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📩 Inbox: New Message💌 From: Your Internet Big Sister Hi! You've got mail from me and this week we are chatting about visiting a place you once called home and why it can leave a funny feeling in your tummy. By revisiting old homes, we also revisit past selves which can teach us a lot about how far we have come. So go ahead, open your mail!! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

📩 Inbox: New Message💌 From: Your Internet Big Sister Hi! You've got mail from me and this week we are chatting about loneliness and different ways you can overcome that horrible feeling at the pit of your stomach. Loneliness comes and goes and each time I find to deal with it. So go ahead, open your mail!! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

📩 Inbox: New Message💌 From: Your Internet Big Sister Hi! You've got mail from me and this week we are chatting about why you need to stop rushing, appreciate the small stuff and, in times of darkness, find whatever light you can. So go ahead, open your mail!! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

📩 Inbox: New Message💌 From: Your Internet Big Sister Hi! You've got mail from me and this week we are chatting about how to deal change in a healthy way! Change is scary but here are the things I’m doing to make it as normal as possible. In this episode, we why change is key to you growing as a person. So go ahead, open your mail!! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

📩 Inbox: New Message 💌 From: Your Internet Big Sister Hiii! You’ve got a new message from me, and this week as its the week of love we're talking about allll the different types of it!! There are so many different kinds of love, but platonic love is one of the most special. This Valentine’s Day, we’re diving into all the ways love can show up in your twenties—the friendships that feel like home, the deep connections that shape you, and the self-love that carries you through. So go ahead, open your mail! 💌 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

📩 Inbox: New Message💌 From: Your Internet Big Sister Hiii! You've got a new message from me, and this week we’re diving into some pretty big life moments. In this episode, we will talk about giving yourself time to figure out a plan, and why it's crucial to take time to process personal experiences before putting them out into the world.Join me as we explore the beauty of embracing change, trusting your intuition, and the freedom that comes with being in your twenties. If you’ve ever wondered about making big decisions in your twenties navigating relationships, or prioritizing your mental health, this episode is for you!So go ahead, open your mail! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

📩 Inbox: New Message💌 From: Your Internet Big Sister Hi! You've got mail from me and this week we are chatting about listening to one of the most important voices in your life - your own. In this episode, we discuss how trusting your intuition can lead to more happiness, peace and clarity. So go ahead, open your mail! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Every year I think I have to hate myself into changing into something new - but this time maybe not :) maybe we can live what we have become and still grow into something better Let’s chat about the past year and set some goals for 2025!! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What a way to kick off the guest's episodes with this beautifully comforting chat with Lindsay, the host of You Found Her Podcast, the podcast for ambitious minds seeking comfort. I hope you enjoy this episode as much as I did, and I hope it brings you an immense amount of comort to hear how things can turn out (it really did for me) Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We all know I’m a worrier so let’s discuss how we can all get our overthinking under control ❤️ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Driving home for Christmas means recording episodes in my childhood bedroom 🥲 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

learning to control your emotions so they control you is important ❤️ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Feeling lost isn’t easy but sometimes it’s important.. maybe even character building Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Follow me on insta and on tiktok @youvegotmail_pod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Hi! You've got mail from me, Bella, and this week we are discussing how important our perspective is, and how the language we choose can impact our viewpoint. Love, Bella Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode we are talking about identifying ourselves outside of what we do, because your career is not your entire identity and mine (kind of) was becoming it. Send this to the person struggling with success, ambition, and working out there next move. Make sure you're following me on instagram and on tiktok @mailfrombella Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

For years, I used to dread Valentine’s Day. I told myself it was superficial, overhyped, and proof that love shouldn’t be reduced to one day. But looking back, I don’t think I hated the holiday — I think I hated how performative love felt in my early twenties. In this episode, I’m talking about performative romance, social media relationships, and the pressure to express love in ways that look impressive instead of feeling honest. When you’re in your early twenties and still learning how to trust yourself, it’s easy to confuse what love looks like with what love actually feels like. We’ll explore: Why love can feel performative in your 20s The pressure to “prove” your relationship publicly How social media shapes our expectations of romance Why Valentine’s Day isn’t the problem — our understanding of love might be Learning to trust your own definition of love This episode is about emotional maturity, self-trust, and redefining love beyond grand gestures, aesthetics, and expectations. If you’ve ever questioned whether you genuinely feel something — or just feel like you should — this conversation is for you. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode of You’ve Got Mail, we’re unpacking the pressure of success in your twenties — from promotions and salary expectations to comparison, productivity guilt, and the fear of falling behind. When we were younger, success felt simple: work hard, get the result. But adulthood doesn’t work like that. And when your self-worth is tied to outcomes you can’t fully control, it’s exhausting. If you’ve been feeling behind, not good enough, or quietly anxious about your career path, this conversation will feel like a deep exhale. We’re talking about ambition, external validation, imposter syndrome, and what it really means to define success on your own terms — instead of chasing someone else’s timeline. Because maybe success isn’t about being ahead. Maybe it’s about choosing what’s actually worth caring about. Love, Bella Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

You’re working hard. You’re doing “all the right things.” So why does success still feel slightly out of reach? In this episode of *You’ve Got Mail*, we’re unpacking the pressure of success in your twenties — from promotions and salary expectations to comparison, productivity guilt, and the fear of falling behind. When we were younger, success felt simple: work hard, get the result. But adulthood doesn’t work like that. And when your self-worth is tied to outcomes you can’t fully control, it’s exhausting. If you’ve been feeling behind, not good enough, or quietly anxious about your career path, this conversation will feel like a deep exhale. We’re talking about ambition, external validation, imposter syndrome, and what it really means to define success on your own terms — instead of chasing someone else’s timeline. Because maybe success isn’t about being ahead. Maybe it’s about choosing what’s actually worth caring about. Let’s rethink it together. 💌 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Returning to London always makes me think of the 22-year-old version of me who moved there with no real plan, no clear sense of who she was, and no idea how life in her twenties was supposed to look. She built a life for herself from scratch — navigating uncertainty, independence, and self growth all on her own. Every time I revisit, I’m reminded of how brave I was back then. How doing the thing that scares you — even when it costs you comfort, certainty, or familiarity — is often the most important step in growing into who you’re meant to be. This chapter of my life taught me that trusting yourself, especially in your twenties, can change everything. Big sister advice for anyone feeling lost right now: if it scares you, it might just be worth doing 🤍 Love,Bella Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices