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You're a successful woman who's got a lot of things going right in your life (dream job, cozy home, amazing friends)...but relationships are a different story. On Becoming Secure, we talk all things dating, healing anxious, avoidant, & disorganized attachment styles, and healthy relationships - so you can feel as amazing in relationships as you do in every other area of your life đź’•
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***Additional Notes/Correction*** Around 16 minutes, Emily says that dismissive avoidants don't trigger as much of the *anxious* side of a fearful avoidant's attachment, but she meant to say they don't tigger the *avoidant* side as much because there's not as much emotional closeness. When fearful avoidants, who have both an anxious and avoidant side to their attachment, date a dismissive avoidant, they will often present more anxious in their relationship and even believe they are anxiously ...
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Have you ever completely missed it when someone lovebombed you? Today, Emily is talking about why this happens & how to catch it in the future! Apply for the Art of Secure Dating Get me free masterclass How to Attract Emotionally Available Men Apply for Attachment Alchemy: https://mailchi.mp/de14c807829a/j109p21a14
Keep attracting emotionally unavailable men? Here are some common mistakes when it comes to *how* you date that lead to attracting emotionally unavailable men! Ready to Attract Emotionally Available Men? The Art of Secure Dating starts soon! Read more and register here! Apply for Attachment Alchemy: https://mailchi.mp/de14c807829a/j109p21a14
Free Masterclass on How to Attract Emotionally Available Men Ready to Attract Emotionally Available Men? The Art of Secure Dating starts soon! Read more and register here! Apply for Attachment Alchemy: https://mailchi.mp/de14c807829a/j109p21a14
You've done therapy or counseling or coaching - you're super self aware...and yet you're still attracting emotionally unavailable men...In this episode Emily unpacks why that is and what the key is to shifting it! Links mentioned in podcast: Free Masterclass: How to Attract Emotionally Available Men Read all the details & register for The Art of Secure Dating Apply for Attachment Alchemy: https://mailchi.mp/de14c807829a/j109p21a14
Emily and Ana talk about where the good men are and how you can find one in this episode of Becoming Secure! Want to learn to attract an emotionally available man? Come to our free masterclass on May 31st at 2pm US Eastern Time! If you came from Emily's audience, register for the masterclass here. If you found the podcast through Ana, register for the masterclass here. Join the June 2025 cohort of Art of Secure Dating Apply for Attachment Alchemy: https://mailchi.mp/de14c807829a/j109p21a14
Ready to trust again after being blindsided in the past? To be able to trust healthy love & stop waiting for the other shoe to drop? Emily discusses how to begin that journey in this episode of Becoming Secure! Other links referenced: Listen to Chelsea's Interview on Apple or on Spotify. Single? Apply for the Art of Secure Dating In a relationship? Apply for Secure in Love Apply for Attachment Alchemy: https://mailchi.mp/de14c807829a/j109p21a14
Emily talks about a common mistake she sees clients make on their attachment healing journey. Interested in working with Emily 1-1? Read more and apply below: Secure in Love Attachment Alchemy Apply for Attachment Alchemy: https://mailchi.mp/de14c807829a/j109p21a14
In this episode, Emily interviews TASD alumnus Chelsea about her experience dating an emotionally available, commitment-ready man after years of situationships and chasing non-committal guys. We talk about where to find emotionally available men, navigating all the confusing dating advice online, and the challenges of dating as a fearful avoidant attachment style. The Art of Secure Dating Round 2 starts in June. You can read more and access early bird pricing NOW here: The Art of Secure Dat...
Emily talks about her personal healing journey: from being the runner in relationships to mistakenly thinking she was anxiously attached, why she didn't think she was an FA, becoming securely attached & navigating the complexities of forgiving parents who were neglectful. Download: How to Stop Sabotaging Healthy Love, the free guide Apply for Secure in Love Here Apply for Attachment Alchemy: https://mailchi.mp/de14c807829a/j109p21a14
Have you ever been dating someone and noticed a red flag or multiple red flags, and yet you kept dating the person? Maybe you thought - or hoped - that it wasn’t really that big of a deal…Or maybe you thought he could work on it, and things could change…At the end of it, those red flags still turned out to be a problem and part of the relationship ending…And maybe you’re left wondering - now that I can see these red flags, why do I keep dating people who have them? We unpack this topic in tod...
In this episode, Emily covers: How to avoid situationshipsWhy it's hard to let them goCommon beliefs & mistakes that lead to situationshipsSituationships are 100% avoidable! Listen to find out how you can prevent them. Ready to kiss situationships & emotionally unavailable men goodbye for good? You'll learn how to spot red flags, attach more slowly, and attract emotionally available men inside the Art of Secure Dating. Read more and apply here: https://mailchi.mp/6db1e0d8be04/a2ianga5...
In this episode, Emily talks about things she did to stop attracting emotionally unavailable men...red flags she stopped overlooking, how she started dating differently, and wounds she healed that helped shift this pattern for good. The Art of Secure Dating is still enrolling into the first week of March. Read more and register here: https://mailchi.mp/6db1e0d8be04/a2ianga5al Access the free masterclass "How to Attract Emotionally Available Men" here: https://mailchi.mp/4b2891e68114/emotional...
On this episode of Becoming Secure, I sat down with my client Janet to talk all about: what healthy relationships can really look likethings you don't have to settle for in relationshipsis it a bad idea to date your ex againwhat's helped her become more secureand more!Want to work with Emily 1-1? Apply for Attachment Alchemy today: https://mailchi.mp/de14c807829a/j109p21a14 Apply for Attachment Alchemy: https://mailchi.mp/de14c807829a/j109p21a14
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