Spill the Tea with Will & Maria

FRIENDSHIP • RELATIONSHIPS • HONESTY • RED FLAGS • COMMUNICATION • BOUNDARIESThis week on Spill the Tea, Will and Maria dive into the complicated space where friendships and romantic relationships collide. From navigating holiday preferences to handling honesty that feels uncomfortable, this episode explores how friendships can influence dating choices, perceptions of partners, and personal growth.They unpack how to spot red flags, when to speak up (and when not to), how to support friends without crossing boundaries, and why communication matters just as much in friendships as it does in romantic relationships. If you’ve ever wondered whether to say something about your friend’s partner—or struggled to balance loyalty with honesty—this conversation is for you.Sound bites you won’t forget:“You should have no shame.”“This person sucks.”“You do have to respect it.”If you’re navigating dating, evolving friendships, or relationship advice that isn’t black and white, this episode offers insight, nuance, and real-life perspective.Subscribe now to stay updated!Follow us on Instagram @thespilltheteapod / @willnashonair / @sexoffthepedestalSubscribe, follow and rate us today!Buy Will & Maria a coffee to show your love: https://buymeacoffee.com/spilltheteapod

PODCAST • THIS OR THAT • RELATIONSHIPS • HUMOR • PERSONALITY • CONNECTIONJoin Will and Maria for a fast-paced, unfiltered This or That episode where quick choices turn into real talk. From relationship dynamics to personal quirks, this one is full of laughs, surprises, and moments that reveal more than expected.It’s playful, honest, and just the right mix of humor and heart—perfect if you love light episodes that still give you insight into how people think, love, and connect.Expect hot takes, unexpected answers, and plenty of chemistry as Will and Maria spill the tea one choice at a time.Subscribe now to stay updated!Follow us on Instagram @thespilltheteapod / @willnashonair / @sexoffthepedestalSubscribe, follow and rate us today!Buy Will & Maria a coffee to show your love: https://buymeacoffee.com/spilltheteapod

PODCAST • HOLIDAY • GIFT GIVING • RELATIONSHIPS • FAMILY DYNAMICS • CHRISTMASThis week on Spill the Tea, Maria and Will dive into the chaos, comedy, and emotional landmines of holiday gift giving. From the pressure of Christmas traditions to the deeper meaning behind romantic gifts, they explore why thoughtful gifts matter, why bad gifts sting, and how family dynamics shape the way we give and receive.They unpack personal stories, cringe-worthy gift moments, social media pressures, and the truth about how gifts can reveal compatibility, emotional connection, and unmet needs in relationships. Whether you love the holidays or dread the shopping, this episode will help you rethink what “the perfect gift” really means.Sound bites you’ll love:“I need help!”“That’s soul bearing!”If you’ve ever struggled with gift expectations, awkward holiday moments, or figuring out what your partner actually wants, this episode gives insight, humor, and relationship advice you can use right away.Subscribe now to stay updated!Follow us on Instagram @thespilltheteapod / @willnashonair / @sexoffthepedestalSubscribe, follow and rate us today!Buy Will & Maria a coffee to show your love: https://buymeacoffee.com/spilltheteapod

HOLIDAYS • FAMILY • BOUNDARIES • NO CONTACT • MENTAL HEALTH • SELF-CAREThis week on Spill the Tea, Will and Maria unpack the emotional chaos of the holiday season—the pressure, the expectations, and the family dynamics that can leave you drained instead of joyful. From navigating obligations to recognizing when no contact is the healthiest choice, we dive deep into how relationships shape our emotional well-being during this time of year.We explore why boundaries matter, how therapy can help you process family patterns, and the importance of building a support network when you’re dealing with toxic or unhealthy family members. This is your reminder that protecting your peace is not only allowed: it’s essential.Sound bites you’ll definitely relate to:“The holidays are hard.”“Drama becomes a lifestyle.”“You need a network of support.”If you’re struggling with family pressure, complicated relationships, mental health, or self-care during the holidays, this episode validates your experience and gives you tools to navigate it with confidence.Subscribe now to stay updated!Follow us on Instagram @thespilltheteapod / @willnashonair / @sexoffthepedestalSubscribe, follow and rate us today!Buy Will & Maria a coffee to show your love: https://buymeacoffee.com/spilltheteapod

WICKED • MUSICAL • MOVIE • ELPHABA • GLINDA • FRIENDSHIP • EMPOWERMENT • LGBTQ+This week on Spill the Tea, Will and Maria take you down the Yellow Brick Road: straight into the heart of Wicked. From the spellbinding musical vs. movie experience to the emotional depth of Elphaba and Glinda’s friendship, we’re unpacking everything: character development, betrayal, empowerment, female relationships, and why this story hits so deeply for the LGBTQ+ community.We dig into Wicked’s darker themes, its cultural and political commentary, the illusion of crushes and relationships, and the way this iconic story challenges what it means to be “good” or “wicked.” Whether you’ve seen the show a dozen times or are new to the world of Oz, this episode will give you fresh insight into why this story continues to matter.Sound bites that hit like Defying Gravity:“Go and watch those movies!”“Who is the wicked one?”“You’re allowed to speak up.”If you love musicals, character arcs, friendship stories, empowerment themes, or LGBTQ+ narratives, you don’t want to miss this one.Subscribe now to stay updated!Follow us on Instagram @thespilltheteapod / @willnashonair / @sexoffthepedestalSubscribe, follow and rate us today!Buy Will & Maria a coffee to show your love: https://buymeacoffee.com/spilltheteapod

INTIMACY • RELATIONSHIPS • SEX THERAPY • SINGLEHOODThis week on Spill the Tea, we dive deep into the raw reality of intimacy and the stats might shock you. From why some couples have never seen each other naked, to how lighting, clothing, and communication shape connection behind closed doors, we’re breaking down the myths that fuel society’s biggest misconceptions about sex, single-hood, and modern relationships.Whether you're single, partnered, or somewhere in between, this episode uncovers how perceptions, expectations, and societal norms shape our understanding of desire, closeness, and emotional safety. As always, we bring the sex therapy lens to help you rethink everything you thought you knew about intimacy.Sound bites you don’t want to miss:“Some couples have never actually seen each other naked.”“You’re the sex therapist here.”“That makes single people feel pretty in that.”If you love talking relationships, communication, intimacy, and the psychology of connection, this one’s for you.Subscribe now to stay updated!Follow us on Instagram @thespilltheteapod / @willnashonair / @sexoffthepedestalSubscribe, follow and rate us today!Buy Will & Maria a coffee to show your love: ⁠https://buymeacoffee.com/spilltheteapod

In this conversation, Maria Orrego and Will Nash discuss the complexities of intimacy and consent in relationships. They explore the of feeling being pressured into changing sexual boundaries, leading to feelings of discomfort and the perception of sex as a negotiation rather than an intimate act. They emphasize the importance of mutual respect and the need for clear boundaries in any relationship, highlighting that a partner's disregard for consent is a significant warning sign.Subscribe now to stay updated!Follow us on Instagram @thespilltheteapod / @willnashonair / @sexoffthepedestal Subscribe, follow and rate us today! Buy Will & Maria a coffee to show your love: https://buymeacoffee.com/spilltheteapod

In this conversation, Wish Nash and Maria Orrego discuss the complexities of introducing the idea of threesomes into a relationship, emphasizing the importance of communication, consent, and understanding boundaries. They explore how to approach the topic with a partner who may not have prior experience, and the role of trust in navigating open relationships. The discussion highlights that exploring new experiences together can enhance intimacy, provided that both partners are comfortable and consenting.Subscribe now to stay updated!Follow us on Instagram @thespilltheteapod / @willnashonair / @sexoffthepedestal Subscribe, follow and rate us today! Buy Will & Maria a coffee to show your love: https://buymeacoffee.com/spilltheteapod

In this engaging conversation, Will Nash and Maria Orrego explore the themes of Halloween, personal experiences with costumes, and the significance of role play in relationships. They discuss their own Halloween memories, preferences between Halloween and Christmas, and the importance of communication when it comes to intimacy and role play. The conversation is light-hearted yet insightful, touching on nostalgia, personal anecdotes, and the dynamics of relationships.Subscribe now to stay updated!Follow us on Instagram @thespilltheteapod / @willnashonair / @sexoffthepedestal Subscribe, follow and rate us today! Buy Will & Maria a coffee to show your love: https://buymeacoffee.com/spilltheteapod

In this episode of "Spill the Tea," Will Nash and Maria Orrego tackle a listener's question about dating apps and exclusivity. They explore the red flags and the importance of having clear conversations in relationships. With personal stories and professional insights, they delve into the dynamics of modern love and the assumptions that can lead to misunderstandings. Join them for an honest and engaging discussion that might just change how you view your own relationships. Subscribe now to stay updated!Follow us on Instagram @thespilltheteapod / @willnashonair / @sexoffthepedestal Subscribe, follow and rate us today! Buy Will & Maria a coffee to show your love: https://buymeacoffee.com/spilltheteapod

In this episode of the Spill the Tea Podcast, Will Nash and Maria Orrego delve into Will's journey of coming out over the past 15 years. They discuss the evolution of his identity, the challenges faced in a public career, and the importance of sharing personal stories within the LGBTQ+ community. The conversation also touches on the political climate of the past and present, the complexities of dating as a queer individual, and the significance of vulnerability and pride. Ultimately, the episode emphasizes the message that life gets better with time and authenticity.Subscribe now to stay updated!Follow us on Instagram @thespilltheteapod / @willnashonair / @sexoffthepedestal Subscribe, follow and rate us today! Buy Will & Maria a coffee to show your love: ⁠https://buymeacoffee.com/spilltheteapod

In this follow-up episode, Will & Maria dive deeper into the often-overlooked part of the coming out journey: coming out to yourself. Before the conversations with friends, family, or the world—there’s a quieter, more personal moment when you first acknowledge your truth to you.We unpack the emotional layers of self-acceptance, explore what internalized fear or shame can look like, and share personal reflections and listener stories about that pivotal turning point. Whether your journey was a slow realization or a lightning-bolt moment, this episode is a reminder that coming out doesn’t start with others—it starts with you. Subscribe now to stay updated!Follow us on Instagram @thespilltheteapod / @willnashonair / @sexoffthepedestal Subscribe, follow and rate us today! Buy Will & Maria a coffee to show your love: ⁠⁠https://buymeacoffee.com/spilltheteapod⁠

In this conversation, Will & Maria explore the complexities of privacy, trust, and communication in relationships, particularly focusing on the sharing of passwords and location. They discuss the implications of these actions on personal boundaries and the importance of mutual trust. The conversation also addresses a listener's dilemma about sharing location with a partner early in their relationship, emphasizing the need for open communication and respect for personal boundaries.Subscribe now to stay updated!Follow us on Instagram @thespilltheteapod / @willnashonair / @sexoffthepedestal Subscribe, follow and rate us today! Buy Will & Maria a coffee to show your love: ⁠⁠https://buymeacoffee.com/spilltheteapod⁠

In this engaging conversation, Will & Maria discuss the complexities of sexual education, the challenges parents face in having the sex talk with their children, and the impact of past generations on current attitudes towards sexuality. They share personal anecdotes about their own experiences with sex education, the influence of media, and the importance of open conversations about sexuality. The discussion emphasizes the need for parents to create safe spaces for dialogue and to approach the topic with curiosity rather than judgment, ultimately aiming to foster a healthier understanding of sexuality for future generations.Subscribe now to stay updated!Follow us on Instagram @thespilltheteapod / @willnashonair / @sexoffthepedestal Subscribe, follow and rate us today! Buy Will & Maria a coffee to show your love: ⁠⁠https://buymeacoffee.com/spilltheteapod⁠

In this conversation, Will and Maria explore the complexities of navigating friendships that evolve into romantic relationships. They discuss the emotional attachments that can develop, the challenges of friends with benefits situations, and the societal stigmas surrounding cross-sex friendships. The episode emphasizes the importance of communication and self-awareness when considering the transition from friendship to romance, as well as the potential risks involved.Subscribe now to stay updated!Follow us on Instagram @thespilltheteapod / @willnashonair / @sexoffthepedestal Subscribe, follow and rate us today! Buy Will & Maria a coffee to show your love: ⁠⁠https://buymeacoffee.com/spilltheteapod⁠

In this episode, Will & Maria explore the complexities of love and relationships, emphasizing that love alone is not sufficient for a successful partnership. They discuss the importance of compatibility, shared values, and effective communication, while also addressing the potential for personal growth and the recognition of toxic dynamics. The episode highlights the necessity of mutual respect and understanding in fostering healthy relationships.Subscribe now to stay updated!Follow us on Instagram @thespilltheteapod / @willnashonair / @sexoffthepedestal Subscribe, follow and rate us today! Buy Will & Maria a coffee to show your love: ⁠⁠https://buymeacoffee.com/spilltheteapod⁠

Will and Maria explore the complexities of family dynamics during holiday gatherings, discussing the stress and anxiety that can arise from family expectations, awkward conversations, and the pressure to conform to societal norms. They emphasize the importance of setting boundaries, communicating effectively, and the concept of chosen family as a supportive alternative. The discussion also touches on the significance of self-care and the right to prioritize one's own mental health during family functions.Subscribe now to stay updated!Follow us on Instagram @thespilltheteapod / @willnashonair / @sexoffthepedestal Subscribe, follow and rate us today! Buy Will & Maria a coffee to show your love: ⁠⁠https://buymeacoffee.com/spilltheteapod⁠

In this episode, Will & Maria explore the complexities of being friend zoned in modern relationships, discussing personal experiences, the impact of communication, and the role of age in romantic interests. They emphasize the importance of understanding relationship dynamics and the potential consequences of taking risks in love and friendship.Subscribe now to stay updated!Follow us on Instagram @thespilltheteapod / @willnashonair / @sexoffthepedestal Subscribe, follow and rate us today! Buy Will & Maria a coffee to show your love: ⁠⁠https://buymeacoffee.com/spilltheteapod⁠

In this episode, Will & Maria explore various scenarios in relationships, categorizing them as red flags or green flags. They discuss the implications of social media behavior, communication styles, intimacy preferences, and the importance of trust and emotional connections. They raise their GREEN or RED FLAGS, emphasizing the need for open communication and understanding in navigating relationships, while also addressing the complexities of sexual preferences and societal expectations.Subscribe now to stay updated!Follow us on Instagram @thespilltheteapod / @willnashonair / @sexoffthepedestal Subscribe, follow and rate us today! Buy Will & Maria a coffee to show your love: ⁠⁠https://buymeacoffee.com/spilltheteapod⁠

This conversation explores the dynamics of relationships during vacations, particularly focusing on destination weddings and the allure of intimacy in exotic settings. The hosts discuss the importance of guest selection for weddings, the potential dangers of vacation flings, and the motivations behind infidelity. They emphasize the need for communication and understanding in relationships, especially when navigating the complexities of vacation behavior. The discussion culminates in a reflection on love versus commitment and the importance of self-awareness in romantic relationships.Subscribe now to stay updated!Follow us on Instagram @thespilltheteapod / @willnashonair / @sexoffthepedestal Subscribe, follow and rate us today! Buy Will & Maria a coffee to show your love: ⁠⁠https://buymeacoffee.com/spilltheteapod⁠