Come Talk with Aimee: Bringing Sex Out of The Shadows

What if the most important shift in your life is not the big, dramatic moment but the decision to start choosing yourself?In this episode, I sit down with certified holistic sexuality educator and embodied intimacy coach Lauren Elise Rogers for a deeply honest, slightly unhinged in the best way, and incredibly validating conversation about the invisible season of becoming and what it really means to own your pleasure. We talk about what it looks like to slowly wake up inside a life that no longer fits, the conditioning that teaches women to abandon their desires, and the moment you realise that your pleasure is not someone else’s responsibility, it is yours. Lauren shares her journey through a misaligned marriage, religious conditioning, and deep disconnection from her body, and how small, almost invisible choices helped her rebuild her sense of self, desire, and agency.We talk about:the invisible season and why nothing feels like it is happening when everything is shiftinghow purity culture and societal scripts disconnect you from your desireslosing yourself in roles and learning how to come back to who you aremoving out of the martyr mindset and into self-led desiregrief, loss, and rebuilding your life after everything falls apartlearning how to choose yourself without guiltwhy becoming “selfish” might actually be the most aligned thing you doIf you are in a season where things feel unclear, slow, or quietly uncomfortable, this episode is your reminder that becoming does not always look dramatic. Sometimes it looks like choosing yourself in small ways, over and over again, and learning that your pleasure, your desires, and your life are yours to own. Connect with Lauren Elise Rogershttps://www.instagram.com/sex_ed_for_you/https://sexedforyou.com/connectUse code WELCOME for 10% off your first orderhttps://motherlode-market.com/Download your FREE Pleasure Power Workbook: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com/pleasurepowerguideElevate Your Intimacy with Lubify Lux lube. Use code AIMEE25 to get 25% https://ilubify.com/?srsltid=AfmBOorPNdYi9J1NN0TWDq4iO8PYcwNxzwi5nmACAU2aseFBxVms8RO6 Become a FirstComer on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/14753586/joinStay Connected with Come Talk with Aimee:Website: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimeeTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimeeYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@cometalkwithaimee

Opening your relationship is not a shortcut to better sex or fewer problems. If anything, it will expose every single communication issue you have been avoiding.In this episode, I sit down with licensed clinical social worker and certified sex therapist Dr. Lee Phillips for a real, funny, and refreshingly honest conversation about ethical non-monogamy. We break down what ENM actually is, why it is not just about having more options, and how it requires way more communication, clarity, and emotional awareness than people expect. Dr. Lee shares his own experience navigating an open marriage, the realities of jealousy, and why most people get into trouble when they try to open a relationship from a place of disconnection instead of stability. We also get into dating apps, emotional availability, boundaries, and the difference between fear and caution when navigating new connections.We talk about:what ethical non-monogamy actually means and the different forms it can takewhy opening a relationship will not fix communication problems, it will amplify themthe importance of having a strong foundation before exploring ENMemotional bandwidth, time, and attention as boundaries people forget to sethow different partners can have completely different approaches to non-monogamywhy communication needs to be proactive, not reactivedating apps, red flags, and what emotional availability actually looks likefear versus caution when navigating vulnerability and new connectionsIf you have ever been curious about ethical non-monogamy, already exploring it, or questioning whether it could work for you, this episode will give you a much more honest picture of what it actually requires. It is not about more people, it is about more honesty, more communication, and a whole lot more self-awareness.Connect with Dr. Lee Phillipshttps://www.drleephillips.com/https://www.instagram.com/drleephillips/Use code WELCOME for 10% off your first orderhttps://motherlode-market.com/Download your FREE Pleasure Power Workbook: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com/pleasurepowerguideElevate Your Intimacy with Lubify Lux lube. Use code AIMEE25 to get 25% https://ilubify.com/?srsltid=AfmBOorPNdYi9J1NN0TWDq4iO8PYcwNxzwi5nmACAU2aseFBxVms8RO6 Become a FirstComer on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/14753586/joinStay Connected with Come Talk with Aimee:Website: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimeeTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimeeYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@cometalkwithaimee

What if the thing you were taught to fear most about your sex life is actually… not a big deal?In this episode, we are dismantling one of the most overblown, misunderstood, and unnecessarily stigmatized topics in sex: herpes. And no, your sex life is not over. Not even close.I’m sitting down with the iconic Tricia Wise, also known as Safe Slut, for a bold, funny, and refreshingly honest conversation about what it really means to navigate dating, sex, and identity after a herpes diagnosis. We talk about how she coined “Safe Slut” the same day she was diagnosed, how she turned that into a platform that educates and empowers thousands, and why herpes is way more common and way less dramatic than we have been led to believe. From disclosure and dating to sex work, stigma, and reclaiming the word “slut,” this conversation is equal parts liberating and real.We talk about:why STI stigma is usually worse than the realityhow to disclose to partners without turning it into a dramatic confessionwhy sexual health is a shared responsibility between you and your partner/sreclaiming the word “slut” and unlearning shame around sexualityhow misinformation around STIs has been shaped by culture, media, and fearwhy your sex life is not over, it might actually be leveling upIf you have ever felt shame around your body, your desires, or your sexual history, this episode is your reminder that you get to define your own narrative. Sex can still be hot, fun, and deeply connected, and honestly, maybe even better when you stop buying into the fear.Connect with Tricia: OnlyFans: https://onlyfans.com/safeslvtTwitter: https://twitter.com/safe_slutIG: https://www.instagram.com/safe.slut/?hl=enSubstack: https://safeslut.substack.com/Shop: https://www.safeslut.shop/Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/safeslutYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCk7lX24XQC8CckzeknAhQ9ATiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@safe.slut?_t=8UuUIhvr2be&_r=1Use code WELCOME for 10% off your first orderhttps://motherlode-market.com/Download your FREE Pleasure Power Workbook: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com/pleasurepowerguideElevate Your Intimacy with Lubify Lux lube. Use code AIMEE25 to get 25% https://ilubify.com/?srsltid=AfmBOorPNdYi9J1NN0TWDq4iO8PYcwNxzwi5nmACAU2aseFBxVms8RO6 Become a FirstComer on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/14753586/joinStay Connected with Come Talk with Aimee:Website: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimeeTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimeeYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@cometalkwithaimee

What if I told you that you don’t have to have sex and that it's a perfectly valid and fulfilling way to live?In this episode, we're flipping the script on one of society's biggest unspoken rules: that everyone wants sex, everyone should want sex, and if you don't, something must be wrong with you. Spoiler alert: that's a load of pressure we don't need.I'm sitting down with the fabulous sex, relationship, and intimacy coach Jamie Azar to unpack the concept of compulsory sexuality. We're talking about why this idea flies under the radar, how it affects everyone (including sex coaches), and why saying "no thanks" to sex can be one of the most radical things you do. Whether you're asexual, going through a dry spell, or just feeling the pressure to perform, this conversation is your permission slip to do pleasure on your own terms.We talk about:- what compulsory sexuality is and how it shows up everywhere- why not wanting sex doesn't mean that there’s something wrong with you - the difference between sexual liberation and sexual obligation- how to deal with mismatched desire in a relationship- expanding your definition of sex and intimacy- centring pleasure over performanceIf you've ever felt like you're doing something wrong for not prioritizing sex, this episode is for you. Let's get curious about what actually feels good and not what we're told should feel good.Connect with Jamie Azar:https://linktr.ee/eroticexpressionseduUse code WELCOME for 10% off your first orderhttps://motherlode-market.com/Download your FREE Pleasure Power Workbook: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com/pleasurepowerguideElevate Your Intimacy with Lubify Lux lube. Use code AIMEE25 to get 25% https://ilubify.com/?srsltid=AfmBOorPNdYi9J1NN0TWDq4iO8PYcwNxzwi5nmACAU2aseFBxVms8RO6 Become a FirstComer on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/14753586/joinStay Connected with Come Talk with Aimee:Website: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimeeTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimeeYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@cometalkwithaimee 

Being a bad bitch isn't just about looking cute and doing self-care. It's about showing up for what you think is right, walking away from what's not working for you, and speaking the fuck out.In this episode, I sit down with comedian, actress, and Bad Bitch Brunch creator Brittany Brave to talk about what it really means to embody confidence in every area of your life, including the bedroom. Brittany shares how she took back Bad Bitch Brunch from a misogynistic business owner, why she's an advocate for intimate partner violence survivors, and what she'll teach her future daughter about sex, agency, and consent.This conversation gets real about domestic violence, sexual performance pressure, and betting on yourself as the foundation for everything.We talk aboutwhat being a bad bitch actually meansusing comedy as reclaiming power after domestic violenceBad Bitch Brunch and creating spaces for women and queer talentdropping the sexual performance anxiety and just enjoying yourselfwhy "I gave it up too soon" is patriarchal bullshitcommunication and consistency as the ultimate turn-onsraising daughters with body autonomy and sexual agencyteaching consent, not shameIf you've been performing instead of enjoying, people-pleasing instead of speaking out, or wondering what confidence actually looks like in practice, this episode will remind you that being a bad bitch starts with betting on yourself.Connect with Brittany BraveWebsite: https://www.brittanybrave.live/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brittanybraveTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@brittanybravecomedyYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCoP2EnIzaiO5EC0UjyQQ7VAWatch Bad Bitch Brunch Live: https://linktr.ee/brittanybravecomedyUse code WELCOME for 10% off your first orderhttps://motherlode-market.com/Download your FREE Pleasure Power Workbook: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com/pleasurepowerguideElevate Your Intimacy with Lubify Lux lube. Use code AIMEE25 to get 25% https://ilubify.com/?srsltid=AfmBOorPNdYi9J1NN0TWDq4iO8PYcwNxzwi5nmACAU2aseFBxVms8RO6 Become a FirstComer on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/14753586/joinStay Connected with Come Talk with Aimee:Website: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimeeTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimeeYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@cometalkwithaimee 

From vibrator myths to dating app disasters, we're breaking down what sex education actually missed.In this episode, I sit down with licensed psychologist and sex therapist Dr. Sonya Maya to bust myths, challenge performative sexuality, and talk about what real pleasure actually looks like. Sonya breaks down why chemistry does not equate to compatibility, how vibrators actually build nerve endings (not numb them out), and why that whole "if he wanted to, he would" narrative is more nuanced than what other “experts” are trying to put it. This conversation gets into the science of hormones during sex, the difference between swingers spaces and ethical non-monogamy communities, and why social media is both helping and hurting our sex lives. We talk aboutwhy sex is so much more than penis-in-vagina penetrationwhy simultaneous orgasms are rare and shouldn't be the goalthe myth that vaginas get loose from sex (they don't)body count, slut-shaming, and why that question reveals more about the askerhow porn warps our expectations of real sexwhy removing expectations is actually the sexiest thing you can doIf you've been scrolling TikTok for sex advice, watching porn as your primary sex education, or trying to figure out why your dating life feels hollow, this episode will shift your perspective on what good sex actually requires.Connect with Dr. Sonya Maya  Website: https://www.sonyamaya.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sonyamaya/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@sonya_maya?lang=enYouTube: https://www.tiktok.com/@sonya_maya?lang=enDownload your FREE Pleasure Power Workbook: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com/pleasurepowerguideElevate Your Intimacy with Lubify Lux lube. Use code AIMEE25 to get 25% https://ilubify.com/?srsltid=AfmBOorPNdYi9J1NN0TWDq4iO8PYcwNxzwi5nmACAU2aseFBxVms8RO6 Become a FirstComer on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/14753586/joinStay Connected with Come Talk with Aimee:Website: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimeeTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimeeYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@cometalkwithaimee

What if understanding your cycle could make you better in bed, more confident in your body, and more connected to your pleasure?In this episode, I sit down with fertility awareness educator Kate Douglas to explore how tracking your cycle isn't just about baby-making or avoiding pregnancy, it's about understanding when you're at your most creative, confident, and yes, turned on. Kate breaks down how hormones affect everything from your libido to your skin to who you want to have sex with, and why knowing where you are in your cycle can transform your intimate life.This conversation goes beyond basic biology into why cervical fluid is nature's lube and how becoming cycle literate can help you communicate what you need in and out of the bedroom.We talk abouthow your hormones affect libido, who you're attracted to, and when you're most turned onwhy cervical fluid is nature's lube and what it tells you about your bodythe two biomarkers you need to track: cervical fluid and basal body temperatureovulation as creative and sexual energy, not just a fertility eventhow cervical fluid is literally a sperm snack (you'll never forget this)myth busting: day 14 ovulation, feeling ovulation, and textbook cycleswhy hormones don't make you unstable (they make you dynamic and cyclical)If you've ever wondered why your sex drive changes throughout the month, felt disconnected from your body, or want to understand what your hormones are doing to your libido and confidence, this episode is your invitation to start listening to what your body is telling you.Connect with Kate Douglas: Website: https://helloearthbody.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/helloearthbodyPodcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/6aga7AGBMwRfJA4g3dmjZ0?si=2ba47da338cf4327Download your FREE Pleasure Power Workbook: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com/pleasurepowerguideElevate Your Intimacy with Lubify Lux lube. Use code AIMEE25 to get 25% https://ilubify.com/?srsltid=AfmBOorPNdYi9J1NN0TWDq4iO8PYcwNxzwi5nmACAU2aseFBxVms8RO6 Become a FirstComer on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/14753586/joinStay Connected with Come Talk with Aimee:Website: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimeeTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimeeYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@cometalkwithaimee 

Your body is always talking to you. The question is, are you listening?In this episode, I sit down with intimacy coordinator, sexologist, and podcast host Arielle Zadok to explore embodied consent, the practice of checking in with not just your mind, but your entire body when it comes to desire, boundaries, and sexual experiences. Arielle breaks down what it means to truly listen to your body's signals, why silence is never consent, and how stress responses like fawning can complicate our ability to advocate for ourselves.This conversation goes beyond the bedroom into play parties, film sets, and everyday interactions, showing us how consent is a practice that requires slowing down, getting curious, and honoring what our bodies are telling us, even when our minds want something different.We talk aboutembodied consent and the difference between what your mind wants and what your body is sayingphysical signs to look for in yourself and your partners (breath, tension, engagement)the four stress responses: fight, flight, freeze, and fawnhow to practice saying no in low-stakes situations before high-stakes onesconsent at play parties and how structured consent talks create safer spacesintimacy coordination on film sets and protecting actors' boundarieswhy "maybe" is always a no until it becomes a clear yesrepair over punishment in consent violationsIf you've ever said yes when your body was screaming no, if you struggle with people-pleasing in sexual situations, or if you want to understand how to create truly consensual experiences, this episode will shift how you think about consent forever.Connect with Arielle: Website: www.thepleasureproducer.comPodcast: https://www.birdsandbeesdontfck.com Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/thepleasureproducerTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thepleasureproducer$99 Program: https://www.thepleasureproducer.com/fckDownload your FREE Pleasure Power Workbook: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com/pleasurepowerguideElevate Your Intimacy with Lubify Lux lube. Use code AIMEE25 to get 25% https://ilubify.com/?srsltid=AfmBOorPNdYi9J1NN0TWDq4iO8PYcwNxzwi5nmACAU2aseFBxVms8RO6 Become a FirstComer on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/14753586/joinStay Connected with Come Talk with Aimee:Website: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimeeTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimeeYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@cometalkwithaimee 

Pussy worship isn't just about technique. It's about enthusiasm, devotion, and creating a space where pleasure is mutual and unapologetic.In this episode, I sit down with psychologist, sexologist, and host of In Bed with Alexa, Alexa Andre. She talks about what real pussy worship looks like, why enthusiasm beats technique every time, how to identify true eaters versus people just going through the motions, and what it takes to receive pleasure without guilt or performance anxiety.This conversation is a permission slip to want more, ask for more, and settle for nothing less than worship.We talk about​identifying red flags versus green flags in sexual partners​how to receive pleasure without getting in your head​the play lab concept for exploring techniques and preferences together​reassurance, communication, and creating safe spaces for pleasure​integrating toys into pussy worship​why "are you satisfied?" is the most important question after sex​raising your standards and refusing to settle for mediocre sexIf you've been settling for obligation when you deserve devotion, or if you've been wondering whether real pussy worship even exists, this episode will change how you think about pleasure, reciprocity, and what you deserve in the bedroom.Connect with AlexaWebsite: https://sexwithalexa.co/Patreon: https://www.instagram.com/sexwithalexa/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sexwithalexa/Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/za/podcast/in-bed-with-alexa-have-better-sex/id1721576655Elevate Your Intimacy with Lubify Lux lube. Use code AIMEE20 at checkout: https://ilubify.com/?srsltid=AfmBOorPNdYi9J1NN0TWDq4iO8PYcwNxzwi5nmACAU2aseFBxVms8RO6 Become a FirstComer on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/14753586/joinStay Connected with Come Talk with Aimee:Website: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimeeTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimeeYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@cometalkwithaimee 

What happens when we stop whispering about desire and start telling the truth about it?In this episode of Come Talk with Aimee, I’m joined by Carly Pifer, founder of Read Aurore, a platform dedicated to sharing real, confessional erotica. Not fantasy wrapped in perfection, but honest stories about sex, longing, curiosity, and the messy, beautiful reality of being human in a body.We talk about why storytelling can be such a powerful gateway to understanding our desires, how writing about pleasure can shift shame into self-awareness, and why seeing real experiences reflected back to us can feel both liberating and deeply validating.This conversation explores how erotica can be more than entertainment. It can be a tool for self-discovery, communication, and reclaiming pleasure on our own terms.In this episode, we talk about:What makes real erotica different from traditional romance or fantasyWhy writing about sex can be a powerful form of self-discoveryThe connection between storytelling, desire, and empowermentHow reading real experiences can normalize pleasure and reduce shameWhat happens when women start telling the truth about their sexualityIf you’ve ever been curious about erotica, or wondered why stories can feel so powerful when it comes to desire, this episode opens the door to a whole new way of thinking about pleasure.Connect with Carly Pifer Website: https://readaurore.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/readaurore Join The Galentines Giveaway! https://www.instagram.com/p/DUO-b_5FvHB/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link&igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==Elevate Your Intimacy with Lubify Lux lube. Use code AIMEE25 at checkout: https://ilubify.com/?srsltid=AfmBOorPNdYi9J1NN0TWDq4iO8PYcwNxzwi5nmACAU2aseFBxVms8RO6 Become a FirstComer on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/14753586/joinStay Connected with Come Talk with Aimee:Website: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimeeTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimeeYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@cometalkwithaimee 

What does it actually mean to step into your pleasure power?In this quickie episode, I'm getting personal and sharing my own journey from purity culture to tapping into my pleasure power. I’m pulling back the curtain on how I reclaimed my pleasure and share about how I went from thinking "sex isn't fun" to discovering what my body is truly capable of. This is the story of how I went from having painful, controlled sex in my marriage to fully owning my erotic self. It's about the 3 P's that changed everything for me: Permission, Presence, and Play.We talk aboutgrowing up in purity culture and the mixed messages I received about sexmy marriage, mismatched desire, and painful sex that I thought was "normal"the conversation with a friend that gave me permission to want pleasuremy first vibrator and the moment everything changedwhy masturbation isn't just for single peopletools for exploring your erotic self, including erotica, ethical porn, and toysstepping into kink and exploring my edgesIf you've ever felt disconnected from your pleasure or been told that sex is supposed to hurt, this episode is your permission slip to want more.Join The Galentines Giveaway! https://www.instagram.com/p/DUO-b_5FvHB/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link&igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==Elevate Your Intimacy with Lubify Lux lube. Use code AIMEE25 at checkout: https://ilubify.com/?srsltid=AfmBOorPNdYi9J1NN0TWDq4iO8PYcwNxzwi5nmACAU2aseFBxVms8RO6 Become a FirstComer on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/14753586/joinStay Connected with Come Talk with Aimee:Website: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimeeTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimeeYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@cometalkwithaimee

So, tell me about the last time you had sex… In this episode, I had the privilege of interviewing New York Times bestselling author and sex therapist Ian Kerner, whose books She Comes First and So Tell Me About the Last Time You Had Sex have deeply influenced how I think about pleasure, intimacy, and sexual connection. Ian joins me for a grounded, refreshing conversation about sex scripts, performance pressure, desire, and why so many people feel disconnected from pleasure even when they’re doing everything “right.”We talk aboutsex scripts and how they quietly shape desire and arousalperformance anxiety and why it shuts down pleasurereceiving pleasure without feeling like you have to performwhy intercourse-centric sex limits intimacypsychological arousal, fantasy, and creating the right conditions for desirehow communication becomes a form of foreplayIf you’ve been craving intimacy that feels less pressured, more connected, and actually pleasurable, this episode offers a new way to understand what great sex really requires.Connect with Ian Kerner Website: https://www.iankerner.com/Elevate Your Intimacy with Lubify Lux lube. Use code AIMEE20 at checkout: https://ilubify.com/?srsltid=AfmBOorPNdYi9J1NN0TWDq4iO8PYcwNxzwi5nmACAU2aseFBxVms8RO6 Become a FirstComer on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/14753586/joinStay Connected with Come Talk with Aimee:Website: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimeeTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimeeYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@cometalkwithaimee

If you have ever been curious about play parties but also slightly terrified, confused, or convinced it is just one big chaotic orgy, this episode is for you. Consider this your permission slip to get informed before you go out to play. In this episode, I sit down with Le Organizer, a longtime play party host and event producer, for a no-BS conversation about what actually happens at play parties and how to navigate them safely. We break down the biggest misconceptions, why most play parties are far more social than sexual, and how consent, communication, and aftercare are taken seriously in well-run spaces.We talk aboutVetting events and reading descriptions like your safety depends on itNavigating scenes and knowing when to watch and when to join Saying no without guilt, using consent advocates, and why you never owe anyone play just because you showed upSwinger culture versus play partiesWhy education and community matter more than ever  in sex-positive spacesListen in for an honest and informative conversation that demystifies play parties and puts consent, safety, and pleasure back where they belong. Whether you are just curious or thinking about buying your first ticket, this episode will help you walk in informed, confident, and grounded.Connect with Le Organizer Instagram: http://instagram.com/le_organizerElevate Your Intimacy with Lubify Lux lube. Use code AIMEE20 at checkout: https://ilubify.com/?srsltid=AfmBOorPNdYi9J1NN0TWDq4iO8PYcwNxzwi5nmACAU2aseFBxVms8RO6 Become a FirstComer on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/14753586/joinStay Connected with Come Talk with Aimee:Website: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimeeTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimeeYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@cometalkwithaimee

If you have not watched Heated Rivalry yet, get off this podcast and start watching. No, seriously this episode will have a lot of spoilers. In this episode, I have my first-ever repeat guest, Rebecca Giguere, intimacy researcher, relationship coach, and the person fully responsible for wrecking my emotional stability by recommending this series to me. We break down why women everywhere are losing their minds over this show, from the slow burn tension and locker room glances to the emotional vulnerability, tenderness, and male softness we rarely get to see on screen. We get into masculinity, taboo desire, emotional safety, and why watching men be both strong and gentle at the same time is doing things to us.We talk about:Why yearning is hotter than instant gratificationMale vulnerability and why it feels rare and electric to watchQueer love, representation, and the relief of no male gazeFemale allyship and the power of safe women in men’s livesWhy this show quietly raises your standards without you realizingListen in for a swoony, chaotic, emotionally unhinged breakdown of Heated Rivalry that will make you want to rewatch the entire series, text someone you miss, and rethink what you actually want from love, sex, and connection.Connect with Rebecca Giguere, Instagram: www.instagram.com/unscripted.intimacyWebsite:  www.unscriptedintimacy.comElevate Your Intimacy with Lubify Lux lube. Use code AIMEE20 at checkout: https://ilubify.com/?srsltid=AfmBOorPNdYi9J1NN0TWDq4iO8PYcwNxzwi5nmACAU2aseFBxVms8RO6 Become a FirstComer on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/14753586/joinStay Connected with Come Talk with Aimee:Website: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimeeTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimeeYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@cometalkwithaimee

Physician assistant, intimacy educator, and podcast host Jordan D’Nelle joins me on the show for a bold, honest, no-sugarcoating conversation about casual sex, casual relationships, and how to actually enjoy them without losing yourself. From defining what casual really means to calling out the double standards women still face, we get into the real mechanics of having sex for pleasure without shame, confusion, or emotional burnout. We talk about why intention matters, how assumptions wreck the dynamic, and why self-respect is the sexiest boundary you can have.We talk about:How to define casual sex in a way that centres women’s pleasure, agency, and desireKnowing your intentions before you get naked and why it changes everythingSetting boundaries around overnights, cuddling, kissing, communication, and aftercareKnowing the red flags, green flags, and why chemistry makes us ignore what we should notKeeping yourself safe from STI’s How to stop chasing approval and start choosing yourselfListen in for a real, unfiltered conversation that gives you permission to enjoy casual sex with confidence, self-respect, and zero shame.Connect with Jordan D’NelleInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/jordandnelle/Jordan’s Podcast: https://www.instagram.com/thevvvpodcast/Elevate Your Intimacy with Lubify Lux lube. Use code AIMEE20 at checkout: https://ilubify.com/?srsltid=AfmBOorPNdYi9J1NN0TWDq4iO8PYcwNxzwi5nmACAU2aseFBxVms8RO6 Become a FirstComer on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/14753586/joinStay Connected with Come Talk with Aimee:Website: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimeeTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimeeYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@cometalkwithaimee

Stand-up comedian and Broadway star Rick Younger joins me on the podcast for a hilariously real, no-filter conversation about sex, comedy, and the art of being a grown-ass man. From his legendary reputation as "the guy who's not afraid to eat the pussy" to navigating the wild worlds of stand-up, acting, and ethical porn, Rick leaves no stone (or taboo) unturned. We get into the hilarious truths about bedroom awkwardness, why men need to stop treating every pussy like the last one, and how a sense of humor is the ultimate aphrodisiac. We talk about: Building a positive online community through his Low Budget Morning Show while calmly disarming trolls and racist comments.Why humor is a powerful tool for confidence on stage and a genuine asset for connection in the bedroom.Debunking the idea that every vagina works the same and how men can move beyond a one size fits all approach.Challenging pleasure taboos around topics like anal stimulation and nipple play for men and women.Navigating racial stereotypes in comedy and how being a Black man shapes the perception of his sexual material.Listen in for a laugh-out-loud, no-holds-barred conversation that blends street-smart wisdom with Broadway flair, and proves that the best intimacy is built on humor, honesty, and a willingness to learn.Connect with Rick Younger: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@RickYounger/Instagram: https://instagram.com/rickyoungerFacebook: https://facebook.com/rickyoungerpageTikTok: https://tiktok.com/@rickyoungerElevate Your Intimacy with Lubify Lux lube. Use code AIMEE20 at checkout: https://ilubify.com/?srsltid=AfmBOorPNdYi9J1NN0TWDq4iO8PYcwNxzwi5nmACAU2aseFBxVms8RO6 Stay Connected with Come Talk with Aimee:Website: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimeeTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimeeYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@cometalkwithaimee 

Why are so many men not getting laid, and why does sex feel so out of reach for so many men? In this episode, I sit with former Google engineer and creator Robyn Silber for a direct, honest conversation about unbed men, incels, the manosphere, and what is actually blocking connection for men today. We unpack why this is not just a dating or sex problem, but a deeper issue rooted in loneliness, emotional disconnection, and missing relational skills.We talk about: why being unbed is not the same as being an incel, and why that distinction matters how shame, social skill gaps, and emotional shutdown make sex feel inaccessible why many men chase sex when what they are really craving is connection how neurodivergence and the absence of male friendship intensify isolation where the manosphere reflects real pain, and where it pushes men further from intimacyListen in for a direct, to-the-point conversation about why sex feels so out of reach for many men, and what actually helps build connection, confidence, and intimacy.Connect with Robyn Silber Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/deprogramm.rTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@deprogramm.rElevate Your Intimacy with Lubify Lux lube. Use code AIMEE20 at checkout: https://ilubify.com/?srsltid=AfmBOorPNdYi9J1NN0TWDq4iO8PYcwNxzwi5nmACAU2aseFBxVms8RO6 Stay Connected with Come Talk with Aimee:Website: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimeeTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimeeYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@cometalkwithaimee 

TRIGGER WARNING: SEXUAL ABUSE, INCEST There is no shame in wanting a life that feels more alive, more erotic, and more deeply connected to your body.In this episode, I sit with erotic mystic and author Sharon Marie Scott for a conversation on desire, sovereignty, kink, and the alchemy that happens when you finally let yourself want more. We explore Sharon Marie’s work in forbidden alchemy, including how pleasure becomes a spiritual technology, why shame points us toward our deepest healing, and how kink can be a tool for expansion instead of something to hide. We talk about: untangling early childhood sexual trauma and the healing journey that followedreclaiming pleasure and learning to trust her body againunlinking fantasy from orgasm and expanding her capacity for sensationusing sex magic, arousal, shadow integration, and primal energy as tools for transformationembodying the dark feminine and dark masculine, choosing sovereignty, and understanding why taboo desires often hold our deepest medicineListen in and let this conversation invite you back into your body, your power, and your most authentic desires.Connect with Sharon Marie Scott Website: https://www.sharonmariescott.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sharonlifeturnedon/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@lifeturnedonTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lifeturnedon?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pcSubstack: https://substack.com/@sharonmariescottSharon Marie’s Castor Oil Pack Instructions: https://sharon-marie-scott.kit.com/castor-oil-packsElevate Your Intimacy with Lubify Lux lube. Use code AIMEE20 at checkout: https://ilubify.com/?srsltid=AfmBOorPNdYi9J1NN0TWDq4iO8PYcwNxzwi5nmACAU2aseFBxVms8RO6 Become a FirstComer on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/14753586/joinStay Connected with Come Talk with Aimee:Website: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimeeTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimeeYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@cometalkwithaimee 

There is no shame in craving deeper pleasure, and there is no shame in wanting sex that feels more intentional and responsive to your body.In this episode, I sit with Pleasure Dom, Sir Marvelous for a conversation on what truly creates mind-blowing pleasure. We explore the foundations of real pleasure through patience, anticipation, presence, and the psychology of arousal. Sir Marvelous breaks down edging, sensual dominance, temperature play, rope, fire, and the illusion of danger, along with why vibrators, clitoral stimulation, and thoughtful touch should be standard in every bedroom. We also talk about consent, negotiation, emotional safety, and how those pieces make it possible to relax, let go, and experience pleasure more deeply than ever.If you are curious about kink, ready to expand your pleasure, or wanting sex that feels richer and more connected, this episode offers practical tools you can take straight into your own intimacy. Listen in! Connect with Sir MarvelousWebsite: www.SirMarvelous.comReviews: https://www.sirmarvelous.com/reviewsEbooks: https://www.sirmarvelous.com/shop-with-sir/ebooksInstagram: www.instagram.com/sirmarvelouskinksLoyalFans: https://www.loyalfans.com/sirmarvelouskinksElevate Your Intimacy with Lubify Lux lube. Use code AIMEE20 at checkout: https://ilubify.com/?srsltid=AfmBOorPNdYi9J1NN0TWDq4iO8PYcwNxzwi5nmACAU2aseFBxVms8RO6 Stay Connected with Come Talk with Aimee:Website: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimeeTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimeeYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@cometalkwithaimee

There is no shame in wanting what you want, and there is no shame in asking for it out loud.In my very first Quickie episode, I take you inside a moment from my Paint Your Pleasure event, where we guided a room full of people through a consent-based touch practice that cracked everyone open in the softest, sweetest ways. From neon lights to body paint to dry brush strokes on skin, the entire night was designed to invite people out of performance and into their real desires, and the transformation was electric. We explore how powerful it is to name the touch you want to receive, the touch you want to give, and how liberating it feels when your boundaries are honored without hesitation. I talk about the beauty of watching bodies melt as they ask for slower movement, firmer pressure, lighter tickles, and how meaningful it was for people to practice saying no and witness that nothing bad happened.This is an invitation to bring that same energy into your own intimacy. Let pleasure become specific instead of assumed. And let consent be playful, sexy, collaborative, and deeply nourishing, because the way you ask for touch is part of your erotic power.JOIN MY BLACK FRIDAY GIVEAWAY: https://www.patreon.com/c/cometalkwithaimee/membershipElevate Your Intimacy with Lubify Lux lube. Use code AIMEE20 at checkout: https://ilubify.com/?srsltid=AfmBOorPNdYi9J1NN0TWDq4iO8PYcwNxzwi5nmACAU2aseFBxVms8RO6 Stay Connected with Come Talk with Aimee:Website: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimeeTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimeeYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@cometalkwithaimee