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Who do you ask those life-altering questions like, “How do I get the job I actually want?” “Is this fling turning into a thing?” or “What’s the move when my BFF suddenly ghosts me?” Your mom's a little too judgy, and your friends might be just as lost as you are. That’s where we come in. We’re Totally Unqualified, a mother-daughter podcast that tackles your burning questions with our unfiltered advice. We think we’re hilarious, wildly insightful, and yes, we argue—like every mother-daughter duo. Tune in for spicy takes, awkward truths, and everything in between. Trust us, it’s the advice you didn’t know you needed, with a side of laughter.
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This week we’re talking cowboys, country dancing, and why Texas two-stepping might just be our new love language. We’re also all in on the Sunshine Protection Act (because daylight savings is absolutely absurd) ,and we dig into the NYC mayoral race, friendship politics, and whether you can stay close with someone whose views don’t align with yours. For our big topic, we’re getting real about regressing: what happens when grief sneaks back in, how to get back on track, and why missing who you...
Let’s start with this: When did New York City become RSVP-only? You can’t just wander into a trivia night, workout class, or even the Halloween Dog Parade anymore. Everything requires a ticket, time slot, barcode, or blood sample (almost). Spontaneity = Dead. We also discuss why Southern hospitality might actually be the superior hospitality and share the most “only in New York” story—featuring a cyclist and a vehicle no one saw coming. Then we get into the big topic: What is stressing out ...
This week, we’re talking about what it really means to access your inner strength—and why so many people wait for someone else to give them permission to shine. News flash: life isn’t coming to you. It’s waiting for you to step up and claim it. Along the way, we also dig into why Gen Z loves this season of Dancing with the Stars, the sheer insanity when people continually “don’t remember” meeting you, and the fine art of BTI—Beating to the Ignore. We also continue the debate on when to take t...
Why is it so hard to just say sorry? In this episode, we unpack the art (and awkwardness) of apologizing—why we avoid it, what gets in the way, and how being intentional about our words and actions can change everything. Because “I’m sorry” isn’t just about guilt—it’s about growth. And since no Totally Unqualified episode is ever just one thing, we also dive into cookbooks, longevity, and the everyday choices that help us live with more intention. Oh, and yes—Bad Bunny is on our radar (of c...
After a little life-hiatus, Totally Unqualified is back. From end-of-summer blues to Taylor Swift’s engagement ring to an NYC dating story so outrageous only social media could make it possible, we’ve got plenty to catch up on. Then we turn to something deeper: confidence. Why can we feel rock solid in one part of life yet shaky in another? How do parents shape their kids’ self-belief? And why does self-assurance seem to shift with every setting? We share our own stories—and some hard truths—...
Change—love it or hate it, sometimes it’s the only way forward. We talk about knowing when the benefits of change outweigh staying put, how to handle the uncertainty, and why it can feel easier when you’re young than later in life. We also get into why skimping is a no-go whether on quality, experiences, or life itself. We also share a few iconic NYC moments that could only happen here.
Is there such a thing as being too independent in a relationship? In this episode, we unpack the line between healthy autonomy and emotional avoidance. Doing your own thing? Great. But how often—and at what cost? We talk about how independence can be empowering… and when it might just be a way to avoid intimacy. We also get into the challenges of dating someone with totally different political views (maybe that used to work, but these days…maybe not), and share our strong feelings about why b...
First dates: They’re exciting, awkward, and full of potential missteps. In this episode, we break down the essentials—how many drinks is too many, whether or not a kiss (or more) is on the table, and how to ensure success. We also get into the universally hated art of ghosting and why it needs to end, like yesterday. Oh, and one more thing: NYC in the summer? We have thoughts—and they aren’t pretty.
Can you ever really go back? Whether it’s a place, a book, a relationship, or just a moment in time—the second time around rarely feels the same. Why? Expectations. In this episode, we unpack how what we hope to feel often gets in the way of what we actually experience. Is it better to protect the memory or test if the magic’s still there? And when is it time to move forward instead of circling back? We also talk current events, share some very NYC encounters that could only happen in this ci...
Everyone has thoughts—and talking about them can get emotional (or just plain heated) on both sides. Gen Z wants moms to be supportive, emotionally available, and able to give space when needed. But hovering, oversharing, or letting anxiety leak into every conversation? Hard pass. As for moms… we’re mostly out here winging it, just like all the moms who came before us. In this episode, we look at motherhood from both sides: the reality of parenting without a playbook, and the experience of gr...
We’re supposed to fall in love in high school, “launch” in our 20s, and have kids by 30… right? Or maybe—wrong. In this episode, we unravel the invisible timelines that make us feel like we’re always behind. Who set these expectations? And how do we chart our own path? Plus we talk about how to spot a toxic workplace before it drains you dry. If you’ve ever felt like you’re late to your own life, you’re definitely not alone.
So you want a promotion, but what does it really take to get it? And once you’re a boss, how do you handle jealous coworkers, eye-roll energy from direct reports, and the weird shift in office dynamics? In this episode, our special guest Natalie joins us to break down the career dos and don’ts that matter most when you’re just starting out. From speaking up to standing out, we’re talking power moves, hard lessons, and how to own your role without losing your mind.
From who wears the engagement ring (shouldn’t it be both? why isn't it both?) to who stays home with the kids, gender roles are still with us. In this episode, we dig into how expectations around work, relationships, and identity have evolved from Mom’s generation to Gen Z. Spoiler: it's not about tossing out tradition, it's about having options. Whether it's navigating hybrid work, redefining what it means to be a partner, or simply deciding who should take out the trash, we’re asking: how f...
What makes moms seem...old? Is it the idioms (please stop saying “bend over backwards”), the skinny jeans (no jeggings—ever!), or the mild panic when the TV remote doesn’t work (“I’m not very good with tech!”)? In this episode, Ava gives Mom a crash course in what’s cool, what’s cringe, and how to avoid sounding like you time-traveled from 1990. Plus, we tackle a listener’s question: how do you actually get your résumé seen during the job hunt? (Hint: it’s not about showing up to drop it off...
It’s our 20th episode and Mother’s Day—so naturally, we’re getting deep. This week, we’re talking identity: how to carve it out when you’re launching into adulthood and stepping out of your mom’s shadow, and how to reclaim it when you’re a mom whose kids have taken over your world. Who are we with—and without—each other? It’s a big question, and we’re diving right in. Plus, we dish on the Met Gala’s best and worst dressed (you know we have opinions) and break down what to do when your so-call...
Once upon a time, you had to know how to write a check and read a map. Today? Not so much. In this episode, we debate the essential life skills Gen Z actually needs—and yes, somehow even driving a car is up for debate. We also break down that bizarre Bill Belichick interview (and his much-younger girlfriend), talk about how to be ahead of trends when information travels at the speed of light, and we weigh in on a listener’s big question: what do you do when your dad just doesn’t listen? For o...
Bills, deadlines, responsibilities…it sounds so adult, so exhausting, so...BORING. In this episode we ask the big question: how do you know when you’re officially a grown-up? And what if you just don’t want to be one? (Can’t life just be fun and about me?) We debate what makes someone young (Knowing pop culture? Being spontaneous?). We also tackle a listener question about starting over in a new city—what to think about, both practically and emotionally, before making the leap. Ava is in rare...
Is AI taking over the world? Our jobs? Ruining the environment with its energy drain? In this episode, we dig into what it means to live in the so-called “Techno-zoic” age and how Gen Z is handling the rise of the machines. Spoiler: Mom’s already preparing for the apocalypse, while Ava is... surprisingly chill about it. (And one of us may or may not be obsessed with being nice to ChatGPT.) We also shift gears to something a little more human: the growing responsibility younger generations hav...
White Lotus reminded us of a universal truth—when three friends get together, things often get messy. Really messy. In this episode, we unpack the unspoken tensions of friendship trios, from low-key jealousy to full-blown FOMO. Why do one-on-one friendships or even four friends getting together feel easier? Why does someone always end up feeling left out when it’s a trio? And why does a "friendship threesome" sound more fun than it usually is? We also shift gears and talk about work—specifica...
They know your secrets, your strengths, and exactly how to push your buttons—yep, we’re talking siblings. This week, we're diving into the rollercoaster of sibling dynamics with special guest Will. Why do parents so often push siblings to be close, even when they’re nothing alike? What does it mean if you and your sibling just don’t click? We also get into the messy side of dating—when things derail, how to check your own behavior, and when to hold your head high and keep your confidence inta...
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