The Intimacy Inquiry

Creating, Maintaining, and Rebuilding Long-Term Intimacy with Bella Krutik Bella Krutik, a relationship nervous system and feminine embodiment coach, shares how she helps successful women and men rebuild trust, intimacy, and long-term connection. She reflects on her formative years as a rule-following, approval-seeking “good girl,” shaped by a first-generation Australian/Latvian immigrant family culture of playing small and staying safe. Bella describes marrying at 20, divorcing four years later, then repeating similar patterns in a second marriage (people-pleasing, self-abandonment, blame, weak boundaries). Years after separating and divorcing her second husband (the father of her son), they reconciled and rebuilt a deeply honest, connected partnership after both did substantial work: she trained as a feminine embodiment coach; he stopped drinking, attended therapy and men’s circles. They discuss how unrealistic cultural narratives about “perfect love” reduce self-responsibility and make normal human flaws look like red flags. Bella explains embodiment as shifting from living “neck up” into the body—tracking felt sensations, releasing “frozen tension,” and learning to respond rather than react in conflict. The episode also covers signs of “flatmate” relationships (logistics-only talk, screens, intimacy dropping), redefining sex as broader intimacy, practical reconnection via intentional touch and deeper conversations, gratitude as a practiced muscle, and how high-achievers must soften and drop control at home. Bella outlines how she helps clients discern whether to stay or leave without “should,” and how she protects herself by holding sessions in a “container” and using embodiment practices afterward. 00:00 Meet Bella Krutik01:08 Formative Years03:24 Immigrant Family Culture: Playing Small, Staying Safe05:11 Embodiment & Learning Through Mistakes07:04 Early Relationships: Unaware Patterns & a First Marriage at 2009:49 Second Marriage, Same Patterns: The Myth of the ‘Ideal Partner’12:43 Reconciliation After Divorce: Inner Work, Boundaries & Vulnerability15:54 Society’s ‘Perfect Love’ Script19:15 What Feminine Embodiment Means in Practice (From Head to Body)25:29 Holding Pain to Access Pleasure31:08 From Lovers to Flatmates35:41 Redefining Sex: From Performance to Intimacy37:24 Rebuilding Connection: Touch, Presence, and Turning Off Distractions39:45 The Gratitude Practice: Training Your Brain to See the Good43:42 Imperfect Love: Slipping, Repairing, and Embracing Messy Emotions45:12 High Achievers at Home50:28 Stay or Go? Untangling ‘Should’ and Taking Responsibility55:03 Protecting the Helper: Holding a ‘Container’ for Clients’ Trauma57:50 What’s Next: Career Vision, Partnership Without Remarriage, and a Possible Book01:05:41 Final Reflections & Farewellhttps://bellakcoaching.com/https://www.instagram.com/bellakcoaching/https://www.facebook.com/isabel.krutik

Lauren Venables on Safety, Somatics, and Dropping the Guard to Create Deeper IntimacyLauren Venables, a Sydney-based feminine embodiment and intimacy coach who supports high-achieving women in feeling safe enough to drop their guard and receive intimacy, pleasure, and devotion through somatic practices, nervous system work, trauma-informed coaching, grief, and relational healing. Lauren shares how she was shy, perfectionistic, and afraid to be seen as a teen despite being a dancer, and how bullying and a lack of safety in relationships shaped her early intimacy and self-expression. She describes a major turning point after a nine-year relationship that lacked passion and polarity, followed by years of mindset work before discovering body-based nervous system practices. She emphasizes creating safety in the body to support boundaries, communication, consent, and deeper intimacy, and outlines a practical approach for discussing desires with a partner: get clear on what you want, regulate through breath and somatic awareness, then speak from vulnerability without blame. The conversation explores redefining sex as intimacy and pleasure rather than penetration and performance. They address shame in the body, releasing emotion through somatic validation and feeling sensations, and the importance of self-pleasure for understanding desire and communicating preferences. The host and Lauren discuss how BDSM/kink communities often model clearer communication and boundaries, and they examine how mainstream porn and sexualized media can distort expectations and harm self-worth. Lauren reinforces that it’s never too late to reconnect with libido, especially by restoring safety amid burnout, hormones, or menopause. She also describes practitioner self-care, energetic boundaries, mentors, nature grounding, and her future aims to follow her “aliveness,” and continue living what she teaches through ongoing learning.00:00 Meet Lauren Venables: Embodiment, Intimacy & Nervous System Safety00:51 From Shy Teen to Confident Coach03:15 Dancer in Her Head: Perfectionism, Bullying & Fear of Being Seen04:43 Why High-Achieving Women Keep Their Guard Up in Love07:06 Safety, Discernment & Finding Your Yes/No in the Body08:24 When Success Masks Coercion: The Hidden Side of “Having It Together”11:03 Lauren’s Turning Point13:31 Learning to Ask for What You Need: Masculine Safety & Being Held16:02 How to Talk About Desire Without Shame: Somatic Prep + Vulnerable Language20:06 Redefining Sex as Intimacy: Beyond Penetration, Toward Connection23:11 Feminism, Polarity & the Craving to Be Led (Without Losing Power)26:13 Boundaries Without Walls: Discernment, Nervous System Clarity & Shame Release30:38 Meeting Shame with Validation: Somatic Tools to Let It Dissolve33:08 Why We Rush Self-Pleasure (and What We Miss)34:12 Know Your Desire: Self-Exploration & Communicating Needs35:46 What Kink Communities Get Right: Consent, Boundaries & Debriefs37:58 Learning to Love Yourself Through Body Work39:09 Porn, Media & Sexual Scripts: The Impact on Self-Worth42:59 1:1 vs Group Work: Safety, Shame, and Going Deeper44:48 “You’re Never Too Old”: Reclaiming Libido by Creating Safety49:13 The Body Keeps the Score: Integrating Mind + Somatic Healing51:04 Holding Space Without Burnout: Practitioner Self-Care & Boundaries53:40 Grounding in Nature + Looking Ahead (Practice, Love, and Closing)https://www.laurenvenables.com/https://www.linkedin.com/in/laurenvenables1/

Navigating Modern Therapy and Relationships with Briana BassIn this episode, Briana Bass, a licensed professional counselor associate and board-certified clinical psychologist, shares insights from her unique background, combining high-level corporate experience and work in addiction centers.She discusses the transformative power of modern, evidence-based therapy in addressing the challenges of today's high-pressure world. Briana reflects on her formative years and explains how modern therapy differs from traditional approaches by focusing on real-world issues such as chronic stress, gender roles, political climate, and technology.She also touches on the loneliness epidemic, the impact of dating apps, and the importance of authenticity and communication in building deep, meaningful relationships.00:00 Introduction to Briana Bass00:45 Briana's Formative Years02:35 Modern Therapy Explained04:57 Challenges of Modern Life07:33 The Impact of Technology on Relationships16:41 Loneliness in a Connected World17:30 Deepening Emotional Intimacy22:25 Navigating Life Transitions24:10 Navigating Life's Changes Together25:02 The Power of Communication25:41 Rebuilding Connection26:04 Emotional Regulation and Vulnerability27:34 Practical Tips for Reconnecting30:23 The Impact of Modern Dating38:47 Challenges of High-Pressure Environments40:33 Balancing Personal and Professional Life43:01 Maintaining Mental and Emotional Health45:18 Final Thoughts and Reflectionshttps://brianabass.org/

Rebuilding Self-Trust with Brylye Collins: Navigating Love, Life, and LeadershipIn this episode, Brylye Collins, a relationship coach, talent leader, and founder of Building with Bry, shares her journey from a corporate HR and talent acquisition background to empowering singles in finding intentional relationships. Drawing on over 20 years of experience, Brylye discusses the importance of self-trust and clarity in dating, her transition from traditional corporate roles to relationship coaching, and the unique challenges high-achieving professionals face in their personal lives.Brylye also talks about the value of embracing one's individuality outside of societal labels, the drawbacks of relying on dating apps, and the importance of practicing self-care and intentional living. Additionally, she introduces her upcoming workbook and single empowerment retreats aimed at helping individuals reconnect with themselves before pursuing relationships. The conversation also touches on the dynamics of modern dating, the importance of realistic expectations, and fostering genuine connections.00:00 Introduction to Brylye Collins01:27 Career Journey and Transition 03:18 Founding Rose Talent Consulting04:52 Building with Bry: Personal Empowerment05:40 Reconnecting with Yourself09:45 Challenges in Modern Dating17:19 Matchmaking Insights and Practices21:37 Client Expectations and Realities24:51 Evaluating Client Readiness26:30 The Lessons in Meeting People27:09 Navigating Post-Divorce Relationships28:23 The Impact of Modern Communication on Relationships31:22 The Importance of Thriving Solo33:26 Embracing Solitude and Self-Discovery35:02 Handling Intimacy After Long-Term Relationships36:59 Empowerment Retreats and Workbooks43:01 Balancing Personal Wellbeing45:57 Finding the Right Relationship50:25 Final Thoughts on Relationships and Self-Growthhttps://www.buildingwithbry.com/http://instagram.com/buildingwithbry.comhttps://www.linkedin.com/in/brylyecollins/https://www.tiktok.com/@bryduffy?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc

Embracing Pleasure and Power: A Deep Dive with Dr. Jordin WigginsIn this insightful episode, Dr. Jordin Wiggins, a naturopathic doctor, author, and pleasure and intimacy coach, shares her revolutionary approach to women's sexual health and wellness. As the CEO of the Pleasure Collective and host of the Amazing Pleasure Principles podcast, Dr. Wiggins combines her 13 years of holistic medical experience with personal insights as a sexual abuse survivor to help high-achieving women reclaim their pleasure. She discusses her journey, the impact of hormone health on sexual desire, and the systemic issues in women's healthcare. Dr. Wiggins also emphasizes the importance of pleasure in all aspects of life and offers practical advice for women to receive and enjoy more from their lives. This episode is a must-listen for anyone looking to understand the deep connections between pleasure, health, and overall well-being.00:00 Introduction to Dr. Jordin Wiggins01:20 Formative Years and Early Influences03:24 Hormone and Sexual Health Journey05:23 The Pink Canary and Rediscovering Pleasure07:01 Challenges in Women's Health and Hormone Therapy09:35 Super Traits and Their Impact on Relationships21:39 Expanding the Definition of Pleasure26:35 Medical System Gaps and Women's Health35:05 Receiving in Life and Relationships39:13 The Value of Support and Compensation39:56 Embracing Sensation and Tantra40:34 Emotional Shifts and Relationship Dynamics41:58 Navigating Perimenopause and Hormone Therapy44:09 Pleasure-Centered Relationships46:35 Challenges of Long-Term Relationships49:07 Self-Discovery and Authenticity51:35 Protecting Mental Wellbeing54:26 Healing from Abuse and Rebuilding01:01:17 Recognizing Coercive Control01:04:12 Starting the Journey to Deeper Intimacy01:07:35 Future Plans and Final Thoughtshttps://form.typeform.com/to/p9OQD3F5?typeform-source=www.upwork.comhttps://www.thepleasurecollective.com/https://www.facebook.com/jordin.wigginshttps://www.youtube.com/@thepleasurecollectivehttps://www.instagram.com/drjordinwiggins/https://www.linkedin.com/in/drwigginsnd/https://www.tiktok.com/@drjordinwiggins

Reclaiming Intimacy: Xanet Pailet's Journey from Sexless Marriage to Passionate CoachIn this episode, Xanet Pailet, a nationally recognized sex and intimacy coach, shares her transformative journey from a 26-year sexless marriage and a successful career as a healthcare executive to becoming a somatic sexologist and author. Pailet discusses her immersive healing retreats, her approach to trauma-informed body-based sexuality, and the importance of emotional and physical intimacy. She offers practical insights into how couples can reconnect and rekindle their passion, emphasizing the roles of empathy, safe communication, and somatic experiences. As she gears up for the release of her new book, 'The Sex and Intimacy Repair Kit,' Pailet provides valuable advice for those seeking to improve their intimate lives.00:00 Introduction to Xanet Pailet01:04 Personal Journey and Formative Years02:00 Challenges in a Sexless Marriage05:41 Awakening and Self-Discovery09:37 Transition to a New Career13:05 The Importance of Pleasure and Intimacy15:12 Modern Challenges to Intimacy24:32 Tools for Improving Intimacy27:46 Expectations vs. Reality of Couples Retreats28:57 Tools for Emotional Safety and Empathy30:19 Physical Aspects of Intimacy31:18 Navigating Empty Nest Syndrome35:19 The Importance of Somatic Experiencing43:20 Future Plans and New Projects48:35 Self-Care and Professional Boundaries51:19 Taking Action to Reclaim Intimacyhttps://howtoimprovemylovellife.com/https://www.passionateintimacyretreats.com/https://www.instagram.com/xanetpop/https://www.youtube.com/@thepowerofpleasure8132/featuredhttps://www.facebook.com/xanetpailethttps://www.linkedin.com/in/xanet-pailet-2b464671/

Exploring the Complexities of Sexuality with Gigi EngleIn this episode, we dive deep into sexuality, intimacy, and diverse relationships with Gigi Engle, a renowned sex and relationship psychotherapist. Starting with Gigi's formative years and journey in sex education, the discussion spans various topics including the pitfalls of traditional sex education, the impact of pornography on young minds, and the importance of pleasure-based sex education. Gigi shares insights on the dynamics in kinky and polyamorous relationships, the significance of open communication, and how societal norms shape our views on intimacy. They also discuss Gigi's forthcoming book 'Kink Curious,' shedding light on its contents and its aim to guide beginners and seasoned kinksters alike. The conversation further touches on the intersectionality of gender, sexuality, and disabilities in sex therapy, and ponders the future of sexual wellness in the age of AI and virtual connections.00:00 Introduction to Gigi Engle01:04 Formative Years and Early Career03:55 Sex Education and Societal Norms05:45 Impact of Pornography on Sexuality12:00 Redefining Sex and Pleasure16:26 Communication and Consent in Relationships25:46 Exploring Kink and BDSM29:07 Insights from Writing 'Kink Curious'30:20 Introduction to the Book30:35 Book Structure and Content31:58 Exploring Unique Kinks33:01 Non-Monogamy and Polyamory36:39 Jealousy and Relationship Dynamics41:26 Therapist's Personal Journey49:44 AI in Sexual Wellness53:22 Future Trends and Final Thoughhttps://www.missgigiengle.com/https://www.missgigiengle.com/portfolio/books

Exploring Power, Art, and Intimacy: A Deep Dive with Mistress MalisandreMistress Malisandre, an artist, author, and power dynamic educator, discusses how her work with the House of Embers explores the transformation of power through art and immersive experiences. She shares her journey into power dynamics, beginning with observing power in her formative years and eventually becoming a professional dominatrix. Malisandre elaborates on the misconceptions surrounding BDSM and how she integrates elements of power dynamics into the lives of vanilla couples, emphasizing the importance of communication and consent. She also reflects on the vulnerability involved in her role, the ritualistic aspects of her practice, and her efforts to mentor others in the community. Additionally, Malisandre talks about her ongoing projects, including writing a book, and her mission to change conversations around power dynamics and therapy. The conversation touches on themes of intentional living, self-acceptance, and the necessity of maintaining boundaries.00:00 Introduction to Mistress Malisandre00:42 Early Life and Power Dynamics03:21 Exploring Power in Relationships04:50 Journey into BDSM08:47 Misconceptions About BDSM13:13 Communication in Relationships18:24 Professional Domination and Personal Growth31:15 Art and Ritual in Domination41:17 Empathy and Holding Space42:05 Freedom Through Control42:52 Understanding Power Dynamics44:07 The Process of Release48:09 Setting Boundaries in Domination53:35 Maintaining Personal Wellbeing58:54 Balancing Vulnerability and Strength01:08:32 Future Aspirations and Projectshttps://www.instagram.com/malisandres_place/https://substack.com/@malisandrehttps://www.mistressmalisandre.com/

Exploring Erotic Integrity with Dr. Claudia SixDr. Claudia Six, a clinical psychologist, couple’s counselor, and author with over 35 years of experience, discusses her journey from a shy teenager to a renowned sex therapist. She shares her background, influences, and key concepts from her book 'Erotic Integrity: How to Be True to Yourself Sexually.' Dr. Six elaborates on the challenges couples face regarding sexual satisfaction, authenticity, and connection. She also addresses the impacts of body image issues, pornography, and the evolving nature of relationships throughout different life stages. Additionally, she offers insight into the importance of self-awareness and honesty in sexual relationships and discusses her own aspirations for personal and professional growth.00:00 Introduction to Dr. Claudia Six00:55 Teenage Years and Early Influences02:39 Journey to Becoming a Sex Therapist08:58 Understanding Erotic Integrity13:51 Navigating Sexuality in Relationships20:14 Challenges of Long-Term Relationships34:41 Impact of Pornography on Sexuality37:17 The Role of Porn in Sexual Education37:41 Talking to Kids About Porn38:31 Porn as Entertainment, Not Education39:28 Authenticity in Relationships40:37 The Door Handle Moment41:04 Challenges in Modern Relationships42:15 Monogamy vs. Non-Monogamy43:24 Understanding Infidelity48:29 Role Play and Sexual Exploration50:13 Cultural Differences in Sexuality52:36 Faulty Beliefs and Relationship Dynamics56:23 The Loneliness Epidemic01:00:57 Future Planshttps://drsix.net/tedx-austin-south-congress-video-what-happened-to-sex-in-our-relationships/https://drsix.nethttps://www.facebook.com/claudia.sixphd/https://x.com/drsixnethttps://www.youtube.com/channel/UC_KRHr7JJOs5XoZ8amEtzaghttps://www.instagram.com/drclaudiasix/https://www.linkedin.com/in/claudiasixphd/https://substack.com/@itsneveraboutsex

The Sacred Undressing Journey with Nedjma BelaidIn this episode of the Intimacy Inquiry, host Andrew welcomes Nedjma Belaid, founder of With Kind Awareness. Nedjma, a former pharmacist turned empowerment coach, shares her inspiring journey from people-pleasing to deep self-love and authenticity. She discusses her diverse experiences, including her transition from mathematics to pharmacy to spiritual coaching, and the various coaching modalities she has mastered.The conversation delves into topics such as overcoming people-pleasing, the process of 'sacred undressing,' the balance of masculine and feminine energies, and the importance of self-responsibility. Nedjma also touches on the challenges of adapting to life changes, supporting others on their journeys, and the potential impact of AI and virtual reality on personal connections and coaching.00:00 Introduction to the Intimacy Inquiry00:56 Nedjma Belaid's Formative Years01:58 From Mathematics to Pharmacy03:55 Struggles with People Pleasing06:26 Journey to Self-Love and Authenticity10:10 The Sacred Undressing Journey12:53 Non-Pharmaceutical Approaches to Mental Health20:35 Embracing Feminine Energy in Business30:37 Impact of Personal Growth on Relationships34:40 Navigating Personal Growth and Relationships35:31 Sobriety and Social Reactions36:31 Veganism and Social Perceptions39:11 Processed Foods and Personal Choices41:17 Dealing with Disappointment and Inner Work45:17 Exploring Plant-Based Medicines and Psychedelics50:03 AI Companions and Virtual Reality57:08 Coaching and Personal Wellbeing01:00:33 Future Aspirations and Global Impact01:04:31 Final Thoughts and Farewellhttps://www.facebook.com/withkindawareness/https://www.instagram.com/withkindawareness/https://www.linkedin.com/in/nedjma-belaid-a3619144/https://www.withkindawareness.com/https://www.withkindawareness.com/sparkle

Kimberly Braun: From Monastic Solitude to Spiritual LuminaryIn this episode, former Carmelite nun Kimberly Braun shares her profound journey from the cloistered life of a monastery to becoming a spiritual luminary, retreat leader, and author. She explores the evolution of her spirituality, the mystical experiences that shaped her, and the reasons behind her decision to leave the monastic life. Kimberly discusses how her lifelong practices of meditation, presence, and contemplation have transformed her, leading her to guide others in integrating spiritual wisdom into everyday life. The conversation delves into topics like the nature of reality, the essence of prayer, the impact of technology on human connection, and the concept of home. Throughout, Kimberly’s insights into intimacy, joy, and love offer a compelling narrative of spiritual exploration and service.00:00 Introduction to Kimberly Braun01:04 Early Life and Spiritual Awakening06:09 Journey to Becoming a Carmelite Nun06:47 Mystical Experiences and Monastic Life24:48 Leaving the Monastery and New Beginnings41:28 The Smartphone Distraction Epidemic42:46 The Evolution of Human Connection46:01 The Paradox of Technology and Spiritual Growth48:28 The Complexity of Intimacy in Modern Times50:05 The Joy of Simple Pleasures58:46 Writing and Publishing a Book01:16:07 The Concept of Home and Belonginghttps://www.kimberlybraun.com/https://www.facebook.com/kimberlybraun.mahttps://www.youtube.com/@kimberlybraunmediahttps://www.instagram.com/kimberlybraun09/https://www.linkedin.com/in/kimberlybraunma/

Reclaiming Pleasure and Intimacy: A Conversation with Kayla MooreIn this episode, Kayla Moore, a certified sex therapist and pleasure coach, discusses her journey and mission to help women and couples reclaim sex, intimacy, and embodiment as sacred and life-giving parts of their lives. Kayla shares insights from her upbringing influenced by strong female role models, her transformation from traditional psychology to becoming a sex therapist, and her shift towards integrating spirituality and sacred feminine healing into her practice. She highlights the importance of understanding and dismantling patriarchal narratives around sexuality, the necessity of addressing systemic issues, and fostering genuine connections. Kayla also talks about the significance of pleasure in various forms, the impact of pornography on sexual expectations, and the vital role of communication and consent in relationships. This episode is a profound exploration of human connection, vulnerability, and the pursuit of authentic pleasure.00:00 Introduction to Kayla Moore01:02 Kayla's Upbringing and Spiritual Journey07:02 Transition from Therapy to Pleasure Coaching08:20 Challenges in the Therapy Profession14:31 Embracing the Sacred Feminine15:20 The Role of Priestesses in Ancient and Modern Times21:53 Healing the Divine Masculine and Feminine29:23 Reclaiming Sexuality and Pleasure32:42 Addressing Intimacy in Long-Term Relationships33:37 Redefining Sex and Pleasure46:57 The Quick and Hurried Nature of Male Self-Exploration47:28 The Importance of Self-Pleasure and Communication47:55 Debunking Myths About Self-Pleasure in Relationships48:47 Slowing Down and Exploring the Body51:48 The Fear of Receiving and Building Trust55:24 The Role of Consent and Communication in Long-Term Relationships59:35 Addressing Pornography and Its Impact on Expectations01:07:24 Finding Pleasure in Everyday Life01:15:55 The Power of Love and ConnectionPlease take the chance to join the waitlist for Kayla's Sacred Desire course:When you sign up for the waitlist you get Kayla's FREE Sacred Body Workbook: A Guide to Healing Body Image and Experiencing Pleasure and you'll also get a FREE 45 minute Desire Discovery Call with Kayla before needing to commit and put a deposit down to solidify their spot in the circle. Here is the link to the waitlist sign up page. https://connected-pleasure-coaching.kit.com/sacreddesirehttps://connectedpleasurecoaching.com/https://instagram.com/connectedpleasurecoaching

Navigating Life and Love with Psychic Medium June EdwardIn this episode, award-winning author, psychic medium, and relationship coach June Edward delves into her life story and spiritual journey, discussing how her early psychic experiences and a near-death event shaped her understanding of life, relationships, and the soul’s journey. She explains her seven-week relationship mastery program, which helps individuals transform their relationships through understanding energy and self-worth. June shares insights on how meditation led to the full awakening of her psychic abilities, the nature of different types of relationships, and the importance of raising one's vibration for attracting positivity. The conversation also touches on the spiritual aspects of death, dealing with toxic relationships, and the balance between good and evil in the universe. June emphasizes the significance of gratitude, self-love, and the seemingly small interactions that can profoundly impact others.00:00 Introduction to June Edward01:10 Discovering Psychic Abilities03:12 Near-Death Experience and Awakening11:26 Understanding Relationships and Energy19:16 The Importance of Self-Worth26:52 Embracing the Flow of Life27:13 Gratitude for Past Relationships27:46 Understanding Soul Visits29:13 Navigating Toxic Relationships30:23 Life as a Play36:18 The Power of Vibration38:18 The Role of Angels40:43 Impact of Social Media on Youth44:33 Energy in Relationships46:10 Finding Love After Loss49:56 Setting Intentions with the Universe55:19 The Importance of Small GesturesHTTPS://Twitter.com/junemassmediumHttps://instagram.com/JuneedwardmassmediumHttps://Facebook.com/juneedward111HTTPS://linkedin.com/juneedwardhhttps://www.amazon.com/stores/author/B07H7LH293/aboutttps://juneedward.com/https://www.youtube.com/@juneedward3760/community

Anastasia Pierce: Empowerment and Strategy in the Adult IndustryIn this episode of 'Intimacy Inquiry,' the host welcomes Anastasia Pierce, a figure who seamlessly blends artistry, entrepreneurship, and personal empowerment within the adult industry.Anastasia, with a unique dual perspective from her background in both accounting and performance, discusses her journey from a shy girl in Switzerland to a top business coach for creators on platforms like Loyal Fans. The conversation delves into topics like treating adult content creation as a business, empowering performers to think like CEOs, and the changing dynamics of the adult industry in a digital age.Anastasia also offers valuable insights into the importance of consistency, authenticity, and strategic planning for long-term success. The episode underscores the evolution of societal acceptance of adult content creation as a viable career path and the critical need for financial planning and self-care within the industry.00:00 Introduction to Anastasia Pierce01:06 Anastasia's Formative Years02:39 Journey into the Adult Industry04:37 Embracing Sexuality and Confidence06:37 Transition to Camming18:35 Building a Business in the Adult Industry27:24 The Importance of Loyal Fans Platform30:51 The Challenges of Running an Online Business32:36 The Evolution and Acceptance of Online Careers34:40 Balancing Personal Creativity and Fan Demands36:09 Exploring Diverse Content and Personal Growth37:37 The Artistic Side of Adult Content47:00 The Future of Adult Content with Technology51:29 Maintaining Personal Wellbeing and Financial Planning56:09 Final Thoughts and Advicehttps://allmylinks.com/anastasiapiercehttps://www.loyalfans.com/anastasiapiercehttps://www.instagram.com/AnastasiaPierceOfficial

Exploring Intimacy and Connection: A Conversation with Holly NelsonIn this episode, we speak with Holly Nelson, the founder of the Connection Couch and a licensed professional counselor specializing in intimacy, sexuality, and emotional connection. Holly shares her journey from a rebellious LDS upbringing to becoming a sex-positive, queer and kink-affirming therapist. She discusses her various certifications, including EMDR and advanced EFT training, and her passion for helping clients through shame, trauma, and anxiety related to sexuality. Holly also dives into her reasons for founding the Connection Couch and the importance of communication and negotiation in both monogamous and polyamorous relationships. Additionally, she addresses the impact of cultural and religious teachings on sexual shame, the role of feminist porn in healthy sexual relationships, and her techniques for helping clients recover from sexual trauma. Finally, Holly highlights the significance of self-love and the therapeutic practices that individuals and couples can incorporate into their daily lives to foster intimacy and connection.00:00 Introduction to Holly Nelson and Her Work01:11 Holly's Teenage Years and Early Influences02:38 Exploring Sexuality and Overcoming Shame05:09 Journey into Sex Therapy07:06 Creating the Connection Couch10:40 Navigating Intimacy in Long-Term Relationships18:11 The Importance of Self-Love and Personal Growth24:44 The Impact of Pornography on Society26:01 Couples and Pornography: Challenges and Misconceptions27:40 Exploring Feminist and Holistic Porn29:16 Common Kinks and Desires in Therapy30:41 Approaches to Sex Therapy for Individuals and Couples33:30 Ethical Non-Monogamy and Polyamory35:55 Addressing Sexual Trauma in Therapy41:25 Therapist Self-Care and Wellbeing43:16 Future Aspirations and Closing Thoughtshttp://www.theconnectioncouch.com/https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100091893859082https://www.instagram.com/sextherapywithholly/https://www.tiktok.com/@sextherapywithholly?lang=enhttps://www.reddit.com/user/TheConnectionCouch/

Empowering Your Intuitive Self: A Conversation with Spiritual Guide Gloria BattiniIn this episode, Gloria Battini, a renowned spiritual guide, psychic, medium, astrologer, and transformational teacher, discusses her mission to help individuals reconnect with their intuitive intelligence and heal from past traumas.Sharing insights on tarot, oracle cards, and astrology, Gloria emphasizes that psychic abilities are innate and can be developed by anyone. She also shares her personal journey through severe OCD and emotional abuse, shedding light on the importance of self-discovery and authenticity.The conversation touches on societal conditioning, the power of vulnerability, and practical guidance on using spiritual tools for self-awareness and growth.00:00 Introduction to Gloria Battini01:50 Gloria's Personal Journey and Mission02:07 Understanding Psychic Abilities03:07 Experiences with Intuition and Energy04:46 Society's Disconnection from Intuition15:58 The Role of Astrology24:37 Astrology and Personal Healing32:54 Mediumship and Translating Energy36:40 The Importance of Practice37:02 Exploring Intimacy Beyond the Physical40:10 The Journey of Self-Love and Healing44:18 Leaving a Toxic Relationship50:00 Finding New Love and Trust54:41 Reconnecting with Childhood Joys58:53 Understanding Tarot and Oracle Cards01:04:33 Protecting Your Energy01:08:17 Hopes for the Futurehttps://www.gloriabattini.com/https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC_Lzf1AT9bSdbL8EB3LGQFghttps://www.instagram.com/gloriabattini/https://www.tiktok.com/@gloriabattini

Exploring Intimacy and Identity with Tonya ToddTonya Todd, a Las Vegas-based author, actress, and activist, delves into her life and work in this engaging script. Known for her evocative stories about passionate women, her new book '52 Love' offers bite-sized lessons on intimacy.Tonya champions marginalized voices and shares her journey from being painfully shy to becoming empowered through acting. She discusses her writing process, the significance of representation in media, and her penchant for vampire literature.Tonya also reveals her insights on cosplay and the importance of creative resistance. This script highlights her commitment to storytelling that reflects diverse experiences and relationships. 00:00 Introduction to Tonya Todd01:10 Early Life and Struggles02:18 Overcoming Shyness Through Acting07:31 Defining Powerful Women in Writing08:27 Challenges of Gender and Inclusion15:26 Writing vs. Acting: A Creative Journey18:06 The Writing Process and Future Projects25:05 Exploring Comic Books and High Art31:56 Embracing Character Confidence32:31 Role Play and Cosplay in Relationships35:13 The Birth of '52 Love'36:19 Navigating Love During Turbulent Times37:45 From Blog to Book and Podcast40:08 Exploring Love Languages42:38 The Importance of Communication47:00 Vampire Fascination and Writing56:14 Balancing Creativity and Downtime59:33 Final Thoughts and Future Planshttps://www.imdb.com/name/nm8904672/https://www.mstonyatodd.com/https://www.instagram.com/mstonyatodd/?hl=enhttps://www.facebook.com/tonya.todd.9440https://www.youtube.com/@mstonyatodd

The Journey of Resilience: Ms. Elite USA 2024 Koya Bakare on Healing and Self-WorthIn this episode, Koya Bakare, Ms Elite United States 2024, shares her incredible journey from trauma to triumph. As a speaker and mindfulness coach, Koya discusses her formative years, her relationship with her mother, and the pivotal role of pageantry in her life. She opens up about overcoming bulimia, suicide attempts, and sexual assault, revealing how these experiences have shaped her mission to empower others. Koya also talks about her spirituality, the importance of self-love, and finding joy in life's simple pleasures. This deeply moving conversation highlights the power of authenticity, resilience, and staying true to one's purpose.00:00 Introduction to Koya Bakare00:53 Reflecting on Teenage Years03:02 Mother's Influence and Support08:06 Journey into Pageantry13:33 Therapy and Healing26:09 Romantic Relationships and Trust31:52 Self-Love and Personal Growth32:58 Embracing Self-Love and Identity33:21 The Journey of Self-Discovery34:30 Guidance for Women on Self-Confidence35:19 Writing as a Tool for Healing36:53 Practices for Self-Love and Well-Being40:12 The Impact of Social Media on Self-Perception48:48 Balancing Service and Self-Care53:41 The Role of Spirituality in Life57:10 Future Plans and Aspirations01:00:26 Legacy and Life Reflectionshttps://www.instagram.com/koyamaisha/?hl=enhttps://www.tiktok.com/@koyabakare

Navigating Modern Love: Insights from Dating Coach Noah Heymann In this episode, Andrew interviews Noah Heymann, a dating and relationship coach who helps individuals find love through his website datecoach.com and Instagram handle datecoach.com.Noah's expertise covers areas such as in-person approaches, online dating profiles, communication techniques, body confidence, and intimacy. He shares his journey from a closeted teenager to a full-time coach, emphasizing the influence of past experiences on current dating behaviors.Noah also discusses the importance of candid communication in relationships, different dynamics in online dating for various genders, and the role of data in improving dating success. Additionally, he touches upon open relationships, BDSM, and navigating modern dating challenges. Noah underscores the value of authenticity and offers strategies for effective communication and dating in both new and long-term relationships.00:00 Introduction to Noah Heymann01:25 Noah's Personal Journey04:01 Challenges in Modern Dating06:40 The Science of Online Dating15:48 Differences in Dating Dynamics27:50 Navigating Authenticity in Relationships31:16 Overcoming Childhood Challenges32:22 Impact of Past Relationships on Self-Sabotage34:02 Navigating Vulnerability in Dating34:14 Discussing Kinks and Fetishes35:32 Tools for Better Communication in Relationships37:14 The Importance of Open Discussions39:49 Challenges in Long-Term Relationships49:07 Modern Dating Dynamics and Apps54:28 The Joy of Personalized Coachinghttps://www.datecoach.com/

Unlocking Lasting Love with Relationship Coach Bernando MendezIn this episode, we sit down with Bernando Mendez, a renowned relationship and dating coach who guides women globally to lasting love by understanding the masculine mindset, building self-worth, and creating genuine romantic connections. Bernando shares insights from his own transformative journey and coaching experiences, detailing how he helps women release limiting beliefs and attain dating clarity. We delve into his background, his personal struggles, and his professional shift from entrepreneurship to relationship coaching. Bernando also discusses the importance of self-love, navigating modern relationship dynamics, and developing an effective, attuned dating plan. The conversation covers various topics, including attachment styles, emotional alignment, and practical tips for successful dating. Inspirational success stories of his clients illustrate the profound impact of his guidance. Join us for an enriching discussion filled with actionable advice and heartwarming anecdotes.00:00 Introduction to Bernando Mendez01:22 Early Life and Personal Struggles03:45 Journey into Coaching08:26 Understanding Attraction Blind Spots12:52 The Importance of Self-Love15:14 Modern Masculinity and Relationship Dynamics23:05 Navigating Dating and Relationships30:08 Understanding Emotional Attunement in Relationships31:57 Creating the Best Scenarios for Meeting Good People35:38 Handling Different Dating Challenges41:31 Identifying the Right Partner46:08 The Importance of Intimacy in Relationships48:43 Success Stories and Personal Growth53:10 Maintaining Mental Wellbeing as a Coach58:10 Future Plans and Visionhttps://www.instagram.com/bern_mendez/?hl=enhttps://www.youtube.com/@BernMendezhttps://bernmendez.com/