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Time to cut the cameras and turn ON the mic — Erin and Abe Lichy are pulling back the curtain on the wild ride of marriage, sex, business, and everything in between in Come Together.
As a powerhouse couple who’ve built empires together—Erin as a serial entrepreneur, interior designer, and Real Housewives of New York star, and Abe as a sharp legal mind and founder of The Advisory—they’re the couple you want at your dinner party, the ones you want to grab a drink with, and the first ones you’ll turn to for advice.
Each week, the duo will dive into the real, raw, and often unspoken realities of blending parenting, business, and love — all while keeping it real. With their signature honesty, wit, and easygoing vibe, they’re baring it all. Whether they’re talking business wins, how to keep the spark alive after nearly 15 years, or just the chaos of everyday life, no topic is off-limits.
Tune in every Monday for the real secret behind what it really takes to Come Together.
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This week we sit down with Vienna Pharon – couples therapist, boundary queen, and someone who will lovingly call you out (spoiler: she definitely did for us). We talk about how the stories we tell ourselves about childhood (“it didn’t affect me”) usually… did, and how those early dynamics show up in our marriages, our nervous systems, and the way we fight. Vienna breaks down her five “origin wounds” — worthiness, belonging, prioritization, trust, and safety — and why conflict isn’t the problem, it’s what happens after that matters.We get into real-life examples from our own relationship (including an early Ultra Music Festival spiral), how to regulate instead of react, and why modeling repair is one of the greatest gifts you can give your kids.Get More Vienna@mindfulmftWork with ViennaGet More Erin + AbeORDER ERIN'S NEW BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE!@cometogetherpod@erindanalichy@abe.lichyProduced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
This week we sit down with Captain Jason — yes, that Captain Jason — and talk about what life actually looks like off the yacht. From filming six weeks straight on Below Deck (with basically no sleep) to building a villa in Bali, launching a gender-neutral fragrance, and structuring his entire career around being present for his daughter, there’s a lot more depth than the slow-mo beach shots suggest. We get into production realities, environmental work in Indonesia, dating while nomadic (and not getting into Raya), and why he skipped drinking at BravoCon. It’s equal parts charming, grounded, and unexpectedly thoughtful — with a little chivalry discourse for good measure.Get More Erin + AbeORDER ERIN'S NEW BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE!@cometogetherpod@erindanalichy@abe.lichyProduced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Season two, baby.In this episode, we kick off the new season by looking back at what we learned from season one — and then get into what everyone actually wants to talk about: how to make a relationship last. We break down “the spark,” why it’s overrated if you don’t build something underneath it, how to fight without blowing everything up, and what spontaneity really looks like once you have kids, careers, and responsibilities. We talk celebrity longevity, friends dating in their thirties, and the different phases of marriage — from early heat to that third chapter where the kids are older and you actually get to like each other again.It’s honest, a little blunt, and very much about playing the long game.Get More Erin + AbeORDER ERIN'S NEW BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE!@cometogetherpod@erindanalichy@abe.lichyProduced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
This week, we cover a very glamorous mix of topics: Erin's back injury, why Dry January is a scam (sorry), and the rise of Analog January—aka putting your phone down and remembering how to be a person. We talk about the chokehold screens have on adults and kids, what parenting looks like in a world of Roblox and endless content, and why boredom might actually be a good thing.Get More Erin + AbeORDER ERIN'S NEW BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE!@cometogetherpod@erindanalichy@abe.lichyProduced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
This week, Abe sits down with Max Cohen, better known as Murray Hill Boy. Max talks about walking away from a legal career at 25, accidentally finding success on TikTok, and why growing up Jewish in New York gave him endless material. They get into what it’s actually like to build a following online, the not-so-fun parts of visibility, and being a gay guy in mostly straight friend circles without turning it into a “thing.” It’s funny, self-aware, and refreshingly honest about the work behind a career that looks effortless from the outside.Get More Erin + AbeORDER ERIN'S NEW BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE!@cometogetherpod@erindanalichy@abe.lichyProduced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
This week, we sit down with Rachel and Jordan — entrepreneur parents, investors, and the brains behind of your kids’ favorite snacks – cadootz!. We talk about what it’s really like to build multiple businesses while raising a family, feeding kids real food, and working together without losing your minds (or your marriage). They share how their insistence on real ingredients shaped their brands, what’s coming next in their product line, and how they handle conflict, communication, and carving out actual quality time.Get More Erin + AbeORDER ERIN'S NEW BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE!@cometogetherpod@erindanalichy@abe.lichyProduced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
This week, Abe sits down with Jade Shanker from Netflix’s Owning Manhattan for a real, behind-the-scenes conversation. Jade opens up about breaking into NYC real estate, what it was really like being cast on the show, and the competitive dynamics inside the office once the cameras were rolling. She also gets personal about navigating a separation in the public eye, handling scrutiny, and finding her footing while everything was playing out on screen. The conversation touches on ambition, spirituality, and what’s next for Jade as she builds beyond reality TV — because in New York, nothing ever slows down for long.Get More Erin + AbeORDER ERIN'S NEW BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE!@cometogetherpod@erindanalichy@abe.lichyProduced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
This week, Erin's answering all your questions — nothing off limits. She gets into her favorite furniture and home décor sources (and why she's constantly designing my own pieces), baby essentials she actually uses, and the renovation chaos currently happening in the Lichy house. I also cover BravoCon, Australia plans, beauty routines, pregnancy cravings, and what it’s really like having cameras in your home. From interiors and fashion to family, friendships, and real-life logistics, it’s a full catch-up.Get More Erin + AbeORDER ERIN'S NEW BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE!@cometogetherpod@erindanalichy@abe.lichyProduced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
This week, Abe teams up with fellow Househusband John Barlow to shake things up behind the bar. Between laughs, they talk reality TV fame, business hustle, and what really goes down when cameras stop rolling. The convo naturally drifts into the spirits world — from agave aging to distribution headaches — before wrapping with some solid advice on staying grounded, supportive, and (mostly) sober through the chaos of reality TV.Get More Erin + AbeORDER ERIN'S NEW BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE!@cometogetherpod@erindanalichy@abe.lichyProduced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
This week, Abe's chatting with Dr. Amanda Kahn — the longevity queen who basically makes aging feel… optional. We get into why longevity is the new luxury, what’s actually happening at the cellular level, and how things like NAD, peptides, and hormones can make a real difference. We also talk stress, pollution, diet, and why waiting until something’s wrong to deal with your health is the worst strategy. Dr. Kahn breaks everything down in a way that actually makes sense, and we get real about what it looks like to stay healthy, energized, and feeling good as we get older. It’s smart, it’s approachable, and honestly — it’ll make you want to book a blood panel.Get More Erin + AbeORDER ERIN'S NEW BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE!@cometogetherpod@erindanalichy@abe.lichyProduced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
This week, we’re talking about the glow-up that comes after your twenties—the new wave of people in their 30s, 40s, and 50s getting into the best shape of their lives. We dig into how the conversation around health and fitness has evolved, and of course, debate the age-old question: is it really about diet, or is it all in the workout? Later, we switch gears with a Vogue-style rapid-fire round where we spill everything from our biggest weaknesses to our best life advice. We wrap with some thoughts on ambition, reinvention, and how even in a world run by AI, there’s still no substitute for hustle and heart.Get More Erin + AbeORDER ERIN'S NEW BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE!@cometogetherpod@erindanalichy@abe.lichyProduced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
This week, we’re talking about the new rules of love — because apparently, having a boyfriend is now uncool. Inspired by a recent Vogue piece, we get into how younger generations are redefining relationships, independence, and what “commitment” even means anymore. We also touch on the weird rise of AI romance (yes, people are actually dating chatbots) and what that says about connection in the digital age. It’s a real look at how social media, tech, and “self-empowerment” culture have changed the way we love, date, and relate — and whether that’s actually progress or just another trend we’ll outgrow.Get More Erin + AbePRE-ORDER ERIN'S NEW BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE!@cometogetherpod@erindanalichy@abe.lichyProduced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
This week, Abe reunites with his best friend, Preston Konrad, for a catch-up that’s part Miami flashback, part business masterclass. They swap stories from Art Basel, debate city life versus vacation-home dreams, and dig into Preston’s latest ventures—his luxury home-fragrance line and the new Preston Lane Home Collection. They talk about finding the right business partner, learning when to let smarter people lead, and what it really takes to build something from scratch. It’s equal parts personal, practical, and a little bougie — just the way we like it.Get More Erin + AbeORDER ERIN'S NEW BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE!@cometogetherpod@erindanalichy@abe.lichyProduced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
This week, Abe sits down with Charlie Walk – music exec, brand builder, and comeback king. He started as a college intern at Sony and went on to run Republic, Columbia, and Epic, working with everyone from Mariah Carey to The Weeknd. After decades at the top of the music game (and a few major life curveballs), he’s now focused on brand investment and cultural A&R with projects like Charlie’s Angels and Angel House. We talk about resilience, cancel culture, and raising kids who actually follow their passions. Oh, and he still somehow finds time to look like he hasn’t aged since the early 2000s — so there’s that.Get More Erin + AbePRE-ORDER ERIN'S NEW BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE!@cometogetherpod@erindanalichy@abe.lichyProduced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
We’re finally back in the studio and yeah, we’re talking psychedelics now. Abe went on a guided retreat led by Omani and Jeannie from Omya, and let’s just say things got… enlightening. There were breakthroughs, a few tears, maybe some messages from the other side— get ready. We get into Abe's “trickster energy,” facing your own chaos, and why sometimes the universe has to knock you upside the head to wake you up.Get More Erin + AbePRE-ORDER ERIN'S NEW BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE!@cometogetherpod@erindanalichy@abe.lichyProduced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
In this episode, Erin and Abe get real about what it’s like to mix marriage and business without losing your mind — or each other. They spill on establishing roles, communicating like adults, and building systems so no one ends up stepping on toes (or egos). From pausing before big decisions to celebrating the wins — both tiny and huge — they show how a business partnership can boost your relationship instead of draining it. Plus, they share tips for keeping your personal life intact, staying sane, and even sneaking in a little meditation while hustling together.Get More Erin + AbePRE-ORDER ERIN'S NEW BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE!@cometogetherpod@erindanalichy@abe.lichyProduced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Thinking about starting a business but don’t know where to start? Erin and Abe break it down – sharing the messy, the magical, and the downright unexpected parts of launching anything from handbags to Mezcal. They spill on spotting opportunities, leaning into your passions, and finding partners who actually get you. Plus, real talk on using the networks you have, knowing yourself, and surviving the chaos of entrepreneurship. No fluff, just stories, laughs, and actionable tips to get your idea off the ground.Get More Erin + AbePRE-ORDER ERIN'S NEW BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE!@cometogetherpod@erindanalichy@abe.lichyProduced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Erin sits down with Danielle Robay for a conversation that’s equal parts heart-to-heart and real talk. They cover everything from the messy (and magical) parts of motherhood, to relationship ups and downs, to the little rituals that keep happiness alive. They reflect on life’s big moments - loss, love, career, and friendship - while sharing how asking the right questions can change everything.Get More Danielle@daniellerobay@questioneverythinghqGet More Erin + AbePRE-ORDER ERIN'S NEW BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE!@cometogetherpod@erindanalichy@abe.lichyProduced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Ben and Zikki are a culinary power couple you need to know. In this episode, we dive into their upcoming cookbook and how they make the kitchen – and life – work as a team. From meeting in the Italian Alps to surviving long-distance during COVID, they’ve built a business and a life together that’s equal parts love and hustle. We talk teamwork, shared goals, the highs and lows of parenthood, and the small rituals that keep them grounded. Bonus: some real talk about self-care and finding balance when work and home collide.Get More Ben + ZikkiORDER BEN + ZIKKI'S BOOK 'Eat Small Plates' HERE!@bengingi@chefzikkiGet More Erin + AbePRE-ORDER ERIN'S NEW BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE!@cometogetherpod@erindanalichy@abe.lichyProduced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Abe and Erin sit down with Omani & Jeanie Carson—partners for 43 years—to unpack what actually sustains a long relationship: losing and re-finding yourself, taking space (they separated for three years), and then doing the hard work to come back stronger. We go inside their five-hour, therapist-guided MDMA-assisted session—how prep, boundaries, and integration dropped defenses and reignited intimacy—and why they now help other couples pursue similar, medically supervised healing at Carson Healing Ranch and the Heartland Gathering. We also hit practicals: why moms can’t “disappear” into motherhood, men’s mental health and vulnerability, and a simple practice they swear by—the “Perfect Year” exercise. Candid, useful, and very human. (Psychedelic therapy is discussed; this episode isn’t medical advice.)Get More Erin + AbePRE-ORDER ERIN'S NEW BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE!@cometogetherpod@erindanalichy@abe.lichyProduced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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