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A Couple Queers
A Couple Queers
Author: Keara Graves, LAVREN
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Wives, Keara Graves & LAVREN, welcome you to join them in their cozy sofa chats discussing everything from eloping during a pandemic, to their experiences as a neurodivergent couple, to learning to accept their bodies as non-binary folks.
29 Episodes
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Welcome to Lauren's therapy session where they admit their feelings of being in survival mode, and Keara offers help in how to overcome it.
This relationship is very ✨neurospicy✨ and we love in ways that may be different than others, but it's love nonetheless!❤️
Keara & Lauren discuss the differences in their expressions of neurodivergence; Keara having just autism and Lauren having autism & ADHD.
Keara and Lauren chat how they discovered their genderfluid and agender identities, and how this discovery has benefited the rest of their lives, including their relationship with their afab bodies.
Storytimes about our "firsts!"
Taboos we actually think are normal.
Finally sharing our in-depth love story of how we got married and literally planned it the day-of.
Keara & Lauren feel like they're in a constant state of autistic burnout with no hope in sight... Who can relate??? 🙃🙃🙃
The truth about long-term relationships is... sometimes you have to trigger each other (although not intentionally).
Has your Saturn returned yet? Keara's is just beginning and Lauren's is well on it's way... and this is what we're learning from them.
**TW: depression, anxiety, su!c!de** Keara and Lauren talk about how seasonal depression has gotten the best out of one of them - it's a real mental health check-in this episode. If you're struggling and looking for help, please call: CANADA - 9-8-8: Su!c!de Crisis Helpline UNITED STATES - 9-8-8: Su!c!de Crisis Helpline
We both struggle with OCD but in very different forms, so we figured we'd squash the stigma and just talk about it, damn it! In this episode, we share the most vulnerable un-truths our OCD tells us daily and tips in not letting it overcome us, in hopes someone out there feels less alone ❤️
Today we dive into what it's REALLY like to be AuDHD from Lauren's perspective of having both ADHD and Autism.
We chat all about how we survived long distance as a wlw couple living in 2 DIFFERENT COUNTRIES!! and how you can survive long distance too ❤️
Taking a look at our childhoods, it was *very* evident we were on the spectrum... but we didn't know until our 20s. Today, we share all our childhood autism and audhd signs with you (and there's probably more where that came from).
Today we share the unspoken rules of our relationship... (things that we both just know to do / or not to do) because, well, we have telepathy.
Today we're answering your *highly anticipated* lesbian / wlw sex questions from Instagram, anything from scissoring to strapping to how often we do it! 😈🔥 To participate in the next one, follow our pod's Instagram @acouplequeerspod and watch out for our stories!
Today we express our concerns with popular Netflix reality tv show, Queer Love Ultimatum, how we need better queer representation on TV and online, and then we ramble about Sirens (irl?)...
Today we share the autism/audhd accommodations we've made that've helped us since being diagnosed! :)
Keara got triggered AF and it led us into a rant about diet culture, skinnytok, and how the rise of thinness is not sitting well with us.




