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What happens when behavior science meets mediumship? In this thought-provoking episode of the ABA Mom Podcast, I sit down with psychic medium Sean Michael Rutherford to explore the intersection of psychology, belief systems, spirituality, grief, and human behavior. As a Board Certified Behavior Analyst (BCBA), I approach this conversation through the lens of applied behavior analysis (ABA), critical thinking, and curiosity — asking how reinforcement history, perception, learning, and lived experience shape what we believe and how we behave. We discuss: Mediumship and personal spiritual experiences Behavior science and belief formation Grief, coping, and meaning-making How environment and reinforcement shape perception Science vs spirituality — can they coexist? Whether you’re a behavior analyst, ABA professional, autism parent, psychology student, spiritually curious listener, or simply love deep conversations, this episode invites respectful dialogue and open-minded exploration. ⚠️ Disclaimer: This episode is for entertainment and discussion purposes only. It does not provide clinical, medical, psychological, or Applied Behavior Analysis (ABA) advice. The views expressed by the guest are their own and do not represent evidence-based behavioral treatment or professional recommendations. Please consult a qualified professional for clinical or therapeutic services. If you enjoy conversations that challenge perspectives while staying grounded in professionalism, don’t forget to like, subscribe, and share. Contact Medium Sean Michael Rutherford https://www.psychic-sean.com/ TikTok/Instagram: ⁨@MediumAuntieSean⁩ #ABAMom #BehaviorScience #AppliedBehaviorAnalysis #BCBA #AutismSupport #PsychologyPodcast #Mediumship #Spirituality #ScienceAndSpirituality #ParentingPodcast #AutismCommunity #CriticalThinking #GriefSupport #BehaviorAnalyst #PodcastInterview

Why does your child listen to Alexa faster than they listen to you? You're not alone — and there’s a real behavioral reason behind it.In this episode of the ABA Mom Podcast, we break down why kids sometimes ignore parents, how behavior is shaped by consistency, and what you can do to help your child listen the first time — without yelling, bribing, or losing your patience. This episode is relatable, honest, and full of practical strategies you can use immediately at home.You’ll learn: • Why children respond differently to different people • The power of reinforcement and follow-through • How to get your child to listen the first time • How to reduce power struggles and frustration • Simple ABA strategies that actually work in real lifeThis podcast is for parents who want to understand their child’s behavior and feel more confident, calm, and connected.Remember: Your child isn’t giving you a hard time. They’re having a hard time — and behavior can be taught.Subscribe for weekly episodes on parenting, behavior, autism, ABA, and real-life strategies that make a difference.#ABAMom #Parenting #ABAtherapy #AutismParenting #PositiveParenting #BehaviorTips #MomLife

How to Motivate Using Modeling | ABA Mom Podcast Motivation doesn’t start with telling—it starts with showing. In this episode of the ABA Mom Podcast, we break down one of the most powerful and evidence-based tools in behavior analysis: modeling. Learn how modeling builds motivation, reduces resistance, and helps children and individuals with autism and related disabilities develop independence and confidence. Modeling isn’t just about teaching skills—it’s about showing what’s possible. Whether you’re a parent, therapist, teacher, or caregiver, this episode will give you practical strategies you can use immediately to increase cooperation, communication, and engagement. In this episode, you’ll learn: • Why modeling increases motivation • How modeling reduces problem behavior • How to use modeling to teach life skills and communication • How to build independence through observation • Real-life examples you can use today Modeling works because behavior is learned through observation. When individuals see success, calm regulation, and confidence, they are more likely to engage in those same behaviors. If you’re supporting someone with autism, developmental disabilities, or behavioral challenges, this episode is for you. Subscribe for weekly episodes on ABA, parenting, autism support, and behavior strategies. #ABA, #autism #motivation #modeling #appliedbehavioranalysis #parenting #autismsupport, #behaviorstrategies

Adults have tantrums too… and no one talks about it. 👀In this episode of ABA Mom, we break down what’s really happening when grown adults melt down — from a behavior science perspective. Using the powerful “Let Them” theory and the science behind the 6-second emotional chemical burst, you’ll learn how to stop reinforcing adult tantrums and start regulating yourself instead.If you’ve ever dealt with: ✔️ A reactive partner ✔️ Workplace drama ✔️ Family conflict ✔️ Or your own emotional spiralsThis episode will give you practical, science-backed tools to stay calm, detached, and in control. You’ll learn how to ride out emotional waves, understand the function of behavior, and respond instead of react.Because emotional maturity isn’t about never feeling — it’s about choosing your behavior after the first six seconds.✨ Watch now and take your power back.#ABAMom #BehaviorScience #EmotionalRegulation #LetThem #ParentingPodcast #MentalStrength #SelfRegulationAmazon Link: https://a.co/d/01TH7wqN

How Do I Get ABA Therapy? | Step-by-Step Guide for Parents (Insurance, Diagnosis, Waitlists & What to Expect)If you’ve ever stayed up late Googling:👉 “How do I get ABA therapy?” 👉 “Does insurance cover ABA?” 👉 “Where do I even start after an autism diagnosis?”This episode is for you.In today’s ABA Mom Podcast, we break down EXACTLY how to get ABA therapy — from diagnosis to insurance approval to starting services — in simple, clear steps.No confusion. No gatekeeping. Just real information parents need.🎯 In This Episode We Cover:✔️ What ABA therapy actually is ✔️ Do you need an autism diagnosis first? ✔️ How to call insurance (what to ask & what to write down) ✔️ How to find a quality ABA provider ✔️ What happens during the intake & assessment ✔️ What prior authorization means ✔️ How long approval takes ✔️ What to do if you can’t afford therapy ✔️ Medicaid, scholarships & alternative funding options ✔️ What to expect once services start🧠 Who This Episode Is For:• Parents of newly diagnosed children • Parents on waitlists • Families overwhelmed by the insurance process • Moms trying to advocate for their child • Caregivers who don’t know where to start💬 Real TalkGetting ABA therapy can feel overwhelming, slow, and emotional. This episode walks you through the process step-by-step so you feel empowered — not lost.You are not behind. You are not failing. You are learning how to navigate a system that wasn’t designed clearly for parents.🔔 If This Helped You:👍 Like this video 💬 Comment your biggest question about ABA 📤 Share this with another parent who needs it 🔔 Subscribe for weekly real-life autism & ABA conversations📚 Helpful Resources Mentioned:• Call the number on the back of your insurance card • Ask about ABA coverage & prior authorization • Ask your pediatrician for diagnostic referrals • Search “ABA therapy near me” • Check state waiver programs & Medicaid options#ABATherapy #AutismSupport #ABAtherapyprocess #AutismDiagnosis #InsuranceHelp #SpecialNeedsFamily #BehaviorTherapy #AutismJourney #autismmom #autismdad

In this episode of ABA Mom, host Allie Langan welcomes Phil Carrenard from Connect N Care to discuss his journey into the field of Applied Behavior Analysis (ABA). Phil shares his experiences starting in the field during the pandemic, his passion for working with children and sports, and how his brother's autism influenced his career path. The conversation covers the importance of mentorship, the challenges of working in different states, and the significance of building strong relationships with RBTs and BTs. Phil emphasizes the value of being proactive in sessions and the impact of body positioning on client success. #ABA, #AppliedBehaviorAnalysis, #ConnectNCare, #mentorship, #RBT, #BT, #proactivestrategies, #bodypositioning, #autism

In Episode 45 of ABA MOM, Allie Langan, BCBA, dives into one of the most emotionally charged—and rarely talked about—challenges parents face: setting boundaries with family members who don’t believe in ABA. This isn’t about winning arguments or convincing skeptics. It’s about protecting your child’s progress, your mental health, and your role as their strongest advocate.Allie shares real-life examples, boundary scripts you can actually use, and mindset shifts that help parents stop over-explaining and start standing firm. Whether you’re navigating pushback from grandparents, relatives undermining routines, or family members questioning your parenting choices, this episode offers practical tools and validation you didn’t know you needed.✨ In this episode, you’ll learn:Why family resistance to ABA feels so personalHow to set boundaries without guilt or conflictWhat to say when relatives undermine your parentingHow to protect consistency for your child—even at family gatheringsWhy you don’t owe anyone an explanation for doing what worksA”

In this episode of ABA MOM, Allie Langan, BCBA, is joined by Tracy Smith, BCBA, Sharon Holloway, and Julie Eggleston, CTRS for a powerful conversation on networking and building sustainable adult living supports. Together, they explore how interdisciplinary collaboration can strengthen services for adults with autism and other developmental disabilities across community, residential, and clinical settings.The panel discusses innovative, billable, and sustainable service models, including opportunities within Medicaid Waivers, nonprofit partnerships, and grant-funded programs. Julie shares insights from her work in therapeutic recreation, higher education, and experiential therapy, while Allie, Tracy, and Sharon highlight the critical role BCBAs play in adult services beyond childhood intervention.This episode also dives into creative collaboration ideas—such as involving university students in SOP development, expanding respite and adult living options, and bridging gaps between behavior analysis and experiential therapies. Whether you’re a BCBA, caregiver, nonprofit leader, or student, this conversation offers practical insights and inspiration for growing meaningful adult services through connection and collaboration.🎧 Tune in for real talk, professional insight, and actionable ideas to help move adult living services forward.#ABAMOM #AppliedBehaviorAnalysis #AdultAutism #ABAPodcast #BCBAPodcast #AdultLiving #AutismAdults #IDDServices #TherapeuticRecreation #CTRS #InterdisciplinaryCare #CommunityLiving #MedicaidWaiver #RespiteCare #NonprofitWork #BehaviorAnalyst

On this episode, Allie and Erica discuss new goals and maintaining them using ABA principles!

Episode 42: Trauma-Informed Behavior Analyst | with Annie Chen, BCBA In this episode of the ABA MOM Podcast, host Allie Langan, BCBA, sits down with Annie Chen, BCBA, founder of Behavior Roots, to explore what it truly means to practice as a trauma-informed behavior analyst. Annie shares her journey in the field of ABA and how trauma-informed care has shaped the way she supports clients, caregivers, and clinicians. Together, Allie and Annie discuss the importance of compassion, safety, and connection in behavior analytic practice, as well as how understanding trauma can transform outcomes for individuals and families. This conversation is especially valuable for BCBAs, RBTs, parents, and professionals looking to integrate ethical, humane, and person-centered approaches into their work. Learn more about Annie and her work at Behavior Roots: 👉 https://behaviorroots.com/ 🎧 Tune in for an honest, insightful discussion that bridges behavior analysis and trauma-informed care. #ABAMomPodcast #ABA #TraumaInformedCare #BehaviorAnalysis #BCBA #RBT #TraumaInformedABA #ParentingWithABA #BehaviorRoots #EthicalABA #ABACommunity #NeurodiversityAffirming #CompassionateCare

On this episode of ABA Mom, Allie Langan, a board-certified behavior analyst and mother of five, discusses the challenges and strategies for preparing both children and parents for the holiday season. She emphasizes the importance of using ABA strategies to manage expectations, stress, and sensory overload during the holidays, while also focusing on self-care and setting boundaries. #aba #holidaypreparation, #sensory , #parenting, #holidaystress, #christmas, #appliedbehavioranalysis

On this episode, Allie describes and provides examples of functional play. What is functional play? How do you engage in functional play at home? #aba #funcionalplay #bcba #rbt #parenting #adhdawareness #autismawareness

On this episode, Allie interviews Kate Blasi who is a school-based BCBA, yoga instructor, and doula! Kate has combined her interests and started her own business in New Jersey called Seaquence, LLC. Kate discusses her journey and gives helpful tips to parents and caregivers. Contact: Free Virtual Workshop- https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfN3CV7mI_YOEFobhFZ4plKOqWl0YWIT66UfAZpgi5YvsC-Fw/viewform?pli=1 Instagram @seaquence_ : https://www.instagram.com/seaquence_/

On this episode, Nancy Moses-Bennett ---Speech Pathologist in Flagler County with over 40 years of experience discusses the critical role of vocabulary in enhancing reading comprehension. She emphasizes the importance of understanding multiple meanings of words to aid children in making connections while reading, especially when visual aids are absent. #abamompodcast #speechtherapy #speech #autismawareness #autismsupport Building Vocabulary While Playing: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1917336616/ref=cm_sw_r_as_gl_api_gl_i_WY8P4Q02VRSRRZDRYNQT?linkCode=ml1&tag=mobile0914fe8-20&linkId=7dd49832aabc208cd7fd3d6378e21789 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/asknancyonline?mibextid=wwXIfr&rdid=wJqKNEsbYkTvn7xK&share_url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.facebook.com%2Fshare%2F181cfnogLY%2F%3Fmibextid%3DwwXIfr#

🎃 Halloween Special | The Cannibal of Germany & Other Creepy Stories | ABA MOM Podcast 👻 Get ready for a chilling Halloween episode of ABA MOM with Allie Langan, joined by returning guest Sam Liberatore (he's back) and Janosch our Germany friend 🇩🇪 In this eerie and thought-provoking special, the trio dives into the infamous case of the German Cannibal, exploring the bizarre true story of a man who volunteered to be eaten — and the psychological and behavioral factors behind it. 😱 But that’s not all — Allie, Sam, and Janosch share other creepy real-life stories, strange motivations, and dark humor through a behavior-analytic lens. Expect laughter, goosebumps, and a little bit of learning along the way. So grab your pumpkin spice latte, dim the lights, and tune in for this Halloween deep dive into the scariest parts of human behavior! 🕯️ #ABAMom #HalloweenPodcast #TrueCrime #GermanCannibal #BehaviorAnalysis #PodcastSpecial #CreepyStories #humanbehavior #Halloween2025 #DarkPsychology #TrueCrimePodcast #ABA #SamLiberatore #Janosch #AllieLangan #ABAMomPodcast

On this episode of ABA Mom, Allie Langan and Kayla Santos discuss compassionate care in applied behavior analysis (ABA). They explore how personal experiences as parents influence their professional practice, emphasizing empathy, understanding, and the importance of building strong client relationships. Kayla shares her journey as a mother to a child with ADHD, offering insights into the challenges and rewards of balancing professional and personal roles.#ABAMOM #AppliedBehaviorAnalysis #BCBA #CompassionateCare #ABATherapy #ParentingAndABA #KaylaSantosBCBA #AllieLangan #BehaviorAnalysis #Neurodiversity #ADHDParenting #EmpathyInABA #AutismSupport #BehaviorGurus #WomenInABA #ABAPodcast #ParentingPodcast #CaregiverSupport #ADHDAwareness #CompassionateABAE-mail: ksantos@connectncareaba.com

On this episode of ABA Mom, Allie Langan interviews Brittany Duguay, a board-certified behavior analyst and IFBB Bikini Pro. Brittany shares her journey of combining the science of ABA with health and fitness coaching, creating sustainable habits that transform lives. She discusses her Better Habits program, the challenges of balancing professional fitness competitions with a career in ABA, and her insights on behavior change. #aba #podcast #ifbbbikinipro #fitness #fitnessmotivation Instagram @betterhabitsbybritt If God Were Made of Sparkles: https://a.co/d/7R5TkBP

On this episode of ABA Mom, host Allie Langan interviews Andrew Bortzner, a BCBA and owner of KT-ABA, who shares his unique journey into the field of Applied Behavior Analysis (ABA) and his passion for integrating community outings and nature into therapy. Andrew discusses the importance of engaging clients in natural settings, such as parks and beaches, to promote social skills and reduce problem behaviors. He also shares his love for dinosaurs and how he incorporates this interest into his practice to create memorable experiences for children. The conversation touches on the challenges of working with insurance companies, the benefits of nature on mental health, and advice for parents looking to incorporate more outdoor activities into their child's routine. Andrew emphasizes the need for a shift in the ABA field towards more naturalistic approaches and the potential for future growth in his practice. Contact: https://www.kt-aba.com/home abortzner@kt-aba.com #aba #autismawareness #autism #dinosaur #dino

On this episode, Allie interviews Mike Carr. Mike is a parent advocate and founder of J13 (respite care for profound autism). Mike shares his 35 years of taking care of his son with autism and how he has helped individuals in his community by starting a non-profit organization in Austin, Texas. Websiteautismlabs.comLinkedInlinkedin.com/company/autismlabsFacebookfacebook.com/AutismLabsAustinwww.youtube.com/@autismlabsTIKTOK @DISABILITYDAD

On this episode, Allie discusses correlation and causation. Join in to take a deeper dive on the autism vs. Tylenol discussion