Call Me When You Get Off

We gotta take some ownership and do things better by a certain time in life. The Blame Game will not get us through...https://www.bonfire.com/store/the-chanbepoddin-spot/Enjoy Chan on the mic and supporting sponsors: TableTopics.com click herehttps://www.tabletopics.com/CHANTAL85549Call In:7702848175chanbepoddin.com#chanbepoddin #itsgigiTwitter: @callmewhenuoffIG: @callmewhenugetoffTwitter:@Gqarly7IG: @gigi_qsSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/call-me-when-you-get-off/donations

The Blame Game is old and tired...We got a list of opinions, thoughts and stories.Happy belated to Gigi... her work at the bar story was crazy.Enjoy Chan on the mic and supporting sponsors: TableTopics.com click herehttps://www.tabletopics.com/CHANTAL85549https://www.bonfire.com/store/the-chanbepoddin-spot/~~~Follow us for more information:IG & X: @chanbepoddin Visit chanbepoddin.com Call In:7702848175; give us your thoughts...chanbepoddin.com#chanbepoddin #itsgigiTwitter: @callmewhenuoffIG: @callmewhenugetoffTwitter:@Gqarly7IG: @gigi_qsSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/call-me-when-you-get-off/donations

The last bit... So take a deep breath, embrace your self, and step out and enjoy yourself.People are not for keeping, they are for experiencing. Don't forget it.Call In:7702848175Ya'll can call in sometimes too...chanbepoddin.com#chanbepoddin #itsgigiTwitter: @callmewhenuoffIG: @callmewhenugetoffTwitter:@Gqarly7IG: @gigi_qsSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/call-me-when-you-get-off/donations

There is More...Break up to makeeeee upppppp thats allllll weee doooooo.... woooooooo weeeeeeee. Some people break up because they are too different, they fight a lot, they may not work well together...Maybe someone is just not ready for what the other person needs... who knows but people be breaking up man. But what happens after? Do the calls stop? Do the texts stop? Do yall automatically hate each other?Letting go may feel overwhelming asf, but remember that every ending brings a new start. So take a deep breath, embrace your self, and step out and enjoy yourself.Call In:7702848175chanbepoddin.com#chanbepoddin #itsgigiTwitter: @callmewhenuoffIG: @callmewhenugetoffTwitter:@Gqarly7IG: @gigi_qsSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/call-me-when-you-get-off/donations

Break up to makeeeee upppppp thats allllll weee doooooo.... woooooooo weeeeeeee. Some people break up because they are too different, they fight a lot, they may not work well together...Maybe someone is just not ready for what the other person needs... who knows but people be breaking up man. But what happens after? Do the calls stop? Do the texts stop? Do yall automatically hate each other?Do you properly let go?What we talked about:Acknowledge Your EmotionsCreate a Support System with FriendsDeclutter Your SpaceInvest in Yourself with Learning or Working OutEmbrace the QuietSeek Therapy if NeededFind Closure in Your Own Way w/o Reaching OutStay Open to New ConnectionsEmbrace Your New Single ChangeLetting go may feel overwhelming asf, but remember that every ending brings a new start. So take a deep breath, embrace your self, and step out and enjoy yourself.Call In:7702848175chanbepoddin.com#chanbepoddin #itsgigiTwitter: @callmewhenuoffIG: @callmewhenugetoffTwitter:@Gqarly7IG: @gigi_qsSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/call-me-when-you-get-off/donations

Can we speak on these moves in a safe place?Part 2, to ep 4.Disclosure: This is for grown ups !!!!The things I stated were experiences from decades ago… Had to clear my name Gigi !!!!Every sex position you see ain't for you…Did you stretch?Do you have enough to reach the goal?Are your floors clean?Should we talk about that first before I do it?Do ya'll know each other's sexual status?Take care of yourselves always 3mo/ 6mo... TEST !!!https://www.stdcheck.com/https://www.sisterlove.org/get-testedhttps://www.testing.com/std-testing/https://www.bonfire.com/store/the-chanbepoddin-spot/Call In:7702848175 ( Hello?! )chanbepoddin.com#chanbepoddin #itsgigiTwitter: @callmewhenuoffIG: @callmewhenugetoffTwitter:@Gqarly7IG: @gigi_qsSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/call-me-when-you-get-off/donations

Can we honestly speak?We talked about Jobs trying to suck our energy dry...We booked down a tweet and what's a lost art...We needed the next episode to get into these positions.Some jobs are just filled with passive aggressive people who want to dictatemoves for other people. The egos, and real know how is off.Just do not quit without an option lined up...https://www.bonfire.com/store/the-chanbepoddin-spot/Call In:7702848175 ( Hello?! )chanbepoddin.com#chanbepoddin #itsgigiTwitter: @callmewhenuoffIG: @callmewhenugetoffTwitter:@Gqarly7IG: @gigi_qsSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/call-me-when-you-get-off/donations

Things get good and we forget to Pray, we have to be better than that.Pray when Life isn't right, pray when things are good and genuinely pray for those who doubt things getting better. Always match effort with a prayer too. It does not require you to be the most religious person... Always remain consistent.https://www.bonfire.com/store/the-chanbepoddin-spot/https://www.chanbepoddin.com/Call In:7702848175chanbepoddin.com#chanbepoddin #itsgigiTwitter: @callmewhenuoffIG: @callmewhenugetoffTwitter:@Gqarly7IG: @gigi_qsSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/call-me-when-you-get-off/donations

Welcome back to a new season of our show. Gigi got me back for another season. This is Gigi's show tho let's not get it twisted.New segments: Dear Friend, Why Would You Tweet That? What Did I Miss?We will be back in 2 weeks.Call In:7702848175chanbepoddin.com#chanbepoddin #itsgigiTwitter: @callmewhenuoffIG: @callmewhenugetoffTwitter:@Gqarly7IG: @gigi_qsSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/call-me-when-you-get-off/donations

Guilty pleasures are normal. We all have them we all feel things need things like things that others may find weird. And this episode we keeping it a bit light where Gigi and I discussed what our guilty pleasures are. Please do not be afraid to DM us what your guilty pleasures are comment and let us know because there might be someone out there looking for someone who also likes that too. This is episode 11 and we have one more episode before the season is over. Thank you so much for supporting us downloading and subscribing. This episode is also available on video so you can see us in the flesh and have your laugh. Not because there's something to laugh at but because you get to see us laugh in the moments that are funny. We appreciate you and press play.Call us here: 7702848175Links: shop/ IG and TwitterTwitter: @callmewhenuoffIG: @callmewhenugetoffTwitter:@Gqarly7IG: @gigi_qsShop: https://www.bonfire.com/store/the-chanbepoddin-spot/Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/call-me-when-you-get-off/donations

Quote: The tongue has no bones, but it is strong enough to break a heart. -Irina swartToday I would like to discuss few things that involve your Word.What’s one thing someone said to you that you never forgotten?Why being silent isn’t always the answer?It’s not what you said it’s how you say itWords in the digital age...TextingCancel culture/ online bullyingA post can uplift millions or can destroy a group and or personOnline bioWords as energyHealingUpliftingHurting Passive such as tone Tone say I’m gone when your not Text may give one word answerAudience challenge:Speak one kind words to yourself and then tell someone a powerful truth. I would like it to be something positive but it’s something that has been on your heart for a long time. I want you to take the moment and say it to that person.Call In:7702848175chanbepoddin.com#chanbepoddin #itsgigiTwitter: @callmewhenuoffIG: @callmewhenugetoffTwitter:@Gqarly7IG: @gigi_qshttps://www.bonfire.com/store/the-chanbepoddin-spot/Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/call-me-when-you-get-off/donations

Part 2... the last bit of our point...Audience challenge:Tell someone or even the situation that you have been avoiding even if it’s with yourself the truth and see how you feel about it.The internet streets say... always keep it real and honest, never fraud when speaking to someone about thingCall In:7702848175chanbepoddin.com#chanbepoddin #itsgigiTwitter: @callmewhenuoffIG: @callmewhenugetoff#justchan #heygigiSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/call-me-when-you-get-off/donations

Just be honest, yall so scared of being seen... Y'all just outside lying on anything. (Happy birthday Chan !!!!! )Discuss:Was there ever a time when being real was too real? How did it affect the relationship?Is there a difference between being brutally honest and compassionately truthful?Do you believe in the saying “fake it till you make it?“Why do some people label honesty as being negative?Audience challenge:Tell someone or even the situation that you have been avoiding even if it’s with yourself the truth and see how you feel about it.The internet streets say... always keep it real and honest, never fraud when speaking to someone about thingCall In:7702848175chanbepoddin.com#chanbepoddin #itsgigiTwitter: @callmewhenuoffIG: @callmewhenugetoff#justchan #heygigiSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/call-me-when-you-get-off/donations

We got a message... addressing episode 7... lets play itIs there an age for "Crashing Out" !?! Call In:7702848175chanbepoddin.com#chanbepoddin #itsgigiTwitter: @callmewhenuoffIG: @callmewhenugetoffTwitter:@Gqarly7IG: @gigi_qsSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/call-me-when-you-get-off/donations

We talking bout Kung Fu Fighttttinnnnnn... sikkkeee but it can get there!!!!what do you believe conflict is?Does conflict have levels?Have you had a conflict you ran from?Have you had a conflict you stayedWhen is it time to walk way/stay ?RelationshipsStayed longer than I wanted to...Walk away and I wasn’t ready and came right back...WorkStayed and was unhappy Friendship Walked away after realizing our friendship ran its courseThought we transitioned from coworkers to friends but once I left the job no more friendship Family Easier to walk awayWhat am I doing now to deal with running or confronting?I am not defined by this moment or situationThink it through before immediately respondingEverything has its time wether it’s to heal or remove and heal Call In:7702848175chanbepoddin.com#chanbepoddin #itsgigiTwitter: @callmewhenuoffIG: @callmewhenugetoffTwitter:@Gqarly7IG: @gigi_qshttps://call-me-when-you-get-off-shop.creator-spring.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/call-me-when-you-get-off/donations

Nine episodes later we are now responding to a voicemail from episode one.Thank you Baylor... we appreciate the response and thoughts.Just be honest, yall so scared of being seen... Y'all just outside lying on anything. (Happy birthday Chan !!!!! )Call In:7702848175chanbepoddin.com#chanbepoddin #itsgigiTwitter: @callmewhenuoffIG: @callmewhenugetoff#justchan #heygigiSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/call-me-when-you-get-off/donations

More on the War on Love... sikeeeeee... we keeping it playa.Gigi tryna make me a forever thinker.... nawwww im a realest.This ain't Disney.Call In:7702848175chanbepoddin.com#chanbepoddin #itsgigiTwitter: @callmewhenuoffIG: @callmewhenugetoffTwitter:@Gqarly7IG: @gigi_qshttps://call-me-when-you-get-off-shop.creator-spring.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/call-me-when-you-get-off/donations

Love is either in the air or it might be pollen.10 reasons why Chan say's Love will always be a risk... Gigi just picking my brain.To have friend is to be a good one... but with this Love thing you gotta have a personal filter...Call In:7702848175chanbepoddin.com#chanbepoddin #itsgigiTwitter: @callmewhenuoffIG: @callmewhenugetoffTwitter:@Gqarly7IG: @gigi_qshttps://call-me-when-you-get-off-shop.creator-spring.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/call-me-when-you-get-off/donations

In this episode, the friends explore the nuanced differences between letting go and moving on. Letting go means accepting the end and not looking back, while moving on allows for the possibility of revisiting the past. They discuss whether these approaches are influenced by gender or individual mindsets, noting that men might “spin the block” more often, while women often stay longer and leave for good.Sharing personal experiences, they reflect on how grief and attachment can complicate letting go, with one friend opening up about their journey through loss and a challenging “situationship”. The takeaway? If something no longer serves you, it’s on you to make a change. Understanding self-worth, choosing yourself, and distinguishing between moving on and letting go are key to finding peace.~~~~~Call In:770-284-8175chanbepoddin.com#chanbepoddin #itsgigiTwitter: @callmewhenuoffIG: @callmewhenugetoffTwitter:@Gqarly7IG: @gigi_qshttps://call-me-when-you-get-off-shop.creator-spring.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/call-me-when-you-get-off/donations

We are still talking... its soooooo good though.In this episode, two friends dive into what it really means to “show up” for the people in your life. They discuss the importance of being present without obligation, how to handle moments when you or others fall short, and the lessons learned from setting boundaries. Sharing personal stories of disappearing during tough times and struggling with inconsistency, they reflect on how showing up starts with you.The conversation explores protecting your energy, letting actions guide your expectations, and the power of giving without expecting anything in return. It’s a heartfelt and honest look at how we navigate relationships and accountability.Call In:7702848175chanbepoddin.com#chanbepoddin #itsgigiTwitter: @callmewhenuoffIG: @callmewhenugetoffTwitter:@Gqarly7IG: @gigi_qshttps://call-me-when-you-get-off-shop.creator-spring.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/call-me-when-you-get-off/donations