Kingdom Life Coaching: Untangle the Noise, Hear God's Voice, Clarify Your Calling

Ep 151 // Life is Training for Heaven: Hearing Jesus, Embracing Desire, and the Emotional Brain with Tony StoltzfusIs the Christian life about following the rules—or learning to live in relationship?In this rich and honest conversation, Megan sits down with Tony Stoltzfus—pioneer in Christian coaching and author of 21 books, including his newest release, Heaven: Experience the Extraordinary.Tony shares:How a season of spiritual burnout reshaped his faithWhy most of our prayers miss the deeper desire underneathHow to ask Jesus questions—and actually hear HimWhy life isn’t performance for God… it’s training for heavenThis episode blends theology, story, imagination, and deep pastoral wisdom—and offers real hope for anyone walking through grief, disappointment, or spiritual dryness.What You’ll LearnWhy the Christian life is about relationship, not rule-keepingHow to ask Jesus questions—and actually hear HimHow to uncover the deeper desire beneath your prayersThe difference between reading Scripture rationally vs. experientiallyWhy forgiveness and love are training for heavenHow imagining heaven can bring healing nowPractical Next Steps📱 Download the Questions for Jesus App (iOS & Android)🤝 Ask Jesus questions with a friend—community strengthens discernment📖 Explore free Bible studies at LikeAHumanBeing.com📘 Read Heaven: Experience the ExtraordinaryStay connected with Megan:Website: meganbnilsen.comSocial: Instagram,Facebook,LinkedInGrab the Book: Untangled Faith+Companion JournalFree Gift: 30-Day Grace + Truth (Daily) DevotionalBook a free discovery call to see if Kingdom Life Coaching could help you unlock your next right step!LENT RESOURCE: lentpreparationjournal.comStay connected with Tony:HeavenExperience.netLikeAHumanBeing.comMeta-Formation.comChristian coaching, hearing God’s voice, how to hear Jesus, discerning God’s will, Christian spiritual growth, life is training for heaven, heaven and eternity, Christian imagination, experiential Bible study, emotional healing through faith, forgiveness and freedom, desire and prayer, Christian leadership development, Kingdom living, Christian podcast for women, spiritual formation, overcoming spiritual burnout, faith and suffering, Questions for Jesus, Tony Stoltzfus interview

Ep 150 // How to Discern God’s Voice in Vocational Uncertainty: From Whisper to Two-by-Four with Sandy MollWhat if God is already speaking—but we’re too busy, distracted, or afraid to listen?In this powerful conversation, business leader and servant-hearted entrepreneur Sandy Moll shares how losing millions during the 2008 financial crash became the very place God reshaped her faith, her leadership, and her understanding of peace. From learning to recognize God’s whisper before it becomes a roar—or a two-by-four—to building a thriving business rooted in faith, Sandy invites us into a deeper, quieter way of discerning God’s voice.If you’re navigating uncertainty, misalignment, burnout, or a major decision, this episode will help you slow down, listen well, and trust God’s timing. Many believers want to hear God clearly—but feel overwhelmed by noise, fear, urgency, or pressure to “figure it out.”This episode helps listeners:Discern God’s voice amid chaos and anxietyRecognize the difference between God’s peace and human strivingLearn practical rhythms for listening prayer and ScriptureTrust God’s timing when plans fall apart or the future feels unclearRelease control and step into partnership with God instead of self-relianceStay connected with Megan:Website: meganbnilsen.comSocial: Instagram,Facebook,LinkedInGrab the Book: Untangled Faith+Companion JournalFree Gift: 30-Day Grace + Truth (Daily) DevotionalBook a free discovery call to see if Kingdom Life Coaching could help you unlock your next right step!LENT RESOURCE: lentpreparationjournal.comStay connected with Sandy:President & CEO of Advanced Business Solutions Business Consultant | Servant Leader | EntrepreneurWebsite: https://www.abs-core.com/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/sandymoll/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ABSThrive/📧 Email: smoll@abs-core.com📱 Phone: 913-731-6007Sandy works with small to medium businesses, banks, and credit unions—helping leaders clarify their mission, build healthy culture, and lead with integrity and humility.

Ep 149 // Open-Handed Kingdom Living: Saying Yes to God Through Surrender, Community, and CourageWhat does it look like to truly live with open hands and a willing heart—especially when life brings suffering, uncertainty, and hard seasons of discernment? In this deeply moving and wisdom-filled conversation, Vivian Mabuni joins host Megan Nilsen to explore Kingdom living, saying yes to God, and how surrender—lived out in community—becomes the doorway to transformation.From surviving breast cancer, to 35 years of marriage, to theological formation at Denver Seminary, Vivian shares how God’s Word, the Holy Spirit, and the people of God shape a life of faithful obedience. This episode is an invitation to loosen your grip, trust God more deeply, and discover that you were never meant to walk alone.In this episode of Kingdom Life Coaching, Megan sits down with Vivian Mabuni—author, Bible teacher, seminary graduate, marriage conference speaker, and cancer survivor—for a conversation that feels like coffee with a wise and trusted friend.Vivian shares how God has shaped her calling through seasons of suffering, marriage, ministry, and theological study, and why open-handed living is essential for discerning God’s leading. Together, Megan and Vivian explore the difference between individualistic faith and Kingdom-centered community, and why surrender is often the first step toward clarity.This episode covers:How saying yes to God often begins before clarity comesWhy Kingdom living is personal and communalHow Scripture re-centers us when life feels overwhelmingWhat seminary taught Vivian about humility, discernment, and truthWhy faithfulness in ordinary life matters more than flashy impactWhether you’re navigating a hard season, discerning your next step, or longing for deeper spiritual grounding, this conversation will encourage you to trust God with open hands—and walk forward in faith.Key Takeaways:Open-handed living is a posture of surrender, not passivity—it positions us to follow God with trust.God often uses community, not isolation, to bring healing, clarity, and strength.Marriage and ministry thrive when rooted in covenant, not performance.Seminary and theological formation can deepen humility, not pride.The Holy Spirit works powerfully through the “we” of the Body of Christ, not just the individual.Faithfulness in everyday obedience creates ripple effects we may never fully see this side of heaven.Saying yes to God doesn’t require a big platform, just a willing heart.Stay connected with Megan:Website: meganbnilsen.comSocial: Instagram,Facebook,LinkedInGrab the Book: Untangled Faith+Companion JournalFree Gift: 30-Day Grace + Truth (Daily) DevotionalBook a free discovery call to see if Kingdom Life Coaching could help you unlock your next right step!LENT RESOURCE: lentpreparationjournal.comStay Connected with Vivian: Website: https://www.vivianmabuni.comInstagram: @vivmabuniBook: Open Hands, Willing Heart – available on AmazonMinistry: Speaker with FamilyLife’s Weekend to Remember marriage conferencesSeminary Info: Women’s Leadership Cohort at Denver SeminaryKingdom livingHearing God’s voiceOpen-handed livingChristian discernmentSaying yes to GodWomen in ministryDenver Seminary Women’s Leadership CohortMarriage and faithBreast cancer survivor faith storyChristian life coaching podcast

Ep 148 // Calling vs. Assignment: How to Know When God Is Moving You Into a New Season with Barb RooseWhat do you do when your life no longer fits the theology you once held so tightly?In this powerful and deeply honest conversation, Barb Roose joins Megan Nilsen to explore faith that is forged—not performed—through suffering, surrender, and holy discontent.Barb shares her remarkable journey from megachurch leadership to becoming a bestselling Bible study author and literary agent with Books & Such Literary Management, while navigating addiction in her marriage, unexpected divorce, and seasons of profound uncertainty.Together, Barb and Megan unpack the difference between calling and assignment, why God often invites us to release what feels secure, and how discernment is rarely a single moment—but a faithful process.This episode is for the woman who feels restless, stretched, or quietly asking God, “Is there more?”Key TakeawaysCalling vs. Assignment: Your calling is your identity as a daughter of God. Assignments change—but identity doesn’t.Holy Discontent Is a Gift, Not a Flaw: That internal nudge may be God preparing you for your next season, not asking you to strive harder in the current one.When Theology Meets Reality: God lovingly allows seasons where your beliefs are stretched so your understanding of Him can deepen.Discernment Is a Process: Fasting, prayer, wise counsel, and paying attention to spiritual momentum all matter.Don’t Cling to an Assignment Like It’s the Last Blessing: Holding too tightly to a role can prevent you from receiving what God wants to give next.You Are Not Behind: Preparation often happens before clarity—and sometimes through pain.Both Barb and Megan name something many Christian women feel but rarely say out loud: God’s invitations often come wrapped in loss, surrender, and unanswered questions.From She Speaks conferences to book rejections, from ministry platforms to hidden seasons of formation, this conversation highlights a shared belief:God is not withholding from you—He is forming you.Who This Episode Is ForWomen discerning a next step or seasonLeaders feeling restless but unsure whyWriters, speakers, and ministry-minded womenAnyone navigating loss, divorce, or identity shiftsThe woman learning to trust God without guaranteesStay connected with Megan:Website: meganbnilsen.comSocial: Instagram,Facebook,LinkedInGrab the Book: Untangled Faith+Companion JournalFree Gift: 30-Day Grace + Truth (Daily) DevotionalBook a free discovery call to see if Kingdom Life Coaching could help you unlock your next right step!LENT RESOURCE: lentpreparationjournal.com Connect with Theresa Rowe:Barb’s Free Gift: The Breathe Again Guide Find it at Barb’s website along with her Happy Monday DevotionalConnect with Barb: https://barbroose.com/ Instagram: @barbroose

Ep 147 // New Year, New Strength: A Spirit-Led Approach to Wellness for Mid-Life Women with Theresa RoweWelcome to a brand-new year on the podcast! If you’re reflecting on how you feel—physically, emotionally, or spiritually—as you step into a new season, this conversation is the perfect companion to your January reset.In today’s episode, I’m joined by Theresa Rowe, founder of Shaped by Faith, nationally certified fitness professional, TV host, author, and passionate advocate for whole-person wellness. Theresa’s powerful testimony of miraculous healing and her decades of faith-infused fitness ministry offer deep encouragement—especially for mid-life moms navigating hormonal shifts, fatigue, or feeling disconnected from their bodies.Theresa shares practical steps for strengthening your spirit, mind, and body, along with her story of how God’s voice led her into fitness ministry, healed her physically and emotionally, and continues to guide her today. Whether you're feeling stuck, weary, or simply ready for a fresh start, her wisdom will help you reframe your wellness journey through the lens of faith, freedom, and God’s tender care.Stay all the way to the end—Theresa prays a powerful, Holy Spirit–filled blessing over your year that you do not want to miss. What You’ll Learn in This EpisodeHow to set grace-filled, realistic wellness goals in the new yearWays to approach mid-life changes—menopause, slower metabolism, fatigue—without shameHow Theresa experienced God’s miraculous healing before she even knew HimWhat it looks like to hear God’s voice in everyday decisionsHow physical health and spiritual health deeply influence each otherSimple steps to begin restoring your energy, strength, and connection with your bodyThe Scripture that shaped Theresa’s calling to combine faith and fitnessA powerful closing prayer to start your year renewed and aligned with GodStay connected with Megan:Website: meganbnilsen.comSocial: Instagram, Facebook, LinkedInGrab the Book: Untangled Faith+Companion JournalFree Gift: 30-Day Grace + Truth (Daily) DevotionalBook a free discovery call to see if Kingdom Life Coaching could help you unlock your next right step!Looking for a holiday devotional? Experience the first session of Untangled Advent for Free!! –> untangledadvent.comConnect with Theresa Rowe:Website: Shaped By FaithYouTube: Megan's Interview on Theresa's ShowChristian wellness, midlife women, menopause, faith and fitness, spirit mind body health, New Year goals, spiritual growth, hearing God’s voice, Christian podcast for women, Theresa Rowe.

Ep 146 // When God Says Go: My Yes to Adoption and the Lessons I Didn’t ExpectWhat happens when God asks you to say yes—before you feel ready, certain, or equipped?In this short, personal episode, Megan Nilsen shares the story behind her family’s adoption journey—a journey marked by years of prayer, hesitation, fasting, and searching God’s Word for clarity. When the answer finally came, it didn’t lead to ease or simplicity—but it did lead to undeniable encounters with God’s presence.This episode was originally recorded for The Unfolding Short Stories podcast and captures the raw intersection of obedience and uncertainty. Megan reflects on how her yes to adoption reshaped her understanding of love, grace, and identity in Christ—and how God meets us faithfully in the middle of hard callings.If you’ve ever wrestled with a God-invitation that felt costly, confusing, or overwhelming, this episode will remind you that obedience is not about having all the answers—it’s about trusting the One who calls.In this episode, you’ll hear about:Discerning God’s voice through prayer, fasting, and ScriptureThe difference between a clear calling and an easy pathHow God’s presence shows up in unexpected and challenging seasonsWhat adoption taught Megan about surrender, love, and identity in ChristThis is an invitation to lean in, listen closely, and trust that when God says go, He goes with you.Stay connected with Megan:Website: meganbnilsen.comSocial: Instagram, Facebook, LinkedInGrab the Book: Untangled Faith+Companion JournalFree Gift: 30-Day Grace + Truth (Daily) DevotionalBook a free discovery call to see if Kingdom Life Coaching could help you unlock your next right step!Grab your free New Year Reflection Journal! -> NewYearReflections.com

Ep 145 // 3 Ways to Know It’s Really God’s Voice with Nadine Mullings MurrayWhat if you could recognize when God is speaking — and actually know how to respond? In this deeply personal and practical conversation, Megan Nilsen sits down with Nadine Mullings Murray, CEO and Partner of She Elevates Media and Founder of the Women Faith + Business Community. Together they unpack how to discern God’s direction in your business, relationships, and everyday life using Nadine’s simple framework of the 3 C’s: conviction, confirmation, and clarity.A newlywed at 49, Nadine shares candidly about her decades of singleness, hiring a relationship coach, and how faith guided her into both marriage and a new business partnership. You’ll hear how she learned to balance ambition with intimacy, surrender control, and stay Spirit-led instead of coach-led or AI-led in a noisy world.If you’ve ever asked, “God, is that You - or just my own thoughts?” this episode will help you untangle the confusion, lean into peace, and take your next faithful step with confidence.Key TakeawaysHow to recognize God’s voice through conviction, confirmation, and clarityWhy imbalance—whether in business, parenting, or faith—can signal an invitation to deeper alignmentThe role of both coaching and counseling in spiritual and relational growthWhy collaboration beats competition in Kingdom businessHow to stay Spirit-led (not guru-led or AI-led) when making life and business decisionsMemorable Quotes“You can ask God for confirmation—He’s a loving Father who wants to be clear.” “It’s not just about being successful; it’s about being Spirit-led.” “We don’t have to separate faith and business—God designed them to work together.” Stay connected with Megan:Website: meganbnilsen.comSocial: Instagram, Facebook, LinkedInGrab the Book: Untangled Faith+Companion JournalFree Gift: 30-Day Grace + Truth (Daily) DevotionalBook a free discovery call to see if Kingdom Life Coaching could help you unlock your next right step!Looking for a holiday devotional? Experience the first session of Untangled Advent for Free!! --> untangledadvent.comConnect with Nadine Mullings MurrayWebsite: https://www.nadinemullings.com/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/nadinemullings/Keywords:hearing God’s voice, Spirit-led business, Christian women entrepreneurs, faith and business, confirmation and clarity, Holy Spirit guidance, Christian podcast, women of faith, discernment, purpose, calling, Nadine Mullings Murray, She Elevates Media

Ep 144 // How to Let Go and Trust God (Even When It Doesn’t Make Sense)In this heartfelt conversation originally recorded for Maria Morgan's God’s Girls Group, Megan Nilsen shares the winding, grace-filled story behind her calling as a writer, life coach, and seminary student. She opens up about the hard but holy process of surrender - how God used adoption, motherhood, and burnout to realign her identity with His voice.From her early days as a school counselor to becoming the author of A Beautiful Exchange, Untangled Faith, and Untangled Advent: Finding Hope in a Weary World, Megan reflects on how God transformed her struggle for control into a ministry of freedom. This episode will encourage you to trust God’s timing, release perfectionism, and take your next faith-filled step even when the outcome isn’t clear.Key TakeawaysSurrender leads to strength: The moments you feel weakest may be the very spaces where God wants to meet you.Calling unfolds in seasons: Writing, coaching, and ministry aren’t one-time decisions—they’re layers of obedience that grow over time.Hearing God’s voice changes everything: Journaling and reflection can help you discern His leading and align your actions with His peace.Joy reveals your purpose: What brings you deep joy often points to where God most wants to use you.Memorable Quotes:“Your highest and greatest calling isn’t motherhood or ministry—it’s intimacy with the Lord.”“The outcome becomes secondary when you feel the joy of God in what you’re doing.”“When you feel that holy restlessness, it’s often God stirring something new.”Reflection Question:What area of your life is God inviting you to loosen your grip—so He can bring something new to life through you?Stay connected with Megan:Website: meganbnilsen.comSocial: Instagram, Facebook, LinkedInGrab the Book: Untangled Faith+Companion JournalFree Gift: 30-Day Grace + Truth (Daily) DevotionalBook a free discovery call to see if Kingdom Life Coaching could help you unlock your next right step!Looking for a holiday devotional? Check out Untangled Advent here!

Ep 143 // What If Your Most Fruitful Years Are Still Ahead? Walking with Giants in the Harvest Season of Life with Author Lori MeltonWhat if midlife isn’t the end of your calling—but the ripest part of your story?In this heartfelt and hope-filled conversation, Megan Nilsen sits down with author and spiritual director Lori G. Melton, co-founder of The Sanctuary at Bear Creek Retreat Center. Together they talk about what it means to slow down, listen for God’s voice, and live fruitfully in every season—especially the “harvest years” of midlife.Lori shares how her new book Journey with a Giant was born out of her own empty-nest transition and a longing to walk with God more intimately. She introduces the beautiful practice of learning from the “great cloud of witnesses”—spiritual giants who’ve gone before us—and how their faith can guide our steps today.If you’re a woman wondering what’s next, craving deeper connection with God, or longing to see purpose in this new chapter, this conversation will remind you: the best fruit may still be growing in you.Key TakeawaysYou’re Not Done Yet: Midlife isn’t a winding down; it’s a harvest season filled with wisdom and impact.Learn from the Great Cloud of Witnesses: Discover how studying faithful believers from history can strengthen your own walk with God.The Power of Spiritual Direction: Why sacred listening helps you discern God’s “new thing” in your life.Create Space for Stillness: How solitude and “Days Alone with God” can rekindle intimacy with the Father.Fruitfulness Requires Pace: Learning to walk—not run—with God brings more lasting impact than constant productivity.Memorable Quotes“It takes some slowness in your life to discern when God’s doing a new thing.” “We’re in harvest season right now—God has spent decades building gifts in us, and now we get to give them away.” “Be still and know that I am God is not a suggestion—it’s an invitation.” “You don’t have to walk alone; the great cloud of witnesses is cheering you on.” Reflection QuestionWhat might it look like for you to slow down, listen for God’s voice, and see this next chapter as your most fruitful yet?Stay connected with Megan:Website: meganbnilsen.comSocial: Instagram, Facebook, LinkedInGrab the Book: Untangled Faith+Companion JournalFree Gift: 30-Day Grace + Truth (Daily) DevotionalBook a free discovery call to see if Kingdom Life Coaching could help you unlock your next right step!Looking for a holiday devotional? Check out Untangled Advent here!Connect with Lori G. MeltonWebsite: lorigmelton.comBook: Journey with a Giant – Learn how to walk with the faithful witnesses who’ve gone before youPodcast: The Sanctuary Stirrings (featuring the Journey with a Giant series)Facebook: Lori G. Meltonmidlife purpose, harvest season faith, spiritual direction, Journey with a Giant, Lori G. Melton, Megan Nilsen podcast, hearing God’s voice, walking with God, spiritual growth for women, Christian retreats, great cloud of witnesses, women in midlife faith, intimacy with God, spiritual renewal

Ep 142 // How to Understand Scripture (and Love It Again) with Seminarian Monica RitchieHave you ever opened your Bible and thought, “I should love this more than I do”? You want to hear God’s voice, but the words feel confusing, repetitive, or even distant. You long to experience Scripture the way others describe it—alive, personal, and powerful—but you’re not sure how to get there. If that’s you, this conversation will feel like a deep breath.In this heartfelt and eye-opening conversation, Megan Nilsen sits down with author, podcaster, and theologian Monica Ritchie to talk about what happens when you accept God’s invitation to go deeper.Monica shares how seminary took her faith “from black and white to full color,” and how learning to read Scripture with context, curiosity, and humility can completely transform the way you relate to God. Together, Megan and Monica unpack how theology becomes embodied in our everyday lives—and how a more accurate understanding of the Bible leads to greater intimacy, not just information.Whether you’ve been walking with Jesus for decades or are just rediscovering your faith, this episode will give you practical tools and spiritual encouragement to fall in love with God’s Word all over again.Key Takeaways:Faith in Color: When you learn to read Scripture deeply, your faith becomes vibrant, not formulaic.Hearing God’s Invitation: God’s leading often feels like an impression or invitation, not a loud command.Theology in Real Life: What you believe about God shapes how you love, lead, and live—it’s not just head knowledge.Permission to Slow Down: You don’t need to “finish” your Bible reading plan; you need to linger with God.Read with Curiosity: You can honor God’s Word by asking questions, studying context, and inviting the Holy Spirit to illuminate truth.Favorite Quotes:“Seminary took my faith from black and white and moved it into a whole lot of color.”“The goal of hearing God’s voice isn’t certainty—it’s intimacy.” “Before I’m broken, I’m loved. That truth changes how much grace I give myself and others.”“If we love the Bible so much, why wouldn’t we want to learn to read it well?”Reflection Question:Where might God be inviting you to slow down and see His Word with fresh eyes?Stay connected with Megan:Website: meganbnilsen.comSocial: Instagram, Facebook, LinkedInGrab the Book: Untangled Faith+Companion JournalFree Gift: 30-Day Grace + Truth (Daily) DevotionalBook a free discovery call to see if Kingdom Life Coaching could help you unlock your next right step!Connect with Monica Ritchie:Website: MonicaRitchie.com → Download her free Read Your Bible Better guide.Instagram: @itsmonicaritchiePodcast: Theologically FashionedUpcoming Book: Fashioned by Faith (Releasing August 2026)how to read the Bible, understanding Scripture, Christian women podcast, grow your faith, Bible study tips, hearing God’s voice, spiritual formation, women in theology, love God’s Word again, how to study the Bible

Ep 141 // Is Hearing God the Ultimate Growth Tool? Business Strategist Bryan Harris Says, Yes!What would shift in your life and business if you truly believed God speaks—and that He wants to guide you in real, practical ways?In this powerful conversation, Megan sits down with Bryan Harris, founder of Growth Tools, to talk about his journey from pragmatic marketer to Kingdom entrepreneur who has learned to listen to God’s voice in every area of life. From healing prayers at his kitchen table to business breakthroughs that defied logic, Bryan shares candid stories of how God turned his “whiteboard strategies” upside down—and why hearing from God is the ultimate growth tool.If you’ve ever wondered whether God still speaks today—or how to discern His voice in the midst of daily decisions—you’ll walk away with fresh hope, practical frameworks, and an invitation to deeper relationship with Him.Key TakeawaysGod still speaks—and He wants to guide you. Bryan discovered that asking God simple questions opened the door to profound transformation.Your biggest business breakthrough may look illogical. When Bryan took a sabbatical during a tough revenue season, God multiplied results beyond what his team thought possible.Hearing God’s voice isn’t just about strategy—it’s about relationship. God’s primary goal is time with us and teaching us to trust Him.Discernment happens best in community. Inviting others into the process helps filter God’s voice from personal bias or confusion.Everyone can hear God. The key is creating space, listening without filters, and testing what you hear through Scripture and godly community.Quotes“If that’s true—that you can ask God a question and He will answer—it should be on the front of the brochure when you walk into church.” “God’s number one optimization point is relationship with us—time together and talking together.” “You can’t listen to God, follow Him, and end in death. It is impossible.” “Our job isn’t to decide what’s good and bad—it’s to listen, obey, and trust the One who does know.” Reflection QuestionWhere in your life or business are you relying more on your own whiteboard strategies than on God’s voice? What might shift if you paused, listened, and trusted His leading instead?Stay connected with Megan:Website:meganbnilsen.comSocial:Instagram,Facebook,LinkedInGrab the Book:Untangled Faith+Companion JournalFree Gift:30-Day Grace + Truth (Daily) DevotionalBook a free discovery callto see if Kingdom Life Coaching could help you unlock your next right step!Connect with BryanWebsite: growthtools.com – Get 7 days of free coaching and learn how to build high-ticket coaching offers while listening to God in the process.hearing God’s voicehow to hear GodGod and businessChristian entrepreneurshipfaith-based businessKingdom businesslistening prayerdiscerning God’s voiceGod’s guidancespiritual discernmenthearing God in businessBryan Harris Growth ToolsChristian life coach podcasthow to hear God’s voice clearlylearning to trust Godfollowing God’s leadingHoly Spirit guidanceKingdom life coachingpractical faithbusiness and faith integration

Ep 140 // What Does God’s Impartial Love Really Mean—and How Do We Live It Out? With Bible Teacher Oghosa IyamuIn this powerful conversation, Megan Nilsen sits down with Bible teacher and author Oghosa Iyamu to unpack what Scripture means when it says God’s love is impartial. Together they explore why impartial love matters in a culture driven by comparison, comfort, and competition—and how embracing it can transform your faith, relationships, and daily obedience.Key TakeawaysGod’s Impartial Love Defined – Oghosa explains the difference between God’s impartiality (He doesn’t judge by outward status) and His impartial love (His radical hospitality that welcomes the undeserving through Christ).Small Acts of Bold Faith – Faithfulness isn’t only about big leaps like moving across the country; it’s about everyday obedience, like posting a vulnerable message or showing up when it feels uncomfortable.Breaking Comparison Traps – Both Megan and Oghosa share their struggles with hiding behind others’ ministries and the courage to step forward in their own God-given calling.Comfort, Competencies, and Comparison – Oghosa challenges the church to evaluate how these three cultural values sometimes replace God’s impartial perspective.Audience of One – A reminder to anchor our worth in Christ, not likes, followers, or human approval.Quotable Quotes:“Sometimes it’s harder to be faithful in the small moments than the big moments—because only God sees them.” “God’s impartial love is His radical and generous hospitality to welcome the undeserving.” “It can look spiritual to hide behind other people’s ministries, but often we’re really avoiding rejection.” “God is the one who empowers. He gives the gift and the wisdom to know how and when to use it.” If you’ve ever wrestled with comparison, doubted God’s goodness in hard seasons, or longed to fully believe His love is for you, this episode will encourage and equip you.Stay connected with Megan:Website:meganbnilsen.comSocial:Instagram, Facebook, LinkedInGrab the Book:Untangled Faith+ Companion JournalFree Gift:30-Day Grace + Truth (Daily) DevotionalBook a free discovery callto see if Kingdom Life Coaching could help you unlock your next right step!📖 Learn more about Oghosa’s new Bible study Forever Welcomed and discover how God’s impartial love changes everything.Follow Oghosa on InstagramKeywords:God’s impartial loveimpartiality in the BibleGod’s love and justicehearing God’s voicefaith and obedienceChristian callingKingdom life coachingBible study on God’s loveliving for the audience of Onehow to trust God’s love

Ep 139 // Chasing the Wrong Dream? How to Discern God’s True Call for You with Online Business Coach Stefanie GassWhat happens when everything you’ve built crumbles, your identity feels lost, and God asks you to surrender the very things you’ve clung to for success? In this episode, I sit down with Stefanie Gass—Christian business and podcast coach, mom of two boys, and seven-figure CEO—who shares her powerful journey from chasing worldly success in network marketing to radically aligning her life and business with God’s call.You’ll hear how God spoke to her in a dream with the words “Start a podcast,” how she learned to recognize her “discernment alarms,” and how surrendering idols like alcohol and social media opened doors she never imagined. This conversation is a masterclass in letting go, tuning in to the Holy Spirit, and walking in bold obedience—even when you don’t know the outcome.Key Takeaways:🌱 Discernment alarms—how to recognize unrest in your spirit as God’s nudge to pivot.🕊️ The role of surrender and prayer in uncovering your true calling.🔑 Why social media can become an idol—and how stepping away can create space for God’s direction.🎧 The story behind Stefanie’s God-given podcast dream and how obedience led to exponential growth.🙌 Kingdom ROI vs. worldly ROI: why God’s results look different (and better).Quotable Quotes: “Earthly success is fleeting. It’s built on nothing—and it can be gone in an instant.”“Your discernment alarms are the Holy Spirit saying, enough. Will you listen?” “You only live one time. Borrow God’s confidence and take the shot.” Reflection Questions:What “discernment alarms” have been going off in your life lately?Are there any areas where you may be rationalizing an idol rather than surrendering it?What small, obedient step could you take today to make space for God’s direction?How would your business, family, or faith shift if you trusted God’s Kingdom ROI over worldly results?Connect with Stefanie Gass:Website: stefaniegass.comPodcast: Online Business for Christian WomenFree 5-Day Bootcamp: The Profitable Podcast Bootcamp – use code MEGAN at checkout to join free!Stay connected with Megan:Website: meganbnilsen.comSocial: Instagram, Facebook, LinkedInGrab the Book: Untangled Faith+ Companion JournalFree Gift: 30-Day Grace + Truth (Daily) DevotionalBook a free discovery call to see if Kingdom Life Coaching could help you unlock your next right step!Keywords:Stefanie Gass interview, Christian business coach, Kingdom business, faith based entrepreneur, hearing God’s voice, discernment, God’s calling, Christian podcast coach, Spirit led business, Christian women entrepreneurs, overcoming burnout, letting go of idols, Kingdom ROI, starting a podcast God’s way, faith and business, Christian coaching, social media detox, surrendering success, building a God centered business, podcast growth without social media, obedience to God’s call, discernment alarms, walking in faith, Christian business podcast

Ep 138 // Speaking the Truth in Love…and Learning to Hear It Too: Practicing Charitable Orthodoxy What if speaking the truth in love is only half the equation? What if real spiritual maturity also requires us to hear the truth in love? In this episode, Megan unpacks the concept of charitable orthodoxy — holding tightly to the core truths of our faith while relating to one another with humility, grace, and respect.Key TakeawaysWhat charitable orthodoxy is and why it matters for Christians today.The difference between truth without love (harshness) and love without truth (relativism).Why people often misinterpret what we say — but rarely misinterpret themselves.How Denver Seminary frames charitable orthodoxy as a posture of listening before speaking.The Grace & Truth Matrix from Gravity Leadership: Hang Out, Check Out, Call Out, Call In.Practical steps you can take to embody conviction and compassion in your relationships.Key Quotes“People don’t always hear what we meant to say. They only hear it through their own lens.”“Charitable orthodoxy isn’t weakness. Being charitable is Kingdom strength.”“Giving truth in love takes courage. Receiving truth in love takes humility.”“Let’s be kind people who don’t just defend the truth, but dignify the person across from us by listening well.”Journal + Reflection QuestionsWhen was the last time you spoke truth without much love? What happened?When was the last time you avoided speaking truth in order to “keep the peace”? Why?How do people experience you — more grace-heavy, truth-heavy, or balanced?What assumptions or biases might be coloring the way you hear others?In which relationships is God inviting you to move from “calling out” to “calling in”?Stay connected with Megan:Website: meganbnilsen.comSocial: Instagram, Facebook, LinkedInGrab the Book: Untangled Faith+Companion JournalFree Gift: 30-Day Grace + Truth (Daily) DevotionalBook a free discovery call to see if Kingdom Life Coaching could help you unlock your next right step!

Ep 137 // Living with Legacy: Vision, Mission & Family Impact with Leadership CoachSharon Mankin (Part 2)What kind of legacy are you leaving? In Part Two of my conversation with life and leadership coach Sharon Mankin, we build on the foundation of core values and move into the bigger picture: living with vision, mission, and legacy. Sharon shares personal stories, practical coaching wisdom, and real tools her family uses—like their written vision and mission statements—to shape impact that lasts for generations. Whether you’re entering a new life season or simply longing for more intentional living, this episode will help you take the next step. (*If you haven't listened to Ep 136 // Part One, Hearing God’s Voice & Discovering Your Core Values - go do that now!)What You’ll Learn in Part Two:How to navigate life transitions like empty nesting with clarity and peace.Questions to help you discern your commitments in a new season.Why legacy is shaped by everyday choices, not just big milestones.How to create a family vision and mission statement that reflects your values.The “Three Vs” framework Sharon’s family lives by: Vision, Values, Verbiage.Quotable Moment:“Legacy isn’t only what’s written in your eulogy—it’s what people feel when you walk away.”Stay connected with Megan:Website: meganbnilsen.comSocial: Instagram, Facebook, LinkedInGrab the Book: Untangled Faith+Companion JournalFree Gift: Wanna learn how to make Holy Spirit-led decisions? Go to holyspiritstoplight.comfor your free guide!Book a free discovery call to see if Kingdom Life Coaching could help you unlock your next right step!Want to explore your dream? Grab this free resource! 5 Questions to Ask to Determine Your God-Sized DreamConnect with Sharon:Website: sharonmankin.comKeywords: Sharon Mankin interviewKingdom Life Coaching podcastcore values coachingfamily mission statementcreating a family visionChristian legacy buildingintentional livingspiritual leadership in familyliving aligned with valuesfamily discipleshipbuilding a legacy of faithChristian women leadershipempty nest transitionnavigating life seasonslegacy and impactvision and values frameworkgenerational faith impactChristian coaching insightsmission-driven livingliving with eternal perspective

Ep 136 // Hearing God’s Voice & Discovering Your Core Values with Leadership Coach Sharon Mankin (Part 1)Do you ever wonder how to recognize God’s voice in your everyday life? In Part One of this powerful conversation, I sit down with life and leadership coach Sharon Mankin to explore her faith journey and how she’s learned to listen for God’s whisper. Sharon shares deeply practical tools—like journaling “wondrous things” in Scripture and embracing the awkward moments that lead to authentic connection. We also begin unpacking the importance of core values as the foundation for how we live, love, and lead.What You’ll Learn in Part One:Sharon’s first unforgettable moment hearing God say, “Come, follow Me.”The practice of writing “WT” (wondrous things) in your Bible to mark God’s voice.How awkwardness often becomes the doorway to connection and growth.Why prayer “on the spot” can transform daily faith.A first look at core values—what they are and why they shape everything.Quotable Moment:“Maybe awkwardness is just the doorway God uses to show us a wondrous thing.”Note: This is Part One of my conversation with Sharon. Don’t miss Part Two, where we go deeper into legacy, vision, and mission—and you’ll walk away with practical steps to create intentional impact in your family and community.Stay connected with Megan:Website: meganbnilsen.comSocial: Instagram, Facebook, LinkedInGrab the Book: Untangled Faith+Companion JournalFree Gift: Wanna learn how to make Holy Spirit-led decisions? Go to holyspiritstoplight.comfor your free guide!Book a free discovery call to see if Kingdom Life Coaching could help you unlock your next right step!Want to explore your dream? Grab this free resource! 5 Questions to Ask to Determine Your God-Sized DreamConnect with Sharon:Website: sharonmankin.comKeywords: hearing God’s voicehow to hear Godrecognizing God’s voiceSharon Mankin interviewKingdom Life Coaching podcastspiritual discernmentjournaling with Godwondrous things Bible practiceprayer on the spotChristian spiritual growthawkward but holy conversationsfaith journey storiescore values introductionChristian women mentorsliving aligned with valuespractical faith toolsintimacy with Godbuilding a foundation of faithHoly Spirit nudgesChristian coaching insights

Ep 135 // Singing Through the Fire: Lara Silverman on Chronic Illness, Surrender, Love, and a Theology of SufferingWhat happens when it seems God opens the door to your dream job…and then, the door slams shut?Lara Silverman—a Stanford-educated lawyer, jazz singer, actress, and now author—was on the cusp of a thriving career when a rare neurological illness left her largely bedridden. In this raw and hope-filled conversation, Lara shares her powerful journey through suffering, surrender, and a breathtaking love story with her late husband, Matt.With honesty, humor, and deep faith, Lara invites us to wrestle with the hard questions: Why does a good God allow suffering? How do you keep hope alive when healing doesn’t come? Can beauty really rise from ashes?Her new memoir, Singing Through the Fire, is not just a story—it’s a testimony of courage, intimacy with Jesus, and a love that even death cannot extinguish.Key Takeaways:Surrender in the Valley: What Lara learned when God asked her to release her dream job and later her health.Theology of Suffering: Why prosperity gospel clichés don’t hold up in the face of chronic illness—and what Scripture really says.A Holy Love Story: How God brought Matt into her life at the height of her illness, and the eternal hope their marriage continues to embody.Finding God’s Intimacy in Pain: How surrender opened space for Lara to experience God’s presence in powerful ways.Eternal Perspective: Why heaven reframes our questions about love, loss, and the goodness of God.Quotable Quotes:“Trust me in confusion. Trust me when this doesn’t make sense.” – Lara Silverman“The story never ends in tragedy. Sometimes the redemption just takes until eternity.” – Lara Silverman“A wild and holy hope is what God offers—even in the middle of suffering.” – Megan NilsenResources & Links:Buy Lara’s Memoir → Singing Through the Fire (Available now on Amazon)Follow Lara Silverman on Instagram: @singingthroughfire_authorStay connected with Megan:Website: meganbnilsen.comSocial: Instagram, Facebook, LinkedInGrab the Book: Untangled Faith + Companion JournalFree Gift: Wanna learn how to make Holy Spirit-led decisions? Go to holyspiritstoplight.com for your free guide!Book a free discovery call to see if Kingdom Life Coaching could help you unlock your next right step!Keywords/Concepts: Lara Silverman memoirSinging Through the Fire bookChristian memoir sufferingfaith and chronic illnesstheology of suffering podcastChristian hope in sufferingsurrender to God’s willhearing God’s voice in hard timeslove story in sufferingChristian encouragement podcastChristian marriageGrief and loss

Ep 134 // Brave Women, Mighty God: Saying Yes to the Holy Spirit with Author Laura L. SmithWhat does it look like to follow the Holy Spirit’s nudge—especially when it’s risky, countercultural, or downright scary? Best-selling author Laura L. Smith joins me to share her journey of saying “yes” to God’s call—from corporate careers to seminary studies, from motherhood to ministry. Together, we unpack the lies women believe, the courage found in biblical women’s stories, and the everyday ways God nudges us toward Kingdom impact.If you’ve ever wondered, “How do I know if it’s God’s voice?” or felt the tension between fear and faith, this episode will strengthen your courage and remind you that God equips you for every calling.Quotable Quotes:“As far as ways to hear from the Lord, making time for Him is a great way to hear from Him.” – Laura L. Smith“God empowers and equips us to do crazy things that have huge ripple effects.” – Laura L. Smith“Sometimes hearing God isn’t an audible voice—it’s peace after prayer, a word from a friend, or even a poem on a chalkboard.” – Megan Nilsen“We so underestimate what we are capable of. We make ourselves much smaller than God ever intended us to be.” – Laura L. SmithKey Takeaways:God’s voice is personal – He speaks uniquely to each of us through Scripture, prayer, community, journaling, and even unexpected signs.Courage is cultivated – Like Esther, Mary, and Hannah, bravery grows through prayer, fasting, and trust in God’s promises.Your yes matters – Whether it’s leaving a career, stepping into seminary, or sharing your faith with a neighbor, your obedience has ripple effects beyond what you can see.Truth replaces lies – God’s Word calls us chosen, holy, and His masterpiece—no matter what lies we’ve believed about ourselves.Faith is contagious – Living authentically and openly as a believer invites others to ask questions and see Jesus in you.Resources & Contact Info:📖 Connect with Laura L. Smith:Instagram: @laurasmithauthorWebsite: www.laurasmithauthor.comBook: Brave Woman, Might God: 30 Things You Can DoGrab a FREE CHAPTER of Laura's book here! ✨ Stay connected with Megan:Website: meganbnilsen.comSocial: Instagram, Facebook, LinkedInGrab the Book: Untangled Faith + Companion JournalFree Gift: Wanna learn how to make Holy Spirit-led decisions? Go to holyspiritstoplight.com for your free guide!Book a free discovery call to see if Kingdom Life Coaching could help you unlock your next right step!👉 If this episode encouraged you, share it with a friend, leave a review, and subscribe so you don’t miss future conversations on hearing God’s voice and living with Kingdom courage.Keywords:Laura L. Smith authorBrave Woman Mighty GodChristian women couragehearing God’s voiceHoly Spirit nudgesKingdom living podcastwomen of the Bible braveryChristian seminary journey

Ep 133 // Warfare Parenting: Praying for Your Prodigal Children with Author Laine Lawson Craft What do you do when your children walk away from the faith you’ve worked so hard to instill? Today, Megan Nilsen sits down with Laine Lawson Craft—best-selling author, speaker, and host of the Warfare Parenting podcast—to talk about the power of prayer in the lives of prodigal children.Laine shares her powerful journey of interceding for her three children through seasons of depression, addiction, and struggle, and how God miraculously brought each one back to Him. This heartfelt conversation will equip you with practical strategies, renewed hope, and spiritual encouragement to keep standing in the gap for your kids.If you’ve ever felt weary, discouraged, or ready to give up, this episode is your reminder: the battle belongs to the Lord, and no child is too far from His reach.Key TakeawaysWhy the real battle for our children is spiritual—not just behavioral.How to “plead the blood of Jesus” over your kids in prayer.Stories of God’s miraculous intervention in Laine’s family.How to persevere when the answers to your prayers don’t come quickly.Practical encouragement for parents of prodigal teens and young adults.Quotable Quotes“You’re not battling your child—you’re battling the darkness that wants to steal, kill, and destroy.” – Laine Lawson Craft“God’s mercy runs deeper than any mess our kids can find themselves in.” – Laine Lawson Craft“Never underestimate the power of a praying parent.” – Megan NilsenReflection + Journal QuestionReflection: Where have you felt weary in praying for your children or loved ones? How can you shift from striving to surrendering those battles to the Lord?Journal with God: “Lord, what do You want me to know about the way You are pursuing my child’s heart right now?”📚Resources & LinksConnect with Laine Lawson Craft: lainelawsoncraft.comBooks by Laine: The Parent’s Battle Plan and Warfare Parenting DevotionalConnect with Megan Nilsen:Website: meganbnilsen.comSocial: Instagram, Facebook, LinkedInGrab the Book: Untangled Faith + Companion JournalFree Gift: Wanna learn how to make Holy Spirit-led decisions? Go to holyspiritstoplight.comfor your free guide!Book a free discovery call to see if Kingdom Life Coaching could help you unlock your next right step!If this conversation encouraged you, share it with a friend who’s in the thick of parenting struggles. And don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode that equips you to live with clarity, courage, and Kingdom purpose.Key search words for this episode: Laine Lawson CraftWarfare Parenting podcastChristian parenting podcastparenting prodigalspraying for prodigal childrenspiritual warfare parentinghow to pray for your kidsparents battle plan bookChristian mom encouragementWarefare Parenting

Ep 132 // The Spiritual Power of an Organized Life with Professional Organizer Tracy HothWhat if decluttering your home or workspace could also declutter your soul? In this episode of the Kingdom Life Coaching podcast, Megan Nilsen sits down with certified life coach and professional organizer Tracy Hoth to explore how organization can be a deeply spiritual practice. Tracy shares her personal testimony, her journey from professional organizing to Kingdom-focused life coaching, and the practical ways she integrates faith into everyday systems.Whether you’re looking to simplify your life, create a more peaceful home, or align your daily habits with your faith, this conversation offers both practical tools and spiritual encouragement. Learn how to see your possessions through a Kingdom lens, steward what you have with intentionality, and even use journaling to hear God’s voice more clearly.What You’ll Learn in This Episode:How decluttering can deepen your connection with GodTracy’s faith journey and calling to help others live with intentionStep-by-step tips for organizing your home, office, or digital lifeThe power of Beautiful Exchange journaling to process life with GodHow to steward your possessions with a Kingdom mindsetConnect with Megan Nilsen:Website: meganbnilsen.comSocial: Instagram, Facebook, LinkedInGrab the Book: Untangled Faith + Companion Journal Free Gift: Wanna learn how to make Holy Spirit-led decisions? Go toholyspiritstoplight.comfor your free guide!Book a free discovery callto see if Kingdom Life Coaching could help you unlock your next right step!About Tracy Hoth:Tracy Hoth is a certified life coach and professional organizer with over 17 years of experience helping individuals and entrepreneurs create calm, organized environments. Through her business, Simply Squared Away, she equips people to clear the physical and mental clutter so they can focus on what truly matters. Learn more at simplysquaredaway.com.Resources & Links Mentioned in This Episode:Visit simplysquaredaway.com for free resources and coachingLearn more about Beautiful Exchange journaling at meganbnilsen.comKeywords:Organization, Decluttering Tips, ChristianLifeCoach, Faith and Organization, SpiritualGrowth, Minimalism With Faith, KingdomMindset, ChristianPodcast, Home Organization, DeclutterYourMindSubscribe & Review:If you loved today’s episode, please subscribe to the Kingdom Life Coaching podcast and leave a review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify. Your feedback helps more people discover how to live with clarity, peace, and Kingdom purpose.