From Carpool to College

In this episode, Tracy and Tara share their perspective on the interview. They also explore an important concept that applicants often overlook: every interaction with a college—from campus tours to email exchanges—is essentially a form of interview. If you're wondering whether to add one more thing to your college application to-do list, this episode will help you think differently about the process. S2, E7

Hosts Tara and Tracy guide parents through the waiting period between submission and decision day, covering essential strategies like when and how to appropriately email admission officers, why it's important to keep exploring other colleges, and how to manage anxiety during this uncertain time. Most importantly, don't let the college process steal the joy from senior year! S2, E6

In this episode, we guide parents through the process of helping their teen build a smart, balanced college list. Discover how to support your student in identifying schools that match their strengths, interests, and aspirations while keeping practical factors like cost, location, and outcomes in mind. We cover the difference between reach, target, and safety schools, red flags to watch for, and how to have productive conversations about college fit without adding pressure. Whether your student is just beginning their search or finalizing their list, you'll gain actionable strategies to be an effective partner in this important decision. S2, E5

In this episode, we take a big-picture look at the entire journey from kindergarten through college admissions and beyond. S2, E4

In this episode, we look back at the 2025-2026 college admissions cycle and unpack the trends, surprises, and lessons learned. We discuss what worked, what caught families off guard, and how the landscape continues to evolve, from acceptance rates and test-optional policies to majors and demonstrated interest. Learn what this year's results tell us about where admissions is headed and how future applicants can better prepare. We share real stories from families navigating the process, common mistakes to avoid, and silver linings that emerged even in disappointing outcomes. Whether your student is just starting their college journey or you're processing this year's results, this episode offers perspective, insight, and hope for the road ahead. S2, E3

In this episode, we help you and your student approach college fairs with a game plan instead of feeling overwhelmed by rows of tables and stacks of brochures. We discuss how to prepare before you go, which colleges to prioritize at the fair, and what questions will actually give you valuable information beyond what's on the website. Learn how to make a memorable impression with admissions representatives, what to look for in your conversations, and how to follow up effectively afterward. We'll also cover the difference between large regional fairs and smaller school-hosted events, and whether virtual college fairs are worth your time. By the end of this episode, you'll know how to turn college fairs from exhausting information dumps into productive steps in your student's college search. S2, E2

In this episode, we uncover the often-hidden factors that shape your student's college list, and help you separate helpful influences from harmful ones. We discuss how peer pressure, social media, prestige obsession, and even well-meaning relatives can steer your teen toward schools that aren't the right fit. Learn how to identify what should truly drive college selection: academic programs, campus culture, career outcomes, financial reality, and your student's individual needs and goals. We'll also explore how to have honest conversations about brand-name schools versus best-fit schools, and how to help your teen tune out the noise to focus on what actually matters for their success and happiness. This episode will empower you to build a college list based on substance, not status. S2, E1

Joey Longo, second semester Senior at College of Charleston walks us through how he started college early, in high school (dual enrollment), then hit community college for a year, and now is living his best life at the College of Charleston, graduating a semester early! *Proud mamma moment for cohost Tracy* S1, E13

The talented recording artist Santina DiBenedetto, a rising Senior at U Miami's elite Frost School of Music, shares her stories from application to absolutely thriving! Prolifically creating music, her multidisciplinary undergrad experience is exemplary! S1, E12

In this episode, we explore how to help your student choose a college major that aligns with their natural skills and interests while preparing them for a tech-driven future. We discuss why it's crucial to look beyond just passion and consider aptitude, market demand, and how technology is reshaping every industry. Learn how traditional majors are evolving to incorporate tech skills, why computational thinking matters across all fields, and how to encourage your student to build a foundation that's both meaningful and marketable. Whether your teen is drawn to the humanities, STEM, business, or the arts, this episode will help you guide them toward a major that leverages their strengths while keeping them competitive in an increasingly digital world. S1, E11

Decoding Admissions Deadlines: ED, EA, RD, and Rolling. What's the Difference? In this episode, we break down the alphabet soup of college admissions deadlines and help you understand what each one means for your student. We explain the differences between Early Decision, Early Action, Regular Decision, and Rolling Admissions, including the pros and cons of each option. Learn about binding vs. non-binding applications, how early deadlines can impact financial aid, and strategic considerations for when to apply where. We'll help you understand restrictive Early Action policies, whether applying early actually improves admissions chances, and how to create a timeline that reduces stress while maximizing opportunities. By the end of this episode, you'll be able to guide your student in choosing the right application strategy for their college list. S1, E10

In this episode, we confront the dangerous myth that there's a "perfect" college applicant, and the pressure it puts on both parents and students. We explore how social media, competitive school cultures, and our own anxieties can lead us to push our teens toward an impossible standard of achievement. Learn how to recognize when expectations have become unhealthy, how perfectionism impacts your student's mental health and authenticity, and why colleges are actually looking for real kids, not robots. We discuss how to celebrate your student's unique strengths, support them through setbacks, and reframe success in ways that prioritize well-being alongside achievement. This episode is a reality check and a permission slip to let your teen be human. S1, E9

In this episode, we demystify one of the most important academic planning decisions: your student's math pathway through high school. We discuss why math matters so much in college admissions, how to choose between different tracks (Algebra, Geometry, Precalculus, Calculus, Statistics), and what level of math colleges actually expect to see. Learn how your student's intended major impacts their math requirements, whether doubling up on math courses makes sense, and how to support a student who's struggling or, conversely, ready to accelerate. We'll also address common concerns about AP Calculus, dual enrollment options, and how to balance rigor with your teen's strengths and interests. Whether your student loves math or dreads it, this episode will help you map out a strategy that keeps doors open for college. S1, E8

In this episode, we tackle a tough dilemma many parents face: What do you do when your teen wants to quit an activity they've been doing for years, especially with college applications looming? We explore the tension between demonstrating commitment to admissions officers and honoring your student's evolving interests and mental health. Learn how to have honest conversations about timing, motivation, and the real impact on college applications. We discuss when it makes sense to encourage your teen to stick it out, when walking away is the right choice, and how to help them tell their story authentically, whether they stay or go. This episode will help you support your student in making decisions that are true to who they are, not just what looks good on paper. S1, E7

In this episode, we break down everything parents need to know about standardized testing in today's college admissions landscape. We explore the differences between the SAT and ACT, how to determine which test is right for your student, and whether test prep is worth the investment. With more colleges adopting test-optional policies, we discuss when submitting scores helps and when it might not. Learn how to support your teen through test anxiety, create a realistic testing timeline, and understand what role these scores actually play in the admissions process. Whether your student is a natural test-taker or finds standardized tests stressful, this episode will help you navigate this piece of the puzzle with confidence. S1, E6

In this episode, we discuss the college essay, one of the most daunting parts of the application process for students and parents alike. We discuss how to help your teen brainstorm authentic topics, find their unique voice, and craft a compelling story that stands out to admissions officers. Learn where parents can be helpful (proofreading, encouragement) and where you need to step back (writing it for them!). We'll cover common essay pitfalls, how to give constructive feedback without taking over, and tips for managing the stress that often comes with this high-stakes writing assignment. By the end, you'll know how to support your student in creating an essay that's genuinely theirs. S1, E5

Tara and Tracy talk about "gap years" and some different pathways to engage in self development after high school. S1, E4

Tara describes her experience attending a college Open House with her daughter. We explain the importance of demonstrating interest and pulls the curtain back a bit to reveal open house operations. College visits are worthwhile, and there is more than one way to make that happen. S1, E3

Summer programs come in all shapes and sizes--and price tags. Tracy signed her husband up for an "academically exclusive" summer program for high school students and he was accepted! The truth is, no one program is going to make or break that college acceptance. Our kids need to be authentic in experiential learning, whether it's a part time job, volunteering, summer coursework, or educational travel / leadership programs. S1, E2

In this episode, we tackle one of the biggest questions parents face: How involved should you be in your teen's college planning process? We explore the delicate balance between being supportive and being overbearing, and help you identify when to step in and when to step back. Learn how to empower your student to take ownership of their college search while providing the guidance and structure they need to succeed. Whether you're a hands-on planner or prefer a more laid-back approach, this episode will help you find the sweet spot that works for your family. Welcome to From Carpool to College, the journey starts here! S1, E1