Now You May Kiss Podcast with Chanelle Carlin, your Celebrant for Life
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Welcome to the Now You May Kiss™ Podcast, where love stories come to life. I’m Chanelle Carlin, professional Wedding Officiant and your Celebrant for Life™. In this podcast, we’ll explore everything you need to celebrate your one-of-a-kind love story with an unforgettable & deeply personal wedding ceremony. We’ll discuss various aspects of planning your special ceremony and a marriage that lasts. Each episode aims to make your journey to the altar and forever as smooth and joyous as possible. You can find show notes and links on the podcast page of our website at www.chanellecarlin.com.
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A short and heartfelt check-in from Chanelle.After a quieter month, she shares a personal update—navigating a family health scare, settling into a new home, and honoring the need for rest in an unexpected season.She also shares some exciting news:Now You May Kiss has been nominated for a Women Podcasters Award in the Society & Culture category.If this podcast has ever resonated with you, your vote would mean so much. Voting is open April 1–30.https://www.womenpodcasters.com/awards-nominees?page=5Regular episodes return next week—with more meaningful conversations, beautiful love stories, and intentional guidance for your marriage journey.
What happens when love, marriage, and entrepreneurship all intersect?In this episode of the Now You May Kiss Podcast, Chanelle sits down with transformational relationship expert Annie Yatch, who helps entrepreneurial couples strengthen both their partnership and their business.Annie’s work focuses on helping high-performing couples dismantle subconscious patterns of control, competition, and unresolved trauma so they can lead—and love—with deeper connection and unity.Together, Chanelle and Annie explore how couples can shift from conflict to connection, navigate feedback without defensiveness, and transform their relationship into their greatest leadership asset.You’ll hear practical tools for improving communication, resolving conflict with compassion, and creating a shared vision for the life and business you’re building together.If you’re an entrepreneurial couple—or simply committed to building a strong, intentional marriage—this conversation will give you powerful insights to strengthen your relationship.In this episode you’ll learn:Why many relationship conflicts are driven by subconscious “stories”How couples can identify and shift the narratives that create disconnectionThe importance of defining your relationship’s desired emotional statePractical techniques for navigating conflict with compassionA powerful framework for giving and receiving feedback without triggering defensivenessWhy the goal in conflict should always be to “race back to connection”Because a thriving marriage isn’t accidental—it’s intentional.
Destination Weddings Done Right with Carolyn Kulb of Windward PathDid you know that 1 in 4 couples is now choosing a destination wedding?In this episode of the Now You May Kiss (TM) Podcast, Chanelle Carlin welcomes back luxury travel advisor Carolyn Kulb, owner of Windward Path, to talk all things destination weddings.From European villas to mountaintop elopements in the Pacific Northwest, Carolyn shares who destination weddings are perfect for — and who should think twice. They discuss legal vs. symbolic ceremonies, managing guest logistics, travel insurance, budgeting realities, weather considerations, and how to build the right team so you’re not overwhelmed.If you’re dreaming of saying “I do” somewhere extraordinary — or wondering whether a destination wedding is truly right for you — this episode will help you plan wisely and beautifully.
Guest: Vic (Victoria) Thomas – New Zealand Celebrant & Founder of My CelebrantIn this heartfelt and globally-minded episode of *Now You May Kiss™, Wedding Officiant and Celebrant for Life™ Chanelle Carlin sits down with Vic (Victoria) Thomas, a New Zealand-based marriage celebrant and the founder of My Celebrant—the world’s first celebrant-specific business management platform.Together, Chanelle and Vic explore what it truly means to be a celebrant: not just someone who officiates weddings, but a professional who holds space for life’s most meaningful milestones. From deeply personal ceremony creation and micro-weddings, to building sustainable, heart-led businesses that support family life, this conversation beautifully blends love stories with leadership.Vic shares how becoming a celebrant — and later a mother of three — inspired her to rethink systems, boundaries, and client experience, ultimately leading to the creation of the mycelebrant app, now live in New Zealand, Australia, the UK, and Ireland. The episode also reflects on the sacred impact of marriage itself, the shifts that occur after “I do,” and the privilege celebrants hold as witnesses to love, legacy, and lifelong commitment.Whether you’re a couple planning a meaningful wedding, a celebrant seeking alignment and sustainability, or someone who believes in the power of intentional ceremony, this episode will leave you inspired, grounded, and full of hope.
Now You May Kiss™ Podcast | Featuring Carter Eve of Carter Eve JewelryWhat makes an engagement ring truly meaningful? In this episode of the Now You May Kiss™ podcast, Chanelle Carlin sits down with Carter, founder and designer of Carter Eve Jewelry, for a heartfelt conversation about intention, craftsmanship, sustainability, and honoring love stories through thoughtful design.Carter shares her journey from a childhood fascination with gemstones to becoming a formally trained fine jewelry designer with degrees from SCAD and RISD, and an apprenticeship under a master goldsmith. Together, Chanelle and Carter explore why engagement rings and heirloom jewelry should never be one-size-fits-all — just like weddings and marriages themselves.From reimagining family heirloom pieces into modern, wearable designs, to practical advice on caring for fine jewelry, appraisals, and insurance, this episode is filled with wisdom for couples who want their rings to reflect who they truly are — not outdated rules or trends.If you’re newly engaged, planning to propose, or dreaming of a ring that reflects your lifestyle, values, and story, this episode is a must-listen.About our guest:Carter Eve is a Los Angeles–based fine jewelry designer known for creating modern heirlooms with timeless intention. Classically trained as a goldsmith, she specializes in custom engagement rings, wedding bands, and heirloom transformations—reimagining meaningful pieces for a new chapter. Each design is rooted in thoughtful craftsmanship, refined materials, and the belief that jewelry should be both deeply personal and made to last a lifetime.
Veils are more than an accessory — they’re a moment, a memory, and often the finishing touch that transforms a beautiful dress into a wedding look.In this episode of the Now You May Kiss™ Podcast, host Chanelle Carlin sits down with Bethany Spence, owner and lead designer of August Veils in Portland, Oregon. Bethany shares her serendipitous journey into the bridal industry, how she came to lead one of the Pacific Northwest’s most beloved veil studios, and why veils continue to hold timeless significance for modern brides.Together, Chanelle and Bethany explore:The evolving traditions of wedding veilsHow veils can elevate, balance, and personalize a bridal lookModern veil trends, from lace and blushers to vintage-inspired stylesPractical advice for outdoor weddings, wind, and veil securityThe beauty of heirloom veil restoration and multi-generational wedding piecesWhen (and how) to choose the right veil — even if you think you’re “not a veil bride”Whether you’re newly engaged, planning an outdoor wedding, or drawn to meaningful heirloom details, this episode offers thoughtful insight and expert guidance from a true artisan of bridal design.🎧 Tune in and discover how the right veil can complete your wedding-day story.
Gratitude, Growth & Joy in Ceremony: A 2025 Reflection with Christopher ShelleyIn this special year-end episode of Now You May Kiss™, Chanelle Carlin is joined once again by her dear friend and fellow officiant, Christopher Shelley of Illuminating Ceremonies—marking his fourth appearance on the podcast.Together, Chanelle and Chris reflect on the journey of 2025, sharing meaningful wedding stories, lessons learned, and the gratitude that anchors both their personal lives and professional callings. From the joy of loving spouses to the honor of walking alongside couples on one of the most important days of their lives, this conversation is a heartfelt reminder of why ceremony matters.They also offer thoughtful guidance for:Wedding professionals, encouraging continued learning, courage, and the willingness to simply do the thing.Couples planning their 2026 weddings, with empowering reminders to trust their instincts, design a wedding that reflects who they truly are, and hire experienced professionals they can trust—especially a wedding planner who allows them to fully enjoy their day without stress.At its core, this episode celebrates the role officiants play in fostering joy, presence, and connection in the room—because that’s what we do.A meaningful, gratitude-filled close to the year, and an inspiring invitation into the weddings yet to come.Thank you for an incredible year! - Chanelle
What if celebration wasn’t about perfection—but about presence, play, and connection?In this joy-filled episode of the Now You May Kiss™ Podcast, host Chanelle Carlin sits down with Cindy Shaw, founder of Color Collective by Cindy Shaw, to explore how creativity brings people together in deeply meaningful ways. After decades in the corporate world, Cindy traded spreadsheets for paintbrushes and built a business rooted in three simple yet powerful values: create, connect, and flourish.Together, Chanelle and Cindy talk about the healing power of creativity, why art is for everyone (even those who “can’t draw”), and how painting parties are becoming a heartfelt alternative for bridal showers, bachelorette gatherings, and multi-generational celebrations. They also discuss the importance of human connection in a post-2020 world—and why carving out time for creative play is essential for our mental, emotional, and relational well-being.Whether you’re planning a wedding celebration, craving more connection with the people you love, or simply looking for permission to feel like a kid again, this episode will inspire you to slow down, pick up a paintbrush, and rediscover the joy of creating—together.No experience required. Just a willingness to show up and have fun.
Are you dreaming of a wedding day that feels deeply meaningful and aligned with your values? In this episode, I’m joined by Kiira Portet, owner of Evergreen Event Company—a Seattle-based wedding and elopement planner who specializes in intentional, eco-conscious celebrations.Together, we explore how couples can create smaller, more intimate weddings that are rich in love, connection, and presence… all while reducing waste and honoring the environment. Kiira shares practical ways to incorporate sustainability, why “small” doesn’t mean “simple” (or low-budget!), and how focusing on your why can guide every choice you make.We also discuss the role a planner plays in elopements and micro-weddings, the movement toward sustainability in the wedding industry, and Kiira’s leadership with Emerald Hour, a Seattle-based collective advancing eco-friendly practices among wedding professionals.If you’re looking to plan an intimate celebration that reflects your values, your love story, and your vision for your marriage, this episode is for you.
Are you looking for a wedding venue that feels like a full-weekend celebration?In this episode of the Now You May Kiss™ Podcast, Chanelle sits down with Kyra Skaggs, General Manager of the Blue Elk Inn in Leavenworth, WA, to explore why this independently owned boutique hotel is quickly becoming a beloved destination for intimate weddings and family-centered gatherings. With 31 rooms, a beautifully landscaped backyard wedding space, onsite amenities including breakfast, a pool, hot tub, saunas, and cruiser bikes, plus its convenient location (less than a mile from downtown Leavenworth), the Blue Elk Inn offers couples the perfect blend of rustic elegance, modern comfort, and mountain-town charm. We talk about:*Creating a meaningful wedding weekend experience*Working with Ashley Coffin and her team at The Local Event Co for planning and rentals*Full-property buyouts and keeping loved ones together onsite*Seasonal wedding options—yes, even magical winter weddings in the snow*Why Leavenworth is the perfect destination for guestsIf you're dreaming of a cozy mountain ceremony, a relaxed outdoor celebration, or simply a venue where everyone you love can stay together in one beautiful place, this episode will give you a true feel for the magic of Blue Elk Inn weddings.Learn more at: www.blueelkleavenworth.com and www.thelocaleventco.com
What does love really mean — and how do we prepare ourselves for the kind of relationship that lasts?In this heart-opening episode of the Now You May Kiss™ Podcast, Chanelle sits down with Elizabeth Rave, dating and relationship coach for highly sensitive women and host of the Seeking True Love Now podcast.Together, they explore:What love actually is beyond fairy tales and cultural scriptsHow Elizabeth learned to understand her deepest emotional needsWhy falling in love is one of the most vulnerable — and courageous — choices we ever makeHow to create clarity, confidence, and alignment before committing to a lifelong partnershipElizabeth shares powerful insights from her own journey of emotional healing, self-awareness, and redefining what devotion looks like — wisdom she now uses to help others call in the healthy, committed relationship they deserve.Whether you're dating, newly engaged, or decades into marriage, this episode invites you to reflect, grow, and love with intention.Learn more about Elizabeth’s work at ElizabethRave.comhttps://podfollow.com/seeking-true-love
When love finds you again after divorce, how do you help your children feel safe, seen, and supported through this new chapter?In this heartfelt episode, Chanelle Carlin sits down with Rosalind Sedacca, CLC — Certified Life Coach, Divorce & Parenting Coach, and founder of the Child-Centered Divorce Network — to talk about how parents can lovingly guide their children when they plan to remarry.Rosalind shares compassionate insights on:creating open conversations about remarriage;helping children navigate jealousy, loyalty conflicts, and change;introducing a new partner with patience and respect; androle-modeling healthy love and emotional honesty.Whether you’re a parent entering a new marriage or a professional supporting blended families, this episode offers warmth, wisdom, and hope for everyone walking the path of love after loss.Learn more about Rosalind’s work at childcentereddivorce.com.
There’s something magical about saying I do while snowflakes fall and twinkle lights glow all around you. In this cozy, story-filled episode, host Chanelle Carlin, Professional Wedding Officiant and Your Celebrant for Life™, invites you to imagine the wonder of a Christmas elopement in the Bavarian village of Leavenworth, Washington.From couples who’ve exchanged vows under the town Christmas tree, in candlelit cabins, and beside frozen lakes, to practical tips for planning your own snowy celebration, this episode blends romance and reality — with heartwarming stories, laughter, and a sprinkle of holiday sparkle.Featuring:Real Christmas love stories from couples like Daryl & Katelyn, Janelle & Tom, John & Katherine, Lacey & Matt, and Dylan & TeishPractical winter elopement planning tipsA spotlight on the Leavenworth Wedding Show (October 25, 2025)Resources and inspiration at Leavenworth.orgWhether you’re newly engaged, planning a winter wedding, or simply love a good love story, this episode will warm your heart — one snowflake at a time.
Your honeymoon isn’t just your first trip as a married couple — it’s your first opportunity to practice being a team in real life. But between wedding planning, endless destination ideas, and the pressure to “get it right,” planning the perfect honeymoon can feel overwhelming — even for high-achieving couples.In this episode, Chanelle Carlin, your Celebrant for Life™ and host of the Now You May Kiss™ Podcast, sits down with Carolyn Kulb, Luxury Travel Advisor and Owner of Windward Path, to talk about why honeymoon planning can be uniquely challenging — and how to make it effortless, luxurious, and deeply personal. Together, they explore:The emotional weight of planning your first trip as a married coupleNavigating “honeymoon style mismatches” (adventure vs. relaxation, planned vs. spontaneous)Why delayed honeymoons are secretly the most luxurious optionThe insider perks and VIP touches only a true expert can accessIf you’re dreaming of a honeymoon that’s more than just beautiful — one that’s meaningful, seamless, and completely you — this conversation will inspire your next chapter together.🎙️ Hosted by Chanelle Carlin, Wedding Officiant and Your Celebrant for Life™✨ Guest: Carolyn Kulb, Luxury Travel Advisor & Owner, Windward Path📍 Learn more: https://chanellecarlin.com/podcast
In this special episode, I’m sharing the brand-new Now You May Kiss™ Podcast theme song — written just for the show by my husband, Bill Black. It’s fun, upbeat, and guaranteed to have you smiling (and maybe even dancing) as we celebrate everything this podcast is about: love, marriage, and all the kiss-worthy moments along the way. Turn it up, sing along, and let the music carry you into the world of Now You May Kiss™
Your wedding ring is more than sparkle—it’s a legacy.In this episode of the Now You May Kiss™ Podcast, Chanelle Carlin sits down with Erika Czerniejewski, owner of Columbia River Jewelers in Scappoose, Oregon. Erika is a master jeweler and “storyteller in metal and stone,” with decades of experience creating custom designs that honor love stories across generations.Together, they explore the cultural history of wedding jewelry, the artistry of custom design, and how today’s couples are choosing everything from heirloom estate pieces to colorful gemstones in place of traditional diamonds.If you’re dreaming of a deeply personal, meaningful, and unforgettable wedding ceremony, you’ll love this inspiring conversation.Listen now and learn how to choose jewelry as unique as your love story.
Wedding planning can be stressful—but it’s often the deeper emotional patterns and relationship dynamics that create the real tension. In this episode, Chanelle talks with **relationship coach and couples therapist Lindsey Bourne** about navigating the *power struggle phase*, working with attachment wounds, and reframing emotional triggers as opportunities for healing. Lindsey also shares practical tools for setting boundaries, managing guilt, and staying grounded as a couple through the wedding planning journey and beyond.👉 Connect with LindseyInstagram @lindseybournecoaching
Planning a wedding in Central Washington—or dreaming of a Leavenworth celebration? In this episode of Now You May Kiss™, Chanelle sits down with Ashley Coffin, Wedding Planner, Owner of The Local Event Co., and Founder of the Leavenworth Wedding Show.Ashley shares the heart behind this vibrant, one-of-a-kind wedding showcase happening October 25, 2025, at the Leavenworth Festhalle. From llamas and live music to curated vendor experiences, you’ll hear why this show is more than just a vendor expo—it’s a celebration of relationships, collaboration, and the joy of weddings in Central Washington.Couples will discover why this show is the perfect way to meet their dream team of vendors, and wedding professionals will be inspired by the camaraderie and care that makes this community so unique.🎉 Save the date: October 25, 2025 | 9 AM – 3 PM | Leavenworth Festhalle, Leavenworth, Washington✨ Free for couples to attend!For more information, visit www.leavenworthweddingshow.com
In this uplifting episode of Now You May Kiss™, Wedding Officiant Chanelle Carlin sits down with fellow officiant and third-time guest, Christopher Shelley of Illuminating Ceremonies. Together, they share how they intentionally cultivate positivity and gratitude in their personal lives and in the ceremonies they create, even when things don’t go as planned. From setting the emotional tone for the entire celebration to finding silver linings in unexpected moments, this is a joyful peek behind the scenes of what it means to hold space for couples on one of the most meaningful days of their lives.
What if your second (or third) chance at love was the most aligned one yet? In this heart-opening episode, Chanelle is joined by transformational coach Michele Heffron to talk about rewriting your love story, reclaiming your worth after divorce, and finding deep connection at any age. Whether you're navigating your own next chapter or planning a ceremony that honors a long journey to "I do," this conversation will remind you that love always has more to give. Learn how to tune into your heart, release limiting beliefs, and create a life you’re excited about—starting today.
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