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Master the intricate halachic rules of proper speech with a comprehensive study of the Chofetz Chaim's foundational work. Rabbi Ari Klapper provides a detailed analysis of when speech about others is forbidden vs. permitted, covering workplace gossip, family dynamics, and community situations. Transform your relationships and spiritual growth through mindful speech. One of the most thorough English-language resources on Jewish speech ethics.
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Family SensitivitiesSpeaking about someone’s relatives is just as harmful. Words about a brother, parent, or child ignite deep pain and resentment—guard your speech at home too.Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
Gossip in ConversationEven casual talk about others can turn into Rechilus. Conversations at simchas or in stores can easily cross into gossip—think before you share.Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
The Cycle of AngerOne person’s gossip fuels another’s reaction, creating a cycle of pain and hatred. The only way to stop it—pause, stay silent, and seek daas Torah.Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
Truth Can Still KillEven if every word is true, repeating it can cause pain, shame, or hatred. Words of “truth” used carelessly are spiritual weapons.Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
Don’t Ruin RelationshipsEven public information may not be repeated if it causes anger or destroys partnerships. Preserving peace always outweighs curiosity or gossip.Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
Heard by Three Isn’t PermissionEven if gossip was spoken before three people, it’s still assur to repeat. Halacha never allows spreading Rechilus further—truth doesn’t make it mutar.Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
Avak Rechilus: Subtle GossipEven vague or ambiguous remarks—sarcastic tone, half-smiles, or unclear praise—can become Avak Rechilus. Words must be clear, kind, and free of hidden sting.Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
Rechilus in the Digital AgePosting gossip or criticism online is still Rechilus—and far worse when spread to thousands. Think before you tap; your words can destroy lives.Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
Triggering Old WoundsEven if nothing new is said, reviving old conflicts to gain favor is Rechilus. Stirring memories of past fights reawakens hatred and divides hearts.Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
Hints That HurtEven hinting at who spoke negatively about someone is Rechilus. Revealing through context, tone, or implication destroys trust just as much as words.Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
Lie for the Sake of PeaceWhen truth will spark hatred, one may lie to prevent Rechilus—but not swear. Shalom takes precedence over brutal honesty when guided by halacha.Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
Strength in SilenceRefusing to speak Rechilus when pressured—by friends, family, or superiors—is a kiddush Hashem. Resisting gossip protects both the victim and the listener.Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
Pressure Is No ExcuseEven under threat of job loss or embarrassment, one may not speak Rechilus. Losing money is better than losing integrity—speech has eternal weight.Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
When They “Already Know”Even if the listener knows part of the story, adding details or confirming gossip is still Rechilus. Curiosity is no heter—silence preserves dignity.Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
True Words, False PeaceEven true information can be Rechilus if it breeds resentment. Whether uniting enemies or dividing friends, truth used wrongly destroys relationships.Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
Unintended HatredEven without intending harm, quoting someone to prove your point can cause hatred. Rechilus isn’t only in malice—it’s in careless speech that divides friends.Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
The Essence of RechilusTransferring one person’s words or deeds to another—even truthfully—creates resentment. Rechilus destroys peace and was among the sins that caused the Churban HaBayis.Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
The Tragedy of Doeg Ha’adomiDoeg’s Rechilus against Ahimelech led to the massacre of Nov, the city of Kohanim. A single tale of gossip can bring destruction beyond imagination.Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
Beginning Hilchos RechilusThe Chafetz Chaim introduces Rechilus—revealing what one person said about another—as a severe aveira linked to bloodshed. It destroys lives, families, and communities.Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
Silence or Truth?If asked “who did it,” one may only say “not me” when it’s truly a wrongdoing—and never name another. Higher souls accept blame to preserve peace.Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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