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The Life of And podcast is for high-achieving women and working parents who are ready to stop living a life of “have to” and start designing a life they actually want. It’s a space where we talk honestly about the things we’re often afraid to admit — even to ourselves. The exhaustion. The ambition. The loneliness. The joy. The tension of wanting more without losing yourself in the process.

If you’re in the thick of it — feeling stretched, tired, hopeful, driven — this is your invitation to take a breath, get real, and find your way back to your own Life of And.
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In this special episode of Life of And, we’re featuring a powerful conversation from The Edge podcast, hosted by Courtney Montfort, where Tiffany Sauder joins her to explore the challenges of balancing career, family, and personal growth. Together, they discuss how fear and self-doubt can hold us back from achieving our goals, especially when life feels overwhelming.Drawing from their own personal experiences, Tiffany and Courtney share how they overcame the barriers of stress and burnout. They dive into why trusting the process and taking the first step, even when it’s uncomfortable, can help us move past fear. They also explore how defining clear priorities and focusing on the “minimums” can help you keep moving forward, even in the busiest seasons of life.What You’ll Learn:How to stop letting fear dictate your decisionsThe value of setting clear priorities to create balanceWhy trusting the process is key to sustaining growth in 2026For more from Tiffany:Follow Tiffany on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tiffany.sauderLearn More: https://www.tiffanysauder.com Ready to build your own Life of And? Explore the program: https://www.tiffanysauder.com/Life-of-And-Program Timestamps:(00:00) Intro(01:34) Courtney’s experience with Life of And(06:27) Tiffany’s struggles and personal journey(11:04) Balancing career, family, and priorities(16:17) Practical tips for managing life’s demands(20:16) Navigating family responsibilities and dynamics(23:20) How to implement family meetings(24:04) Organizing family weekly planning sessions(29:09) Setting minimums for consistent success(35:31) Communicating your needs to family(37:36) The role of mothers in the family(42:23) Rapid-fire tips and personal insightsCheck out the sponsor of this episode:Created in partnership with Share Your Genius
As we get into 2026, Tiffany reflects on how often we look at things from afar, whether it’s a dream career, a healthy lifestyle, or personal growth, and think, “I like how it looks, but I’m scared to do it.” In this episode of Life of And, Tiffany explores how fear and self-doubt can prevent us from achieving our goals, and why it’s important to move past these mental barriers.Through a powerful story involving her youngest daughter learning to ride a bike, Tiffany shares insights on how we often face the same threshold moments in life. She explains how we need to trust the process, push through fear, and take that first step, even when we are not sure of the outcome. She also touches on how to regain momentum when you feel like you are stuck in a cycle of inaction and how prioritizing our goals can be the key to breaking free from it.What You’ll Learn:How to identify and confront the fear holding you backThe importance of trusting the process and taking that first stepWhy redefining priorities can help you make progress in 2026For more from Tiffany:Follow Tiffany on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tiffany.sauderLearn More: https://www.tiffanysauder.com Timestamps:(00:00) Intro(02:11) A 5-year-old’s fear and insight(03:43) Training wheels as a life metaphor(05:12) Trust before you have proof(09:21) Reframing fear: “How do I do it?”(11:13) An invitation to go furtherCheck out the sponsor of this episode:Created in partnership with Share Your Genius
What if the thing holding you back isn’t clarity, confidence, or capability, but whether you trust yourself enough to decide?In this episode of Life of And, Tiffany sits down with longtime mentor and monthly conversation partner Brian Kavicky of Lushin to explore the quiet moment where bold vision often stalls: the moment of decision. It’s the space between knowing what you want and choosing it. When certainty fades, the stakes feel real, and your choice may affect others. Tiffany reflects on stepping away from a role she had mastered and what it’s been like to rebuild belief while leading something new without guaranteed outcomes.Together, Tiffany and Brian examine why capable, high-performing leaders hesitate even when the vision is clear. They discuss how outside feedback and “reasonable” caution can erode self-trust, and why waiting for proof keeps leaders stuck in incremental thinking. Brian offers a different path: decide first, trust your history, and stay committed even when discomfort and doubt show up.You’ll walk away with a framework to:Recognize when you’re outsourcing belief instead of owning itSeparate helpful data from fear-based feedbackDecide before the path is fully visibleStay committed when growth creates friction for you and othersWish you could talk it out with BK? Good news, you can! Book time with Brian Kavicky here. For more from Tiffany:Follow Tiffany on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tiffany.sauderLearn More: https://www.tiffanysauder.com Mentioned in this episode:290: How to Set Goals That Scare You (and Actually Hit Them)Timestamps:(00:00) Intro(01:19) Self-trust as the real leadership skill(02:18) Three questions to surface hesitation(05:13) “What if I’m wrong?” and ignoring your history(07:18) Outsourcing belief to other people(10:55) When teams slow down big vision(15:21) Stop negotiating your goals(20:52) Discomfort means it matters(22:36) Negative feedback can be a good signCheck out the apps and sponsor of this episode: This episode is sponsored by Lushin. As part of our ongoing content partnership, Brian Kavicky joins the podcast monthly to share insights on leadership and sales. No compensation is received for referrals.Created in partnership with Share Your Genius
When you feel the constant pull of other people’s priorities, it can be hard to carve out time for your own goals, leaving you feeling stuck in a cycle of exhaustion and unfulfilled potential. As we kick off 2026, Tiffany reflects on the importance of clarity in setting priorities, especially in a world that constantly demands more of us.In this episode of Life of And, Tiffany shares how undefined priorities can cause burnout, how shifting from being available all the time to protecting your time can create lasting change, and how setting clear boundaries helps women take control of their time, energy, and goals. Through practical insights, personal stories, and the power of “and,” Tiffany shares how you can stop living reactively and start building a life aligned with your true priorities.What You’ll Learn:Why undefined priorities lead to burnout and how to break free from the cycle of exhaustionHow protecting your time and setting clear boundaries can help you build a sustainable lifeThe power of “and” in balancing ambition and generosity, growth and service, progress and presenceFor more from Tiffany:Follow Tiffany on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tiffany.sauderLearn More: https://www.tiffanysauder.com Timestamps:(00:00) Intro(00:47) Welcome to 2026: Reflecting on changes(02:28) The importance of time management(06:35) Defining goals and priorities(10:52) The cost of undefined priorities(15:13) Balancing service and self-care(18:54)  Setting boundaries and communicating priorities(24:32) Redesigning systems for work-life balance(33:12) Q&A: Navigating priorities and boundaries(45:05) Encouragement for new yearCheck out the sponsor of this episode:Created in partnership with Share Your Genius
In this episode of Life of And, Tiffany sits down with Logan Montague, an entrepreneur, coach, and founder of marketing agency Your Marketing BFF’s, to discuss the journey from burnout to balance. Logan shares her story of starting an agency at 25 and the challenges she faced as it grew. She discusses her decision to scale back after feeling overwhelmed and how she’s now building a life that aligns with her personal values.They explore the messy middle of business growth, the importance of setting boundaries, and how to balance ambition with self-care. Logan talks about her transition to a more sustainable freelance lifestyle and the lessons she’s learned about maintaining a healthy work-life balance. Tiffany reflects on her own growth, helping Logan clarify his next steps while honoring her need for both personal and professional fulfillment.What You’ll Learn:How to identify and overcome limiting beliefs that hold you back from growthWhy scaling your business too quickly can lead to burnout and what to do about itThe importance of defining personal and professional boundaries to achieve long-term successIf you’re interested in working with Logan, check out this link:Your Marketing BFF’s: www.yourmarketingbffs.comFor more from Tiffany:Are you a busy working mom looking to optimize your morning and evenings? Grab this FREE checklist: https://www.tiffanysauder.com/Morning-Evening-Routine-ChecklistFollow Tiffany on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tiffany.sauderTimestamps:(00:00) Intro(01:27) Meet Logan: marketing agency founder(03:58) Burnout and challenges from scaling too quickly(04:46) Scaling back to find work-life balance(06:45) Personal growth during business transitions(13:57) Logan shares strategies for time management(22:09) How Logan plans and prioritizes her time(26:52) Navigating special projects and overcoming distractions(29:15) Balancing business growth with personal life(30:20) Staying disciplined with personal and professional goals(30:44) Using business principles for personal life balance(32:40) Life changes affecting priorities and business growth(35:09) Setting foundations for future success(35:44) Logan’s transition to professional growth and coaching(38:36) Defining goals and setting boundaries for success(49:17) Pricing strategies for business growth(50:34) Implementing systems to manage boundaries and timeCheck out the sponsor of this episode:Created in partnership with Share Your Genius
When you are building a career, raising a family, and carrying the weight of constant opportunity, it can feel like you are moving fast without a clear line of sight, especially as one year closes and another begins.In this episode of Life of And, Tiffany and Sam reflect on 2025 and look ahead to 2026, unpacking the tension women feel between unprecedented opportunity and profound exhaustion. They explore why burnout has become so common for working women, how cultural expectations and outdated systems contribute to it, and what it actually takes to build a sustainable life that grows alongside your ambition. Through personal stories, hard-earned lessons, and a clear framework for boundaries, priorities, and leadership, Tiffany shares how women can stop brute-forcing life and start building a life with clarity, intention, and hope.What You’ll Learn:Why women experience burnout at the height of opportunity and how we got here culturally over the last 40 yearsHow outdated systems and invisible domestic labor create exhaustion even when careers are thrivingWhy boundaries must be defined alongside goals to build a sustainable lifeFor more from Tiffany:Check out Tiffany’s 2025 Holiday Gift Guide: https://www.tiffanysauder.com/2025-Holiday-Gift-GuideFollow Tiffany on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tiffany.sauderLearn More: https://www.tiffanysauder.com Timestamps:(00:00) Intro(01:38) The tension facing modern working women(02:57) Lessons learned from testing in 2025(07:03) Podcast rebrand and audience growth milestones(13:07) Corporate partnerships and executive retreats explained(21:02) Personal transitions shaping leadership decisions(22:21) Defining boundaries alongside ambitious goals(23:13) Choosing family presence without losing ambition(25:24) Why self-prioritization is personal responsibility(27:20) Tracing forty years of women’s progress(30:41) Cultural expectations fueling burnout and guilt(34:28) Technology changed work, but not expectations(37:20) Outsourcing ordinary tasks to regain capacity(41:56) Scaling the Life of And framework(45:02) Gratitude for the Life of And communityCheck out the sponsor of this episode:Created in partnership with Share Your Genius
What if the limits you’re carrying into next year are actually just leftovers from last year?In this episode of Life of And, Tiffany sits down with monthly mentor and longtime partner Brian Kavicky of Lushin to dig into the mindset traps that keep leaders stuck, especially the belief that the future must be an incremental extension of the past. Together, they explore why small, “reasonable” goals drain energy, how setting massive goals forces clarity, and what to do in the uncomfortable space where you still don’t know how you’ll achieve them.They also break down the difference between momentum and real data, why experimentation is essential in seasons of growth, and how to avoid confusing positive feedback with actual market traction. Tiffany shares the behind-the-scenes details of her testing process as she builds Life of And, including the experiments that are working, those that aren’t yet, and what she’s learning from early conversations with companies and ERGs.You’ll walk away with a framework to:Use experimentation to validate ideas and accelerate learningBuild a healthy sales culture that centers on solving real problemsShift from founder-dependent revenue to team-powered growthIdentify when to let go so your team can scale what you startedWish you could talk it out with BK? Good news, you can! Book time with Brian Kavicky here. For more from Tiffany:Check out Tiffany’s 2025 Holiday Gift Guide: https://www.tiffanysauder.com/2025-Holiday-Gift-GuideFollow Tiffany on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tiffany.sauderLearn More: https://www.tiffanysauder.com Mentioned in this episode:286: Why You Need To Stop Apologizing290: How to Set Goals That Scare You (and Actually Hit Them)Timestamps:(00:00) Intro(02:28) Incremental vs. massive goals(04:19) Exploring big goals(10:10) Setting and testing hypotheses(11:12) Experimentation and data collection(16:37) Leveraging speaking engagements(18:49) Setting priorities and testing pro forma(20:14) Understanding market feedback and inventor syndrome(23:23) Rebuilding sales culture at Element Three(25:18) Defining and building a sales culture(33:16) Scaling revenue and leadership developmentCheck out the apps and sponsor of this episode:This episode is sponsored by Lushin. As part of our ongoing content partnership, Brian Kavicky joins the podcast monthly to share insights on leadership and sales. No compensation is received for referrals.Created in partnership with Share Your Genius
In this episode of Life of And, Tiffany sits down with Chris Ewing, a strongman competitor, father of three daughters, and co-founder of Odyssey Resilience, to unpack the real mechanics of personal growth. Chris shares how his obsession with physical strength eventually became a deeper pursuit of emotional, moral, and mental resilience. Together, they challenge the myth of motivation, revealing why it so often fails, and how a compelling personal vision can replace it with something far more durable.Chris outlines the structure behind resilience from morning routines to decision-making frameworks, and explores how clarity of vision gives weight and meaning to our daily discipline. Tiffany opens up about her own struggles with sticking to habits during a chaotic season of life, and Chris offers both empathy and hard truths. What You’ll Learn:Why failure is the catalyst for real growth, and how to train resilience on purposeHow to define your own vision so clearly that it drives your daily decisionsWhat “emotional resonance” means and why couples should fill out vision worksheets separatelyIf you’re interested in working with Chris, check out this link:Odyssey Resilience: https://www.odysseyresilience.org/ For more from Tiffany:Check out Tiffany’s 2025 Holiday Gift Guide: https://www.tiffanysauder.com/2025-Holiday-Gift-GuideFollow Tiffany on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tiffany.sauderLearn More: https://www.tiffanysauder.com Timestamps:(00:00) Intro(01:27) Meet Chris Ewing: strongman competitor(02:36) The journey to strongman(06:01) The importance of vision(15:13) Balancing personal and shared visions(21:20) Defining and training resilience(23:17) Defining resilience and habit formation(24:21) The importance of a morning routine(26:36) Teaching and implementing routines with family(28:13) Personal reflections on routine and discipline(30:56) Challenges in maintaining healthy habits(38:45) Mindset and personal responsibilityCheck out the sponsor of this episode:Created in partnership with Share Your Genius
In this episode of Life of And, Tiffany sits down with Rachel Downey, founder & CEO of Share Your Genius, to unpack a year of deep personal work that changed how she leads. Rachel shares the mantra that anchored her: “If I take care of myself, the business will take care of itself,” and how trading survival mode for stewardship reshaped her decisions, calendar, and confidence.From learning to linger in hard things to setting bigger, simpler goals, Rachel explains why trusting her instincts, deciding faster, and paying for expertise helped turn anxiety into momentum. She also gets practical about morning routines, cutting distractions, and the role of faith in separating identity from outcomes, so the business can grow without consuming the person running it.For more from Tiffany:Sign up for the Insider’s Newsletter: https://www.tiffanysauder.com/TS-Newsletter-SubscribeFollow Tiffany on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tiffany.sauderLearn More: https://www.tiffanysauder.com What You’ll Learn:How self-care, faith, and identity work can unlock clearer, faster leadership decisionsWhy “simple over everything” and hiring for gaps create scalable growthHow to balance seasons of triage with the discipline required to dream againTimestamps:(00:00) Intro(00:42) Meet Rachel and Share Your Genius(01:50) 2024: fatigue and reality checks(04:39) 2025 plan: simple, bigger bets(07:12) Trusting instincts as a leadership skill(11:12) Self-care as an operating system(18:15) Books that replaced numbing with nourishment(19:36) Pruning commitments and reframing worthiness(26:43) Discipline that makes space to dream(31:15) The case for a real podcast strategyFor more from Rachel, check out these links:LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/rachelelstsdowney/Share Your Genius: https://www.shareyourgenius.com Check out the sponsor of this episode:Created in partnership with Share Your Genius
When you’re juggling career, family, and the countless “shoulds” of everyday life, it’s easy to feel stretched thin, especially as the holidays approach.In this episode of Life of And, Tiffany and Sam sit down for a special “Ask Tiffany Anything” edition: covering everything from navigating the chaos of the holiday season and surviving sick weeks with kids, to moving homes, raising teenage daughters, and keeping your own ambitions alive in the midst of it all. Through honest stories and practical advice, Tiffany shares the systems, boundaries, and mindset shifts that help her manage the tension between doing it all and doing what matters most.What You’ll Learn:Simple strategies for planning during busy seasons (without losing your mind)A practical way to reframe ambition so it aligns with your current season of lifeWhy open communication with your kids, your partner, and yourself is the foundation for balance and growthJoin Tiffany’s Newsletter to Receive Her Ultimate Holiday Gift Guide:Sign up here: https://www.tiffanysauder.com/2025-Holiday-Gift-GuideTimestamps:(00:00) Intro(00:44) Special episode: ask Tiffany anything(01:43) Navigating the holiday season(06:14) Handling sick season with kids(11:39) Moving to a new home(14:33) Building relationships with your kids(17:15) Funny cocaine story(17:42) Open family communication(18:05) Perceptive daughter(20:21) Morning drink routine(20:55) Health and digestion(23:33) Balancing ambition and family(30:59) Home manager tips(34:53) Proud parenting momentCheck out the app mentioned in this episode:Create the ultimate wishlist with GiftfulEpisodes and Posts Mentioned:290: How to Set Goals That Scare You (and Actually Hit Them)Implied Expectations vs Explicit AgreementsCheck out the sponsor of this episode:Created in partnership with Share Your Genius
What if you could stop letting past performance set the limits for what’s possible next year?In this episode of Life of And, Tiffany sits down with mentor and recurring guest Brian Kavicky of Lushin to talk about what really keeps leaders stuck: the belief that the past predicts the future. Together, they unpack why incremental goals drain energy, how to set “stupid big” goals that reignite belief, and how to get people around you aligned with the vision instead of just following instructions.They also explore why waiting for the perfect time to start only prolongs anxiety, how to translate goals into team priorities, and what it looks like to connect ambitious vision to daily action through Brian’s “goal–how–what” framework.You’ll walk away with a framework to:Set goals based on possibility, not past performance.Align your team by connecting outcomes to shared purpose.Turn procrastination into decisive momentum.Use your “cookbook” system to translate goals into daily behaviors.Wish you could talk it out with BK? Good news, you can! Book time with Brian Kavicky here. For more from Tiffany:Sign up for the Insider’s Newsletter: https://www.tiffanysauder.com/TS-Newsletter-SubscribeFollow Tiffany on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tiffany.sauderLearn More: https://www.tiffanysauder.com Mentioned in this episode:286: Why You Need To Stop ApologizingTimestamps:(00:00) Intro(01:16) Listener feedback and real-time coaching(03:07) Setting bigger goals to break out of ruts(06:14) Reframing how we set and anchor goals(10:28) The what and how framework for goal setting(14:16) Pruning and refocusing for growth in 2026(16:31) Balancing ambition with family and personal values(19:40) Aligning vision with team outcomes(28:03) Understanding procrastination and action(35:57) Tiffany’s reflection on partnership and growthCheck out the apps and sponsor of this episode:This episode is sponsored by Lushin. As part of our ongoing content partnership, Brian Kavicky joins the podcast monthly to share insights on leadership and sales. No compensation is received for referrals.Created in partnership with Share Your Genius
In this episode of Life of And, Tiffany sits down with Kelly Hiller, CMO of Purdue University, to talk about what it looks like to hold ambition and family in the same hand. Kelly opens up about preparing for Purdue’s most significant media moment, the expedition to confirm the discovery of Amelia Earhart’s plane, and the personal conflict of leaving her family behind for the most extended work trip of her career.From the weight of mom guilt to the courage it takes to pursue once-in-a-lifetime opportunities, this conversation is an honest look at how to chase big dreams without losing yourself in the process. Kelly shares what she hopes her daughters learn from watching her, and how to reframe guilt into living your values differently, not abandoning them.For more from Tiffany:Sign up for the Insider’s Newsletter: https://www.tiffanysauder.com/TS-Newsletter-SubscribeFollow Tiffany on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tiffany.sauderLearn More: https://www.tiffanysauder.com What You’ll Learn:How to navigate ambition and family responsibilities without regretWhy guilt is often more about perception than valuesWhat it means to model courage and resilience for the next generationTimestamps:(00:00) Intro(03:13) The Amelia Earhart expedition(05:51) Navigating work and family responsibilities(08:58) Preparing the family for the trip(11:36) Support systems and emotional preparation(14:55) Logistics and practical solutions(23:02) Family meetings and communication(29:52) Reflecting on the experience(33:11) Planning Thanksgiving and birthday celebrations(35:19) Reflecting on past mistakes and learning(36:42) Importance of family presence and support(39:16) Balancing work and family responsibilities(45:20) Preparing family for temporary absence(47:43) Maintaining family connections during absence(01:02:53) Courage, legacy, and the Boilermaker wayFor more from Kelly, check out these links:LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/kelly-hiller/Check out the sponsor of this episode:Created in partnership with Share Your Genius
When you're juggling business and personal life, it's easy to feel overwhelmed. But what if instead of burning out, you could recalibrate and keep moving forward with intention?In this episode of Life of And, Tiffany shares pivotal lessons from her journey as an entrepreneur, wife, and mother of four. She reflects on the six biggest mistakes she wishes she had avoided — from confusing growth with running a business to believing that good intentions guarantee good outcomes. Tiffany emphasizes how much it matters to slow down and move with purpose, not speed, and how intentional leadership makes all the difference.If you’re an executive interested in joining a one-day mini-retreat focused on the Life of And framework, shoot us an email at tiffany@tiffanysauder.comWhat You’ll Learn:The difference between growing a business and running oneWhy being well-known doesn’t always equal successHow slowing down in business might actually move you forwardFor more from Tiffany:Sign up for the Insider’s Newsletter: https://www.tiffanysauder.com/TS-Newsletter-SubscribeFollow Tiffany on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tiffany.sauderLearn More: https://www.tiffanysauder.com Timestamps:(00:00) Intro(02:13) Lesson 1: Growing vs. running a business(04:32) Lesson 2: Being well known vs. being successful(09:55) Lesson 3: Moving fast vs. moving forward(13:12) Lesson 4: Good intentions vs. good outcomes(15:50) Lesson 5: Motivating vs. leading(19:10) Lesson 6: Relationships and elasticityCheck out the sponsor of this episode:Created in partnership with Share Your Genius
When “doing it all” starts to feel impossible, it’s easy to believe your only option is to quit.In this episode of Life of And, Tiffany shares a raw, real story about helping her teenage daughter, Aubrey, navigate the overwhelm of school, swimming, and show choir — and how a Friday night meltdown turned into a masterclass in renegotiating what matters.Through the Life of And framework, Tiffany shows how to reframe guilt, lead with values, and find practical solutions when life feels too heavy to hold. It’s a relatable parenting moment — and a reminder that you can have it all, just not all at once… and never without intention.If you’re an executive interested in joining a one day mini-retreat focused on the Life of And framework, shoot us an email at tiffany@tiffanysauder.comWhat You’ll Learn:How to tell when you’re actually overcommitted vs. just emotionally drainedA step-by-step way to renegotiate your commitments with clarity and agencyWhy values, not guilt, should guide your decisions about what stays and what goesFor more from Tiffany:Sign up for the Insider’s Newsletter: https://www.tiffanysauder.com/TS-Newsletter-SubscribeFollow Tiffany on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tiffany.sauderLearn More: https://www.tiffanysauder.com Timestamps:(00:00) Intro(00:57) The Sauders’ big move(01:44) Finding humor in the daily mess(03:30) The Life of And Toolbox(04:23) Aubrey’s overloaded schedule of school, swim, and show choir(09:02) Breaking down Aubrey’s hours(11:16) Applying the LOA framework to regain balance(17:43) How small changes created significant relief for Aubrey(19:19) Details about the Life of And AcademyCheck out the sponsor of this episode:Created in partnership with Share Your Genius
What if you could keep your edge in busy seasons without apologizing for your power away?In this episode of Life of And, Tiffany sits down with mentor and recurring guest Brian Kavicky of Lushin to discuss the hidden cost of reflexive apologies and how to replace them with ownership, clarity, and momentum. They get into why “I’m sorry” often functions as self-protection (and subtle manipulation), when a genuine apology is warranted, and what to say instead so that relationships can strengthen and move forward.Then, Tiffany and Brian connect this mindset to execution: the “cookbook” system for daily behaviors, scheduling what matters on your calendar, and using year-end energy to set meaningful goals for 2026. They also offer a virtual, two-part goal-setting experience built around Life’s Roadmap, bucket-list thinking, and friction-removal, so you don’t just dream; you do.You’ll walk away with a framework to:Ditch reflexive apologies and replace them with facts, ownership, and gratitude (“Thanks for your patience…here’s where I’m at”).Spot real vs. faux guilt so you only apologize for actual value violations.Run your “cookbook” like a pro. Block it on the calendar, measure it, and adjust fast when you slip.Finish 2025 strong & set up 2026 with a practical plan.Wish you could talk it out with BK? Good news, you can! Book time with Brian Kavicky here. For more from Tiffany, sign up for her newsletter: https://tiffany-sauder.mykajabi.com/TS-Newsletter-SubscribeFollow Tiffany on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tiffany.sauderCheck out Tiffany’s website: https://www.tiffanysauder.com Mentioned in this episode:278: When Everything Feels Like Too Much—Start Here282: The Formula for Finishing the End of the Year StrongTimestamps:(00:00) Intro(01:47) The impact of unnecessary apologies(04:04) Alternatives to apologizing(12:06) Real-life examples and reflections(16:52) The trap of apologizing in sales(19:10) Struggles with maintaining goals(22:38) Managing a busy schedule(24:30) The importance of goal setting(28:36) Avoiding burnout and embracing adventureCheck out the apps and sponsor of this episode:This episode is sponsored by Lushin. As part of our ongoing content partnership, Brian Kavicky joins the podcast monthly to share insights on leadership and sales. No compensation is received for referrals.Created in partnership with Share Your Genius
In this episode of Life of And, Tiffany shares two deeply personal lessons that are shaping her journey right now: learning to honor the emotions tied to leaving her family home and discovering a formula for meaningful networking. From the hard pause of packing up a decade of memories to the courage of showing vulnerability in professional settings, she opens up about the messy and the practical sides of growth.Through stories of transition, connection, and reframing what progress really looks like, Tiffany highlights why letting yourself feel is just as important as moving forward with intention. She also offers her simple yet powerful formula for networking (proximity plus vulnerability equals progress) and shows how it can change the way we build relationships in life and business.For more from Tiffany, sign up for her newsletter: https://tiffany-sauder.mykajabi.com/TS-Newsletter-SubscribeFollow Tiffany on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tiffany.sauderCheck out Tiffany’s website: https://www.tiffanysauder.com What You’ll Learn:Why giving yourself space to feel emotions can unlock new momentumHow proximity and vulnerability together create real progressPractical tools to make networking authentic, approachable, and sustainableTimestamps:(00:00) Intro(01:36) Facing struggles while moving homes(07:28) Why networking shapes real progress(12:52) Practical strategies for stronger networking(22:45) Key networking takeaways to rememberCheck out the sponsor of this episode:Created in partnership with Share Your Genius
In this episode of Life of And, Tiffany sits down with keynote speaker and author Nicole Kalil to discuss the real engine of confidence. It’s not the polished image or the applause, but firm, bold trust in yourself. Nicole shares the “confidence derailers” that quietly chip away at us (overthinking, perfectionism, comparison, people-pleasing, and external validation) and offers a practical path back to action and self-trust.From navigating image, aging, and norms without losing authenticity to parenting confidence in a feedback-saturated world, this conversation is an honest look at how to build confidence that lasts, and what to do when achiever mode burns you out.For more from Tiffany, sign up for her newsletter: https://tiffany-sauder.mykajabi.com/TS-Newsletter-SubscribeFollow Tiffany on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tiffany.sauderCheck out Tiffany’s website: https://www.tiffanysauder.com What You’ll Learn:Why “firm, bold trust in self” beats external validation every timeThe five confidence derailers and how action becomes the antidoteHow to model and parent confidence without creating a validation dependencyTimestamps:(00:00) Intro(02:04) Nicole’s crash after “faking confidence”(09:21) Defining confidence as firm self-trust(16:21) The five derailers that chip away at confidence(20:37) Why validation feels good but becomes addictive(22:22)  Navigating the line between authenticity and appearance(29:06) How Nicole models and parents confidence at home(34:11) What she’d add to Validation Is For Parking today(35:32) Hard lessons from burning out on book promotion(38:00) On achiever mode, scarcity thinking, and abundance(41:11) Nicole’s podcast and workbook for building confidenceFor more from Nicole, check out these links:Website: https://nicolekalil.com/Confidence Quiz & FREE 40+ Page Confidence Building Workbook: https://nicolekalil.com/confidencequizThis Is Woman's Work Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/this-is-womans-work-with-nicole-kalil/id1493225373 on Apple (or wherever you listen to podcasts)Validation Is For Parking Book: https://geni.us/ValidationIsForParkingLinkedIn:  www.linkedin.com/in/nicolekalilInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/nicolemkalil/Check out the sponsor of this episode:Created in partnership with Share Your Genius
In this episode of Life of And, Tiffany shares her lifelong love for clothes and the lessons they’ve taught her about confidence, self-expression, and feeling comfortable in your own skin. From growing up sewing in 4H to navigating fashion on a budget, she reflects on how clothing can be less about vanity and more about freeing yourself to show up fully in the world.Tiffany walks through seven practical tips, from column dressing and photo albums of outfits to buying things before you need them, making dressing up simpler and more joyful. Along the way, she offers candid stories from her own life that show how the right clothes can help you forget yourself and focus on what matters most.Stay Connected with TiffanyWant more real-life tools and honest conversations about ambition, motherhood, and building a Life of And?Newsletter:Weekly insights straight to your inbox:Subscribe hereInstagram:Daily thoughts, outfits, and behind the scenes:@tiffany.sauderWebsite:Episodes, speaking, and more:www.tiffanysauder.comWhat You’ll Learn:Why dressing to forget yourself helps you focus on your talents and energyHow to use simple systems like column dressing and outfit albums to save time and stressWhy knowing what looks good on you—and putting it on repeat—frees you from decision fatigueTimestamps:(00:00) Intro(01:11) Growing up with fashion and sewing(03:15) The concept of 'dress to forget yourself'(04:32) Seven tips for finding clothes you look great in(05:48) Tip 1: Follow influencers with similar features(07:03) Tip 2: Column dressing(09:20) Tip 3: Create an outfit album(11:31) Tip 4: Know your style and stick to it(13:21) Try-on sessions and closet organization(15:27) The benefits of mail ordering(16:40) Buy before you needCheck out the sponsor of this episode:Created in partnership with Share Your Genius
In this episode of Life of And, Tiffany opens up about the tug-of-war between ego-driven choices and values-driven living. From moments of comparison on social media to big decisions about family and career, she shares candid reflections on how to stay grounded in what matters most.Through stories of collaboration, vulnerability, and even navigating her family’s upcoming home transition, Tiffany highlights the small but powerful choices that shape not only her own experience, but also the people around her. For more from Tiffany, sign up for her newsletter: https://tiffany-sauder.mykajabi.com/TS-Newsletter-SubscribeFollow Tiffany on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tiffany.sauderCheck out Tiffany’s website: https://www.tiffanysauder.com What You’ll Learn:Why values-driven choices lead to more joy than ego-driven decisionsHow collaboration and vulnerability accelerate growthThe ripple effect your reactions have on others in work and lifeTimestamps:(00:00) Intro(00:50) Honest reflections on self-care and routines(02:21) Choosing values over ego in decisions(04:04) Supporting others’ success without comparison(08:54) Collaboration and vulnerability that spark growth(14:03) Family choices during home transition season(18:14) Leading teams with steady reactions(21:50) Reflections on growth and gratitudeCheck out the sponsor of this episode:Created in partnership with Share Your Genius
What if your productivity and energy could soar just by setting the right goals and tracking your progress with precision?In this episode, Tiffany sits down with her coach, Brian Kavicky, to discuss the importance of having a clear plan for the rest of the year and beyond. As the year draws to a close, they explore how to finish strong—both personally and professionally—while laying the groundwork for a successful 2026.Tiffany and Brian break down the powerful framework that has helped Tiffany refocus and regain momentum in her life.You'll walk away with a clear 4-step framework to:Set realistic, actionable goals for the short and long termStay on track with a daily "cookbook" to manage your time and prioritiesUse scorecards to measure progress and keep the momentum goingAvoid burnout by embracing consistent, sustainable actionWish you could talk it out with BK? Good news, you can! Book time with Brian Kavicky Here. Mentioned in this episode:278: When Everything Feels Like Too Much—Start HereTimestamps:(00:00) Intro(01:13) Finishing strong this year(02:10) The importance of defining goals(04:39) Planning ahead for 2026(11:11) Using a cookbook for habits(16:49) Thanking partners and final thoughts(17:26) Setting weekly and monthly goals(17:43) Adapting to change at your pace(18:13) Understanding your personal habits(22:28) The importance of scorecards(24:00) Personal goals and professional growth(29:07) Embracing urgency and resetting goals(31:48) Summarizing steps for successCheck out the apps and sponsor of this episode:This episode is sponsored by Lushin. As part of our ongoing content partnership, Brian Kavicky joins the podcast monthly to share leadership and sales insights. No compensation is received for referrals.Created in partnership with Share Your Genius
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