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Tamsen Fadal sits down for a deeply personal solo episode about what her divorce in her early 40s actually taught her about loneliness, identity, grief, and starting over. After years of building a life she thought was permanent, she found herself facing an empty apartment, a rewritten future, and one big question: Who am I now? In this episode, she walks you through the biggest lessons she learned in the aftermath of divorce, the ones that helped her stop waiting for closure and start rebuilding her life on her own terms. This is about understanding why divorce shakes more than just a relationship and how to move through it without losing yourself. You’ll learn: Why it’s better to be alone than lonely in a relationship Why closure doesn’t come from paperwork, it comes from a decision How grief after divorce is often about losing your identity, not just your partner Why some friendships shift during this season and what that really means How learning to be alone can rebuild your self-trust By the end of this episode, you’ll see starting over differently. You’ll understand why this season doesn’t mean you’re broken, it means you’re rebuilding. And you’ll walk away with a clearer sense of your strength, your capability, and your next chapter. If you like this episode, then you will love: The 4 Dating Mistakes Keeping Smart Women Stuck (And How to Break Them) Stay connected with Tamsen: ⁠Get ⁠Tamsen's newsletter⁠ filled with free tools⁠ to living better, feeling stronger, and knowing you’re never alone Get Tamsen’s NYT instant bestselling book, ⁠How To Menopause⁠ ⁠Free Resources⁠ from Tamsen  Watch all the episodes on ⁠YouTube⁠ Follow Tamsen on ⁠Instagram⁠  The Tamsen Show on ⁠Instagram⁠ Follow Tamsen on ⁠TikTok⁠  This episode is sponsored by Audible.com Medical Disclaimer: The information provided in this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and is not intended as medical advice. Always consult with a qualified healthcare professional regarding any medical concerns or treatment options. The views expressed by guests are their own and do not necessarily reflect those of The Tamsen Show. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit⁠ podcastchoices.com/adchoices⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, Dr. Amy Shah sits down with Tamsen Fadal to discuss the science behind the weight gain, mood swings, brain fog and digestive changes that millions of women experience as their hormones shift throughout life. Dr. Amy Shah is a double board-certified physician on a mission to help women understand what’s really happening in their bodies. She shares evidence-based strategies that you can implement to support your energy, metabolism, gut health, and hormones during this confusing stage of life. In this episode, Tamsen and Dr. Shah unpack: - The biological changes your body undergoes during perimenopause and menopause - The critical role gut health plays in hormone balance and immune function - What to eat to support your body in midlife - How to improve energy, weight, and mood without extreme diets or trends - Which wellness trends are effective and which are just fads If you feel like your body is failing you because your hormones are constantly fluctuating, you’re not alone. By the end of this episode, you’ll have the science to understand what’s actually happening and the tools to work with your body instead of against it. If you like this episode, then you will love: The Belly Fat Episode: The Truth About Muscle Loss, Menopause, and Midlife Fatigue Stay connected with Tamsen: Get ⁠Tamsen's newsletter filled with free tools⁠ to living better, feeling stronger, and knowing you’re never alone Get Tamsen’s NYT instant bestselling book, How To Menopause Free Resources from Tamsen  Watch all the episodes on YouTube Follow Tamsen on Instagram  The Tamsen Show on Instagram Follow Tamsen on TikTok  This show is sponsored by Midi Health. Visit www.joinmidi.com/tamsen today to book your personalized, insurance-covered virtual visit. Midi. The Care Women Deserve. Get 15% off OneSkin with the code TAMSEN at oneskin.co/TAMSEN #oneskinpod #ad Medical Disclaimer: The information provided in this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and is not intended as medical advice. Always consult with a qualified healthcare professional regarding any medical concerns or treatment options. The views expressed by guests are their own and do not necessarily reflect those of The Tamsen Show. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Tamsen Fadal sits down and teaches you what she’s learned about dating, from running a matchmaking business in New York City, to dating through her 20s and 30s, to divorce, and starting over in midlife. In this episode, she walks you through the 4 biggest dating mistakes women make. The ones that keep smart, self-aware women repeating the same patterns, settling, or wondering why they keep dating the wrong men. This is about understanding why these mistakes happen and walking away with tools to stop repeating them. You’ll learn: - Why dating for validation feels tempting and how to shift toward real connection - How timelines and panic dating push you to ignore red flags - Why dating someone’s potential keeps you stuck and what to look for instead - How women slowly disappear in relationships and how to stay fully yourself By the end of this episode you’ll see dating with more clarity, more self-trust, and more emotional safety. You’ll have a clearer sense of what’s been holding you back and how to start choosing relationships that actually support who you are. Watch full video episodes HERE Get Tamsen’s new book, How To Menopause: Take Charge of Your Health, Reclaim Your Life and Feel Even Better Than Before Join The Tam Fam on Instagram Follow Tamsen on Instagram Follow Tamsen on TikTok Sponsored by: Audible.com Medical Disclaimer: The information provided in this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and is not intended as medical advice. Always consult with a qualified healthcare professional regarding any medical concerns or treatment options. The views expressed by guests are their own and do not necessarily reflect those of The Tamsen Show. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Marie Forleo joins Tamsen Fadal on the podcast for a powerful conversation about navigating uncertainty, slowing down, and figuring out what’s next. At some point in life, almost all of us hit a moment where we quietly ask ourselves, “Now what?” It might come after a big transition. Or when the path you worked so hard to build suddenly doesn’t feel like it fits anymore. Or when you’re doing “all the right things,” yet something still feels unsettled. This in-between phase of life can feel disorienting, confusing, and overwhelming–especially when you don’t have the “five-year-plan” that everyone else seems to have. That’s exactly why Tamsen invited Marie Forleo on the podcast. Marie is the #1 New York Times bestselling author of Everything Is Figureoutable who has spent decades helping women build businesses and lifestyles without burnout and hustle culture. Marie teaches women how to get clear on what they want by slowing down, simplifying, and learning to trust yourself again. In this episode, Marie shares how you can move through uncertainty with confidence and offers practical tools and mantras that have helped millions of women quiet the noise, reconnect with their intuition, and design a life that actually supports them. In this episode, Tamsen and Marie discuss how you can: Stop letting fear and scarcity drive your decisions Break free from comparison Tune out the noise and tune into your intuition Simplify your life so you can amplify what matters most Regulate your nervous system by slowing down What to do when you don’t have a five-year plan (and why that’s okay) Overcome imposter syndrome Stay focused without burning out Build a life rooted in freedom, clarity, purpose, and joy By the end of this conversation, you’ll know how to move forward intentionally so that the next chapter supports your life instead of consuming it. Watch full video episodes HERE Connect with Tamsen: Get Tamsen’s new book, How To Menopause: Take Charge of Your Health, Reclaim Your Life and Feel Even Better Than Before Follow The Tamsen Show on Instagram Follow Tamsen on Instagram Follow Tamsen on TikTok Get Marie’s book, Everything Is Figureoutable Check out Marie's Time Genius system Sponsors: This show is sponsored by Midi Health. Visit www.joinmidi.com/tamsen today to book your personalized, insurance-covered virtual visit. Midi. The Care Women Deserve. Use code TAMSEN at https://www.jonesroadbeauty.com/ to get a Free Shimmer Face Oil with your first purchase! #JonesRoadBeauty #ad Medical Disclaimer: The information provided in this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and is not intended as medical advice. Always consult with a qualified healthcare professional regarding any medical concerns or treatment options. The views expressed by guests are their own and do not necessarily reflect those of The Tamsen Show. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Dr Gabrielle Lyon sits down with Tamsen to talk about so much of the longevity advice out there. Eat more protein. But how much is actually enough? Get stronger. But where do you even start? One day it’s a new workout. The next day it’s a new diet trend. There’s so much conflicting information around women’s health, it’s impossible to distinguish what’s backed by science and what’s just noise.  That’s exactly why Tamsen asked Dr. Gabrielle Lyon, a board-certified physician leading the global shift in how we think about aging and health, to come on the podcast. In this conversation, Dr. Gabrielle Lyon breaks down the science behind protein, skeletal muscle, and metabolic health and shares an actionable playbook you can use to build strength, slow decline, and take control of your future. In this episode, she explains exactly what to eat and how to train so that you can feel mentally and physically stronger at every stage of your life. If you’ve ever wondered: - How much protein do I really need? - What are the best protein sources for muscle growth? - Do I need supplements like collagen and creatine? - Will lifting weights make me bulky? - How much resistance training is enough? - Do I need a gym to see results? - Where do I even begin? ...then this is the episode for you. It’s one of the most practical, science-backed episodes we’ve had on protein, muscle growth, and longevity for women. After listening to this conversation, you’ll have the discernment you need to stop chasing trends and start building real, lasting strength. Watch full video episodes HERE Connect with Tamsen: Get Tamsen’s new book, How To Menopause: Take Charge of Your Health, Reclaim Your Life and Feel Even Better Than Before Follow The Tamsen Show on Instagram Follow Tamsen on Instagram Follow Tamsen on TikTok Get your copy of Dr. Gabrielle Lyon’s new book here: The Forever Strong™ PLAYBOOK: A Six-Week, Science-Based Plan to Sharpen Your Mind, Strengthen Your Body, and Get Healthy at Any Age Sponsors: This show is sponsored by Midi Health. Visit www.joinmidi.com/tamsen today to book your personalized, insurance-covered virtual visit. Midi. The Care Women Deserve. Get 15% off OneSkin with the code TAMSEN at www.oneskin.co/TAMSEN #oneskinpod #ad Medical Disclaimer: The information provided in this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and is not intended as medical advice. Always consult with a qualified healthcare professional regarding any medical concerns or treatment options. The views expressed by guests are their own and do not necessarily reflect those of The Tamsen Show. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

If you’ve been feeling exhausted, irritable, or done explaining yourself, or quietly wondering, “Why does everything feel so much harder right now?" this episode is for you. In this powerful conversation on The Tamsen Show, Tamsen sits down with Melani Sanders, founder of the We Do Not Care Club and author of the We Do Not Care Club Handbook to talk about the moment so many women hit during perimenopause and menopause... When they realize they are simply at capacity. What emerges here is relief. The kind of relief that comes from boundaries, self-trust, and finally choosing yourself. Melani shares the story behind her viral grocery store parking lot video, what was happening in her body after a hysterectomy, and how unaddressed hormonal changes, anxiety, insomnia, and identity shifts pushed her to say the quiet part out loud: I don’t care anymore. That moment didn’t just go viral, it sparked a global movement. Together, Tamsen and Melani talk about why this shift so often shows up in midlife, how women end up suffering in silence, and what happens when you stop managing expectations that no longer fit who you are. This episode will make you feel seen, validated, and less alone in this chapter of life. In this episode, you’ll hear: - Why so many women experience burnout and emotional overload in midlife - The connection between hysterectomy, perimenopause, menopause, and mental health - What “being at capacity” really means for women’s bodies and brains - How the We Do Not Care Club became a sisterhood for women who feel unseen - Why stopping the over explaining can be one of the most healing choices you make This conversation is honest, funny, and deeply validating. Bookmark this episode and share it with every woman who needs to hear: you are not alone, and you are allowed to choose yourself. If you liked this conversation, check out ‘The Real Reason You Feel Stuck (and How to Fix It)’ with leading trauma expert Anna Runkle. Watch full video episodes HERE Connect with Tamsen: For Tamsen’s new book, How To Menopause: Take Charge of Your Health, Reclaim Your Life and Feel Even Better Than Before Follow The Tamsen Show on Instagram Follow Tamsen on Instagram Follow Tamsen on TikTok For Melani's new book ⁠⁠The We Do Not Care Club Handbook,⁠ Sponsors: This show is sponsored by Midi Health. Visit www.joinmidi.com/tamsen today to book your personalized, insurance-covered virtual visit. Midi. The Care Women Deserve. Get 15% off OneSkin with the code TAMSEN at www.oneskin.co/TAMSEN #oneskinpod #ad Medical Disclaimer: The information provided in this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and is not intended as medical advice. Always consult with a qualified healthcare professional regarding any medical concerns or treatment options. The views expressed by guests are their own and do not necessarily reflect those of The Tamsen Show. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Dr. Lucky Sekhon is the fertility expert that is helping so many women understand their options when it comes to egg freezing, IVF and your options. Trying to understand fertility today can feel overwhelming, confusing, and loaded with guilt.  Especially if you’re in your 30s or 40s and constantly hearing conflicting advice about “the biological clock,” egg quality, and what you should or shouldn’t be doing right now. Many women are left blaming themselves, chasing supplements, or relying on social media myths instead of clear medical guidance. This is exactly why Tamsen sat down with Dr. Lucky, board-certified reproductive endocrinologist, infertility specialist, and author of ‘The Lucky Egg.’ Dr. Lucky has spent years treating patients and studying fertility from the inside and her work challenges many of the outdated narratives that still dominate conversations about getting pregnant, aging, and reproductive health. In this episode, she explains what actually matters when it comes to fertility, what doesn’t, and why so much of what women are told creates unnecessary stress, shame, and misinformation. Tamsen and Dr. Lucky discuss: - What the biological clock really means (and what it doesn’t) - The difference between egg quantity and egg quality - Why fertility is never entirely within your control (and why that’s important to understand) - When to start thinking about fertility, even if you’re not ready to try - How perimenopause, age, and reproductive health intersect - What lifestyle changes actually help and which ones are overhyped - The truth about supplements, egg freezing, and fertility preservation - Why fertility struggles are never just “a woman’s issue” This conversation cuts through fear-based messaging and replaces it with grounded, science-backed clarity. Instead of telling women to do more, stress less, or “optimize everything,” Dr. Lucky offers a more realistic, compassionate framework for understanding fertility, one that centers knowledge, choice, and mental health. If you’re trying to get pregnant, thinking about your future options, or simply want to understand your body better, this episode will help you separate facts from myths and focus on what truly matters. Watch full video episodes HERE Connect with Tamsen: Get Tamsen’s new book, How To Menopause: Take Charge of Your Health, Reclaim Your Life and Feel Even Better Than Before Follow The Tamsen Show on Instagram Follow Tamsen on Instagram Follow Tamsen on TikTok Want more from Dr. Lucky? Read her book, The Lucky Egg: Understanding Your Fertility and How to Get Pregnant NOW Sponsors: This show is sponsored by Midi Health. Visit www.joinmidi.com/tamsen today to book your personalized, insurance-covered virtual visit. Midi. The Care Women Deserve. Medical Disclaimer: The information provided in this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and is not intended as medical advice. Always consult with a qualified healthcare professional regarding any medical concerns or treatment options. The views expressed by guests are their own and do not necessarily reflect those of The Tamsen Show. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Feeling anxious, overwhelmed, or like your brain won’t slow down is incredibly common, especially when there’s pressure to be calmer, more productive, or more “together.” Many people blame themselves for this: for not being disciplined enough, resilient enough, or mentally strong enough.  But what if anxiety isn’t a personal failure and what if your brain is actually doing exactly what it was designed to do? This is exactly why Tamsen sat down with Dr. Wendy Suzuki, a world-renowned neuroscientist, NYU professor, and expert on brain plasticity: the brain’s ability to change and adapt. Dr. Wendy Suzuki has spent decades studying how stress, anxiety, movement, sleep, and daily habits shape the brain.  Dr. Wendy shows that anxiety isn’t just a feeling, it’s a biological response that can hijack focus, memory, and emotional regulation when the brain is under pressure. In this episode, she breaks down what’s really happening inside your brain when anxiety shows up and explains why trying to “push through” or “calm down” often backfires.  Most importantly, she shares the science-backed tools that actually help your nervous system reset and restore a sense of control. Tamsen and Dr. Lucky discuss: - Why anxiety is a fight-or-flight response, not a mindset problem - What chronic stress does to focus, memory, and emotional regulation - Why anxiety can make you feel foggy, tense, or unlike yourself - The role movement, cardio, and sleep play in calming the brain - Simple tools you can use in real life to calm your nervous system today This conversation cuts through the shame and confusion around anxiety and replaces it with clarity, relief, and understanding.  Instead of asking you to “fix yourself,” it shows you how to work with your brain. If anxiety has been running the show and leaving you feeling overwhelmed or out of control, this episode offers a grounded, science-backed way to understand what’s happening and what actually helps. Watch full video episodes ⁠HERE ⁠ Connect with Tamsen: Get Tamsen’s new book, ⁠How To Menopause: Take Charge of Your Health, Reclaim Your Life and Feel Even Better Than Before⁠ Follow The Tamsen Show on ⁠Instagram⁠ Follow Tamsen on ⁠Instagram⁠ Follow Tamsen on ⁠TikTok⁠ Want more from Dr. Wendy?⁠⁠ Read her book, ⁠Good Anxiety: Harnessing the Power of the Most Misunderstood Emotion⁠ Sponsors: This show is sponsored by Midi Health. Visit ⁠www.joinmidi.com/tamsen⁠ today to book your personalized, insurance-covered virtual visit. Midi. The Care Women Deserve. Use code TAMSEN at ⁠jonesroadbeauty.com⁠ to get a Free Cool Gloss with your first purchase! #JonesRoadBeauty #ad Medical Disclaimer: The information provided in this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and is not intended as medical advice. Always consult with a qualified healthcare professional regarding any medical concerns or treatment options. The views expressed by guests are their own and do not necessarily reflect those of The Tamsen Show. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

If you are back out on the dating scene and feeling frustrated, we have one of the top dating experts here to answer your questions. Tamsen knows personally that starting over can feel overwhelming and discouraging, especially when it comes to dating, navigating dating apps, and trying to make sense of modern dating after divorce or a long relationship.  Many women find themselves burnt out, questioning their instincts, and unsure how to find a healthy relationship when the old rules no longer seem to apply. This is exactly why Tamsen turned to Bela Gandhi, dating coach, relationship expert, and founder of the Smart Dating Academy. Bela has helped thousands of women find meaningful, lasting relationships by replacing guesswork with a clear, data-driven formula for dating with intention. In this episode, she lays out the framework she uses to help women find love that feels safe, secure, and emotionally available and explains why following a proven system matters more than chemistry, luck, or timing. Tamsen and Bela discuss: - Why dating apps feel so exhausting and how to use them more strategically - The biggest mistakes people make on dating profiles and photos - What chemistry really is and why butterflies can be misleading - How to spot red flags early without becoming cynical - What to look for (and not overthink) on first dates - How to date with clarity, confidence, and realistic expectations - The patterns and behaviors that consistently lead to lasting relationships This conversation cuts through the noise, myths, and mixed messages around dating and replaces them with clarity, reassurance, and a roadmap you can actually follow. If your goal is to find lasting love, the kind that feels safe, secure, and grounded, this episode offers a smarter, more intentional way to date without burning out or losing yourself. By the end of this episode, you’ll walk away with renewed hope, practical tools, and the confidence that finding love doesn’t have to be random. When you follow the right formula, it becomes possible. Ready for more support? Download the 2026 Dating Profile Cheat Sheet. Watch full video episodes HERE Connect with Tamsen: Get Tamsen’s new book, How To Menopause: Take Charge of Your Health, Reclaim Your Life and Feel Even Better Than Before Follow The Tamsen Show on Instagram Follow Tamsen on Instagram Follow Tamsen on TikTok Want more from Bela? Follow her on Instagram Visit her website Sponsors: This show is sponsored by Midi Health. Visit www.joinmidi.com/tamsen today to book your personalized, insurance-covered virtual visit. Midi. The Care Women Deserve. Medical Disclaimer: The information provided in this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and is not intended as medical advice. Always consult with a qualified healthcare professional regarding any medical concerns or treatment options. The views expressed by guests are their own and do not necessarily reflect those of The Tamsen Show. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Menopause doesn’t just change your body. It changes how you think, how you feel, and how you see yourself. For so many women, that shift shows up as brain fog, exhaustion, lost motivation, or a quiet fear that something is “wrong,” even when nothing is. In this episode, Tamsen is joined by Dr. Mindy Pelz, functional medicine expert and bestselling author of Fast Like a Girl and her new book Age Like a Girl, to break down what’s actually happening in the female brain during menopause and why understanding it can be empowering instead of frightening. They explore how menopause rewires the brain, why motivation and clarity can disappear seemingly overnight, and how metabolic health and fasting play a role in supporting brain function during this transition. They discuss: - Why menopause is a neurological shift, not a mental decline - What’s really behind brain fog, low motivation, and emotional changes - How fasting supports brain health during menopause - The role of insulin, blood sugar, and metabolic health - Why dopamine and motivation work differently after 40 - How to restore clarity, energy, and confidence - Practical tools women can use to support their brains in midlife This conversation reframes menopause as a transition into clarity, self-trust, and power,  not something to fear or push through. If you’ve felt different in your body or mind, questioned your energy, or wondered why the old rules no longer work, this episode offers science, reassurance, and a completely new way to understand what your brain is doing and why. By the end of this episode, you’ll walk away with a clearer understanding of menopause, concrete tools to support your brain, and relief in knowing that you’re not broken, you’re rewiring. Watch full video episodes HERE Get Tamsen’s new book, How To Menopause: Take Charge of Your Health, Reclaim Your Life and Feel Even Better Than Before Follow The Tamsen Show on Instagram Follow Tamsen on Instagram Follow Tamsen on TikTok Want more from Dr. Mindy? Follow her on Instagram Visit her website Read her book, Age Like a Girl: How Menopause Rewires Your Brain for Mental Clarity, Increased Confidence, and Renewed Energy  This show is sponsored by Midi Health. Visit www.joinmidi.com/tamsen today to book your personalized, insurance-covered virtual visit. Midi. The Care Women Deserve. Medical Disclaimer: The information provided in this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and is not intended as medical advice. Always consult with a qualified healthcare professional regarding any medical concerns or treatment options. The views expressed by guests are their own and do not necessarily reflect those of The Tamsen Show. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Divorce is already disorienting. But when you’re dealing with a narcissist, the rules change and most people don’t realize that until they’re already in it. In this episode, Tamsen is joined by Sue Moss, a leading NYC divorce attorney, to talk about what actually happens when control, manipulation, and power dynamics show up in a divorce  and what women need to understand before things escalate. They discuss:  - The early red flags of a controlling or narcissistic partner - Why so many women feel blindsided when divorce turns adversarial - What prenups really protect and when they matter most - How power, money, and fear show up in divorce negotiations - The biggest legal mistakes women make when emotions are running high - How custody decisions actually get made (and what courts care about) - What women should be thinking about long before they ever file This conversation is eye-opening, especially if you’re questioning your marriage, supporting a friend through divorce, or trying to understand your options before things escalate. If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic violence or feels unsafe, help is available. In the U.S., you can call or text 988 or the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-SAFE (7233). Additional resources are listed below: Sanctuaries for FamiliesSafe HorizonsPro Se Court OfficeWatch full video episodes HERE Get Tamsen’s new book, How To Menopause: Take Charge of Your Health, Reclaim Your Life and Feel Even Better Than Before Follow The Tamsen Show on Instagram Follow Tamsen on Instagram Follow Tamsen on TikTok Want more from Sue? Follow her on Instagram Visit her website This show is sponsored by Midi Health. Visit www.joinmidi.com/tamsen today to book your personalized, insurance-covered virtual visit. Midi. The Care Women Deserve. Medical Disclaimer: The information provided in this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and is not intended as medical advice. Always consult with a qualified healthcare professional regarding any medical concerns or treatment options. The views expressed by guests are their own and do not necessarily reflect those of The Tamsen Show. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

You might feel overwhelmed, burnt out, stretched too thin, or constantly behind, even when you’re doing everything you can. The pressure to be productive, to keep going, to never fall apart is so heavy… and most women don’t understand why they feel this way or how to break out of it. This is exactly why Tamsen turned to Israa Nasir, a licensed psychotherapist and the author of Toxic Productivity, a powerful guide to understanding why we push ourselves past our limits and how to reclaim our time, energy, and sense of self. In this episode, Israa breaks down the questions so many women have, including: - What toxic productivity actually is and how to know if you’re stuck in it - Why rest feels uncomfortable or “undeserved” - The identity traps women fall into without realizing - How culture, childhood, and expectations shape our patterns - What burnout really looks like beneath the surface - How to set boundaries without guilt - How to slow down when your life has taught you to speed up - Simple, practical tools to reconnect with yourself This conversation cuts through the shame and confusion and brings real understanding to a struggle millions of women are facing. By the end of this episode, you’ll walk away with language for what you’re feeling and the steps to finally create a healthier relationship with productivity, rest, and self-worth. Watch full video episodes HERE Get Tamsen’s new book, How To Menopause: Take Charge of Your Health, Reclaim Your Life and Feel Even Better Than Before Follow The Tamsen Show on Instagram Follow Tamsen on Instagram Follow Tamsen on TikTok Want more from Israa? Follow her on Instagram Visit her website Read her book, Toxic Productivity: Reclaim Your Time and Emotional Energy in a World That Always Demands More  This show is sponsored by Midi Health. Visit www.joinmidi.com/tamsen today to book your personalized, insurance-covered virtual visit. Midi. The Care Women Deserve. Medical Disclaimer: The information provided in this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and is not intended as medical advice. Always consult with a qualified healthcare professional regarding any medical concerns or treatment options. The views expressed by guests are their own and do not necessarily reflect those of The Tamsen Show. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

So many women are confused about GLP-1 medications like Zepbound, Wegovy, Ozempic, and Mounjaro, and unsure how they work, how to start, how to avoid side effects, or whether they are safe. The opinions are loud, the misinformation is everywhere, and it can feel impossible to know what is true. This is exactly why Tamsen turned to renowned physician Dr. Rocío Salas-Whalen, one of the country’s leading GLP-1 experts who has guided thousands of women through this process.  She is also the author of ‘Weightless: A Doctor's Guide to GLP-1 Medications, Sustainable Weight Loss, and the Health You Deserve,’ a trusted clinician for decades, and one of the clearest voices in the conversation about weight, hormones, and metabolic health. In this episode, Dr. Rocío Salas-Whalen answers the questions you submitted, including: -What is the safest way to start a GLP-1 -What dose to begin with, and how slowly to increase -How to prevent nausea and other side effects -Whether GLP-1s help with perimenopause belly fat, PCOS, or Hashimoto’s -Whether microdosing is effective or just a trend -What to do when weight loss plateaus or when the medication is stopped -What new GLP-1s are expected in 2026 This conversation cuts through the noise and brings real understanding to a topic that affects millions of women. Watch full video episodes HERE Get Tamsen’s new book, How To Menopause: Take Charge of Your Health, Reclaim Your Life and Feel Even Better Than Before Follow The Tamsen Show on Instagram Follow Tamsen on Instagram Follow Tamsen on TikTok Want more from Dr. Rocio? Follow her on Instagram Visit her website Read her book, Weightless: A Doctor's Guide to GLP-1 Medications, Sustainable Weight Loss, and the Health You Deserve This show is sponsored by Midi Health. Visit www.joinmidi.com/tamsen today to book your personalized, insurance-covered virtual visit. Midi. The Care Women Deserve. Medical Disclaimer: The information provided in this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and is not intended as medical advice. Always consult with a qualified healthcare professional regarding any medical concerns or treatment options. The views expressed by guests are their own and do not necessarily reflect those of The Tamsen Show. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Hormone therapy is back in the spotlight, and for good reason. New research, new guidelines, and new conversations are rewriting what women are told about their brains, hearts, bones, metabolism, and long-term health. If you’re trying to understand what hormone therapy actually does, and whether it’s right for you,  this episode cuts through the noise. Whether you’re in perimenopause, menopause, or postmenopause, this comprehensive episode explains exactly what hormone therapy is, how it works, who it helps, and what the latest science shows, without the fear, confusion, or outdated ideas so many women still run into. If you’ve ever wondered: -Is hormone therapy safe for me? -Why did my symptoms show up overnight? -Can estrogen or progesterone actually help with brain fog or anxiety? -Why did my belly change even though my routine didn’t? -What about heart disease, bone loss, or long-term health? -Should women really be taking testosterone? -Who can and cannot take hormones? -And is vaginal estrogen really as safe and effective as doctors say? …this episode answers all of it. This is the most in-depth, practical, expert-driven conversation on hormone therapy we’ve released, designed to help you understand your body and make an informed decision with confidence. Featuring insights from: Dr. Sharon Malone, MD: Leading OB-GYN & Menopause Specialist with 30+ years of experience Dr. Lisa Mosconi, PhD: Neuroscientist, Director of the Women’s Brain Initiative at Weill Cornell Medicine & Principal Investigator for the Wellcome Leap CARE Program Dr. Jayne Morgan, MD: Nationally recognized Cardiologist specializing in women’s heart health Dr. Vonda Wright, MD, MS: Orthopedic Surgeon & Longevity Researcher focused on women’s bone and aging health Dr. Rocío Salas-Whalen, MD: Triple Board-Certified Endocrinologist & Obesity Medicine Specialist Dr. Kelly Casperson, MD: Urologist & Sexual Health Physician leading the modern hormone conversation Dr. Corinne Menn, DO, FACOG: Menopause Specialist, OB-GYN & Breast Cancer Survivor We also reference the Menopause Map in this episode: a free, practical guide for understanding your symptoms and treatment options. You can download it anytime at: (00:00) Why hormone therapy is in the spotlight (01:18) Where the fear came from (02:50) What hormone therapy actually is (05:15) Birth control vs menopause hormones (06:13) FDA update (06:38) WHI explained (11:54) Breast cancer: risk vs perception (15:21) Why timing matters (15:49) Brain Health with Dr. Lisa Mosconi (17:45) The 10-year window (18:43) Heart Health with Dr. Jayne Morgan (20:38) Starting after 60 (21:57) Heart disease reality check (22:26) Bone Health with Dr. Vonda Wright (25:14) Estrogen & bone protection (27:09) Metabolism with Dr. Rocío Salas-Whalen (28:04) Body composition changes (29:02) Testosterone with Dr. Kelly Casperson (31:51) Estrogen vs testosterone (32:50) Who can and cannot take HT (36:03) Most misunderstood contraindications (38:01) Vaginal Estrogen with Dr. Corinne Menn (40:48) GSM explained (41:17) Final thoughts & guidance Watch full video episodes HERE Get Tamsen’s new book, How To Menopause: Take Charge of Your Health, Reclaim Your Life and Feel Even Better Than Before Follow The Tamsen Show on Instagram Follow Tamsen on Instagram Follow Tamsen on TikTok This show is sponsored by Midi Health. Visit www.joinmidi.com/tamsen today to book your personalized, insurance-covered virtual visit. Midi. The Care Women Deserve. Medical Disclaimer: The information provided in this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and is not intended as medical advice. Always consult with a qualified healthcare professional regarding any medical concerns or treatment options. The views expressed by guests are their own and do not necessarily reflect those of The Tamsen Show. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

If you've ever felt knocked down, discouraged, or unsure of how to move forward, this is the conversation you need. Because Sherri Shepherd has lived through more “start from scratch” moments than most people will ever face. You know her as the Emmy-winning host of “The Sherri Show”, a beloved comedian, actress, and now author of the beautiful children’s book “The Sunshine Queens,”  but the road that got her here is nothing like you’d expect. Before the success came chapters full of struggle: losing jobs, sleeping in her car, getting arrested, surviving heartbreak, and fighting for her son’s life in the NICU.  And through all of it, she found a way to keep her humor, her faith, and her belief that better days were still ahead. This is Sherri like you’ve never heard her: honest, hilarious, vulnerable, and unbelievably wise. In this conversation, you’ll hear: -why she says “I wasn’t supposed to be on Friends” and the real story behind her breakout role -the moment she fell in love with comedy and why it happened in the middle of chaos -the life-changing lessons she learned from Barbara Walters -what happened the day doctors told her to say goodbye to her newborn son -how she rebuilt her life after hitting rock bottom -the advice she wants every young woman to hear This episode is a reminder that the strength you’re looking for often shows up in the moments you least expect. If you’re navigating a transition, a setback, or a chapter that feels uncertain, Sherri’s story will give you the hope, clarity, and courage you need. Watch full video episodes HERE Get Tamsen’s new book, How To Menopause: Take Charge of Your Health, Reclaim Your Life and Feel Even Better Than Before Follow The Tamsen Show on Instagram Follow Tamsen on Instagram Follow Tamsen on TikTok Want more from Sherri? Follow her on Instagram Visit her website Read her book, The Sunshine Queens This show is sponsored by Midi Health. Visit www.joinmidi.com/tamsen today to book your personalized, insurance-covered virtual visit. Midi. The Care Women Deserve. Medical Disclaimer: The information provided in this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and is not intended as medical advice. Always consult with a qualified healthcare professional regarding any medical concerns or treatment options. The views expressed by guests are their own and do not necessarily reflect those of The Tamsen Show. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Bruce Willis has spent decades on screen as one of Hollywood’s strongest leading men. Now, his wife Emma Heming Willis is redefining what strength looks like behind the scenes. In this powerful and deeply insightful conversation, Emma joins Tamsen to share what she’s learned from caring for Bruce and how her experience has become a guide for millions of caregivers around the world. Emma opens up about the early signs she noticed, what it felt like to get Bruce’s diagnosis, and how she’s learned to care for herself while caring for him.  She also shares the practical lessons that every caregiver needs: the expert advice, daily adjustments, and small shifts that can change everything for both the person you love and yourself. Drawing on research and interviews from her book The Unexpected Journey, Emma breaks down real, usable information that every family can benefit from, whether you’re in the caregiving role now or know you will be one day. You’ll learn: -The subtle early signs that something may be changing with a loved one -The small, evidence-based adjustments that make caregiving easier day-to-day -How to protect your physical and mental health as a caregiver -What most families don’t realize about support systems and self-care -The mindset shifts that helped Emma move from isolation to advocacy This conversation is honest, hopeful, and full of practical wisdom.If you’ve ever cared for someone you love, or you know you might one day, Emma’s voice will give you the tools and strength to face it with compassion and grace. Watch full video episodes HERE Get Tamsen’s new book, How To Menopause: Take Charge of Your Health, Reclaim Your Life and Feel Even Better Than Before Follow The Tamsen Show on Instagram Follow Tamsen on Instagram Follow Tamsen on TikTok Want more from Emma? Follow her on Instagram Visit her website Read her book, The Unexpected Journey: Finding Strength, Hope, and Yourself on the Caregiving Path This show is sponsored by Midi Health. Visit www.joinmidi.com/tamsen today to book your personalized, insurance-covered virtual visit. Midi. The Care Women Deserve. Medical Disclaimer: The information provided in this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and is not intended as medical advice. Always consult with a qualified healthcare professional regarding any medical concerns or treatment options. The views expressed by guests are their own and do not necessarily reflect those of The Tamsen Show. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, you’ll learn why you feel disconnected even when your life looks full and how to start feeling safe, seen, and connected again. Tamsen sits down with Anna Runkle, trauma expert and creator of The Crappy Childhood Fairy, to unpack how early emotional wounds shape your adult relationships, why you pull away when you’re overwhelmed, and how to rebuild trust in yourself and others. Anna shares the science of nervous system regulation, what “covert avoidance” really looks like, and the small daily practices that rewire your brain for connection and calm. Inside this episode, you’ll learn: - Why trauma makes it hard to feel safe around people - How to recognize when “me time” has turned into isolation - The hidden ways you push others away without realizing it - Simple tools to re-regulate your nervous system in minutes - How to rebuild connection and community without losing yourself If you’ve ever wondered why you pull back when you most need people, or you’re ready to stop feeling so alone, this episode is for you. The healing starts with you, and it changes everything for the people who follow. Watch full video episodes HERE Get Tamsen’s new book, How To Menopause: Take Charge of Your Health, Reclaim Your Life and Feel Even Better Than Before Follow The Tamsen Show on Instagram Follow Tamsen on Instagram Follow Tamsen on TikTok Want more from Anna? Follow her on Instagram Visit her Website This show is sponsored by Midi Health. Visit joinmidi.com/tamsen today to book your personalized, insurance-covered virtual visit. Midi. The Care Women Deserve. Medical Disclaimer: The information provided in this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and is not intended as medical advice. Always consult with a qualified healthcare professional regarding any medical concerns or treatment options. The views expressed by guests are their own and do not necessarily reflect those of The Tamsen Show. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, you’ll learn why so many women inherit body shame, how to break free from approval addiction, and how to finally make peace with your body. Today, Tamsen sits down with Dr. Shefali, a leading psychologist and bestselling author known for helping women wake up to their power and heal the generational patterns that keep them small. Dr. Shefali is a global voice in conscious living and female empowerment whose work blends psychology, spirituality, and science to help women reconnect to themselves. This conversation will change the way you think about confidence, aging, and what it really means to feel comfortable in your own skin. Inside this episode, you’ll learn: -Why women unconsciously inherit body shame from past generations -How to stop passing those beliefs to your daughters and sons -The truth about approval addiction and how to break it -How to rebuild self-worth and confidence in midlife -The science of female biology and power that patriarchy made us forget -Simple tools to create peace with your body and yourself Whether you’ve spent years trying to “fix” yourself or you’re ready to feel free in your skin again, this episode is for you. The shift starts with you, and it changes everything for the women who follow. Watch full video episodes HERE Get Tamsen’s new book, How To Menopause: Take Charge of Your Health, Reclaim Your Life and Feel Even Better Than Before Follow The Tamsen Show on Instagram Follow Tamsen on Instagram Follow Tamsen on TikTok Want more from Dr. Shefali Tsabary? Follow her on Instagram Visit her website Read her book, A Radical Awakening: Turn Pain into Power, Embrace Your Truth, Live Free  This show is sponsored by Midi Health. Visit joinmidi.com/tamsen today to book your personalized, insurance-covered virtual visit. Midi. The Care Women Deserve. Medical Disclaimer: The information provided in this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and is not intended as medical advice. Always consult with a qualified healthcare professional regarding any medical concerns or treatment options. The views expressed by guests are their own and do not necessarily reflect those of The Tamsen Show. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

What would your life look like if you felt powerful around money instead of anxious or unsure? In this episode, personal finance expert Farnoosh Torabi joins Tamsen for an honest conversation about what’s really holding women back from financial confidence. They talk about the fear so many of us carry: fear of not knowing enough, fear of losing control, fear of starting too late and how to move through it. Farnoosh shares the mindset shifts and real-world tools that help women build independence. She’s teaching us how to negotiate your worth, create safety nets that last, and invest with clarity instead of fear. In this episode, you’ll hear: -The quiet fears that shape how women handle money -How to ask for more and actually get it -The simple systems that protect your financial future -What rebuilding after debt or divorce really looks like -How to feel calm and in control when it comes to money Watch full video episodes HERE Get Tamsen’s new book, How To Menopause: Take Charge of Your Health, Reclaim Your Life and Feel Even Better Than Before Follow The Tamsen Show on Instagram Follow Tamsen on Instagram Follow Tamsen on TikTok Want more from Farnoosh Torabi? Follow her on Instagram Visit her website  This show is sponsored by Midi Health. Visit joinmidi.com/tamsen today to book your personalized, insurance-covered virtual visit. Midi. The Care Women Deserve. Medical Disclaimer: The information provided in this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and is not intended as medical advice. Always consult with a qualified healthcare professional regarding any medical concerns or treatment options. The views expressed by guests are their own and do not necessarily reflect those of The Tamsen Show. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

From low libido to painful sex to the truth about testosterone, Dr. Kelly Casperson is back, and this time, she’s answering your questions. In this episode, Tamsen sits down with Dr. Casperson, the leading urologist, author, and leading voice in women’s sexual health for an honest, no-shame conversation about what’s really happening to women’s bodies in midlife. She explains how hormones shift during perimenopause and menopause, why desire changes, and what women can actually do to feel better in their bodies again. From hormone therapy and vaginal estrogen to confidence, pleasure, and how to start these conversations with your doctor (or your partner). It’s real answers, real science, and the kind of clarity every woman deserves. Plus, keep listening for a special conversation with Dr. Isabelle Raymond, SVP of Clinical and Medical Affairs at Nutrafol, who joins Tamsen to dive deeper into the connection between hormones and hair health – and the importance of closing the research gap on women in menopause.  Here’s what you’ll learn: - What’s really happening to your hormones during perimenopause and menopause - Why libido and energy change and how to get them back - The truth about testosterone for women - How hormone therapy really works and when to consider it - The connection between vaginal health, confidence, and pleasure - BONUS: How hair changes during perimenopause and menopause, the importance of a whole body approach and why inclusive research matters Watch full video episodes HERE Get Tamsen’s new book, How To Menopause: Take Charge of Your Health, Reclaim Your Life and Feel Even Better Than Before Follow The Tamsen Show on Instagram Follow Tamsen on Instagram Follow Tamsen on TikTok Want more from Dr. Kelly Casperson? Follow her on Instagram Visit her website Get Dr. Casperson’s new book, The Menopause Moment. Nutrafol is the #1 dermatologist-recommended hair growth supplement brand, pioneering the future of hair health with clinically tested, physician-formulated solutions that deliver real results and empower people to feel confident at every life stage. Want more from Nutrafol? Follow Nutrafol on InstagramVisit Nutrafol at Nutrafol.com This show is sponsored by Midi Health. Visit joinmidi.com/tamsen today to book your personalized, insurance-covered virtual visit. Midi. The Care Women Deserve Medical Disclaimer: The information provided in this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and is not intended as medical advice. Always consult with a qualified healthcare professional regarding any medical concerns or treatment options. The views expressed by guests are their own and do not necessarily reflect those of The Tamsen Show. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices