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You're a successful woman who's got a lot of things going right in your life (dream job, cozy home, amazing friends)...but relationships are a different story. On Becoming Secure, we talk all things dating, healing anxious, avoidant, & disorganized attachment styles, and healthy relationships - so you can feel as amazing in relationships as you do in every other area of your life 💕
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Should you date a guy who's not technically divorced yet? A client recently asked me this question. His reason made sense. He said he was ready to date. Was it okay for her to proceed? In this episode, I break down for you exactly what I told her! Links mentioned: Free resource: Am I Settling? workshop replay. Get it here: https://mailchi.mp/69faea9d5bc1/am-i-settling-workshop-replay-sign-up Read more and apply for Should I Stay or Should I Go? https://forms.gle/QAmfpFRbQF1ZED7w7 WORKSH...
In this episode, Emily breaks down two unsexy truths about settling and why it can be so hard to tell if you're settling for too little or asking for too much! Get the "Am I Settling?" workshop replay here! In this workshop, we'll cover the 5 biggest areas where women accidentally settle - with clear examples (so you can know if this is you! 🫣) 🤔 Why you might accidentally settle (and how to resolve that) - so you can know when to stay & when to walk away! 🏃♀️ ❓Plus time for hot-seat c...
Work with Emily 1-1: https://mailchi.mp/de14c807829a/j109p21a14 WORKSHOP REPLAY HERE: Am I Settling? You'll learn: The 5 biggest areas where women accidentally settle - with clear examples (so you can know if this is you! 🫣) 🤔 Why you might accidentally settle (and how to resolve that) - so you can know when to stay & when to walk away! 🏃♀️ ❓Plus time for hot-seat coaching/Q&A - so you can ask questions & get immediate clarity on whether you're settling! 👑 Get the Replay Her...
Apply for Attachment Alchemy: https://mailchi.mp/de14c807829a/j109p21a14 WORKSHOP REPLAY HERE: Am I Settling? You'll learn: The 5 biggest areas where women accidentally settle - with clear examples (so you can know if this is you! 🫣) 🤔 Why you might accidentally settle (and how to resolve that) - so you can know when to stay & when to walk away! 🏃♀️ ❓Plus time for hot-seat coaching/Q&A - so you can ask questions & get immediate clarity on whether you're settling! 👑 Get ...
Free Training to help you process: https://mailchi.mp/7a564cf27971/breakup-free-training Apply for Attachment Alchemy: https://mailchi.mp/de14c807829a/j109p21a14 WORKSHOP REPLAY HERE: Am I Settling? You'll learn: The 5 biggest areas where women accidentally settle - with clear examples (so you can know if this is you! 🫣) 🤔 Why you might accidentally settle (and how to resolve that) - so you can know when to stay & when to walk away! 🏃♀️ ❓Plus time for hot-seat coaching/Q&A - ...
Attachment Alchemy is now Open for Enrollment. Read more and apply here: https://mailchi.mp/de14c807829a/j109p21a14 WORKSHOP REPLAY HERE: Am I Settling? You'll learn: The 5 biggest areas where women accidentally settle - with clear examples (so you can know if this is you! 🫣) 🤔 Why you might accidentally settle (and how to resolve that) - so you can know when to stay & when to walk away! 🏃♀️ ❓Plus time for hot-seat coaching/Q&A - so you can ask questions & get immediate clari...
Read More & Apply for Attachment Alchemy: https://mailchi.mp/de14c807829a/j109p21a14 WORKSHOP REPLAY HERE: Am I Settling? You'll learn: The 5 biggest areas where women accidentally settle - with clear examples (so you can know if this is you! 🫣) 🤔 Why you might accidentally settle (and how to resolve that) - so you can know when to stay & when to walk away! 🏃♀️ ❓Plus time for hot-seat coaching/Q&A - so you can ask questions & get immediate clarity on whether you're settli...
On this episode of Becoming Secure, Emily welcomes anxious attachment coach Valerie Rubin to discuss common mistakes anxious attachers make in dating and relationships and the importance of doing somatic work in healing anxious attachment! Find Valerie's instagram here Valerie's podcast is called: The Anxiety Recovery Podcast. WORKSHOP REPLAY HERE: Am I Settling? You'll learn: The 5 biggest areas where women accidentally settle - with clear examples (so you can know if this is you! 🫣) 🤔 Wh...
Common things women say when they're trying to justify red flags! Do you ever find yourself doing or saying these things? If you do, don't worry - Emily has been there, too! But it's time to make the decision to walk away and stop settling for red flags! The Art of Secure Dating starts THIS Saturday, December 13th! Read more and register here! WORKSHOP REPLAY HERE: Am I Settling? You'll learn: The 5 biggest areas where women accidentally settle - with clear examples (so you can know if th...
If you're frustrated that a guy led you on and wasted your time, this episode is for you! Emily provides a helpful reframe on how to view situations like this with more peace and less frustration! The Art of Secure Dating is currently enrolling now through Dec. 12th! Read more and submit your application here! WORKSHOP REPLAY HERE: Am I Settling? You'll learn: The 5 biggest areas where women accidentally settle - with clear examples (so you can know if this is you! 🫣) 🤔 Why you might accid...
Emily breaks down 9 subtle ways you might be self abandoning in dating in this episode! The Art of Secure Dating is currently enrolling (orientation call Dec. 13th!). Ready to date more securely & attract men who are emotionally available? Read more & apply for TASD here! WORKSHOP REPLAY HERE: Am I Settling? You'll learn: The 5 biggest areas where women accidentally settle - with clear examples (so you can know if this is you! 🫣) 🤔 Why you might accidentally settle (and how t...
In this episode, Emily invites Ana Eve back on the podcast to talk about why we attach so quickly and common mistakes to avoid that cause you to attach more quickly! They also announce the re-opening of the Art of Secure Dating with Black Friday bonuses! Read more via the link below! Read more and register for the Art of Secure Dating Here WORKSHOP REPLAY HERE: Am I Settling? You'll learn: The 5 biggest areas where women accidentally settle - with clear examples (so you can know if this is ...
Do you ever feel like your anxiety is the problem? Like your life would be better if you didn't have it? Believe it or not, this perspective may actually be hindering your healing & making your anxiety worse! In this episode, Emily breaks down what it looks like to learn to work with your anxiety, to stop seeing it as the enemy, and to learn to actually love - yes love - your anxiety. Free training on self soothing here Apply for Attachment Alchemy here WORKSHOP REPLAY HERE: Am I Settling...
Not sure how to tell if it's your anxiety or your intuition talking when a voice tells you to run, to end the relationship, or that you're going to get hurt? Emily breaks down why this happens and how to tell the difference. Apply for Attachment Alchemy: https://mailchi.mp/de14c807829a/j109p21a14 WORKSHOP REPLAY HERE: Am I Settling? You'll learn: The 5 biggest areas where women accidentally settle - with clear examples (so you can know if this is you! 🫣) 🤔 Why you might accidentally ...
Do you ever feel like you become a different person around guys you're interested in? Emily unpacks why this happens in this episode of Becoming Secure! Want to work with Emily 1-1? Apply for Attachment Alchemy here: https://mailchi.mp/de14c807829a/j109p21a14 WORKSHOP REPLAY HERE: Am I Settling? You'll learn: The 5 biggest areas where women accidentally settle - with clear examples (so you can know if this is you! 🫣) 🤔 Why you might accidentally settle (and how to resolve that) - so y...
WORKSHOP REPLAY HERE: Am I Settling? You'll learn: The 5 biggest areas where women accidentally settle - with clear examples (so you can know if this is you! 🫣) 🤔 Why you might accidentally settle (and how to resolve that) - so you can know when to stay & when to walk away! 🏃♀️ ❓Plus time for hot-seat coaching/Q&A - so you can ask questions & get immediate clarity on whether you're settling! 👑 Get the Replay Here! Apply to work with Emily 1-1
Have you ever completely missed it when someone lovebombed you? Today, Emily is talking about why this happens & how to catch it in the future! Apply for the Art of Secure Dating Get me free masterclass How to Attract Emotionally Available Men WORKSHOP REPLAY HERE: Am I Settling? You'll learn: The 5 biggest areas where women accidentally settle - with clear examples (so you can know if this is you! 🫣) 🤔 Why you might accidentally settle (and how to resolve that) - so you can know when ...
Keep attracting emotionally unavailable men? Here are some common mistakes when it comes to *how* you date that lead to attracting emotionally unavailable men! Ready to Attract Emotionally Available Men? The Art of Secure Dating starts soon! Read more and register here! WORKSHOP REPLAY HERE: Am I Settling? You'll learn: The 5 biggest areas where women accidentally settle - with clear examples (so you can know if this is you! 🫣) 🤔 Why you might accidentally settle (and how to resolve that) ...
Free Masterclass on How to Attract Emotionally Available Men Ready to Attract Emotionally Available Men? The Art of Secure Dating starts soon! Read more and register here! WORKSHOP REPLAY HERE: Am I Settling? You'll learn: The 5 biggest areas where women accidentally settle - with clear examples (so you can know if this is you! 🫣) 🤔 Why you might accidentally settle (and how to resolve that) - so you can know when to stay & when to walk away! 🏃♀️ ❓Plus time for hot-seat coaching/Q&am...
You've done therapy or counseling or coaching - you're super self aware...and yet you're still attracting emotionally unavailable men...In this episode Emily unpacks why that is and what the key is to shifting it! Links mentioned in podcast: Free Masterclass: How to Attract Emotionally Available Men Read all the details & register for The Art of Secure Dating WORKSHOP REPLAY HERE: Am I Settling? You'll learn: The 5 biggest areas where women accidentally settle - with clear examp...
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