momplex with Scottie Durrett

I chatted with functional practitioner Layne Vanlieshout about reclaiming health as a mom. I opened up about how exhaustion, brain fog, bloating, and being dismissed by doctors had become normalized — and Lane shared her own turning point of panic attacks and mysterious symptoms that conventional care didn’t resolve. She explained a gut-first, root-cause approach: nourish the body, prioritize regular meals (especially breakfast), support the microbiome, and reduce physical stressors so hormones, digestion, and energy can rebalance. We talked practical steps — add colorful plant foods, protein, fermented foods, and bone broth — and when targeted labs like a GI‑MAP can clarify underlying issues. Lane offers deep one‑on‑one work and a self‑paced 12‑week reset for busy moms. The episode’s core message: normal isn’t optimal. Listening to your body and investing in sustainable, foundational changes can restore energy, mood, and confidence so you can be the mom you want to be. Offers from Layne: Gut Rescue Roadmap ($10) Radiant Reset Book A Call Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

As a mom, I know the holiday season can be overwhelming. We're constantly juggling expectations from family, social media, and our own hearts, trying to create the perfect experience. In this episode, I share my journey of learning to set boundaries and protect my energy. I've realized that people-pleasing and trying to make everyone happy only leads to resentment and burnout. I want to help moms understand that it's okay to prioritize themselves. Setting boundaries isn't about being difficult; it's about clarity and self-respect. Whether it's limiting event time, choosing what conversations to engage in, or saying no to peer pressure, these small steps can transform the holiday experience. The most important lesson? By taking care of myself, I'm not just helping myself - I'm modeling healthy behavior for my children and breaking generational patterns of self-sacrifice. Book Your Clarity Reading here. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

I wanted to create a space for Holly to share her vulnerable story about losing her husband to alcoholism at just 36 years old. Through our conversation, we explored the complex journey of supporting a loved one struggling with addiction, the importance of trusting your instincts, and how moms can find strength even in their most challenging moments. Holly's story is a testament to resilience - showing how we can navigate incredibly difficult circumstances while trying to hold our families together. We discussed the subtle red flags of addiction, the challenges of setting boundaries, and the critical importance of supporting oneself through impossible situations. My goal was to create an episode that would make listeners feel seen, supported, and hopeful, even when life feels overwhelming. Holly Thornton is a writer and advocate dedicated to helping people coping with loved ones’ alcoholism. (The Hardest Help) After tragically losing her husband Steve to alcoholism, she drew on personal experience — and recognized the lack of practical guidance available — to write The Hardest Help. Rather than offering a memoir or purely clinical manual, her book serves as a hands-on guide: blending lived experience with actionable tools, scripts, exercises, and advice rooted in evidence-based methods. Through her writing and outreach (on social media and other platforms), Holly seeks to equip families and loved ones with real-world strategies to support someone struggling with addiction — transforming helpless concern into informed, compassionate action. You can connect with Holly in the following places: Buy the book here on her website Her Instagram Account Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sari Rose Barron, LMFT, is the Founder and Director of SoCal Individual, Family, & Trauma Therapy, a group practice dedicated to trauma-informed care. An EMDR Certified Therapist and EMDRIA Approved Consultant, Sari is a nationally recognized expert in trauma who trains clinicians across the country. She’s also the creator of the Parenting Connected Community, where parents find practical tools, real support, and a little humor to get through the hard moments. Known for blending deep expertise with warmth and honesty, Sari makes complex topics feel human, relatable, and doable. We explore the emotional rollercoaster of raising teens, discussing how our own nervous systems and past experiences impact our parenting. Sari shares incredible insights about staying connected when kids are pushing us away, emphasizing the importance of curiosity, validation, and creating a safe space for our teens to express themselves. We talk about handling difficult behaviors, the impact of social media, and why it's crucial to regulate our own emotions before approaching our kids. Sari even introduces her innovative AI parenting tool, offering support for moms navigating these challenging years. It's a raw, honest conversation about staying connected during one of the most challenging phases of motherhood. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

I brought Whitney Baker on to explore a critical issue for moms: how we lose ourselves in the chaos of motherhood. We dove deep into the ways moms run on autopilot, constantly doing for everyone else while neglecting their own needs. Whitney helped me articulate something I've felt deeply - that taking care of ourselves isn't selfish, it's actually the most generous thing we can do for our families. Whitney Baker is the founder of Electric Ideas, a movement helping modern women—especially moms—wake back up to themselves and reclaim the spark they’ve lost in the noise of roles and responsibilities. As a self-connection coach and certified meditation teacher, Whitney blends soulful practice with practical action, guiding women out of autopilot and into lives that feel deeply alive and aligned. With a master’s degree in journalism, she brings a storyteller’s clarity to her work and hosts the globally ranked Electric Ideas podcast, a top-three-percent show where she curates conversations that ignite joy, clarity and aliveness in women everywhere. We discussed the sneaky ways moms disconnect - from exhausting social media comparison to never stopping to ask what we actually want. The big revelation? Small, intentional actions can reignite our spark. Whether it's a two-minute morning routine or saying no without explanation, we can reclaim our identity. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

I share a personal journey of self-discovery and the importance of trusting myself. After experiencing a friend's devastating loss, I realized life is too short to chase external validation through Instagram followers or perfect holiday performances. I've learned that what truly matters is being present, listening to my body, and honoring my own feelings. The pressure to be a perfect mom, to say yes to everything, and to meet society's expectations is exhausting. Instead, I'm choosing to protect my peace, redefine success on my terms, and show my kids that it's okay to prioritize your own joy. Every "no" creates space for a meaningful "yes," and by taking care of myself, I'm teaching my children the most important lesson: you are enough, just as you are. Join me LIVE to Reset & Recharge⁠: ⁠https://scottiedurrett.com/high-vibe-moms-preview Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

I spoke with Megan Tobler, host of the Self StartHER podcast, shares her transformative journey from a high-powered corporate sales career to becoming a mompreneur. After being laid off while pregnant, she realized she could redefine success on her own terms. She created the Together community to support women navigating the complex landscape of motherhood and entrepreneurship. Her mission is to empower women to chase their dreams without apology. Understanding the challenges of identity shifts, balancing business and family, and feeling isolated, she built a community offering resources, networking, and masterclasses designed specifically for busy moms wanting to build businesses. Through her podcast and community, Megan proves that women can have both - a thriving business and a fulfilling family life. By sharing vulnerable, real stories and providing practical strategies, she helps women recognize their inherent skills and potential, one mom at a time. Megan's website is here. Also - I was a guest on her podcast! Listen to our convo here about Mom Guilt. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

I'm diving deep into the art of saying no during the holiday season. As a mom who's been a chronic people-pleaser, I've learned that saying yes when you mean no only leads to resentment and exhaustion. I share my personal journey of trying to make everyone happy during my parents' divorce, and how it left me stressed and disconnected. The key is to prioritize your family's needs first. I recommend sitting down together and discussing what everyone truly wants from the holidays. Learning to set boundaries isn't about rejecting others – it's about protecting your peace and showing up authentically. By saying no with love and clarity, we can create more meaningful connections and teach our children the importance of self-care and honest communication. Join me LIVE to Reset & Recharge: https://scottiedurrett.com/high-vibe-moms-preview Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

I had the incredible Stella Taylor Bergen join me to discuss health beyond traditional metrics. Stella is a Health and Human Performance Specialist working with a wide range of clients from teens looking to get in shape and improve their sports performance to some of Silicon Valley’s top executives and everything in between. If you have a goal, she is ready and willing to help. Stella strives to help all of her clients make the changes they need to live healthier, more productive lives and perform at their optimal level. She is a graduate of Birmingham-Southern College and the University of Virginia and resides in Portola Valley, CA with her husband, Brent and 4 wonderful kids. You Can follow Stella on Instagram here. Stella's Website Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

I'm uncovering the toxic world of mom reels on social media. You know those hilarious videos of moms in messy kitchens making jokes about never peeing alone? I'm calling them out. While they make us laugh, they're secretly convincing us to settle for a life of constant exhaustion and martyrdom. I'm breaking down the difference between being busy and being burned out, and why those viral clips are keeping moms stuck in a cycle of survival mode. I'll share how I escaped feeling invisible and overwhelmed by making small, intentional choices that brought my joy and energy back. This isn't about being a perfect Instagram mom or a suffering martyr - it's about finding that beautiful middle ground where you can love your kids and yourself. If you're a mom feeling disconnected and desperate for change, this episode is your wake-up call. You have a choice, and you deserve more. For more, ⁠go to Scottie's Website...⁠ or go there and sign up for ⁠Scottie's Clairty Reading. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

I dive deep into the reality of burnout for modern moms. I challenge the dangerous "I can't" mindset that keeps us stuck, exhausted, and disconnected from ourselves. Drawing from my personal experience of feeling overwhelmed while standing in a messy kitchen late one night, I expose how burnout isn't just about being tired—it's about losing our identity and living on autopilot. I share startling statistics: nearly 70% of working parents are burned out, and only a quarter of moms report excellent mental health. But here's the truth: burnout is optional. I offer practical strategies to break free, like taking micro-pauses, saying no to draining commitments, and asking for help. My message is clear: you're not broken, you're a badass. Stop waiting for "someday" and start reclaiming your life now. Thriving is available, and you absolutely deserve it. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

I spoke with Kristine Gardner, a wellness coach who helps women over 40 reclaim their joy and live their best lives. We dove deep into the power of morning routines and positive thinking. Christine shared simple yet transformative tips like drinking water, saying "Today is going to be a great day," and getting morning sunlight. We discussed how moms often get stuck in negative thought patterns and lose themselves in the daily grind. Christine emphasized that joy is our birthright and showed how small shifts in our mindset can dramatically change our experience. We talked about regulating our nervous system, the importance of self-care, and how taking just two minutes for ourselves can reset our entire day. The conversation was a powerful reminder that as moms, we don't have to wait to prioritize ourselves. Our well-being matters, and we can start reclaiming it right now. You should connect with Kristine through her website and there are some excellent tips on her blog. You can also follow her on Instagram Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

As a mom who’s poured my heart and soul into raising my kids, I know firsthand how challenging it is when they leave home. This episode is my honest reflection on the identity shift that comes with launching your children into the world. I share my own experiences—like the strange feeling of grocery shopping without my daughter and the anxiety of not knowing exactly where she is. I talk about the emotional roller coaster, the pressure society puts on mothers, and the importance of redefining who I am beyond motherhood. I encourage other moms to reconnect with their dreams, explore new hobbies, and have open conversations with their partners. Most importantly, I remind myself and my listeners that we’re always our children’s home base, but we deserve to thrive too. This new chapter is about rediscovering joy, embracing change, and giving ourselves permission to grow. Ready to Find your Purpose Again? Sign up for ⁠Scottie's Burnout to Badass Program. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

I want to share my insights on maintaining a strong marriage after having kids. Marriage is like a team sport, and the key is remembering you're on the same team. In my 21-year marriage, I've learned that small moments matter more than grand gestures. Flirting, supporting each other, and recognizing each other's efforts are crucial. I've experienced the challenges of parallel lives after having children - feeling disconnected, exhausted, and struggling to maintain intimacy. But I've discovered that redefining romance, embracing micro-moments of connection, and letting each other be imperfect can keep the relationship alive. My message is simple: choose each other every day. Whether it's a quick hug, a flirty text, or helping with household chores, these small acts of teamwork can reignite your connection and remind you why you fell in love in the first place. For more, go to Scottie's Website... or go there and sign up for Scottie's Burnout to Badass Program. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

I know how overwhelming it can feel to juggle school, sports, work, and family life. In this episode, I share my own experiences—like dropping my daughter at college while my boys started school without me—and the realization that simply pushing through isn’t sustainable. I want you to thrive, not just survive, so I offer five sanity moves: Here are the five “sanity moves” from the episode: 1. Lower the bar – Give yourself permission to not do everything perfectly. Focus on what you have the bandwidth for and let go of unnecessary expectations.2. The 15-second reset – When stress hits, pause for 15 seconds (or even just five), take a deep breath, and reset before responding.3. Say one brave “No” – Protect your energy by saying no to at least one thing that drains you this week.4. Borrow your calm – Your kids mirror your vibe. Take a grounding breath, step outside, or pause before responding to help set a calm tone for your family.5. Anchor in the joy – Schedule one non-negotiable joyful activity for yourself this month and protect it like an important meeting. The Tapping Resources: TAPPING ON OVERWHELM RELIEF TAP TO RELEASE ANXIETY Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

As a mom navigating the chaotic world of youth sports, I'm overwhelmed by the endless apps, group chats, and logistical nightmares. Managing my kids' sports schedules feels like running a Fortune 500 company from my car, with nothing but a team hat as compensation. I've found myself drowning in multiple sports apps like TeamSnap and SportsEngine, constantly worried about missing crucial information about uniforms, practice times, and tournament availability. To maintain my sanity, I've implemented some game-changing strategies: a color-coded wall calendar, limiting group chat responses, and most importantly, delegating responsibilities to my kids. I'm teaching them to take ownership of their sports commitments, just like I did when I played sports without smartphones. The key is simplifying the chaos, staying calm, and remembering that we moms don't have to carry the entire load. We're in this together, surviving on iced coffee and the hope that someday, coaches will unite and use just one app. Tips: 1. Wall Calendar Strategy Get a large white erase board Color-code by kid, sport, and life activities Put everything in one visible spot Update at the beginning of each month 2. Text Chain Management Stop replying to every group chat Catch up with parents in person at tournaments Reduce digital communication stress 3. Delegate to Kids Have kids ask coaches about practice times Encourage kids to write their own schedules Make kids responsible for uniform preparation Let them manage team expectation 4. Simplification Techniques Give some responsibilities to kids Ask partners to help with app management Reduce digital overwhelm Focus on personal communication 5. Mindset Shifts Take radical responsibility for personal wellness Practice deep breathing to manage anxiety Recognize you don't have to do everything Understand that your calm is contagious to kids 6. Practical Tips Prepare uniforms the night before Communicate directly with coaches Keep a backup of all uniforms in a bag Stay organized and proactive Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Hope Pedraza joins me to talk about the struggles so many of us face—exhaustion, brain fog, and low energy, especially as mothers. Hope is a Certified Holistic Nutritionist, a Functional Diagnostic Nutrition Practitioner, a Board Certified Holistic Health Practitioner, and the founder of inBalance. She brings incredible expertise to the conversation, sharing how she uses functional labs—like hair tissue mineral analysis, gut tests, and hormone tests—to uncover the root causes of symptoms. What I love about Hope’s approach is that she doesn’t just focus on the physical side of health. She also emphasizes the importance of the energetic and emotional aspects, helping women truly understand their unique human design. She offers practical ways to start, from simple body check-ins to prioritizing fiber, protein, magnesium, and potassium in our daily nutrition. Hope’s perspective is a powerful reminder that healing is possible when we listen to what our bodies are really asking for. Hope has a podcast you may want to check out. More Ways to Connect with Hope: The Facebook PageHer Instagram PageYouTube Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

As a mom and host of the Momplex Podcast, I’m passionate about helping other mothers rediscover their joy and confidence. In this episode, I call out the myth that feeling exhausted and overwhelmed is just “mom life.” I share my own struggles with burnout, brain fog, and constant stress, and how I learned to listen to my body’s signals. By regulating my nervous system through conscious breathing, movement, grounding, and self-care, I transformed my health and mindset. I encourage you to notice your symptoms, join my free 7-Day Nervous System Reset Challenge, and reach out with what you’re experiencing. You don’t have to accept feeling drained—healing is possible, and when you prioritize yourself, you set a powerful example for your kids. Let’s break the cycle of burnout together and step into our most energized, confident, and joyful lives. I know I gave a few "lists" in this episode but I have shared them with you here. 1. Symptoms of a dysregulated nervous system: - Chronic exhaustion (tired even after sleep) - Brain fog (forgetfulness, confusion) - Mood swings (loss of interest, irritability) - Digestive issues (bloating, constipation, diarrhea, appetite changes) - Sleep struggles (trouble falling/staying asleep, no dreams, waking at 3am) - Anxiety (constant worry, expecting bad news) - Frequent sickness (catching colds easily, slow recovery) - Physical tension (tight jaw, headaches, tense neck/shoulders) - Hormonal shifts (perimenopause effects, feeling weaker) 2. Tips to regulate your nervous system: - Conscious breathing (deep, belly breaths, habit-stacked into daily routines) - Movement (not just exercise—walking, shaking out limbs, dancing, moving during calls) - Grounding (noticing senses: 5 things you see, 4 feel, 3 hear, 2 smell, 1 taste) - Singing and humming (using your voice for regulation) - Pausing before reacting (hand on chest, deep breath, ask how you want to respond) 3. "Nervous system triggered mom moments" (examples of signs you might be dysregulated): - Snack rage (irritation when kids ask for snacks) - Forgetting why you entered a room - Freezing when someone calls "mom" - Anxiety from email/phone notifications - Invisible mental load (remembering everyone’s needs, forgetting your own) - Late-night Netflix/revenge procrastination (staying up for alone time) - Overreaction regret (snapping at family, then feeling guilty) - Super stressed shoulders/neck pain - Digestion issues (bloating, unexplained changes) - Waking up at 3am, frequent illness You will also find this Episode Useful: Stop Doomscrolling & Reclaim sleep (end revenge bedtime procrastination) Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

As a mom and host of the Momplex Podcast, I know how heavy grief can feel, especially when it touches our children. In this episode, I share my own journey navigating loss and offer practical ways to help our kids process grief. I believe in being honest with our children—using clear, simple words like “death” and “died,” rather than vague phrases that can confuse or scare them. I encourage letting kids ask questions and expressing that it’s okay not to have all the answers. Modeling healthy ways to process emotions, like crying or journaling, shows our kids that feelings are safe and normal. Most importantly, I remind them—and myself—that they are loved and safe, and that we’ll figure things out together. Supporting our children through grief not only helps them build resilience, but also heals parts of ourselves. We are the exact parents our kids need, right now. Resources: The Invisible String by Patrice Karst (for younger kids) When Dinosaurs Die by Laurie Krasny Brown Dougy Center’s Kid Grief Resources National Alliance for Children’s Grief Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This is about the challenging topic of grief and supporting loved ones through loss. I share insights on how to genuinely help friends and family experiencing profound sadness, emphasizing the importance of showing up consistently and authentically. I offer practical advice like saying the loved one's name, providing specific help, and being present long after the initial mourning period. I also discuss how to help children navigate grief, teaching them compassion and emotional awareness. My message is clear: grief is a lifelong journey, and we shouldn't shy away from supporting those in pain. I stress that it's not about saying the perfect thing, but about making people feel loved, seen, and supported. By leaning in during difficult times, we create a compassionate environment that helps people heal. My goal is to provide tools and understanding for moms dealing with loss and supporting others through their grief. Join Scottie's Bad Ass Rebirth - From Burnout to Badass Coaching Option B — Sheryl Sandberg & Adam Grant (great for helping friends through loss) Bearing the Unbearable — Joanne Cacciatore The Dougy Center Crisis Text Line — Text HOME to 741741 or visit https://www.crisistextline.org/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices