Queer Women Rising® with Sophia Spallino | Finding Lesbian Love and Dodging Dating Drama

Ways to work with The Luxury Lesbian™ Matchmaker, Sophia Spallino:💎Platinum Private Luxury Lesbian™ Matchmaking – For the woman who wants her Future Wife® delivered on a silver platter, I do all the screening so you can focus on falling in love.Explore Private Matchmaking: https://queercountryclub.com/private-lesbian-matchmaking-service  ✨Exclusive Luxury Lesbian™ Retreat at Canyon Ranch - A blissful weekend with an intimate group of extraordinary single queer women… curated to spoil your senses and reignite your belief in love and possibility.Join The Luxury Lesbian™ trip: https://queercountryclub.com/luxury-lesbian-retreat ❤️The Queer Country Club® – Our premier dating platform for monogamous queer women who are living amazing lives, but missing just one thing… their Future Partner®.  Apply to Join QCC: https://queercountryclub.com  🌈 Private Rising Coaching Session - If you're unsure of your next step but know in your gut you're ready to call in love, deepen self-trust, or design a life you’re proud of, I’m here to guide you.Reserve A Private Coaching Session: https://queercountryclub.com/private-coaching💬Got Qs? DM on Instagram → @sophiaspallino https://instagram.com/sophiaspallino🔺Get Wisp Kitty Care 🐱 Proud Partnerhttps://bit.ly/sophiawispEver crawled out of a messy breakup and somehow built your dream lesbian life?Zara Barrie is the critically acclaimed author of Girl, Stop Passing Out in Your Makeup, creator of Girls on Jane, and host of the new dating column Mascara Lesbian.After surviving deep heartbreak, a toxic relationship, and profound grief—she’s now living a hot, healing, wildly creative lesbian life in West Hollywood. Listen to GIRLS ON JANE:Lesbian Fiction | Girls on Janea sexy, serialized fiction audio drama (written & narrated by me) about the heartbreak and hedonism of a group of lesbian women living in Manhattan, pre-marriage equality (early-aughts!). I'm also linking out my Substack and GO Mag byline (all lesbian sex and dating) for reference. Listen/read Mascara Lesbian:ZARA BARRIE WORDS | Substack Read her Lesbian Dating and Sex Column:https://gomag.com/author/zara-barrie/ 📲 Connect with my guest, Zara Barrie.Follow Zara on Instagram: Zara Barrie (@zarabarrie)Check out her work at: https://www.zarabarrie.com

Ways to work with The Luxury Lesbian™ Matchmaker, Sophia Spallino:💎Platinum Private Luxury Lesbian™ Matchmaking – For the woman who wants her Future Wife® delivered on a silver platter, I do all the screening so you can focus on falling in love.Explore Private Matchmaking: https://queercountryclub.com/private-lesbian-matchmaking-service  ✨Exclusive Luxury Lesbian™ Retreat at Canyon Ranch – A blissful weekend with an intimate group of extraordinary single queer women… curated to spoil your senses and reignite your belief in love and possibility.Join The Luxury Lesbian™ trip: https://queercountryclub.com/luxury-lesbian-retreat ❤️The Queer Country Club® – Our premier dating platform for monogamous queer women who are living amazing lives, but missing just one thing… their Future Partner®.  Apply to Join QCC: https://queercountryclub.com  🌈 Private Rising Coaching Session - If you're unsure of your next step but know in your gut you're ready to call in love, deepen self-trust, or design a life you’re proud of, I’m here to guide you.Reserve A Private Coaching Session: https://queercountryclub.com/private-coaching💬Got Qs? DM on Instagram → @sophiaspallino https://instagram.com/sophiaspallino🔺Get Wisp Kitty Care 🐱 Proud Partnerhttps://bit.ly/sophiawispGoing through it now? If you ever desire 1:1 coaching with me to work through a breakup, just book a private session with me here: Sophia Spallino | Private Coaching 🏳️‍🌈❤️‍🩹I asked the queer women in my community to share breakup advice given to them by the older, wiser women in their lives. So I am gonna read it to you. Then I share my best advice. Lesbian dating and breakups are tough. But you are SOFT enough to feel it, heal it, and move along with your life!Promise.

Ways I could help you meet your Future Partner:💎 Platinum Private Lesbian Matchmaking – For the woman who wants her FUTURE WIFE® delivered on a silver platter, I do all the screening so you can focus on falling in love.Explore Platinum Matchmaking: https://queercountryclub.com/private-lesbian-matchmaking-service ✨ Exclusive Lesbian Luxury Retreat at Canyon Ranch – A blissful weekend with an intimate group of extraordinary single queer women… curated to spoil your senses and reignite your belief in love and possibility.Apply to join The Luxury Retreat: https://queercountryclub.com/luxe-retreat ❤️ The Queer Country Club® – Our premier dating platform for monogamous queer women who are living amazing lives but missing just one thing… their FUTURE WIFE®.Apply to Join QCC: https://queercountryclub.com 🌈 Private Rising Coaching Session – If you're unsure of your next step but know in your gut you're ready to call in love, deepen self-trust, or design a life you’re proud of, I’m here to guide you.Book A Private Coaching Session: https://queercountryclub.com/private-coachingGot Qs? DM me on Instagram → @sophiaspallino https://instagram.com/sophiaspallino🔺Get Wisp Kitty Care 🐱 Proud Partnerhttps://bit.ly/sophiawisp 6 Signs You're Ready to Build a Monogamous Lesbian Relationship So, how do you know if you're ready for a monogamous lesbian relationship - and not just lonely or burnt out from dating? Here are six clear signs: 1. You're Clear on What You Want, and Communicate ItYou’ve stopped saying “I’m open to whatever happens” and started owning what you want: a committed, exclusive relationship. If you're ready to say this on your dating profile and in person, even if it scares some people off, you’re showing true emotional clarity.  2. You’ve Healed from Past RelationshipsYou don’t view love through the lens of past heartbreak anymore. Sure, you’ve been hurt, but you’ve processed it, reflected on it, and you’re no longer operating out of fear. As a monogamous lesbian, you don’t need to look for someone to “fix” the past - you’re looking to build something new. 3. You’re Comfortable with Emotional IntimacyMonogamy isn't just about exclusivity; it’s about vulnerability. If you’re comfortable letting someone in emotionally, being seen at your worst, and offering that same safety to a partner, you’re ready for a monogamous bond. 4. You’re Not Distracted by “What Ifs”You don’t find yourself constantly wondering if the grass is greener. You’re not attached to the idea of endless options or swiping forever. You're looking for depth, not novelty. 5. You’re Ready to Grow with One PersonYou understand that even great relationships require effort, compromise, and personal growth. You’re excited to evolve alongside someone rather than bounce from one connection to another.6. You’re Willing to Prioritize LoveYou’re a clear monogamous lesbian if you are willing to make room in your life for someone else - emotionally, mentally, and logistically. You’re not “too busy” to date; you’re intentionally creating space for partnership.

❤️Meet Your Future Wife inside my LESBIAN DATING CLUB https://queercountryclub.com☎️Want to be featured on the show? Call in! https://queerwomenrising.com/ask-sophia-spallino🔺Get Wisp Kitty Care 🐱 Proud Partnerhttps://bit.ly/sophiawisp✨Work with me as your COACHhttps://SophiaSpallino.com💬Slide into my DMshttps://www.instagram.com/sophiaspallino Let’s talk sexology, p*ssy stroking, sexual trauma, pleasure, and making peace with Darshana Avila.Yes, you might recognize today’s guest is someone you might recognize from Netflix’s Sex, Love & Goop, but that’s just the beginning of her story.Back in 2015, Darshana Avila was in a marriage and a career that no longer fit. She walked away from both, and now she’s an internationally celebrated speaker and Erotic Wholeness guide helping queer women and AFABs come back home to their bodies and their truth.Her work is trauma-informed, pleasure-centric, and radically real. 📲 Connect with my guest, Darshana Avila:Follow Darshana on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/darshana_avilaCheck out her website: https://darshanaavila.comJoin her free community: Galgasm!       

 ❤️Meet Your Future Wife where Raina and Laurie met… inside my LESBIAN DATING CLUB https://queercountryclub.com 💎Learn more and apply to join us on our next Luxury Single Lesbian Retreathttps://queercountryclub.com/luxe-retreat 📲 Follow their love story that Raina shares!www.Instagram.com/Raina_notfit 🔺Get Wisp Kitty Care 🐱 Proud PartnerOnline Sexual and Reproductive Health | Wisp ✨Work with me as your COACHhttps://SophiaSpallino.com 💬Slide into my DMsInstagram (@sophiaspallino) What if your person is already inside the same dating platform as you… Just waiting for a message?This week on Queer Women Rising, I’m joined by Raina and Laurie, a couple who found each other through the Queer Country Club®, a platform built for lesbians and queer women looking for intentional, monogamous love.From first messages to cross-state travel, they share how their relationship unfolded with patience, warmth, and clarity. Want to meet your Future Wife™ like they did?Join the Queer Country Club® today!QueerCountryClub.com

❤️Meet Your Future Wife inside my LESBIAN DATING CLUB https://queercountryclub.com☎️Want to be featured on the show? Call in! https://queerwomenrising.com/ask-sophia-spallino🔺Get Wisp Kitty Care 🐱 Proud Partnerhttps://bit.ly/sophiawisp✨Work with me as your COACHhttps://SophiaSpallino.com💬Slide into my DMshttps://www.instagram.com/sophiaspallino Don’t try this at home. Two Lesbians. One carrot. It was fun until it wasn’t.Trigger warning: this episode includes my experience with sexual assault.

❤️Meet Your Future Wife inside my LESBIAN DATING CLUB Skip the initiation fee and join QCC through Jaime: ⁠https://queercountryclub.com/wlw-club?am_id=jaime9948⁠☎️Want to be featured on the show? Call in! https://queerwomenrising.com/ask-sophia-spallino🔺Get Wisp Kitty Care 🐱 Proud Partnerhttps://bit.ly/sophiawisp✨Work with me as your COACHhttps://SophiaSpallino.com💬Slide into my DMshttps://www.instagram.com/sophiaspallino She created one of the most iconic sapphic spaces on the internet… but that’s not where the story ends.📲 Connect with my guest, Jaime Messina.Follow Jaime on Instagram: Jaime Messina | Mindset & Empowerment CoachCheck out her site & coaching offers: Jaime Messina | Mindset & Empowerment CoachWe talked about:– What it’s like to coach others while still healing yourself– The love story that took her by surprise– Building sapphic spaces that actually feel safe– Recognizing internal homophobia– What she’s creating nextIf you’re a lesbian or queer woman building a life of love, peace, and purpose… this one’s for you.

❤️Meet Your Future Wife inside my LESBIAN DATING CLUB https://queercountryclub.com☎️Want to be featured on the show? Call in! https://queerwomenrising.com/ask-sophia-spallino🔺Get Wisp Kitty Care 🐱 Proud Partnerhttps://bit.ly/sophiawisp✨Work with me as your COACHhttps://SophiaSpallino.com💬Slide into my DMshttps://www.instagram.com/sophiaspallino Today, I dive into the truth of lesbian age gap relationships, the real, raw, and often misunderstood dynamics between women of different generations. Whether you're crushing on someone older, dating someone younger, or just curious how these relationships actually work… this episode is for you.You’ll learn:Why age gap love between women feels so different from straight dynamicsThe benefits of dating someone in a different life stageThe very real challenges, and how to overcome themHow to make your relationship work, long-term, regardless of ageWhat makes these connections so powerful, so sexy, and so worth it

❤️Meet Your Future Wife inside my LESBIAN DATING CLUB https://queercountryclub.com☎️Want to be featured on the show? Call in! https://queerwomenrising.com/ask-sophia-spallino🔺Get Wisp Kitty Care 🐱 Proud Partnerhttps://bit.ly/sophiawisp✨Work with me as your COACHhttps://SophiaSpallino.com💬Slide into my DMshttps://www.instagram.com/sophiaspallino 📲 Work with Lauren Courtney and Buy her Book “Glow Up Your Chakras”Follow Lauren on Instagram: Instagram (@iamlaurencourtney)Check out Lauren’s website: Lauren Courtney Heals | Holistic Healing & Chakra Therapy 🏳️‍🌈 When the love of your life dies… do you ever really come back the same?This episode is for the lesbians and queer women who’ve been cracked open by heartbreak, walked the messy path of dating married people, and are looking for real magic—within and in partnership.Back in 2016, Lauren Courtney’s first love passed away, leaving her heartbroken and believing she would never love again. Through her spiritual awakening and the messy dating adventures that followed, she discovered that true love begins within. As she healed, she realized that self-love and inner alignment are the foundation for deep, meaningful connections. Now, as a healer, author, and spiritual guide, she helps others clear emotional blocks, awaken their intuition, and cultivate the love they seek, starting from within.

❤️Meet Your Future Wife inside my LESBIAN DATING CLUB https://queercountryclub.com☎️Want to be featured on the show? Call in! https://queerwomenrising.com/ask-sophia-spallino🔺Get Wisp Kitty Care 🐱 Proud Partnerhttps://bit.ly/sophiawisp✨Work with me as your COACHhttps://SophiaSpallino.com💬Slide into my DMshttps://www.instagram.com/sophiaspallino Today’s episode is your cheat sheet for getting a girl to actually respond to you in the DMs.Save these. Copy/paste them. Send them. You’re welcome.1️⃣ “You seem like someone who actually knows what she wants. Am I right or should I keep scrolling?”Why it works: It flatters her decisiveness without being generic. And that playful little challenge? It makes her want to prove you right, or cheekily prove you wrong. 2️⃣ “Okay I have to ask… are you the big spoon, little spoon, or ‘depends on the night’?”Why it works: This skips all the small talk. It’s cheeky, flirty, and dives into playful intimacy without being over the top. It’s irresistible to respond to. 3️⃣ “Something tells me you’re not the type to settle. What’s a green flag you always look for?”Why it works: It makes her feel like a woman with high standards…which we love. It also gives her a moment to show emotional depth without needing to get super vulnerable too fast. 4️⃣ “I’d bet good money you’re a softie under that confident energy. Am I wrong?”Why it works: This gently teases her while giving her the perfect opening to reveal more about herself. It’s confident, direct, and it invites a real connection. 5️⃣ “Your vibe feels intentional… what’s something you wish more women noticed about you right away?”Why it works: This tells her you’re not just here for surface-level attraction. You want to see her. And that? That’s magnetic.

❤️Meet Your Future Wife inside my LESBIAN DATING CLUB https://queercountryclub.com☎️Want to be featured on the show? Call in! https://queerwomenrising.com/ask-sophia-spallino🔺Get Wisp Kitty Care 🐱 Proud Partnerhttps://bit.ly/sophiawisp✨Work with me as your COACHhttps://SophiaSpallino.com💬Slide into my DMshttps://www.instagram.com/sophiaspallino Can your heart keep up with the digital nomad life?Our queer guest, Yvonne Wilson, has experienced a transformation that is nothing short of inspiring. In 2018, she hit rock bottom—binge drinking, drowning in debt, and renting rooms in strangers’ homes—but by 2019 she reinvented her life with the help of a money coach. After paying off 15k in collections and embracing the digital nomad lifestyle, Yvonne now travels the world and empowers others as a Certified Financial Educator. Her journey of financial and emotional rebirth is wild! 📲 Connect With Yvonne Wilson.Follow Yvonne Wilson On Instagram: http://Instagram.com/themoneymaestro_Website: stan.store/yvonnewilson

❤️Meet Your Future Wife inside my LESBIAN DATING CLUB https://queercountryclub.com☎️Want to be featured on the show? Call in! https://queerwomenrising.com/ask-sophia-spallino🔺Get Wisp Kitty Care 🐱 Proud Partnerhttps://bit.ly/sophiawisp✨Work with me as your COACHhttps://SophiaSpallino.com💬Slide into my DMshttps://www.instagram.com/sophiaspallino What makes love last through the years? Nearly 9 years in, Stacey and Alice have some wisdom to share!What are the odds? You match with someone on a dating app… only to find out they’ve been walking the same campus halls as you! Stacey and Alice’s love story is proof that sometimes, fate and logging into a dating platform go hand in hand. 💕 📲 Connect with my guest, Stacey & Alice:Follow them on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/les__adventures

❤️Meet Your Future Wife inside my LESBIAN DATING CLUB https://queercountryclub.com☎️Want to be featured on the show? Call in! https://queerwomenrising.com/ask-sophia-spallino🔺Get Wisp Kitty Care 🐱 Proud Partnerhttps://bit.ly/sophiawisp✨Work with me as your COACHhttps://SophiaSpallino.com💬Slide into my DMshttps://www.instagram.com/sophiaspallino DM me (https://www.instagram.com/sophiaspallino) or email my team (Support@SophiaSpallino.com) the word “WAITLIST” to be the first to get access to my next luxury lesbian retreat!

❤️Meet Your Future Wife inside my LESBIAN DATING CLUB https://queercountryclub.com☎️Want to be featured on the show? Call in! https://queerwomenrising.com/ask-sophia-spallino🔺Get Wisp Kitty Care 🐱 Proud Partnerhttps://bit.ly/sophiawisp✨Work with me as your COACHhttps://SophiaSpallino.com💬Slide into my DMshttps://www.instagram.com/sophiaspallinoSome love stories start with sparks, but what if yours started with a revolution?📲 Connect with my guest, Haily.Follow Haily on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_alrighty__aphroditeCheck out her TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@alrighty__aphroditeGrab her Queer Poetry Book: My Human History: Queer Poetry

❤️Meet Your Future Wife inside my LESBIAN DATING CLUB https://queercountryclub.com☎️Want to be featured on the show? Call in! https://queerwomenrising.com/ask-sophia-spallino🔺Get Wisp Kitty Care 🐱 Proud Partnerhttps://bit.ly/sophiawisp✨Work with me as your COACHhttps://SophiaSpallino.com💬Slide into my DMshttps://www.instagram.com/sophiaspallino Single Lesbians, Les Be Honest Over 30, we are set in our ways. If we are honest…Love isn’t enough. Lifestyle compatibility and an aligned value system is what I am looking for above all. So I am buckled up and waiting patiently because I trust the Universe is going to bring your Future Wife™ to me (the universe and the AI Matchmaker in my lesbian dating club)… Because I am OVER trying to change people who aren’t “The One.” You too? 😍Time to join the movement of extraordinary single lesbians inside The Queer Country Club™https://queercountryclub.com

❤️Meet Your Future Wife inside my LESBIAN DATING CLUB https://queercountryclub.com ☎️Want to be featured on the show? Call in! https://queerwomxnrising.com/ask-sophia-spallino 🔺Get Wisp Kitty Care 🐱 Proud Partner https://bit.ly/sophiawisp ✨Work with me as your COACH https://SophiaSpallino.com 💬Slide into my DMs https://www.instagram.com/sophiaspallino  🏳️‍🌈You can be a lesbian who has it all. Total peace, abundance, and love. @‌JasmineBee is proof. 🎙️ Our convo covers:👉 Finding deep partnership after toxic WLW relationships 👉 The intersection of faith and queerness👉 Healing through celibacy and self-discovery 👉 Balancing personal growth, business, and love Jasmine is an Energy + Business Mentor for visionary leaders, creatives, and wild souls. She’s here to share how faith and queerness coexist, the shift that allowed her to find true love, and the beliefs that brought her success. 📲 Follow Jasmine on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tobeealive/

https://queercountryclub.com/wlw-club?am_id=zsuzsiandziron Zsuzsi & Ziron met under mystical circumstances at a retreat in upstate New York, where a simple eye-gazing exercise turned into a soul-shaking realization that they were destined for each other. That one moment set them on a path not only as life partners but as mentors in love and self-discovery.Through their work at Sacred 8 Roadshow, they help queer womxn clear emotional blocks, rewire limiting beliefs, and build the kind of love that feels like home. But can anyone manifest a sacred connection like theirs? And what’s the secret to attracting deep, lasting love?Let’s find out. Welcome to the show, Zsuzsi & Ziron!📲 Connect with my guests, Zsuzsi & Ziron:@‌Sacred8Roadshow on IG and Tiktokhttps://www.sacred8roadshow.com/Join their Human Design retreat in New York! https://www.eomega.org/workshops/intro-human-designStart your Human Design Journey and make your chart for FREE!https://www.hdbyz.com/individual

❤️Meet Your Future Wife inside my LESBIAN DATING CLUB https://queercountryclub.com ☎️Want to be featured on the show? Call in! https://queerwomxnrising.com/ask-sophia-spallino 🔺Get Wisp Kitty Care 🐱 Proud Partner https://bit.ly/sophiawisp ✨Work with me as your COACH https://SophiaSpallino.com 💬Slide into my DMs https://www.instagram.com/sophiaspallino  🏳️‍🌈Queer Womxn, be honest. Can you talk about God, queerness, and money all in one conversation? Can you handle the nuance? 🎤About my guest: Alison Lowe @alowefinances is a former PhD student in Clinical Psychology (where she discovered her love for women, yay!)… BUT she quickly discovered that if she wanted to win at the money game, she'd have to learn the rules. Now she has a thriving career in the financial industry with a foothold spanning both Canada and USA. Her services go beyond traditional financial advice as she seeks a holistic approach in specializing to help clients manage their wealth, build generational prosperity, and shield their assets from taxes and liabilities. Not too long after her pivot in her career, she nearly lost her life in 2020, but because of the grace of God and the planning she put in place, she is thriving financially and is seeking to help others do the same. If you wanna hear two bad ass queer womxn talk coming out, faith, abudance, and buidling wealth today, this conversation is for you! 🎙️Our convo covers: 👉 Alison’s queer journey 👉 Growing up Christian & coming out 👉 Faith and queerness 👉 Planning for a secure, financially abundant future 📲Connect with Alison on IG https://www.instagram.com/alowefinances 💁🏻‍♀️Grab My FREE Profitable Personal Brand™ Training & PPB Blueprint ✨ https://bit.ly/3FKTAPz JOIN MY PPB LIVE COACHING PROGRAM 🙅‍♀️This is NOT a basic-ass course. I am your live coach. 💰If you’re serious about making more money and growing your business, whether you're… ✨an aspiring coach or service provider ✨or you’re already doing what you love, but feeling stuck, hitting a plateau in a business that once had consistent revenue Book a FREE STRATEGY CALL with either me or my team to see if we’d be the right fit to work with each other (I am only accepting a few driven women into the program this week). 👉Book your FREE strategy call now: https://bit.ly/49hfh7z

❤️Meet Your Future Wife inside my LESBIAN DATING CLUB https://queercountryclub.com☎️Want to be featured on the show? Call in! https://queerwomenrising.com/ask-sophia-spallino🔺Get Wisp Kitty Care 🐱 Proud Partnerhttps://bit.ly/sophiawisp✨Work with me as your COACHhttps://SophiaSpallino.com💬Slide into my DMshttps://www.instagram.com/sophiaspallino What does it mean to embrace your lesbian truth after living a life that feels like someone else’s story? What’s it like to build a queer family with IVF?📲 Connect with Emily Altadonnahttps://www.instagram.com/emilyadonnahttps://www.tiktok.com/@emilyadonnaa

❤️Meet Your Future Wife inside my LESBIAN DATING CLUB https://queercountryclub.com ☎️Want to be featured on the show? Call in! https://queerwomxnrising.com/ask-sophia-spallino 🔺Get Wisp Kitty Care 🐱 Proud Partner https://bit.ly/sophiawisp ✨Work with me as your COACH https://SophiaSpallino.com 💬Slide into my DMs https://www.instagram.com/sophiaspallino  🏳️‍🌈I wanted to ask my transgender lesbian friend EVERYTHING! So I did… Qs for @‌vicavsteel ❤️ How have you stayed married to the same woman all these years?! 🕊️How does God and the non-binary of life make sense together? 🚽 Is it safe for you to go to the bathroom? 🥹How do you know someone is accepting to you or a danger to you? 💃🏻How can you be a minister and burlesque dancer? The answers will leave your cup FULL. 🎤 About my guest:Lesbians and queer womxn, have you ever wondered what it would be like to embrace a year of firsts at 59? Vica-Etta Henrietta Steel has done just that! This year, she got her first tattoos, performed in her first burlesque shows, and took on a leadership role in both traditional ministry and the public square. She’s all about celebrating Queer joy, finding love in herself and the world again, and building deep relationships rooted in mutuality and meaningful conversations. 📲 Connect with my guest:TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@vicavsteel Instagram @‌vicavsteel