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What happens when a memory changes the way you experience your body, your relationships, and your future choices? And what does it actually mean to recode the moment that changed your trajectory? In this episode of Decoded, Elisabeth McKay takes listeners inside her Somatic Movement Practitioner (SMP) training and explores ReCode, a body-based process she developed through years of work involving hypnotherapy, somatic practices, subconscious memory, and spiritual discernment. Fresh from an SMP practitioner graduation in Scottsdale, Elisabeth reflects on a full-circle moment in her career: from studying with past-life regression pioneer Dolores Cannon at 19 to developing a modality that approaches memory, trauma, and personal change through an entirely different framework. The central question: What if the moment that shaped a recurring pattern is not the moment you have to remain defined by? Elisabeth shares how she understands ReCode, why she moved away from traditional past-life regression, and how her Christian faith informs the spiritual boundaries she brings to this work. In this episode: The origins of ReCode: How Elisabeth's early training with Dolores Cannon influenced her eventual development of the SMP process. The prophecy that shaped her career: A chance encounter in Boulder, Colorado, and a message she received during her training with Dolores. Why she stopped practicing past-life regression: Her concerns about spiritual authority, client intention, and the interpretation of subconscious experiences. Quantum mechanics and parallel timelines: How Elisabeth uses the television series Dark Matter to illustrate her interpretation of emotional states, choice points, and alternative life trajectories. Faith, fear, and spiritual discernment: Why she distinguishes between spiritual power and spiritual authority. Source points and subconscious memory: How ReCode practitioners guide clients toward specific memories connected to the patterns they want to address. What happens during a ReCode session: Body awareness, non-leading questions, tension testing, and the process of working with a specific memory. Elisabeth's personal experience: A childhood memory involving her father and a later conversation that gave her an opportunity to respond differently. The future of mental health: Why Elisabeth believes cognitive, somatic, and spiritual approaches should be considered together rather than kept in separate disciplines. Throughout the conversation, Elisabeth distinguishes her personal experiences and spiritual interpretations from established scientific findings. Her descriptions of quantum timelines, distant scanning, and physical changes following ReCode reflect her own framework and observations, not established clinical evidence. She also explains why Break Method and Predictive Mind remain secular programs, while SMP explicitly addresses spiritual beliefs and practitioner authority. Watch the full episode for a closer look at the origins of ReCode, the questions guiding Elisabeth's work, and the experiences that shaped her approach. 🔗 Learn more about the Somatic Movement Practitioner Certification: https://elisabethmckay.com/somatic-certification 🔗 Find out your Brain Pattern Type: https://predictivemind.io/ 🔗 Learn about Rapid Emotional Rewiring: https://breakmethod.com/ 🔗 Grab a Copy of Your Brain is a Filthy Liar: https://www.amazon.com/YOUR-BRAIN-FILTHY-LIAR-Self-Deception/dp/1967424284/ 🔗 My Peptide Supplier: https://elliemd.com/bizziegold 🔗 The Only Sauna I Recommend: https://www.healingsauna.com/bizzie?rfsn=8731070.5183d1 (Use CODE: BGHEAL for $200 OFF + Free Shipping) Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Procrastination isn't always a time management problem. What if it's a commitment problem that began in childhood? You know what needs to get done. You understand the consequences of putting it off. And yet, your brain produces a perfectly reasonable explanation for why you should do something else first. In this episode of Decoded, Elisabeth McKay examines the childhood roots of procrastination, the psychological mechanisms behind chronic delay, and how to interrupt those patterns through the Break Method. Elisabeth explores why procrastination can develop when children aren't taught to make decisions, follow through on commitments, tolerate discomfort, and recognize the consequences of their choices. She also challenges the idea that procrastination is simply laziness. In her framework, procrastination often involves distorted perceptions of time, minimization, chaotic prioritization, avoidance, and an inability to commit when a task becomes uncomfortable. The problem isn't necessarily that you don't know what to do. It's that you've learned how to justify not doing it. In this episode, Elisabeth breaks down: The childhood roots of procrastination: How early experiences with responsibility, decision-making, and follow-through can influence adult behavior. Minimization and delay: The internal rationalizations that make putting something off sound reasonable. Chaotic prioritization: When your brain convinces you that another task is more important than the one you're avoiding. All-or-nothing thinking: Why refusing to make incremental progress can keep simple responsibilities unfinished. Distorted time perception: How overestimating difficult tasks and underestimating enjoyable ones contributes to procrastination. Self-trust and self-efficacy: Why children need opportunities to make decisions, take action, and experience appropriate consequences. Timers and focused work sprints: How defined periods of effort can help interrupt avoidance and build commitment. Parenting and follow-through: Teaching children to make informed decisions, finish what they start, and develop emotional resilience without relying on shame. Pattern opposition: Recognizing the exact moment your brain attempts to justify delay and choosing a different response. Through examples involving household responsibilities, schoolwork, restaurant orders, children's activities, and her own experiences with procrastination, Elisabeth illustrates how these patterns develop and how they can be challenged. Her central argument is direct: Procrastination is a commitment problem. And overcoming it requires learning to commit before your brain talks you out of taking action. Watch the full episode and identify the rationalization you use most often when you avoid something that needs to get done. 🔗 Find out your Brain Pattern Type: https://predictivemind.io/ 🔗 Learn about Rapid Emotional Rewiring: https://breakmethod.com/ 🔗 Grab a Copy of Your Brain is a Filthy Liar: https://www.amazon.com/YOUR-BRAIN-FILTHY-LIAR-Self-Deception/dp/1967424284/ 🔗 My Peptide Supplier: https://elliemd.com/bizziegold 🔗 The Only Sauna I Recommend: https://www.healingsauna.com/bizzie?rfsn=8731070.5183d1 (Use CODE: BGHEAL for $200 OFF + Free Shipping) Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What if your doomscrolling isn't about boredom at all? What if you're unconsciously choosing content that reinforces the exact emotional patterns you're trying to break? In this episode of Decoded, Elisabeth McKay examines why we repeatedly reach for social media, news, podcasts, television, and other forms of media consumption—even when the content leaves us feeling more anxious, inadequate, distracted, or disconnected from our actual priorities. Through the Break Method framework, Elisabeth explores how emotional triggers, unconscious behavioral patterns, and self-sabotage influence what we consume. She challenges the assumption that scrolling is a reward, that constant information is productive, and that deleting an app automatically changes the psychological mechanism behind the behavior. The issue isn't simply how much time you spend on your phone. It's what you're trying to feel, avoid, reinforce, or escape when you reach for it. In this episode, Elisabeth breaks down: The when, where, and why of media consumption: Identifying the times, environments, and emotional states that trigger automatic scrolling. Comparison and copycat behavior: Why some people repeatedly consume content from individuals they admire while reinforcing inadequacy, resentment, and negative self-talk. Fear-based consumption: How news, true crime, health searches, and cultural commentary can become tools for confirming existing fears. Imagination and escape: When researching, planning, or consuming inspirational content replaces meaningful action in the real world. Sexualized media consumption: Examining whether the content you're consuming supports or undermines your stated relationship and personal priorities. The rationalization mechanism: How seemingly reasonable explanations disguise the emotional purpose of a behavior. Pattern opposition: A practical exercise for observing urges, documenting justifications, delaying consumption, and redirecting behavior toward actual goals. Digital boundaries: Why phone baskets, algorithm cleanup, and intentional device restrictions can become useful after identifying the underlying pattern. The importance of analog time: What happens when you stop filling every quiet moment with stimulation and begin paying attention to your own thoughts. Elisabeth also shares her own experiences with scrolling, parenting, and anxiety to illustrate how media consumption can become part of a larger behavioral cycle. Her central challenge is direct: Are your consumption habits moving you toward the life you say you want—or are they reinforcing the patterns keeping you from it? Watch the full episode, identify your dominant consumption pattern, and consider what your scrolling behavior is taking away from your relationships, responsibilities, and personal goals. 🔗 Find out your Brain Pattern Type: https://predictivemind.io/ 🔗 Learn about Rapid Emotional Rewiring: https://breakmethod.com/ 🔗 Grab a Copy of Your Brain is a Filthy Liar: https://www.amazon.com/YOUR-BRAIN-FILTHY-LIAR-Self-Deception/dp/1967424284/ 🔗 My Peptide Supplier: https://elliemd.com/bizziegold 🔗 The Only Sauna I Recommend: https://www.healingsauna.com/bizzie?rfsn=8731070.5183d1 (Use CODE: BGHEAL for $200 OFF + Free Shipping) Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Self-trust determines whether you can act on what you perceive—or whether you immediately look outside yourself for reassurance, validation, permission, or someone else to take over. This episode is an excerpt from a lecture series Elisabeth originally taught on renewing the mind through a biblical and psychological framework. Elisabeth McKay breaks down how self-trust is built through childhood, how parenting can unintentionally damage it, and what adults can do when they realize they were never taught to trust themselves in the first place. She also connects self-trust to self-efficacy, independence, discernment, and her Christian framework for following God and responding to the Holy Spirit. Self-trust isn't the same as confidence. Elisabeth describes it as the ability to trust what you're thinking, feeling, and perceiving enough to move forward. Self-efficacy is the next step: believing you can actually execute. When those mechanisms aren't developed, the consequences can show up as second-guessing, overanalysis, learned helplessness, neediness, dependence on perceived authorities, susceptibility to groupthink, and difficulty making decisions without reassurance. For parents, this creates a different question: Are you helping your child become capable—or repeatedly communicating that they need you to function? Using examples from raising her own children, Elisabeth examines the small moments that can either strengthen or undermine self-trust: letting a toddler pour the juice, allowing a child to make an informed clothing choice, resisting the impulse to rescue a child from a manageable challenge, and asking strategic questions instead of immediately supplying the answer. She also explores: The relationship between self-trust and self-efficacy How parental enabling can create dependency Why a parent's anxiety can interrupt a child's confidence Letting children experience manageable struggle Why mistakes and mess can be necessary inputs for independence Giving children realistic information before allowing them to choose Montessori principles and self-directed learning Why Elisabeth believes ages two through five are especially important Asking strategic questions instead of immediately rescuing How concern with appearances can undermine a child's self-trust Second-guessing and overanalysis as signs of damaged self-trust Learned helplessness and dependence on authority Self-trust, emotional regulation, and spiritual discernment Why Elisabeth warns against automatically outsourcing beliefs to pastors, experts, influencers, or groups Groupthink and cultural pressure The relationship between self-trust and honest self-reflection Using "fear dates" to confront avoidance and rigidity Rebuilding self-trust through repeated pattern opposition Elisabeth's prayer points for identifying where self-trust was damaged Within Elisabeth's faith framework, the consequence extends beyond decision-making. She argues that continually doubting yourself can make it harder to discern what you believe God is asking you to do—while emotional reactivity, fear, and projection can make that discernment even more difficult. The objective isn't believing you're always right. It's developing the capacity to think, assess, act, learn from the outcome, and take responsibility without constantly handing your authority to someone else. Watch the full episode and ask yourself: when did you stop trusting yourself—and what do you do every day that continues reinforcing that pattern? 🔗 Find out your Brain Pattern Type: https://predictivemind.io/ 🔗 Learn about Rapid Emotional Rewiring: https://breakmethod.com/ 🔗 Grab a Copy of Your Brain is a Filthy Liar: https://www.amazon.com/YOUR-BRAIN-FILTHY-LIAR-Self-Deception/dp/1967424284/ 🔗 My Peptide Supplier: https://elliemd.com/bizziegold 🔗 The Only Sauna I Recommend: https://www.healingsauna.com/bizzie?rfsn=8731070.5183d1 (Use CODE: BGHEAL for $200 OFF + Free Shipping) Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What happens when the system you trusted to explain the human mind stops making sense to you? In this episode of Decoded, Elisabeth McKay sits down with psychiatrist and author Dr. Kelly Brogan for a wide-ranging conversation about psychiatry, medication, personal responsibility, nervous system regulation, victim consciousness, authority, relationships, feminism, AI, and what Kelly describes as the maturational movement from compliance to defiance—and eventually toward greater neutrality and sovereignty. Kelly traces that evolution through her own life: from training inside conventional psychiatry and prescribing medication, to questioning the model after her own Hashimoto's diagnosis, to becoming an outspoken activist against systems she once trusted. But she doesn't stop there. She describes eventually recognizing that defiance can keep you psychologically tethered to the same authority you're trying to escape. That realization becomes the thread running through this conversation. Elisabeth and Kelly examine what happens when patients give authority over their bodies to doctors, when diagnoses become part of identity, and when the role of victim, villain, and rescuer begins organizing how we understand our struggles. Kelly also reflects on the guilt she experienced over her earlier medical practice and why her subsequent activism eventually became another identity she needed to question. They also explore: Kelly's journey from conventional psychiatry to questioning its assumptions The difference between symptom management and Kelly's concept of healing Diagnosis, patient identity, and the needs illness can sometimes fulfill The victim–villain–rescuer triangle Compliance, defiance, and the movement toward sovereignty Why activism can become another form of attachment to an enemy Guilt, responsibility, and changing your beliefs without condemning your past self Wellness dogma and Kelly's 15 years of restrictive eating AI, technology, mental health, and human connection Career, feminism, financial independence, and Kelly's changing beliefs about freedom Nervous system safety, relationships, and self-regulation Anxious and avoidant relational tendencies Responsibility, vulnerability, and changing marriage dynamics What a more integrated "third path" could look like in medicine and relationships This conversation isn't a simple rejection of one system in favor of another. It's about what happens after rejection—when you stop needing an authority to be completely right or completely wrong in order to decide what is true for you. Kelly currently describes her work as holistic psychiatry and centers personal reclamation across health, relationships, and nervous-system regulation. Watch the full conversation and consider where you may still be organizing your choices around an authority you're either obeying—or fighting. 🔗 Find out your Brain Pattern Type: https://predictivemind.io/ 🔗 Learn about Rapid Emotional Rewiring: https://breakmethod.com/ 🔗 Grab a Copy of Your Brain is a Filthy Liar: https://www.amazon.com/YOUR-BRAIN-FILTHY-LIAR-Self-Deception/dp/1967424284/ 🔗 My Peptide Supplier: https://elliemd.com/bizziegold 🔗 The Only Sauna I Recommend: https://www.healingsauna.com/bizzie?rfsn=8731070.5183d1 (Use CODE: BGHEAL for $200 OFF + Free Shipping) Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices