Your Secret's Safe With A

Grace and Vikki reunite in Blacksburg, which naturally turns into four days of drinking, feral energy and questionable decisions. From jumbo margaritas, tailgate mimosas and a tent flooding Grace, to visiting Adrian’s gravesite and introducing Sandy to her first “haircut shot,” the weekend was unhinged in all the best ways.Vikki gives a full update on Moroccan Man, exclusivity confusion, cultural clashes and a situationship spiral. At the same time, Grace recaps her New York-level drinking weekend, ring-pressure drama and a fight with Mr. W over podcast semantics. Plus, listeners sent in their wildest relationship stories… including one that deserves its own docuseries.It’s emotional, chaotic and accidentally wholesome, exactly how hometown weekends with your best friend should be.⭐ Rate us 5 stars, or we’re joining the Divorced Dads Club.

This week, Grace and Vikki get brutally honest about the gray area between being exclusive and being official and why the line gets blurry, messy and low-key emotionally dangerous.Vikki kicks things off with a full recap of her one-week exclusive era: commitment panic, self-sabotage, a drunken breakup and a dinner-date “are we okay?” pending. Meanwhile, Grace returns from a chaotic New York weekend, 6 a.m. nights, new best friends, music industry people and a heated argument with Mr. W that ended in apology flowers… just not the flowers either of them ordered.With listener submissions on exclusivity, boyfriend/girlfriend titles and why everyone defines the “gray zone” differently, this episode breaks down the real difference between talking, dating, exclusive and official, and why modern dating makes all of it 10x harder than it needs to be.It’s unhinged, relatable and accidentally therapeutic.⭐ Rate us 5 stars or we’ll publicly call you our boyfriend.

It’s spooky season, and Grace and Vikki are dressed up, delirious and oversharing as always. From wild listener date stories to gas station disasters and actual good-date miracles, this Halloween episode has it all: chaos, laughter and maybe a little trauma bonding. 🎃⭐ Rate us 5 stars or we’ll haunt your Hinge profile.

It’s spooky season, and Grace and Vikki showed up in full clown glam (aka dressed as their exes) to tackle a haunting modern mystery: why don’t men approach women in bars anymore? 🤡This week, they unpack listener submissions, debate whether women actually want to be approached and share some of the best (and worst) bar pickup attempts ever witnessed. From fear of rejection to ego death, it’s a chaotic mix of hot takes, laughter, and unsolicited dating advice.Moral of the story? If you see us at the bar in clown makeup, say hi — we don’t bite (unless you’re a red flag).⭐ Rate us 5 stars or we’ll haunt your Hinge.

Grace and Vikki are diving into love, sex and the chaos of modern dating. From dating app disasters (and why half of you lied on our poll 👀) to therapy breakthroughs, booty calls and crying at the zoo, we’re spilling it all.Whether you’re swiping, single, or settled down, this one’s for you.⭐ Rate us 5 stars or we’re adding you to the dating app graveyard.

What do you do with your ex’s stuff—keep it, burn it or “allegedly” charge a little something to their card?In this episode, Grace and Vikki spill on what they’ve kept (and torched) from exes, from luxury rings and cozy hoodies to sex toys, streaming logins, and even a Peloton. They share their own chaotic stories plus wild listener submissions about shopping sprees, Amazon revenge orders, and the art of the petty Venmo request.Along the way, you’ll also get a life update: therapy breakthroughs, Jonas Brothers concert plans, Nashville friends, football season obsessions, and a few too many “Mercury in Gatorade” moments.Moral of the story? Keep the hoodie, ditch the man. ⭐ Rate us 5 stars or we’ll Venmo request you for emotional damages.

We were supposed to record this episode together in Nashville… but tequila, Broadway and exhaustion said otherwise. Whoops. Instead, you’re getting the full weekend recap: nights out, hangovers, peak chaos moments and Grace meeting all of Vikki’s new Nashville friends.It’s messy, it’s hilarious, and it’s basically one long drunk diary entry.🎧 Listen now and don’t forget to rate us 5 stars—we need the validation almost as much as we needed Pedialyte.

The stars have aligned… for chaos. In this episode, Grace (our resident Leo) and Vikki (our stubborn Taurus) roast their own zodiac signs, spill on dating compatibility disasters, and confess which signs they’d cancel completely. From main character syndrome and nap addictions to petty astrology opinions, we’re dragging ourselves—and you—through the horoscope drama.🎧 Tune in now and don’t forget to rate us 5 stars—because Grace’s Leo ego needs it and Vikki’s Taurus energy will fight you if you don’t.

Lucky number 13 came with zero planning and maximum chaos. Grace and Vikki ditched the script and went full unhinged—from reflecting on exes’ birthdays and wild dating escapades to parenting advice from two women without kids (but plenty of opinions).We also cover therapy breakthroughs, relationship icks, and even a quick dive into politics (because apparently that’s who we are now). Oh, and yes… there’s a curved dick story in here too.If you’re here for candid, hilarious life updates and the kind of oversharing you didn’t know you needed—this episode’s for you.🎧 Listen now wherever you get your podcasts and don’t forget to rate us 5 stars!

In this episode, we dive into the world of situationships and the complexities of modern relationship dynamics. Join us as we explore the "what are we?" and "what if?" moments, share personal stories, and offer insights into navigating the gray areas of dating. Whether you're in a situationship or just curious, this episode is packed with relatable content and advice. Tune in for a candid conversation about love, labels, and everything in between.

Grace and Vikki are back with unhinged texts, hatfishing horror stories, and dating chaos galore. From “man meat” DMs to fist bumps after sex—nothing is off-limits. Laugh, cringe, and rate us 5 stars!

We made it to double digits! Episode 10 is here—and we brought in our very first guest, the iconic Alayna, to help us dissect all the dating flags: green, red, and the increasingly chaotic beige.Why do vibes make us overlook behavior? And what counts as a beige flag vs. a straight-up ick? From room-temp Mountain Dew to suspicious tampon drawers, nothing is off-limits.Along the way, we share messy breakup stories, call out our own beige tendencies, and of course, swap hilarious and heartfelt memories of Adrian. This episode is packed with nostalgia, laughter, and maybe too much info (but when has that ever stopped us?).Listen now to Your Secret’s Safe With A — wherever you get your podcasts.

In this episode of Your Secret's Safe With A, Grace and Vikki dive deep into attachment styles, sharing personal insights, hilarious stories, and a few life updates. Vikki opens up about her dramatic breakup and how her attachment style shifted throughout the relationship. Grace reflects on her own experiences with attachment, discussing her struggles with self-sabotage and the emotional chaos that comes with dating. The duo dissects the four main attachment styles—secure, anxious, avoidant, and disorganized—offering real-life examples and candid commentary on how these styles show up in relationships. From the "ick" to boundary-pushing moments, this episode explores love, heartbreak, and personal growth with plenty of humor along the way. Tune in for laughs, lessons, and a whole lot of honesty!

Math might be fake, but the mental gymnastics we do to justify our choices? Very real.In this episode, we’re breaking down the chaotic equations that somehow make perfect sense in our heads. From Girl Math (“$100 jeans don’t count if I return something else”) to Boy Math (“6’0” on Hinge actually means 5’9” with confidence”), and of course, the most dangerous of all—Toxic Math (“If he liked my story but didn’t text back, he’s clearly obsessed with me”).We’re exposing our own logic, roasting the delusion, and laughing through the chaos.🎧 Tap in now and send us your most unhinged math—we promise we won’t judge (much).

In this episode of Your Secret's Safe With A, Grace and Vikki are back together in person and things are as chaotic as ever. They talk tattoos, from ink that celebrates friendship to ones with deeper meanings (including the infamous "sad toast"). Along the way, they share funny stories from their high school days, family drama, and how their understanding of mental health has evolved. Plus, there's a special guest appearance! Tune in for laughs, real talk, and reflections on how far they've come, the awkward moments they've survived, and the growth they've gone through. Don't forget to donate to the Adrian Newcomb Memorial Scholarship; applications are due by April 12, 2025. You can donate and learn more here: Adrian Newcomb Memorial Scholarship.

We're going there this week—and no, it's not just about the ick. It's about all the unspoken turn-offs women experience when dating and sleeping with men. From having to give repeated tutorials on how to make a woman orgasm (it's 2025… learn) to bedroom blunders that make us question our life choices, Grace and Vikki are holding nothing back.We're unpacking the moments that kill the vibe, the "Did you go?" awkwardness, and why biting the clit is never, ever okay. Plus, Vikki shares a wild weekend full of oysters, explosive bonding (literally), and finding out what love really looks like… even after diarrhea.We also dive into YOUR submissions—your sexual icks, yucks, and yums—in our rapid-fire speed round. Spoiler: if you've ever been Spider-Manned after sex… we see you.It's messy, it's honest, it's hilarious—and as always, your secret's safe with us. Grab a drink, get comfy, and join us for another unfiltered episode.

⚠️ Trigger Warning⚠️: This episode includes discussions about mental health, therapy, medication, suicide and self-harm. Please listen with care, and remember to prioritize your well-being. If you need support, don't hesitate to reach out to a trusted friend, therapist or mental health resource.Ever had a therapy session go so sideways it felt like a sitcom? Or realized your antidepressants are great for your mental health but terrible for your sex drive? In this episode of Your Secret's Safe With A, Grace and Vikki dive into the unexpected (and sometimes hilarious) ways comedy and grief collide.From therapists ghosting you to the wild ways we cope with mental health struggles, we're getting real about therapy, medication and why there's zero shame in needing help. Plus, we tackle the frustrating reality of SSRIs tanking libido—because, seriously, why can't we be both stable and in the mood?If you've ever laughed through the pain or wondered why no one warned you about the side effects of healing, this episode is for you. Tune in for unfiltered convos, questionable advice and the reminder that you're never alone in the chaos. 🎙✨

Ever found yourself in a threesome, waking up mid-cuddle wondering how you got there? In this week’s episode of Your Secret’s Safe With A, we’re diving deep into the wild world of trio dynamics—whether it’s friendships, flings, or full-on thruples.From spicy stories about vibrating nipple clamps and unexpected p*nis pumps to emotional confessions and threesomes gone hilariously wrong, we’re sharing it all. Plus, we’re talking about the real stuff—how feelings sneak in, boundaries get blurred, and why communication is everything (especially when there are more than two people involved).Grab your headphones—this one’s juicy. 👀

Grief is weird, messy and sometimes… kind of hilarious? In this episode, Grace and Vikki open up about losing Adrian and how that heartbreak unexpectedly made their friendship even stronger. From chaotic adventures together to Adrian’s legendary inability to take a shot without immediately throwing up, they share the raw, funny and painfully honest side of grief. But don’t worry—it wouldn’t be Your Secret Is Safe with A without some truly ridiculous stories. Laughter, tears and maybe a little regret—this episode has it all. Grab a drink (just don’t throw it up in a sink) and join the convo. Learn more about the Adrian Newcomb Memorial Scholarship: https://www.newriverunited.com/page/show/7101004-adrian-newcomb-memorial-scholarship- Donate: https://www.gofundme.com/f/adrian-newcomb-memorial-scholarship

This week, we’re getting real about society’s weird double standards when it comes to casual relationships. Why is it that a guy can be a player, but if a girl loves sex and dates casually, people start clutching their pearls? We’re breaking down the taboos, sharing our own “hoe phase” moments (and how we were our own worst enemies), and calling out the BS of it all. We’re also spilling tea on toxic relationships, diving into the size debate (yes, micro penises are a topic today—because size does matter) and, to keep things classy, Grace’s mom stops by with some killer advice. It’s spicy, it’s honest and it’s a whole lot of fun. Follow us on Instagram, TikTok and YouTube!