The Year of Being 70

In this final episode of their "Year of Being 70" podcast, lifelong friends Lisette and Lucy reflect on their 70th birthdays, the impact of the podcast, and what lies ahead as they enter their 72nd year. They share their perspectives on ageing, reinvention, civic duty, and the power of storytelling. They discuss the concept of 'eldership' and how their perspectives and roles have evolved as they have got older. The conversation also touches on topics like the use of AI in writing, the nature of ideas and creativity, and dealing with emotions like anger. Key Insights• Turning 70 has been a transformative experience for both Lucy and Lisette, providing a sense of freedom and the opportunity to focus on what matters most.• The podcast has allowed them to be more open and vulnerable, exploring topics like spirituality, consciousness, and the nature of ideas and memories. • As elders, Lisette and Lucy recognise the value of their accumulated experience and expertise, and they push back against the notion that older adults are irrelevant or past their prime. • In the immediate future, Lisette plans to get involved in the electoral process as a counter, and continue with her investment strategy; while Lucy looks forward to professional developments that will allow her to focus more on speaking, mentoring, and inspiring others.• Both women are exploring new creative projects, including books and a potential book club, demonstrating their ongoing commitment to lifelong learning and growth.Why You Should ListenThis last episode of The Year of Being 70 podcast is a poignant and insightful exploration of the joys, challenges, and transformations that come with age. It's also a thanks and farewell to loyal listeners/viewers - though maybe not forever...Lisette and Lucy hope that their candid conversations have offered a relatable and empowering perspective on navigating the later stages of life with purpose, wisdom, and a sense of adventure. And that viewers/listeners have been inspired by their resilience, their intellectual curiosity, and their unwavering commitment to personal growth and fulfillment.Join The Conversation Have you enjoyed The Year of Being 70 and Lucy and Lisette's weekly conversations? Which episodes were your favourites? Would you like Lisette and Lucy to keep posting their conversations on a monthly basis? How did Lucy's idea of a book club land with you?If you feel like sharing, tell us your personal experience in the comments. Watch/listen to our full playlist (The Year of Being 70): https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLzDmlsx6mhXmqlFJFZEEvaOwytbeAMFCm • The Year of Being 70 If you enjoyed this discussion, as well as the personal journeys of these old (in every sense) friends, don’t forget to like, subscribe, and tap the bell icon to stay updated on new episodes of The Year of Being 70. Subscribe now and join the journey! #yearofbeing70 #lucyandlisette #podcast #mccarraherpodcast #ep49 #turning70 #being70 #ageing #friendships #wisdom #influence #stayingyoung #foreveryoung #activeageing #bookclub #stewardownership #femalepower #femininevoice #personalstories #age71 #being71 #ageingwell #oldage #wisdom #love #70yearolds #lifetransitions #babyboomers #elderly #gettingolder #gettingold #stayingyoung #thelongview #truestories #memories #storypodcast #lucylisettepodcast #theyearofbeing70podcast #lucyandlisettepodcastjourney #reflectionsonourlives #personaltransformationstories #lifechangesafter70 #lifechangesafter40 #spiritualgrowth #personalgrowth #sharedhistories #podcastabouthistory #trendspodcast #lifeafter70 #aginggracefully #personalstories #friendshipinoldage #womenspodcast #turning70 #agingjourney #podcastaboutaging #lifeafter50 #reinventionat50 #aginggracefully #lifelonglearning #womenover50 #personalgrowth #midlifetransitions #agingpodcast #wisdomat70 #personaltransformationstories

In this episode, the penultimate one of the podcast, Lucy and Lisette reflect on their long friendship and what they have learned about each other over their year of podcasting together every week.They discuss Lisette's experience attending a conference in Berlin on the topic of steward-ownership, how this model differs from traditional shareholder-driven capitalism, and the potential it holds for creating more sustainable, mission-driven businesses. Key Insights1. Lisette and Lucy reflect on their long friendship, recounting highlights from their youth and how their relationship has deepened through this podcast series. They have gained new appreciation for each other's strengths and perspectives.2. Lucy sees Lisette as a force of nature and is impressed by her intellect, wisdom, and willingness to think outside the box.3. Lisette sees Lucy as someone who has made significant contributions through her work giving a voice to the unheard, and she encourages Lucy to embrace the authority and impact she has had.4. They discuss their approaches to time, work, and hobbies, noting their shared tendency to be more focused on work and contribution than traditional hobbies. 5. Lisette's involvement in a steward-owned company called Crowd Building has given her a firsthand perspective on the potential of this model to drive positive change Steward-ownership establishes companies as mission-driven entities, owned by a foundation rather than individual shareholders. 6. The podcast series has been popular and successful, though it is now coming to an end. Lucy expresses some difficulty with endings, but they plan to celebrate their year of turning 70 in the final episode.Why You Should ListenLucy and Lisette have been friends since they were 8 years old, and bonded over trying to teach each other their own language as little girls. Lisette’s abilities with English have far outshone Lucy’s with Dutch – though Lisette puts this down partly to having lived a past life as an English-speaker.Over the years, they have kept in touch, with periods of more or less frequent contact, but have really connected deeply through doing this weekly podcast together over the past year.This episode also gives a fascinating glimpse into an emerging alternative to traditional capitalism, one that could have far-reaching implications for how we think about corporate structure and responsibility. Lucy and Lisette's discussion offers valuable insights for anyone interested in exploring new models of business ownership and governance that prioritise long-term sustainability and social impact over short-term profits. Join The Conversation Do you have a close friend who you sometimes see a lot of and other times aren't in contact with at all? Would you consider doing a podcast series with them? What has come across to you about Lucy and Lisette's relationship over their Year of Being 70?If you feel like sharing, tell us your personal experience in the comments. Watch/listen to our full playlist (The Year of Being 70): https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLzDmlsx6mhXmqlFJFZEEvaOwytbeAMFCmIf you enjoyed this discussion, as well as the personal journeys of these old (in every sense) friends, don’t forget to like, subscribe, and tap the bell icon to stay updated on new episodes of The Year of Being 70. Subscribe now and join the journey! #yearofbeing70 #lucyandlisette #podcast #mccarraherpodcast #ep46 #turning70 #being70 #ageing #friendships #wisdom #influence #stayingyoung #foreveryoung #activeageing #capitalism #stewardownership #femalepower #femininevoice #personalstories #age71 #being71 #ageingwell #oldage #wisdom #love #70yearolds #lifetransitions #babyboomers #elderly #gettingolder #gettingold #stayingyoung #thelongview #truestories #memories #storypodcast #lucylisettepodcast #theyearofbeing70podcast #lucyandlisettepodcastjourney

As their Year of Being 70 draws to a close (just two more episodes to come), hosts Lucy and Lisette report back on an eventful week for both of them. Lisette has been travelling in Italy and attending a Vatican Conference on the environment convened by the Pope, at which Arnold Schwarzenegger gave a keynote speech. Lucy celebrated her 30th wedding anniversary to her second husband, Richard. She tells the story of giving a talk that led to a powerful business connection. And the dynamic duo explore the reinvention, purpose, and conscious growth that can come with each new decade of life. Key Insights• Lisette recently attended a conference at the Vatican organised by the Pope to discuss caring for the environment, which she found to be a profound and inspiring experience.• Lucy talks about celebrating her 30th wedding anniversary to her second husband, and how she has now been married a total of 50 years between her two marriages. Her second marriage was a personal reinvention for her.• Reinvention is a common theme for women, as they often go through more cyclical family and career changes compared to men. • Embracing a sense of purpose and finding meaningful work can be a powerful driver for growth and fulfilment in the later stages of life.• Lucy shares a story about overcoming her nerves to give a talk without slides, which ended up leading to an exciting new business opportunity with Forbes.• Lisette talks about connecting with like-minded, conscious individuals to open up a world of new opportunities and wisdom, and owning businesses in a more sustainable, purpose-driven way (like through steward ownership) is a powerful emerging model.Why You Should ListenThis episode offers a refreshing and uplifting perspective on ageing, offering inspiration and practical insights for women (and men) seeking to make the most of their later years. Whether you're approaching 70 yourself or simply interested in conscious growth, Lucy and Lisette's conversation here is a must-listen that will leave you motivated to embrace the next chapter of your life with vigour and purpose.Join The Conversation Have you celebrated a personal anniversary or a professional win recently? How did it make you feel? Have you reinvented yourself at any point in your life, like Lisette, or is it something you do on a regular basis, like Lucy? Are you on a mission in this phase of your life? Does it power what you do and how you show up?If you feel like sharing, tell us your personal experience in the comments. Watch/listen to our full playlist (The Year of Being 70): https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLzDmlsx6mhXmqlFJFZEEvaOwytbeAMFCmIf you enjoyed this discussion, as well as the personal journeys of these old (in every sense) friends, don’t forget to like, subscribe, and tap the bell icon to stay updated on new episodes of The Year of Being 70. Subscribe now and join the journey! #yearofbeing70 #lucyandlisette #podcast #mccarraherpodcast #ep47 #turning70 #being70 #ageing #purpose #thepope #thevatican #vaticanconference #thecoliseum #rome #arnoldschwarzenegger #environmentalleadership #nature #verneharnish #forbes #forbesbooks #keynotespeaker #slidedeck #womencycles #femalepower #femininevoice #personalstories #age71 #being71 #ageingwell #oldage #wisdom #love #70yearolds #lifetransitions #babyboomers #elderly #gettingolder #gettingold #stayingyoung #thelongview #truestories #memories #storypodcast #lucylisettepodcast #theyearofbeing70podcast #lucyandlisettepodcastjourney #reflectionsonourlives #personaltransformationstories #lifechangesafter70 #lifechangesafter40 #spiritualgrowth #personalgrowth #sharedhistories #podcastabouthistory #trendspodcast #lifeafter70 #aginggracefully #personalstories #friendshipinoldage #womenspodcast #turning70 #agingjourney #podcastaboutaging #lifeafter50 #reinventionat50 #aginggracefully...

In this episode of "The Year of Being 70," Lucy and Lisette discuss the power of sharing personal stories, the feminine approach to business and purpose, and the challenges of breaking through patriarchal structures - all while Lisette travels through Italy and prepares to attend a high-level conference at the Vatican.Key Insights• Sharing personal stories can inspire others and make our purpose more visible, rather than hiding behind professionalism.• Women’s lives play out in cycles – biologically, emotionally and relationally, compared to the more linear "ladder" view of men’s lives.• Bringing the feminine voice and perspective to male-dominated spaces like business and religion is crucial for creating more holistic, purpose-driven change.• Embracing humility and stillness can be powerful antidotes to the ego-driven "saviour" mentality that can creep into purpose-driven work.• Age and experience can provide the confidence to be more vocal and unapologetic about one's values and beliefs.Why You Should ListenThis conversation offers rich insights into the unique challenges and opportunities women face as they navigate purpose, spirituality, and power structures in the second half of life. Lisette and Lucy's candid exchange provides a refreshing counterpoint to the typical narrative around ageing, inviting listeners to embrace the wisdom and confidence that comes with time.Join The Conversation Do you share personal stories from your life experience, to encourage or inspire others? Or do you feel that you need to protect your personal experiences in your professional space? Do you agree, as a woman or a man, that women's lives tend to be more cyclical and men's more linear? Are you on a mission in this phase of your life? Does it power what you do and how you show up?If you feel like sharing, tell us your personal experience in the comments. Watch/listen to our full playlist (The Year of Being 70): https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLzDmlsx6mhXmqlFJFZEEvaOwytbeAMFCmIf you enjoyed this discussion, as well as the personal journeys of these old (in every sense) friends, don’t forget to like, subscribe, and tap the bell icon to stay updated on new episodes of The Year of Being 70. Subscribe now and join the journey! #yearofbeing70 #lucyandlisette #podcast #mccarraherpodcast #ep46 #turning70 #being70 #ageing #purpose #powerofpurpose #missionmagic #missionmastermind #womencycles #femalepower #femininevoice #personalstories #age71 #being71 #ageingwell #oldage #wisdom #love #70yearolds #lifetransitions #babyboomers #elderly #gettingolder #gettingold #stayingyoung #thelongview #truestories #memories #storypodcast #lucylisettepodcast #theyearofbeing70podcast #lucyandlisettepodcastjourney #reflectionsonourlives #personaltransformationstories #lifechangesafter70 #lifechangesafter40 #spiritualgrowth #personalgrowth #sharedhistories #podcastabouthistory #trendspodcast #lifeafter70 #aginggracefully #personalstories #friendshipinoldage #womenspodcast #turning70 #agingjourney #podcastaboutaging #lifeafter50 #reinventionat50 #aginggracefully #lifelonglearning #womenover50 #personalgrowth #midlifetransitions #agingpodcast #wisdomat70 #personaltransformationstories #dutchpodcast #netherlandsvoices

In this episode, longtime friends Lucy and Lisette revisit Lisette's Year of Being 70, as today it ends as she celebrates her 71st birthday. They recall their 21st birthdays half a century ago and, through their reflective conversation, explore how their perspectives and experiences have evolved over the past 50 years - from having the freedom to make choices about contraception and career, to witnessing the changing social landscape around women's rights and personal freedoms. Their chat offers a unique window into the lived realities and shifting norms for women across generations. Concepts like 'Entrepreneur' and 'Startup' just weren't used in the 1970s and 80s when these two were starting businesses.Key Insights• Lisette had a big celebratory 21st party with her parents; Lucy was already married and on the verge of emigrating to Australia and a whole new life.• The freedom to make choices about one's life, body and future is a relatively recent privilege that these women have witnessed first-hand over their lifetimes.• Societal attitudes and laws around women's rights, from opening bank accounts to getting mortgages and starting businesses, have undergone dramatic - but not always linear - progress over the past 50 years.• Friendships and social connections often take on new meaning and dimensions as we age, with Lisette finding herself making new friends of all ages even in her 70s.• The passage of time brings a different kind of wisdom, self-acceptance and sense of identity, allowing Lisette to embrace her role as a "paver of the way" rather than an initiator.• Technology and surveillance have significantly changed the landscape of personal safety, both enhancing it in some ways but also presenting new challenges.Why You Should Listen:This thoughtful, wide-ranging conversation offers a unique window into the lived experiences and shifting societal norms for women over the past half-century. Lisette and Lucy's reflections provide valuable insights into the complexities of ageing, the evolution of personal freedoms, and the enduring power of friendship and self-discovery. Their story is a testament to the importance of openly discussing the realities of womanhood across generations.Join The Conversation How long has it been since your 21st birthday? Did you have a big celebration - and what do you look back on in the years between then and now? Depending on your age, what are the biggest changes in society and technology that have taken place since you were 21? If you feel like sharing, tell us your personal experience in the comments. Watch/listen to our full playlist (The Year of Being 70): https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLzDmlsx6mhXmqlFJFZEEvaOwytbeAMFCmIf you enjoyed this discussion, as well as the personal journeys of these old (in every sense) friends, don’t forget to like, subscribe, and tap the bell icon to stay updated on new episodes of The Year of Being 70. Subscribe now and join the journey! #yearofbeing70 #lucyandlisette #podcast #mccarraherpodcast #ep45 #turning70 #being70 #ageing #21to71 #lasthalfcentury #lastfiftyears #21stbirthday #21stbirthdayparty #71stbirthday #marriedyoung #emigratingtoaus #australia #age71 #being71 #ageingwell #oldage #wisdom #love #70yearolds #lifetransitions #babyboomers #elderly #gettingolder #gettingold #stayingyoung #thelongview #truestories #memories #storypodcast #lucylisettepodcast #theyearofbeing70podcast #lucyandlisettepodcastjourney #reflectionsonourlives #personaltransformationstories #lifechangesafter70 #lifechangesafter40 #spiritualgrowth #personalgrowth #sharedhistories #podcastabouthistory #trendspodcast #lifeafter70 #aginggracefully #personalstories #friendshipinoldage #womenspodcast #turning70 #agingjourney #podcastaboutaging #lifeafter50 #reinventionat50 #aginggracefully #lifelonglearning #womenover50 #personalgrowth...

In this episode of The Year of Being 70 (which is drawing to a close), podcast hosts Lisette and Lucy, who have been friends since childhood, reflect on the last five years between their 65th and 70th birthdays. As Lisette prepares to turn 71 next week, the two women delve into the productivity, challenges, and personal growth they experienced during this transformative half-decade of their lives. Through their candid and insightful conversation, they offer a unique perspective on navigating the later stages of life with purpose, resilience, and a deep appreciation for the journey.Key Insights• Productive and Purposeful Decades: Both Lisette and Lucy found their 60s to be extremely productive and fulfilling, with Lisette serving on boards and Lucy running a successful business and launching a book award.• The Elusive Book Project: Lisette shares her struggle to find the time and inspiration to write a book, a project that has been on her mind but has yet to materialise, highlighting the challenges of balancing busy lives with creative pursuits.• Embracing the Present, Contemplating the Future: As they approach their 71st birthdays, the friends discuss the sense of urgency and the desire to make the most of the time they have left, while also acknowledging the uncertainty of the future.• Intergenerational Inspiration: Lisette and Lucy draw inspiration from their older relatives, such as Lucy's 96-year-old aunt who continues to work, and Lisette's admiration for Lucy's mother as a role model.• The Power of Vulnerability and Acceptance: The hosts reflect on the importance of being open to receiving compliments and appreciation from loved ones, and the transformative impact it can have on one's self-perception and sense of worth.Why You Should ListenThis episode of "The Year of Being 70" offers a unique and insightful exploration of the experiences, challenges, and personal growth that can occur in the later stages of life. Through the authentic and relatable conversation between Lisette and Lucy, listeners will gain a deeper understanding of the nuances of aging, the pursuit of purpose, and the value of lifelong friendships. Whether you are approaching your own milestone birthdays or simply seeking inspiration and wisdom, this podcast episode provides a thoughtful and engaging perspective on the journey of growing older.Join The Conversation How has your last half-decade been when you look back on it? Obviously you will have been through Covid, lock down and the aftermath, as we have. How has it changed things in your life? What are your main achievements in the last five years and are you able to take a compliment about them?If you feel like sharing, tell us your personal experience in the comments. Watch/listen to our full playlist (The Year of Being 70): https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLzDmlsx6mhXmqlFJFZEEvaOwytbeAMFCmIf you enjoyed this discussion, as well as the personal journeys of these old (in every sense) friends, don’t forget to like, subscribe, and tap the bell icon to stay updated on new episodes of The Year of Being 70. Subscribe now and join the journey! #yearofbeing70 #lucyandlisette #podcast #mccarraherpodcast #ep44 #turning70 #being70 #ageing #65-70 #lasthalfdecade lastfiveyears #covid #lockdown #age71 #being71 #ageingwell #oldage #wisdom #love #70yearolds #lifetransitions #babyboomers #elderly #gettingolder #gettingold #stayingyoung #thelongview #truestories #memories #storypodcast #lucylisettepodcast #theyearofbeing70podcast #lucyandlisettepodcastjourney #reflectionsonourlives #personaltransformationstories #lifechangesafter70 #lifechangesafter40 #spiritualgrowth #personalgrowth #sharedhistories #podcastabouthistory #trendspodcast #lifeafter70 #aginggracefully #personalstories #friendshipinoldage #womenspodcast #turning70 #agingjourney #podcastaboutaging #lifeafter50 #reinventionat50...

In this episode, 70-year-old friends, Lucy and Lisette discuss the different types of ageing - chronological, biological, and subjective - and how our mindset about ageing can impact our physical and mental well-being. They discuss the scientific research that shows that ageing can be reversed by mindset as well as a healthy lifestyle and strong social connection; and share personal stories and reflections on navigating the experience of being 70 years old.Key Insights• There are three types of ageing: chronological (calendar age), biological (physical/cellular age), and subjective (how old one feels)• Our subjective age can fluctuate and has a strong influence on our biological ageing process• Sociability, community, and staying engaged with people of different age groups can help maintain youthfulness as we get older• The concept of "acting your age" may be more harmful than helpful - embracing a youthful mindset and spirit can positively impact health and vitality• And have we been here before – are some of us old souls and some of us first time visitors to human life?Why You Should ListenThis episode provides a thoughtful, honest, and often humorous exploration of the realities and perceptions of ageing. The Lisette and Lucy's personal anecdotes and research insights offer listeners a relatable and inspiring perspective on approaching the later stages of life with vitality and purpose. Whether you are nearing 70 yourself or simply curious about the ageing process, this podcast will leave you with a greater appreciation for the subjective experience of growing older and questions about what age means in the context of reincarnation.Join The Conversation How old do you feel? Is it very similar or quite different to the number of years you've been alive? Do you believe the science that tells you that biological age is affected by how you feel about yourself, your mind and your body? And have you had any previous-life experiences or near death experiences? Lucy and Lisette are always fascinated by this subject and others' opinions.If you feel like sharing, tell us your personal experience in the comments. Watch/listen to our full playlist (The Year of Being 70): https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLzDmlsx6mhXmqlFJFZEEvaOwytbeAMFCm If you enjoyed this discussion, as well as the personal journeys of these old (in every sense) friends, don’t forget to like, subscribe, and tap the bell icon to stay updated on new episodes of The Year of Being 70. Subscribe now and join the journey! #yearofbeing70 #lucyandlisette #podcast #mccarraherpodcast #ep43 #turning70 #being70 #ageing #biologicalage #chronologicalage #subjectiveage #pastlives #birthdays #age71 #being71 #otherlives #reincarnation #neardeathexperience #ageingwell #oldage #wisdom #love #70yearolds #lifetransitions #babyboomers #elderly #gettingolder #gettingold #stayingyoung #thelongview #truestories #memories #storypodcast #lucylisettepodcast #theyearofbeing70podcast #lucyandlisettepodcastjourney #reflectionsonourlives #personaltransformationstories #lifechangesafter70 #lifechangesafter40 #spiritualgrowth #personalgrowth #sharedhistories #podcastabouthistory #trendspodcast #lifeafter70 #aginggracefully #personalstories #friendshipinoldage #womenspodcast #turning70 #agingjourney #podcastaboutaging #lifeafter50 #reinventionat50 #aginggracefully #lifelonglearning #womenover50 #personalgrowth #midlifetransitions #agingpodcast #wisdomat70 #personaltransformationstories #dutchpodcast #netherlandsvoices

In this episode, returning after a 2-week summer break, Lucy and Lisette explore the profound experiences of beginnings and endings, and how they navigate these pivotal life transitions as they approach their 71st birthdays. As lifelong friends reaching milestone birthdays, their candid conversation sheds light on the complex emotions and perspectives that come with growing older. They explore their differing perspectives - Lisette's more future-oriented outlook versus Lucy's tendency to grieve upcoming endings -and reflect on their childhood experiences and how they have shaped their views on change.Through sharing personal stories and insights, they offer a relatable and insightful glimpse into the joys and challenges of embracing change at every stage of life.Key Insights:• Lisette and Lucy share their differing approaches to endings, with Lisette embracing curiosity and new beginnings, while Lucy grapples with a fear of change and loss.• The discussion delves into the concept of "selfish" activities like writing a book, and how eldest daughters often feel the need to prioritise work and family responsibilities over their own creative pursuits.• The friends reflect on the generational divide, acknowledging the unique perspectives and global connections of younger generations, and the valuable role of elders in providing a sense of reassurance and wisdom.• They explore the evolving landscape of investing and business models, discussing the emerging concepts of systemic investing and steward ownership, which aim to create more sustainable and socially conscious economic systems.• Lisette and Lucy discuss the importance of finding ways to be "present" and not solely focused on work, even when traveling or on holiday.Why You Should ListenThis episode offers a thoughtful and relatable exploration of the ebb and flow of life, as two old friends discuss the transitions of growing older. Through their candid dialogue, you are invited to consider your own relationships with change, and how you can embrace new beginnings while honouring the value of the past. Whether you're an eldest sibling, a lifelong learner, or simply someone seeking inspiration to navigate life's inevitable changes, this conversation provides a refreshing and insightful perspective.Join The Conversation How do you feel about the transitions in your life? Are endings hard for you, like Lucy? Or do you glide over to new beginings with excitement and anticipation like Lisette? Or a mixture of both? How do you feel childhood experiences or your parents themselves influenced your approach to new phases of life?If you feel like sharing, tell us your personal experience in the comments. Watch/listen to our full playlist (The Year of Being 70): https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLzDmlsx6mhXmqlFJFZEEvaOwytbeAMFCm If you enjoyed this discussion, as well as the personal journeys of these old (in every sense) friends, don’t forget to like, subscribe, and tap the bell icon to stay updated on new episodes of The Year of Being 70. Subscribe now and join the journey! #yearofbeing70 #lucyandlisette #podcast #mccarraherpodcast #ep42 #turning70 #being70 #transitions #lifetransitions #endings #beginnings #excitingtimes #books #newbooks #eldestdaughter #ageingwell #oldage #wisdom #love #70yearolds #lifetransitions #babyboomers #elderly #gettingolder #gettingold #stayingyoung #thelongview #truestories #memories #storypodcast #lucylisettepodcast #theyearofbeing70podcast #lucyandlisettepodcastjourney #reflectionsonourlives #personaltransformationstories #lifechangesafter70 #lifechangesafter40 #spiritualgrowth #personalgrowth #sharedhistories #podcastabouthistory #trendspodcast #lifeafter70 #aginggracefully #personalstories #friendshipinoldage #womenspodcast #turning70 #agingjourney #podcastaboutaging #lifeafter50 #reinventionat50 #aginggracefully...

In this episode, lifelong friends Lucy and Lisette dive deep into how the homes and environments they grew up in have profoundly shaped who they are today, even into their 70s. As they reflect on the houses, neighbourhoods, and cities that defined their childhoods, an intimate portrait emerges of how our most formative spaces leave an indelible mark on our personalities, values, and life paths. Join these two septuagenarians as they unpack the surprising ways our living spaces become inextricably linked to our identities.Key Insights• Lucy and Lisette grew up in very different home environments - Lucy in a large, eccentric house in London, Lisette in a modern, eco-friendly home in a small town outside Amsterdam• These early childhood homes shaped their personalities and preferences as adults - Lucy gravitating towards the country and Lisette towards city living• Both see their childhood homes as having a strong influence on their adult lives and the homes they've chosen for themselves• There is a mix of nostalgia and rebellion towards their childhood homes - Lucy wanting to preserve the memories of her eccentric family home, Lisette more open to change and modernisation• The homes they grew up in have left a lasting imprint on their identities and outlook on lifeWhy You Should Listen:This conversation offers a unique window into the lifelong impact of our most formative living spaces. The homes we grow up in can create a "neurological imprint" that subtly guides our preferences and expectations for the rest of our lives. Many people either rebel against or unconsciously recreate the environments they knew as children when establishing their own homes as adults. Nostalgia for childhood homes can be a powerful force, even if those spaces were less than ideal - there's a comfort in the familiar. Whether you're nearing 70 yourself or simply curious about the profound role environment plays in shaping human identity, you'll find Lucy and Lisette's reflections insightful, relatable, and surprisingly profound. Gain a deeper appreciation for how the places we call "home" become inextricably linked to who we are.Join The Conversation How has your childhood home/s and environment/s influenced you as an adult? Do you live somewhere similar to where you grew up, or have you chosen to live somewhere, and in a style completely different? Do you feel nostalgic about the places you spent your childhood, or do you shudder at the memory of them?If you feel like sharing, tell us your personal experience in the comments. Watch/listen to our full playlist (The Year of Being 70): https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLzDmlsx6mhXmqlFJFZEEvaOwytbeAMFCm If you enjoyed this discussion of a universal subject, as well as the personal journeys of these old (in every sense) friends, don’t forget to like, subscribe, and tap the bell icon to stay updated on new episodes of The Year of Being 70. Subscribe now and join the journey! #yearofbeing70 #lucyandlisette #podcast #mccarraherpodcast #ep40 #turning70 #being70 #childhoodhomes #familyhouse #familyhome #modernhome #oldhouses #architecture #apartment #farmhouse #grade2listed #ageingwell #oldage #wisdom #love #70yearolds #lifetransitions #babyboomers #elderly #gettingolder #gettingold #stayingyoung #thelongview #truestories #memories #storypodcast #lucylisettepodcast #theyearofbeing70podcast #lucyandlisettepodcastjourney #reflectionsonourlives #personaltransformationstories #lifechangesafter70 #lifechangesafter40 #spiritualgrowth #personalgrowth #sharedhistories #podcastabouthistory #trendspodcast #lifeafter70 #aginggracefully #personalstories #friendshipinoldage #womenspodcast #turning70 #agingjourney #podcastaboutaging #lifeafter50 #reinventionat50 #aginggracefully #lifelonglearning #womenover50 #personalgrowth #midlifetransitions #agingpodcast #wisdomat70 #personaltransformationstories...

In this candid and relatable episode of "The Year of Being 70" podcast, hosts and childhood friends Lucy and Lisette openly discuss the physical and emotional realities of ageing. From Lisette's recent eye and skin issues to Lucy's past struggles with weight, menopause, and high blood pressure, the two friends vulnerably share their personal experiences with the changing nature of their bodies.Key Highlights• Lisette opens up about a recent tear in her retina and the challenges of dealing with age-related eye problems• Lucy reflects on how her body has changed over the years, including joint pain and inflammation during menopause that has since improved with weight loss• The hosts explore the societal pressure to appear "in control" and "professional" as older adults, even when experiencing normal physical changes• They discuss the emotional and psychological aspects of menopause, with Lisette sharing her perspective on how hot flushes can be a natural process of "burning up" old resentments• Lisette and Lucy grapple with the realisation that at 70, they are no longer "middle-aged" but firmly in the "elderly" category, prompting reflections on mortality and being a "burden" on societyWhy You Should ListenThis episode provides a refreshingly honest look at the realities of ageing, challenging the sometimes romanticised narrative around growing older. By openly sharing their personal health journeys, Lucy and Lisette offer a relatable and empathetic perspective on the physical, emotional, and social aspects of being 70. Listeners will come away with a greater appreciation for the complexities of the ageing process and the importance of embracing both the ups and downs with compassion.Join The Conversation What's your experience of health and wellness as you've aged? Have you worked at staying super-healthy, or has ill-health hit you out of the blue? Have any effects of ageing made you feel suddenly vulnerable, like Lisette's eye problem? Or have you found some antidotes to ageing like Lucy has with HRT and Mounjaro?If you feel like sharing, tell us your personal experience in the comments. Watch/listen to our full playlist (The Year of Being 70): https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLzDmlsx6mhXmqlFJFZEEvaOwytbeAMFCm If you enjoyed this discussion of a universal subject, as well as the personal journeys of these old (in every sense) friends, don’t forget to like, subscribe, and tap the bell icon to stay updated on new episodes of The Year of Being 70. Subscribe now and join the journey! #yearofbeing70 #lucyandlisette #podcast #mccarraherpodcast #ep40 #ageingskin #ageingeyes #eyesight #contactlenses #skincancer #lasertreatment #menopause #weightloss #weightgain #mounjaro #hrt #achesandpains #arthritis #turning70 #being70 #ageingwell #oldage #wisdom #love #70yearolds #lifetransitions #babyboomers #elderly #gettingolder #gettingold #stayingyoung #thelongview #truestories #memories #storypodcast #lucylisettepodcast #theyearofbeing70podcast #lucyandlisettepodcastjourney #reflectionsonourlives #personaltransformationstories #lifechangesafter70 #lifechangesafter40 #spiritualgrowth #personalgrowth #sharedhistories #podcastabouthistory #trendspodcast #lifeafter70 #aginggracefully #personalstories #friendshipinoldage #womenspodcast #turning70 #agingjourney #podcastaboutaging #lifeafter50 #reinventionat50 #aginggracefully #lifelonglearning #womenover50 #personalgrowth #midlifetransitions #agingpodcast #wisdomat70 #personaltransformationstories #dutchpodcast #netherlandsvoices #britishdutchpodcast #womenat70 #agingineurope #wisdomacrossborders #storytellingwithpurpose #aifriendlypodcast

In this episode, Lisette and Lucy, lifelong friends who turned 70 together in 2024, reflect on their productive and transformative years between 60 and 65. Both women share how this period was a time of reinvention, consolidation of their experiences, and stepping into new roles and responsibilities. Their insightful conversation highlights how the traditional notions of retirement age can be challenged, and how the 60s can be a time to truly come into one's own.Key Insights• Lucy and Lisette both found that their 60s were a time of immense productivity, creativity, and stepping into leadership roles - contrary to the common perception of this age as a time to wind down.• Both women wrote more books during this period, drawing on their wealth of experience to share their knowledge and inspire others.• Lisette took on the role of chair for an educational charity, while Lucy founded the Business Book Awards and became the Publish Mentor for the Key Person of Influuence programme - initiatives that allowed them to share their wisdom and have a wider impact.• The women reflect on how their earlier life experiences, including periods of uncertainty and reinvention, ultimately converged to help them feel more grounded and confident in their 60s.• Lisette and Lucy emphasise the importance of not seeing traditional retirement age as a finish line, but rather as a springboard for new adventures, contributions, and personal growth.Why You Should ListenThis conversation provides a refreshing and empowering perspective on being in your 60s, challenging the traditional notions of retirement and old age. Lisette and Lucy's stories of reinvention, leadership, and creative expression during this period will inspire listeners to embrace the opportunities that come with this stage of life. Their insights offer encouragement and guidance for those approaching or already in their 60s, as well as a hopeful message for younger listeners about the potential that lies ahead.Join The Conversation Have you reached your 60s - if so how has your experience been? has it been a productive and creative era for you as it has been for Lucy and Lisette? Or are you approaching your 60s - and is it feeling like it could be the beginning of the end? Or are you beyond your 60s like L&L - are you enjoying the years of consolidation as much as they are? If you have personal experience or stories you'd like to share, tell us about them in the comments. Watch/listen to our full playlist (The Year of Being 70): https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLzDmlsx6mhXmqlFJFZEEvaOwytbeAMFCm If you enjoyed this discussion of a universal subject, as well as the personal journeys of these old (in every sense) friends, don’t forget to like, subscribe, and tap the bell icon to stay updated on new episodes of The Year of Being 70. Subscribe now and join the journey! #yearofbeing70 #lucyandlisette #podcast #mccarraherpodcast #ep39 #turning60 #being60 #60-56 #retirement #neverretire #nevergiveup #creativity #authors #writeyourbook #booktok #howtowritefictionwithoutthefuss #eldestdaughtereffect #wisdom #love #70yearolds #lifetransitions #babyboomers #elderly #gettingolder #gettingold #stayingyoung #thelongview #truestories #memories #storypodcast #lucylisettepodcast #theyearofbeing70podcast #lucyandlisettepodcastjourney #reflectionsonourlives #personaltransformationstories #lifechangesafter70 #lifechangesafter40 #spiritualgrowth #personalgrowth #sharedhistories #podcastabouthistory #trendspodcast #lifeafter70 #aginggracefully #personalstories #friendshipinoldage #womenspodcast #turning70 #agingjourney #podcastaboutaging #lifeafter50 #reinventionat50 #aginggracefully #lifelonglearning #womenover50 #personalgrowth #midlifetransitions #agingpodcast #wisdomat70 #personaltransformationstories #dutchpodcast #netherlandsvoices #britishdutchpodcast #womenat70 #agingineurope...

In this episode, lifelong friends Lucy and Lisette continue their weekly conversation about navigating life after turning 70. As they reflect on their own ageing process, the discussion turns to comparing themselves to their parents at similar stages of life. While their fathers died in their 80s, both Lisette's and Lucy's mothers had long widowhoods into their 90s - Lucy's mother is now 97, while Lisette's mum died in her sleep four years ago. With poignant stories about their fathers' later years, the friends explore how our perceptions of ageing can shift as we get older.Lucy and Lisette openly share how their parents' experiences have influenced their own outlook on getting older. From Lucy's father's steadfast routines to Lisette's mother's cheerful retirement, the podcast offers a relatable look at the complex emotions that can arise when we measure our own journeys against those who came before us.Key Highlights:* Landmark Birthdays: Lucy and Lisette discuss the significance of turning 70 and 71, noting how as they approach it, 71 feels "so much older" despite their pride in reaching these milestones.* Recalling Their Parents at 70: The two hosts reflect on their memories of their parents at similar ages, wondering how their own experiences compare.* Fathers: Lisette’s father was diagnosed with a brain tumour in his early 80s, which eventually brought about his death; and Lucy shares the story of her father going blind in his 70s due to a pancreatic issue, which dramatically changed his independence and daily life.* Mothers: In contrast, Lisette's mother remained cheerful and enjoying life right up to her death in her early 90s; while Lucy’s 97-year-old mother had a vibrant and adventurous 70s after she was widowed, even embarking on a challenging charity walk in the Syrian desert.* The Complexities of Ageing: Both Lucy and Lisette grapple with the nuances of aging, acknowledging how their parents' journeys have shaped their own perspectives and expectations; and talk about supporting their parents through their end-of-life stages.Why You Should Listen:This episode of The Year of Being 70 offers a poignant and relatable exploration of the complex emotions that arise as we age and reflect on our parents' experiences. Through Lucy and Lisette's candid conversation, listeners will gain insights into the universal challenges and joys of growing older, while also being inspired by the remarkable stories of their parents' later years.Join The Conversation How have your parents' lives influenced yours? Have you cared for parents through their end-of-life journey? If you were lucky enough to have two parents, did you grieve differently for your father and your mother? What makes a good death, for the parent and for the child, in your opinion?If you have personal experience or stories you'd like to share, tell us about them in the comments. Watch/listen to our full playlist (The Year of Being 70): https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLzDmlsx6mhXmqlFJFZEEvaOwytbeAMFCm If you enjoyed this discussion of a universal subject, as well as the personal journeys of these old (in every sense) friends, don’t forget to like, subscribe, and tap the bell icon to stay updated on new episodes of The Year of Being 70. Subscribe now and join the journey! #yearofbeing70 #lucyandlisette #podcast #mccarraherpodcast #ep38 #parents #mothers #fathers #endoflife #caring #death #grief #grieving #family #generations #lastmoments #widows #widowhood #dementia #lastmoments #gooddeath #wisdom #love #70yearolds #lifetransitions #babyboomers #elderly #gettingolder #gettingold #stayingyoung #thelongview #truestories #memories #storypodcast #lucylisettepodcast #theyearofbeing70podcast #lucyandlisettepodcastjourney #reflectionsonourlives #personaltransformationstories #lifechangesafter70 #lifechangesafter40 #spiritualgrowth...

In this episode, "The Year of Being 70 Ep37: The Spooky Stuff - Is There Life After Death?" longtime friends Lucy and Lisette delve deep into the mysteries of life beyond the physical realm. From Lisette's childhood experiences with a spiritual being named Po, to Lucy's encounters with ghostly presences in her home, the conversation explores the profound and often inexplicable ways in which we may connect with realms beyond our own. Both women share their personal journeys of shifting beliefs, from scepticism to open-mindedness, and the profound impact these experiences have had on their understanding of life, death, and the nature of existence.Key Highlights• Lisette's childhood connection with the benevolent being "Po", and her lifelong belief in the spiritual dimensions of existence• Lucy's transformation from an atheist to an agnostic, and finally her acceptance of life after death after her "ghost story" experience• The accounts of widows receiving apparent signs and messages from their deceased partners• Lisette's work as a healer and her ability to sense and interact with energy fields and past lives• Lucy's daughter's psychic encounters with spirits and entities within their home• The concept of energy, vibration, and frequency as a means of communication between the physical and non-physical realmsWhy You Should ListenThis episode offers a thought-provoking and deeply personal exploration of the mysteries that lie beyond our physical existence. Through the candid sharing of Lisette and Lucy's experiences, listeners are invited to consider the possibility of life before birth, life after death, and the myriad ways in which we may connect with unseen realms. Whether you are a believer, a sceptic, or somewhere in between, this conversation is sure to expand your perspectives and inspire deeper reflection on the nature of consciousness and the human experience.Join The Conversation Do you have spiritual or religious beliefs, or are you certain this physical life is it? Have you had personal experiences of life before birth, or life after death? Has anything happened to you that ended up changing your beliefs? Or are you very much a 'don't know' in this area?If you have personal experience or stories you'd like to share, tell us about them in the comments. Watch/listen to our full playlist (The Year of Being 70): https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLzDmlsx6mhXmqlFJFZEEvaOwytbeAMFCm If you enjoyed this discussion of an always engaging subject, as well as the personal journeys of these old (in every sense) friends, don’t forget to like, subscribe, and tap the bell icon to stay updated on new episodes of The Year of Being 70. Subscribe now and join the journey! #yearofbeing70 #lucyandlisette #podcast #mccarraherpodcast #ep37 #lifebeforebirth #lifeafterdeath #spooky #spookystories #ghoststories #kindredspirits #spiritualgrowth #spirituality #belief #atheist #agnosticism #religion #reincarnation #fulfilment #wisdom #love #70yearolds #lifetransitions #babyboomers #elderly #gettingolder #gettingold #stayingyoung #thelongview #truestories #memories #storypodcast #lucylisettepodcast #theyearofbeing70podcast #lucyandlisettepodcastjourney #reflectionsonourlives #personaltransformationstories #lifechangesafter70 #lifechangesafter40 #spiritualgrowth #personalgrowth #sharedhistories #podcastabouthistory #trendspodcast #lifeafter70 #aginggracefully #personalstories #friendshipinoldage #womenspodcast #turning70 #agingjourney #podcastaboutaging #lifeafter50 #reinventionat50 #aginggracefully #lifelonglearning #womenover50 #personalgrowth #midlifetransitions #agingpodcast #wisdomat70 #personaltransformationstories #dutchpodcast #netherlandsvoices #britishdutchpodcast #womenat70 #agingineurope #wisdomacrossborders #storytellingwithpurpose #aifriendlypodcast

Are you comfortable travelling, going out, socialising on your own, or do you always prefer to share experiences with others?In this episode, Lucy and Lisette reflect on their experiences of doing things independently throughout their lives and now as women in their 70s. They discuss the challenges and joys of reclaiming one’s identity after separation, divorce or the loss of a partner, and how they've learned to be comfortable in their own company.Key Insights• Lisette has generally been more comfortable doing things on her own, like going to the theatre or traveling, while Lucy took longer to embrace doing activities solo after her first marriage ended.• The transition away from being part of a couple can be "discombobulating" as you have to redefine your sense of self and create new boundaries and ways of being in the world.• Both friends have challenges with small talk and feeling anxious or self-conscious in certain social settings, like pubs or networking events. They share strategies they've learned, like asking questions to get the other person talking.• The conversation delves into deeper issues of self-worth and needing external validation, stemming from their upbringings and family dynamics. Lucy and Lisette plan to continue growing and learning, rather than accepting limits based on their age.• Learning to be comfortable in your own company develops over time, often as a result of life events that force you to reinvent yourself. Curiosity and a willingness to put yourself out there can help overcome feelings of self-consciousness.Why You Should ListenThis episode provides a relatable and insightful look at the journey of self-discovery that can come with being single, independent, or working as a consultant or freelancer. Lisette and Lucy's experiences and reflections offer valuable lessons for anyone navigating the joys and challenges of doing things independently, whether by choice or circumstance. Their conversation is both deeply personal and universally resonant. They invite listeners to share their own tips and experiences with navigating social situations and doing activities independently – particularly as women.Join The Conversation Do you enjoy your own company or have you learned to navigate solo activities by trial and error? Or do you always prefer to socialise or network with a partner or friend alongside?If you have tips and tricks to help Lucy and Lisette - and others - be better at small talk or taking part in group activities alone, please tell us about them in the comments. Watch/listen to our full playlist (The Year of Being 70): https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLzDmlsx6mhXmqlFJFZEEvaOwytbeAMFCm If you enjoyed this discussion of an engaging subject, as well as the personal journeys of these old (in every sense) friends, don’t forget to like, subscribe, and tap the bell icon to stay updated on new episodes of The Year of Being 70. Subscribe now and join the journey! #yearofbeing70 #lucyandlisette #podcast #mccarraherpodcast #ep36 #flyingsolo #travellingalone #goingoutalone #theatreforone #moviesalone #independence #enjoyingmyowncompany #postdivorce #widow #losingapartner #partners #husbandwife #alwaystogether #askingquestions #smalltalk #makingconversation #fulfilment #wisdom #love #70yearolds #lifetransitions #babyboomers #elderly #gettingolder #gettingold #stayingyoung #thelongview #truestories #memories #storypodcast #lucylisettepodcast #theyearofbeing70podcast #lucyandlisettepodcastjourney #reflectionsonourlives #personaltransformationstories #lifechangesafter70 #lifechangesafter40 #spiritualgrowth #personalgrowth #sharedhistories #podcastabouthistory #trendspodcast #lifeafter70 #aginggracefully #personalstories #friendshipinoldage #womenspodcast #turning70 #agingjourney #podcastaboutaging #lifeafter50 #reinventionat50 #aginggracefully #lifelonglearning #womenover50...

Do you have a childhood BFF, or a group that has stuck together through thick and thin? Or are your friendships more transient and changing?In this episode,''The Year of Being 70 Ep35: BFFs and Frenemies - 7 Decades of Friendship'' childhood friends and co-hosts Lucy and Lisette have an open and thoughtful discussion about the nature of friendship - how it evolves over a lifetime, the different types of friends we have, and the challenges of maintaining deep connections as we grow older. They share their personal experiences and insights, exploring themes of belonging, energy levels, and finding one's own path in relationships.Key Highlights• Lisette and Lucy reflect on the idea of having a "circle of friends" versus more individualised friendships, and how each suits their personalities differently.• They discuss the bittersweet experience of losing touch with childhood friends, and the mixed feelings that can come with reconnecting later in life.• The hosts explore how work relationships can sometimes become the closest friendships, and the importance of finding common interests and shared experiences.• Lisette shares her perspective on breaking away from a suffocating "student group" friendship, and the courage it took to define her own boundaries.• Lucy expresses her comfort in considering her sons and their partners as some of her closest friends in adulthood.• Both hosts acknowledge the challenge of feeling "out of tune" with certain social groups, and the value of surrounding oneself with people who energise and inspire.Why You Should ListenThis episode offers a relatable and nuanced look at the evolution of friendship through the lens of two old friends looking at life from the age of 70. Lucy and Lisette's candid conversation provides insights into the complexities of maintaining meaningful connections, the importance of self-awareness, and the joy of finding kindred spirits at every stage of life. Whether you're reflecting on your own friendships or simply curious about the experiences of others, this episode is sure to resonate and encourage thoughtful introspection.Join The Conversation Do you have lifelong friends, a school bestie who is still your go-to friend, or an inner circle who have known each other forever? Or have you experienced toxic friendships or friends from your past you have nothing in common with any more? Are your work mates your best mates, or is your family your friendship group? Tell us in the comments – we’d love to hear your experiences, thoughts and views. Watch/listen to our full playlist (The Year of Being 70): https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLzDmlsx6mhXmqlFJFZEEvaOwytbeAMFCm If you enjoyed this discussion of an engaging subject, as well as the personal journeys of these old (in every sense) friends, don’t forget to like, subscribe, and tap the bell icon to stay updated on new episodes of The Year of Being 70. Subscribe now and join the journey! #yearofbeing70 #lucyandlisette #podcast #mccarraherpodcast #ep35 #friends #friendship #bestfriends #besties #bff #bffs #schoolfriends #studentfriends #family #friendshipgroups #newfriends #oldfriends #frenemies #toxicfriendship #menfriends #womenfriends #stayingfriends #losingfriends #fulfilment #wisdom #love #70yearolds #lifetransitions #babyboomers #elderly #gettingolder #gettingold #stayingyoung #thelongview #truestories #memories #storypodcast #lucylisettepodcast #theyearofbeing70podcast #lucyandlisettepodcastjourney #reflectionsonourlives #personaltransformationstories #lifechangesafter70 #lifechangesafter40 #spiritualgrowth #personalgrowth #sharedhistories #podcastabouthistory #trendspodcast #lifeafter70 #aginggracefully #personalstories #friendshipinoldage #womenspodcast #turning70 #agingjourney #podcastaboutaging #lifeafter50 #reinventionat50 #aginggracefully #lifelonglearning #womenover50...

In this episode, Lucy and Lisette discuss an interesting dinner party concept - if you could invite three people, alive or deceased, to your dinner table, who would you choose and why?This leads to a fascinating conversation where the two good friends share their selected trio of dinner guests and the reasoning behind their choices.Key Highlights* Lisette's TrioLisette takes a very personal approach to this challenge, choosing to invite three people she was very close to and who all passed away in 2008. They were a gay American greengrocer friend, a software entrepreneur who pioneered ideas around environmental accounting and taxation, and her own father. This diverse group represents different eras, passions and personal connections for Lisette, all of whose company she misses and would like to experience again.* Lucy's TrioLucy, on the other hand, wants to meet up and chat with three of the best known writers of all time: the renowned playwright and poet, William Shakespeare; Virginia Woolf, the pioneering novelist and publisher; and J.K. Rowling, the massively successful author of the Harry Potter series of books and films. These three all share literary genius, immense popularity with their audiences, financial success and a flair for business – all of which reflect Lucy's interests.* The two friends discuss the different creative processes of writers like Lucy’s guests, and composers like Mozart and Beethoven – something Lucy would want to ask her dinner guests about, as well as their lived experience of London in the Elizabethan and early 20th century eras.* Lisette and Lucy both share poignant personal anecdotes about their loved ones, including Lisette's father thinking he had died and a touching final conversation.* They wonder how the diverse guests they have both invited to their dinner parties would interact and converse with one another and what intriguing insights they might share.Why You Should ListenThis episode of The Year of Being 70 offers a unique window into Lucy and Lisette's personal connections, intellectual interests and creative sensibilities. By sharing their dream dinner party guest lists, they give listeners an opportunity to consider who their own ideal dinner party guests might be, and why; as well as gaining insights into what motivates and inspires these two unique and perhaps unusual women. The conversation also touches on profound themes of mortality, legacy and the enduring power of the human mind and spirit.Join The Conversation Who would you invite to an intimate dinner party at your place – people you know or knew well, or heroes past or present? How do you think they would interact with each other and, if they are no longer alive, what would they think of the world today you’ve invited them back to? What would you want to ask them, find out from them or get their insights about? And what menu would you offer them?Tell us in the comments – we’d love to hear your thoughts and views. Watch/listen to our full playlist (The Year of Being 70): https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLzDmlsx6mhXmqlFJFZEEvaOwytbeAMFCm If you enjoyed this discussion of an engaging subject, as well as the personal journeys of these old (in every sense) friends, don’t forget to like, subscribe, and tap the bell icon to stay updated on new episodes of The Year of Being 70. Subscribe now and join the journey! #yearofbeing70 #lucyandlisette #podcast #mccarraherpodcast #ep34 #dinnerparties #dinnerguests #Shakespeare #VirginiaWoolf #JKRowling #HarryPotter #writing #plays #theatre #novels #movies #London #history #Bloomsburygroup #success #business #genius #entrepreneurs #fulfilment #wisdom #love #70yearolds #lifetransitions #babyboomers #elderly #gettingolder #gettingold #stayingyoung #thelongview #truestories #memories #storypodcast #lucylisettepodcast #theyearofbeing70podcast...

The meaning of "success" is highly personal and can change over the course of our lives. In this episode of The Year of Being 70 podcast, hosts Lisette and Lucy discuss their evolving definitions of success - from the external markers of achievement to the internal sense of fulfilment. In the year of their 70th birthdays, they reflect on how success has taken on new meanings for them.Key Highlights• The distinction between outward "success" and inner "fulfilment" - Lisette and Lucy explore how success is often associated with external accomplishments, while fulfilment comes from a more intrinsic sense of purpose and contribution.• Overcoming self-doubt and the tendency to undervalue our own achievements - The hosts acknowledge the "feminine" tendency to downplay one's successes, and challenge the idea that we should judge ourselves solely on external measures.• The role of parental expectations and the "eldest daughter effect" - As the eldest daughters in their families, Lucy and Lisette discuss how they often felt the need to please their parents and live up to certain standards of success.• Helping others achieve their goals as a source of fulfilment - Both hosts find great satisfaction in supporting and enabling the success of others, whether through mentoring, coaching publishing, or facilitating new ventures• The enduring importance of our parents' approval, even in our 70s - Despite their age, Lisette and Lucy still feel a desire for their late parents' pride and acknowledgment of their achievements.Why You Should ListenThis conversation offers a refreshing perspective on success and fulfilment at the age of 70. By delving into their personal experiences and reflections, Lucy and Lisette encourage listeners to redefine success on their own terms, embrace their inner strengths, and find joy in supporting the growth of others. This episode will resonate with anyone seeking a more holistic and empowering understanding of what it means to live a successful life.Join The ConversationWhat does success mean to you – how would you define it? Is it more to do with outward markers, or internal feelings? Tell us what achievements, are your greatest successes. If you have children, do you consider them successes of you as a parent? Do you hanker for your parents approval, whatever your age? What gives you your greatest sense of personal fulfilment? Tell us in the comments – we’d love to hear your thoughts and views.Watch/listen to our full playlist (The Year of Being 70): https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLzDmlsx6mhXmqlFJFZEEvaOwytbeAMFCm If you enjoyed this discussion of an engaging subject, as well as the personal journeys of these old (in every sense) friends, don’t forget to like, subscribe, and tap the bell icon to stay updated on new episodes of The Year of Being 70. Subscribe now and join the journey! #yearofbeing70 #lucyandlisette #podcast #mccarraherpodcast #ep33 #elders #becomingelders #success #fulfilment #wisdom #love #intuition #coaching #mentoring #growingold #growingolder #70yearolds #lifetransitions #babyboomers #elderly #gettingolder #gettingold #stayingyoung #stability #grounding #thelongview #truestories #memories #storypodcast #lucylisettepodcast #theyearofbeing70podcast #lucyandlisettepodcastjourney #reflectionsonourlives #personaltransformationstories #lifechangesafter70 #lifechangesafter40 #spiritualgrowth #personalgrowth #sharedhistories #podcastabouthistory #trendspodcast #lifeafter70 #aginggracefully #personalstories #friendshipinoldage #womenspodcast #turning70 #agingjourney #podcastaboutaging #lifeafter50 #reinventionat50 #aginggracefully #lifelonglearning #womenover50 #careerchangeat50 #personalgrowth #midlifetransitions #parents #parentsapproval #eldestdaughtereffect #airecommendation #chatgptfriendlycontent #agingpodcast #wisdomat70 #personaltransformationstories #dutchpodcast #netherlandsvoices

In this episode, Lucy and Lisette, two longtime friends who turned 70 in 2024, explore the changing dynamics and responsibilities that come with age. As they navigate the transition from middle-age to elderhood, they discuss the value of presence, curiosity, and wisdom that their life experiences have provided.They discuss how they are now seen as the "elders" in various groups and settings, which brings a sense of responsibility but also freedom. As the oldest in the room, they feel a shift in their role - from needing to prove themselves to being a calming, grounding presence that others look to for wisdom and perspective.Key Highlights• The shift from feeling like the 'youngest in the room' to embracing the role of respected elder, being able to speak up more freely without worrying about how they will be perceived, and focusing on listening and sharing their accumulated life experiences.• Learning to manage time and priorities with a more relaxed, less hurried approach. Lisette shares how she has learned to better organise her time and not feel the need to rush or cram everything in, which was a habit when she was younger.• They discuss shedding unnecessary 'shoulds' and obligations, and focusing on what truly matters to them at this stage of life while recognising the responsibility to share their accumulated knowledge and provide a grounding presence for younger generations• Lucy talks about the joys and challenges of being a grandparent, and the differences between parenting and grandparenting. They both share memories of their own grandparents and what that older generation brought to their lives as children.• Lucy shares her experience of going through her mother's belongings to sell the house she no longer lives in, and how it was an emotional process for her and her siblings, each with their own approach. Lisette emphasiaes the importance of having humour and understanding when going through these family transitions.• They recognise that these moments of saying goodbye to the past can also represent a farewell to one's own childhood.Why You Should ListenThis episode provides a thoughtful and relatable perspective on the realities of aging, the benefits of embracing one's role as an elder, and the unique insights that can come with a lifetime of experiences. Lucy and Lisette's candid conversation offers listeners a chance to reflect on their own journeys and the evolving dynamics of age and wisdom. They also consider the implications of being part of the large 'baby boomer' cohort and the potential influence they hold as a group.Join the Conversation Are you approaching the age of 70, or have family members, friends or mentors older than yourself who are at that stage? If you are an ‘elder’, how do you feel about your role, especially if it's new to you? If you are younger, what benefits and strengths to older people bring to your life and/or work?Let us know your thoughts in the comments. Watch/listen to our full playlist (The Year of Being 70): https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLzDmlsx6mhXmqlFJFZEEvaOwytbeAMFCmIf you enjoyed this discussion of an engaging subject, as well as the personal journeys of these old (in every sense) friends, don’t forget to like, subscribe, and tap the bell icon to stay updated on new episodes of The Year of Being 70. Subscribe now and join the journey! #yearofbeing70 #lucyandlisette #podcast #mccarraherpodcast #ep32 #elders #becomingelders #responsibility #freedom #wisdom #grandparents #growingold #growingolder #70yearolds #lifetransitions #babyboomers #elderly #gettingolder #gettingold #stayingyoung #stability #grounding #thelongview #timemanagement #truestories #memories #storypodcast #lucylisettepodcast #theyearofbeing70podcast #lucyandlisettepodcastjourney #reflectionsonourlives #personaltransformationstories #lifechangesafter70 #lifechangesafter40...

In this episode, lifelong friends Lisette and Lucy look back on the period of their lives when they turned 55 - a time that is often seen as deep into "middle age" and even the start of old age. However, they share how this was actually a period of new beginnings, transitions, and lifelong learning for both of them. Both took training courses in their 50s that did not lead to the expected career paths, but provided valuable skills and insights they applied in different ways. They embraced new challenges and opportunities that arose organically, rather than following rigid career plans; they see their varied career paths and ability to adapt to changing circumstances as positive attributes, not as lacking direction.Key Highlights• Lucy went back to college aged 55 to get a Diploma in Teaching in the Lifelong Learning Sector (DTLLS), an experience she found both exhilarating and challenging. • Lisette transitioned from running a healing practice to becoming an author, publishing her first book "The Childhood Conclusions Fix" in 2011. • Both women took on new careers and ventures in their 50s, showing that this phase of life can be a time of reinvention and growth. • They discuss the complex feelings that come with criticism and self-doubt, and how they have learned to navigate those emotions. • Lisette and Lucy emphasise the importance of continual learning and being open to new experiences, no matter your age; and that both are essential for keeping oneself stimulated and "young" in later life.Why You Should ListenThis episode provides an inspiring look at how two women navigated a pivotal period in their lives, defying stereotypes about ageing and embracing lifelong learning themselves. Their stories demonstrate that our 50s and 60s can be a time of profound transformation and opportunity. Dealing with criticism and self-doubt is an ongoing struggle, but they emphasise the importance of staying open, courageous, and continuously learning.Whether you're approaching this stage of life or simply curious to hear different perspectives, this conversation is sure to spark reflection and encouragement. Join the Conversation Are you approaching the age of 55 – and feeling it might be the start of ‘getting old’? Or have you been there, done that and realised it’s another opportunity for change and growth? What did you do in your 50s that changed your thinking, your career or your life? What courses have you been on that taught you more than the course subject? Do you sometimes feel self doubt, or respond badly to criticism? Let us know your thoughts in the comments.Watch our full playlist (The Year of Being 70): https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLzDmlsx6mhXmqlFJFZEEvaOwytbeAMFCmIf you enjoyed this discussion of an engaging subject, as well as the personal journeys of these old (in every sense) friends, don’t forget to like, subscribe, and tap the bell icon to stay updated on new episodes of The Year of Being 70. Subscribe now and join the journey! #yearofbeing70 #lucyandlisette #podcast #mccarraherpodcast #ep30 #growingold #growingolder #70yearolds #lifetransitions #lifelonglearning #teaching #teachers #diploma #teachingpractice #healing #healingpractice #writingbooks #authors childhoodconclusions ‘therealsecret #publisher #publishing #hybridpublishing #nostalgia #criticism #feelings #stayingyoung #continuouslearning #babyboomers #elderly #gettingolder #gettingold #truestories #memories #storypodcast #lucylisettepodcast #theyearofbeing70podcast #lucyandlisettepodcastjourney #reflectionsonourlives #personaltransformationstories #lifechangesafter70 #lifechangesafter40 #spiritualgrowth #personalgrowth #sharedhistories #podcastabouthistory #trendspodcast #lifeafter70 #aginggracefully #personalstories #friendshipinoldage #womenspodcast #turning70 #agingjourney #podcastaboutaging #lifeafter50 #reinventionat50...

In this episode, ''The Year of Being 70 Ep 30: Nostalgia & Pet Peeves - Are We Grumpy Old Women?'' Lucy and Lisette have a wide-ranging conversation covering nostalgia and the grumpiness of older people looking back to their youth. The conversation touches on relatable themes like impatience, changing social norms, thinking 'it was better in my day' and the desire to hold onto the past – an engaging and humorous piece for older listeners and anyone interested in the experience of ageing. Key Highlights• Exploring Nostalgia and Acceptance.Lisette and Lucy discuss the nuances of nostalgia - how it can be a pleasant look back, but also how it's important not to dwell in the past or view youth and earlier times through rose-coloured glasses. They touch on the importance of acceptance - acknowledging what we cannot change, while still striving to improve what we can.• Dealing with Irritations and Grumpiness The friends delve into the small annoyances and irritations that come with age, like loud talkers, voice messages, and people who speak in clichés. However, they both recognise the value in trying not to be overly grumpy or cynical, and finding ways to stay open-minded and positive.• Being a "Grumpy Old Woman" Lucy and Lisette wonder whether they qualify as "grumpy old women" now that they are 70 years old. Lisette admits to having some grumpy tendencies, like getting annoyed by inconsiderate behaviour of others in public, but tries to counteract her grumpiness by smiling and being kind to others as much as possible. Both try to avoid being overly grumpy and cynical, as they feel it can make you seem older and less open-minded. • Communication Styles Lucy explains her preference for thinking before speaking and her frustration with people who speak at length without filtering their thoughts. Lisette gets irritated by people leaving voice messages as it takes so much longer to listen than to read. Both of them note that the underlying resentment of both these habits is feeling their time is being wasted.• "Meant To Be" They explore the concept of accepting life's circumstances, with Lisette sharing her experience of attending a funeral where the deceased's son said his mother’s death was "written”, reflecting a belief that everything happens for a reason. Lucy, though, finds the phrase "it was meant to be" when used to justify unfortunate events troublingly simplistic in the face of real suffering.• Generational Differences and Adaptability The discussion highlights some of the generational divides, like preferences for written communication versus verbal, and how technology has changed the way we interact. Both 70-year-olds talk about the importance of having an openness to understanding other people’s and generations’ perspectives and finding common ground.Why You Should ListenThis conversation demonstrates how the two friends navigate the complexities of ageing, seeking to maintain a positive outlook while also acknowledging the frustrations that can come with getting older – or were they there all along? They emphasise the importance of staying open-minded, resisting the temptation to become overly critical, and finding humour in their shared experiences. Underlying the whole conversation is the strong, decades-long friendship between Lucy and Lisette, which provides a rich context and sense of shared history. Their honesty offers an insightful, relatable look at navigating the complexities of ageing, while celebrating a willingness to grow and adapt.Join the Conversation If you are an older listener, do you feel like you’ve become a Grumpy Old Person? Do you enjoy having a moan whatever age you are? Do you look back on your childhood or youth with rose-tinted glasses? Or do you enjoy a bit of nostalgia? What are your pet peeves about today’s world?Watch our full playlist (The Year...