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Kingdom Sexuality
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Join Alana, Kyle, and Tiera as they journey into the mission of uncovering God's truths and design for sexual freedom within marriage. They're going to be tackling some big questions. Things like why couples go into marriage feeling ill-equipped about sex, and how couples years into their marriages can find wholesome ways to spice things up. From interviews, to "sex-timonies", and everything in-between- this is the Kingdom Sexuality podcast.
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Special thanks to our lovely patron pals for coming up with all of the questions in this episode! Become a patron today and support the show!
This episode is packed with all the things our patrons have been dying to ask- intimacy routines, sex during pregnancy, navigating hormone changes, BJ awkwardness, and yes… even strawberries in the bedroom. The KS team answers the patrons' real questions with honesty, laughter, and biblical encouragement.
2:50 - Do you and your spouse have any go-to intimacy routines?
4:37 - Ever tried something like “Mouth on Monday” or “Sunday Funday” just to spice things up a bit?
5:32 - How do you balance fun, flirty spontaneity with actually making time for intimacy?
8:08 - What helped you get back on track when connection felt hard?
12:14 - Have you seen God use your struggles to actually bring you closer?
14:55 - Have you or your spouse ever struggled with anxiety? How do you support each other when one of you is feeling overwhelmed or low?
17:34 - Y’all’s opinion on adding food to sex such as strawberries, chocolate sauce or whip cream . Just adding things like that to your sex life
19:35 - Another question is sex during pregnancy my wife is currently 4 months pregnant and she has ups and down with sex drives but the further she is along the more difficult the sex what’s is somethings to try
24:18 - Here's another one. What is perimenopause and how does it affect sex drive?
29:45 - Can perimenopause affect your ability to orgasm?
32:15 - How do you not make bjs feel so awkward? It's it a confidence thing or do you just embrace the awkwardness and go for it?
34:24 - For Tiera: can you talk a little bit about the impact that hormones during pregnancy/breastfeeding have on libido?
37:30 - For Alana: how did you get into photography? What kind of photography do you do?
38:50 - For Kyle: what's some of your favorite TV shows and why?
41:50 - For all of you: I'd love to hear how you all met your spouses and the proposal stories 🥰
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Links from today’s episode:
DWELL Bible App: Use the link to get 25% off!
Spontaneous Sex vs Scheduled Sex episode (ep. 139)
Ah Yes! Lubricants: Use code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 15% off
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Figuring Out What I Like Guide
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Is shame from your past still showing up in your marriage? In this episode, the KS team is talking about how shame, whether from past choices, guilt, or lies from the enemy, can quietly sabotage intimacy and connection. We’ll walk through a powerful self-check quiz, explore how God offers true freedom, and share practical ways to step into healing and grace in your marriage.
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Feeling like the only wife who wants sex more than her husband? You’re not broken - and you’re not alone. In this episode, the KS team dives deep into the heart of the higher drive wife: the identity struggles, the church silence, and the ache of rejection. We’re breaking the silence, offering real tools, and reminding you that your desire is not shameful - it’s sacred.
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Links from today’s episode:
Figuring Out What I Like Guide
Responsive vs Spontaneous (episode 177)
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Want to keep things smooth in the bedroom? 😉 In this episode of the Kingdom Sexuality Podcast, we’re diving into the world of lubrication—both the natural kind and the many options available to enhance intimacy! From the science behind your body’s built-in moisture to the best lubes for different situations (yes, even in the shower! 🚿🔥), we’re covering it all. Whether you’re looking for more comfort, more fun, or just curious about the weirdest flavored lubes out there (pizza-flavored, anyone? 🍕😳), this episode is packed with info you don’t want to miss! Tune in now!
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Evree: KINGDOM10 for an exclusive listener-only discount!!
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Tiera’s Website (BeLoved Fertility) Use discount code: KSFOLLOWER for $50 off any package
Condom Episode
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Wanting to take your intimate life to the next level? Or curious as to what else you and your spouse could do to add some extra spice and fun into the bedroom?
In this episode, we will break down several things you can do in your sex life whether you find yourself in the beginner, intermediate, or advanced stage of intimacy! Tune in now!
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Links from today’s episode:
Episode 221: Fundamentals Of Healthy Sexuality
Awaken Love
31 Nights of Intimacy
Dwell app
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Figuring Out What I Like Guide
Date Night Bundle
Intimacy Without Intercourse
Sex Dice
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We love recording Q&A's and you seem to love listening to them! If you have a question, email it to us at kingdomsexuality@gmail.com and we’ll aim to answer it in our next Q&A!
Links from today’s episode:
Betrayal Trauma (Episode 206)
“My Husband Was Addicted To Porn” (Episode 96)
“The Impact of His Porn Addiction on Me” (Episode 97)
Sex Fasting: What Is It & Why Would You Do It? (Episode 218)
My Counselor Online: You get $25 off your first month when you sign up with our link
Married Dance: Use the code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 10% off
Talk Dirty To Me (Episode 141)
Sexual Confidence (Episode 225)
Let’s Talk About Sexting, Baby! (Episode 142)
The Female Cycle & Pleasure (Episode 138)
Clinical Psychologist Answers YOUR Questions! With Dr. Josh Kruse (Episode 135)
Post Sex Clean Up… How?? (Episode 123)
Ultimate Newlywed Guide
Pain Free Intimacy: Use the code KS5 to get 5% off!
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You asked, they answer! The KS Team answers questions sent in on Instagram, and they do not hold back! Tune in now!
Links from today’s episode:
My Counselor Online (You get $25 off your first month when you sign up with our link!)
Unite & Ignite membership
KS Shop
180: Pregnancy and Postpartum Q&A
She Comes First
Married Dance use the code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 10% off! (Oralicious was mentioned in this episode)
Covenant Spice
Passionista
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What does being a sexually confident Christian look like? And HOW do you become one?? Tune in now to hear the KS team chat about it!
Links from today’s episode:
Figuring Out What I Like Guide
KS Shop
Intimately Us app
Heated Mattress Pad
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In a bit of a sexual slump? Not sure how to navigate it? We've all been there. Tune in as the KS team gives some practical tips for getting out of the slump and into the hump!
Links from today’s episode:
30 Prayers For Your Wife eBook
30 Prayer For Your Husband eBook
Better Help
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Tune in to hear the KS team tackle some big questions around selflessness- questions like: What does selflessness actually look like in the bedroom? How do I bring up the need for more selflessness without offending my spouse? and I’m already exhausted—how can I be selfless when I have nothing left to give?
Links from today’s episode:
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Keeping Score Episode
Intimacy with Small Kids episode
Resetting Your Mindset episode
Awaken Love book
Intimately Us App
The Flirtation Experiment book
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Special thanks to the sponsor of this episode, Dwell! Go to dwellbible.com/kingdom to get your 25% off discount.
How do God and sex mesh?! How can incorporating the Lord into EVERY area of our life actually make any difference? Tune in as Tiera and Alana chat about how God didn't design sex on accident and give you practical tips that will change your intimate life!
Links from today’s episode:
That Sounds Fun Network Website
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30 Prayers For Your Wife eBook
30 Prayer For Your Husband eBook
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Is your sex life moving forward or backwards? Maybe it's time to go back to the basics! Tune in as the KS team shares some VERY exciting news at the beginning of this episode and tackles the fundamentals of a healthy sex life.
Shout out to our incredible Patron's for choosing today's episode!
Links from today’s episode:
That Sounds Fun Network Website
My Counselor Online (get $25 off when you sign up using our link!)
Episode 189 with Josh Spurlock (Founder of My Counselor Online)
Episode 192 with Josh Spurlock
Figuring Out What I Like Guide
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It's time to get back to the basics as the KS team dives into The Sex Fundamentals! We'll be covering so many great topics- the taboo ones, the curious ones, and the ones no one will talk about. Join us as we cover things like sexual confidence, how the topic of God and sex mesh, getting out of slumps, and more! Welcome to the Kingdom Sexuality podcast.
Curious how Kingdom Sexuality began? What about their stories brought the team together? And what does the future hold? Listen to the end to hear some exciting news!
Links from today’s episode:
Blog post about KS boundaries
KS Shop
Starting Life Together Guide
Unite & Ignite
Episode 206 with Dr. Dave Currie
Kyle’s Sextimony
My Husband Was Addicted To Porn part 1
The Impact Of His Porn Addiction On Me part 2
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Don't miss our first Q&A of the New Year! It started out as a "throwback" Q&A with Kyle and Alana then Tiera joined in part-way through! The team answers questions like "How do I serve my husband when my desire is low?" and "How often should couples be having sex each week?"- you won't want to miss it!
Links from today’s episode:
Interview with Josh Spurlock
My Counselor Online: You get $25 off your first month when you sign up with our link
Better Help Counseling
Engagement Guide
Wedding Night Guide
Newlywed Guide
Starting Life Together Bundle
Awaken Love Book
180: Pregnancy & Postpartum Q&A!
Question Time Stamps:
2:20- What are your thoughts on “adult-only” resorts?
3:55- How often should you have sex in marriage?
5:25- How to keep the spark alive when engaged and long distance?
6:18- A good first episode to introduce my spouse to the podcast?
7:50- How to get over my nerves initiating with my spouse?
9:50- What advice would you give newlyweds 6 months into marriage?
13:00- How to serve my husband when my desire is low?
18:00- About to get married and don’t know much about sex- any tips?
21:00- Is it okay to want to have sex where the risk of getting caught is very high? (In public)
22:58- How to reignite the intimate life post-baby?
26:12- How much time do you spend on KS each week?
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Tune into this very special episode where Kyle and his wife Samantha chat about the sex fast they did a few years ago. Was it helpful? Would they do it again? Listen now!
Links from today’s episode:
Kyle’s Sextimony (Episode 94)
"My Husband Was Addicted To Porn" part 1 (Episode 96)
"The Impact Of His Porn Addiction On Me" part 2 (Episode 97)
Jay Stringer’s Book: Unwanted
6 Pillars of Intimacy Book
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To wrap or not to wrap- that is the question! Tune into this funny, informative, and light-hearted episode where Tiera educates Alana and Kyle on the ins and outs of condom use!
Links from today’s episode:
Tiera’s Fertility Page: use the code KSFOLLOWER for a discount!
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We often create individual goals for ourselves but do we make marriage/intimacy goals as a couple? Tune in to hear some practical goals you can implement this new year!
Links from today’s episode:
Dwellbible.com/kingdom
Marriage Resolution Guide
Intimately Us App
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Tune in as we tackle Christmas/intimacy/marriage questions that YOU sent in! Wishing you and your family a very Merry Christmas, from the KS team!
Question Time Stamps:
2:22 I want to have sex in my childhood bedroom while visiting my parents. My husband thinks it’ll be weird to have sex in my parents home. Is it really that weird?
5:27 What are some fun intimacy gifts?
8:01 Are lingerie sets good to buy as gifts?
9:58 What is the best place to put mistletoe?
12:20 How to prioritize my husband while trying to please family during the holiday season?
18:27 Any cheaper, sexy overnight stays in the Midwest?
20:38 How to handle all the baby pressure from family when we’re not there yet?
22:30 What are some fun, romantic holiday traditions we can start as a couple?
Links from today’s episode:
KS Discount page
Mentionables
Honouring Intimates: Use code KINGDOM for 20% off
Married Dance: Use the code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 10% off
Adventure Challenge: Use code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 10% off
Everylove Intimates: Use code KS69 for $30 off each subscription box
KS Shop
Episode 133: intimacy when you have small kids
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Tune into this repeat episode as Kyle and Alana chat about ways to make intimacy more of a priority this Christmas! Spoiler alert: it starts with decreasing the amount of stress in your life!! Merry Christmas, from the KS Team!! Praying this Christmas is filled with love, joy, and Jesus.
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Tune into our final pornography series episode with Nick Stumbo, Executive Director at Pure Desire Ministries. Nick shares how porn impacted him as a pastor and how he decided to find healing!
Special shout out to Coventant Eyes for sponsoring this pornography seriers! Use our code KS30 to get your first month FREE! Find healing TODAY!!!
Links from today’s episode:
Covenant Eyes (KS30 for your first 30 days free!!)
Pure Desire Parent Resource: use code PARENTS29 for a discount!
Puredesire.org
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You won't want to miss Joshua Broome's incredibly powerful testimony of going from being a porn star to becoming a pastor!
Special thank you to Covenant Eyes for sponsoring our pornography series. Use our code KS30 for your first month free!
Links from today’s episode:
Covenant Eyes (KS30 for your first 30 days free!!)
@iamjoshuabroome
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Today's guest Jay Stringer (known by some as "the porn whisperer") shares how your sexual struggles could be predicted by your untreated past trauma. You don't want to miss this incredible episode!
Special thanks to Covenant Eyes for sponsoring this series on pornography! Use our code KS30 to get your first 30 days free!
Links from today’s episode:
Covenant Eyes (KS30 for your first 30 days free!!)
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Unwanted by Jay Stringer
Unwanted Workbook
The Journey Course
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Struggle to know when to go about talking to your kids about porn? Or HOW you're even going to go about having that conversation?? Tune into our latest episode with Kristen Jenson, author of Good Pictures Bad Pictures as she unpacks it all!!
Links from today’s episode:
Covenant Eyes (KS30 for your first 30 days free!!)
Good Pictures Bad Pictures
Good Pictures Bad Pictures Jr.
Canopy
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Have you ever asked yourself, after consuming some form of media, "Does this count as porn?". Tune into this episode to hear the KS team unpack this!
Special thanks to Covenant Eyes for sponsoring this episode series on pornography! Use the code KS30 to get your first 30 days free.
Links from today’s episode:
Covenant Eyes: KS30 for your first 30 days free!
Plugged In
IMDB
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197: Masturbation episode
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The KS team is joined by Dr. Andrew Bauman, a licensed mental health counselor and writer whose work focuses on sexual health, abuse, and wholeness with men. Don't miss this incredible interview!
Huge thanks to Covenant Eyes for sponsoring this series on pornography! Use our code KS30 to try it out for 30 days free!
Links from today’s episode:
Unwanted Jay Stringer
My Counsellor Online :get $25 off when you use our link
Covenant Eyes: KS30 For 30 Days Free
Stumbling Towards Wholeness
Birds & Bees Course KINGDOM20 for 20% off
How Not To Be An *ss
Christiancc.org
Andrewjbauman.com
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Please keep in mind that this episode deals with some raw, honest moments within the porn industry and may not be suitable for everyone to listen to. If in doubt, pray about it and consider listening to the episode together with your spouse.
Alana and Tiera had the pleasure of interviewing ex-porn star Brittni De La Mora whose incredible testimony is changing lives! Tune in now!
Links from today’s episode:
Arise by Covenant Eyes
Covenant Eyes (KS30 for your first 30 days free!)
Love Always Ministries
Body Count
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Kyle and Tiera had the privilege of interviewing Dr. Dave Currie, a certified Sexual Recovery Therapist and a registered clinician with the American Association of Sexual Addiction Therapy! You won't want to miss it!
Links from today’s episode:
IA test
Dr. Currie’s website: doingfamilyright.com
ReGroup for Men
Flair for Women
The Ideal "I Do" - Building Strong: Pursuing the Marriage You’ll Love
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Huge thank you to Covenant Eyes for sponsoring this upcoming pornography series! Whether porn is in your story or not, this series is going to be beneficial for you to listen to!
We’re thrilled to partner with Covenant Eyes to offer our listeners 30 days free when you sign up using our promo code KS30! Whether you're looking to protect yourself, your kids, or even your workplace, Covenant Eyes has you covered with its powerful accountability and filtering features.
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Tune into this incredible PART TWO episode of “Ask A Pastor”! The KS team had the pleasure of interviewing Pastor Chris de Monye and asking him all of the questions you sent in on Instagram! Don’t miss it.
Links from today’s episode:
Dwellbible.com/kingdom
chris@thisisvillagechurch.com
@chrisdemonye
7 Primal Questions
Question Time Stamps:
1:20 - Is there a place for me to be a pastor if I had sex before marriage?
5:25 - Is it okay to separate or leave my spouse because of porn/erotica usage?
12:17 - How to get my spouse to invest more emotionally in our marriage? I’m tired of doing it all
17:18 - Lots of questions about why churches don’t talk about sex in a healthy way but more in a fear mongering/purity culture way. How do you think churches should handle speaking about sex?
33:45 - Why is monogamy the norm when in reality it’s a new concept?
39:15 - How to create mentorship/discipleship opportunities for couples?
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Tune into this incredible PART ONE episode of “Ask A Pastor”! The KS team had the pleasure of interviewing Pastor Chris de Monye and asking him all of the questions you sent in on Instagram! Don’t miss it.
Links from today’s episode:
Intimacy Through Grief Episode
chris@thisisvillagechurch.com
@chrisdemonye
Time Stamps:
10:40 - How to balance marriage, job, kids, work. We have little desire left at the end of the day for each other
16:27 - Why do I need to have sex if I’m married?
22:06 - Sex seems like yet another item on the list of things that given to men and not women. What are your thoughts on that?
24:50 - How to address my spouse’s fantasies that are not biblical (ie. threesome, etc)?
30:58 - How to address my spouse’s fantasies that are biblical but I’m hesitant?
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Can being mindful of your body and surroundings lead to a better sex life?? Tune in to hear Dr. Lori Brotto share how you can connect better with your intimate life!
Links from today’s episode:
Better Sex Through Mindfulness
Lori's Instagram: @drloribrotto
loribrotto.com
@ubcshr
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Shout out to our incredible patrons for choosing this month's Patron's Choice episode! Become a patron today for some amazing perks and support KS!
"What was a time in your guys’ marriages when sex felt like a chore?" You'll hear the KS team answer that question and MORE when it comes to turning sex from mundane to magical.
Links from today's episode:
Awaken Love
Come As You Are
Mindset Reset episode
Better Help
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Today's episode is full of incredible wisdom from Mark and Jill Savage. The testimony they share is so powerful- full of wisdom and insight on what it looks like to wait well in a hard season. Tune in and hear how God moved and turned their tragedy into testimony!
Links from today’s episode:
Mark and Jill Website (markandjill.com)
Rebuilding Trust Guide rebuildingtrust.us
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Episode 200 is here! Whether you've been listening to the podcast since the beginning, or if this is the first episode of ours you've listened to- we're so grateful you're here!
Tune into this episode where Dan Purcell, from Get Your Marriage On! interviews Alana about what it means to cherish your spouse.
Links from today's episode:
Ruthless Elimination Of Hurry
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Today's episode is another classic Q&A episode where we take questions you guys have sent us and we discuss our answers. You won't want to miss this spicy episode!
2:00 How do I help my wife be more confident to initiate more?
8:40 How do you maintain intimacy through stressful times?
11:10 How do I help my wife get out of her head during sex?
14:55 How to not be grossed out by bodily fluids in mouth during oral sex?
19:07 How soon can/should sex be re-introduced postpartum?
20:02 We struggle to communicate what we need/want. Any tips?
25:50 How do I talk to my spouse about doing something new?
28:43 Is filming sex with my spouse okay?
31:37 How to keep sex fresh when TTC for 2 years?
35:16 Advice for a husband and wife that want to finish together?
40:16 How do you know if you’re orgasming?
42:41 Our “long sex” is great but we don’t always have time, how to have good <30min sex w/o warmup?
Links from today’s episode:
Flirtation Experiment- Lisa Jacobson, Phylicia Masonheimer
Awaken Love- Ruth Buezis
My Counselor Online
Better Sex Through Mindfulness Dr. Lorri Brotto
Coconu Lubricant
Her Turn Sex Challenge
Anatomy Of Us: Makin’ Sex Tapes
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Tune into this fun Q&A where the Kingdom Sexuality team asks each other some surprise questions they've always wanted to ask each other. Plus, the answer questions followers on Instagram sent in about the future of KS!
Links from today’s episode:
My Counselor Online (get $25 off when you use our link!)
177: Spontaneous vs Responsive Desire
His and Hers Sex Challenges
“It’s Getting Hot In Here” Sex Challenge
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What role, if any, does masturbation play in marriage? Does the Bible talk about this topic? You won't want to miss this one!
Links from today’s episode:
Dwell app: dwellbible.com/kingdom
106: Opposites: Location with Abe and Elaine Romaro
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Join the KS team as they answer questions that our female followers sent in over on Instagram!
QUESTION TIME STAMPS:
4:12 “How can I switch things up if my spouse doesn’t like lingerie/games/toys/etc?”
7:23 “Newly married, we cannot get him inside of me, how to loosen?”
9:47 “Husband has a very low drive and can go weeks without sex and I can’t- advice?”
16:00 “I’ve been married for a month and I haven’t had a climax, any advice?”
17:36 “My husband hasn’t finished in over a month now, what do I do?”
19:50 “Ways to put more focus on my husband, make him feel desired?”
23:00 “Why don’t I like kissing more? My husband likes to make out but its so… wet.”
24:32 “How to restore desire during a season of high stress?”
27:34 “Is it normal to have no libido at all? Ways around this to get turned on.”
29:37 “Best advice for first time wedding night sex, worried I won’t be able to relax enough.”
31:32 “Thoughts on writing erotica for my wife to read as foreplay?”
32:48 “How to take the reins more? Not initiating, but to control intimacy more. Feels weird to be in charge and I don’t want to just lay there”
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Is it time to do a "mindset reset" around sex? Let's make the second half of this year incredible for our marriages and intimate lives as we reflect and introspect on our thought life.
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Ever wonder what the top three sex positions are? And some unique techniques to take them to the next level?? Then you're not going to want to miss this one!
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The KS team is joined by Sofia Friesen, Canadian Program Director of Ally Global, and she chats with the KS team about the incredible work that Ally is doing to prevent human trafficking, how it actually happens, and how you can keep your family safe from it.
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Josh Spurlock, founder of My Counselor Online, is BACK in another incredible episode with Alana and Tiera where he unpacks sexual disorders and dysfunctions. You don’t want to miss it!
Vaginismus: 8:45
Sexual Aversion: 10:12
Orgasms: 12:08
Orgasm Disorder: 30:15
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Tune in as the KS team tackles the big question: is sex a need? Kyle, Tiera, and Alana each had their own thoughts and kept their notes to themselves until they hit record!
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In a season where intercourse isn't an option? Not sure what to do? Or, do you want to learn how to add other intimacy options to your repertoire? Tune in as the KS team chats about some options!
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Kyle and Alana had an amazing time interviewing Josh Spurlock, founder of My Counselor Online. Tune in as they ask him some of the "hot topic" questions KS gets regularly!
2:56 How do you gain confidence in the bedroom? “Husband wants me to initiate more but I don’t know how/scared”
13:17 How to handle, mostly women, with body insecurities?
22:55 How to increase sex drive for males? “My husband isn’t interested in me sexually”
25:40 How to increase sex drive for females? “I used to want sex before we were married, now I have no drive.”
29:04 How do you deal with periods where you’re not attracted to your spouse? How to tell your spouse? Should you tell your spouse? What to do if your spouse tells you that?
34:55 My husband wants me to __ but I don’t want to OR I am nervous to try that - how to handle these situations? (Wearing lingerie, oral sex, toys, etc)
38:28 How to handle the postpartum period sexually?
42:00 Overcoming pornography in our marriage? How do we go back to a “normal” sex life?
45:35 How to resolve sex drive differences?
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Continuing on with the premarital conversation from a few weeks ago but in a new light: "what if we've already had sex?" Today's guest and former KS host, Rusti, talks us through her story and journey to finding healing from the shame of her past.
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The Purity Culture conversation continues! This time Alana and Tiera are joined by Hanna from the 'Say What?' podcast! They chat purity culture, vaginismus, pleasure, orgasms, and more!
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So many of us enter into marriage only to then realize that how sex was taught to us- impacted us! Is pleasure possible after purity culture? Tune in to find out!
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Episode with Jess Seitz
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The newlywed season is such a sweet season in life! We get this precious time to learn so much about each other. But how do we navigate the difficulties well? Tune in to find out!
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Spontaneous vs Responsive Desire
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Loved this episode! I love hearing from experts about what is healthy in sexuality. Thanks!