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In this week’s episode of The Audaci-Tea Podcast, hosts Lisa and Sovereign welcome special guest Abby Eckel for a deep dive into why women are still expected to do everything. From domestic labor to emotional labor to the invisible mental load, the conversation unpacks how women, especially mothers, are systematically conditioned to carry responsibilities men routinely avoid. Together, they explore how this imbalance impacts women’s health, relationships, financial security, and sense of self, and why recognizing your worth and maintaining independence is not optional but necessary. But first, in Tea Time, Lisa and Sovereign discuss ongoing ICE atrocities in the U.S., including the killing of Renee Good, Kristi Noem delivering a speech while standing at a podium bearing a Nazi slogan, a Christian woman claiming Christianity gave women rights instead of feminism, and react to a viral video of a woman who drove eight hours just to sleep in a prison parking lot to be close to her man. Later, in Mailbag, they respond to a listener struggling with trust after discovering a photo of a naked model on her partner’s phone.   🎧 This episode takes a hard look at the emotional, mental, and logistical labor women shoulder every day, and why men’s refusal to carry their weight has real consequences for women’s well being.   🎙️ Topics Discussed: The mental load and invisible labor women carry Emotional labor and gendered expectations in relationships Why women undervalue their own contributions Financial independence and power dynamics in marriage The toll of unequal labor on women’s health and motherhood Trust, intuition, and knowing when something is wrong   ✨ Links and Resources Mentioned: ICE and the Nazi History of “One of Ours, All of Yours” https://jamesfell.substack.com/p/ice-and-the-nazi-history-of-one-of Is Charlie Kirk’s Shooter a Democrat? https://www.nbcphiladelphia.com/news/politics/fact-focus-assassination-of-charlie-kirk-prompts-flood-of-false-and-misleading-claims-online/4268659/ Influencer Kristy Scott Files for Divorce from Husband Desmond Scott After 12 Years of Marriage https://people.com/influencer-kristy-scott-files-for-divorce-from-husband-desmond-scott-11883063   📚 This Week’s Recommendation: Follow Abby Eckel https://linktr.ee/abbyeckel This American Ex-Wife by Liz Lenz https://a.co/d/2auTF5C What Happened to My Sex Life? by Dr. Kate Balestieri https://a.co/d/gN87eJ0 Check Out Lisa’s Free Blog About This Episode https://www.patreon.com/collection/960341   💌 Join the Conversation: Got questions or wild stories to share? Email us at mailbag@sirensound.co with “The Audaci-Tea” in the subject line. Your message might be featured in a future episode.   ☕✨ Support the Show: Join our Patreon community. Sign up for free or become a Tea VIP for exclusive perks like: Bonus Crumpets segment, completely unhinged and uncensored Early access to episodes Voice memo mailbag access Ad free listening A private feminist community 👉 https://www.patreon.com/audacitea   ▶️ Subscribe and Watch Full Episodes on YouTube: https://youtube.com/@theaudaci-teapodcast Join our YouTube Membership for the Crumpets segment, an unhinged and uncensored bonus segment of the show.   📱 Follow Us Online: TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@the_audacitea0 Instagram https://www.instagram.com/the_audacitea_podcast Facebook https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61585115231509 Spotify https://open.spotify.com/show/1qfGGpJ0aS626IGBGwLtdU Apple Podcasts https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-audaci-tea/id1779370788   🕰️ Episode Chapters: 00:00 Welcome and Tea Time 02:49 ICE and the Murder of Renee Good 11:57 Influencer Divorce: Kristy and Desmond Scott 16:00 Christianity Gives Women Rights? 19:32 Woman Sleeps in Jail Parking Lot 23:07 Welcome Abby Eckel 29:27 Understanding the Mental Load and Domestic Labor 38:42 Navigating Unequal Domestic Responsibilities 47:20 Financial Independence and Relationship Power 57:12 Emotional Labor and Gender Expectations 01:05:30 The Cost of Staying in Unhealthy Marriages 01:21:33 Mailbag: Trust and Intuition 01:45:21 Poll Results: Womanhood on Your Own Terms   🎙️ The Audaci-Tea is a production of Siren Sound, executively produced by Lisa Carr and The Sovereign Woman. Music, audio production, and show production by Ryan Marth and Siren Sound.   📩 For advertising, business, or general inquiries: info@sirensound.co   💡 Disclaimer: The views and opinions expressed in this podcast are those of the hosts and guests and do not necessarily reflect the views of Siren Sound or its affiliates. This podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only and should not be considered professional advice.  

In this week’s episode of The Audaci-Tea Podcast, hosts Lisa and Sovereign dive into the tension between feminism and Christianity, unpacking whether the two can truly coexist. They examine how patriarchal power structures within organized religion shape women’s roles, beliefs, and expectations, and question the growing trend of women promoting “traditional values” while benefiting from feminist progress. But first, in Tea Time, they discuss updates on the felony strangulation charges against Stefon Diggs, Trump’s takeover in Venezuela and the freezing of federal childcare payments, and react to a viral video of a man whose wife left him on Christmas morning. Later, in a round of Therapy Or The Void, the hosts review 10 Things I Hate About You and debate which characters need therapy and which should be thrown directly into the void.   🎧 This episode explores how feminism challenges religious patriarchy, why submission narratives persist, and what it means to build morality, autonomy, and self worth outside of male authority.   🎙️ Topics Discussed: Feminism and Christianity under patriarchy Women’s autonomy versus religious submission Traditional gender roles and feminist hypocrisy Patriarchal power structures in organized religion Morality outside religious authority Cultural backlash to women’s independence   ✨ Links and Resources Mentioned: Stefon Diggs charged with felony strangulation, assault https://www.cbssports.com/nfl/news/stefon-diggs-patriots-charges-felony-strangulation-assault/ Mental Health and the Nervous System https://www.sanitycenter.org/blog/mental-health-and-the-nervous-system-understanding-the-connection#:~:text=Dysregulation%20and%20Its%20Impact%20on,%2C%20emotional%20numbness%2C%20or%20hyperarousal. How Trump’s Venezuela Takeover Could Change the World https://time.com/7343019/venezuela-trump-oil-china/ Maduro’s Public Dancing After Trump’s Threats Helped Convince White House to Capture Venezuelan President https://people.com/nicolas-maduro-public-dancing-after-trump-threats-helped-convince-white-house-capture-venezuelan-president-report-claims-11879175 Trump administration reportedly freezes all childcare payments to all states https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2025/dec/31/trump-administration-childcare-funding-freeze   📚 This Week’s Recommendation: Watch 10 Things I Hate About You https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0147800/?ref_=ext_shr_lnk Biblical Womanhood: How the Subjugation of Women Became Gospel Truth by Beth Allison Barr https://a.co/d/5Sp2ZCA Jesus and John Wayne by Kristin Kobes Du Mez https://a.co/d/1nzuAFy Check Out Lisa’s Free Blog About This Episode https://www.patreon.com/collection/960341   💌 Join the Conversation: Got questions or wild stories to share? Email us at mailbag@sirensound.co with “The Audaci-Tea” in the subject line. Your message might be featured in a future episode.   ☕✨ Support the Show: Join our Patreon community. Sign up for free or become a Tea VIP for exclusive perks like: Bonus Crumpets segment, completely unhinged and uncensored Early access to episodes Voice memo mailbag access Ad free listening A private feminist community 👉 https://www.patreon.com/audacitea   ▶️ Subscribe and Watch Full Episodes on YouTube: https://youtube.com/@theaudaci-teapodcast Join our YouTube Membership for the Crumpets segment, an unhinged and uncensored bonus segment of the show.   📱 Follow Us Online: TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@the_audacitea0 Instagram https://www.instagram.com/the_audacitea_podcast Facebook https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61585115231509 Spotify https://open.spotify.com/show/1qfGGpJ0aS626IGBGwLtdU Apple Podcasts https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-audaci-tea/id1779370788   🕰️ Episode Chapters: 00:00 Welcome and Tea Time 03:48 Updates on Stefon Diggs 09:02 Trump and Venezuela 12:13 Childcare Funding Freeze 18:46 Wife Leaves Husband on Christmas 31:50 Can Christian Women Be Feminist? 37:38 Hypocrisy in Christian Feminism 57:48 Women’s Roles in the Church 01:09:18 Submission and Gender Roles 01:20:27 Misogyny in the Bible 01:31:57 Therapy or the Void: 10 Things I Hate About You 01:57:00 Poll Results: Men’s Fragile Egos   🎙️ The Audaci-Tea is a production of Siren Sound, executively produced by Lisa Carr and The Sovereign Woman. Music, audio production, and show production by Ryan Marth and Siren Sound.   📩 For advertising, business, or general inquiries: info@sirensound.co   💡 Disclaimer: The views and opinions expressed in this podcast are those of the hosts and guests and do not necessarily reflect the views of Siren Sound or its affiliates. This podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only and should not be considered professional advice.

In this week’s episode of The Audaci-Tea Podcast, hosts Lisa and Sovereign explore what womanhood looks like when it is no longer shaped by patriarchy, the male gaze, or the need for male approval. Together, they break down how women are conditioned to perform, shrink, and self police, and what it actually means to live authentically, freely, and on your own terms. But first, in Tea Time, Lisa and Sovereign discuss the killing of Imani Smith, a Broadway actress best known for her work in The Lion King, a disturbing video of a man threatening women’s rights, a viral Reddit breakup story, and the public reaction to Stefon Diggs and Cardi B (Please note, this episode was recorded BEFORE new broke of Stefon Diggs being charged with folony strangulation of a woman). Later, in the Mailbag, they respond to a listener asking whether men become meaner toward women once they turn 30.   🎧 This episode unpacks how reclaiming womanhood is a deeply personal journey, why empowerment comes from within, and how women can detach from patriarchal expectations without losing themselves in the process.   🎙️ Topics Discussed: Womanhood outside of patriarchy and the male gaze Decentering men and reclaiming women’s autonomy How the male gaze shapes women’s identity and safety Self discovery, authenticity, and personal agency Women, aging, and male resentment Choosing fulfillment over external validation   ✨ Links and Resources Mentioned: Former ‘The Lion King’ on Broadway child actress killed in New Jersey stabbing https://www.wbaltv.com/article/former-the-lion-king-on-broadway-child-actress-killed-in-new-jersey-stabbing/69872197 Homicide leading cause of death for pregnant women in U.S. https://hsph.harvard.edu/news/homicide-leading-cause-of-death-for-pregnant-women-in-u-s/ Gen Z Leads Resurgence In Church Attendance https://www.barna.com/research/young-adults-lead-resurgence-in-church-attendance/ America Is Sliding Toward Illiteracy https://www.theatlantic.com/ideas/archive/2025/10/education-decline-low-expectations/684526/ Cardi B hits back at ‘mean’ fans dragging her relationship with Stefon Diggs https://pagesix.com/2025/12/29/celebrity-news/cardi-b-hits-back-at-mean-fans-dragging-her-relationship-with-stefon-diggs-i-cant-go-back-in-time/   📚 This Week’s Recommendation: The Robber Bride by Margaret Atwood https://a.co/d/48H6CPB Sanaa Lathan on self love and thinking for yourself https://www.tiktok.com/@sanaalathanaloha/video/7538911831193160990 Check Out Lisa’s Free Blog About This Episode https://www.patreon.com/collection/960341   💌 Join the Conversation: Got questions or wild stories to share? Email us at mailbag@sirensound.co with “The Audaci-Tea” in the subject line. Your message might be featured in a future episode.   ☕✨ Support the Show: Join our Patreon community. Sign up for free or become a Tea VIP for exclusive perks like: Bonus Crumpets segment, completely unhinged and uncensored Early access to episodes Voice memo mailbag access Ad free listening A private feminist community 👉 https://www.patreon.com/audacitea   ▶️ Subscribe and Watch Full Episodes on YouTube: https://youtube.com/@theaudaci-teapodcast Join our YouTube Membership for the Crumpets segment, an unhinged and uncensored bonus segment of the show.   📱 Follow Us Online: TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@the_audacitea0 Instagram https://www.instagram.com/the_audacitea_podcast Facebook https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61585115231509 Spotify https://open.spotify.com/show/1qfGGpJ0aS626IGBGwLtdU Apple Podcasts https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-audaci-tea/id1779370788   🕰️ Episode Chapters: 00:00 Welcome and Tea Time 03:20 Imani Smith 07:18 Men, Illiteracy, and Misogyny 18:06 Ignoring Red Flags 22:52 Stefon Diggs and Cardi B 30:27 Womanhood Outside of Patriarchy 46:00 Prioritizing Health and Self Care 51:48 The Journey of Self Discovery 01:03:09 Practical Steps Toward Authenticity 01:21:49 Mailbag: Are Men Meaner to Women Over 30? 01:39:35 Poll Results   🎙️ The Audaci-Tea is a production of Siren Sound, executively produced by Lisa Carr and The Sovereign Woman. Music, audio production, and show production by Ryan Marth and Siren Sound.   📩 For advertising, business, or general inquiries: info@sirensound.co   💡 Disclaimer: The views and opinions expressed in this podcast are those of the hosts and guests and do not necessarily reflect the views of Siren Sound or its affiliates. This podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only and should not be considered professional advice.

In this week’s episode of The Audaci-Tea Podcast, hosts Lisa and Sovereign are joined by special guest Queen Sovereign for a direct and unfiltered conversation about the fragile male ego and the ways it shapes men’s behavior, relationships, and reactions to women’s autonomy. Together, they examine how ego, entitlement, and insecurity often drive harm, control, and disrespect toward women, and why those patterns are so rarely challenged. But first, in Tea Time, Lisa and Sovereign break down a chaotic news cycle, including Nicki Minaj’s public MAGA pivot and comments involving J.D. Vance, a disturbing case involving boys sharing AI generated nude images of a 13 year old girl with no consequences, and the internet’s response to both Jake Paul and Andrew Tate taking public losses. Later, in another round of "This You?", the hosts unpack a Reddit post about a husband who gave away his wife’s expensive sake without asking, and what it reveals about male entitlement and disregard for women’s boundaries.   🎧 This episode takes a clear eyed look at male ego, power, and validation, and how women are expected to manage the emotional fallout.   🎙️ Topics Discussed: The fragile male ego and emotional insecurity Male entitlement and boundary violations How patriarchy operates through fear and control Loneliness and validation seeking in men Decentering men and reclaiming women’s autonomy Setting boundaries with emotionally immature men   ✨ Links and Resources Mentioned: Nicki Minaj praises JD Vance as “assassin” as Erika Kirk sits next to her https://www.nbcnews.com/news/us-news/nicki-minaj-praises-jd-vance-assassin-erika-kirk-sits-rcna250476 How Nicki Minaj went from Trump critic to the president’s biggest fan https://www.cnn.com/2025/12/22/entertainment/nicki-minaj-donald-trump-fan Nicki Minaj’s husband Kenneth Petty sentenced for failing to register as sex offender in Los Angeles https://www.cbsnews.com/losangeles/news/nicki-minajs-husband-kenneth-petty-sentencing-sex-offender-registration-los-angeles/ Boys at her school shared AI generated nude images of her. She was the one expelled https://abcnews.go.com/US/wireStory/boys-school-shared-ai-generated-nude-images-after-128611202 Jake Paul and Andrew Tate Both Lost This Weekend https://manofmany.com/culture/jake-paul-andrew-tate-boxing   📚 This Week’s Recommendation: Follow Queen Sovereign https://linktr.ee/queensovereignn Check Out Lisa’s Free Blog About This Episode https://www.patreon.com/collection/960341   💌 Join the Conversation: Got questions or wild stories to share? Email us at mailbag@sirensound.co with “The Audaci-Tea” in the subject line. Your message might be featured in a future episode.   ☕✨ Support the Show: Join our Patreon community. Sign up for free or become a Tea VIP for exclusive perks like: Bonus Crumpets segment, completely unhinged and uncensored Early access to episodes Voice memo mailbag access Ad free listening A private feminist community 👉 https://www.patreon.com/audacitea   ▶️ Subscribe and Watch Full Episodes on YouTube: https://youtube.com/@theaudaci-teapodcast Join our YouTube Membership for the Crumpets segment, an unhinged and uncensored bonus segment of the show.   📱 Follow Us Online: TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@the_audacitea0 Instagram https://www.instagram.com/the_audacitea_podcast Facebook (NEW!) https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61585115231509 Spotify https://open.spotify.com/show/1qfGGpJ0aS626IGBGwLtdU Apple Podcasts https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-audaci-tea/id1779370788   🕰️ Episode Chapters: 00:00 Welcome and Tea Time 04:38 Nicki Minaj Goes MAGA 10:20 AI and Child Exploitation 15:53 Permission to Help Women? 26:36 Jake Paul and Andrew Tate Lose 30:07 Welcome Queen Sovereign 36:41 Men’s Ego and Emotional Fragility 45:13 Consequences of Unchecked Male Behavior 01:00:16 Motherhood and Personal Choice 01:23:37 Loneliness and the Void in Men’s Lives 01:31:51 This You? 01:54:05 Poll Results Surviving the Boys Club Workplace   🎙️ The Audaci-Tea is a production of Siren Sound, executively produced by Lisa Carr and The Sovereign Woman. Music, audio production, and show production by Ryan Marth and Siren Sound.   📩 For advertising, business, or general inquiries: info@sirensound.co   💡 Disclaimer: The views and opinions expressed in this podcast are those of the hosts and guests and do not necessarily reflect the views of Siren Sound or its affiliates. This podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only and should not be considered professional advice.

In this week’s episode of The Audaci-Tea Podcast, hosts Lisa and Sovereign take on one of the most persistent myths men love to repeat: that they are simple, low maintenance, and easy to please, and that women are the ones who make life complicated. Together, they unpack how this narrative functions as a form of gaslighting that shifts responsibility, emotional labor, and accountability onto women. But first, in Tea Time, they discuss the tragic passing connected to Rob and Michele Reiner and what it reveals about male mental health, a new UK curriculum aimed at teaching boys to respect women, a viral TikTok of a man spiraling over his wife doing his laundry “wrong,” and a disturbing story of a man abandoning his girlfriend during a mugging. In the Mailbag, they answer a listener question about navigating relationships with misogynistic family members you still love.   🎧 This episode breaks down the illusion of male simplicity, how “low maintenance” often masks emotional immaturity, and why women are expected to absorb the fallout.   🎙️ Topics Discussed: The myth of men being low maintenance and emotionally simple How emotional labor and household management fall on women Male emotional regulation and its impact on relationships The fear of male aggression and how it shapes women’s behavior Why women are increasingly rethinking marriage and partnership Loving sexist or emotionally immature men and setting boundaries   ✨ Links and Resources Mentioned: Rob and Michele Reiner’s son ‘responsible’ for their deaths, police say https://www.cnn.com/entertainment/live-news/homicide-detectives-investigating-at-address-connected-with-hollywood-director-rob-reiner Boys to be taught to respect women and girls as part of curriculum https://www.thetimes.com/uk/politics/article/boys-taught-respect-women-girls-curriculum-xbzfq98xm Survey: Almost half of American men have online betting accounts https://www.sbu.edu/athletics/2025/02/18/survey-almost-half-of-american-men-have-online-betting-accounts Study finds the majority of OnlyFans subscribers are married men https://www.audacy.com/987thespot/latest/study-finds-majority-of-onlyfans-subscribers-are-married-men The orgasm gap and why women climax less than men https://theconversation.com/the-orgasm-gap-and-why-women-climax-less-than-men-208614 Universe 25 Experiment (Rat Utopia) https://www.the-scientist.com/universe-25-experiment-69941 Hood Feminism: Notes from the Women That a Movement Forgot by Mikki Kendall https://a.co/d/7lGx3Ot   📚 This Week’s Recommendation: All Her Fault on Peacock https://www.imdb.com/title/tt31314751/?ref_=fn_t_1 Check Out Lisa’s Free Blog About This Episode https://www.patreon.com/collection/960341   💌 Join the Conversation: Got questions or wild stories to share? Email us at mailbag@sirensound.co with “The Audaci-Tea” in the subject line. Your message might be featured in a future episode.   ☕✨ Support the Show: Join our Patreon community. Sign up for free or become a Tea VIP for exclusive perks like: Bonus Crumpets segment, completely unhinged and uncensored Early access to episodes Voice memo mailbag access Ad free listening A private feminist community 👉 https://www.patreon.com/audacitea   ▶️ Subscribe and Watch Full Episodes on YouTube: https://youtube.com/@theaudaci-teapodcast Join our YouTube Membership for the Crumpets segment, an unhinged and uncensored bonus segment of the show.   📱 Follow Us Online: TikTok – https://www.tiktok.com/@the_audacitea0 Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/the_audacitea_podcast Spotify – https://open.spotify.com/show/1qfGGpJ0aS626IGBGwLtdU Apple Podcasts – https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-audaci-tea/id1779370788   🕰️ Episode Chapters: 00:00 Welcome and Tea Time 03:51 Rob and Michele Reiner Tragedy 09:33 UK Curriculum Teaching Boys to Respect Girls 17:54 Man Crashes Out Over Laundry 24:05 Man Abandons Girlfriend During Mugging 30:04 Men Don’t Need Much to Be Happy? 45:25 Impact Of Men Moving In 51:41 Masculinity and Emotional Regulation 01:05:06 Leadership and Responsibility in Relationships 01:14:58 The Illusion of Male Simplicity 01:19:33 Mailbag: Loving Imperfect Men 01:36:23 Poll Results: What Does Decentering Men Actually Look Like?   🎙️ The Audaci-Tea is a production of Siren Sound, executively produced by Lisa Carr and The Sovereign Woman. Music, audio production, and show production by Ryan Marth and Siren Sound.   📩 For advertising, business, or general inquiries: info@sirensound.co   💡 Disclaimer: The views and opinions expressed in this podcast are those of the hosts and guests and do not necessarily reflect the views of Siren Sound or its affiliates. This podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only and should not be considered professional advice.

In this week’s episode of The Audaci-Tea Podcast, hosts Lisa and Sovereign sit down with special guest Mel Hamlett to explore what it really looks like for women to survive and succeed in male-dominated fields. Mel shares the highs, lows, and hard-won lessons from her adventurous career, revealing the unspoken rules, power dynamics, and emotional labor women are expected to navigate. But first, in Tea Time, they break down a new poll showing teen girls are losing interest in marriage, why older women are becoming first-time moms at higher rates than teenagers, a woman confronting a man who left hateful comments on her page, and Costco suing the Trump administration over tariffs. Later, they play another round of “Therapy Or The Void” featuring the characters from Shrek as voted on by our Patreon members!   🎧 This episode sheds light on the biases women face in workplaces ruled by men, the danger of male group dynamics, and the strength required to carve out autonomy in career spaces designed without women in mind.   🎙️ Topics Discussed: What women actually face inside male-dominated workplaces Why emotional labor always falls on women How male group dynamics fuel toxic behavior Lessons Mel learned from outdoor and adventure industries The importance of self-reliance and boundaries in unsafe environments Why many women are rethinking marriage, motherhood, and traditional paths   ✨ Links and Resources Mentioned: 12th grade girls are less likely than boys to say they want to get married someday https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2025/11/14/12th-grade-girls-are-less-likely-than-boys-to-say-they-want-to-get-married-someday/ More older women becoming first-time moms amid U.S. fertility rate declines https://www.nbcnews.com/health/womens-health/us-fertility-rates-down-teens-women-40-first-time-moms-rcna196809 Costco sues the Trump administration, seeking a refund of tariffs https://www.nbcnews.com/business/business-news/costco-sues-trump-tariff-refunds-rcna246860 Men Have No Friends and Women Bear the Burden https://www.harpersbazaar.com/culture/features/a27259689/toxic-masculinity-male-friendships-emotional-labor-men-rely-on-women/ Man Allegedly Seen Leaving His Girlfriend to Freeze to Death on Austria's Highest Mountain in Webcam Footage https://people.com/man-allegedly-seen-leaving-girlfriend-to-freeze-to-death-on-mountain-11863639   📚 This Week’s Recommendation: Follow Mel Hamlett! https://linktr.ee/MelanieHamlett Check Out Lisa’s Free Blog About This Episode https://www.patreon.com/collection/960341   💌 Join the Conversation: Got questions or wild stories to share? Email us at mailbag@sirensound.co with “The Audaci-Tea” in the subject line. Your message might be featured in a future episode.   ☕✨ Support the Show: Join our Patreon community. Sign up for free or become a Tea VIP for exclusive perks like: Bonus Crumpets segment, completely unhinged and uncensored Early access to episodes Voice memo mailbag access Ad free listening A private feminist community 👉 https://www.patreon.com/audacitea   ▶️ Subscribe and Watch Full Episodes on YouTube: https://youtube.com/@theaudaci-teapodcast Join our YouTube Membership for the Crumpets segment, an unhinged and uncensored bonus segment of the show.   📱 Follow Us Online: TikTok – https://www.tiktok.com/@the_audacitea0 Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/the_audacitea_podcast Spotify – https://open.spotify.com/show/1qfGGpJ0aS626IGBGwLtdU Apple Podcasts – https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-audaci-tea/id1779370788   🕰️ Episode Chapters: 00:00 Welcome and Tea Time 03:24 Newest Marriage Poll 12:09 Birth Rates Plummet 17:11 Woman Confronts Online Troll 25:15 Costco Sues Trump Over Tariffs 28:22 Welcome Mel Hamlett 36:30 Melanie's Journey 47:47 The Impact of Relationships on Women's Lives 59:02 Navigating Male-Dominated Spaces 01:09:30 The Fragility of Masculinity 01:38:02 Therapy Or The Void: Shrek 01:52:11 Poll Results: Can Women Really Have It All?   🎙️ The Audaci-Tea is a production of Siren Sound, executively produced by Lisa Carr and The Sovereign Woman. Music, audio production, and show production by Ryan Marth and Siren Sound.   📩 For advertising, business, or general inquiries: info@sirensound.co   💡 Disclaimer: The views and opinions expressed in this podcast are those of the hosts and guests and do not necessarily reflect the views of Siren Sound or its affiliates. This podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only and should not be considered professional advice.

In this week’s episode of The Audaci-Tea Podcast, hosts Lisa and Sovereign explore what it looks like for women to decenter men in everyday life and relationships. Decentering men is not a single action but a result of prioritizing women's autonomy and needs while deconstructing patriarchal norms. This episode breaks down practical steps, mindset shifts, and the empowering outcomes of putting yourself first. But first, in Tea Time, they respond to a listener voicemail about women taking their husbands’ last names, discuss the US Border Patrol monitoring drivers and detaining pregnant women seeking reproductive health care, female MAGA influencers facing backlash for feminist stances, and a woman proposing to her boyfriend of 14 years. Later, in Mailbag, they answer a listener question about whether women need to be the ones approaching men romantically.   🎧 This episode examines how women can prioritize themselves, navigate relationships with awareness, and embrace empowerment without guilt.   🎙️ Topics Discussed: What decentering men looks like in practice Why prioritizing women’s needs is essential for empowerment How societal expectations pressure women into traditional roles Surveillance and threats to women’s autonomy Celebrating choices in relationships without losing identity Using self-discovery and boundaries to navigate dating and partnerships   ✨ Links and Resources Mentioned: Border Patrol monitoring US drivers and detaining those with ‘suspicious’ travel patterns https://apnews.com/article/immigration-border-patrol-surveillance-drivers-ice-trump-9f5d05469ce8c629d6fecf32d32098cd Georgia dismisses maternal mortality committee after ProPublica investigation https://www.cnn.com/2024/11/21/health/georgia-maternal-mortality-committee-propublica MAGA influencer hit with right-wing backlash over feminist comments https://www.rawstory.com/maga-influencers/ Lizzy B on centering men as its own punishment https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTrkQPsHJ/   📚 This Week’s Recommendation: The Gift of Fear: Survival Signals That Protect Us from Violence https://a.co/d/dkAQZ9A Check Out Lisa’s Free Blog About This Episode https://www.patreon.com/collection/960341   💌 Join the Conversation: Got questions or wild stories to share? Email us at mailbag@sirensound.co with “The Audaci-Tea” in the subject line. Your message might be featured in a future episode.   ☕✨ Support the Show: Join our Patreon community. Sign up for free or become a Tea VIP for exclusive perks like: Bonus Crumpets segment, completely unhinged and uncensored Early access to episodes Voice memo mailbag access Ad free listening A private feminist community 👉 https://www.patreon.com/audacitea   ▶️ Subscribe and Watch Full Episodes on YouTube: https://youtube.com/@theaudaci-teapodcast Join our YouTube Membership for the Crumpets segment, an unhinged and uncensored bonus segment of the show.   📱 Follow Us Online: TikTok – https://www.tiktok.com/@the_audacitea0 Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/the_audacitea_podcast Spotify – https://open.spotify.com/show/1qfGGpJ0aS626IGBGwLtdU Apple Podcasts – https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-audaci-tea/id1779370788   🕰️ Episode Chapters: 00:00 Welcome and Tea Time 03:15 Listener Voicemail: Should Wives Take Husbands Name? 09:15 Surveillance and Privacy Concerns in Texas 19:28 Proposing To BF of 14 Years 30:14 MAGA Influencers Accused of Feminism 37:57 What Does Decentering Men Actually Look Like? 45:18 The Result of Decentering Men 55:15 Should Women Embrace Selfishness? 01:02:57 Finding Worthy Partners 01:14:00 Checklist for Decentering Men 01:26:57 Mailbag: Do Women Need To Approach Men Romantically? 01:45:31 Poll Results: Modern Witch Hunts   🎙️ The Audaci-Tea is a production of Siren Sound, executively produced by Lisa Carr and The Sovereign Woman. Music, audio production, and show production by Ryan Marth and Siren Sound.   📩 For advertising, business, or general inquiries: info@sirensound.co   💡 Disclaimer: The views and opinions expressed in this podcast are those of the hosts and guests and do not necessarily reflect the views of Siren Sound or its affiliates. This podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only and should not be considered professional advice.

In this week’s episode of The Audaci-Tea Podcast, hosts Lisa and Sovereign dig into the cultural lie that women can “have it all,” breaking down how this expectation was built for women to fail. From impossible workplace standards to the emotional labor of relationships, the hosts unpack how patriarchal systems shape what women are told to value and why more women are redefining success on their own terms. But first, in Tea Time, they discuss far right podcaster Andrew Wilson losing control when confronted with his wife’s messy past, MTG resigning from Congress, and the latest chaos inside the Trump Administration. Later, in Tea or Trash, they react to trending social media to decide if it’s…you guessed it: Tea Or Trash!   🎧 This episode examines the myth of balance, the cost of unrealistic expectations, and why true empowerment comes from prioritizing personal wellbeing over patriarchal approval.   🎙️ Topics Discussed: Why the idea of women “having it all” is built on patriarchal expectations Andrew Wilson’s hypocrisy and the policing of women’s choices How political decisions impact women in female dominated fields Ongoing misogyny in politics and media How women are redefining success, autonomy, and personal safety Why rejecting patriarchal norms is necessary for real empowerment   ✨ Links and Resources Mentioned: Far Right Podcaster Loses It After Woman Points Out His Wife Had 3 Kids With Different People https://www.complex.com/life/a/backwoodsaltar/far-right-podcaster-loses-it-heated-interview Donald Trump’s New Bill Doesn't Classify Nursing as a Professional Degree for College Students, Sparking Outrage https://people.com/nursing-is-not-a-professional-degree-under-president-donald-trumps-new-bill-11855209 What to know about why MTG is resigning https://www.usatoday.com/story/news/politics/2025/11/22/why-is-marjorie-taylor-greene-resigning/87417995007/ Trump Told a Woman, Quiet, Piggy, When She Asked Him About Epstein https://www.theatlantic.com/newsletters/2025/11/trump-comments-denigrating-women-reporters-pattern/684974/ Single Moms: Less Housework, More Leisure Than Married Moms https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/living-single/201906/single-moms-less-housework-more-leisure-than-married-moms Death of young welder resonates with women in the trades across U.S. https://www.fox9.com/news/young-welder-death-amber-czech-resonates-women-trades Taylor Swift suspected stalker arrested for allegedly breaking into her New York City apartment again https://abcnews.go.com/US/taylor-swift-suspected-stalker-arrested-allegedly-breaking-york/story?id=61532972   📚 This Week’s Recommendation: Check Out Lisa’s Free Blog About This Episode https://www.patreon.com/collection/960341   💌 Join the Conversation: Got questions or wild stories to share? Email us at mailbag@sirensound.co with “The Audaci-Tea” in the subject line. Your message might be featured in a future episode.   ☕✨ Support the Show: Join our Patreon community. Sign up for free or become a Tea VIP for exclusive perks like: Bonus Crumpets segment, completely unhinged and uncensored Early access to episodes Voice memo mailbag access Ad free listening A private feminist community 👉 https://www.patreon.com/audacitea   ▶️ Subscribe and Watch Full Episodes on YouTube: https://youtube.com/@theaudaci-teapodcast Join our YouTube Membership for the Crumpets segment, an unhinged and uncensored bonus segment of the show.   📱 Follow Us Online: TikTok – https://www.tiktok.com/@the_audacitea0 Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/the_audacitea_podcast Spotify – https://open.spotify.com/show/1qfGGpJ0aS626IGBGwLtdU Apple Podcasts – https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-audaci-tea/id1779370788   🕰️ Episode Chapters: 00:00 Welcome and Tea Time 03:11 Andrew Wilson's Crash Out and Hypocrisy 08:49 Department of Education's Classification Changes 13:17 Marjorie Taylor Greene's Resignation 18:30 Trump Calls Woman Reporter Piggy 25:49 Can Women Have It All 36:31 The Reality of Women's Work and Sacrifices 44:06 The Impact of Male Centering on Women 55:42 Men Can't Have It All Either 01:10:17 Tea or Trash 01:25:55 Poll Results: Embracing Your Villain Era   🎙️ The Audaci-Tea is a production of Siren Sound, executively produced by Lisa Carr and The Sovereign Woman. Music, audio production, and show production by Ryan Marth and Siren Sound.   📩 For advertising, business, or general inquiries: info@sirensound.co   💡 Disclaimer: The views and opinions expressed in this podcast are those of the hosts and guests and do not necessarily reflect the views of Siren Sound or its affiliates. This podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only and should not be considered professional advice.

In this week’s episode of The Audaci-Tea Podcast, hosts Lisa and Sovereign  sit down with special guest Therese Lee to unpack her new series, Witches, Whores, and Rebels, which explores how history repeats itself whenever powerful systems begin to break down. Again and again, women become the targets. From early witch hunts to modern political scapegoating, Therese examines how economic collapse, social panic, and patriarchal control create the same cycle throughout time. But first, in Tea Time, the hosts dive into a new app that lets users talk to AI avatars of deceased loved ones, churches lashing out after being exposed for refusing to help starving babies, and Megyn Kelly defending behavior no one expected her to defend. Later in the Mailbag, a listener asks whether child free women secretly worry they may regret their choice.   🎧 This episode draws a clear line between today’s political climate and the centuries of misogyny and economic control that shaped it, revealing how modern attacks on women mirror the past in chilling ways.   🎙️ Topics Discussed: Why women are always targeted during political and economic collapse How witch hunts were rooted in economics, ownership, and control The connection between modern misogyny and historical scapegoating AI technology and the ethical concerns around digital necromancy How religious narratives still influence motherhood, family, and women’s autonomy Why more women are rejecting traditional roles and choosing independence   ✨ Links and Resources Mentioned: New app lets users talk to AI avatars of deceased loved ones https://www.dexerto.com/entertainment/black-mirror-becomes-reality-new-app-lets-users-talk-to-ai-avatars-of-deceased-loved-ones-3283056/ The Rise of the Single Woke (and Young, Democratic) Female https://www.aei.org/articles/the-rise-of-the-single-woke-and-young-democratic-female/ Caliban and the Witch by Silvia Federici https://www.worldofbooks.com/products/caliban-and-the-witch-book-silvia-federici-9781570270598?sku=CIN1570270597G New Study Shows Black Women Are Among The Most Educated Group In The United States https://www.essence.com/news/new-study-black-women-most-educated/   📚 This Week’s Recommendation: Follow Therese Lee https://linktr.ee/theresehlee Witches, Whores and Rebels https://thereselee.com/witches-whores-rebels/ Check Out Lisa’s Free Blog About This Episode https://www.patreon.com/collection/960341   💌 Join the Conversation: Got questions or wild stories to share? Email us at mailbag@sirensound.co with “The Audaci-Tea” in the subject line. Your message might be featured in a future episode.   ☕✨ Support the Show: Join our Patreon community. Sign up for free or become a Tea VIP for exclusive perks like: Bonus Crumpets segment, completely unhinged and uncensored Early access to episodes Voice memo mailbag access Ad-free listening A private feminist community 👉 https://www.patreon.com/audacitea   ▶️ Subscribe and Watch Full Episodes on YouTube: https://youtube.com/@theaudaci-teapodcast Join our YouTube Membership for the Crumpets segment, an unhinged and uncensored bonus segment of the show.   📱 Follow Us Online: TikTok – https://www.tiktok.com/@the_audacitea0 Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/the_audacitea_podcast Spotify – https://open.spotify.com/show/1qfGGpJ0aS626IGBGwLtdU Apple Podcasts – https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-audaci-tea/id1779370788   🕰️ Episode Chapters: 00:00 Welcome and Tea Time 02:40 Exploring AI and Digital Necromancy 08:16 Churches Angry At Being Exposed 20:38 Megyn Kelly Defends Pedophilia 28:44 Witches, Whores, and Rebels 43:50 Dehumanization and the 19th Amendment 54:41 Education and Women's Empowerment 01:01:22 The Role of Women in Dismantling Patriarchy 01:15:33 Mailbag: Child Free Regret 01:36:55 Poll Results: Escaping Religious Patriarchy   🎙️ The Audaci-Tea is a production of Siren Sound, executively produced by Lisa Carr and The Sovereign Woman. Music, audio production, and show production by Ryan Marth and Siren Sound.   📩 For advertising, business, or general inquiries: info@sirensound.co   💡 Disclaimer: The views and opinions expressed in this podcast are those of the hosts and guests and do not necessarily reflect the views of Siren Sound or its affiliates. This podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only and should not be considered professional advice.

In this week’s episode of The Audaci-Tea Podcast, hosts Lisa and Sovereign welcome special guest Amarachi, a viral “villain era” dating coach who’s redefining what it means for women to date on their own terms. Together, they unpack how embracing your so-called “villain era” isn’t about being heartless — it’s about rejecting people-pleasing, prioritizing your happiness, and refusing to apologize for your standards. But first, in Tea Time, the hosts break down the Democrats caving to Trump on the government shutdown, Trump getting booed mercilessly at an NFL game, a woman’s viral experiment calling churches to see if they’d feed a starving baby, and a New York Times opinion piece asking if women “ruined” the workplace. Finally, in This You?, they read a viral Reddit post from a woman ready to divorce her husband over a birthday gift — and you might just take her side.   🎧 This episode challenges outdated dating dynamics and reminds women that setting boundaries, demanding effort, and embracing your so-called “villain era” is actually the key to self-respect and emotional freedom.   🎙️ Topics Discussed: The “villain era” mindset and what it really means Why women should stop apologizing for having standards How to spot and reject one-sided relationships The truth about effort, reciprocity, and emotional labor Detachment as a tool for empowerment and healing Why setting boundaries is the ultimate act of self-love   ✨ Links and Resources Mentioned: Democrats rage after 8 cross the aisle and join Republicans in vote to end shutdown: ‘Senseless surrender’ https://www.the-independent.com/news/world/americas/us-politics/democrats-chaos-senate-deal-shutdown-schumer-house-b2861865.html Trump Boo’d At Commanders Game https://www.reddit.com/r/sports/s/8mDpqHBP5J Woman Calls Churches To See If They’ll Feed Starving Baby https://www.newsweek.com/nikalie-monroe-church-call-experiment-starving-child-poverty-snap-benefits-11022815 New York Times Article – Did Women Ruin The Workplace? https://archive.is/UqFuP AITAH for divorcing over my birthday gift? https://www.reddit.com/r/AITAH/comments/1ot1zeh/aitah_for_divorcing_over_my_birthday_gift/   📚 This Week’s Recommendation: Follow Amarachi! https://www.tiktok.com/@amarareyal Check Out Lisa’s Blog On This Episode! https://www.patreon.com/collection/960341   💌 Join the Conversation: Got questions or wild stories to share? Email us at mailbag@sirensound.co with “The Audaci-Tea” in the subject line — your message might be featured in a future episode!   ☕✨ Support the Show: Join our Patreon community! Sign up for free, or become a Tea VIP for exclusive perks like: Bonus Crumpets segment – completely unhinged and uncensored Early access to episodes Voice memo mailbag access Ad-free listening A private feminist community 👉 https://www.patreon.com/audacitea   ▶️ Subscribe & Watch Full Episodes on YouTube: https://youtube.com/@theaudaci-teapodcast Join our YouTube Membership for the Crumpets segment — a completely unhinged and uncensored bonus segment of the show!   📱 Follow Us Online: TikTok – https://www.tiktok.com/@the_audacitea0 Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/the_audacitea_podcast Spotify – https://open.spotify.com/show/1qfGGpJ0aS626IGBGwLtdU Apple Podcasts – https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-audaci-tea/id1779370788   🕰️ Episode Chapters 00:00 Welcome and Tea Time! 03:40 Dems Cave To Trump 09:10 Crown or Clown: Trump at the NFL Game 15:27 Will Churches Feed Starving Babies? 26:02 Did Women Ruin The Workplace? 32:24 Welcome Amarachi! 35:01 The Villain Era: Empowering Women 42:56 The Dangers of Settling in Relationships 51:04 The Importance of Discernment 01:01:47 The Illusion of Male Friendships 01:16:20 The Villain Era: Empowerment or Manipulation? 01:27:57 This You? Divorce Over B Day Gift 01:50:15 Poll Results: What Happened To The “Girl’s Girl?”   🎙️ The Audaci-Tea is a production of Siren Sound, executively produced by Lisa Carr and The Sovereign Woman. Music, audio production, and show production by Ryan Marth and Siren Sound.   📩 For advertising, business, or general inquiries: info@sirensound.co   💡 Disclaimer: The views and opinions expressed in this podcast are those of the hosts and guests and do not necessarily reflect the views of Siren Sound or its affiliates. This podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only and should not be considered professional advice.

In this week’s episode of The Audaci-Tea Podcast, hosts Lisa and Sovereign unpack how religion has long been used to control women, and how deconstructing those beliefs can lead to empowerment and freedom. They dive into how patriarchal interpretations of faith shape women’s roles, self worth, and choices, and what it takes to spiritually and emotionally reclaim your voice. But first, in Tea Time, the hosts discuss the world’s first AI government minister, Mariah Carey’s controversial new Christmas ad, the viral Erika Kirk and JD Vance controversy, and Vogue’s piece asking if having a boyfriend is embarrassing in 2025. Finally, in the Mailbag, they respond to a listener seeking strategies to safely reject men without backlash or danger.   🎧 This episode explores how women can challenge patriarchal systems within religion, break free from spiritual guilt, and find empowerment through critical thinking and self-trust.   🎙️ Topics Discussed: How religion reinforces the patriarchal The hidden ways women internalize religious control The Adam and Eve story and its cultural impact on women Deconstructing faith and redefining spirituality for yourself Strategies for rejecting men safely and confidently How curiosity and critical thinking lead to freedom   ✨ Links and Resources Mentioned: World’s First AI Minister is “Pregnant” With 83 Offspring Government Announces https://futurism.com/artificial-intelligence/rama-diella-albania-pregnant   Mariah Carey's New Ad Isn't Spreading Christmas Cheer For Folks Online https://www.thelist.com/2016096/mariah-carey-christmas-sephora-ad-backlash/   The General Strike 2025 https://generalstrikeus.com   Is Having a Boyfriend Embarrassing Now? https://www.vogue.com/article/is-having-a-boyfriend-embarrassing-now   Erika Kirk’s Comment About JD Vance and Her Late Husband Charlie Kirk Breaks the Internet https://www.yahoo.com/entertainment/celebrity/articles/erika-kirk-jd-vance-her-030446893.html   Final Judgment Issued in Justin Baldoni’s Countersuit Against Blake Lively https://www.eonline.com/news/1424538/justin-baldoni-misses-deadline-to-appeal-blake-lively-countersuit-dismissal   Portland faith leaders speak out in solidarity against ICE, National Guard deployment https://www.kptv.com/2025/09/30/portland-faith-leaders-speak-out-solidarity-against-ice-national-guard-deployment/   Going to church could help you live longer, study says https://edition.cnn.com/2016/05/16/health/religion-lifespan-health   Praying Allows People to Believe They Are Doing Something Useful https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/your-brain-food/202206/praying-allows-people-believe-they-are-doing-something-useful   This Christian Minister Doesn’t Believe in God — And She’s Not the Only One https://www.vice.com/en/article/this-christian-minister-doesnt-believe-in-god-and-shes-not-the-only-one/   📚 This Week’s Recommendation: Witches, Whores, and Rebels by Therese Lee https://thereselee.com/witches-whores-rebels/   💌 Join the Conversation: Got questions or wild stories to share? Email us at mailbag@sirensound.co with “The Audaci-Tea” in the subject line — your message might be featured in a future episode!   ☕✨ Support the Show: Join our Patreon community! Sign up for free, or become a Tea VIP for exclusive perks like: Bonus Crumpets segment – completely unhinged and uncensored Early access to episodes Voice memo mailbag access Ad-free listening A private feminist community 👉 https://www.patreon.com/audacitea   ▶️ Subscribe & Watch Full Episodes on YouTube: https://youtube.com/@theaudaci-teapodcast Join our YouTube Membership for the Crumpets segment — a completely unhinged and uncensored bonus segment of the show!   📱 Follow Us Online: TikTok – https://www.tiktok.com/@the_audacitea0 Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/the_audacitea_podcast Spotify – https://open.spotify.com/show/1qfGGpJ0aS626IGBGwLtdU Apple Podcasts – https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-audaci-tea/id1779370788   🕰️ Episode Chapters 00:00 Welcome and Tea Time! 03:40 Albania Has AI Government 09:47 Mariah Carey’s Controversial Ad 15:42 The Vogue Article: Is Having a Boyfriend Embarrassing? 31:59 Religion and the Patriarchy 52:03 Creation Narratives and Gender Equality 59:20 The Consequences of Knowledge and Curiosity 01:13:13 Religion as a Tool for Control 01:22:13 Deconstructing Religious Narratives and Patriarchy 01:27:23 Mailbag: Navigating Rejection Safely 01:43:33 Poll Results: Beware The Emotional Vampire!   🎙️ The Audaci-Tea is a production of Siren Sound, executively produced by Lisa Carr and The Sovereign Woman. Music, audio production, and show production by Ryan Marth and Siren Sound.   📩 For advertising, business, or general inquiries: info@sirensound.co   💡 Disclaimer: The views and opinions expressed in this podcast are those of the hosts and guests and do not necessarily reflect the views of Siren Sound or its affiliates. This podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only and should not be considered professional advice.

In this week’s episode of The Audaci-Tea Podcast, hosts Lisa and Sovereign unpack the cultural shift around the term “girl’s girl”. Once a symbol of loyalty and sisterhood, now sometimes used as an insult. They explore what happened to “girl code,” how patriarchy and social media pit women against each other, and what real female solidarity looks like in 2025. But first, in Tea Time, the hosts discuss the viral TikTok “EBT Lady” on SNAP benefits expiring, the backlash to Megan Thee Stallion’s new single “Lover Girl,” and Jameela Jamil’s viral claim that studios are “dumbing down” TV shows for distracted scrollers. Later, they play a Patreon-voted round of “Therapy or the Void?” featuring the characters of Friends.   🎧 This episode asks the question: Have women stopped having each other’s backs or are we just redefining what it means to be a girl’s girl?   🎙️ Topics Discussed: How “girl’s girl” went from compliment to insult The online policing of women and performative feminism Megan Thee Stallion as a modern “girl’s girl” icon How patriarchy thrives by dividing women The importance of solidarity over competition Why confidence and self-love are the ultimate rebellion   ✨ Links and Resources Mentioned: SNAP Runs Out of Money Nov. 1 — Here’s What That Means https://www.npr.org/2025/10/28/g-s1-95189/snap-food-stamps-government-shutdown-november Megan Thee Stallion Calls Out Her Haters as “Bots” https://www.rap-up.com/article/megan-thee-stallion-paid-online-hate-campaign Jameela Jamil on TV Shows Being “Dumbed Down” https://youtube.com/shorts/Lh09JO0MoME?si=dc4MHqsZKeYxTjhZ   📚 This Week’s Recommendation: Watch Weapons https://www.imdb.com/title/tt26581740/ Check out Therese Lee’s channel! https://www.youtube.com/@theresehlee Lisa’s Blog: “What Happened To The Girls Girl?” https://www.patreon.com/posts/reading-tea-blog-142530837   💌 Join the Conversation: Got questions or wild stories to share? Email us at mailbag@sirensound.co with “The Audaci-Tea” in the subject line. Your message might be featured in a future episode.   ☕✨ Support the Show: Join our Patreon community! Sign up for free, or become a Tea VIP for exclusive perks like: Bonus Crumpets segment – completely unhinged and uncensored Early access to episodes Voice memo mailbag access Ad-free listening A private feminist community 👉 https://www.patreon.com/audacitea   ▶️ Subscribe & Watch Full Episodes on YouTube: https://youtube.com/@theaudaci-teapodcast Join our YouTube Membership for the Crumpets segment – a completely unhinged and uncensored bonus segment of the show!   📱 Follow Us Online: TikTok – https://www.tiktok.com/@the_audacitea0 Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/the_audacitea_podcast Spotify – https://open.spotify.com/show/1qfGGpJ0aS626IGBGwLtdU Apple Podcasts – https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-audaci-tea/id1779370788   🕰️ Episode Chapters 00:00 Welcome and Tea Time! 04:05 The EBT Lady Controversy 13:01 Megan Thee Stallion’s New Single 18:38 TV Shows for Scrollers: A New Trend? 26:32 The Evolution of the “Girl’s Girl” 31:23 Performative Feminism 42:15 Women in the Patriarchy 48:23 Policing Women: The Dangers of Judgment 59:43 Confidence and Male Validation 01:09:28 The Power of Women Supporting Women 01:16:13 Therapy Or The Void? Friends Edition 01:38:50 Poll Results: The Cool Girl Myth   🎙️ The Audaci-Tea is a production of Siren Sound, executively produced by Lisa Carr and The Sovereign Woman. Music, audio production, and show production by Ryan Marth and Siren Sound.   📩 For advertising, business, or general inquiries: info@sirensound.co   💡 Disclaimer: The views and opinions expressed in this podcast are those of the hosts and guests and do not necessarily reflect the views of Siren Sound or its affiliates. This podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only and should not be considered professional advice.  

In this week’s episode of The Audaci-Tea Podcast, hosts Lisa and Sovereign sink their teeth into the world of emotional vampires — the people who drain your peace, your joy, and your energy. They explore how to recognize these emotional leeches, the red flags of covert narcissism and drama addiction, and how to protect your energy with healthy boundaries and self-awareness. But first, in Tea Time, the hosts discuss the new “full bush” underwear from Skims, Mackenzie Scott’s major donation to Black cultural preservation, the viral $5.5K “alpha male” bootcamp that’s more parody than power, and Mike Vrabel’s viral feminist gesture during NFL press conferences. Later, in the Mailbag, they respond to a listener question about why some men deliberately retraumatize their partners in relationships. 🎧 This episode exposes the traits of emotional vampires and gives you the garlic, mirror, and wooden stake to protect your peace. 🎙️ Topics Discussed: How to recognize emotional vampires in relationships and friendships Narcissists, drama magnets, and energy drainers How emotional exhaustion affects women’s mental health The power of boundaries and emotional detachment Why centering yourself is the ultimate act of self-preservation Signs of covert manipulation and how to protect your energy ✨ Links and Resources Mentioned: SKIMS Is Selling ‘Full Bush’ Underwear https://people.com/kim-kardashian-addresses-attention-around-new-skims-full-bush-faux-pubic-hair-underwear-11832419 MacKenzie Scott Triples Down on DEI With $40 Million Donation https://fortune.com/2025/10/15/billionaire-mackenzie-scott-dei-40-million-donation-african-american-cultural-heritage-fund/ $5.5K Bootcamp to Turn ‘Soft Men’ Into ‘Alpha Males’ Goes Viral https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-15191027/David-Cohodes-5500-alpha-male-bootcamp.html Mike Vrabel Explains Why He Gives Female Reporters the First Question https://awfulannouncing.com/nfl/mike-vrabel-explains-first-question-press-conferences-female.html Millions Attend ‘No Kings’ Protests Across the U.S. https://time.com/7326801/no-kings-protests-near-me-trump/ 📚 This Week’s Recommendation: Vampire in Brooklyn https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0114825/ 💌 Join the Conversation: Got questions or wild stories to share? Email us at https://www.patreon.com/audacitea ▶️ Subscribe & Watch Full Episodes on YouTube: https://youtube.com/@theaudaci-teapodcast Join our YouTube Membership for the Crumpets segment – a completely unhinged and uncensored bonus segment of the show! 📱 Follow Us Online: TikTok – https://www.tiktok.com/@the_audacitea0 Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/the_audacitea_podcast Spotify – https://open.spotify.com/show/1qfGGpJ0aS626IGBGwLtdU Apple Podcasts – https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-audaci-tea/id1779370788 🕰️ Episode Chapters 00:00 Welcome and Tea Time! 04:20 Skims “Full Bush” Underwear 11:18 Mackenzie Scott’s Philanthropy 15:00 Alpha Male Bootcamp: A Comedy of Errors 22:43 Mike Vrabel’s Microfeminism 25:57 No Kings Protest 29:54 What Are Emotional Vampires? 31:15 Types of Emotional Vampires 49:40 Setting Boundaries in Friendships 01:12:27 Recognizing and Avoiding Emotional Vampires 01:15:53 Mailbag: Men Intentionally Re-Traumatizing You?? 01:32:46 Poll Results: The Performance of Masculinity 🎙️ The Audaci-Tea is a production of Siren Sound, executively produced by Lisa Carr and The Sovereign Woman. Music, audio production, and show production by Ryan Marth and Siren Sound. 📩 For advertising, business, or general inquiries: info@sirensound.co 💡 Disclaimer: The views and opinions expressed in this podcast are those of the hosts and guests and do not necessarily reflect the views of Siren Sound or its affiliates. This podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only and should not be considered professional advice.

In this week’s episode of The Audaci-Tea Podcast, hosts Lisa and Sovereign unpack the “Cool Girl” archetype; the effortless, chill, low-maintenance woman who always puts men’s comfort first. They explore how this myth was built to serve patriarchy, how it pressures women to suppress their emotions and identity, and why rejecting it is a radical act of self-love. But first, in Tea Time, the hosts discuss Ayesha Curry’s viral comments about not wanting marriage or kids, the Texas State Fair backlash over price gouging, and a man who went viral for buying a life-size Henry Cavill doll. Later, in Tea or Trash, they debate the ethics of cosmetic surgery and authenticity in the age of performative empowerment.   🎧 This episode dives into the Cool Girl archetype — how patriarchy rewards female self-erasure, how women perform to earn male approval, and why true empowerment begins with authenticity.   🎙️ Topics Discussed: The origins and cultural impact of the Cool Girl archetype How patriarchy teaches women to perform for the male gaze Ayesha Curry and public discourse on marriage, motherhood, and autonomy Authenticity vs. the “low-maintenance” performance Why women’s self-worth must exist beyond male validation The intersection of feminism, beauty culture, and self-acceptance   ✨ Links and Resources Mentioned: Ayesha Curry Says She Didn’t Want To Get Married Or Have Kids https://www.yahoo.com/entertainment/celebrity/articles/stephen-curry-supports-ayesha-amid-145811878.html Viral Social Media Posts Spark Debate Over State Fair of Texas Attendance and Costs https://www.wfaa.com/article/news/local/state-fair/viral-posts-spark-debate-over-state-fair-of-texas-attendance-costs/287-4994d76c-ddb1-45af-9f93-61ebab6ec5e0 Man Buys Anatomically Correct Henry Cavill Doll https://www.queerty.com/man-buys-a-life-size-silicone-anatomically-correct-henry-cavill-doll-immediately-goes-viral-20251008/   📚 This Week’s Recommendation: When Did You Realize That Being the “Cool Girlfriend” Was a Load of Sh*t? https://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomen/comments/127umam/when_did_you_realize_that_being_the_cool/?share_id=y5PhlxBUsXiMss2yaLSNy&utm_content=2&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_source=share&utm_term=1   💌 Join the Conversation: Got questions or wild stories to share? Email us at mailbag@sirensound.co with “The Audaci-Tea” in the subject line. Your message might be featured in a future episode.   ☕✨ Support the Show: Join our Patreon community! Sign up for free, or become a Tea VIP for exclusive perks like: Bonus Crumpets segment – completely unhinged and uncensored Early access to episodes Voice memo mailbag access Ad-free listening A private feminist community 👉 https://www.patreon.com/audacitea   ▶️ Subscribe & Watch Full Episodes on YouTube: https://youtube.com/@theaudaci-teapodcast Join our YouTube Membership for the Crumpets segment – a completely unhinged and uncensored bonus segment of the show!   📱 Follow Us Online: TikTok – https://www.tiktok.com/@the_audacitea0 Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/the_audacitea_podcast   🕰️ Episode Chapters 00:00 Welcome and Tea Time! 05:46 Ayesha Curry “Didn’t Want Marriage Or Kids” 13:55 Texas State Fair: Price Gouging and Public Reactions 18:40 Man Buys Anatomically Correct Henry Cavill Doll 25:38 Understanding the “Cool Girl” 33:06 The Dynamics of Female Competition 38:36 The Performance of Being a Cool Girl 43:52 The Exhaustion of Cool Girl Expectations 49:43 Authenticity in Relationships 50:50 The Cool Girl vs. Trad Wife Dichotomy 56:30 The Consequences of Being a Cool Girl 01:06:09 Recognizing Your Worth 01:11:30 Empowerment Through Self-Love and Healing 01:14:38 Tea or Trash: Cosmetic Surgery 01:29:58 Tea or Trash: Feminism in Advertising 01:32:38 Poll Results: Surplus Men   🎙️ The Audaci-Tea is a production of Siren Sound, executively produced by Lisa Carr and The Sovereign Woman. Music, audio production, and show production by Ryan Marth and Siren Sound.   📩 For advertising, business, or general inquiries: info@sirensound.co   💡 Disclaimer: The views and opinions expressed in this podcast are those of the hosts and guests and do not necessarily reflect the views of Siren Sound or its affiliates. This podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only and should not be considered professional advice.

In this week’s episode of The Audaci-Tea Podcast, hosts Lisa and Sovereign welcome back special guest The Public Offender to unpack what it really means to perform masculinity, and how this performance shapes men’s behavior, women’s safety, and the structure of society itself. Together, they explore how cultural scripts of “manhood” are reinforced by patriarchy, peer pressure, and media, and how redefining masculinity could free everyone from toxic expectations. But first, in Tea Time, the hosts cover Trump’s attempt at a military takeover of Portland, Nicole Kidman and Keith Urban’s divorce, Janae’s viral diss track aimed at Nicki Minaj, a listener comment asking whether decentering men actually centers them, and a Tea VIP voicemail seeking advice about her son’s father. Later, in the Mailbag segment, they tackle a listener question about handling a brother-in-law’s inappropriate text messages.   🎧 This episode pulls back the curtain on the performance of masculinity — how men perform toughness for other men, the social cost of emotional repression, and how redefining manhood benefits everyone.   🎙️ Topics Discussed: The cultural performance of masculinity and its social consequences Male identity, emotional repression, and societal expectations Patriarchy’s influence on relationships and gender dynamics How peer groups reinforce toxic masculine norms Feminism, empathy, and the path to redefining manhood Navigating harassment, boundaries, and accountability   ✨ Links and Resources Mentioned: Trump Slams Federal Judge, Whom He Appointed, for Blocking National Guard Deployment in Portland https://tinyurl.com/mvw3p7vh Keith Urban’s ‘Cocaine Clause’ Set to Land Him Millions as Nicole Kidman Files for Divorce https://www.standard.co.uk/showbiz/keith-urban-cocaine-clause-prenup-nicole-kidman-divorce-b1250581.html Janae Releases Nicki Minaj Diss Track https://www.tiktok.com/@janae.alea/video/7557571706492161310   📚 This Week’s Recommendation: The Performance of Masculinity: Beyond Postures and Gestures https://davidnjohnson.com/men/the-performance-of-masculinity-beyond-postures-and-gestures/ Follow The Public Offender https://linktr.ee/publicoffender   💌 Join the Conversation: Got questions or wild stories to share? Email us at mailbag@sirensound.co with “The Audaci-Tea” in the subject line. Your message might be featured in a future episode.   ☕✨ Support the Show: Join our Patreon community! Sign up for free, or become a Tea VIP for exclusive perks like: Bonus “Crumpets” segment – completely unhinged and uncensored Early access to episodes Voice memo mailbag access Ad-free listening A private feminist community 👉 https://www.patreon.com/audacitea   ▶️ Subscribe & Watch Full Episodes on YouTube: https://youtube.com/@theaudaci-teapodcast Join our YouTube Membership for the Crumpets segment – a completely unhinged and uncensored bonus segment of the show!   📱 Follow Us Online: TikTok – https://www.tiktok.com/@the_audacitea0 Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/the_audacitea_podcast   🕰️ Episode Chapters 00:00 Welcome and Tea Time! 03:15 Trump Attempts Portland Military Takeover 05:55 Nicole Kidman & Keith Urban Divorce 11:50 Janae Releases Nicki Minaj Diss Track 12:28 Is It Impossible To Decenter Men? 18:56 Tea VIP Voicemail: Anger Towards Men 26:07 Welcome Back, The Public Offender! 31:03 Race, Class, And Masculinity 36:14 Scripts of Manhood and Societal Expectations 41:18 Men Hate Femininity 52:21 The Influence of Male Peer Groups 01:03:05 The Patriarchy's Grip on Society 01:13:24 Cultural Differences in Women's Solidarity 01:21:56 Escaping the Patriarchy 01:33:44 Mailbag: Sexual Harassment From Brother-In-Law 01:50:00 Poll Results: Decoding 'Manspeak'   🎙️ The Audaci-Tea is a production of Siren Sound, executively produced by Lisa Carr and The Sovereign Woman. Music, audio production, and show production by Ryan Marth and Siren Sound.   📩 For advertising, business, or general inquiries, email info@sirensound.co   💡 Disclaimer: The views and opinions expressed in this podcast are those of the hosts and guests and do not necessarily reflect the views of Siren Sound or its affiliates. This podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only and should not be considered professional advice.

What happens when a society has more men than women who want to partner with them? In this week’s episode of The Audaci-Tea Podcast, hosts Lisa and Sovereign unpack the concept of “surplus men” — those left out of relationships, social life, and purpose. They explore how this imbalance impacts dating, marriage, politics, and even global stability. From radicalization to authoritarianism, the hosts reveal why surplus men pose one of the most overlooked social challenges of our time. But first, in Tea Time, they cover Alex Jones and Nick Fuentes being banned from YouTube (again), a shocking mass catcalling event in Spain, Suffolk County’s “Top 10 Deadbeat Dads” list, and a listener comment on why women stay in relationships with men. Later, they break down a Reddit case study of a husband controlling his wife through finances.   🎧 This episode digs into the ripple effects of male loneliness, societal unrest, and why women’s independence is changing the dating landscape worldwide.   🎙️ Topics Discussed: The global rise of “surplus men” and why it matters Male loneliness, violence, and radicalization How skewed sex ratios shape politics and stability Why marriage has historically “pacified” men Finding purpose outside relationships with women Financial control and power dynamics in modern marriages   ✨ Links and Resources Mentioned: Alex Jones and Nick Fuentes Taken Off YouTube Again https://www.independent.co.uk/news/world/americas/us-politics/alex-jones-nick-fuentes-youtube-ban-covid-b2833859.html Spanish Students Stage Mass Catcalling Event https://www.stuff.co.nz/world/300709146/spanish-students-stage-mass-expletiveridden-catcalling-event Top 10 Deadbeat Dads in Suffolk County https://www.yahoo.com/news/10-worst-deadbeat-dads-suffolk-234139974.html A Surplus Of Men, A Deficit Of Peace https://kar.kent.ac.uk/11430/1/surplus_men_IS_article.pdf Women Continue To Outpace Men In College Enrollment and Graduation https://www.forbes.com/sites/michaeltnietzel/2024/08/07/women-continue-to-outpace-men-in-college-enrollment-and-graduation/   📚 This Week’s Recommendation: Everything Is Tuberculosis by John Green https://www.amazon.com/Everything-Tuberculosis-Persistence-Deadliest-Infection/dp/0525556575 Lisa’s blog on Surplus Men: https://www.patreon.com/posts/reading-tea-blog-140381730 💌 Join the Conversation: Got questions or wild stories to share? Email us at mailbag@sirensound.co with “The Audaci-Tea” in the subject line. Your message might be featured in a future episode.   ☕✨ Support the Show: Join our Patreon community! Sign up for free, or become a Tea VIP for exclusive perks like: Bonus “Crumpets” segment – completely unhinged and uncensored Early access to episodes Voice memo mailbag access Ad-free listening A private feminist community 👉 https://www.patreon.com/audacitea   ▶️ Subscribe & Watch Full Episodes on YouTube: https://youtube.com/@theaudaci-teapodcast Join our YouTube Membership for the Crumpets segment – a completely unhinged and uncensored bonus segment of the show!   📱 Follow Us Online: TikTok – https://www.tiktok.com/@the_audacitea0 Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/the_audacitea_podcast   🕰️ Episode Chapters 00:00 Welcome and Tea Time! 04:05 Alex Jones & Nick Fuentes Banned From YouTube Again 07:40 Mass Catcalling Event in Spain 14:55 Top 10 Deadbeat Dads 18:35 Can You Decenter Men While In A Relationship? 28:15 Surplus Men: Understanding the Crisis 39:02 The Reality of Surplus Men 49:48 Political Implications of Surplus Males 58:10 Why Are There Surplus Men? 01:06:15 Evolution and Identity Crisis in Men 01:11:12 How To Not Be A Surplus Man 01:18:17 This You? Husband Withholds Finances 01:35:24 Poll Results: Why Women Lose Themselves In Relationships   🎙️ The Audaci-Tea is a production of Siren Sound, executively produced by Lisa Carr and The Sovereign Woman. Music, audio production, and show production by Ryan Marth and Siren Sound.   📩 For advertising, business, or general inquiries, email info@sirensound.co   💡 Disclaimer: The views and opinions expressed in this podcast are those of the hosts and guests and do not necessarily reflect the views of Siren Sound or its affiliates. This podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only and should not be considered professional advice.

Have you ever heard a man drop some bizarre terminology when talking about women? Words that sound more like a conspiracy than a conversation? In this week’s episode of The Audaci-Tea Podcast, your hosts Lisa and Sovereign break down the language of the “Red Pill” and decode the toxic phrases that reveal insecurity, misogyny, and control. They unpack where this manspeak comes from, why it’s dangerous, and how women can recognize the red flags early. But first, in Tea Time, they get into Jimmy Kimmel’s cancellation controversy, Cardi B’s pregnancy announcement, and the latest rapture conspiracy making the rounds online. Later, in Mailbag, they answer a listener’s question: can men and women really be just friends if attraction is in the mix?   🎧 This episode is all about recognizing the hidden meanings in Red Pill language, reclaiming confidence in conversations with men, and raising sons who reject misogynistic scripts.   🎙️ Topics Discussed: What “Red Pill” terminology really means Misogyny hidden in everyday language How to respond to manspeak and red flag phrases Emotional intelligence as a tool for raising better sons Why women should center their own goals and independence   ✨ Links and Resources Mentioned: Jimmy Kimmel Returns To Air https://www.npr.org/2025/09/24/nx-s1-5551277/jimmy-kimmel-live-abc-back-on-air-glen-powell-fcc-trump Cardi B Is Pregnant https://www.vogue.com/article/cardi-b-is-pregnant-stefon-diggs The Rapture Is Coming? https://www.iflscience.com/how-is-the-world-is-going-to-end-tomorrow-according-to-conspiracy-theorists-80898 A Third of Male University Students Say They Would Rape a Woman if There Were No Consequences https://www.the-independent.com/news/world/americas/a-third-of-male-university-students-say-they-would-rape-a-woman-if-there-no-were-no-consequences-9978052.html   📚 This Week’s Recommendation: Read Lisa's Blog On Decoding Manspeak https://www.patreon.com/posts/reading-tea-blog-139748719 Reverse Red-Pill Your Sons In Advance https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTMdvDXQ8/ Adolescence https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTMdvDXQ8/ The Will To Change by Bell Hooks https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/the-will-to-change-bell-hooks/1100306349   💌 Join the Conversation: Got questions or wild stories to share? Email us at mailbag@sirensound.co with “The Audaci-Tea” in the subject line. Your message might be featured in a future episode.   ☕✨ Support the Show: Join our Patreon community! Sign up for free, or become a Tea VIP for exclusive perks like: Bonus “Crumpets” segment – completely unhinged and uncensored Early access to episodes Voice memo mailbag access Ad-free listening A private feminist community 👉 https://www.patreon.com/audacitea   ▶️ Subscribe & Watch Full Episodes on YouTube: https://youtube.com/@theaudaci-teapodcast Join our YouTube Membership for the Crumpets segment – a completely unhinged and uncensored bonus segment of the show!   📱 Follow Us Online: TikTok – https://www.tiktok.com/@the_audacitea0 Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/the_audacitea_podcast   🕰️ Episode Chapters 00:00 Welcome and Tea Time! 02:44 Jimmy Kimmel and Cancel Culture 08:17 Cardi B’s New Album and Personal Life 13:12 Rapture Tok and Religious Psychosis 22:42 Intro To Red Pill Terminology 31:07 Debunking Misconceptions About Masculinity 38:50 Dehumanization and Misogyny in Language 50:02 Emotional Intelligence and Logic 01:12:54 Raising Emotionally Intelligent Boys 01:18:24 Mailbag: Can Men and Women Be Platonic Friends? 01:40:14 Poll Results: Being Hot & Having Fun   🎙️ The Audaci-Tea is a production of Siren Sound, executively produced by Lisa Carr and The Sovereign Woman. Music, audio production, and show production by Ryan Marth and Siren Sound.   📩 For advertising, business, or general inquiries, email info@sirensound.co   💡 Disclaimer: The views and opinions expressed in this podcast are those of the hosts and guests and do not necessarily reflect the views of Siren Sound or its affiliates. This podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only and should not be considered professional advice.

Have you ever felt like you're losing a piece of yourself in a relationship? Like the 'you' before your partner slowly fades away? In this week’s episode of The Audaci-Tea Podcast, your hosts Lisa and Sovereign are diving deep into why so many women find themselves in this exact situation, exploring the subtle shifts and societal pressures that lead to a diminished sense of self when partnered. But first, in Tea Time, they discuss the latest NBC poll revealing Gen Z’s gender divide on what success means, Epstein’s infamous birthday book, and the heartbreaking story of an elderly man scammed by Meta’s flirty AI chatbot. Later, the hosts debut a brand new game called Therapy or the Void, putting characters of Sex and the City to the ultimate test.   🎧 This episode is all about recognizing the patterns that erase women’s individuality and finding the tools to prioritize independence, self-worth, and authenticity in relationships.   🎙️ Topics Discussed: Why women minimize themselves to fit societal expectations Sacrificing dreams and identity for partners Media’s role in romanticizing unhealthy relationships Gen Z’s gender divide on defining success How women can reclaim independence and self-worth   ✨ Links and Resources Mentioned: NBC Poll: Gender Divide Among Gen Z on Defined Success https://www.nbcnews.com/video/shorts/nbc-poll-finds-big-gender-divide-among-gen-z-247116357733 Epstein’s Birthday Book https://www.pbs.org/newshour/nation/see-epsteins-full-birthday-book-with-alleged-personal-messages-from-trump-clinton-and-others Meta’s Flirty AI Chatbot Invited a Retiree to New York. He Never Made It Home https://www.reuters.com/investigates/special-report/meta-ai-chatbot-death/   📚 This Week’s Recommendation: Stop Waiting For Your Hypothetical Husband https://youtu.be/6CiOm04JNVc?si=J55QZuGauIuIB0Ns Untamed by Glennon Doyle https://www.amazon.com/Untamed-Glennon-Doyle-Melton/dp/1984801252 Women Who Run With The Wolves by Clarissa Pinkola Estés https://tinyurl.com/3ncrc22k Year of Yes by Shonda Rhimes https://www.mahoganybooks.com/9781476777092?searchid=0&search_query=The+year+of+yes   💌 Join the Conversation: Got questions or wild stories to share? Email us at mailbag@sirensound.co with “The Audaci-Tea” in the subject line. Your message might be featured in a future episode.   ☕✨ Support the Show: Join our Patreon community! Sign up for free, or become a Tea VIP for exclusive perks like: Bonus “Crumpets” segment – completely unhinged and uncensored Early access to episodes Voice memo mailbag access Ad-free listening A private feminist community 👉 https://www.patreon.com/audacitea   ▶️ Subscribe & Watch Full Episodes on YouTube: https://youtube.com/@theaudaci-teapodcast   📱 Follow Us Online: TikTok – https://www.tiktok.com/@the_audacitea0 Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/the_audacitea_podcast   🕰️ Episode Chapters 00:00 Welcome & Tea Time! 04:17 Gen Z Gender Divide on Success 11:33 Epstein’s Birthday Book 15:36 Elderly Man Dies Trying To Cheat With Chatbot 22:46 Why Women Lose Themselves in Relationships 31:10 Reframing Women's Roles and Personal Success 43:55 The Career-Driven Woman 48:00 Sacrificing for Others: The Patriarchal Script 54:49 The Impact of Gender Expectations 01:03:09 Living Life on Your Own Terms 01:10:11 Therapy Or The Void: Sex & The City 01:33:14 Poll Results: Passport Bros   🎙️ The Audaci-Tea is a production of Siren Sound, executively produced by Lisa Carr and The Sovereign Woman. Music, audio production, and show production by Ryan Marth and Siren Sound.   📩 For advertising, business, or general inquiries, email info@sirensound.co   💡 Disclaimer: The views and opinions expressed in this podcast are those of the hosts and guests and do not necessarily reflect the views of Siren Sound or its affiliates. This podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only and should not be considered professional advice.

In this week’s episode of The Audaci-Tea Podcast, your hosts Lisa, Sovereign, and Gwen are joined by special guest Amber Akilla! Amber is a DJ, online personality, and unapologetic advocate of living authentically. In this epsiode, Amber shares her philosophy of being hot and having fun, centering confidence, independence, and self-acceptance as tools for empowerment. But first, in Tea Time, the hosts break down Judge Judy’s advice that women should always have their own money, Ciara adding Russell Wilson’s last name to Future Jr, how men are currently ruining nightlife, and Druski’s viral NASCAR appearance. In Mailbag, they respond to a listener navigating men’s expectations of women in public conversations.   🎧 This episode is all about embracing joy, confidence, and authenticity, and how women can decenter the male gaze to build lives filled with fun, creativity, and power.   🎙️ Topics Discussed: Amber Akilla’s philosophy of being hot and having fun Why women should always keep financial independence Nightlife and how male behavior changes women’s experiences Exercise, movement, and dance as self-care beyond weight loss Decentering men and embracing authentic confidence Living authentically and learning from failure   ✨ Links and Resources Mentioned: Ciara Adds Russell Wilson’s Last Name to Son https://www.vibe.com/news/entertainment/ciara-added-wilson-to-son-futures-last-name-years-ago-1235106568/ Men Are Ruining Nightlife! https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT6nkywHc/ Druski Goes Viral https://www.yahoo.com/entertainment/celebrity/articles/druski-faces-backlash-whiteface-nascar-183429728.html   📚 This Week’s Recommendation: FREE EBOOK: The Shopping List Your Mother Owes You by Mide Yussuff https://dunnmade.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/08/the-list-your-mother-owes-you-by-mide-yussuff-1-flat-1.pdf   Beauty Fades, Dumb Is Forever: The Making of a Happy Woman by Judy Sheindlin https://a.co/d/caB4MIz   Follow Amber! @AmberAkilla everywhere   💌 Join the Conversation: Got questions or wild stories to share? Email us at mailbag@sirensound.co with “The Audaci-Tea” in the subject line. Your message might be featured in a future episode.   ☕✨ Support the Show: Join our Patreon community! Sign up for free, or become a Tea VIP for exclusive perks like: Bonus "Crumpets" segment – completely unhinged and uncensored Early access to episodes Voice memo mailbag access Ad-free listening A private feminist community 👉 https://www.patreon.com/audacitea   ▶️ Subscribe & Watch Full Episodes on YouTube: https://youtube.com/@theaudaci-teapodcast   📱 Follow Us Online: TikTok – https://www.tiktok.com/@the_audacitea0 Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/the_audacitea_podcast   🕰️ Episode Chapters 00:00 Welcome and Tea Time! 03:09 Judge Judy’s Advice For Women 08:34 Ciara Changes Son’s Last Name 13:42 Men Are Ruining Nightlife! 22:26 Druski’s Whiteface at NASCAR 24:47 Welcome Amber Akilla! 27:30 Amber’s Journey and Philosophy 31:04 Defining Being Hot and Having Fun 41:30 Movement and Exercise as Self-Care 52:20 The Balance of Consumption and Contribution 01:00:59 Living Authentically: Advice for Young Women 01:10:16 Decentering Men, Self-Perception and Confidence 01:17:28 Embracing Failure and the Journey 01:24:54 Mailbag: Forced Politeness In Shared Spaces 01:36:30 Poll Results: The "Manosphere" Algorithms   🎙️ The Audaci-Tea is a production of Siren Sound, executively produced by Lisa Carr, The Sovereign Woman, and Gwen. Music, audio production, and show production by Ryan Marth and Siren Sound.   📩 For advertising, business, or general inquiries, email info@sirensound.co   💡 Disclaimer: The views and opinions expressed in this podcast are those of the hosts and guests and do not necessarily reflect the views of Siren Sound or its affiliates. This podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only and should not be considered professional advice.

In this week’s episode of The Audaci-Tea Podcast, your hosts Lisa, Sovereign, and Gwen expose the dark underbelly of the “Passport Bros” movement, where Western men travel abroad seeking relationships with women in countries that often have less gender equality and opportunity. From exploitation disguised as romance to the illusions of “traditional” femininity, the hosts unpack how patriarchy and colonial fantasies intersect in this disturbing trend. But first, in Tea Time, they celebrate Gwen turning 30, react to a Seaworld mime trolling husbands who won’t carry their wives’ bags, and debate a viral claim that women fought to go 50-50 in relationships. In Feminist Herstory, they spotlight Giulia Tofana, one of history’s most infamous poisoners, and what her story reveals about women’s fight for autonomy in oppressive systems.   🎧 This episode calls out how men flee accountability at home only to recreate cycles of exploitation abroad — and why feminism’s fight against gender inequality is global.   🎙️ Topics Discussed: Why “Passport Bros” exploit global power imbalances The link between sex tourism and gender inequality How men project insecurities and seek control in relationships Why financial independence is crucial for women everywhere Feminist Herstory: Giulia Tofana and resistance against patriarchy   ✨ Links and Resources Mentioned: Mime At Seaworld Keeps Shaming Husbands To Carry Their Baby’s and Backpacks Instead Of Their Wives https://www.instagram.com/reel/DNX9pHpgiGD/ Deadly trend of ‘Passport Bros’ lured by honeytraps and murdered for cash https://www.thesun.co.uk/news/30671055/deadly-passport-bros-traps-murdered-cash-drug-kill-men/ Đổi Mới https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Đổi_Mới ‘The White Lotus’ Is Reigniting The Conversation Around ‘Passport Bros’ https://www.menshealth.com/sex-women/a64387699/what-is-a-passport-bro/ Mail Order Brides https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mail-order_bride Cyntoia Brown Released After 15 Years In Prison For Murder https://www.npr.org/2019/08/07/749025458/cyntoia-brown-released-after-15-years-in-prison-for-murder Giulia Tofana https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Giulia_Tofana   📚 This Week’s Recommendation: Dr. Potter - Stand with a Surgeon Facing Retaliation https://www.gofundme.com/f/stand-with-a-surgeon-facing-retaliation The Passport Bros Subreddit https://www.reddit.com/r/thepassportbros/   💌 Join the Conversation: Got questions or wild stories to share? Email us at mailbag@sirensound.co with “The Audaci-Tea” in the subject line. Your message might be featured in a future episode.   ☕✨ Support the Show: Join our Patreon community! Sign up for free, or become a Tea VIP for exclusive perks like: Bonus "Crumpets" segment – completely unhinged and uncensored Early access to episodes Voice memo mailbag access Ad-free listening A private feminist community 👉 https://www.patreon.com/audacitea   ▶️ Subscribe & Watch Full Episodes on YouTube: https://youtube.com/@theaudaci-teapodcast   📱 Follow Us Online: TikTok – https://www.tiktok.com/@the_audacitea0 Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/the_audacitea_podcast   🕰️ Episode Chapters 00:00 Welcome and Tea Time! 05:15 Gwen Turns 30! 14:04 Mime Trolls Dads at Seaworld 19:02 Should Feminists Go 50-50? 29:22 Passport Bros 43:04 Anything But Personal Responsibility 52:12 The Mail Order Bride Phenomenon 56:15 The Dark Side of Passport Bros 01:12:18 Feminist Herstory: Giulia Tofana 01:30:49 Poll Results: The Motherhood Trap   🎙️ The Audaci-Tea is a production of Siren Sound, executively produced by Lisa Carr, The Sovereign Woman, and Gwen. Music, audio production, and show production by Ryan Marth and Siren Sound.   📩 For advertising, business, or general inquiries, email info@sirensound.co   💡 Disclaimer: The views and opinions expressed in this podcast are those of the hosts and guests and do not necessarily reflect the views of Siren Sound or its affiliates. This podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only and should not be considered professional advice.