosing vendors that fit your personality and budget, creating a stress-free guest experience, and avoiding common mistakes that could cost you big time.Episode Highlights:Why hiring a planner first can save you thousands.How to pick a venue that fits your vision (not just your guest count).The mistake couples make when hiring vendors (and how to avoid it).Why wedding timelines are never exact—and that’s okay.How a planner ensures you actually enjoy your wedding day.Real stories of wedding day disasters that could have been avoided.Got wedding planning questions? We’d love to answer them on the show! DM us or drop your questions in the comments. And if you found this episode helpful, don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and leave a review on Apple Podcasts—it helps other couples find the show!Get in Touch with Laura:WebsiteFacebookInstagramGet in Touch with Kevin:Wedding IQFantasy SoundInstagramYoutubeTikTok

A lot of couples think having a friend or family member officiate their wedding is a great idea—until the big day turns into a total disaster. From awkward silences to forgotten lines, things can go off the rails fast. That’s why we’re bringing in Chris Thielen, an experienced wedding officiant, to talk about what actually makes a ceremony special and how to avoid a cringe-worthy moment at the altar.When it comes to wedding planning, most couples focus on the venue, the dress, and the party—but what about the ceremony itself? The person officiating your wedding plays a much bigger role than you might think. Chris Thielen has been officiating weddings for over 25 years, and he’s seen it all. From flawless, heartfelt ceremonies to absolute train wrecks, he knows what makes a wedding day run smoothly and what can turn it into an unforgettable (for the wrong reasons) experience.Chris explains why hiring a professional officiant is worth it, especially when compared to having a friend or family member handle the ceremony. While it may seem like a sweet, personal touch, it often leads to stress, forgotten lines, and uncomfortable moments. He shares his best tips for making sure your ceremony reflects your personality and doesn’t feel like a generic script being read off a piece of paper.We also dive into what an officiant actually does, from helping you with your marriage license to making sure the ceremony runs seamlessly. Chris shares the most common mistakes couples make when planning their wedding and how to avoid unnecessary stress leading up to the big day.Plus, if you think the ceremony is just a short moment before the party starts, Chris might just change your mind. A well-done ceremony isn’t just about making it legal—it’s about setting the tone for the entire day and making sure your guests feel just as connected to your story as you do.Episode Highlights:The biggest mistakes couples make when choosing an officiantWhy asking a friend or family member to officiate can be riskyHow to make sure your ceremony feels personal and engagingThe little details most couples forget that can lead to awkward momentsWhy your officiant needs to be comfortable speaking in front of a crowdThe importance of working with vendors who understand your visionGot a wedding planning question? We’d love to help! Send us your biggest wedding dilemmas, and we might answer them on a future episode. Don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and review the podcast—plus, share this episode with someone who’s in the middle of wedding planning!Get in Touch with Chris:WebsiteInstagramGet in Touch with Kevin:Wedding IQFantasy SoundInstagramYoutubeTikTok