Claim OwnershipPioneering Paradox: A podcast for conflicted saints
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An attempt to find a middle ground in the Mormon experience.
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From the earliest days of the Latter-day Saint movement, Native Americans have been part of our story—and, for better or worse, we have been part of theirs, especially in the American West. It’s not always an easy story to tell. It involves colonization, displacement, and at times even massacre. The full story may never be completely told, as it is often one-sided.But there are other stories—stories centered on individuals, not just groups or grand narratives. This is one of those stories.In this episode we interview Orlando Tsotsi, a Navajo and a Latter-day Saint, and how he came to find himself and is still finding himself while embodying parts of both of those identities. Orlando speaks about his journey to faith, the wisdom passed down from his Native people, and how his worldview expanded after living with five Latter-day Saint families through the Indian Student Placement Program ran by the LDS church from 1947-2000. We didn’t feel like we even scratched the surface with Orlando and plan to have him on for more discussion in the future. We hope you enjoy this conversation.
Welcome to Pioneering Paradox (@pioneeringparadox) , hosted by Wil Wood (@willywouldnt) and Casey McFarland (@caseymcfarlandphoto). Here, we explore the messy, meaningful, and often difficult conversations within the Latter-day Saint tradition. We believe paradox is not a problem to solve but a healthy way to hold the tension of complex issues. As Richard Rohr reminds us, “Paradox is the only language that can contain the whole.”This episode marks the beginning of season 2. We start this season off with a discussion with the mystifying Melanie McFarland (@TrueWithinYou) who has an emotional wellness practice and happens to be my wife. We dive into the chaotic and exhillerating world of the stage of faith Brian Mclaren calls “perplexity”. This stage can be destabilizing and also exciting but what do we do about raising kids and being a part of the larger world when we are in this stage? We don’t have all the answers but just some thoughts and perspective. Thanks for listening.
Melanie and I discuss the idea that religion is a tool that should lead to transformation, to becoming a "new creature" or "born again" . The Covenant Path does this for many people but what about the billions of people who don't feel a connection to the Latter Day Saint path. Are there other ways that can lead to transformation, even within the same home? We also discuss parenting kids outside of the covenant path and how families can be strengthened when we respect and honor spiritual paths different than ours.
Lots of changes in the church. We got together to discuss! Garments, Pres. Oaks, women becoming prophets, assuming authority, and some of my reconciliation with Pres. Nelson. And a discussion about D. Todd Christopherson and his family embracing his brother Tom's partner. (Keep in mind we are aware of the recent issue with Wade Christopherson but recorded this prior to that).Stick around to the end for the discussion about doubting your hate!Wil invites me back to church :)
This episode with James and Lisa Clawson are serving as service mission leaders and are hoping to end the stigma against service mission experiences. We discuss the shifts that have happened, the stats that show transitioning to a service mission is most often a very positive experience. We also discuss including all the voices in ward council and when to speak up when something doesn’t feel right. We really enjoyed speaking with these two lovely humans.
Today, we’re joined by the incredible and multitalented Melissa Mason. Wil and I had a hard time staying on task because there was so much we wanted to ask her, from her therapy practice, which includes Ketamine-Assisted Therapy and Sex Therapy, to her talents as a modern quilter and presenter, her commitment to social justice, her political science background from Notre Dame, and her current participation in the Living School. And, of course, we were eager just to hear her thoughtful perspectives on current affairs.In this episode, Melissa shares her story of growing up Catholic, losing her faith, joining the Latter-day Saints, and eventually re-embracing elements of her original tradition. We deeply appreciated her candor, intellect, and insight and we hope you will too.
In this episode we’re joined by Dr. Julie de Azevedo Hanks—and honestly, it quickly became one of our favorite conversations. We laughed, we cried, and we learned a lot. A quick content note: we dive into sensitive topics, including how we handle claims of abuse in the church, because we deeply wanted to hear Julie’s perspective. With over 30 years of experience as a social worker, psychotherapist, and founder of Wasatch Family Therapy, Julie brings wisdom and compassion that gave us a lot to think about.We asked her how we can raise boys to grow into good men in the church, what young women should look for in healthy relationships, and how we can all create more space for people to be heard in our community. This was a meaningful, moving discussion—and we can’t wait to share it with you.
We are told to work out our salvation with the Lord. But what happens when that becomes so heavy it begins to rule almost everything you do? Kathryn Hilton Johnston is an active member, mother of two who has been diagnosed with scrupulosity, a form of Religious OCD.Scrupulosity often shows up more in highly religious environments, and because it overlaps with normal religious devotion, it can be underdiagnosed or mistaken for piety.While the topic of Scrupulisity has been more prevalent in main stream, it is still something many people don’t understand or recognize. Kathryn articulates this struggle very well. We hope you get value from this conversation.
Jeff Lowe found himself where many men do—successful on the outside, surrounded by family and friends, but battling deep loneliness and depression. Hitting a breaking point led to a profound shift in his life. Now, he's building something different.Jeff is the host of the Bonded Brotherhood podcast—a space where men can gather, get honest, and find connection. It's a far cry from the typical "alpha male" blueprint.This episode isn’t just for men. If you have a son, a partner, or a friend who’s struggling, this conversation matters.Thanks for listening.
In this episode, we invited social media influencer and latter day saint Phil Cowley onto the show. In 2021 Phil was about to close the doors on his pharmacy when he was approached to do a social media clip for a local gym. Soon after he started his own social media called Phil’s my pharmacist which now has over 3 million followers across his platforms. We discuss faith, parenting, critical thinking and raising kids with disabilities. Thank you for listening.
In this episode, Wil and I explore the Buddhist teaching of Emptiness. Back in 2017, during a time when I was seriously considering leaving the Latter-day Saint community, I encountered Buddhist teacher and podcaster Noah Rasheta. Through a series of events, I had the privilege of joining Noah and eleven others from across the country in a six-month Buddhist intensive.The most challenging—and ultimately most rewarding—part of that experience was the ominously named teaching of Emptiness. It forced me to confront and question many of the stories I was telling myself and eventually became the foundation of a daily practice I still carry with me.Wil and I discuss how this concept has the potential to move us beyond the dualistic thinking that pervades our culture and touches nearly every aspect of our lives. We hope it brings insight or comfort to someone out there.Thank you for listening.
Welcome to Pioneering Paradox, a podcast for Latter-day Saints navigating inner conflict and complexity. As Richard Rohr once said, “Paradox is the only language that can contain the whole.” In this space, we aim to embrace both light and shadow—because holding the tension between them is often the closest we come to the truth.In this episode we invited the lovely Lauren Wood to join us for a discussion about the paradox of being a part of a community, specifically the Latter Day Saint Community. Lauren discusses how the church has been a place she finds meaningful spiritual nourishment while also expressing she can’t fully enjoy it as long as there are people feeling left out. We discuss finding that balance. I am hoping this is only part one of a two part series on community because Lauren brings some heart to this topic and we still have so much more to say about this. Thanks for listening.
Today, we’re diving into a topic that’s difficult for many: Patriarchy. For me, it became deeply personal when, in 2018, it nearly cost me my marriage to my love, Melanie. We’ve since walked through that pain, found healing, and emerged stronger. In this episode, Melanie joins me to explore how the system of patriarchy created a deep wound in our relationship—and how facing it together became a path to transformation.
In an attempt to give some back story to listeners about who we are as hosts, Wil and I took turns interviewing each other. I interviewed Wil in the episode title Meet Wil Wood, Go back and give that a listen. This episode Wil interviews Casey. Thanks for listening.
Welcome to Pioneering Paradox, a podcast for conflicted Latter Day Saints. In the current polarized climate we find ourselves in, we thought we would interview two people who are working on bringing people together through similarities rather than differences. "That's Church" is a podcast hosted by sisters Emilie Call and Ashlie Sanders, who come together to explore the diverse tapestry of faith within their community. Inspired by their grandparents' mixed-faith marriage and their grandmother's belief that "there is good in all religions," they aim to build bridges between various religious communities by interviewing individuals who lead or attend different congregations. Through these conversations, Emilie and Ashlie delve into how their friends and neighbors experience spirituality and define what church means to them, embracing ideas and beliefs beyond their own LDS backgrounds. Please welcome Emile and Ashlie
Now that we have recorded a few episodes we realized many of you don’t know who we are so in this episode I interviewed my co-host and active member, Wil Wood. Wil lives with his wife Lauren and three children in Cache Valley, Utah. Together they own a very popular kitchen appliance store called Love to Cook. Located in downtown Logan it has become a cultural gathering place for cooking classes, book clubs and bridge building and Wil and Lauren are at the center of it all. Wil is an avid outdoorsman and finds much of his spiritual nourishment in the local mountains. He is a poet and writer and has contributed to local magazines. He is the author of the book “And it Was Beautiful”
In a 2017 study, researchers Benjamin Knoll and Jana Riess asked members who had left the faith, ‘How old were you when you stopped identifying as a member of the LDS Church?’ The average answer? Twenty-one—the legal drinking age.Currently, in the U.S., about 62% of adults drink alcohol. Many do so responsibly, but according to Pew Research, over 10% of Americans age 12 and up struggle with alcohol use disorder.The reality is, many of our kids will step into a world where drinking is not just common—it’s often expected. So how do we talk about that without sounding churchy?Today, we’re bringing in a guest Jay Hymas from outside the church to share a different perspective and help us open up a real, informed conversation about alcohol and a few other substances—with their risks and realities, and how we can keep those conversations going, with love and honesty.”**
In this episode, Wil and I discuss the importance of being true to oneself while still being a part of a community. We discuss how communities can either squash an individual or help and individual thrive depending on a variety of factors. We also breech the topic of being ones own self within a marriage. We hope this helps someone in someway.
In this episode we discuss Richard Rohr's concept of the Cosmic Egg from a Latter Day Saint perspective, which is a model that encompasses My story, Our story, Other stories, and THE story. We discuss the Latter Day Saint story from the perspective of an active member, a member who no longer attends and some who is all over the place.
In this episode, we’re joined by Mormon history scholar Patrick Mason to explore the complexity of the controversial figure, Brigham Young. In a time when polarization divides us, we seek to thoughtfully address a question recently posed by my daughter: “Is there anything good about Brigham Young?”We delve into topics such as slavery, racism, polygamy, and the tensions between Mormons and Native Americans. While we can’t cover all the nuances of these complex issues in a single hour, we hope this conversation offers a thoughtful perspective on Brigham Young's legacy and the challenges of reconciling both the positive and negative aspects of history.
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