Curveball with Scott Reich

On this powerful episode of Curveball, host Scott Reich sits down with Fawzia and Mustafa Husaini, a couple whose lives were forever changed after the devastating loss of their daughter, Aliza. Through raw and emotional storytelling, they open up about the unimaginable challenges they faced—from the confusion and helplessness of seeking answers to their daughter’s mysterious symptoms, to the heartbreak of finally receiving a life-altering diagnosis.Yet, this conversation goes beyond tragedy. Fawzia and Mustafa share how their journey reshaped their understanding of purpose, gratitude, and connection. Their eloquent reflections reveal how adversity can bring clarity, deepen appreciation for life’s blessings, and inspire a more meaningful existence—even in the face of profound grief.Join Scott as he guides this honest, touching, and ultimately uplifting conversation about resilience, love, and the ways we find strength through life's most difficult curveballs.Listeners Will Learn:Fawzia’s motherly instinct persisted even when professionals dismissed her concerns. Never underestimate the power of intuition.Sometimes, you have to push through resistance and continue seeking answers for what you know is right.Fawzia and Mustafa turned heartbreak into a mission—demonstrating that out of hardship can come newfound purpose.They made a conscious choice to release anger and focus on positive experiences with their daughter, showing that perspective is everything.Building community, sharing stories, and leaning on others remained central to their healing journey.As Scott reflects, everyone faces adversity in life—it’s how we respond that shapes our journey.The couple’s gratitude for their palliative care team and community highlights how vital it is to let others in.Their commitment to creating joyful memories—even in the face of loss—is a reminder to appreciate small moments with those we love.By openly sharing their journey, Fawzia and Mustafa inspire others to find hope, strength, and meaning—even amidst the unimaginable.Key Moments:(00:00) Unexpected Encounter Changes Everything(03:32) Finding Common Ground Instantly(07:20) Balancing MBA, Baby, and Challenges(10:59) Struggling with Infant Colic Challenges(14:49) Curveballs of Parenthood and Life(18:34) Intuition, Connection, and Rare Diseases(21:48) Life-Changing News Delivered Suddenly(26:21) Strength and Purpose Amid Tragedy(29:06) Life-Changing Diagnosis Realization(31:15) Love and Create Lasting Memories(35:05) Finding Strength and Gratitude(38:00) Get Busy Living or Get Busy Dying

On this episode of Curveball, host Scott Reich welcomes Dr. Nadine Macaluso—known as Dr. Nae—a renowned trauma therapist and survivor of a high-profile, toxic relationship with the real-life “Wolf of Wall Street,” Jordan Belfort, portrayed by Leonardo DiCaprio in the Oscar-nominated film. Dr. Nae opens up about her journey from being swept off her feet by a charming, powerful partner to recognizing the harrowing patterns of coercion, manipulation, and trauma bonding. Drawing from her personal story and her professional expertise, Dr. Nae breaks down what trauma bonds really are, how to spot the red flags, and why so many people struggle to leave unhealthy relationships.You’ll hear insights about the psychological roots of toxic relationship patterns, the challenges of escaping them—especially when family and societal expectations get in the way—and the steps people can take to build resilience and heal. Plus, Dr. Nae shares valuable parenting advice for raising emotionally healthy children and offers hope for anyone feeling trapped in a difficult relationship.Whether you’re curious about the realities behind the “Wolf of Wall Street” story, want to understand trauma bonds, or are looking for practical guidance on cultivating healthier relationships, this episode is packed with wisdom, warmth, and encouragement.Listeners Will Learn:Trauma bonds are toxic, dysfunctional relationships built on emotional attachment, power imbalance, and cycles of extreme kindness and then cruelty.The pattern of alternating between "love bombing" and abusive behavior creates strong psychological ties, making it hard to leave.Watch for dynamics where one person holds—and abuses—control, whether through resources, intimidation, or emotional leverage.It’s not about one-off incidents; persistent patterns of disrespect, betrayal, and coercion signal a trauma bond.If you consistently feel something is “off” in your body or gut, don’t dismiss those signals. They’re often your best guide.It often takes multiple attempts for someone to exit a trauma bond; preparation, support, and safety planning are essential.Most individuals who create these toxic dynamics do not change unless they truly want to—a rare occurrence.Personality patterns and relationship dynamics often stem from early childhood experiences, including abuse or entitlement, coupled with biological predispositions.Validate your children’s feelings, balance boundary-setting, and model healthy relationships—children learn from what you do, not just what you say.Surround yourself with helpers—therapists, educational resources, supportive communities—and know you’re not alone. Healing and growth are possible.Key Moments:(00:00) Understanding Trauma Bonds(04:40) Trust Intuition, Recognize Patterns(09:49) Coercive Relationship Pressures Unfold(12:11) Navigating Toxic Relationships while Trapped(16:26) Can Insight Be Developed?(20:13) Patriarchy and Societal Challenges(22:21) Parenting Advice on Values(26:22) Parenting: Balancing Complexity and Individuality(28:36) Breaking Habits, Rewiring Behavior(32:27)...

Welcome to this episode of Curveball, where host Scott Reich sits down with renowned performance coach, keynote speaker, and author Alan Stein Jr. for an honest and deeply personal conversation about resilience, growth, and the art of responding to life's biggest challenges.In this episode, Alan opens up about the adversity he's faced—from career pivots and burnout to navigating divorce and confronting old patterns shaped by childhood experiences. You'll hear how Alan has transformed setbacks into powerful life lessons, sharing how a "Next Play Mentality" helps him—and can help all of us—move forward thoughtfully instead of reacting impulsively.Together, Alan and Scott break down practical strategies for dealing with disappointment, fear, and shame, emphasizing the importance of self-awareness, slowing down, and giving ourselves grace. If you’re looking for inspiration and actionable insights to help you handle life's curveballs and become a better version of yourself, this episode delivers a candid roadmap for doing just that.Tune in for a meaningful conversation about how to turn adversity into advantage, why growth is an ongoing journey, and how we can all prepare for our next play.Listeners Will Learn:Alan Stein Jr. talks about viewing his upcoming 50th birthday as "halftime" and preparing for the next 50 years. The concept of a “Next Play Mentality” is central to Alan’s philosophy. Alan candidly discusses his experience with divorce and how, with time, he now sees it as one of the best things that happened to him. Shame was a recurring theme, especially connected to failed relationships and perceived expectations.Both Scott and Alan mentioned the importance of slowing down before responding to emotional triggers. Alan openly shares his ongoing struggle with people-pleasing and the baggage carried from childhood. The analogy of skiing down a new hill versus the well-grooved paths we’re accustomed to is used to describe forming new habits. Scott and Alan discuss the value of practicing grace with yourself and others. Regulating emotions, rather than letting them dictate actions, is described as a foundational skill.Alan says, “None of this is easy. If it was, I’d have figured it out by now.” Key Moments:(00:00) Halftime Optimism at age 50(04:12) Next Play Mentality(09:44) Internal Struggles and Inherited Trauma(12:51) Awakening Through Divorce and Healing(15:25) Burnout from a Dream Job (19:52) Embracing Emotions with Intentionality(22:01) Practicing the Art of Slowing Down (26:50) Embracing Discomfort Builds Strength(30:19) Lincoln's Letter-Burning Practice(33:21) Emotional Awareness and Regulation(36:29) None of This Is Easy(37:37) Growth and Resilience Insights

On today’s episode of Curveball, host Scott Reich welcomes Maria Trusa—author, entrepreneur, human rights advocate, and survivor. At just nine years old, Maria experienced profound trauma that nearly destroyed her, both physically and emotionally. In this moving conversation, Maria shares how she endured and ultimately forgave the perpetrator of her abuse, embodying her hallmark phrase: forgive to live. Together, Scott and Maria explore the painful legacy of trauma, the power of forgiveness, and the ongoing journey toward healing. Maria’s candid reflections reveal how dark moments can both shape us and propel us toward the light, offering solace and hope to anyone carrying the weight of unimaginable hardship. Get ready for a deeply personal episode that challenges us to embrace compassion, curiosity, and above all, the possibility of renewal.Listens Will Learn:● Maria Trusa emphasizes the concept of "forgive to live."● Maria talks about trauma being like a cancer that’s eating you inside.● Scott and Maria both mention the generational transmission of trauma.● Maria describes feeling completely disconnected from her emotions for years and refers to this as a superpower that became a barrier.● The episode discusses the impact of silence and stigma around mental health and sexual abuse, especially in childhood.● Maria talks about the importance of curiosity in forgiveness and healing.● She forgave her father only after she confronted her own actions and shortcomings as a parent.Key Moments:(00:00) Forgive to Live(03:19) Father's Night of Destruction(06:53) Journey to Forgiveness(12:18) Journey of Love(16:16) Forgiveness and My Father's Dying Wish(18:39) Good People, Ugly Actions(23:58) Understanding Trauma and Humanity(27:36) Forgiveness, Responsibility, and Healing(31:44) Healing, Trauma, and Forgiveness(35:07) Emphasizing Mental Wellness Support(36:03) Transforming Trauma into Growth

Welcome back to Curveball. In this powerful episode, Scott Reich sits down with keynote speaker, lawyer, and author, Judd Shaw, whose life took a dramatic turn behind the glittering facade of professional success. Judd opens up about his battle with drug addiction, burnout, and the deep loneliness that almost destroyed him—all while he was running a thriving law firm and enjoying every outward sign of achievement.With raw honesty, Judd shares his journey from hitting rock bottom—including an arrest when he nearly gave up—to rebuilding his life through vulnerability, connection, and self-acceptance. He talks about how childhood trauma and a relentless pursuit of external validation shaped his choices, and the difficult but inspiring work it took to chart a new path.Drawing from his upcoming memoir, How to Live Authentically: The Surprising Cure for Loneliness and Disconnection, Judd explores the surprising cure for loneliness, the courage required to share our messy stories, and the liberating power of asking for help. This is an episode for anyone who’s ever struggled beneath the surface, or wondered how to move forward from the hardest moments life can throw.What Listeners Will Learn:Judd Shaw talks about building a life that "didn't allow for the real me."Judd describes a cycle of achievement and addiction, feeling celebrated on the outside while unraveling internally.Validation can be so powerful, even when it doesn’t align with our internal reality.The episode discusses the concept of connection as essential for safety (as opposed to just the absence of threat).Judd shares that family history and childhood trauma shaped his struggles.The show highlights the importance of asking for help at rock bottom.There is a theme of shame thriving in secrecy and the power of sharing your story.Discussion of the idea: “clifftop”—reaching the pinnacle of external success but still feeling empty or disconnected.Judd’s journey included recognizing and shedding the “mask” he wore.Key Moments:(00:00) Judd Shaw's Transformation Story(04:31) Rewind the Clock Discussion(09:23) Childhood Trauma and Belonging(10:59) Chasing Highs and Self-Discovery(16:59) Overcoming Trauma and Loneliness(20:09) Unmasking Truth and Self-Awareness(24:19) Embrace Growth and Acceptance(25:22) Seeking Self Beyond External Validation(31:13) Innocence, Choices, and Redemption

On this episode of Curveball, host Scott Reich sits down with Australian real estate powerhouse Mat Steinwede, whose incredible journey from addiction, homelessness, and the underworld to personal redemption is as dramatic as it is inspiring. In a deeply honest and raw conversation, Mat shares how a single act of mercy from a judge gave him a second chance—and how he rebuilt his life, step by step, after hitting absolute rock bottom.But Mat’s story goes beyond just survival and success. He opens up about the devastating loss of his son, Logan, to suicide, and what it means to find resilience in the face of unimaginable grief. The episode explores themes of addiction, the power of second chances, vulnerability in fatherhood, and practical steps for building a life of meaning—even when life throws its most brutal curveballs.If you’ve ever wondered whether meaningful change is possible after your darkest moments, this conversation will challenge, move, and give you hope.Listeners Will Learn:Mat Steinwede shares that addiction, when harnessed properly, can become a "superpower."Early in the episode, Mat talks about wanting to be "feared" and respected in the underworld.Mat mentions sliding door moments—unexpected chances that changed his path.The episode touches on themes of grief and parenting after unimaginable loss, especially with the passing of Mat’s son, Logan.Mat brings up the power of consistent, positive habits, like doing “11 burpees a day.”The episode highlights the importance of support networks—friends, family, teachers. Mat mentions how living a healthy "peak state" lifestyle helped him move forward.At the end of the episode, Matt invites listeners to pick one thing to change in their lives today.Key Moments:(00:00) Matt's Redemption(05:30) Journey into the Underground Scene(08:11) Drug Habit and Crime Spiral(10:26) Rock Bottom and Rescue(14:46) Redemption and a Judge's Mercy(17:19) Power of Second Chances(19:43) Father Reflects on Loss and Regret(23:22) Struggles, Guidance, and Redemption(27:01) Compassion and Showing Up(30:55) Building Discipline and Self-Growth(33:38) Act Now: Choose Just One Thing to Conquer(36:39) Truth and Hope

Welcome to Curveball, a podcast that explores how we handle life’s most unimaginable challenges—and how some manage to turn adversity into hope. In this episode, host Scott Reich sits down with Liz Scott, co-founder of Alex’s Lemonade Stand Foundation, and shares the remarkable story of her daughter, Alex Scott. Diagnosed with cancer just before her first birthday, Alex’s idea to set up a simple lemonade stand, at age four, sparked a movement that has raised over $400 million for pediatric cancer research.Together, Scott and Liz dive deep into the emotional rollercoaster of facing a child’s life-threatening illness, the raw pain and resilience that comes with loss, and how Alex’s spirit of gratitude and selflessness continues to inspire people nationwide. This is a story of heartbreak, love, and the power of community—showing that even the smallest act of kindness can grow into something with the power to change lives.Tune in to hear Liz share personal insights, lessons learned, and the ongoing legacy that proves hope can endure, no matter the curveballs life throws our way.Listeners Will Learn: Both Liz and Scott talk about the emotional transition from panic to action following their children’s diagnoses. Liz mentioned holding in her emotions to stay in survival mode. Alex’s vision for her lemonade stand evolved from helping herself to wanting to help all children with cancer.The foundation has raised over $400 million for pediatric cancer research. Community and human connection play a role in responding to trauma, according to both Liz and Scott. Liz spoke about how trauma and loss changed her perspective on life, parenting, and relationships. Alex’s quote, “I’m happy for what I have, not unhappy for what I don’t have,” resonated deeply with her parents. Key Moments:(00:00) Grateful Child Sparks a Cause(05:24) Overwhelmed Caretakers' Emotional Journey(07:32) Action vs. Emotion in Adversity(12:00) Resilience and Selflessness in Crisis(13:10) A Child’s Hope and Legacy(19:21) Community Inspires Hope for Change(21:17) Legacy, Connection, and Transformation(23:30) Finding Gratitude Amid Grief(28:41) The Second Mountain of Purpose(31:22) Grateful Despite the Struggles(33:42) Gratitude Shaping Kind Personalities(36:27) Parenting Amid Loss and Balance

On this episode of Curveball, host Scott Reich is joined by Caryn Hirshleifer and her daughter, Jenn Goldman, who share their extraordinary story of resilience in the face of life-altering trauma. Just before turning 31, Jenn suffered a massive brain bleed that left her comatose and on the brink of death—sending her family into an unimaginable world of uncertainty. Together, Jenn and Caryn recount their experiences as chronicled in their powerful book, "In the Face of Catastrophe: How a Traumatic Brain Injury Became a Blessing," and open up about the physical and emotional struggles they endured—alongside the surprising gifts that emerged from the crisis. Listen as they explore themes of grief, loss, hope, and neuroplasticity, revealing the profound ways adversity reshapes identity and relationships, and how a family found strength, purpose, and even blessings through the toughest curveball life could throw.Listeners will Learn:Jenn described feeling as though her life was “falling apart” after her stroke. Both Jenn and her mom, Caryn Hirshleifer, talk about the importance of family and support systems. Scott and Jenn touched on how trauma can affect relationships, sometimes leading to unexpected changes like breakups. Resilience was a recurring theme, especially in how Jenn described herself as “made of stone.” Caryn spoke about the “hidden grief” of caregivers when the person they love survives, but is forever changed. Neuroplasticity provided hope to Jenn in her recovery. Both guests highlight the importance of being “the CEO of your own health.” Scott mentioned the difference between “bouncing back” and “bouncing forward.” The conversation explored how support can be most meaningful when it’s direct and concrete, rather than just well-intentioned. (00:00) Resilience After Catastrophe(06:34) Emergency at Family Store(09:02) Facing Trauma with Resilience(12:28) Coping with Trauma and Recovery(15:04) Lessons from Adversity(19:48) "Web Weaver of Wellness"(23:31) Unique Physical Therapy Journey(26:30) Navigating Patience and Support(30:25) Caregiver's Silent Grief(31:45) Embracing Loss and Resilience(35:22) Unimaginable Medical Struggles Discussed(40:05) Trauma's Liberating Perspective Shift(41:05) Neuroplasticity: Rewiring the Brain

On this episode of Curveball, host Scott Reich sits down with Dr. Brent Fields, CEO of Morgan’s—a groundbreaking nonprofit championing inclusion for the disability community. In an incredibly candid and moving conversation, Brent opens up about his journey as a nonprofit leader and, more intimately, as the father of Chloe, his teenage daughter who lives with an ultra-rare genetic disease. Together, Scott and Brent explore the heartbreaking realities, everyday pivots, and unexpected gifts of parenting a child with severe special needs, touching on universal themes of hope, anticipatory grief, and the power of choice. Their raw, honest dialogue offers wisdom and empathy not just for families touched by rare disease, but for anyone navigating life’s toughest curveballs. Whether you’re seeking solidarity or inspiration to find purpose through adversity, this episode promises meaningful insight and authentic connection.Listeners Will Learn: Both Scott Reich and Dr. Brent Fields talk about “anticipatory grief” and grieving losses that haven’t yet occurred. Brent refers to the “dichotomy” of hope and pain that defines his family’s journey. They discuss how Chloe's diagnosis changed Brent’s and his wife's career paths and family choices. The episode discusses the high rate of divorce among parents caring for severely disabled children. Brent describes the moment his family visited Morgan’s Wonderland, experiencing true inclusion for the first time. Both Scott and Brent mention how trauma or challenge leads to a “simplification” of life and priorities. Brent talks about the “power of choice” even in the face of overwhelming challenges.The episode touches on how well-meaning words from others can sometimes miss the mark. Key Moments:(00:00) A Father's Story: Rare Diagnosis(05:58) Journey Through Diagnosis Challenges(09:12) Living Through Uncertainty Together(10:48) Living Between Grief and Hope(14:08) Redefining Parenthood Through Grief(20:47) Choreography of Hope and Access(22:12) Initially Declining a Job Opportunity(26:58) Never Bored, Always Grateful(30:42) Managing Challenges with Simplicity(34:14) Empathy Gained Through Family Experience(35:48) Discussing Mortality with Our Son(38:57) Understanding Others Through Communication(43:59) Choosing Hope Amid Grief(45:37) The Power of Small Choices

On this episode of Curveball, host Scott Reich welcomes Linda Beigel Schulman, a mother who has transformed personal tragedy into lifelong purpose and advocacy. Linda’s son, Scott Beigel, was a beloved teacher and cross country coach who gave his life to save 31 students during the Parkland school shooting on February 14, 2018. Through powerful storytelling, Linda shares Scott’s journey—from his formative years at summer camp and his unique approach to teaching, to the heroism that defined his final moments. She opens up about the suddenness of loss, the ongoing struggle for reasonable gun safety measures, and her relentless drive to honor Scott’s legacy through the Scott J. Beigel Memorial Fund, which sends underserved children impacted by gun violence to summer sleepaway camp. This moving conversation challenges us all to live with intention and reminds us of the impact one life, lived with heart, can have on countless others.Listeners Will Learn:How Scott Beigel’s experiences at summer camp shaped his approach to teaching and building connections with students.Scott Beigel’s teaching style challenged traditional education methods, and how his students responded to his unique approach.Linda Beigel Schulman shares the moment she learned of her son’s death. The episode touches on the difference between “gun control” and “gun safety.”Linda Beigel Schulman channels her grief into advocacy.The impact of the Scott J. Beigel Memorial Fund: children affected by gun violence attending summer camp through the program.The episode highlights the importance of listening beyond your own perspective. Linda Beigel Schulman tells a powerful story about Scott’s assignment connecting students with relatives abroad. She shares lessons about living for today.Linda Beigel Schulman’s reasonable gun safety advocacy.Key Moments: (00:00) Rejected Position Over Teaching Restrictions(04:08) Embracing the Unexpected Role(07:47) Valentine's Day Unexpected Turn: Parkland Mass Shooting (12:00) Autopsy Notification on Son(14:09) “Show and Tell” is Key to Changing Hearts and Minds (16:32) Gun Safety Amid Tragedy(19:52) Scott's Sacrifice: Saved the Lives of 31 Students(24:28) The Power of Open Dialogue(28:57) Sending Kids to Summer Camp in Scott’s memory (34:03) Live for Today(36:17) Scott Beigel’s Enduring Legacy

Welcome to another episode of Curveball, where host Scott Reich explores how we handle life’s unexpected challenges through the real stories of people who have overcome unimaginable obstacles. In today’s episode, Steph Wagner joins Scott Reich to share her remarkable journey.A former Wall Street investment banker and private equity professional, Steph Wagner stepped away from a high-powered career to raise her children, never expecting her planned “short break” to turn into 13 years away from the workforce. Life took an unexpected turn when she went through a painful divorce, forcing her to rebuild both her personal and financial world from the ground up. Through honest conversation, Steph Wagner reflects on resilience, the intersection of money and freedom, and the importance of self-love and independence—especially for women facing major life curveballs.This episode dives deep into the emotional and practical realities of starting over, the lessons learned from adversity, and how Steph Wagner turned her own struggles into a mission to help other women achieve financial empowerment. Tune in for an inspiring discussion about finding strength in vulnerability, reclaiming your purpose, and learning to soar after life’s biggest setbacks.Listeners Will Learn: Steph Wagner’s journey from a high-achieving Wall Street career to rebuilding her life after a painful divorce.The role of financial independence in personal empowerment, especially for women facing major life changes.Listeners will gain insights into how resilience, self-reflection, and confronting past trauma can lead to personal growth and healing.Listeners will also discover actionable advice for overcoming imposter syndrome and finding the confidence to start anew.The importance of self-care and loving oneself first in order to support others, particularly children, through adversity.The unique challenges women face around financial literacy, the cultural taboos surrounding money, and practical steps for building financial freedom.The inspiration behind Steph Wagner’s book, “Fly! A Woman's Guide to Financial Freedom and Building a Life You Love,” and why she believes every woman deserves the tools, not just the rules, to reclaim their financial future.Key Moments: (00:00) Driven Through Challenges and Grit(03:24) Building Resilience Through Experience(08:31) Imposter Syndrome and Fulfillment(12:04) Flipping the Script(14:16) Defining Moment of Self-Motivation(18:14) Navigating Divorce and Personal Growth(21:26) Parenting Through Childhood Trauma(25:17) Healing Starts With Self-Care(26:53) Sit, Feel, Grow, Look Forward(32:24) Fly: Financial Freedom and Liberation(34:3) Reclaiming Financial Freedom(38:33) Financial Freedom and Overcoming Challenges(40:16) Battling Doubt, Embracing Dreams

On this episode of Curveball, host Scott Reich welcomes Guillermo Söhnlein, co-founder of OceanGate and a trailblazer in extreme exploration. In the aftermath of the tragic Titan submersible disaster—which claimed five lives during a daring dive to the Titanic—headlines focused on blame and controversy. A U.S. Coast Guard Marine Board of Investigation later concluded that OceanGate’s safety procedures were “critically flawed,” citing serious shortcomings in the Titan’s design, certification, testing, maintenance, and inspection. Guillermo, though no longer with the company at the time, takes listeners back to his role in founding OceanGate and witnessing both the rise and tragic fall of cutting-edge underwater exploration. Together, Scott and Guillermo explore the personal lessons, misunderstood facts, and deeper questions that disasters like the Titan implosion force us to reckon with. Get ready for a thoughtful conversation about how we face adversity, how we choose to respond, and what it really means to push the limits.Listeners Will Learn:Guillermo Söhnlein describes the moment when his dream of being an astronaut ended due to his eyesight.The conversation highlights the importance of empathy, especially in dealing with personal setbacks.The episode uses a baseball analogy several times to describe life’s challenges.Guillermo Söhnlein took the unconventional step of dropping out of college seven weeks from graduation as an act of reclaiming control.Both Scott Reich and Guillermo Söhnlein reflect on how life’s challenges can provide opportunities for growth and resilience.The episode delves into the public narrative surrounding the Titan tragedy.Guillermo Söhnlein emphasizes that exploration, whether of space or the ocean, is driven by a vision greater than individual gain.The discussion compares innovation in emerging fields (like submersibles, autonomous vehicles, and space travel).Reflection on the episode’s closing thoughts about empathy and perspective.Key Moments:(05:27) Choose to Live Fully(07:58) Growth Beyond Comfort Zones(13:23) Stepping Out to Redefine Life(16:03) The Blessing of Dropping Out(19:19) Entrepreneurial Journey: OceanGate Origins(26:30) Submersible Search: Media Challenges(28:43) Defending OceanGate: A Split Debate(32:15) Stockton's Legacy as Explorer(35:42) Exploration Requires Courage and Sacrifice(41:11) Inspiring Exploration and Innovation(43:02) Offering Context Amid Division   

Welcome to Curveball, where we dive deep into life's unexpected challenges and discover how to build resilience through real-life stories. In this episode, host Scott Reich sits down with Dave Aizer—television host, public speaking coach, writer, TEDx speaker, and survivor of stage three melanoma. Beyond his on-screen career, Dave Aizer shares the raw and transformative journey that cancer threw his way.We hear about the anxiety and vulnerability that came with his diagnosis, the physical impacts and mental hurdles—including battling Fry’s Syndrome—and how moments of crisis shaped his perspective on parenthood, purpose, and the power of not sweating the small stuff. Through humor, honesty, and practical advice, this episode explores how to embrace life's curveballs, build strength from adversity, and appreciate the everyday moments that make life truly meaningful.Listeners Will Learn: “Survivor” doesn’t mean moving on—it means adapting. Dave Aizer talks about anxiety, recovery, and choosing to live fully, even when the past lingers.When vulnerability feels impossible, remember: sharing your scars connects you to others. Dave Aizer found power in opening up, not hiding away.A cancer diagnosis brought Dave Aizer face-to-face with his deepest fears, but humor helped him reclaim joy. The hardest part of illness? Waiting for answers. Scott Reich and Dave Aizer explore the “in-between”—and the importance of self-compassion.Dave Aizer didn’t just survive cancer—he learned to not sweat the small stuff and value every ordinary moment. Grief isn’t linear, and healing doesn’t follow a script. Therapy, community, and kindness can guide you when life knocks you flat.Physical scars reshape how we see ourselves. Dave Aizer found acceptance in sharing his story, reminding us that imperfection is still beautiful.Parenting after trauma means seeing every moment as precious. Scott Reich and Dave Aizer reflect on legacy, gratitude, and living for today.Mindset matters. Positive thinking, reframing anxiety, and asking for help aren’t just clichés—they’re lifelines for real growth.Resilience isn’t about being fearless—it’s about showing up, even when you’d rather hide. Every challenge makes you more human, more connected, and a little bit braver.Key Moments:(05:29) Mole, Biopsy, Cancer Diagnosis(08:22) Melanoma Misunderstood: A Personal Story(11:38) Surgery Saved Career and Life(15:22) Melanoma Recovery and Anxiety(18:06) Melanoma Awareness and Prevention Strategies(21:57) Trauma's Transformative Perspective(23:18) Perspective on Life's Fragility(28:16) The Power of Asking Help(31:59) Embracing Imperfection and Resilience(35:02) Mind-Body Balance for Health(37:25) Managing Stress Effectively(40:27) Positive Prep for Public Speaking(43:14) Actionable Support for Cancer Journeys

On this episode of Curveball, host Scott Reich welcomes Danielle Moss—mom of three, creative entrepreneur, and inspiring storyteller—for a powerful and deeply personal conversation. Danielle takes us back to spring 2020, when, in the height of the COVID-19 pandemic, and just weeks away from giving birth to her second child, her oldest daughter Margot was diagnosed with leukemia. Danielle opens up about navigating unimaginable challenges: the fear and isolation of a pediatric cancer diagnosis during a global health crisis, the impact on her mental health and marriage, and the difficult journey of supporting her family while processing loss, grief, and deferred dreams.As she shares her story, Danielle reflects on the resilience it takes to endure—and grow through—life’s toughest curveballs. From finding connection with other families on the same path, to learning how to mother differently in the wake of trauma, Danielle’s honesty and vulnerability offer a beacon of hope to anyone facing adversity. Tune in for an inspiring look at survival, healing, and reclaiming joy in the midst of heartbreak.Listeners Will Learn:Danielle Moss's experience navigating her daughter Margot’s leukemia diagnosis during the height of COVID while pregnant with her second child.How Danielle coped with unimaginable stress and uncertainty, including strategies for advocating within the medical system and supporting a child through intensive treatment.The emotional impact on family dynamics, marriage, and friendships—and how Danielle found support and connection with other parents facing pediatric cancer.Danielle’s journey of resilience, authenticity, and personal growth, including how past trauma and challenging relationships shaped her approach to motherhood.Practical advice for those facing traumatic upheaval, including the importance of self-compassion, finding peer support, and allowing space for deferred grief.The power of vulnerability and community, and how sharing personal stories can help others feel less alone during life’s biggest curveballs.Strategies Danielle used to maintain hope, process grief, and carve out moments of joy during an extended crisis.The challenges and complexities of parenting while managing anxiety, medical uncertainty, and personal mental health.Concrete tips for supporting friends or family who are experiencing trauma or serious illness, including what to say (and what not to say), and how to simply "be there" for someone in need.Key Moments:(00:00) Danielle Moss: Resilience and Renewal(04:12) Facing Parenthood Amid Crisis(08:5)1 Rethinking Second Opinions(12:54) High-Risk Treatment Journey(16:09) Processing Pain as a Parent(19:46) Coping with Trauma and Survival(22:52) Grief, Stress, and Finding Normalcy(23:39) Processing Grief and Loss(28:57) Pregnancy, Grief, and Parenthood Struggles(33:23) Children Will Remember You(35:46) Parental Struggles and Childhood Pain(40:16) Letting Go of Toxic Relationships(42:01) Permission to Heal Takes Time(45:44) Embracing Growth Through Challenges

Welcome back to Curveball, the podcast where life’s toughest challenges meet profound stories of resilience. In this episode, host Scott Reich sits down with motivational speaker Corey Warren, whose remarkable journey through addiction, loss, and ultimately recovery offers a powerful lens into the human spirit’s capacity to reinvent itself. From a childhood shaped by family turbulence and a quest for acceptance, to hitting rock bottom and transforming pain into purpose, Corey’s story isn’t just about battling substance abuse—it’s about discovering who you truly are when all the layers are peeled away.Listen in as Corey opens up about his lowest moments, his path to self-love, and how he’s inspiring the next generation by speaking openly in schools, sharing honest lessons about belonging, finding fulfillment, and building real confidence. Whether you or someone you love is fighting their own battles, this conversation is packed with wisdom, vulnerability, and hope for anyone seeking their own comeback.Corey talks about waking up one day deciding not to be an addict, but instead seeking a place to belong. The episode touches on how external validation shaped Corey’s self-perception. Corey describes how his father’s alcoholism and tumultuous lifestyle impacted his upbringing.Corey’s story includes moments where he tried to change his life by removing drugs, but then substituted them with alcohol. Corey’s “rock bottom” wasn’t one specific event, but realizing he needed to change for himself. Scott and Corey discuss the difference between “who” you are and “what” you are. Corey shares that he still struggles with people-pleasing and seeking certain family members’ approval. The episode references how Corey tries to parent in a way that encourages self-validation rather than constant praise. Corey’s journey includes sharing his story openly, both with students and his own children. Scott mentions the theme of “reinvention” and how Corey was able to reclaim his narrative.Key Moments:(00:00) Seeking Approval Through Addiction(04:19) Adolescence, Belonging, and Loneliness(07:47) Father’s Escape from a Nursing Home(12:50) Alcohol, Addiction, and Redemption(15:45) Facing the Root Problem(18:54) Turning Trauma into Growth(22:37) Seeking Approval as an Adult(23:27) Validation and Perspective(26:53) Seeking Validation for Decisions(31:59) Validation Builds Confidence(34:27) Reinvention and Redemption Journey(38:54) Supportive Guidance and Unconditional Love(41:17) Parenting for Resilience and Joy(42:43) Tech Access for Children: Balance Over Restriction(45:52) Growth Through Human Connection

On today’s episode of Curveball, host Scott Reich welcomes Baratunde Thurston: best-selling author, comedian, and host of the podcast “How to Citizen.” Baratunde brings his signature blend of humor, honesty, and depth to conversations about race, democracy, and belonging, making tough topics feel both personal and urgent.Together, Scott and Baratunde dive into the transformative power of humor, the complexities of “citizening,” and the bittersweet journey of reconciling with our parents as we grow into ourselves—even beyond the lives and limitations they lived. Baratunde shares stories from his childhood in Washington D.C., his experience processing the traumatic loss of his father, and the extraordinary sacrifices of his mother, whose strengths and flaws helped shape his perspective on empathy, resilience, and love.From exploring how we rewrite our personal narratives to reimagining what it means to be a citizen in an age where technology is reshaping society, this episode is a heartfelt discussion about agency, compassion, and self-discovery. Get ready for laughter, raw truth, and plenty of thought-provoking insights—because this conversation will inspire you to reflect on your own curveballs and the hidden opportunities for growth within them.Listeners Will Learn:Baratunde spoke honestly about his father’s absence and loss. The episode explores the concept of ‘citizening’ as an active verb. Baratunde uses humor as a tool for activism. Baratunde described his mother as both a hero and a complex individual with flaws. The discussion touched on reframing negative experiences and finding meaning in adversity. Scott and Baratunde talked about the importance of empathy and recognizing that everyone carries unseen burdens. Baratunde acknowledged that he had placed his mother on a pedestal in his earlier work, only later realizing the value of seeing her more fully. The episode discussed the challenges of intergenerational understanding, especially with the rise of technology and social media. Baratunde’s relationship with his partner, Elizabeth, helped him see new dimensions of love and vulnerability.The conversation concluded with thoughts on civic responsibility in the face of emerging artificial intelligence and social change. Key Moments:(08:40) Finding Meaning After Loss(10:56) Empathy, Connection, and Societal Tragedy(13:00) Finding Growth Through Loss(16:18) Trauma's Impact on Mind & Body(20:00) Breaking Family Trauma Cycles(25:53) Recognizing Parental Fallibility(26:40) Navigating Trauma and Growth(32:49) Knowing Is Essential to Love(36:05) Love Languages and Growth(38:02) Adults Processing Struggles Transparently(42:05) Baratunde on Relationships and Technology(45:30) "Future, Morality, and Human Connection(46:53) Society Over Market Priorities

On this episode of Curveball, host Scott Reich sits down with Adam Greenberg, the former Major League Baseball player whose unforgettable journey redefines what it means to persevere through life’s biggest challenges. Adam shares his story growing up as one of five kids in Connecticut, dreaming of one day making it to the big leagues—and the pivotal moments that shaped his path, from competing at UNC to getting drafted by the Chicago Cubs.But Adam’s baseball dream took a dramatic turn when, on the very first pitch of his Major League debut, he was hit in the head by a 92 mph fastball—a devastating setback that instantly changed the course of his career. In this candid and moving conversation, Adam recounts the resilience and mental toughness it took not only to recover from that moment, but to fight for a second chance at the plate seven years later.Together, Scott and Adam dive deep into the psychology of adversity, the power of attitude, and the importance of surrounding yourself with the right kind of support. Adam’s reflections aren’t just about baseball—they’re about how any of us can face life’s curveballs, find hope, and keep moving forward, no matter what stands in our way.Tune in for a powerful story of grit, growth, and the relentless pursuit of a dream that’s so much bigger than one at bat.Listeners Will Learn:Adam talked about being a multi-sport athlete as a child and only specializing at age 13. Adam described his first at bat at UNC as a defining moment because of how he handled initial failure. The episode discussed the importance of surrounding yourself with positive, supportive people. Adam broke down the journey to the major leagues into three "buckets"—those with transcendent talent, those in the middle who need drive and consistency, and those with less raw talent. The story of Adam’s MLB debut—getting hit in the head with a pitch on his first pitch—was dramatic and traumatic. Adam spoke about perseverance as a gift that everyone has, but that needs to be worked on like a skill. The concept of “attitude is your decision” was a key message in this conversation. The “One At Bat” campaign showed how larger communities can rally around an individual’s story. Adam reflects on how his experience brought him new opportunities and perspectives he may not have otherwise had, calling it a “blessing.”Key Moments:(00:00) Baseball Sparked My Love for Stats(05:18) Perseverance Leads to Freshman Success(09:39) Moving on from Past Mistakes(12:39) Focus and Resilience in Sports(15:41) Follow Your Passion(17:45) Positive Mindset: Influenced by Environment(23:18) Winning and Teamwork Mindset(26:26) Instinctual Processing in Baseball(29:15) Concussion Check: Three Key Questions(30:53) Life's Transformative Inflection Point(36:48) Knuckleball Challenge at Marlins Game(38:31) Life's Unpredictable Paths(40:57) Turning Setbacks Into Opportunities(44:11) Train Your Mind Positively

On this episode of Curveball, we’re joined by Wendy Sachs, an Emmy Award-winning journalist, author, and filmmaker whose life and career took a dramatic turn after the October 7th, 2023, Hamas terrorist attacks in Israel. As the world grappled with the tragic events and their aftermath, Wendy witnessed not only unimaginable violence, but also a disturbing surge in antisemitism across the United States—much of it hitting close to home, both personally and professionally. In response, she felt compelled to create the documentary October 8, a searing chronicle of this rise in hatred and the troubling silence from some of America’s most influential circles.In this powerful conversation, Wendy opens up about harnessing the pain of failure, learning resilience, and confronting silence with action. She gives us a behind-the-scenes look at the making of her film, the challenges faced by Jewish students on college campuses, and the double standards driving today’s anti-Zionist rhetoric. Wendy also shares what it’s been like to parent through this turbulent time, how storytelling can shape our collective understanding, and what’s next with her new project, Poison Ivy, an exploration of ideology within academia.Whether you’re seeking understanding, inspiration, or just a real and honest conversation about the fault lines in our world today, this episode is not to be missed. Listen in as Wendy Sachs and host Scott Reich discuss truth, resilience, and the urgent call to speak out—even when it means facing life’s toughest curveballs.Listeners Will Learn:●     Wendy talks about her TED Talk on "Harnessing the Power of Humiliation."●     After the October 7th attacks in Israel, Wendy felt compelled to create a documentary. October 8, her film, focuses on the surge in antisemitism after the attacks.●     Wendy mentions the silence of advocacy groups and colleagues after the attacks, even when they are usually vocal about other issues.●     The documentary consciously avoids "litigating the war" or discussing ongoing political disputes in Israel and Gaza.●     Wendy describes the evolution of antisemitism—from religious roots to “fanatical anti-Zionism.”●     As a mother, Wendy reflects on her absence from home due to the demands of making the film, but also on being a role model for her children.●     Wendy discusses the need to “meet audiences where they are,” citing TikTok as a particularly influential platform for young people.●     Wendy shares advice about persisting through failure and the unique societal pressures women face.Key Moments:(00:00) Celebrating Failure: Women's Empowerment(04:23) Resilience Through Artistic Failure(07:46) Epic Tragedy Unfolds in Israel(10:02) Silent Activism: A Missed Response(15:54) Universities' Accountability and Financial Pressures(17:14) Antisemitism and Political Realignment Conflation(21:51) Horseshoe Theory and Antisemitism(24:01) Exploring Academia's Underlying Issues(29:01) Jewish Identity and Family Rituals(30:07) Technology's Impact: Storytelling & Society(34:08) Overcoming Self-Doubt and Comparison(37:22) Normalizing Female Leadership  

Welcome back to Curveball. In this episode, host Scott Reich sits down with Denise Woodard, the remarkable founder and CEO of Partake Foods—the company known for its delicious, allergy-friendly cookies and snacks found in stores nationwide. Denise, who became the first Black woman to raise over $1 million for a consumer packaged goods startup, opens up about the personal and professional journey that led her to launch Partake Foods. Before founding her own company, Denise built a successful corporate career at Coca-Cola, where she worked with high-growth, mission-driven brands. She shares with Scott how her time in the corporate world gave her valuable insights into the food and beverage industry—but it was her daughter Vivian’s (Vivi’s) frightening, life-threatening food allergies that inspired Denise to make a bold career pivot. When Denise struggled to find safe, tasty snacks that Vivi could eat—free from common allergens like nuts, eggs, and even corn—she realized both a personal calling and a business opportunity to fill a critical gap for so many families.Together, Denise and Scott discuss the challenges of launching a startup from scratch: from the hustle of pitch competitions and crowdfunding to the sacrifices Denise made—including selling her engagement ring—to get Partake Foods off the ground. Denise talks about navigating limited allergy-friendly manufacturing options, the loneliness and resilience entrepreneurship can demand, and the unexpected moments of luck and support, like a timely venture investment from Jay-Z’s Marcy Venture Partners.Tune in to hear how Denise’s blend of corporate know-how and personal mission fueled the creation of a brand that brings joy, safety, and community to food-allergy families—and what it takes to turn life’s biggest curveballs into breakthroughs.Listeners Will Learn:Denise drew inspiration from her father’s entrepreneurial journey but initially pursued corporate life. After discovering her daughter’s life-threatening food allergies, Denise realized there was a gap in the market for allergy-friendly snacks. Martha, the family’s nanny, played a crucial role in encouraging Denise to take action. Denise spoke candidly about going “all in” financially—including selling her engagement ring—to fund her business. Serendipity, or fate, came up multiple times in Denise’s story, such as her encounter in the zoo line and receiving investment from Jay Z’s Marcy Venture Partners. Both Denise and Scott highlighted the emotional toll and loneliness that can accompany entrepreneurship and mission-driven work. Asking for help—and knowing how to do so effectively—was a central theme.Diversity and inclusion were important to Denise, both personally and professionally. Resilience and grit are often cited as essential qualities for entrepreneurs. Now that Partake Foods is a nationally distributed brand, Denise is thinking about new products and greater impact. Key Moments:(00:00) Childhood Allergies: A Serious Concern(04:02) Start Your Own Business(07:56) Entrepreneurship: A Family Affair(10:12) Entrepreneurship's Spiritual Journey(16:30) Loneliness of Leadership Pressures(17:30) Mastering the Art of Refusal(22:24) Commit Fully or Hold Back(26:02) Success Through Connection and Action(26:59) Encouraging Action in Overcoming Challenges(30:39) Parenting's Impact on Entrepreneurship(34:44) Diversity Challenges in Leadership

Life is full of the unexpected—and building resilience is key to navigating it all. On this episode of Curveball, host Scott Reich sits down with Dr. Andrew Shatté, renowned psychologist, resilience expert, and co-author of "The Resilience Factor." Dr. Shatté shares his fascinating journey from philosophy major in Australia to one of the leading voices in resilience training for everyone from Fortune 500 executives to students and military personnel. Together, they break down what really makes some people thrive under pressure, revealing the science behind mental strength, how our thinking styles shape our ability to bounce back, and—most importantly—practical strategies for anyone looking to foster unshakeable resilience. Whether you've faced a recent setback or simply want to build your mental muscles for whatever curveballs life throws your way, this conversation offers powerful, actionable insights, and hope for listeners at any stage of the journey.Listeners Will Learn:Dr. Shatté describes two kinds of people he encountered when working at the Department of Social Security—those who bounced back after setbacks and those who languished. The episode discusses the idea of “thinking styles,” particularly the “always everything” style versus focusing on temporary and controllable problems. Dr. Shatté traces many resilience patterns back to childhood and parental modeling. Neuroplasticity was a big theme in the conversation. The podcast highlights seven “ingredients” of resilience—emotion regulation, impulse control, problem-solving, self-efficacy, optimism, empathy, and reaching out. One actionable takeaway was the idea of recognizing your emotional “radar”—your most common reaction to adversity (anger, anxiety, frustration, etc.). Dr. Shatté talks about “iceberg beliefs”—deep-seated, often unconscious standards that drive how we view achievement, relationships, and control. The episode differentiates between post-traumatic stress and post-traumatic growth, suggesting these can happen simultaneously. When supporting others (especially children), Dr. Shatté emphasizes modeling resilience over simply teaching it. Throughout the episode, the host and guest discuss the difficulty of balancing multiple internal standards (achievement, helping others, control). Key Moments:(00:00) Roundabout Journey to Career Stability(03:16) Serendipitous Path to Psychology(08:11) Navigating Adversity: Retrospective and Prospective Choices(11:12) Rewiring the Mind's Reactions(15:58) Resilience Training Beyond Innate Ability(18:39) Embrace Choice: Cultivate Growth Mindset(22:25) Understanding Anxiety and Emotional Responses(25:55) Balancing Action and Grieving(26:48) Managing Emotions for Health Balance(30:33) Shame as Motivation for Excellence(35:38) Conflicting Personal Growth Insights(37:03) Embrace Imperfection and Pay It Forward(42:38) Bouncing Forward: Embracing Change(46:24) Teaching Kids Resilience Skills(47:43) Teaching Positive Self-Efficacy