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Dance Real Podcast
Author: Kate Histon
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Welcome to Dance Real—a podcast that pulls back the curtain on the dance industry to explore what really goes on behind the scenes. I’m your host, Kate Histon—former dancer, teacher (RAD), studio owner, international adjudicator, mindset coach, and someone who’s lived through the pressure, perfectionism, and unspoken harm that too often defines the dance world. This podcast is for dancers, teachers, and parents who are ready to hear honest conversations—about everything from artistry to crossed boundaries, competition, community, intuition to industry norms—and start reimagining a healthier, more progressive approach to dance. We’re here to talk about what’s real. Because only when we tell the truth can we change the story.
www.katehiston.com
📲 @kateHiston 📲 @Master_Dancer_Mindset 🎙 @Dance_Real_Podcast
www.katehiston.com
📲 @kateHiston 📲 @Master_Dancer_Mindset 🎙 @Dance_Real_Podcast
27 Episodes
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Season Three Ep: 01 Opens with artist, advocate and thought leader Josef Brown: former Soloist with The Australian Ballet; principal performer with Sydney Dance Company; featured artist with Modern Dance Turkey in Ankara. His range spans ballet and contemporary stages, musical theatre, film, and television, including roles in Dance Academy, Spartacus, and Neighbours. He now channels that breadth into creative work and sector advocacy, and he leads The Library Aesthetic, a curated hub for credible dance health and education. Josef traces the inner terrain beneath the resume: a late start and a sense of belonging at The McDonald College; the culture shock of The Australian Ballet School; the anxious mask many performers develop in high stakes settings. He reflects on injury as a turning point, the move into contemporary work, and the different demands of screen performance. Together we consider teaching as its own craft, how to awaken intrinsic drive, the limits of a trick focus in training, and the value of evidence informed resources for studios and young dancers. Through it all the throughline is clear: curiosity, disciplined process, and connection to self, others, music, and space.
To find out more about The Library Aesthetic DANCE MEDIA visit https://thelibraryaesthetic.com 🩰
Stay Connected with Kate Follow Kate for more episodes, personal reflections, and real-talk on healing and integrity in the dance world: 🌐 Website: www.katehiston.com 📷 Instagram: @katehiston @dance_real_podcast @Master_Dancer_Mindset 🎧 Podcast: Dance Real Podcast – Available on Spotify, Apple, and all major platforms
Disclaimer: The Dance Real Podcast is a space for open, honest conversations rooted in real-life experiences within the dance world. What I share and what my guests share is based on personal perspective, not professional advice. If you’re seeking support for your mental health, legal matters, or business decisions, I encourage you to speak with a qualified professional. The views expressed by guests are their own and don’t always reflect mine. Any references to people, places, or situations are shared with respect and the intent to spark reflection, learning, and conversation not to harm or misrepresent. By engaging with this content, you acknowledge and agree that the host, guests, and Dance Real Podcast are not liable for any decisions made based on the information provided.
#KateHiston #JosefBrown #DanceRealPodcast #DanceEducation #DanceHealth #Ballet #ContemporaryDance #DanceTeacher #PerformanceAnxiety #TheLibraryAesthetic
Episode Summary
In this short solo episode, Kate reflects on the journey of Season 2 of The Dance Real Podcast—a season filled with bold conversations, personal stories, expert insights, and unapologetic truths about the dance world.
From examining competition culture and coercive power dynamics to unpacking pedagogical frameworks, parenting roles, emotional safety, and embodied creativity, Season 2 has taken us on a deeply human ride through the layers of dance training and artistic growth.
Kate shares her personal highlights, recurring themes that emerged, and the growing movement toward more conscious, holistic, and empowered dance environments.
This episode also includes a heartfelt invitation:
If you have a story that aligns with the purpose of Dance Real—whether it’s about harm, healing, leadership, or liberation—Kate would love to hear from you.
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Themes Explored in Season 2:
•Rethinking competition and performance-based identities
•Boundaries, consent, and safety in training spaces
•Teaching methods, pedagogy, and community impact
•Improvisation as a creative and personal life philosophy
•The dance parent’s role: what helps, what harms
•Nutrition, perfectionism, and the dancer’s body
•Recognizing and healing from coercive systems
•Reclaiming emotional and creative agency in dance
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Connect & Share Your Story
Have a personal or professional story that could inspire, inform, or challenge the dance community? Kate is currently curating Season 3 and welcomes diverse voices from dancers, teachers, adjudicators, parents, and beyond.
📩 Reach out via Instagram: @katehiston
🌐 Or submit via website: www.katehiston.com
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Disclaimer:
The Dance Real Podcast is a space for open, honest conversations rooted in real-life experiences within the dance world. What I share—and what my guests share—is based on personal perspective, not professional advice. If you’re seeking support for your mental health, legal matters, or business decisions, I encourage you to speak with a qualified professional.
The views expressed by guests are their own and don’t always reflect mine. Any references to people, places, or situations are shared with respect and the intent to spark reflection, learning, and conversation—not to harm or misrepresent.
By engaging with this content, you acknowledge and agree that the host, guests, and Dance Real Podcast are not liable for any decisions made based on the information provided.
Season Two Ep:14
Dance Real Reflections: How to be a Dance Mum without Losing Yourself or Your Child
In this episode of the Dance Real Podcast, Kate pulls back the curtain on the powerful influence dance parents have—not just on their child’s dance journey, but on their emotional wellbeing. Speaking from her own lived experience growing up with a well meaning but high-pressure dance mum, and later navigating the dance world as a teacher, studio owner, and parent herself, Kate explores the fine line between support and pressure. She dives into the do’s and don’ts for dance parents, sharing insight into how to foster autonomy, emotional resilience, and a healthy passion for dance—without unknowingly tipping into control or perfectionism. Whether you’re a dance parent, teacher, or just someone curious about the unspoken dynamics behind the scenes, this episode offers a real, raw, and constructive conversation about what kids really need to thrive.
🩰 Stay Connected with Kate Follow Kate for more episodes, personal reflections, and real-talk on healing and integrity in the dance world: 🌐 Website: www.katehiston.com 📷 Instagram: @katehiston @dance_real_podcast @Master_Dancer_Mindset 🎧 Podcast: Dance Real Podcast – Available on Spotify, Apple, and all major platforms
Disclaimer: The Dance Real Podcast is a space for open, honest conversations rooted in real-life experiences within the dance world. What I share—and what my guests share—is based on personal perspective, not professional advice. If you’re seeking support for your mental health, legal matters, or business decisions, I encourage you to speak with a qualified professional. The views expressed by guests are their own and don’t always reflect mine. Any references to people, places, or situations are shared with respect and the intent to spark reflection, learning, and conversation—not to harm or misrepresent. By engaging with this content, you acknowledge and agree that the host, guests, and Dance Real Podcast are not liable for any decisions made based on the information provided.
Season Two Ep: 16
Starving For Success? Dance Nutrition and the Truth No one Talks About with Dr. Stephanie Potreck.
In this powerful episode of the Dance Real Podcast, host Kate Histon is joined by medical doctor and dance nutritionist Dr. Stephanie Podreck, whose career spans medicine, sports nutrition, and global health—and is deeply rooted in her own experience as a professional dancer. Together, they unpack the often-unspoken realities of dancer health, including:
* The connection between under-fuelling, delayed development, and injury—and why this is still a crisis decades after the research emerged.
* The emotional roots of disordered eating, including trauma, perfectionism, and unstable family dynamics.
* How dance schools can be both a trigger and a solution—and what red flags to watch for in students.
* Why a dancer’s performance suffers not from a lack of willpower—but a lack of food, rest, and recovery.
* What a healthy day of meals and snacks looks like for a 14-year-old dancer.
* The hard truths about some European schools, including outdated pedagogy, poor student welfare, and the emotional toll of international transitions.
* Strategies for supporting dancers moving overseas, including food prep, housing, and building resilience.
* The psychological harm of body shaming and archaic teaching—and why the dance world must evolve now. Dr. Podreck also shares how her clinic, AusDancers Overseas, supports dancers in building sustainable health practices from pre-professional training into company life.
This conversation is essential listening for:
✔️ Dance teachers
✔️ Studio owners
✔️ Parents of aspiring dancers
✔️ Students navigating elite training
Get In Touch with Stephanie Potreck 🌐 Website: www.ausdancersoverseas.com 📷 Instagram: @ausdancersoverseas
🩰 Stay Connected with Kate Follow Kate for more episodes, personal reflections, and real-talk on healing and integrity in the dance world:🌐 Website: www.katehiston.com📷 Instagram: @katehiston @Dance_Real_Podcast @Master_Dancer_Mindset🎧 Podcast: Dance Real Podcast – Available on Spotify, Apple, and all major platforms After Show Notes: The book Kate referred to is correctly called "Apollo’s Angels": A History of Ballet is authored by Jennifer Homans, a former professional ballerina turned dance scholar and critic. It offers a sweeping cultural and historical examination of ballet from its Renaissance origins to modern times.
Disclaimer: The Dance Real Podcast is a space for open, honest conversations rooted in real-life experiences within the dance world. What I share—and what my guests share—is based on personal perspective, not professional advice. If you’re seeking support for your mental health, legal matters, or business decisions, I encourage you to speak with a qualified professional. The views expressed by guests are their own and don’t always reflect mine. Any references to people, places, or situations are shared with respect and the intent to spark reflection, learning, and conversation—not to harm or misrepresent. By engaging with this content, you acknowledge and agree that the host, guests, and Dance Real Podcast are not liable for any decisions made based on the information provided.
Trigger Warning: This episode discusses panic disorder, which may be distressing for some listeners.
Season Two
Ep:14
I’m happy to share that I have lived panic disorder–free for over 22 years and continue to enjoy a high-performance life supported by meditation, health, and wellbeing practices in my everyday world.
Over more than two decades of leading my own dance studio, I stepped into my strength and power as a leader; experience that now informs my work as a high-performance mindset coach for dancers and mentor in leadership to educators and parents helping strengthen confidence, emotional awareness, and sustainable success. I also work as an international dance adjudicator.
In this episode, I reflect on last week’s conversation with trauma integration specialist Kellie Rhea about coercive control in the dance industry. I respond to thoughtful questions about my own healing journey, sharing how I navigated panic disorder, the transition from stage to teaching, and the importance of resilience, self-worth, and emotional safety in dance. I also discuss perfectionism, anxiety, and how teachers and parents can create open, supportive dialogue that helps dancers thrive.
After Note: 'In sharing my story, it's important to find the right support for you. For me that meant combining professional guidance with a psychotherapist who had lived through similar experiences and my training in Human Behaviour and somatic practices'.
🩰 Stay Connected with Kate Follow Kate for more episodes, personal reflections, and real-talk on healing and integrity in the dance world:
🌐 Website: www.katehiston.com
📷 Instagram: @katehiston @Dance_Real_Podcast @Master_Dancer_Mindset 🎧 Podcast: Dance Real Podcast – Available on Spotify, Apple, and all major platforms
Disclaimer: The Dance Real Podcast is a space for open, honest conversations rooted in real-life experiences within the dance world. What I share—and what my guests share—is based on personal perspective, not professional advice. If you’re seeking support for your mental health, legal matters, or business decisions, I encourage you to speak with a qualified professional. The views expressed by guests are their own and don’t always reflect mine. Any references to people, places, or situations are shared with respect and the intent to spark reflection, learning, and conversation—not to harm or misrepresent. By engaging with this content, you acknowledge and agree that the host, guests, and Dance Real Podcast are not liable for any decisions made based on the information provided.
Season Two · Episode 13
Bloodied Pointe Shoes and Coercive Control – Healing the Dance World with Kellie Rhea
In this transformative conversation, I’m joined by trauma specialist and cult-aware educator Kellie Rhea to explore how hidden systems of control quietly shape the dance world—and how we can heal from them.
Together, we unpack the subtle ways that “excellence” can mask unhealthy pressure, the intergenerational expectations dancers carry, and how the body stores the stress and fear that arise in performance-driven environments.
I share personal reflections from my own journey—including a pivotal moment confronting a coercive parent as a studio owner, the emotional impact of my early training, and the raw promise I made to my younger self during the hardest days of panic disorder.
Kellie offers powerful insights into how dancers, teachers, and parents can:
💛 Recognize harmful systems early
💛 Reclaim self-trust and autonomy
💛 Return to dance as a space for authentic expression and growth
This episode is a must-listen for dancers, teachers, parents—or anyone healing from toxic systems and seeking a healthier future for the next generation of performers.
After Notes
Show Note from Kate: The letter I refer to in this episode was one I wrote to the principal of my first ballet school, addressing the emotional and physical harm I experienced there.
You’ll hear me get emotional in this episode. Even healed stories can carry weight. I share this not for sympathy, but to remind anyone listening—you’re not alone.”
Topics Covered
What coercive control looks like in dance and high-performance spaces
The difference between discipline and domination
Parentification, infantilization, and the “teacher as god” phenomenon
Loyalty, compliance, and why some systems reward silence
Trauma stored in the body and the cost of emotional suppression
Fawning, people-pleasing, and self-abandonment as survival strategies
What true autonomy and trauma-informed environments look like
How to spot red flags in schools, studios, and leadership structures
Resources Mentioned
💡 Red Flags of Coercive Systems – Ask yourself:
Are disagreement and questioning allowed—or punished?
Is discomfort explored—or reframed as resistance?
Are students becoming more confident—or more dependent and afraid?
Can people say no? If “no” means punishment, there is no real agency.
Is leadership rooted in shared humanity—or upheld by hierarchy and conformity?
📚 Recommended Reading & Tools:
Complex PTSD: From Surviving to Thriving by Pete Walker → www.pete-walker.com
Search “Pete Walker C-PTSD” on YouTube for free talks and explanations
Learn about spiritual bypassing (term coined by John Welwood)
Key Definitions:
Infantilization: Treating capable individuals as helpless, creating dependency
Future faking: Promising future rewards to gain present-day compliance
Toxic positivity: Forcing cheerfulness or suppressing discomfort
Fawning: Trauma response marked by people-pleasing to stay safe
Connect with Kellie Rhea
📎 Instagram: @iamkellierhea
Stay Connected with Kate
🌐 Website: www.katehiston.com
📷 Instagram: @katehiston | @Dance_Real_Podcast | @Master_Dancer_Mindset
🎧 Podcast: Dance Real Podcast – Available on Spotify, Apple, and all major platforms
Season Two Ep:15
In this episode of The Dance Real Podcast, Kate unpacks the often-hidden emotional dynamics that dancers, teachers, and leaders navigate in high-pressure environments—including covert competition, credit theft, love bombing, and silent sabotage.
Drawing from lived experience not only as a dancer, teacher, studio owner, and adjudicator (as well as her professional training in Human Behaviour)—but also as someone who grew up around emotionally complex dynamics—Kate offers a blend of personal insight, professional perspective, and trauma-informed strategies to help dancers protect their energy and trust their instincts.
With clear tools and boundary-setting practices, this episode empowers listeners to prioritise emotional well-being and rise above manipulative behaviour—on and off the dance floor.
🩰 Stay Connected with Kate Follow Kate for more episodes, personal reflections, and real-talk on healing and integrity in the dance world:
🌐 Website: www.katehiston.com 📷 Instagram: @katehiston @dance_real_podcast @Master_Dancer_Mindset
🎧 Podcast: Dance Real Podcast – Available on Spotify, Apple, and all major platforms
Disclaimer: The Dance Real Podcast is a space for open, honest conversations rooted in real-life experiences within the dance world. What I share—and what my guests share—is based on personal perspective, not professional advice. If you’re seeking support for your mental health, legal matters, or business decisions, I encourage you to speak with a qualified professional. The views expressed by guests are their own and don’t always reflect mine. Any references to people, places, or situations are shared with respect and the intent to spark reflection, learning, and conversation—not to harm or misrepresent. By engaging with this content, you acknowledge and agree that the host, guests, and Dance Real Podcast are not liable for any decisions made based on the information provided.
Season Two Ep: 11
Finding Your Voice - Exploring Identity, Power, and Pedagogy with Dr Kathrina Farrugia-Kriel
In this episode of the Dance Real Podcast, Dr. Kathrina Farrugia-Kriel shares her extensive journey in dance scholarship, exploring the cultural influences that shaped her education and career. She discusses the transformative power of dance education, the importance of finding one's voice, and the role of empathy in teaching. Kathrina emphasizes the need for curiosity and evolution in the dance world, while also addressing the challenges and opportunities that lie ahead. The conversation highlights the significance of community, the recovery of historical figures in dance, and the impact of technology on education. Ultimately, Kathrina offers valuable advice for young dancers, encouraging them to keep an open mind and embrace their unique paths in the dance world.
Get In Touch with Dr Kathrina Farrugia-Kriel 🌐 Website: www.drfarrugiakriel.com
🩰 Stay Connected with Kate Follow Kate for more episodes, personal reflections, and real-talk on healing and integrity in the dance world:
🌐 Website: www.katehiston.com
📷 Instagram: @katehiston @Dance_Real_Podcast @Master_Dancer_Mindset
🎧 Podcast: Dance Real Podcast – Available on Spotify, Apple, and all major platforms
Disclaimer: The Dance Real Podcast is a space for open, honest conversations rooted in real-life experiences within the dance world. What I share—and what my guests share—is based on personal perspective, not professional advice. If you’re seeking support for your mental health, legal matters, or business decisions, I encourage you to speak with a qualified professional. The views expressed by guests are their own and don’t always reflect mine. Any references to people, places, or situations are shared with respect and the intent to spark reflection, learning, and conversation—not to harm or misrepresent. By engaging with this content, you acknowledge and agree that the host, guests, and Dance Real Podcast are not liable for any decisions made based on the information provided.
Season Two Ep: 10
Improvisation in the Art of Life - Dance Real Reflection
In this episode of the Dance Real Podcast, Kate explores the concept of improvisation not just in dance but as a vital life practice. She emphasizes the importance of curiosity over judgment, the need for spaciousness in our actions, and the detrimental effects of harsh self-judgment. Kate encourages listeners to embrace improvisation as a mindset that allows for exploration, growth, and self-kindness, ultimately viewing life as a dynamic and evolving score where we are the dancers.
🩰 Stay Connected with Kate
Follow Kate for more episodes, personal reflections, and real-talk on healing and integrity in the dance world:
🌐 Website: www.katehiston.com
📷 Instagram: @katehiston @Dance_Real_Podcast @Master_Dancer_Mindset
🎧 Podcast: Dance Real Podcast – Available on Spotify, Apple, and all major platforms
Disclaimer:
The Dance Real Podcast is a space for open, honest conversations rooted in real-life experiences within the dance world. What I share—and what my guests share—is based on personal perspective, not professional advice. If you’re seeking support for your mental health, legal matters, or business decisions, I encourage you to speak with a qualified professional.
The views expressed by guests are their own and don’t always reflect mine. Any references to people, places, or situations are shared with respect and the intent to spark reflection, learning, and conversation—not to harm or misrepresent.
By engaging with this content, you acknowledge and agree that the host, guests, and Dance Real Podcast are not liable for any decisions made based on the information provided.
Season Two Ep: 09
Dance is Broken? Improvisation Might be the Fix
In this rich and heartfelt conversation, Kate Histon reconnects with longtime friend and fellow dance educator Jen Murray to reflect on their shared roots in Byron Bay and the evolving landscape of dance education. Together, they explore Jen’s journey through contemporary dance, her deep belief in the power of improvisation, and the essential role it plays in unlocking creativity and confidence—especially for classical ballet dancers. Jen opens up about the art of guiding students through improvisation, the joy of collaborative choreography, and the importance of creating emotionally safe spaces. A central theme throughout is practicing responsiveness in teaching—meeting students where they are, adapting with empathy, and staying attuned to both the energy in the room and the individual dancer’s needs. The episode also delves into the interplay between motherhood and teaching, the cultural shifts reshaping how we nurture young dancers, and the responsibility educators carry in shaping not just skilled technicians, but expressive and empowered artists. This episode is a warm, wisdom-filled listen for anyone passionate about the heart behind the technique.
🩰 Stay Connected with Kate
Follow Kate for more episodes, personal reflections, and real-talk on healing and integrity in the dance world:
🌐 Website: www.katehiston.com
📷 Instagram: @katehiston @Dance_Real_Podcast @Master_Dancer_Mindset
🎧 Podcast: Dance Real Podcast – Available on Spotify, Apple, and all major platforms
Disclaimer: The Dance Real Podcast is a space for open, honest conversations rooted in real-life experiences within the dance world. What I share—and what my guests share—is based on personal perspective, not professional advice. If you’re seeking support for your mental health, legal matters, or business decisions, I encourage you to speak with a qualified professional. The views expressed by guests are their own and don’t always reflect mine. Any references to people, places, or situations are shared with respect and the intent to spark reflection, learning, and conversation—not to harm or misrepresent. By engaging with this content, you acknowledge and agree that the host, guests, and Dance Real Podcast are not liable for any decisions made based on the information provided.
Season Two Ep:08
Dance Real Reflection "Integrating the Mind, Body and Soul" In this episode of the Dance Real Podcast, Kate Histon dives deep into what it truly means to develop a Master Dancer Mindset—one that unites the mind, body, and soul. Far beyond steps and technique, Kate challenges traditional training norms and reveals how intuition, presence, and emotional intelligence are often the missing links in performance and artistry. She explores how these inner tools can elevate not only a dancer’s ability but also their confidence, wellbeing, and connection to self. Whether you’re a dancer, teacher, or parent, Kate shares powerful and practical insights to help nurture whole humans—not just polished performers.
Tune in to discover:
* Why integrating the mind, body, and soul matters now more than ever
* How intuition and inner awareness can transform stage presence * What practical shifts studios and families can make to support deeper growth
This episode is a must-listen for anyone ready to redefine success in dance through a more conscious and holistic lens.
🩰 Stay Connected with Kate Follow Kate for more episodes, personal reflections, and real-talk on healing and integrity in the dance world:
🌐 Website: www.katehiston.com 📷 Instagram: @katehiston @dance_real_podcast @Master_Dancer_Mindset
Disclaimer: The Dance Real Podcast is a space for open, honest conversations rooted in real-life experiences within the dance world. What I share—and what my guests share—is based on personal perspective, not professional advice. If you’re seeking support for your mental health, legal matters, or business decisions, I encourage you to speak with a qualified professional. The views expressed by guests are their own and don’t always reflect mine. Any references to people, places, or situations are shared with respect and the intent to spark reflection, learning, and conversation—not to harm or misrepresent. By engaging with this content, you acknowledge and agree that the host, guests, and Dance Real Podcast are not liable for any decisions made based on the information provided.
Season Two Ep: 07
‘The Power of Intuition in Dance' with Professor Allison Pagano
In this enlightening conversation, Kate Histon speaks with Alison Pagano, a former dance professor and creator of Embodied Dance. They explore the profound connection between intuition, mental health, and the dance industry. Alison shares her personal journey of healing through dance, the importance of self-acceptance, and how embodied practices can transform both dancers and their art. The discussion emphasizes the need for a shift in the dance community towards a more holistic approach that values emotional well-being and authentic expression.
For more information on Embodied Dance Visit www.embodied-dance.com or @embodied.dance on instagram
🩰 Stay Connected with Kate
Follow Kate for more episodes, personal reflections, and real-talk on healing and integrity in the dance world:
🌐 Website: www.katehiston.com
📷 Instagram: @katehiston @Dance_Real_Podcast @Master_Dancer_Mindset
🎧 Podcast: Dance Real Podcast – Available on Spotify, Apple, and all major platforms
Disclaimer: The Dance Real Podcast is a space for open, honest conversations rooted in real-life experiences within the dance world. What I share—and what my guests share—is based on personal perspective, not professional advice. If you’re seeking support for your mental health, legal matters, or business decisions, I encourage you to speak with a qualified professional. The views expressed by guests are their own and don’t always reflect mine. Any references to people, places, or situations are shared with respect and the intent to spark reflection, learning, and conversation—not to harm or misrepresent. By engaging with this content, you acknowledge and agree that the host, guests, and Dance Real Podcast are not liable for any decisions made based on the information provided.
Season Two Episode: 06
Dance Real Reflections : How I Approached Dance Competitions as A Dance Studio Owner
In this episode of the Dance Real Podcast, Kate Histon discusses the complexities of dance competitions, emphasizing the importance of managing competition culture within studios, the role of parents, and the significance of feedback in judging. She shares her experiences and insights on creating a supportive environment for dancers, the value of personal development, and the need for balance in dance education. The conversation highlights the importance of leadership and informed decision-making in navigating the competitive landscape of dance.
Disclaimer: The Dance Real Podcast is a space for open, honest conversations rooted in real-life experiences within the dance world. What I share—and what my guests share—is based on personal perspective, not professional advice. If you’re seeking support for your mental health, legal matters, or business decisions, I encourage you to speak with a qualified professional. The views expressed by guests are their own and don’t always reflect mine. Any references to people, places, or situations are shared with respect and the intent to spark reflection, learning, and conversation—not to harm or misrepresent. By engaging with this content, you acknowledge and agree that the host, guests, and Dance Real Podcast are not liable for any decisions made based on the information provided.
Season Two
Ep:05
Beyond the Trophy; It’s a must-listen for educators, parents, judges, and dancers who care deeply about growth, values, and creating lasting impact through dance. In this inspiring and expansive conversation, Dance Real host Kate Histon is joined by industry thought leader and author Chasta Hamilton, who shares her journey from high-stakes competition culture to building a more holistic, heart-led approach to dance education. Chasta, known for her acclaimed book Trash the Trophies, opens up about what led her to make bold changes in her studio model—and how those decisions ultimately created stronger training, deeper community, and more empowered dancers. Kate brings her own unique insight as a former studio owner and current international adjudicator, reflecting on her personal process of managing competitive culture, navigating parent expectations, and making space for personal development and emotional growth. She also speaks candidly about the emotional transition of selling her studio.
Together, they explore:
✔️ The evolving role of competition in dancer development
✔️ How to lead with values, clarity, and conscious communication
✔️ Replacing comparison culture with process-based progress
✔️ Studio ownership, private equity, and sustainable models of success
✔️ Chasta’s nonprofit Girls Geared for Greatness and dance as a tool for leadership
Whether you’re a dance parent, teacher, studio owner, or industry leader—this conversation offers both inspiration and practical insight for building a more intentional future in dance. To find out more about Chasta:
Personal Website: https://www.chastahamilton.com/
Books:
The Trophy Trap
Trash the Trophies
Handle the Horrible
Disclaimer:
The Dance Real Podcast is a space for open, honest conversations rooted in real-life experiences within the dance world. What I share—and what my guests share—is based on personal perspective, not professional advice. If you’re seeking support for your mental health, legal matters, or business decisions, I encourage you to speak with a qualified professional.
The views expressed by guests are their own and don’t always reflect mine. Any references to people, places, or situations are shared with respect and the intent to spark reflection, learning, and conversation—not to harm or misrepresent.
By engaging with this content, you acknowledge and agree that the host, guests, and Dance Real Podcast are not liable for any decisions made based on the information provided.
Season Two Ep:04 For the Ballerina Who Wants More Than Perfect Lines… 🩰✨ Isadora Duncan’s Philosopher’s Stone wasn’t a rejection of dance—it was a call to reconnect with its soul. She believed true artistry comes when movement flows from within, not just from mastering form. For the career-focused ballerina: 🌿 Let ballet be your language, but speak with your soul 🌿 Feel before you perform — technique is the vessel, not the source 🌿 Move from emotion, not expectation 🌿 Dare to be real, not just perfect You don’t have to abandon ballet to be authentic—you just have to let your truth lead your technique. ✨ The next era of dance belongs to those who can do both.
Season Two
Ep: 03 "That's Not OK!" Consent in Dance
In this podcast episode, Kate Histon interviews Cindy Ambridge about the importance of consent and boundaries in dance education. They discuss the evolving understanding of consent, the significance of communication, and the need for a collaborative approach in teaching. The conversation also touches on the impact of trauma on students and the importance of creating a safe and respectful environment in dance studios. In this conversation, Kate Histon and Cindy Ambridge explore the multifaceted impact of dance education on mental health, emphasizing the importance of holistic approaches, individuality, and establishing boundaries in teacher-student relationships. They discuss the pressures of performance and the need for emotional regulation, highlighting the significance of breathwork and self-awareness in fostering a supportive dance environment. In this conversation, Kate Histon and Cindy Ambridge explore the importance of compassion in teaching, the need for change in dance education, and the critical issues of safety and consent in the dance industry. The conversation concludes with reflections on age, experience, and the ongoing journey of personal and professional growth in the dance world.
Note: When Cindy used the term "indecent image" she means to say "intimate image"
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Disclaimer:
The Dance Real Podcast is a space for open, honest conversations rooted in real-life experiences within the dance world. What I share—and what my guests share—is based on personal perspective, not professional advice. If you’re seeking support for your mental health, legal matters, or business decisions, I encourage you to speak with a qualified professional.
The views expressed by guests are their own and don’t always reflect mine. Any references to people, places, or situations are shared with respect and the intent to spark reflection, learning, and conversation—not to harm or misrepresent.
By engaging with this content, you acknowledge and agree that the host, guests, and Dance Real Podcast are not liable for any decisions made based on the information provided.
Season Two
Ep: 02 "The First Time I was Hit in Dance"
*Content Warning: This episode contains sensitive content about a childhood experience of being hit in a ballet class. Listener discretion is advised.
In this solo mini episode, Kate Histon shares a deeply personal story: the first time she was hit by a ballet teacher at just six years old. More than a reflection on one moment, this episode explores how toxic cultures in the dance world can take root—and why so many dancers and families stay silent. Kate unpacks the subtle dynamics of manipulation, misplaced loyalty, and cultural conditioning that allow abuse to be normalized. With compassion and clarity, she invites listeners to trust their instincts, recognise red flags, and reflect on the difference between a tough day and a toxic system. This is a conversation for dancers, teachers, and parents who want a healthier future for our industry.
After-note: Kate’s mention of being called “special” and “talented” reflects the language used to keep dancers compliant—not self-praise. She highlights how even compliments can be used manipulatively in toxic environments.
**For anyone who would like further information on the impact Kates experience had on her from this school and her healing journey you can listen to a podcast episode from 2022 on "Post Traumatic Growth" with the Hey Soul Sista Podcast. https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/hey-soul-sista-by-melissa-histon/id1479778469?i=1000579113749
Disclaimer:
This episode shares Kate’s personal lived experience within a particular school and broader dance culture. It is not intended to defame or accuse any individual or institution, but to contribute to important conversations about dancer well-being, teacher influence, and systemic patterns in the performing arts. All reflections are offered with care, respect, and a commitment to positive change.
Disclaimer:
The Dance Real Podcast is a space for open, honest conversations rooted in real-life experiences within the dance world. What I share—and what my guests share—is based on personal perspective, not professional advice. If you’re seeking support for your mental health, legal matters, or business decisions, I encourage you to speak with a qualified professional.
The views expressed by guests are their own and don’t always reflect mine. Any references to people, places, or situations are shared with respect and the intent to spark reflection, learning, and conversation—not to harm or misrepresent.
By engaging with this content, you acknowledge and agree that the host, guests, and Dance Real Podcast are not liable for any decisions made based on the information provided.
Season Two
Ep: 01
In this enlightening conversation, dance educator Marie Walton-Mahon shares her inspiring journey from a young dancer to a global mentor in the dance community. With over 50 years of experience, Marie discusses her early influences, the challenges she faced in her training, and the importance of creating a supportive environment for dancers. She highlights the development of Progressing Ballet Technique, a revolutionary body conditioning program, and addresses the impact of social media on the dance culture. Marie advocates for a universal code of practice in dance education to promote ethical standards and support the well-being of students.
AFTER NOTE: In the episode, Marie shared her experience as a young teenager who was coerced by a person in power. She was not in a position of authority—she was a vulnerable minor herself—and has carried the weight of that experience for many years. Her decision to speak publicly wasn’t to excuse harm, but to bravely shed light on how abuse of power can manipulate not only victims, but bystanders too. These are the uncomfortable conversations we need to have so the dance world can do better. We thank Marie for her bravery and honesty.
**For anyone who would like further information on the impact Kates experience had on her from this school and her healing journey you can listen to a podcast episode from 2022 on "Post Traumatic Growth" with the Hey Soul Sista Podcast. https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/hey-soul-sista-by-melissa-histon/id1479778469?i=1000579113749
Disclaimer:
The Dance Real Podcast is a space for open, honest conversations rooted in real-life experiences within the dance world. What I share—and what my guests share—is based on personal perspective, not professional advice. If you’re seeking support for your mental health, legal matters, or business decisions, I encourage you to speak with a qualified professional.
The views expressed by guests are their own and don’t always reflect mine. Any references to people, places, or situations are shared with respect and the intent to spark reflection, learning, and conversation—not to harm or misrepresent.
By engaging with this content, you acknowledge and agree that the host, guests, and Dance Real Podcast are not liable for any decisions made based on the information provided.
Ep: 08 "I Never Won a Dance Competition and Still became Principal Dancer"
Rethinking the Dance Industry with Shane Wuerthner In this thought-provoking episode, Shane Wuerthner shares game-changing insights that challenge conventional perspectives in the dance world. From perfectionism and competition culture to body composition and beyond, Shane delves into key issues shaping the industry today. Through the lens of his own journey—from professional ballet dancer to coach and founder of Athletistry—he offers invaluable lessons that will leave you both educated and inspired. He opens up about the challenges dancers face, the pressures of competition, and the crucial role of mental health and artistry in training. With a strong emphasis on a holistic approach, Shane advocates for a dance culture that prioritizes well-being and fosters true artistic evolution.
Disclaimer:
The Dance Real Podcast is a space for open, honest conversations rooted in real-life experiences within the dance world. What I share—and what my guests share—is based on personal perspective, not professional advice. If you’re seeking support for your mental health, legal matters, or business decisions, I encourage you to speak with a qualified professional.
The views expressed by guests are their own and don’t always reflect mine. Any references to people, places, or situations are shared with respect and the intent to spark reflection, learning, and conversation—not to harm or misrepresent.
By engaging with this content, you acknowledge and agree that the host, guests, and Dance Real Podcast are not liable for any decisions made based on the information provided.
Ep:07 “I was Told I Couldn’t Dance Again”
In this conversation, former professional soloist ballet dancer Charlene Dujardin shares her inspiring journey from overcoming a life-altering injury to becoming a dance teacher and studio owner. She discusses the challenges she faced in her career, the importance of self-belief, and her vision for nurturing future dancers. Charline emphasizes the significance of focusing on personal growth and the love for dance, rather than comparing oneself to others in the industry.
Disclaimer:
The Dance Real Podcast is a space for open, honest conversations rooted in real-life experiences within the dance world. What I share—and what my guests share—is based on personal perspective, not professional advice. If you’re seeking support for your mental health, legal matters, or business decisions, I encourage you to speak with a qualified professional.
The views expressed by guests are their own and don’t always reflect mine. Any references to people, places, or situations are shared with respect and the intent to spark reflection, learning, and conversation—not to harm or misrepresent.
By engaging with this content, you acknowledge and agree that the host, guests, and Dance Real Podcast are not liable for any decisions made based on the information provided.