The Catalyst - Lanre Olusola

In this enlightening conversation, Dr. Lanre Olusola delves into the concept of legacy, emphasizing its importance in our daily lives and the impact of our actions on the future. He discusses the barriers that prevent individuals from living a meaningful legacy and provides practical steps to overcome these challenges. The conversation highlights the significance of wisdom, character, relationships, and intentionality in creating a lasting impact. Dr. Olusola encourages listeners to embrace love, generosity, and accountability as foundational elements in their journey towards building a legacy that outlives them.TakeawaysLegacy is not just what you leave behind when you die.True legacy is how you live your life right now.Your daily actions shape your legacy.Laziness, greed, and anger can hinder your legacy.Discipline is essential for sustaining a good legacy.Your legacy multiplies through the people you impact.Choose love over offense to create a lasting legacy.Excellence and generosity are key to leaving a positive impact.Accountability and humility preserve your legacy.Legacy is created daily through intentional actions.#BeTransformedPodcast #DrLanreOlusola #Wisdom #Legacy#Transformation

In this enlightening conversation, Dr. Lanre Olusola delves into the complexities of relationships, exploring why they often break down and how to foster lasting connections. He emphasizes the importance of knowledge, understanding, and wisdom in nurturing relationships, while also addressing common pitfalls such as pride, poor communication, and unrealistic expectations. Dr. Olusola provides practical tips for attracting the right partners and maintaining healthy relationships, highlighting the significance of trust, commitment, and effective communication. The discussion culminates in a call to action for listeners to apply these principles in their own lives for transformative results.TakeawaysRelationships thrive on knowledge, understanding, and wisdom.Pride can hinder intimacy and connection.Effective communication is crucial for relationship health.Unrealistic expectations can lead to disappointment.Nurturing relationships daily fosters deeper connections.Trust is essential for lasting love.Self-awareness helps identify patterns of sabotage in relationships.Choosing love over convenience strengthens bonds.Forgiveness is key to maintaining harmony in relationships.Applying learned principles can transform relationship dynamics.#BeTransformedPodcast #DrLanreOlusola #Relationships #EmotionalIntelligence

In this conversation, Dr. Lanre Olusola explores the intricate relationship between wisdom, character, and the pursuit of wealth. He emphasizes the importance of maintaining integrity and purpose while navigating life's challenges. Drawing lessons from King Solomon's life, he highlights the dangers of unchecked desires, ego, and compromising values. The discussion culminates in practical hacks for achieving sustainable success without losing one's soul, urging listeners to align their ambitions with divine purpose.TakeawaysWisdom and character are essential for true success.Wealth should not come at the expense of one's soul.King Solomon's life serves as a cautionary tale.Unchecked desires can lead to downfall.Integrity is crucial for lasting success.True wealth encompasses more than just money.Focus on serving others to achieve fulfillment.Discipline is necessary to manage success and wealth.Align your goals with God's purpose for your life.Gratitude and generosity can multiply wealth.#BeTransformedPodcast #DrLanreOlusola #PersonalDevelopment  #WealthMindset #Success #KingSolomon

In this conversation, Dr. Lanre Olusola explores the concept of fear, its nature, and its impact on individuals. He discusses various types of fear, including fear of failure, rejection, and uncertainty, and emphasizes the importance of finding one's truth to overcome these fears. Practical steps to manage and overcome fear are provided, along with a distinction between fear and phobia. The conversation concludes with a focus on the power of faith and positive thinking in overcoming fear and achieving personal growth.TakeawaysFear creates confusion and is often louder than truth.Understanding fear as unprocessed information can help manage it.Fear can lead to anxiety, depression, and other psychological issues.Identifying the types of fear can help in addressing them effectively.Finding your truth is crucial to overcoming fear.Practical steps include observing, validating emotions, and breathing techniques.Fear is misdirected energy that seeks safety, not an enemy.Distinguishing between fear and phobia is essential for proper management.Faith and positive thinking can significantly impact overcoming fear.Your thoughts and beliefs shape your experiences and reality.Chapters00:00 Introduction to Overcoming Fear01:35 Understanding Fear: Nature and Impact06:03 Common Types of Fear and Their Implications09:31 Finding Your Truth to Overcome Fear23:57 Practical Steps to Overcome Fear35:40 Distinguishing Fear from Phobia39:09 Faith, Fear, and the Power of Belief#BeTransformedPodcast #DrLanreOlusola #OvercomeFear #FearVsPhobia #Belief

In this conversation, Dr. Lanre Olusola explores the theme of wisdom versus intellect, emphasizing the importance of wisdom in overcoming life's challenges. He delves into the teachings of the Book of Proverbs, particularly the insights from King Solomon, and discusses how wisdom is essential for personal growth and success. The conversation highlights the need to pursue wisdom actively, guard one's heart, and avoid the traps of foolish pleasures. Dr. Olusola encourages listeners to make wisdom a daily pursuit, as it is the key to living a fulfilling and impactful life.TakeawaysWisdom is essential for overcoming life's challenges.Intellect alone does not guarantee success or happiness.The Book of Proverbs offers valuable insights for living well.King Solomon's wisdom and wealth serve as a model for us.Wisdom is a heart matter, not just an intellectual pursuit.Pursuing wisdom requires intentionality and dedication.Guarding your heart is crucial for personal growth.Foolish pleasures can derail your purpose and goals.Practical wisdom is necessary for daily living and decision-making.Being wise is more important than being smart. #BeTransformedPodcast #DrLanreOlusola #PersonalDevelopment  #EmotionalIntelligence

In this transformative conversation, Dr. Lanre Olusola explores the profound shift from an identity rooted in sin, as represented by Adam, to one of righteousness through Christ. He emphasizes the importance of understanding one's spiritual identity, the nature of sin and righteousness, and the role of love in this transformation. Through provocative questions and case studies, he encourages listeners to reject their old identities and embrace their new status as children of God, highlighting that righteousness is a birthright rather than a performance. The discussion culminates in a call to action, urging individuals to share this message and live out their new identities.TakeawaysYou are no longer defined by sin, but by righteousness.Christ came to recreate you, not just to forgive you.Sin is an identity, not merely an action.Righteousness is a birthright, not a reward for behavior.Your spiritual identity is singular and exclusive.You cannot mix the identities of Adam and Christ.Love is the fulfillment of the law and abolishes guilt.Your new identity in Christ is immediate and transformative.Righteousness is not about what you do, but who you are.Embrace your new identity and share it with others.Chapters00:00 Introduction to Transformation01:21 Understanding Identity in Christ06:45 The Nature of Sin and Righteousness13:04 The Role of Jesus in Redemption20:43 Rejecting the Old Identity24:57 Sinfulness vs. Righteousness: A New Perspective31:12 The Law and Its Purpose36:35 The DNA of Identity38:04 Choosing Your Spiritual Father38:47 Understanding Righteousness and Sinfulness40:41 The Abolishment of Law and Sin42:03 The Power of Love in Righteousness44:12 The Nature of Love and Its Fruits47:30 New Identity in Christ50:24 Righteousness: An Inheritance, Not an Achievement54:08 Case Studies of Identity: Abraham, Mefiboshef, and the Prodigal Son01:08:49 Maintaining Your New Identity01:14:19 Living Out Your New Identity#BeTransformedPodcast #DrLanreOlusola #Transformation #identity #sin #spiritualgrowth #faith

In this transformative conversation, Dr. Lanre Olusola explores the essence of our relationship with God, emphasizing the importance of understanding our identity in Christ. He discusses how our earthly relationships shape our spiritual experiences and the necessity of overcoming past traumas to fully manifest our inheritance in Christ. The dialogue highlights the power of testimony, the significance of recognizing our new creation status, and the authority that comes from our identity in Christ. Dr. Olusola encourages listeners to embrace their spiritual identity, operate from a place of completeness, and understand their role as joint heirs with Christ. In this conversation, Dr. Lanre Olusola explores the profound themes of identity, inheritance, and empowerment in Christ. He emphasizes the importance of understanding one's connection to God and the spiritual blessings that come with it. The discussion delves into the significance of living from a place of victory, the role of the Holy Spirit, and the ministry of reconciliation that believers are called to fulfill. Dr. Olusola encourages listeners to manifest their gifts and purpose, recognizing the power and authority they possess as children of God.TakeawaysUnderstanding who you are in Christ is crucial.Your earthly relationships influence your relationship with God.Transformation requires a new operating system in your life.Testimonies should reflect what has already been done, not what is hoped for.You are a new creation, not an improved version of the old you.Your identity in Christ is the foundation of your authority.You are complete in Christ, lacking nothing.You are God's workmanship, perfect just the way you are.You are one with Christ and his body.Your spiritual resource account is unlimited.  You are inseparable from your divine identity.Your essence is in connection with God.Believing in your identity is crucial for manifestation.The devil will challenge your identity; stand firm.You are God's beloved, just as Christ is.As joint heirs with Christ, you have access to His blessings.You have peace with God through Christ.Your identity grants you boldness and access to God.You have every spiritual blessing in Christ.You are not seeking blessings; you are manifesting them.*To get The Catalyst’s 50 Secrets.* Click here https://bit.ly/50secretsofsuccess*Other resources:*• The Catalyst Courses• The Catalyst eBooks• The Catalyst Meditation • The Catalyst Affirmation Click here to access: https://catalystng.selar.co*Get certified in OLCA Coaching Ltd* https://bit.ly/OLCACAL2025*OLCA Coaching Ltd 2025 Course Calendar* https://bit.ly/OLCACAL2025*The Catalyst 2025 Programs*  https://bit.ly/TheCatalyst2025Programs*Follow The Catalyst on Social Media**Instagram* : https://www.instagram.com/lanreolusola*Clubhouse* : https://tinyurl.com/BeTransformedTribeCH*Twitter* : https://x.com/lanreolusola*Tiktok* : https://www.tiktok.com/@lanre_olusola*Facebook* : https://facebook.com/TheCatalystLO#BeTransformedPodcast #DrLanreOlusola #Transformation #SpiritualAwakening

In this transformative conversation, Dr. Lanre Olusola explores the essence of our relationship with God, emphasizing the importance of understanding our identity in Christ. He discusses how our earthly relationships shape our spiritual experiences and the necessity of overcoming past traumas to fully manifest our inheritance in Christ. The dialogue highlights the power of testimony, the significance of recognizing our new creation status, and the authority that comes from our identity in Christ. Dr. Olusola encourages listeners to embrace their spiritual identity, operate from a place of completeness, and understand their role as joint heirs with Christ. In this conversation, Dr. Lanre Olusola explores the profound themes of identity, inheritance, and empowerment in Christ. He emphasizes the importance of understanding one's connection to God and the spiritual blessings that come with it. The discussion delves into the significance of living from a place of victory, the role of the Holy Spirit, and the ministry of reconciliation that believers are called to fulfill. Dr. Olusola encourages listeners to manifest their gifts and purpose, recognizing the power and authority they possess as children of God.TakeawaysUnderstanding who you are in Christ is crucial.Your earthly relationships influence your relationship with God.Transformation requires a new operating system in your life.Testimonies should reflect what has already been done, not what is hoped for.You are a new creation, not an improved version of the old you.Your identity in Christ is the foundation of your authority.You are complete in Christ, lacking nothing.You are God's workmanship, perfect just the way you are.You are one with Christ and his body.Your spiritual resource account is unlimited.  You are inseparable from your divine identity.Your essence is in connection with God.Believing in your identity is crucial for manifestation.The devil will challenge your identity; stand firm.You are God's beloved, just as Christ is.As joint heirs with Christ, you have access to His blessings.You have peace with God through Christ.Your identity grants you boldness and access to God.You have every spiritual blessing in Christ.You are not seeking blessings; you are manifesting them.*To get The Catalyst’s 50 Secrets.* Click here https://bit.ly/50secretsofsuccess*Other resources:*• The Catalyst Courses• The Catalyst eBooks• The Catalyst Meditation • The Catalyst Affirmation Click here to access: https://catalystng.selar.co*Get certified in OLCA Coaching Ltd* https://bit.ly/OLCACAL2025*OLCA Coaching Ltd 2025 Course Calendar* https://bit.ly/OLCACAL2025*The Catalyst 2025 Programs*  https://bit.ly/TheCatalyst2025Programs*Follow The Catalyst on Social Media**Instagram* : https://www.instagram.com/lanreolusola*Clubhouse* : https://tinyurl.com/BeTransformedTribeCH*Twitter* : https://x.com/lanreolusola*Tiktok* : https://www.tiktok.com/@lanre_olusola*Facebook* : https://facebook.com/TheCatalystLO#BeTransformedPodcast #DrLanreOlusola #Transformation #SpiritualAwakening

In this enlightening conversation, Dr. Lanre Olusola explores the profound concept of Christ as the prototype for our identity and the implications of our new creation reality. He emphasizes the importance of understanding our divine purpose, the journey of manifestation, and the process of living in Christ's authority. Through a detailed examination of spiritual principles, Dr. Olusola encourages listeners to renew their minds, embrace their identity in Christ, and manifest their true selves in daily life.TakeawaysChrist is the prototype for our identity.We are created in the exact image and likeness of Christ.Understanding our new creation reality is essential for spiritual growth.The journey of manifestation involves recognizing our divine purpose.The prototype process includes empathizing, defining, ideating, prototyping, and testing.Living in Christ's authority requires exercising our spiritual gifts.We must renew our minds to align with our new creation identity.Gratitude and thanksgiving are vital expressions of faith.Intimacy with God enhances our spiritual connection and understanding.We are called to manifest Christ's identity in our daily lives.Chapters00:00 Introduction to Christ as the Prototype04:40 Understanding Our Identity in Christ09:06 The Concept of Pre-Existence and Purpose18:03 The New Creation Reality26:33 The Distinction Between Jesus and Christ34:58 Living as a New Creation46:32 Understanding Our Identity in Christ47:33 The Five-Step Design Thinking Process54:31 Prototype: Jesus as the Divine Model59:21 The Role of the Holy Spirit in Reproduction01:04:04 Manifesting Our New Creation Reality01:27:03 Practical Steps to Live as Christ01:37:49 Affirmation and Conclusion*To get The Catalyst’s 50 Secrets.* Click here https://bit.ly/50secretsofsuccess*Other resources:*• The Catalyst Courses• The Catalyst eBooks• The Catalyst Meditation • The Catalyst Affirmation Click here to access: https://catalystng.selar.co*Get certified in OLCA Coaching Ltd* https://bit.ly/OLCACAL2025*OLCA Coaching Ltd 2025 Course Calendar* https://bit.ly/OLCACAL2025*The Catalyst 2025 Programs*  https://bit.ly/TheCatalyst2025Programs*Follow The Catalyst on Social Media**Instagram* : https://www.instagram.com/lanreolusola*Clubhouse* : https://tinyurl.com/BeTransformedTribeCH*Twitter* : https://x.com/lanreolusola*Tiktok* : https://www.tiktok.com/@lanre_olusola*Facebook* : https://facebook.com/TheCatalystLO#BeTransformedPodcast #DrLanreOlusola #Transformation #SpiritualAwakening

In this conversation, Dr. Lanre Olusola explores the intricate dynamics of trust and betrayal in relationships. He delves into the psychological aspects of why betrayal occurs, the importance of trust in various types of relationships, and the steps necessary to rebuild trust after it has been broken. The discussion emphasizes the need for emotional intelligence, discernment, and the understanding that while betrayal is a part of human nature, it should not deter individuals from forming meaningful connections. Dr. Olusola also highlights the significance of spiritual trust and the necessity of setting boundaries in relationships.TakeawaysTrust is built on consistent interaction and shared values.Betrayal can occur in any type of relationship, including personal and professional.Understanding the signs of betrayal can help in preventing it.Trust is essential for psychological and emotional safety in relationships.Betrayal often reflects the betrayer's own insecurities and brokenness.Rebuilding trust requires effort, accountability, and transparency from both parties.Closure is not always necessary for healing after betrayal.Emotional resilience is crucial in navigating relationships.Setting boundaries is important for maintaining trust.Spiritual trust is the highest form of trust one can aspire to. Chapters00:00 The Journey of Trust and Betrayal05:15 Understanding Trust in Relationships16:01 The Psychology Behind Betrayal28:09 Rebuilding Trust After Betrayal35:42 When Trust Cannot Be Rebuilt*To get The Catalyst’s 50 Secrets.* Click here https://bit.ly/50secretsofsuccess*Other resources:*• The Catalyst Courses• The Catalyst eBooks• The Catalyst Meditation • The Catalyst Affirmation Click here to access: https://catalystng.selar.co*Get certified in OLCA Coaching Ltd* https://bit.ly/OLCACAL2025*OLCA Coaching Ltd 2025 Course Calendar* https://bit.ly/OLCACAL2025*The Catalyst 2025 Programs*  https://bit.ly/TheCatalyst2025Programs*Follow The Catalyst on Social Media**Instagram* : https://www.instagram.com/lanreolusola*Clubhouse* : https://tinyurl.com/BeTransformedTribeCH*Twitter* : https://x.com/lanreolusola*Tiktok* : https://www.tiktok.com/@lanre_olusola*Facebook* : https://facebook.com/TheCatalystLO#BeTransformedPodcast #DrLanreOlusola #betrayal #Relationships #EmotionalIntelligence #healing #PersonalGrowth

In this conversation, Dr. Lanre Olusola discusses the concept of survival intelligence, emphasizing the importance of wisdom in navigating dangerous situations. He introduces the metaphor of the serpent to illustrate the need for strategic thinking and emotional intelligence in various life scenarios. Through biblical case studies, he highlights practical survival strategies and the significance of discernment, resourcefulness, and timing. The discussion culminates in the assertion that survival is not merely about strength but about employing wisdom and strategy to preserve one's legacy and fulfill divine purpose.TakeawaysSurvival intelligence is crucial for navigating life's challenges.Wisdom is often recognized only after the event has occurred.Strategic thinking is more important than brute strength in survival situations.Emotional intelligence plays a key role in making wise decisions.Preparation before pressure is essential for success.Not every conflict requires confrontation; some require strategic avoidance.The wisdom of the serpent can be a tool for divine purpose.Survival strategies can be learned from biblical case studies.Discernment is necessary to align actions with divine will.Survival is not a sin; it is a strategic necessity.Chapters00:00 Introduction to Survival Intelligence04:23 The Wisdom of the Serpent08:56 Case Studies of Survival Intelligence18:17 The SERPENT Acronym for Survival27:17 The Importance of Survival Intelligence32:49 Boundaries of the Wisdom of the Serpent36:35 Conclusion and Call to Action*To get The Catalyst’s 50 Secrets.* Click here https://bit.ly/50secretsofsuccess*Other resources:*• The Catalyst Courses• The Catalyst eBooks• The Catalyst Meditation • The Catalyst Affirmation Click here to access: https://catalystng.selar.co*Get certified in OLCA Coaching Ltd* https://bit.ly/OLCACAL2025*OLCA Coaching Ltd 2025 Course Calendar* https://bit.ly/OLCACAL2025*The Catalyst 2025 Programs*  https://bit.ly/TheCatalyst2025Programs*Follow The Catalyst on Social Media**Instagram* : https://www.instagram.com/lanreolusola*Clubhouse* : https://tinyurl.com/BeTransformedTribeCH*Twitter* : https://x.com/lanreolusola*Tiktok* : https://www.tiktok.com/@lanre_olusola*Facebook* : https://facebook.com/TheCatalystLO#BeTransformedPodcast #DrLanreOlusola #spiritualintelligence #SpiritualGrowth #EmotionalIteligence

This conversation explores the fundamental differences between men and women, emphasizing how these differences can lead to conflict but also serve as strengths when understood and embraced. The discussion covers biological, emotional, and cultural aspects of gender differences, highlighting the importance of communication, risk-taking, and emotional processing in relationships. Dr Lanre advocate for education and awareness to bridge the gap between genders and foster better understanding and collaboration.Takeaways ⁃ Understanding differences can transform conflicts into complements. ⁃ Biological differences between genders influence perception and behavior. ⁃ Men and women communicate differently, often leading to misunderstandings. ⁃ Risk-taking behaviors differ significantly between genders. ⁃ Emotional processing varies, affecting relationship dynamics. ⁃ Cultural conditioning shapes gender roles from childhood. ⁃ Education about gender differences is essential for better relationships. ⁃ Awareness of emotional needs can enhance intimacy and connection. ⁃ Trust and collaboration are key in leveraging gender strengths. ⁃ Gratitude and appreciation for differences foster healthier relationships.Chapters00:00 Understanding Conflict and Complementarity02:02 The Biological Basis of Gender Differences07:56 Communication Styles: Men vs. Women12:54 Risk and Decision-Making: A Gender Perspective17:55 Emotional Processing and Relationships21:17 Cultural Influences on Gender Behavior27:51 Education and Awareness in Gender Dynamics*To get The Catalyst’s 50 Secrets.* Click here https://bit.ly/50secretsofsuccess*Other resources:*• The Catalyst Courses• The Catalyst eBooks• The Catalyst Meditation • The Catalyst Affirmation Click here to access: https://catalystng.selar.co*Get certified in OLCA Coaching Ltd* https://bit.ly/OLCACAL2025*OLCA Coaching Ltd 2025 Course Calendar* https://bit.ly/OLCACAL2025*The Catalyst 2025 Programs*  https://bit.ly/TheCatalyst2025Programs*Follow The Catalyst on Social Media**Instagram* : https://www.instagram.com/lanreolusola*Clubhouse* : https://tinyurl.com/BeTransformedTribeCH*Twitter* : https://x.com/lanreolusola*Tiktok* : https://www.tiktok.com/@lanre_olusola*Facebook* : https://facebook.com/TheCatalystLO#BeTransformedPodcast #DrLanreOlusola  #Relayionships #SpiritualGrowth #GenderRoles #EmotionalIteligence

In this conversation, Dr. Lanre Olusola explores the concept of living by faith in the 21st century, emphasizing the importance of understanding one's identity in Christ and the finished work of Christ. He discusses the difference between belief and faith, introduces the gift of faith, and encourages listeners to manifest their new creation realities. The conversation culminates in a call to action, urging believers to live from a place of authority and power, recognizing their role as ambassadors of Christ.*Takeaways*Living from the finished work of Christ is essential.We are a new breed with access to divine realities.Belief is intellectual, while faith is active trust.The gift of faith empowers believers to manifest God's promises.We are the righteousness of God in Christ, not by our works.Heaven lives within us, shaping our identity and purpose.Believers are called to reign in life and establish God's kingdom.Faith is not about hoping for the future but living in the present reality of Christ's work.We are equipped with authority to overcome challenges and manifest God's glory.Our motivation should be divine love, not fear or guilt.*Chapters*00:00 Introduction to Faith in the 21st Century01:32 Exploring the Finished Work of Christ09:03 Understanding Our New Identity in Christ16:32 The Power of Faith vs. Belief24:20 The Gift of Faith and Its Manifestation28:23 Manifesting the Finished Work of Christ32:28 Understanding Our Identity in Christ36:57 Living from a Place of Abundance41:24 The Authority of the New Creation46:32 The Call to Manifest Heaven on Earth51:15 Embracing Our Role as Ambassadors of Christ*To get The Catalyst’s 50 Secrets.* Click here https://bit.ly/50secretsofsuccess*Other resources:*• The Catalyst Courses• The Catalyst eBooks• The Catalyst Meditation • The Catalyst Affirmation Click here to access: https://catalystng.selar.co*Get certified in OLCA Coaching Ltd* https://bit.ly/OLCACAL2025*OLCA Coaching Ltd 2025 Course Calendar* https://bit.ly/OLCACAL2025*The Catalyst 2025 Programs*  https://bit.ly/TheCatalyst2025Programs*Follow The Catalyst on Social Media**Instagram* : https://www.instagram.com/lanreolusola*Clubhouse* : https://tinyurl.com/BeTransformedTribeCH*Twitter* : https://x.com/lanreolusola*Tiktok* : https://www.tiktok.com/@lanre_olusola*Facebook* : https://facebook.com/TheCatalystLO#BeTransformedPodcast #DrLanreOlusola  #Beliefvsfaith #Manifestation #SpiritualGrowth

In this conversation, Dr. Lanre Olusola emphasizes the importance of asking the right questions before entering into a marriage. He discusses various categories of questions that couples should explore, including relationship status, values, spirituality, sexual compatibility, and family dynamics. The conversation highlights the significance of self-reflection and emotional intelligence in building a strong foundation for marriage. Dr. Olusola also outlines five essential pillars for a successful relationship, encouraging individuals to engage in deep conversations to avoid future regrets.TakeawaysAsking the right questions is crucial before marriage.Questions reveal the true nature of a partner.Understanding values is key to compatibility.Spiritual beliefs shape relationship dynamics.Sexual compatibility is essential for intimacy.Family background influences relationship success.Observing behavior provides deeper insights.Self-reflection is necessary before committing.Friendship and acceptance are foundational for marriage.Emotional intelligence is vital for a healthy relationship.Chapters00:00 Introduction to Relationship Conversations03:31 The Importance of Questions in Relationships08:49 Critical Categories of Questions Before Marriage13:25 Understanding Relationship and Marital Status15:25 Exploring Values and Beliefs16:49 Religion and Spirituality in Relationships18:49 The Role of Sex in Marriage21:20 Family and Friends: The Social Context of Marriage25:34 Personality and Behavior in Relationships27:08 Navigating Financial Conversations in Relationships29:27 Health and Well-Being: Essential Questions31:37 Aligning Visions for the Future34:31 The Importance of Observation in Relationships38:00 Self-Reflection: Questions to Ask Yourself41:28 Five Pillars of a Strong Marriage44:39 Understanding Red Flags vs. Growth Areas51:23 Affirmations for a Purposeful Relationship*To get The Catalyst’s 50 Secrets.* Click here https://bit.ly/50secretsofsuccess*Other resources:*• The Catalyst Courses• The Catalyst eBooks• The Catalyst Meditation • The Catalyst Affirmation Click here to access: https://catalystng.selar.co*Get certified in OLCA Coaching Ltd* https://bit.ly/OLCACAL2025*OLCA Coaching Ltd 2025 Course Calendar* https://bit.ly/OLCACAL2025*The Catalyst 2025 Programs*  https://bit.ly/TheCatalyst2025Programs*Follow The Catalyst on Social Media**Instagram* : https://www.instagram.com/lanreolusola*Clubhouse* : https://tinyurl.com/BeTransformedTribeCH*Twitter* : https://x.com/lanreolusola*Tiktok* : https://www.tiktok.com/@lanre_olusola*Facebook* : https://facebook.com/TheCatalystLO#BeTransformedPodcast #DrLanreOlusola  #MarriageGoals #RelationshipAudit #Relationships

In this conversation, The Catalyst, Dr. Lanre Olusola delves into the complexities of trauma, particularly childhood trauma, and its long-lasting effects on individuals. He emphasizes the importance of understanding trauma not just as an event but as an internal experience that shapes one's identity and emotional well-being. The discussion covers various aspects of trauma, including its definition, the impact of childhood experiences, coping mechanisms, and the path to healing. Dr. Olusola provides insights into effective treatments and the necessity of addressing trauma to prevent its generational transmission.TakeawaysTrauma is not the event itself, but how we internalize it.Childhood trauma can dictate future emotional responses and relationships.Healing from trauma involves reconnecting with one's true self.Coping mechanisms are essential for those unable to escape traumatic environments.Trauma can manifest in adulthood through various dysfunctional behaviors.Effective trauma healing requires a holistic approach, addressing mind, body, and spirit.Awareness of triggers is crucial for managing trauma responses.Supportive communities can aid in the healing process.Therapy and coaching are vital for achieving wholeness after trauma.Trauma can be passed down through generations, affecting future relationships. *To get The Catalyst’s 50 Secrets.* Click here https://bit.ly/50secretsofsuccess*Other resources:*• The Catalyst Courses• The Catalyst eBooks• The Catalyst Meditation • The Catalyst Affirmation Click here to access: https://catalystng.selar.co*Get certified in OLCA Coaching Ltd* https://bit.ly/OLCACAL2025*OLCA Coaching Ltd 2025 Course Calendar* https://bit.ly/OLCACAL2025*The Catalyst 2025 Programs*  https://bit.ly/TheCatalyst2025Programs*Follow The Catalyst on Social Media**Instagram* : https://www.instagram.com/lanreolusola*Clubhouse* : https://tinyurl.com/BeTransformedTribeCH*Twitter* : https://x.com/lanreolusola*Tiktok* : https://www.tiktok.com/@lanre_olusola*Facebook* : https://facebook.com/TheCatalystLO#BeTransformedPodcast #DrLanreOlusola #SpiritualGrowth #PersonalGrowth #TraumaRecovery #TraumaHealing #Healing

In this transformative conversation, *Dr. Lanre Olusola* explores the duality of life, emphasizing the importance of resilience and patience in overcoming life's challenges. Through personal anecdotes and scriptural references, he illustrates how trials serve as a curriculum for growth and development. The discussion includes case studies of Job, Joseph, and Jesus, highlighting their journeys through adversity and the lessons learned. Ultimately, the message encourages listeners to embrace their struggles as part of God's grand design and to find strength in community and faith.*Takeaways*Life is dual in nature, encompassing both highs and lows.Trials are not interruptions but part of the curriculum for growth.Patience is essential for achieving wholeness and maturity.Joy is a source of strength, not just an emotion.Endurance is a key trait of those who overcome challenges.Every setback can be a setup for a greater comeback.Community support is vital during difficult times.Cognitive reframing can help shift perspectives on trials.God's promises provide hope and direction in tough times.Pain serves as feedback for personal growth and awareness.*Chapters*00:00 The Power of Storytelling and Transformation00:18 Understanding Life's Challenges01:35 The Duality of Life06:56 Embracing God's Grand Design14:07 The Curriculum of Life21:35 Scriptural Insights for Strength29:16 Lessons from Trials and Growth30:52 The Power of Joy in Trials34:34 Cognitive Reframing and Gratitude37:41 Finding Strength in Community41:22 Case Studies of Resilience: Job, Joseph, and Jesus52:03 The RISE Method: Overcoming Adversity56:25 Embracing Pain as Growth59:56 Podcast outro.mp4*To get The Catalyst’s 50 Secrets.* Click here https://bit.ly/50secretsofsuccess*Other resources:*• The Catalyst Courses• The Catalyst eBooks• The Catalyst Meditation • The Catalyst Affirmation Click here to access: https://catalystng.selar.co*Get certified in OLCA Coaching Ltd* https://bit.ly/OLCACAL2025*OLCA Coaching Ltd 2025 Course Calendar* https://bit.ly/OLCACAL2025*The Catalyst 2025 Programs*  https://bit.ly/TheCatalyst2025Programs*Follow The Catalyst on Social Media**Instagram* : https://www.instagram.com/lanreolusola*Clubhouse* : https://tinyurl.com/BeTransformedTribeCH*Twitter* : https://x.com/lanreolusola*Tiktok* : https://www.tiktok.com/@lanre_olusola*Facebook* : https://facebook.com/TheCatalystLO#BeTransformedPodcast #DrLanreOlusola #SpiritualGrowth #PersonalGrowth

In this enlightening conversation, Dr. Lanre Olusola explores the profound *significance of names, emphasizing their spiritual, psychological, and cultural implications.* He discusses the case of Jabez, illustrating how names can shape identity and destiny. The conversation delves into various cultural perspectives on naming, the power of God's names, and biblical examples of name changes that reflect transformation. Dr. Olusola provides practical steps for individuals to change their names and embrace their new identities in Christ, encouraging listeners to reject negative labels and live in alignment with their divine purpose.*Takeaways*Your name is not just a word; it carries power.Names can activate something spiritual within you.Jabez's story illustrates the impact of a name.Names are prophetic declarations of identity.Cultural traditions around names reveal their significance.The names of God carry immense power and authority.Biblical name changes signify transformation and new destinies.You can change your name to align with your purpose.Living in your new identity empowers you spiritually.Reject negative names and embrace your God-given identity.TitlesThe Transformative Power of NamesUnlocking Your Identity Through NamingChapters00:00 Introduction to the Power of Names01:20 The Significance of Naming08:01 The Story of Jabez: A Name's Impact10:18 The Spiritual Essence of Names16:33 Cultural Perspectives on Names22:50 The Names of God and Their Power28:20 The Power of Names and Identity32:15 Transforming Your Identity Through Name Change36:01 Seven Steps to a New Name39:17 The Significance of Jesus' Names45:39 Understanding Our New Identity in Christ59:02 Podcast outro.mp4*To get The Catalyst’s 50 Secrets.* Click here https://bit.ly/50secretsofsuccess*Other resources:*• The Catalyst Courses• The Catalyst eBooks• The Catalyst Meditation • The Catalyst Affirmation Click here to access: https://catalystng.selar.co*Get certified in OLCA Coaching Ltd* https://bit.ly/OLCACAL2025*OLCA Coaching Ltd 2025 Course Calendar* https://bit.ly/OLCACAL2025*The Catalyst 2025 Programs*  https://bit.ly/TheCatalyst2025Programs*Follow The Catalyst on Social Media**Instagram* : https://www.instagram.com/lanreolusola*Clubhouse* : https://tinyurl.com/BeTransformedTribeCH*Twitter* : https://x.com/lanreolusola*Tiktok* : https://www.tiktok.com/@lanre_olusola*Facebook* : https://facebook.com/TheCatalystLO#BeTransformedPodcast #DrLanreOlusola #SpiritualGrowth #PersonalGrowth

In this enlightening conversation, Dr. Lanre Olusola explores the themes of *greed and contentment,* emphasizing how the insatiable desire for more can lead to dissatisfaction and burnout. He discusses the deceptive nature of greed, the importance of recognizing one's blessings, and the transformative power of contentment. Through reflective questions and practical steps, he guides listeners towards a more fulfilling life rooted in gratitude and self-awareness.*Takeaways*: Greed is a deceptive trap that leads to dissatisfaction.Contentment is the antidote to greed, rooted in gratitude.Living in greed can lead to burnout and broken relationships.Ambition is healthy, but greed consumes and destroys.Recognizing and celebrating your blessings is crucial.Establishing boundaries is essential to combat unhealthy desires.Practicing gratitude daily can help disarm greed.Contentment leads to peace of mind and healthier relationships.Social media can amplify feelings of greed and inadequacy.Choosing God and embracing contentment leads to true fulfillment.*Chapters*00:00 Understanding Greed and Its Consequences05:29 The Antidote to Greed: Embracing Contentment10:36 Defining Greed and Contentment19:14 Root Causes of Greed20:40 Distinguishing Ambition from Greed22:37 Steps to Overcome Greed29:09 Benefits of Contentment29:59 Developing Contentment: Key Steps34:41 The Role of Society in Greed Culture39:19 Choosing God Over Greed44:19 Podcast outro.mp4*To get The Catalyst’s 50 Secrets.* Click here https://bit.ly/50secretsofsuccess*Other resources:*• The Catalyst Courses• The Catalyst eBooks• The Catalyst Meditation • The Catalyst Affirmation Click here to access: https://catalystng.selar.co*Get certified in OLCA Coaching Ltd* https://bit.ly/OLCACAL2025*OLCA Coaching Ltd 2025 Course Calendar* https://bit.ly/OLCACAL2025*The Catalyst 2025 Programs*  https://bit.ly/TheCatalyst2025Programs*Follow The Catalyst on Social Media**Instagram* : https://www.instagram.com/lanreolusola*Clubhouse* : https://tinyurl.com/BeTransformedTribeCH*Twitter* : https://x.com/lanreolusola*Tiktok* : https://www.tiktok.com/@lanre_olusola*Facebook* : https://facebook.com/TheCatalystLO#BeTransformedPodcast #DrLanreOlusola #EmotionalHealing #SpiritualGrowth #PersonalGrowth

In this conversation, Dr. Lanre Olusola explores the multifaceted nature of loyalty, emphasizing its impact on relationships, destiny, and legacy. He discusses the importance of understanding different perspectives on loyalty, illustrated through biblical case studies such as David and Jonathan. The conversation delves into the dynamics of good, bad, and ugly loyalty, urging listeners to evaluate their own loyalties and align them with purpose and truth. Dr. Olusola concludes with practical steps to break free from negative loyalties and cultivate positive ones that enhance personal growth and fulfillment.*Takeaways*How we see things influences what we perceive.Different perspectives lead to a deeper understanding.Loyalty can be celebrated but also misinterpreted.Good loyalty aligns with truth and purpose.Bad loyalty can lead to compromise and pain.Ugly loyalty can enslave and manipulate individuals.Evaluate your relationships to discern loyalty types.Loyalty can shape destinies and legacies.Detachment from toxic loyalties is an act of faith.True loyalty must be anchored in God and purpose.*Chapters*00:00 Understanding Perception and Perspective01:13 The Concept of True Loyalty04:59 The Good, Bad, and Ugly of Loyalty10:41 Dynamic Nature of Loyalty14:07 Exploring Good Loyalty22:11 Case Studies of Loyalty25:10 The Essence of Good Loyalty27:12 Understanding Bad Loyalty30:14 The Consequences of Blind Loyalty33:23 Identifying and Escaping Bad Loyalty37:41 The Dangers of Ugly Loyalty43:15 Practical Steps to Cultivate Good Loyalty46:50 The Complexity of Loyalty and Purpose51:56 BT Outro .mp4*To get The Catalyst’s 50 Secrets.* Click here https://bit.ly/50secretsofsuccess*Other resources:*• The Catalyst Courses• The Catalyst eBooks• The Catalyst Meditation • The Catalyst Affirmation Click here to access: https://catalystng.selar.co*Get certified in OLCA Coaching Ltd* https://bit.ly/OLCACAL2025*OLCA Coaching Ltd 2025 Course Calendar* https://bit.ly/OLCACAL2025*The Catalyst 2025 Programs*  https://bit.ly/TheCatalyst2025Programs*Follow The Catalyst on Social Media**Instagram* : https://www.instagram.com/lanreolusola*Clubhouse* : https://tinyurl.com/BeTransformedTribeCH*Twitter* : https://x.com/lanreolusola*Tiktok* : https://www.tiktok.com/@lanre_olusola*Facebook* : https://facebook.com/TheCatalystLO#BeTransformedPodcast #DrLanreOlusola #Loyalty #HealthyBoundaries #EmotionalHealing #SpiritualGrowth #PersonalGrowth

*Welcome to The Be Transformed Podcast with Dr. Lanre Olusola (The Catalyst)*They may look charming. They may sound convincing. But behind the mask often lies *control, deceit, and manipulation.*In this powerful episode of the *Be Transformed Podcast*, we uncover the truth about *LOVE vs. POSSESSION* and how to break free from the grip of toxic relationships, narcissists, and manipulators.If you’ve ever:🔘 Felt drained in a relationship🔘 Said “yes” when your heart screamed “no”🔘 Been silenced, manipulated, or controlled…this episode will help you reclaim your power, peace, and freedom.*What you’ll learn in this episode:* • Why love is not control, possession, or imprisonment • How to spot the difference between genuine love and manipulation • Practical steps to break free from toxic cycles • How to set healthy emotional, physical, and spiritual boundaries • The role of awareness, detachment, and support in your healing journeyMany leaders, professionals, and everyday people silently endure the *grip of narcissists*—whether at work, in family, or in spiritual communities. This conversation will equip you with practical, life-transforming tools to finally say: Enough is enough.Truth is coming and the truth will set you free.Listen now, share with someone who needs this, and don’t forget to subscribe + turn on notifications so you never miss an episode.*To get The Catalyst’s 50 Secrets.* Click here https://bit.ly/50secretsofsuccess*Other resources:*• The Catalyst Courses• The Catalyst eBooks• The Catalyst Meditation • The Catalyst Affirmation Click here to access: https://catalystng.selar.co*Get certified in OLCA Coaching Ltd* https://bit.ly/OLCACAL2025*OLCA Coaching Ltd 2025 Course Calendar* https://bit.ly/OLCACAL2025*The Catalyst 2025 Programs*  https://bit.ly/TheCatalyst2025Programs*Follow The Catalyst on Social Media**Instagram* : https://www.instagram.com/lanreolusola*Clubhouse* : https://tinyurl.com/BeTransformedTribeCH*Twitter* : https://x.com/lanreolusola*Tiktok* : https://www.tiktok.com/@lanre_olusola*Facebook* : https://facebook.com/TheCatalystLO#BeTransformedPodcast #DrLanreOlusola #TheCatalyst #LoveVsPossession #ToxicRelationships #NarcissisticAbuse #EmotionalFreedom #BreakFreeFromManipulation #HealthyBoundaries #ReclaimYourPower #EmotionalHealing #SpiritualGrowth #PersonalGrowth #RelationshipHealing #InnerTransformation