Hot Girl Perspective

HOT GIRLS DON'T RUSH BECOMING HER - they romanticize the process.This is the final episode of the Soft Girl Grind series, and it’s a reminder you might need right now: becoming her is a journey, not a perfectly aesthetic montage. We’re talking about how to romanticize the grind without glorifying burnout. how to see beauty in the late nights, the reset days, the lazy mornings, the small wins no one else sees. This is about being intentional, not perfect.If you’re in a season of growth that doesn’t look “perfect,” this episode will help you fall in love with your process again and keep you going with more clarity!Reminder...becoming her is already happening xxTimestamps:Intro - 0:00Life Update - 1:03Process of Becoming “Her” - 3:10Tip 1 - 4:15Tip 2 - 5:41Tip 3 - 7:53Tip 4 - 9:13Tip 5 - 10:19

HOT GIRLS DON'T PUNSIH THEMSELVES for falling off - they guide themselves back with love. Continuing the Soft Girl Grind series, we're talking about something no one really teaches you: the art of gentle self discipline.This episode is a reminder that you ARE responsible for your life — and instead of that feeling heavy or scary, it can actually be the most empowering thing. If you’ve ever struggled with consistency, self-sabotage, or beating yourself up for not doing “enough,” this episode is FOR YOU! Because honestly, I get how you feel. I really do. So let's do this together xxLove,Valena 💋Timestamps:Intro - 0:00Life Update - 0:58Gentle Self Discipline - 3:08Tip 1 - 6:09Tip 2 - 7:02Tip 3 - 8:13Tip 4 - 9:59Tip 5 - 12:40Tip 6 - 14:52Podcast Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/@hotgirlperspectivePodcast YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/@HotGirlPerspectiveValena's Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/@thisisvalenaValena's YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/@thisisvalenaPinterest:https://in.pinterest.com/thisisvalena29/Group Chat:https://bumble.com/bff/invite/b529d22c-449f-4841-be06-86df77273be0

HOT GIRLS DON'T WORK HARD - they move smarter, softer & more aligned.Welcome to Part 2 of the Soft Girl Grind series! In the last episode we talked about letting go of the pressure of being “behind” and trusting your own timeline. This episode is about what comes next — how to chase big goals without burnout, force, or anxiety, and stay in your feminine energy while doing it.We’re reframing productivity.This episode is your reminder that success doesn’t have to feel heavy to be real. If you’ve been ambitious but tired, motivated but overwhelmed, or craving a softer way to still win — this one’s for you.You don’t need to force your way to your dream life. you can flow there xxLove,Valena 💋Timestamps:Intro - 0:00Life Update - 1:42Soft Girl Grind Recap - 5:20Tip 1 - 6:23Tip 2 - 8:53Tip 3 - 10:49Tip 4 - 12:19Tip 5 - 13:20Tip 6 - 14:07Soft Girl Grind (PART 1):https://spotify.openinapp.co/hr52tPodcast Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/@hotgirlperspectivePodcast YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/@HotGirlPerspectiveValena's Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/@thisisvalenaValena's YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/@thisisvalenaPinterest:https://in.pinterest.com/thisisvalena29/Group Chat:https://bumble.com/bff/invite/b529d22c-449f-4841-be06-86df77273be0

HOT GIRLS ARE NEVER BEHIND - They're always tuned in to their own timeline!Welcome to a brand new series on the pod...SOFT GIRL GRIND, where we’re redefining what it means to be productive, aligned, and in your feminine flow.For the first part of this month-long series, we're focusing on how it seems others are "ahead" but the reality is everyone is on their own path. I know, I know, you've heard it before, which is why I give you exact reasons WHY you feel like that and WAYS you can rewire your perspective to really embody that truth.If you’ve been feeling like you’re running out of time, comparing your path to others, or doubting where you’re at — this episode will ground you back.Because being in your soft girl era isn’t about doing nothing — it’s about doing what’s right for you, from love, not fear xxTimestamps:Intro - 00:00Life Update - 00:56Soft Girl Grind - 03:25Feeling Behind - 04:24Why That Happens - 06:49You’re On Your Own Timeline - 08:58Tip 1 - 09:55Tip 2 - 10:44Tip 3 - 12:00Bonus - 12:41Love,Valena 💋How to Deal with Comparison & Jealousy: https://spotify.openinapp.co/o4cp4Products I Mentioned:Fenty Beauty Concealer (Shade 225 N) - https://sephora.in/l/rClFFenty Beauty Gloss Bomb (Sp'Ice Cold) - https://sephora.in/l/rClBPodcast Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/@hotgirlperspectivePodcast YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/@HotGirlPerspectiveValena's Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/@thisisvalenaValena's YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/@thisisvalenaPinterest:https://in.pinterest.com/thisisvalena29/Group Chat:https://bumble.com/bff/invite/b529d22c-449f-4841-be06-86df77273be0

HOT GIRLS CAN DO BOTH - be super productive AND channel their soft girl energy!In this PART 2 of Beauty Tips, we're focusing on rituals and routines that can help you reset and lock in after a relaxing vacation. I was just on a vacation to Thailand so trust me I know, it can be SO hard getting back to work after you've been living the slow life and enjoying the beach waves.I've also added a new segment to the podcast starting with this episode...you guessed it, it's "life updates"! I'm so excited to connect with you better and share some part of my life so we can all really feel like besties. If you just want the tips, then feel free to skip ahead, that's alright too!But this episode, is exactly what you need! Not just when you're back home from travel but if you ever need a way to romanticize the work life and getting back on track, it will be here for you 🍒Let's find the balance and tap into our beautiful, feminine energy even while being productive! I know you're gonna love this one xxIntro - 0:00Life Update - 1:53Tip 1 - 8:20Tip 2 - 9:05Tip 3 - 10:08Tip 4 - 10:47Tip 5 - 12:35Tip 6 - 13:14Tip 7 - 14:23Tip 8 - 15:12Love,Valena 💋Beauty Tips (PART 1): https://spotify.openinapp.co/xsl7jPodcast Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/@hotgirlperspectivePodcast YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/@HotGirlPerspectiveValena's Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/@thisisvalenaValena's YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/@thisisvalenaPinterest:https://in.pinterest.com/thisisvalena29/Group Chat:https://links.geneva.com/invite/b529d22c-449f-4841-be06-86df77273be0

HOT GIRLS ARE LIVING IN THE MOMENT - so here's some easy ways to actually stop wasting your time, and get back on track. It can be easy to keep staying in that low vibe where everything is slow, you're feeling guilty but still choose to do nothing about it BUT I got you...gaining that momentum of a happy streak can be easy.You gotta remember that your life is happening in every moment NOW, listen to this episode with that in mind xxLove,Valena 💋Podcast Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/@hotgirlperspectivePodcast YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/@HotGirlPerspectiveValena's Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/@thisisvalenaValena's YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/@thisisvalenaPinterest:https://in.pinterest.com/thisisvalena29/Group Chat:https://links.geneva.com/invite/b529d22c-449f-4841-be06-86df77273be0

The answer is ALWAYS YES but the "when" can differ.If you've been into the law of attraction, manifestations, universe and the like, you must've thought..."WHY isn't it here yet?" Well so have I and this episode is the answer to all us manifestation girlies' main question xxLove,Valena 💋Podcast Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/@hotgirlperspectivePodcast YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/@HotGirlPerspectiveValena's Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/@thisisvalenaValena's YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/@thisisvalenaPinterest:https://in.pinterest.com/thisisvalena29/Group Chat:https://links.geneva.com/invite/b529d22c-449f-4841-be06-86df77273be0

HOT GIRLS DON'T COMPETE — they evolve.Let’s talk jealousy, comparison, and why your glow-up doesn’t need to look like anyone else's. Inspired by Jealousy, Jealousy by Olivia Rodrigo (yes, it hit hard), this episode is your permission slip to step out of the spiral and step into your power.I’m opening up about the phases where I compared everything — looks, career, friends — and how I gently pulled myself out of it. These are the mindset shifts and self-worth rituals I still go back to when I feel triggered, insecure, or not enough. Think of it as a pep talk, but from someone who gets it.You don’t need to be her. You just need to be you, on purpose xxLove,Valena 💋TIMESTAMPS:0:00 - My Comparison Story1:36 - Lesson 12:15 - Lesson 23:23 - Lesson 34:41 - Lesson 45:59 - Lesson 5Podcast Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/@hotgirlperspectivePodcast YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/@HotGirlPerspectiveValena's Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/@thisisvalenaValena's YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/@thisisvalenaPinterest:https://in.pinterest.com/thisisvalena29/Group Chat:https://links.geneva.com/invite/b529d22c-449f-4841-be06-86df77273be0

HOT GIRLS LOOK PRETTY — effortlessly. If you’ve ever wished to look effortlessly beautiful, polished, and put together all the time, this episode is your new guide. I’m sharing 15 glow-up hacks that are simple, practical, and will help you look stunning 24/7 without needing a full glam routine.From beauty secrets to body language tips, we’re creating that magnetic “she’s that girl” vibe — anytime, anywhere.I've been using these for a long time because I was exactly in your place some time ago...looking for easy things to make me feel and look good without too much time spent on it. Because being her isn’t about perfection — it’s about intention, consistency, and knowing how to subtly enhance your energy. ✨Perfect for anyone building their glow-up routine, entering their soft girl era, or wanting to embody hot girl energy in everyday life xxLove,Valena 💋TIMESTAMPS:0:00 - Intro1:52 - Tip 12:37 - Tip 23:05 - Tip 34:18 - Tip 44:50 - Tip 55:06 - Tip 65:49 - Tip 77:15 - Tip 87:48 - Tip 98:20 - Tip 108:52 - Tip 119:42 - Tip 1210:09 - Tip 1311:20 - Tip 1412:11 - Tip 15Podcast Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/@hotgirlperspectivePodcast YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/@HotGirlPerspectiveValena's Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/@thisisvalenaValena's YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/@thisisvalenaPinterest:https://in.pinterest.com/thisisvalena29/Group Chat:https://links.geneva.com/invite/b529d22c-449f-4841-be06-86df77273be0

HOT GIRLS DON'T JUST CHANGE THEIR OUTFITS — they change their self concept.If you’re ready to glow up mentally and start showing up like the best version of you, this episode is for you. This week we’re diving into one of the most powerful yet overlooked aspects of a glow up: your identity.Who you think you are dictates how you feel, what you tolerate, and the level you operate on. But here’s the truth: that version of you you dream about? She’s already inside you — you just need to start seeing yourself differently.Inside this episode, I’m sharing 5 simple but transformational ways to shift your self-concept.If you’ve ever felt stuck between who you are and who you want to be, this episode will help you close that gap — not by fixing yourself, but by finally seeing yourself clearly xxLove,Valena 💋Podcast Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/@hotgirlperspectivePodcast YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/@HotGirlPerspectiveValena's Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/@thisisvalenaValena's YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/@thisisvalenaPinterest:https://in.pinterest.com/thisisvalena29/Group Chat:https://links.geneva.com/invite/b529d22c-449f-4841-be06-86df77273be0

HOT GIRLS DON'T JUST GLOW UP ON THE OUTSIDE—they do the inner work too. This time I’m sharing the self love and self worth tips that actually changed my life. If you've ever felt like you're not doing enough, not good enough, or just stuck in comparison—this episode is your reset button.We’re breaking down 6 real-life practices that help you feel grounded, confident, and so deeply enough. Because true confidence doesn’t come from outside validation—it comes from the way you show up for yourself every single day.You’re more than enough. And this episode will help you finally start believing it xxLove,Valena 💋Podcast Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/@hotgirlperspectivePodcast YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/@HotGirlPerspectiveValena's Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/@thisisvalenaValena's YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/@thisisvalenaPinterest:https://in.pinterest.com/thisisvalena29/Group Chat:https://links.geneva.com/invite/b529d22c-449f-4841-be06-86df77273be0

HOT GIRLS DON'T GATEKEEP—so I’m sharing my 2025 wellness favorites that have seriously upgraded my glow-up routine. In this cozy, feel-good episode, we’re talking simple yet powerful little habits and products that make you feel pretty, put together, and totally in your “that girl” era.I talk about habits that boost your confidence, shift your energy, and turn everyday life into a soft, magnetic experience. Whether you're resetting your routine, building better habits, or just need that push to feel ✨ her ✨ again—this one’s for you.Light a candle, grab your journal, and let’s glow up xxLove,Valena 💋Podcast Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/@hotgirlperspectivePodcast YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/@HotGirlPerspectiveValena's Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/@thisisvalenaValena's YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/@thisisvalenaPinterest:https://in.pinterest.com/thisisvalena29/Group Chat:https://links.geneva.com/invite/b529d22c-449f-4841-be06-86df77273be0

Hot girls don’t stress the timeline—they trust the vibe. In this quick but grounding episode we’re having a heart-to-heart about feeling lost in your 20s, the pressure to have it all figured out, and why it’s totally okay if you don’t.If you’ve been spiraling about your path, comparing timelines, or wondering what’s next—this one’s for you. We’re talking mindset shifts, calm habits, and the gentle reminders that everything is actually working out in your favor. Life isn’t a race. You’re allowed to soften, slow down, and just be. Or actually even just go crazy and live your best, wild life without always bringing yourself down thinking about tomorrow!Because sometimes the best glow ups come from letting go of control xxLove,Valena 💋Podcast Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/@hotgirlperspectivePodcast YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/@HotGirlPerspectiveValena's Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/@thisisvalenaValena's YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/@thisisvalenaPinterest:https://in.pinterest.com/thisisvalena29/Group Chat:https://links.geneva.com/invite/b529d22c-449f-4841-be06-86df77273be0

If you've been saying "I'll start Monday" for weeks—this is your sign.Hot girls don’t wait for the perfect moment—they create it. In this ultimate reset episode, I’m walking you through exactly how to change your life in just 7 days.This isn’t a fluffy reset—it’s a full mind-body-energy glow-up for the girl who’s ready to lock in and become her next level version.From resetting your mindset and building discipline, to boosting your energy, confidence, and manifesting habits—this week-long plan will get you back in alignment with the version of you who has it all.Your dream life is ONE WEEK AWAY xxTime Stamps:intro - 0:00day one (mental reset) - 01:47 day two (physical reset) - 5:20day three (emotional reset) - 8:18day four (confidence reset) - 10:50day five (productivity reset) - 14:00day six (social reset) - 16:02day seven (manifestation practice reset) - 18:36outro - 20:28Love,Valena 💋Podcast Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/@hotgirlperspectivePodcast YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/@HotGirlPerspectiveValena's Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/@thisisvalenaValena's YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/@thisisvalenaPinterest:https://in.pinterest.com/thisisvalena29/

Hot girls don’t wait around—they align and attract. In this quick power episode, I’m spilling the one subconscious mind hack that actually helped me manifest a desire I’d been stuck on… in just 3 DAYS. If you’ve been doing the journaling, the affirmations, the vision boards—but something still isn’t clicking—this is your missing link.We’re diving into how to rewire your mindset, activate your magnetic energy, and step into the version of you who has everything she wants. Get ready to upgrade your frequency, attract better, and move different.Because when your subconscious believes it… the universe delivers xxLove,Valena 💋Podcast Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/@hotgirlperspectivePodcast YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/@HotGirlPerspectiveValena's Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/@thisisvalenaValena's YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/@thisisvalenaPinterest:https://in.pinterest.com/thisisvalena29/

Looking for some books that actually give you the tea on manifestation & bringing your dreams to life?...Or if you're super new to it and just wanna get more familiar with the idea, this is THE most perfect episode for you!I have been reading self-help & manifestation-related books ever since 2020 and these 5 did not disappoint at all. Rather they've made the idea so much simpler, given me actual habits & tips to use in real life, so many examples and simply fascinated me to another level.I am so excited for you to read these books and please don't hesitate to reach out to me in the comments or on Instagram, I'd love to talk about this, hear your reviews, help you out, whatever you need xxTime Stamps:0:00 - Intro4:32 - Book #55:48 - Book #46:50 - Book #37:29 - Book #28:55 - Book #1Love,Valena 💋Podcast Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/@hotgirlperspectivePodcast YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/@HotGirlPerspectiveValena's Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/@thisisvalenaValena's YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/@thisisvalenaPinterest:https://in.pinterest.com/thisisvalena29/

This is the most NEEDED topic to be talked about so more girls can know what's good for them versus what's settling for mediocrity. We're talking everything about your higher self's energy and thought process when it comes to relationships, friendships and social circles.Although we don't go too deep, this last episode of the Hot Girl Glow Up Guide is here to give you all the right motivation and guidance when it comes to the non-tangible...mindset, energy and thought patterns.If you want me to go more in depth and share lessons from more of my personal experiences about relationships, feel free to let me know in the comments or on Instagram xxLove,Valena 💋Podcast Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/@hotgirlperspectivePodcast YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/@HotGirlPerspectiveValena's Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/@thisisvalenaValena's YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/@thisisvalenaPinterest:https://in.pinterest.com/thisisvalena29/

These healthy habits & mindset shifts will literally change your life. This episode includes all the changes I've made that helped me glow up and become the best version of myself in less than a month!I couldn't help myself but put these habits out there for all you girls looking to become a better you in 2025. From actual tangible habits to the inner shifts that you NEED to make to achieve your goals and bring your dream life to reality, this part of the Hot Girl Glow Up Guide is the most important of them all.I'd love to know your experience with these healthy changes and habits once you try them so feel free to leave a comment xxLove,Valena 💋Podcast Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/@hotgirlperspectivePodcast YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/@HotGirlPerspectiveValena's Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/@thisisvalenaValena's YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/@thisisvalenaPinterest:https://in.pinterest.com/thisisvalena29/

Grab your coffee & a notebook, we're sitting down to have a fun girl chat about all things pretty and girly that are going to help you transform into THAT GIRL. In this episode, I'm sharing with you a glow up checklist for 2025, skincare favorites so you don't have to experiment, fashion must-haves so your outfit game is slaying...I've got you girl!You will come out of this episode feeling good and excited about today and all days coming up. Let's lock in and get on track to becoming the best version of ourselves, basically...it's time for you to glow up xxLove,Valena 💋Podcast Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/@hotgirlperspectivePodcast YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/@HotGirlPerspectiveValena's Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/@thisisvalenaValena's YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/@thisisvalenaPinterest:https://in.pinterest.com/thisisvalena29/

You still have time, the year has just begun, it's still a good time to lock in and commit to glowing up. If you wanna live your life and become the version of yourself that's the girl in your Pinterest board, the "Hot Girl Glow Up Guide", which is a 4-part series, is perfect for exactly that!Follow along if you love step-by-step guides, starting the episodes off with the perfect recipe for your morning and night routine. It's super easy and simple to stick to but still so effective.Can't wait for you to become such an amazing version of yourself in the next one month xxLove,Valena💋Podcast Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/@hotgirlperspectivePodcast YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/@HotGirlPerspectiveValena's Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/@thisisvalenaValena's YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/@thisisvalenaPinterest:https://in.pinterest.com/thisisvalena29/