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This episode covers a wide-ranging conversation about black womanhood, respectability, movement, and the pressure to treat every life decision as a direct command from God. Mo and Raven connect everyday choices like hair, dancing, work, and dating to larger questions about autonomy, patriarchy, and what it means to live as a whole person. At the center of the discussion is a shared concern: too many black women are taught to ignore their own discernment in favor of obedience, suffering, or spiritualized recklessness. The conversation moves through faith, deconstruction, and the freedom to choose joy, pleasure, and self-trust. Where to Find WOTA Official Hashtag: #WOTA Find our Book recommendations on StoryGraph Stay Connected Is there a topic you'd like covered on the podcast? Submit it at [email protected] Follow us on Socials: Instagram: @whatsontheagendapod Threads: @whatsontheagendapod YouTube: @whatsontheagendapod Keep up with Raven Martin Instagram: @RayeRena YouTube: @RavenRena TikTok: @RavenRenaM Keep up with Morgan Moore Instagram: @prettygirllifter YouTube: @morgan-allison2513 TikTok: @prettygirllifter Timestamps (00:00) Opening banter and black girl hair culture (06:06) Wedding weekend, dancing, and being outside (17:19) Raven’s PhD plans and the pressure of life change (28:30) Seminary, deconstruction, and shifting faith (40:04) The screenshots and the “God told me to move” conversation (46:06) Suffering theology and what counts as hearing from God (57:01) Purity culture, autonomy, and patriarchy (61:55) Reframing faith as co-creation instead of passivity (68:41) The erotic, deep knowing, and resisting control (77:10) Why purity culture pushed both hosts toward deconstruction (81:11) Why this matters for black women’s liberation (86:34) God in friendship, celebration, and a whole life (99:00) Closing thoughts and sign-off

This episode explores the cultural and spiritual significance of a pivotal interview between KeKe Palmer and Oprah Winfrey, emphasizing themes of Black excellence, purpose, aging, community, and faith. We dive into the lessons from this moment, how it inspires us, and why celebrating Black womanhood matters. Where to Find WOTA Official Hashtag: #WOTA Find our Book recommendations on StoryGraphStay ConnectedIs there a topic you'd like covered on the podcast? Submit it at [email protected] Follow us on Socials:Instagram: @whatsontheagendapodThreads: @whatsontheagendapodYouTube: @whatsontheagendapod Keep up with Raven MartinInstagram: @RayeRenaYouTube: @RavenRenaTikTok: @RavenRenaM Keep up with Morgan MooreInstagram: @prettygirllifterYouTube: @morgan-allison2513TikTok: @prettygirllifter Timestamps: 00:00 - We’re back: life updates, marriage, and new beginnings 03:37 - The weight and beauty of marriage 05:28 - Black love, commitment, and what stays 09:24 - Weddings, cost, and why the moment matters 13:52 - Community, friendship, and lasting connection 24:18 - Why the Kiki Palmer and Oprah interview mattered 37:43 - A conversation for winners: purpose and calling 51:49 - Faith, alignment, and divine guidance 61:11 - Work, capitalism, and the reality of success 73:36 - Intergenerational community and Black womanhood 88:43 - Why it matters: purpose, credentials, and alignment 94:43 - The Lion King live and closing thoughts Resources & Links: Alice Walker's "In Our Mothers' Gardens"Oprah Winfrey's official siteEckhart Tolle on The Voice WithinBlack woman mentorship & community

Summary This episode explores the systemic issues affecting Black communities, including violence, public health crises, and community resilience. Morgan and Agenda Pod share personal stories, societal critiques, and actionable ideas for community investment and youth mentorship. Stay in the know! Where to Find WOTA Official Hashtag: #WOTA Instagram YouTube Threads Find our Book recommendations on StoryGraph Stay Connected Is there a topic you'd like covered on the podcast? Submit it at [email protected] Follow us on Socials: Instagram: @whatsontheagendapod Threads: @whatsontheagendapod YouTube: @whatsontheagendapod Keep up with Raven Martin Instagram: @RayeRena YouTube: @RavenRena TikTok: @RavenRenaM Keep up with Morgan Moore Instagram: @prettygirllifter YouTube: @morgan-allison2513 TikTok: @prettygirllifter Chapters 00:00 Navigating Community and Personal Growth 02:56 The Impact of Anxiety and Mental Health 06:01 Confronting the Reality of Black Death 08:54 Public Health Crisis: Black Youth Mortality 12:01 The Value of Black Lives in Society 14:48 Institutional Racism and Its Consequences 18:00 Understanding Immigrant Perspectives and Challenges 20:59 Education and Awareness in Diverse Communities 25:00 Navigating Business Challenges in Communities 32:02 The Impact of Community Dynamics on Business 39:07 The Struggles of Black Mothers and Child Safety 45:57 Mentorship and Community Engagement for Youth

0:00 Introduction  11:22 Career Growth and Negotiation Insights 14:16 The Importance of Creativity in Work 17:19 Motherhood and Parenting Dynamics 28:23 The Protective Nature of Parenthood 30:08 Building Core Memories in Parenting 32:10 Breaking Generational Curses 33:36 The Challenges of Gentle Parenting 34:05 The Need for Parenting Infrastructure 35:29 Cultural Perspectives on Motherhood 37:41 The Role of Community in Parenting 39:28 The Economic Burden of Parenting 40:58 The Stigma Around Motherhood 44:59 The Collective Responsibility of Raising Children 48:09 The Nuclear Family Concept 50:48 The Role of Doulas and Community Support 53:44 The Financial Strain of Childcare 55:43 Navigating Parenting Responsibilities 58:51 Finding Hope Amidst Challenges 01:01:43 The Sinister Side of Capitalism 01:06:26 The Need for Community and Connection 01:09:23 Therapy and Mental Health Resources 01:11:22 The Importance of Helping Others 01:16:09 Books and Learning for Growth 01:22:50 Why Community Matters 01:28:34 Conversations on Parenting and Community

Summary This episode dives into the complexities of voting rights, economic struggles, and the importance of community activism. The hosts discuss historical and current challenges in politics, the significance of voting, and strategies for collective resilience. This episode explores the complexities of capitalism, patriarchy, and community, emphasizing the importance of authentic relationships, mental health, and societal change. The hosts share personal insights and societal observations, encouraging listeners to reflect on their roles in shaping a more equitable future. Stay in the know! Where to Find WOTA Official Hashtag: #WOTA Instagram YouTube Threads Find our Book recommendations on StoryGraph Stay Connected Is there a topic you'd like covered on the podcast? Submit it at [email protected] Follow us on Socials: Instagram: @whatsontheagendapod Threads: @whatsontheagendapod YouTube: @whatsontheagendapod Keep up with Raven Martin Instagram: @RayeRena YouTube: @RavenRena TikTok: @RavenRenaM Keep up with Morgan Moore Instagram: @prettygirllifter YouTube: @morgan-allison2513 TikTok: @prettygirllifter Chapters 00:00 The Cultural Significance of the Kentucky Derby 02:59 Navigating Personal and Professional Life 06:09 The Urgency of Rest and Liberation 08:58 The Importance of Voting Rights 19:28 The Age of Disclosure and Economic Struggles 26:40 The Cost of Living and Economic Struggles 29:31 The Pressure of Appearances in a Capitalist Society 33:29 Community Support and Mutual Aid 38:36 The Role of Government and Economic Inequity 44:29 Personal Experiences with Financial Constraints and Relationships 53:49 The Chaos of Parenting and Pets 54:18 Ethics in Non-Monogamy 54:41 The Impact of Patriarchy on Relationships 56:05 Coddling and Development in Men 58:08 Redefining Masculinity and Success 01:00:16 Navigating Relationships with Powerful Women 01:03:15 The Future of Gender Dynamics 01:06:27 Cultural Reflections in Media 01:08:26 Understanding Addiction and Relationships 01:11:35 The Interconnectedness of Social Issues