Fertility Cafe

There's a part of the fertility process most people never really get to see. After all the appointments, medications, and procedures, things move into the lab, and from the outside, it can feel distant and hard to follow. In this episode, host Eloise Drane sits down with clinical embryologist Alease Daniel Barnes to pull back the curtain on what actually happens in the IVF lab. Alease breaks down the technical processes patients are often expected to navigate with limited explanation: embryo grading, ICSI, PGT testing, and cryopreservation. The conversation covers what those numbers and letters on embryo reports really mean, when genetic testing is actually necessary versus overused, and why ICSI has become routine in the U.S. despite similar success rates with conventional insemination. They also discuss the logistics that don't always get addressed, how embryos are stored, shipped, and preserved long-term. If you're navigating your own fertility journey this episode gives you the knowledge to ask better questions and make more informed decisions about your care. "IVF doesn't guarantee you a baby, neither does freezing eggs." - Alease Daniel Barnes You'll Hear About: How embryo grading works and what the numbers mean Why grading is subjective and not a pregnancy guarantee PGT-A, PGT-M, and PGT-SR: understanding the different types Why PGT testing is often overused without proper counseling Speaking with genetic counselors before deciding on PGT testing Vitrification versus traditional freezing and improved survival rates When ICSI is medically necessary versus routinely overused Why the U.S. uses ICSI more than other countries Embryo shipping safety measures Long-term storage basics and why embryos last indefinitely Alease's choice to freeze eggs instead of embryos Egg quality supplement myths and predatory marketing practices Sperm quality has more improvement potential than eggs Abandoned embryos in clinics and how policies address this Cord blood preservation basics and why it matters AI introduction in embryology labs for embryo selection Evaluating the lab matters as much as the physician   Connect with Alease:  Instagram:  @alease_the_embryologist TikTok: @aleasetheembryologist Website: https://aleasetheembryologist.com/ Resources mentioned: Alease’s free guide to choosing a fertility clinic - https://aleasetheembryologist.com/free-guides/   Related episodes: Ep 97 - Fertility in the Modern Age: IVF, Environmental Impacts, and Quality Care https://thefertilitycafe.com/podcast/ep-97-fertility-in-the-modern-age-ivf-environmental-impacts-and-quality-care/ Ep 102 - Beyond the Clinic: Why the Fertility Lab is Key to Your Success https://thefertilitycafe.com/podcast/ep-102-beyond-the-clinic-why-the-fertility-lab-is-key-to-your-success/ Ep 121 – Inside Modern Fertility Care — IVF, Surrogacy, Egg Donation & Family Building https://thefertilitycafe.com/podcast/beyond-ivf-surrogacy-egg-donation-the-future-of-fertility-care/   Stay Connected: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/fertilitycafe Facebook: Chapters (00:00:01) - Fertility Cafe(00:02:02) - Elise Daniel Barnes on The Fertility Podcast(00:02:46) - Experienced embryologists talk about their path to the field(00:06:00) - The Changes in Embryology(00:09:39) - IVF and Egg Freezing: Decisions made too soon(00:12:24) - Discussing Embryo Grade(00:13:29) - How to Grade Embryos(00:16:57) - Are Embryo Grades Important in Making a Transfer?(00:18:48) - What is the freezing process in embryo cryopreservation?(00:20:51) - Genetic testing during pregnancy(00:25:06) - Do you recommend PGT testing?(00:31:13) - I Didn't Make Embryos With My Husband(00:34:10) - How to improve your egg quality(00:37:41) - Sperm health and how to improve it(00:39:36) - Is ICSI necessary for male infertility?(00:45:52) - "It's about personalized care"(00:46:15) - Send Your Embryos Overseas(00:51:12) - How do clinics manage long term storage?(00:57:48) - Cord Blood and Core Tissue preservation(01:01:01) - Choosing a fertility clinic

Ever wondered what really happens if something goes wrong during a surrogacy or egg donation journey and who’s responsible for the bill? When it comes to third-party reproduction (surrogacy, egg donation, or embryo donation) insurance can be one of the most confusing and overlooked parts of the journey. But as Virginia Hart from ART Risk Solutions explains, it’s also one of the most critical. In this episode, host Eloise Drane sits down with Virginia to demystify the complex world of fertility insurance, what’s covered, what’s not, and how to make sure everyone involved in a surrogacy or donor arrangement is fully protected. From complications and medical coverage to life insurance and newborn care, Virginia breaks down what you must know before signing any contract or starting treatment. Whether you’re an intended parent, surrogate, donor, or professional in the fertility field, this episode offers the clarity and confidence you need to safeguard your journey. Timestamps: 00:00 – Meet Virginia Hart, founder of ART Risk Solutions. 02:14 – Why fertility and surrogacy insurance are so confusing. 03:47 – How ART Risk protects parents, surrogates, and donors. 06:23 – Core coverages every surrogate needs. 08:36 – Why complication insurance is essential. 10:18 – The real cost of going uninsured. 12:04 – ACA and Lloyd’s of London options explained. 15:12 – Commonly forgotten policies that matter most. 17:43 – What intended parents should budget for. 20:29 – How ART Risk manages claims and bills. 23:11 – Planning newborn coverage and NICU care. 26:48 – Insurance for international intended parents. 30:37 – The toughest states for surrogacy coverage. 36:09 – IVF coverage and new fertility benefits. 40:46 – Final advice: ask, “Am I protected and how?” Connect with Virginia:  Instagram:  @art.risk.solutions Website: https://www.facebook.com/artriskfinancial/     Resources mentioned: ASRM (American Society for Reproductive Medicine): https://www.asrm.org RESOLVE: The National Infertility Association: https://resolve.org/ Academy of Adoption and Assisted Reproduction Attorneys: https://adoptionart.org SEEDS (Society for Ethics in Egg Donatio... Chapters (00:00:00) - Insurance for surrogacy and egg donation(00:00:41) - What is Affirmative Reproduction Insurance?(00:02:13) - Getting Out of the Insurance Industry(00:03:24) - What Types of Insurance Were People Confused About?(00:04:06) - What Kind of Insurance Do You Provide For Donor/Surrog(00:06:19) - Importance of surrogacy insurance(00:12:41) - What happens if a surrogate doesn't have a health insurance plan?(00:19:26) - Obstructions during IVF(00:21:59) - What Should the Baby's Medical Coverage Be?(00:25:36) - Art Risk Provides Support for Surrogates' Medical Bills(00:27:18) - Obtained surrogacy insurance in the United States(00:32:57) - Surrogacy and Workplace Benefits(00:36:47) - Choosing a surrogate for the first time(00:38:59) - If You Could Give One Advice to Surrogates and Donors(00:40:15) - How to Find Out More About Art Risk(00:40:51) - Fertility Cafe: Today's Conversation

The conversation around fertility is changing and Season 7 of Fertility Café dives deep into how.   Hosted by Eloise Drane, founder of Family Inceptions and Fertility 360, this season explores the science, stories, and shifting definitions that shape modern fertility care. From what really happens inside the embryology lab to the emotional realities of IVF, surrogacy, and egg donation, you’ll hear from experts, parents, surrogates, and advocates who are redefining what it means to build a family today.   Episodes unpack topics like embryo grading, genetic testing, reproductive ethics, acupuncture and holistic fertility, and mental health in fertility treatment, making complex care understandable, compassionate, and empowering.Whether you’re navigating your own fertility journey or simply curious about how reproductive science and human connection intersect, Season 7 offers real insight into the future of family building.   You’ll learn: What happens behind the scenes in IVF and embryo development How holistic care and emotional support impact fertility outcomes The evolving roles of surrogates, donors, and intended parents Why fertility is about more than conception. It’s about choice, health, and identity. Fertility Café Season 7 brings humanity back to reproductive medicine, one honest conversation at a time.   Resources & Links Website: thefertilitycafe.com Instagram: @fertilitycafe

In this solo episode of Fertility Café, host Eloise Drane breaks down one of the most buzzed-about topics in modern fertility: egg freezing. Once considered a niche medical intervention, egg freezing has become a mainstream option for those seeking to preserve their fertility, but what does it really involve? Eloise takes you through the entire landscape, from the medical process and emotional considerations to the financial realities and cultural shifts. She unpacks how egg freezing evolved from a last-resort treatment to a proactive choice, what it actually looks like to go through a cycle, and why access remains unequal despite growing interest. This episode is for anyone who’s ever wondered: “Is egg freezing right for me?” “What’s the real cost, and not just financially?” “How does this intersect with identity, access, and equity?” Whether you're exploring your options or simply trying to understand the conversation more deeply, this episode offers real talk, grounded insights, and the kind of honesty that Fertility Café is known for. Mentioned Resources: American Society for Reproductive Medicine (ASRM.org) FertilityIQ.com Tune in for a thoughtful guide through the myths, facts, and nuances of egg freezing, because your timeline, your body, and your decisions deserve clarity and care. Chapters (00:00:00) - Fertility Cafe(00:01:34) - What Egg Freezing Is Really Like(00:02:25) - E egg freezing: How it works, costs, and(00:11:09) - Egg Freezing: Access and Financial Reality(00:15:50) - Egg Freezing: A Personal Decision(00:18:47) - Deciding to freeze your eggs

What happens when every path to parenthood seems to close? For Erica Ferraro, the answer was egg donation—a deeply emotional and empowering decision shaped by a long, painful battle with undiagnosed endometriosis. In this powerful episode, Erica joins host Eloise Drane to share the real story behind her journey: the years of misdiagnosis, the trauma of IVF failure, and the healing that came from choosing donor conception. You’ll hear: -What it’s really like to receive an endometriosis diagnosis after two decades -Why Erica believes egg donation is a form of organ donation—and not “less than” -Honest insights on grieving genetic loss, finding the right donor, and parenting after donor IVF -How her new book, Moving Mountains for Motherhood, became the U.S.'s first professionally published infertility survival guide Whether you’re navigating your own fertility journey or supporting someone who is, this episode is a raw, real, and hopeful reminder that love—not biology—defines family. Moving Mountains for Motherhood is available now on Amazon, Barnes & Noble, and more. Connect with Erica on Instagram @eri.ferraro Don’t forget to subscribe, like, and share this episode to support more honest conversations about modern family building. #FertilityCafe #EggDonation #EndometriosisAwareness #DonorIVF #InfertilitySupport #ModernParenthood Chapters (00:00:00) - Fertility Cafe(00:00:58) - Egg Donor: Moving Mountains for Motherhood(00:02:04) - I Got A Mother's Endometriosis Diagnosis(00:07:27) - The Secret to Managing Endometriosis in Your 20s(00:11:26) - Egg Donation After IVF(00:16:05) - Donor Eggs For Couple's Baby(00:21:47) - The Donor Selection in My Egg IVF(00:23:55) - The Decision Between Anonymity & Open ID(00:28:32) - Janet on Frozen Eggs vs. Fresh IVF(00:35:15) - Why I Don't Share My Egg Donor Story(00:41:06) - The Journey to Parenthood: Third-Party Reproduction(00:42:20) - The Book Moving Mountains For Motherhood(00:46:58) - E egg donation in the United States(00:50:16) - Where Can People Get A Copy of Moving Mountains For Motherhood?

In this heartfelt episode, Ashley Hengston opens up about her deeply personal path from infertility to motherhood through surrogacy. She shares the emotional highs and lows—from the grief of infertility to the complex decisions involved in choosing surrogacy. Ashley walks us through the process of matching with a surrogate, navigating medical and legal steps, and managing the emotional terrain of pregnancy and birth. This conversation sheds light on the importance of trust, preparation, and communication in the surrogacy journey. Ashley candidly discusses the emotional impact of the birth, her experience with postpartum depression, and how intended parents can stay connected throughout the process. She also shares the value of community and support groups for those navigating the often isolating road of infertility. Whether you’re considering surrogacy or supporting someone who is, this episode offers raw insight and real encouragement.   Have questions about your surrogacy journey? Speak with our expert team today: https://familyinceptions.com/intended-parents/ Stay Connected Instagram: @fertilitycafe Facebook: @fertilitycafe Website: https://thefertilitycafe.com More Resources Learn more about surrogacy & fertility: https://familyinceptions.com/ All information shared is for educational purposes and subject to change. Always consult with a medical or legal professional for personalized advice.   Chapters (00:00:00) - Fertility Cafe(00:01:09) - Ashley Hingston on Becoming a Parent Through Surrog(00:02:10) - Ashley Hingstown on Her Infertility(00:02:59) - The Process of Introspective surrogacy(00:05:53) - The Parents Who Used Surrogacy(00:08:12) - The Joy of Surrogacy(00:10:54) - When Did You Choose To Use an Agency or Go Independent?(00:11:59) - A Couple's Matching Experience(00:14:28) - The Family Blueprint(00:15:41) - The Surrogate's First Meet the Parents(00:18:25) - The Secret to Getting A Mother's Love(00:21:19) - The Secret to Surrogacy(00:22:37) - After Having a Surrogate Baby,(00:25:03) - The Surrogate's Relationship With Her Partner(00:32:54) - The Day My Surrogate Was Born(00:35:51) - The Surrogate's Postpartum Depression(00:43:28) - "I'm Not In Love With My Parenting"(00:44:32) - In the Elevator With Infertility Support Group(00:45:40) - Pregnant Woman on Her Journey(00:46:56) - Ashley on Rage Against Infertility(00:48:11) - Surrogacy 101

What exactly is a fertility coach—and how do you know if you need one? In this solo episode, host Eloise Drane explores the supportive, grounded world of fertility coaching. Whether you're navigating IVF, considering egg freezing, or feeling stuck in the quiet in-between spaces of family building, this episode is a gentle guide to the kind of support many people don’t know is available—and deeply need. Eloise breaks down what fertility coaches actually do, how they differ from therapists and doctors, and why this kind of care can be invaluable when you're facing overwhelming decisions, emotional burnout, or pressure to figure everything out alone. This isn’t about doing more—it’s about finding support that helps you feel more like yourself in the middle of it all. In This Episode: (00:00) A moment of post-appointment overwhelm many listeners will recognize (01:45) The invisible mental load of fertility—and why support often comes too late (04:55) What a fertility coach actually does (and doesn’t do) (10:17) How coaches differ from therapists, doctors, and even your inner circle (15:22) The different types of fertility coaches: emotional, logistical, holistic (20:05) Who fertility coaching is for—and why it’s not just for IVF (26:32) Who may not need coaching right now (and why that’s okay) (29:40) Why support doesn’t have to wait until you’re at your limit (32:08) Letting care be part of the plan—not just a response to crisis Resources & Links Website: thefertilitycafe.com Instagram: @fertilitycafe   Chapters (00:00:00) - Fertility Cafe(00:01:23) - Fertility Coaching: What is it?(00:02:52) - Why Fertility Coaching Matters(00:04:26) - What Does a Fertility Coach Actually Do?(00:06:37) - What Kind of Support Would I Need From a Fertility Coach?(00:13:47) - Fertility Coaching: Who Does It Help?

What if freezing your eggs as a college graduation gift could be the most important investment in your future family? - Dr. Susanna Park Dr. Susanna Park, a fertility specialist from San Diego Fertility Center, joins host Eloise Drane to share her expertise on fertility testing. Board-certified in both obstetrics/gynecology and reproductive endocrinology, Dr. Park brings a global perspective shaped by her journey from South Korea to Argentina to the United States. With five-time recognition as a top fertility doctor by San Diego Magazine, she offers invaluable insights on proactive fertility assessment. This episode explores the critical timing of fertility testing, examining why women shouldn't wait for obvious signs before understanding their reproductive health. Dr. Park breaks down key fertility tests for both women and men, optimal ages to start testing, how to interpret results, and the various treatment options available when challenges arise. Listeners will gain practical knowledge on taking control of their fertility journey before problems develop. Dr. Susanna Park is a renowned fertility specialist from the San Diego Fertility Center. Dr. Park is double board-certified in Obstetrics and Gynecology, and Reproductive Endocrinology and Infertility. She brings a unique global perspective to fertility care, with an impressive background that spans from Seoul to Buenos Aires to New York City, and now San Diego. She's been recognized as a "Top Fertility Doctor" by San Diego Magazine five times, most recently in 2023.   In This Episode:    (00:00) Eloise introduces the importance of proactive fertility testing (01:35) Dr. Park shares her journey to specializing in fertility medicine (02:53) Dr. Park's international background and global perspective on fertility care (06:51) At what age should people start considering fertility testing (09:54) Understanding key fertility tests and normal ranges for women (15:11) How age impacts fertility for both men and women (21:13) What constitutes a normal menstrual cycle and warning signs (26:11) Four essential components needed for natural conception (29:38) Best approaches for timing intercourse when trying to conceive (33:26) Understanding natural cycle treatments versus medicated approaches (38:34) The IVF process explained for women and egg donors (45:55) Testing approaches for same-sex couples planning families (51:28) How technology advancements have transformed fertility treatments Share with someone who may be interested, like and subscribe to hear all of our future episodes! Resources:

In this episode of Fertility Cafe, host Eloise Drain discusses the complexities of the fertility journey with Dr. Camille Hammond. They explore the overwhelming nature of fertility issues, the importance of accurate information, and the myths surrounding infertility. Dr. Hammond emphasizes the need for patients to advocate for themselves, seek community support, and communicate effectively with their healthcare providers. The conversation highlights the emotional challenges faced by intended parents and the significance of balancing hope with realistic expectations throughout the fertility process. It emphasizes the significance of education in reproductive health, addressing the gaps in fertility education, and exploring financial resources available for fertility treatment. The discussion also highlights the emotional challenges faced by individuals dealing with fertility issues, including shame and fear, and encourages open dialogue and support. Learn more about Camille Hammond & The Cade Foundation : https://cadefoundation.org/about Chapters 00:00 Navigating the Fertility Journey 01:41 Understanding Fertility Myths 12:26 Balancing Hope and Realistic Expectations 17:46 Communication Barriers in Fertility Care 26:13 Understanding Family Health History

In this episode of Fertility Cafe, host Eloise Drain delves into the complexities of family building through adoption and fertility treatments. The conversation explores the evolving landscape of adoption, including domestic, international, and foster care options, while also addressing the realities of fertility treatments like IVF and surrogacy. With insights from over two decades in the fertility industry, the episode emphasizes the importance of understanding the emotional, legal, and financial aspects of each path. Listeners are encouraged to consider their personal values and circumstances when making decisions about family building. Book a Free Consultation Have questions about your surrogacy journey? Speak with our expert team today! https://familyinceptions.com/schedule-a-consultation/?utm_campaign=7853368-Fertility%20Cafe%20Podcast&utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=social Curious about the cost of surrogacy? Use our Surrogacy Cost Calculator: https://familyinceptions.com/cost-of-surrogacy-calculator/?utm_campaign=7853368-Fertility%20Cafe%20Podcast&utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=social Stay Connected Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/fertilitycafe Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/fertilitycafe Website: https://thefertilitycafe.com More Resources Learn more about surrogacy & fertility: https://familyinceptions.com/intended-parents Listen to past episodes: https://www.youtube.com/@FertilityCafePodcast/playlists Get expert insights & updates: https://thefertilitycafe.com/resources All information shared is for educational purposes and subject to change. Always consult with a medical or legal professional for personalized advice.

In this episode, Edward explores the realities of being a partner to a surrogate, in fact, he is the husband of episode 107 guest, Janelle Simm. Now you get the opportunity to hear the other side of a partnership to learn how surrogacy is a family decision, not just an individual's.Edward Simm is a father of seven in a blended family and is currently a part time fire-fighter along with owning a handyman business for the past two years. Previously he spent over 20 years in the financial world working for Wells Fargo. Book a Free Consultation Have questions about your surrogacy journey? Speak with our expert team today! https://familyinceptions.com/schedule-a-consultation/?utm_campaign=7853368-Fertility%20Cafe%20Podcast&utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=social Curious about the cost of surrogacy? Use our Surrogacy Cost Calculator: https://familyinceptions.com/cost-of-surrogacy-calculator/?utm_campaign=7853368-Fertility%20Cafe%20Podcast&utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=social Stay Connected Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/fertilitycafe Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/fertilitycafe Website: https://thefertilitycafe.com More Resources Learn more about surrogacy & fertility: https://familyinceptions.com/intended-parents Listen to past episodes: https://www.youtube.com/@FertilityCafePodcast/playlists Get expert insights & updates: https://thefertilitycafe.com/resources All information shared is for educational purposes and subject to change. Always consult with a medical or legal professional for personalized advice.

This episode of Fertility Cafe delves into the complex issue of declining birth rates globally, exploring the multifaceted reasons behind this trend, including economic pressures, medical challenges, lifestyle factors, and cultural shifts. The conversation highlights the implications of these changes on family planning, healthcare access, and societal structures, while also addressing the unique challenges faced by LGBTQ+ individuals in family building. The episode concludes with actionable steps that can be taken to address these issues and support families in their journey toward parenthood.Chapters00:00 The Decline of Birth Rates: A Global Wake-Up Call05:40 Economic Pressures and Their Impact on Family Planning08:36 Medical Challenges and Infertility Trends10:06 The Role of Birth Control in Fertility10:43 Environmental Factors Affecting Reproductive Health11:11 LGBTQ+ Perspectives on Family Building12:38 Shifting Priorities: Education, Career, and Family14:36 Changes in Marriage and Family Dynamics16:48 Cultural Shifts and Family Planning Decisions18:00 Geographic Barriers to Fertility Care19:57 Technology and Innovation in Fertility Treatments20:55 Lifestyle Factors Impacting Fertility21:22 Emotional and Psychological Toll of Infertility22:11 The Global Perspective on Reproductive Health29:01 Healthcare Access and Disparities32:11 International Comparisons in Fertility Care34:42 Why This Matters: Societal Implications of Declining Birth Rates40:10 Actionable Steps: Addressing the Decline in Birth Rates Book a Free Consultation Have questions about your surrogacy journey? Speak with our expert team today! https://familyinceptions.com/schedule-a-consultation/?utm_campaign=7853368-Fertility%20Cafe%20Podcast&utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=social Curious about the cost of surrogacy? Use our Surrogacy Cost Calculator: https://familyinceptions.com/cost-of-surrogacy-calculator/?utm_campaign=7853368-Fertility%20Cafe%20Podcast&utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=social Stay Connected Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/fertilitycafe Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/fertilitycafe Website: https://thefertilitycafe.com More Resources Learn more about surrogacy & fertility: https://familyinceptions.com/intended-parents Listen to past episodes: https://www.youtube.com/@FertilityCafePodcast/playlists Get expert insights & updates: https://thefertilitycafe.com/resources All information shared is for educational purposes and subject to change. Always consult with a medical or legal professional for personalized advice.

Thinking about surrogacy but not sure if it's the right path for you? This video breaks down everything you need to know before making a decision. We’ll explore the key factors intended parents should consider, from medical and financial aspects to emotional readiness and legal steps.At Family Inceptions, we’ve guided countless families through their surrogacy journeys, helping them navigate this life-changing process with confidence and clarity. Whether you're facing infertility, exploring family planning options, or considering surrogacy as a same-sex couple, we’re here to provide the answers you need.Learn the truths about surrogacy, what to expect, and how to determine if it’s the right choice for your family. Book a Free Consultation Have questions about your surrogacy journey? Speak with our expert team today! https://familyinceptions.com/schedule... Curious about the cost of surrogacy? Use our Surrogacy Cost Calculator: https://familyinceptions.com/cost-of-... Stay Connected Instagram:   / fertilitycafe   Facebook:   / fertilitycafe   Website:

Surrogacy can feel financially overwhelming, but it doesn’t have to be. In this episode of Fertility Café, we break down the real costs of surrogacy and show you how to budget the right way so you can make your dream of parenthood a reality.Learn how to:- Understand surrogacy costs and hidden fees- Create a realistic budget that works for you- Explore financial resources to make surrogacy more affordable- Plan ahead so unexpected costs don’t derail your journeyChapters00:00 Introduction to Fertility Financing01:26 Understanding the Costs of Family Building04:46 Exploring Fertility Treatment Options07:35 Planning Your Family Building Journey09:57 Breaking Down the Costs of IVF15:41 Insurance Options for Fertility Treatments20:30 Medication Costs and Savings Strategies21:57 Building a Realistic Budget24:50 Planning for Contingencies26:16 Financing Options Beyond Savings29:07 Emotional Aspects of Family Planning31:01 Closing Thoughts and ResourcesSurrogacy is an investment, but with the right financial strategy, it is possible. Watch now to get expert insights on how to plan, budget, and fund your family-building journey the smart way. Book a Free Consultation Have questions about your surrogacy journey? Speak with our expert team today! https://familyinceptions.com/schedule-a-consultation/?utm_campaign=7853368-Fertility%20Cafe%20Podcast&utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=social Curious about the cost of surrogacy? Use our Surrogacy Cost Calculator: https://familyinceptions.com/cost-of-surrogacy-calculator/?utm_campaign=7853368-Fertility%20Cafe%20Podcast&utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=social Stay Connected Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/fertilitycafe Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/fertilitycafe Website: https://thefertilitycafe.com More Resources Learn more about surrogacy & fertility: https://familyinceptions.com/intended-parents Listen to past episodes: https://www.youtube.com/@FertilityCafePodcast/playlists Get expert insights & updates: https://thefertilitycafe.com/resources All information shared is for educational purposes and subject to change. Always consult with a medical or legal professional for personalized advice.

Surrogacy laws can feel like a maze, but understanding them is key for every intended parent and gestational carrier embarking on their fertility journey. In this episode of Fertility Cafe, we’re breaking down the complexities of modern surrogacy with legal expert Rich Geisler. With over a decade of experience in fertility and third-party reproduction law, Rich shares invaluable insights on how evolving surrogacy laws affect intended parents and surrogates, highlighting everything from pre-birth and post-birth orders to the importance of clear gestational surrogacy agreements.  Whether you're exploring surrogacy as a way to help create a family, considering becoming a surrogate, or looking for clarity on the legal landscape, this conversation is packed with actionable advice and real-world experiences to guide your journey. From the impact of international regulations to the nuances of parentage orders in different states, you’ll gain a deeper understanding of how to navigate this life-changing process with confidence.  Parenthood knows no limits, and neither should your dreams of family building. Subscribe, share, and join us for more empowering discussions on surrogacy, egg donation, and third-party reproduction. Together, we’re here to support and inspire you every step of the way. Ready to take the next step? Let’s build your future, one family at a time.#surrogacylegislation #surrogacyconsultation #surrogacyagency #surrogacylawyers #surrogacysupportCHAPTERS:00:00 - Intro02:16 - Inspiration for Fertility Law03:42 - Evolution of Surrogacy Law10:15 - Election Impact on Surrogacy Laws14:44 - Understanding Surrogacy Agreements18:36 - Pre vs Post Birth Orders Explained20:40 - Impact of Orders on Surrogates23:15 - US Surrogacy and International Regulations25:24 - Challenges for International Parents27:28 - Advocacy in Surrogacy33:10 - Recent Changes in Surrogacy Legislation35:10 - Advice for Intended Parents and Surrogates36:10 - Misconceptions About Surrogacy Laws38:00 - Connect with Rich// Family Inceptions - A Surrogacy and Egg Donation Agency - Visit here for more details: https://familyinceptions.com

Family building is so much more than biology—it's an emotional journey filled with hope, questions, and transformation. In this episode of The Fertility Cafe, host Eloise Drain sits down with Dr. Linda Candelis, a reproductive health psychologist, to explore the emotional side of family building through modern surrogacy, egg donation, and third-party reproduction. Whether you're an intended parent, gestational carrier, or considering becoming a surrogate, navigating the highs and lows of this transformative fertility journey is a shared experience. Discover how support, self-care, and open communication play a vital role in creating a family, and hear insights that will help you process emotions like grief, anxiety, or uncertainty. From understanding the challenges of waiting to learning how to advocate for yourself, this conversation is packed with expert advice and real stories that empower and inspire.If you're ready to take the next step or simply want to feel seen and understood, this episode is for you. Parenthood knows no limits, and neither should love. Join us to learn how to embrace the beauty and complexity of your family-building journey. Subscribe now, share with someone who needs to hear this, and start exploring the resources available to help create the family you’ve always dreamed of.#fertilityempowerment #infertility #ttcinspiration #buildingapositivefamilystory #parentingthroughdonorconceptionCHAPTERS:00:00 - Intro01:43 - Dr. Linda Candelis, Reproductive Health Psychologist04:52 - Common Emotional Challenges in Fertility06:31 - Identifying and Processing Emotions in Treatment11:15 - Emotional Impact on Intended Fathers in Fertility13:29 - Advice for Partners in Fertility Journey16:11 - Coping Strategies for Waiting Period in Fertility21:40 - Addressing Shame and Self-Doubt in Fertility25:24 - Learning to Advocate for Yourself in Treatment28:15 - What to Expect from Your First Therapy Session36:08 - Short-term vs Long-term Support in Fertility37:50 - Misconceptions about Therapy during Fertility Treatment42:18 - Essential Mental Health Support for Fertility Patients43:20 - Advice for Starting Family Building Journey44:19 - Where to Find Linda Online45:30 - Outro// Family Inceptions - A Surrogacy and Egg Donation Agency - Visit here for more details: https://familyinceptions.com

Building a family is one of life’s most meaningful journeys—but choosing the right team to guide you is crucial. In this episode of The Fertility Café, host Eloise Drane dives into the essential factors in selecting the best medical, legal, and emotional support for your path to parenthood.Too often, patient care takes a backseat to efficiency and profits, leaving intended parents, surrogates, and donors feeling overlooked. Eloise unpacks how to advocate for yourself, ask the right questions, and find a team that values your unique needs.What You’ll Learn in This Episode:The critical roles of medical teams, mental health professionals, legal counsel, agencies, insurance specialists, and escrow managers.Key questions to ask when choosing a fertility clinic, agency, or legal team.How to ensure inclusivity, especially for non-traditional families, LGBTQ+ individuals, and single parents.Tips for surrogates and donors to feel supported and respected throughout the process.Advocacy strategies to make your voice heard and ensure your journey aligns with your values.Resources Mentioned:Visit thefertilitycafe.com for helpful guides and additional resources.Check out Episode 102 with Kenny Smalls for an in-depth look at fertility labs. Tune in now to gain confidence in choosing the right team for your journey to parenthood.Have questions or thoughts about this episode? Share them in the comments below!

When it comes to fertility treatment, most people focus on the doctors, medications, and clinics—but what about the unseen, critical work happening behind the scenes in the fertility lab? In this episode of The Fertility Café, host Eloise Drane pulls back the curtain on the role fertility labs play in successful family building.Joining Eloise is Kenny Smalls, Director of Laboratory Services at Global Fertility and Genetics, to uncover how labs combine cutting-edge technology with precise science to create life. From embryo grading and air quality to the latest in AI and vitrification techniques, Kenny explains the processes that make or break success rates.In this episode, you’ll learn:What really happens behind the scenes in a fertility lab.How lab conditions, like air quality and equipment, impact embryo development.What to look for when choosing a fertility clinic with the right lab setup.The revolutionary role of AI and advanced technologies in fertility science.Whether you’re just starting your fertility journey or in the middle of treatment, this episode will arm you with the knowledge to make confident, informed decisions. Tune in now to discover how fertility labs are shaping the future of family building.Have questions about lab processes or choosing the right clinic? Drop them below!

In this season premiere of The Fertility Café, host Eloise Drane, founder of Family Inceptions, dives into the many paths of third-party family building—from egg donation and sperm donation to embryo donation and surrogacy.Navigating these options can feel overwhelming, but this episode serves as your refreshed guide to understanding the unique considerations, timelines, and emotional aspects of each path. Whether you're an intended parent, surrogate, or donor, you'll gain clarity, confidence, and insight into how to choose the path that aligns with your family-building goals.In this episode, we’ll cover:The differences between egg, sperm, and embryo donation.The surrogacy process and what to expect.Key factors to consider: budget, timeline, emotional readiness, and support systems.Common myths about third-party reproduction debunked.Every family’s journey is unique, and there’s no one-size-fits-all approach. Tune in to gain expert advice, heartfelt insights, and a roadmap for your family-building journey. Listen now and subscribe for more honest conversations about modern family building.

Embark on an enthralling exploration of the future of fertility in the landmark 100th episode of Fertility Cafe. This episode delves into the challenges the fertility industry is currently facing and how they are evolving. Discover what lies on the horizon and how changes in fertility on a massive scale will shape society, culture, and perceptions of third-party reproduction. Unravel the science and technology that needs to be advanced for transformative and scalable change. From the progression of IVF to the societal and cultural implications of fertility changes, this episode is a treasure trove of insights and knowledge. Don't miss this deep dive into the future of human reproduction! Guest BioDavid Sable is the distinguished guest on today’s show, and he's highly respected in the field of reproductive medicine. He holds impressive degrees from the Wharton School and the University of Pennsylvania School of Medicine. David has built a remarkable career as an obstetrician and gynecologist, with a special focus on reproductive endocrinology. He’s also a co-founder of the Institute for Reproductive Medicine and Science and Reprogenetics, which are quite noteworthy. In addition, he’s an esteemed educator at Columbia University and shares his expertise through lectures on healthcare investing and biotechnology business development. You might have even seen him on TV sharing insights on reproductive medicine. With a plethora of board positions, advisory roles, and publications, David Sable is a true authority and a guiding light in the field.Resources ●      Guest: David Sable ●      Learn more about our podcast: Fertility Cafe ●      Learn more about our surrogacy and egg donation agency: Family Inceptions ●      On the podcast: Ep 1 |  Building a Modern-Day Family ●       On the podcast: Ep 96 | The Baby Business Rate, Review, and Subscribe! We would be so grateful if you took the time to rate and review our podcast on iTunes! And of course, don’t forget to hit that Subscribe button to have new episodes delivered straight to your feed! Podcast Review ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️: “Beautifu...