Men and Sex: Unlocking Power, Pleasure, and Purpose. ⚔️

What’s it like to grow up as a man in Canada, navigating sex, shame, rebellion, and relationships?In this episode of Men and Sex, I sit down with Raven, a Canadian man sharing his raw experiences and reflections. Together, we explore the universal challenges—and uniquely Canadian perspectives—on sexuality and manhood.We dive into:⚡ The awkwardness and confusion of spontaneous erections as teenagers🙏 How religion offered only “no sex until marriage” but never gave the tools to deal with real, animal desire😈 The rebellion of adolescence—trying to figure out sex while pretending to know more than we did💔 Early relationships marked by cheating and betrayal, and how they shaped trust moving forward🌀 The struggle with anxious attachment and how early wounds carry into adult intimacy🔍 The unspoken realities most men face but rarely talk aboutThis episode is honest, vulnerable, and packed with insights about how culture, religion, and experience shape men’s sexuality across generations and geographies.🎧 Listen now to hear Raven’s story—and see just how much of it mirrors your own.

We’ve made nudity so complicated.Sexualized. Shamed. Hidden away.But in nature? Everything is nude. No hiding. No judgment. No shame.In this episode of Men and Sex, I sit down with Kerry Kott, known as Nature Is Always Nude on Instagram, to explore the human-made complexities of nudity—and the deep medicine of returning to it.We dive into:🌱 Why being nude is the most natural expression of being human💔 How culture has twisted nudity into something messy and shameful🌸 The nude retreats Kerry leads with women, and the healing that unfolds there🔥 The importance of de-sexualizing nudity and learning to feel safe in our own skin🪞 How being naked reveals the voices of shame, judgment, and “not enough”—and how to listen to them with compassionAt the end of our conversation, I opened up about something I’ve never shared publicly before—revealed through the power of this dialogue.This episode is an invitation to strip back the layers of shame and remember what it means to be human, whole, and free.🎧 Listen now and discover the potency of nudity as medicine.-UPDATE-I am now offering monthly events for males that focus on disrobing shame and desexualizing nudity. Reach out to me directly for more info or simply join the community -https://www.skool.com/men-rising-9396/about?ref=99480d2439ae4e32925e4ba5be99f875More from Kerry Kott (Nature Is Always Nude):🌐 Website: nakedhuman.com📘 Facebook: facebook.com/natureisalwaysnude📸 Instagram: @natureisalwaysnudeThe Naked Human Podcast:📸 Instagram: @thenakedhumanpodcast🍎 Apple Podcasts: Listen on Apple🎧 Spotify: Listen on Spotify

What happens when you dedicate seven years of your life to uncovering the truth about sex?In this episode of Men and Sex, I sit down with Alex Liu, the filmmaker behind the groundbreaking documentary A Sexplanation. His mission: to confront shame, take responsibility for a lack of sexual education, and bring honesty back into how we talk about sex.We dive into:🙏 The impact of religion on sexuality and shame📚 The cost of growing up uneducated about sex—and how that continues to affect men today👀 Alex’s bold visit to Pornhub headquarters to ask what they really know about our viewing habits💡 Why shame is one of the biggest barriers to sexual health, intimacy, and confidence🔥 What it takes to move beyond silence and create a culture of opennessThis conversation is raw, thought-provoking, and absolutely packed with insights.If you’ve ever felt the weight of sexual shame or the confusion of not being taught the truth—this is a must-listen episode.🎧 Click play and join us in this eye-opening conversation about sex, shame, and freedom.Join the community - Men RisingAlex on IG - @alexanderxliuSexplanation - https://www.herraproductions.com/a-sexplanation

In this episode of Men and Sex, I’m joined by Lona—a sexual bliss coach and neo-tantra teacher—for a deep conversation about roles, polarity, and stepping into more assertive, embodied energy as men.We dive into:🎭 The power of playing with roles in the bedroom—specifically D-D-L-G (Daddy Dom / Little Girl) dynamics📚 Why No More Mr. Nice Guy struck such a chord with men, and how we’re now living in an era where many recoil from masculinity altogether⚡ How exploring the Dom or Daddy role can help men reclaim healthy masculine traits like assertiveness, leadership, and presence💓 Why dominance doesn’t mean harshness—it can be caring, nurturing, and deeply connected🌹 How polarity in relationships generates energy that benefits both partners when practiced consciouslyBoth Lona and I share our personal experiences with these dynamics, offering stories, insights, and practical advice for men ready to step into stronger, more confident roles—without falling into manipulation or toxic patterns.This episode is about learning how to embody strength with tenderness, clarity with care, and power with devotion.🎧 Listen now to explore how role-play, polarity, and presence can transform your sex life and your relationships.Join the community - ⁠Men Rising⁠More from Lona:📲 Instagram: @lonateachesbliss🌐 Coaching & Offerings: lonateachesbliss.com/coaching

What happens when you grow up in a culture that almost never talks about sex?In this episode of Men and Sex, I sit down with RD, a 21-year-old man from Ukraine, to hear his raw and unfiltered story. This is part of my series interviewing men across the world to uncover the common threads in how we were shaped around sexuality.We talk about:🇺🇦 Growing up in a post-Soviet culture where “no one was ever having sex” was the running joke🛑 The silence and shame around sex—and how it shaped identity and relationships📺 Being exposed to porn at just 6 years old and the impact on desire, intimacy, and expectations🌐 What it’s like to grow up in a generation where access to porn and sexual content is instant and constant⚡ The fear of homophobia and how it shaped his early experiencesThis episode is raw, eye-opening, and a reminder that no matter where we come from—our stories around sex carry striking similarities.🎧 Listen now and hear what the next generation of men is really facing.

Most men have never been taught how to truly touch themselves—let alone how to touch a partner.And it shows.In this episode of Men and Sex, I sit down again with Victoria Angel Heart to explore:💔 The difference between genuine giving and manipulation disguised as generosity⚡ How rushing to the finish or “taking” without awareness erodes connection🛏️ Why your self-pleasure practice is the training ground for every touch you share with someone else💓 The power of devotion—bringing reverence and presence into how you touch your own body🧘‍♂️ How to fill your own cup so you’re not starving for connection or pleasure from othersI share my own experiences of where I’ve fallen into these patterns, and Victoria brings insight from a woman’s perspective—on what it feels like to receive from a man who is truly present vs. one who is just trying to get something.Every time you touch your body, you’re programming how you touch others. This episode is about making that programming conscious—so your touch creates connection, not distance.🎧 Listen now and learn how to rewire your relationship with your own pleasure.Join the community - ⁠Men Rising⁠

Desire is more than just wanting something—it’s a mirror for how we live, love, and create.In this episode of Men and Sex, I sit down with Melody Lubin—a mentor of feminine arts and embodiment—for a deep dive into desire, capacity, and sexuality.We explore:🌹 The subtle layers of wanting—and why most men miss them💡 How fear of not getting what we want keeps us playing small🛠️ The responsibility that comes with truly owning our desires🛏️ Why your desire in the bedroom reflects your potency in life⚡ The difference between being a conscious creator… and a sleepy bystanderI share my own personal exploration of desire, my weak spots, and the insights that came from facing them. This conversation is about much more than sex—it’s about waking up to the creative force that runs through every part of life.🎧 Listen now and discover how desire can become your most potent teacher—in and out of the bedroom.More from Melody Lubin:📲 Instagram: @melodylubin🌐 Website: www.melodylubin.com

For centuries, sex was seen as sacred.Not sinful. Not shameful. Not shallow.But somewhere along the way—we lost that connection.In Episode 50 of Men and Sex, I sit down with Hannah Haazal—a sacred sexuality educator, ritual artist, intimacy coach, herbalist, and death doula—whose work is about restoring the holy power of erotic energy and helping men become deeply embodied, present lovers.We explore:🌬️ How most men have been living (and having sex) from the neck up🌹 The ancient world of temple arts and ritual erotic practice🕯️ Why sex has always been sacred—and how it was distorted into something sinful💀 The role of ceremony, ritual, and even death as initiations into deeper aliveness💓 How to move from shallow sex into full-bodied intimacy🔥 The courage it takes to feel again—and reclaim your vitalityThis conversation is for any man who knows there’s more to sex than friction and release—And who’s ready to step into a new relationship with his body, his heart, and the sacred fire of his sexuality.🎧 Listen now and return to what was never meant to be lost.Explore More from Hannah:🌐 The Temple of Sacred Arts💫 Sacred Eros Profile & Offerings🔮 Witch Eye Awakened

Sex isn’t just physical.It’s spiritual. Subtle. Mystical.In this episode of Men and Sex, I sit down with Jessica Bird—a powerful speaker, intuitive healer, and erotic channel—to explore the deeper truths of erotic energy and what it means to return to our erotic innocence.We dive into:🌬️ The subtle, sacred nature of sex—and how to become attuned to its presence in all of life💓 What it means to be a heart-centered erotic man in today’s world🌿 How sexual energy exists all around us—in nature, in creativity, in our breath🧘🏽‍♀️ Jessica’s journey of discovering that her intuition was most powerful when rooted in eroticism💡 The freedom that comes when we shed inherited shame and limiting beliefs about sex💌 The potency of dating yourself, romancing your own being, and deepening your connection to source through pleasureThis episode is an invitation to slow down, open up, and remember that your erotic energy is not something to fix or hide—it’s something to honor, listen to, and live from.🎧 Listen now and rediscover sex as a path to wholeness, reverence, and real power.Join the community - ⁠Men Rising⁠

This episode is a doozy—and one of the most eye-opening conversations I’ve had on Men and Sex.I sat down with a deeply informed anonymous guest, a man who has dedicated himself to understanding the full impact of circumcision—physically, emotionally, sexually, and culturally. And he came ready to share what most people never hear.We dive into:🔍 Why do we circumcise? Religious tradition, cultural habits, and outdated medical myths📉 The truth behind the so-called “health benefits”—and why countries like the U.S. circumcise 80% of boys while Europe is under 20%💔 What we actually lose in the process: sensitivity, function, and trust in our own bodies💥 How circumcision is tied to erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, and delayed ejaculation🧬 What is keratinization and meiosis—and how they affect your pleasure🔄 Real steps men can take toward foreskin restoration—yes, it's a thing, and it’s been around for decades💸 The billion-dollar industry behind it all—from the selling of foreskin to the explosion of lube and ED medsWe also ask:❗ Why is this not called male genital mutilation—while the same practice in other cultures is?❗ Why are men so unaware of the lingering impacts of this one early trauma?If you're a man who’s ever wondered why your sexuality feels off, limited, or numbed—this episode could be the missing piece.🎧 Listen now—and prepare to rethink everything you thought you knew about your body.Join the community - ⁠Men Rising⁠Resources Mentioned:🧰 Mantor DS – Direct Stretch Device – The personal device I’m using for foreskin restoration, designed for dual tension📘 Beginner’s Guide to Foreskin Restoration – A practical and detailed overview for men exploring restoration🎭 ⁠Eric Clopper’s One-Man Show – Sex & Circumcision: An American Love Story⁠ – A bold, brilliant 2-hour performance at Harvard that exposes the cultural, scientific, and political truths around circumcision🔹 ⁠Intact America⁠ – Education and advocacy working to end routine infant circumcision in the U.S.🔹 ⁠Intact Global⁠ – Legal action and men’s rights defense, actively challenging circumcision through the courts (highly recommended)

If you are a heterosexual Male that wants deeper intimacy, better sex, and more embodied connection in your relationships—this episode is for you.I sat down with Ashley Jones, a gifted love, intimacy, and embodiment coach who works with women, couples, and men to rewire the way we relate—inside and outside the bedroom.Together, we explored:💡 What’s actually required to create a deeply nourishing dynamic between a man and a woman💦 How understanding a woman’s pleasure changes everything—emotionally and physically🧘🏽‍♀️ Why many women struggle to fully receive pleasure due to unresolved insecurities and shame🔄 The importance of receiving feedback from your partner without collapsing into “bad boy” self-judgment💓 How the cervix connects to the vagus nerve—and why true feminine surrender requires emotional safety and presenceAnd we challenged the myths that keep so many people feeling stuck in performative or disconnected sex.Want more fulfillment in the bedroom?It starts with presence, communication, and the courage to actually learn what brings your partner—and yourself—into full-body “yes.”🎧 Listen now and open the door to more nourishing, real-deal intimacy.More from Ashley Jones:💥 Men’s Sexual Mastery – A deep dive into understanding pleasure and embodiment:👉 uplevellove.kartra.com/page/menssexualmastery🌹 Reclamation – A powerful program for women reclaiming their sexuality and feminine essence:👉 uplevellove.kartra.com/page/reclamation💞 Intimacy Upgrade – Explore tools and practices to strengthen connection and communication:👉 uplevellove.com/intimacy-upgrade

In this potent episode I sit down with Tyson Adams—a leading expert in porn addiction and semen retention—to explore one of the most urgent issues men are facing today.We talk about:📺 How porn has rewired our brains to crave novelty and disconnect from real intimacy. We've been trained to "bond" with screens🤖 The rise of AI influencers and why more men are falling in love with digital women💸 Why this conditioning is making us more likely to give our money—and our attention—to robots🧠 The mental health fallout: ED, depression, loneliness, and even suicideThis episode takes us beyond porn.It’s about what’s coming next—and what men can do now to stay human, whole, and awake in a world that’s becoming more synthetic by the day.🎧 Listen now to hear the truth about where this is going—and how to take your power back.More from Tyson -Instagram - @tysonadams__Working with Tyson - https://www.thriive.life/lifeforce

Most men were never taught how to touch themselves with intention.They use masturbation to release pressure—not to build power.In this live training, Victoria Angel Heart and I guide you through a whole new approach to self-pleasure: one that expands your nervous system, sharpens your focus, and strengthens your capacity to hold more sensation, emotion, and energy.We cover:🛑 Why most masturbation patterns are based in anxiety, shame, and quick escape🛠️ 5 powerful tools—breath, sound, movement, intention, and awareness/touch—to rewire how you relate to arousal🧘🏽‍♂️ How to use edging as a training ground for presence, stamina, and creative power💥 The difference between masturbating to cope… and masturbating to growIf you’re tired of feeling drained, stuck in habits that don’t serve you, or disconnected from your own body—this episode will shift the way you touch yourself forever.This is about using pleasure to build strength—not just to survive.🎧 Listen now and start training your nervous system for more power, more clarity, and more choice.Purchase the V.A.H. audio - https://buy.stripe.com/4gM14n6lSeXxeWv2IX9MY0hPurchase the package of all 3 audios - https://buy.stripe.com/6oUaEX5hO8z915FdnB9MY0i

Let’s be real:A lot of the talk around semen retention is rooted in shame-based marketing.Buy this course. Follow this guru. Stop ejaculating or you’re wasting your life force. Don't be a weak beta male.Sound familiar?In this episode of Men and Sex, I sit down with Cam Fraser—a certified sex coach, sexologist, and men's work facilitator who brings real depth, skill, and compassion to this conversation.We dive into:🔍 How semen retention is often preached from a place of shame—not empowerment🧠 Why negation-based thinking (“don’t do this”) doesn’t work for the brain💦 Reframing semen retention around reverence, not repression🌱 Why curiosity about your body beats trying to follow a one-size-fits-all standard📊 The danger of clinging too tightly to studies instead of tuning into your unique body and energyCam has helped hundreds of men untangle their sexuality from guilt, pressure, and confusion—and this conversation is a breath of fresh air for anyone tired of rigid, performative teachings.🎧 Listen now to reclaim your relationship with your body, your pleasure, and your power.Follow Cam Fraser:📲 Instagram: @thecamfraser🌐 Website: https://cam-fraser.com/

Tapping Into Trust: Healing Performance Anxiety with Victoria Angel Heart 🧠💥🫀This episode is action-packed and full of tools every man needs. I’m joined by Victoria Angel Heart, an incredible guide in nervous system regulation, emotional healing, and embodiment.We dive deep into:👐 EFT tapping as a practical tool for reducing performance anxiety and calming the body💔 How many men have unknowingly broken trust with their own bodies—and what it takes to rebuild it🧘‍♂️ Why mindful masturbation is key to reconnecting with sensation, pleasure, and presence🔊 The importance of making noise, opening the vocal channel, and honoring the body’s boundaries🚫 Learning to recognize when the body is giving a “no”—and how to respect itThis episode isn’t just talk—it’s transformation.Victoria closes the conversation with a powerful 15-minute EFT tapping session specifically for performance anxiety that you can come back to anytime.🎧 If you’re dealing with ED, PE, anxiety, or simply want to trust your body again—this is a must-listen.More of Victoria Angel Heart Heart ♥️Instagram: @victoria.angel.heartSpotify music: https://open.spotify.com/artist/4pNTeoeP0F3ug7DbRa30bz?si=alhNg3kyTi6qc6MBcDJVGwWebsite: http://www.tapintofreedom.love/

“I am the POWER.”These words have become a daily mantra for me since meeting Kevin Walton, aka Source Radiance.Kevin is one of the most energized, creative, and aligned men I’ve ever encountered—a true embodiment of activated masculine presence.In this episode, we dive deep into:🧱 Facing guilt and shame as the gateway to reclaiming personal power🔥 The razor-thin line between healthy desire and unconscious craving🧘🏽‍♂️ How to walk in full ownership of your energy without becoming consumed by itThis conversation is potent. Raw. Expansive.If you're ready to step into your power with clarity, responsibility, and purpose—this one’s for you.🎧 Listen now and awaken the fire that’s already inside you.Follow Kevin Walton / Source Radiance:🌐 Website: https://unlimitedcreativepotential.com/aboutkevin/📲 Instagram: @source.radiance

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What do you do after sex?Do you rush to get dressed, check your phone, or dive back into your to-do list?In this episode, I unpack a powerful practice that most men overlook—the art of staying with the energy after a sexual experience.I share from my own story:🌀 How I began to slow down and actually feel the vitality, pleasure, and turn-on pulsing in my body💡 The realization that all of this goodness is coming from within me—not from anyone else🧠 How I started to program my mind to return to this energy again and again throughout my dayThis episode is about retraining your nervous system to feel more aliveness, more pleasure, more presence—long after the moment of climax is over.🎧 If you’ve ever felt like sex ends too quickly… or that the high fades too fast… this one will shift how you relate to your own energy and turn-on.🔥 Learn how to carry that post-sex power into every part of your life.

In this solo recorded episode of Men and Sex, I take you deep into my personal journey—from being a “good boy” obsessed with pleasing others… to becoming a man women naturally want to submit to.I break down:🔍 How early behaviors and belief systems shaped me into a performer and people-pleaser🛑 Why being nice often leads to frustration, resentment, and lack of polarity🗣️ The critical practice of speaking your desires clearly: “I want…”⚡ How learning to be assertive and unapologetically direct changed everything—not just sexually, but in every area of my lifeThis is all pattern work.It’s about studying your behaviors, examining your unconscious programming, and tweaking it at the root.Small shifts. Massive results.You don’t just act differently—you become a different man.This episode is an invitation to stop performing, start leading, and tap into the magnetic power you were born with.🎧 Tune in and take your first step from Good Boy ➔ Dominant Daddy.

In this episode of Men and Sex, I sit down with the radiant Jessica Begin to explore one of the most underrated tools for liberation: your voice.Whether it’s moaning, toning, speaking your truth, or expressing your desires—your voice is a direct pathway to your power.We dive into:🔓 How liberating your voice can unlock deeper freedom in and out of the bedroom😶 The fear of rejection and shame that keeps many of us silent🗣️ Toning, vocal play, and other simple practices to reconnect with your sound💦 The direct link between voice, nervous system regulation, and sexual expressionYour voice is primal, powerful, and deeply personal. When you suppress it, you suppress parts of yourself. This conversation will help you reclaim your sound—and all the truth and pleasure that comes with it.🎧 Listen now and give yourself permission to make noise, speak up, and be fully heard.