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It isn’t that you’re “not creative.” It’s that your creativity has been buried under numbness, perfectionism, and noise.   🧘‍♀️Learn more about Soma+IQ ↪️https://stan.store/SomaIQ The world tells you art is for the chosen few. But as Rick Rubin says, art is simply a journal entry in time, while Gabor Maté shows us, addiction and suppression are what block the flow. When you clear the backlog, creativity is your natural state. •••   In this episode you’ll learn: * Why blocked creativity is really a sign of emotional constriction. * How sensitivity is the gateway to true artistic expression. * The hidden connection between creativity, addiction, and nervous system overload. * Why numbness is an “active process” that drains your energy. * How play, improv, and “sucking on purpose” break perfectionism. * The real link between being, becoming, and belonging in your creative journey. ••• 👉 If this landed, share it with someone who’s convinced they’re “not creative.”

The modern world is awash in anxiety, depression, and chronic loneliness. These conditions are not aberrations of character, but predictable consequences of an environment increasingly at odds with human needs. At its core, the crisis is not about chemical imbalances or personal shortcomings. It is about connection, or rather, the profound lack of it. A recent discussion on the Soma+IQ podcast, hosted by Adam Carbary with founder Steven Jaggers, surfaces a central idea: healing is less about self-improvement and more about repairing the bonds that tether us to our bodies, our communities, and one another. Consider the cultural backdrop. Many of us cannot name our neighbors. Our social interactions unfold more on screens than across kitchen tables. The daily exchange of hugs and eye contact, basic nutrients for the nervous system, has been replaced with likes, comments, and fleeting digital affirmations. It is no wonder the body reacts with symptoms we label as illness. We are living in an abnormal environment, and our stress is a normal response. Jaggers and Carbary propose a reordering of priorities. Instead of chasing “trauma release” or the endless project of self-fixing, the work should begin with connection. When individuals link head, heart, and gut into a coherent whole, the system organizes itself. Pain diminishes. Relationships deepen. Communities strengthen. Healing, in this framework, is not the prize at the finish line; it is the natural consequence of being genuinely connected. The nervous system operates like the mycelial networks that allow forests to communicate. Breath becomes the mediator of that network. By drawing attention back from the whir of thoughts into the chest and diaphragm, people restore the physiological conditions for curiosity and presence. This matters because curiosity, as the hosts argue, is the gateway to connection. It is impossible to remain both tightly contracted in stress and open to wonder at the same time. If children embody relentless curiosity, adults often surrender it in the name of stability. Work, bills, and societal expectations calcify into boxes: the settled career, the settled relationship, the settled beliefs. But settlement comes at a cost. It forecloses growth, silences imagination, and diminishes the ability to truly know oneself, let alone another person. The alternative is harder but richer: to keep asking questions, to let people and beliefs remain verbs instead of nouns, and to bear the discomfort of revising one’s worldview. Loneliness, too, is reframed not as pathology but as signal. It is supposed to hurt; the pain is evolutionary design, compelling us back into relationship. Yet not all relationships resolve loneliness. Without connection to the self, even a crowded room can feel empty. The first step, then, is inward, integrating one’s own history, weaving one’s own story into coherence, before extending outward. Ultimately, the conversation circles back to beauty, defined not as an object but as the recognition of relationships between things: tree to soil, breath to body, neighbor to neighbor. Beauty lies in the web, not the individual strand. The editorial lesson is stark but hopeful. Healing is not the goal; connection is. Our health, mental, physical, and civic, depends less on innovation than on remembering what we have forgotten: that we are social creatures wired for reciprocity, presence, and touch. If modern life feels unlivable, it is because it asks us to live against our own nature. The way forward begins simply: a deeper breath, an honest conversation, a hand extended not through a screen but across a table.

You can have the job, the house, the relationship, the outward markers of success, and still feel like something essential is missing. The smile in the mirror looks fine, the world applauds your progress, yet inside, the question nags: Why don’t I feel like myself? It turns out that many of us live this quiet contradiction. On the surface, we perform. Beneath it, we wonder who we really are. From childhood, we inherit a script of shoulds. We should be polite, we should chase security, we should look a certain way or want a certain life. Over time, these expectations press into us like barnacles on a ship’s hull, small at first, then heavy enough to slow the vessel down. The pressure is subtle but relentless, and before long, we mistake it for our own voice. The result is a life that looks polished from the outside but feels off-kilter within. We sense it in the unease of Sunday nights, the exhaustion that lingers even after a vacation, the quiet fear that we have built a life for everyone but ourselves. The body knows before the mind does. When our nervous system is relaxed, we slip easily into conversation. There is no need to perform, no urge to defend or impress. We are simply present, and enough. But when we are straining to be different versions of ourselves, one person at work, another with friends, still another at home, we drain our energy at every turn. It is the greatest tax we pay, and it accrues daily. Nowhere is this clearer than in the habit of people-pleasing. Many of us soften our words, dilute our truths, or swallow our needs just to keep the peace. It feels safe in the moment. But over time, it hollows out relationships. A bond built on silence and performance is not really a bond at all. The paradox is striking: the very effort to preserve a connection by avoiding conflict ends up eroding the connection itself. Plenty of people live lives that look perfect, the curated Instagram feed, the smiling holiday cards, the milestones achieved right on schedule. And yet, beneath the surface, a gnawing disconnection persists. Without authenticity, accomplishments taste bland. The show might win applause, but the actor backstage feels unseen. Here is the uncomfortable truth: conflict is not always a threat. Sometimes it is a plea. When two people collide, not because they are broken, but because they are both being themselves, the friction can deepen the bond. Relationships often grow not from the easy afternoons but from the arguments survived, the truths spoken, and the mutual decision to remain present anyway. The Hardest Question: What Do You Want? Ask most people what they should be doing, and they have a ready list. Ask them what they want, and the pause is deafening. Years of living for others erodes the muscle of desire. Rebuilding it starts small: choosing the gym over the movie night, admitting that you would rather walk alone than go to the party, telling someone close to you what you actually need. These are tiny acts of rebellion against the tyranny of “should.” And they add up. Loneliness, though painful, is not the enemy. It is a signal. If you feel lonely even in a crowded room, that ache is trying to drive you back toward authenticity. The irony is that many people chase connection to relieve loneliness but end up feeling emptier when they are not themselves in the presence of others. The way forward is paradoxical: use loneliness as a compass, not to find just anyone, but to find yourself again. When someone drops the mask, when they shed the shoulds and settle into their own skin, you feel it. There is a magnetism in authenticity that no strategy or performance can replicate. A regulated nervous system, a congruent self, an honest voice, these are what draw others closer. It is also what makes a life feel worth living. The path back to self is not grand or glamorous. It is not about blowing up your career overnight or booking a one-way flight. It begins with awareness: writing down the shoulds that dominate your thoughts, noticing the moments you hide, daring to tell three people in your life what you actually want. The steps are simple, but they are rarely easy. They might dismantle parts of the life you have built. But continuing to live for others, to hide behind masks and obligations, is costlier still.

In this episode of the Soma+IQ Communication Series, we explore the art of Holding Space—the ability to create a safe and supportive environment where others feel seen, heard, and understood. We’ll dive into how agendas, the need to fix, and unconscious judgments can block our ability to hold space and how these patterns affect the depth of our relationships. We'll share how holding space is about more than just being present—it’s about welcoming someone exactly as they are, without trying to change or control their experience. It’s the foundation for trust, connection, and emotional healing. Tune in to discover how this transformative skill can create deeper intimacy and openness in your relationships and your life. Visit our Homepage: https://somaticbreath.work/websitehomepage Visit the Somatic Academy: https://somaticbreath.work/somaiqcommunity Connect with a Somatic Educator about Somatic Training: https://somaticbreath.work/somatic-call  

In this episode of the Soma+IQ Podcast, we dive into attunement, the ability to deeply feel and empathize with another person's emotions without losing yourself. We discuss how past trauma, triggers, and distractions can block attunement, and how emotional walls affect our relationships. We discuss how attunement goes beyond just listening—it’s about being truly present, understanding the unspoken energy, and connecting on a deeper level. Attunement creates harmony and co-regulation, enabling true connection. Visit our Homepage: https://somaticbreath.work/websitehomepage Visit the Somatic Academy: https://somaticbreath.work/somaiqcommunity Connect with a Somatic Educator about Somatic Training: https://somaticbreath.work/somatic-call

In this episode of The Soma+IQ Podcast, we're speaking into the concept of alignment—one of the most essential yet challenging meta-skills for living authentically. We'll explore what it means to be truly in tune with yourself, how alignment impacts your relationships, and why it’s the foundation for clear communication and self-trust. Whether you’re struggling with people-pleasing, fear of judgment, or feeling disconnected, we share practical insights on how to reconnect with your truth, build self-awareness, and live a life of integrity. Visit our Homepage: https://somaticbreath.work/websitehomepage Visit the Somatic Academy: https://somaticbreath.work/somaiqcommunity Connect with a Somatic Educator about Somatic Training: https://somaticbreath.work/somatic-call

We kick off our Somatic Communication Series with emphasis into the power of somatic communication. We'll cover the concept of "AHA" moments—those enlightening realizations that spark a deeper connection with ourselves and others. The inner experience of someone having an "AHA" moment can be described as a "felt realization" or a "somatic awakening." It's the sensation of clarity that resonates through the body and mind, where something clicks on a deeper level, aligning thoughts, emotions, and physical sensations. This experience often brings a sense of relief, connection, or insight-like everything suddenly making sense not just intellectually but through the body as well. It's a moment of integration where the body, heart, and mind come into harmony Visit our Homepage: https://somaticbreath.work/websitehomepage Visit the Somatic Academy: https://somaticbreath.work/somaiqcommunity Connect with a Somatic Educator about Somatic Training: https://somaticbreath.work/somatic-call

🧘‍♀️FREE DAILY Breathwork Training↪️https://www.somaticbreathwork.com/sloyt 📅UPCOMING Breathwork Trainings ↪️https://somaticbreath.work/trainings In the serene landscapes of Idaho, a trio of somatic breathwork practitioners emerged from the cocoon of their individual practices to create something extraordinary together. Celebrating the one year anniversary of becoming certified Somatiq Breathwork Practitioners, the collaborative venture of Exhale Boise has not only thrived but has become a beacon of healing for their community. As the curtain of their success rises, it reveals a compelling story of dedication, collaboration, and the transformative power of somatic breathwork. Exhale Boise, comprised of certified Somatiq Breathwork practitioners, are embarking on a mission to bring the benefits of somatic breathwork to as many lives as possible. The three practitioners, Charlotte, Mike, and Pete, pooled their expertise to set a gold standard in the wellness field, reaching out to diverse groups such as frontline workers, veterans, active duty military, and those navigating the challenges of drug or alcohol rehabilitation. Exhale Boise's impact extends even to correctional institutions, unraveling the therapeutic potential of breathwork in unexpected places. As Exhale Boise continues to flourish, they are extending an invitation for like-minded individuals to join their team. The journey from individual somatic breathwork practitioners to a collaborative force showcases the potential for others to follow suit. But how did they navigate the intricate process of coming together and starting a breathwork business? This question echoes the sentiments of many aspiring practitioners in the field. I n a recent conversation that unfolded like a symphony of shared experiences, Exhale Boise shed light on their journey and offered insights that could guide others interested in starting a wellness business. The conversation, hosted by Somatiq Breathwork co-founder Steven Jaggers, provided a platform for the trio to reflect on their individual stories and the amalgamation that birthed Exhale Boise. The journey began with a commitment to somatic breathwork and a shared vision. Each practitioner brought a unique set of skills and perspectives to the table. Their collaboration was not merely a professional alliance but a fusion of passion, dedication, and a collective belief in the profound impact of soma centric breath work. The turning point for Exhale Boise was their participation in the Somatiq Creators program, a business and marketing coaching initiative offered by Jaggers' somatic breathwork organization. This program served as a catalyst, equipping breathwork practitioners with the tools to translate their passion into a successful business venture. Somatiq Creators addresses the common concern among practitioners – how to navigate the business side of somatic breathwork. Their success story resonates with the aspiring Somatiq breathwork practitioners who wish to bridge the gap between passion and a thriving wellness or coaching business. The journey becomes marked by a commitment to continuous learning, an openness to collaboration, and an unwavering belief in the transformative potential of somatic breathwork. For those contemplating a similar wellness venture, Exhale Boise's journey serves as a roadmap. The first step involves a deep dive into the practice, honing individual skills, and recognizing the unique strengths each breathwork coach brings to the table. The collaborative spirit, as demonstrated by Exhale Boise, amplifies the impact and widens the reach of somatic breathwork. Exhale Boise stands as a testament to the transformative power of collaboration and the untapped potential within the field of somatic breathwork. Their one-year anniversary not only celebrates their success but also opens the door for others to join the movement. As the Somatiq breathwork community continues to grow, Exhale Boise beckons others to inhale the possibilities and exhale the limitations, forging a path toward a more balanced and harmonious world. Exhale Boise's journey serves as a beacon for aspiring entrepreneurs looking to traverse the uncharted territories of somatic breathwork business. Their success story is a testament to the potential for collaboration, dedication, and a steadfast belief in the profound impact of breath on both body and business. As Exhale Boise continues to breathe life into their community, they invite others to join them on this transformative journey. In the realm where breath meets business, Exhale Boise stands as a testament to the power of collaboration, resilience, and the unwavering belief that sometimes, the deepest transformations begin with a single breath.