Come Talk with Aimee

So, tell me about the last time you had sex… In this episode, I had the privilege of interviewing New York Times bestselling author and sex therapist Ian Kerner, whose books She Comes First and So Tell Me About the Last Time You Had Sex have deeply influenced how I think about pleasure, intimacy, and sexual connection. Ian joins me for a grounded, refreshing conversation about sex scripts, performance pressure, desire, and why so many people feel disconnected from pleasure even when they’re doing everything “right.”We talk aboutsex scripts and how they quietly shape desire and arousalperformance anxiety and why it shuts down pleasurereceiving pleasure without feeling like you have to performwhy intercourse-centric sex limits intimacypsychological arousal, fantasy, and creating the right conditions for desirehow communication becomes a form of foreplayIf you’ve been craving intimacy that feels less pressured, more connected, and actually pleasurable, this episode offers a new way to understand what great sex really requires.Connect with Ian Kerner Website: https://www.iankerner.com/Elevate Your Intimacy with Lubify Lux lube. Use code AIMEE20 at checkout: https://ilubify.com/?srsltid=AfmBOorPNdYi9J1NN0TWDq4iO8PYcwNxzwi5nmACAU2aseFBxVms8RO6 Become a FirstComer on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/14753586/joinStay Connected with Come Talk with Aimee:Website: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimeeTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimeeYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@cometalkwithaimee

If you have ever been curious about play parties but also slightly terrified, confused, or convinced it is just one big chaotic orgy, this episode is for you. Consider this your permission slip to get informed before you go out to play. In this episode, I sit down with Le Organizer, a longtime play party host and event producer, for a no-BS conversation about what actually happens at play parties and how to navigate them safely. We break down the biggest misconceptions, why most play parties are far more social than sexual, and how consent, communication, and aftercare are taken seriously in well-run spaces.We talk aboutVetting events and reading descriptions like your safety depends on itNavigating scenes and knowing when to watch and when to join Saying no without guilt, using consent advocates, and why you never owe anyone play just because you showed upSwinger culture versus play partiesWhy education and community matter more than ever  in sex-positive spacesListen in for an honest and informative conversation that demystifies play parties and puts consent, safety, and pleasure back where they belong. Whether you are just curious or thinking about buying your first ticket, this episode will help you walk in informed, confident, and grounded.Connect with Le Organizer Instagram: http://instagram.com/le_organizerElevate Your Intimacy with Lubify Lux lube. Use code AIMEE20 at checkout: https://ilubify.com/?srsltid=AfmBOorPNdYi9J1NN0TWDq4iO8PYcwNxzwi5nmACAU2aseFBxVms8RO6 Become a FirstComer on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/14753586/joinStay Connected with Come Talk with Aimee:Website: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimeeTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimeeYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@cometalkwithaimee

If you have not watched Heated Rivalry yet, get off this podcast and start watching. No, seriously this episode will have a lot of spoilers. In this episode, I have my first-ever repeat guest, Rebecca Giguere, intimacy researcher, relationship coach, and the person fully responsible for wrecking my emotional stability by recommending this series to me. We break down why women everywhere are losing their minds over this show, from the slow burn tension and locker room glances to the emotional vulnerability, tenderness, and male softness we rarely get to see on screen. We get into masculinity, taboo desire, emotional safety, and why watching men be both strong and gentle at the same time is doing things to us.We talk about:Why yearning is hotter than instant gratificationMale vulnerability and why it feels rare and electric to watchQueer love, representation, and the relief of no male gazeFemale allyship and the power of safe women in men’s livesWhy this show quietly raises your standards without you realizingListen in for a swoony, chaotic, emotionally unhinged breakdown of Heated Rivalry that will make you want to rewatch the entire series, text someone you miss, and rethink what you actually want from love, sex, and connection.Connect with Rebecca Giguere, Instagram: www.instagram.com/unscripted.intimacyWebsite:  www.unscriptedintimacy.comElevate Your Intimacy with Lubify Lux lube. Use code AIMEE20 at checkout: https://ilubify.com/?srsltid=AfmBOorPNdYi9J1NN0TWDq4iO8PYcwNxzwi5nmACAU2aseFBxVms8RO6 Become a FirstComer on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/14753586/joinStay Connected with Come Talk with Aimee:Website: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimeeTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimeeYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@cometalkwithaimee

Physician assistant, intimacy educator, and podcast host Jordan D’Nelle joins me on the show for a bold, honest, no-sugarcoating conversation about casual sex, casual relationships, and how to actually enjoy them without losing yourself. From defining what casual really means to calling out the double standards women still face, we get into the real mechanics of having sex for pleasure without shame, confusion, or emotional burnout. We talk about why intention matters, how assumptions wreck the dynamic, and why self-respect is the sexiest boundary you can have.We talk about:How to define casual sex in a way that centres women’s pleasure, agency, and desireKnowing your intentions before you get naked and why it changes everythingSetting boundaries around overnights, cuddling, kissing, communication, and aftercareKnowing the red flags, green flags, and why chemistry makes us ignore what we should notKeeping yourself safe from STI’s How to stop chasing approval and start choosing yourselfListen in for a real, unfiltered conversation that gives you permission to enjoy casual sex with confidence, self-respect, and zero shame.Connect with Jordan D’NelleInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/jordandnelle/Jordan’s Podcast: https://www.instagram.com/thevvvpodcast/Elevate Your Intimacy with Lubify Lux lube. Use code AIMEE20 at checkout: https://ilubify.com/?srsltid=AfmBOorPNdYi9J1NN0TWDq4iO8PYcwNxzwi5nmACAU2aseFBxVms8RO6 Become a FirstComer on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/14753586/joinStay Connected with Come Talk with Aimee:Website: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimeeTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimeeYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@cometalkwithaimee

Stand-up comedian and Broadway star Rick Younger joins me on the podcast for a hilariously real, no-filter conversation about sex, comedy, and the art of being a grown-ass man. From his legendary reputation as "the guy who's not afraid to eat the pussy" to navigating the wild worlds of stand-up, acting, and ethical porn, Rick leaves no stone (or taboo) unturned. We get into the hilarious truths about bedroom awkwardness, why men need to stop treating every pussy like the last one, and how a sense of humor is the ultimate aphrodisiac. We talk about: Building a positive online community through his Low Budget Morning Show while calmly disarming trolls and racist comments.Why humor is a powerful tool for confidence on stage and a genuine asset for connection in the bedroom.Debunking the idea that every vagina works the same and how men can move beyond a one size fits all approach.Challenging pleasure taboos around topics like anal stimulation and nipple play for men and women.Navigating racial stereotypes in comedy and how being a Black man shapes the perception of his sexual material.Listen in for a laugh-out-loud, no-holds-barred conversation that blends street-smart wisdom with Broadway flair, and proves that the best intimacy is built on humor, honesty, and a willingness to learn.Connect with Rick Younger: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@RickYounger/Instagram: https://instagram.com/rickyoungerFacebook: https://facebook.com/rickyoungerpageTikTok: https://tiktok.com/@rickyoungerElevate Your Intimacy with Lubify Lux lube. Use code AIMEE20 at checkout: https://ilubify.com/?srsltid=AfmBOorPNdYi9J1NN0TWDq4iO8PYcwNxzwi5nmACAU2aseFBxVms8RO6 Stay Connected with Come Talk with Aimee:Website: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimeeTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimeeYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@cometalkwithaimee 

Why are so many men not getting laid, and why does sex feel so out of reach for so many men? In this episode, I sit with former Google engineer and creator Robyn Silber for a direct, honest conversation about unbed men, incels, the manosphere, and what is actually blocking connection for men today. We unpack why this is not just a dating or sex problem, but a deeper issue rooted in loneliness, emotional disconnection, and missing relational skills.We talk about: why being unbed is not the same as being an incel, and why that distinction matters how shame, social skill gaps, and emotional shutdown make sex feel inaccessible why many men chase sex when what they are really craving is connection how neurodivergence and the absence of male friendship intensify isolation where the manosphere reflects real pain, and where it pushes men further from intimacyListen in for a direct, to-the-point conversation about why sex feels so out of reach for many men, and what actually helps build connection, confidence, and intimacy.Connect with Robyn Silber Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/deprogramm.rTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@deprogramm.rElevate Your Intimacy with Lubify Lux lube. Use code AIMEE20 at checkout: https://ilubify.com/?srsltid=AfmBOorPNdYi9J1NN0TWDq4iO8PYcwNxzwi5nmACAU2aseFBxVms8RO6 Stay Connected with Come Talk with Aimee:Website: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimeeTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimeeYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@cometalkwithaimee 

TRIGGER WARNING: SEXUAL ABUSE, INCEST There is no shame in wanting a life that feels more alive, more erotic, and more deeply connected to your body.In this episode, I sit with erotic mystic and author Sharon Marie Scott for a conversation on desire, sovereignty, kink, and the alchemy that happens when you finally let yourself want more. We explore Sharon Marie’s work in forbidden alchemy, including how pleasure becomes a spiritual technology, why shame points us toward our deepest healing, and how kink can be a tool for expansion instead of something to hide. We talk about: untangling early childhood sexual trauma and the healing journey that followedreclaiming pleasure and learning to trust her body againunlinking fantasy from orgasm and expanding her capacity for sensationusing sex magic, arousal, shadow integration, and primal energy as tools for transformationembodying the dark feminine and dark masculine, choosing sovereignty, and understanding why taboo desires often hold our deepest medicineListen in and let this conversation invite you back into your body, your power, and your most authentic desires.Connect with Sharon Marie Scott Website: https://www.sharonmariescott.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sharonlifeturnedon/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@lifeturnedonTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lifeturnedon?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pcSubstack: https://substack.com/@sharonmariescottSharon Marie’s Castor Oil Pack Instructions: https://sharon-marie-scott.kit.com/castor-oil-packsElevate Your Intimacy with Lubify Lux lube. Use code AIMEE20 at checkout: https://ilubify.com/?srsltid=AfmBOorPNdYi9J1NN0TWDq4iO8PYcwNxzwi5nmACAU2aseFBxVms8RO6 Become a FirstComer on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/14753586/joinStay Connected with Come Talk with Aimee:Website: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimeeTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimeeYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@cometalkwithaimee 

There is no shame in craving deeper pleasure, and there is no shame in wanting sex that feels more intentional and responsive to your body.In this episode, I sit with Pleasure Dom, Sir Marvelous for a conversation on what truly creates mind-blowing pleasure. We explore the foundations of real pleasure through patience, anticipation, presence, and the psychology of arousal. Sir Marvelous breaks down edging, sensual dominance, temperature play, rope, fire, and the illusion of danger, along with why vibrators, clitoral stimulation, and thoughtful touch should be standard in every bedroom. We also talk about consent, negotiation, emotional safety, and how those pieces make it possible to relax, let go, and experience pleasure more deeply than ever.If you are curious about kink, ready to expand your pleasure, or wanting sex that feels richer and more connected, this episode offers practical tools you can take straight into your own intimacy. Listen in! Connect with Sir MarvelousWebsite: www.SirMarvelous.comReviews: https://www.sirmarvelous.com/reviewsEbooks: https://www.sirmarvelous.com/shop-with-sir/ebooksInstagram: www.instagram.com/sirmarvelouskinksLoyalFans: https://www.loyalfans.com/sirmarvelouskinksElevate Your Intimacy with Lubify Lux lube. Use code AIMEE20 at checkout: https://ilubify.com/?srsltid=AfmBOorPNdYi9J1NN0TWDq4iO8PYcwNxzwi5nmACAU2aseFBxVms8RO6 Stay Connected with Come Talk with Aimee:Website: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimeeTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimeeYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@cometalkwithaimee

There is no shame in wanting what you want, and there is no shame in asking for it out loud.In my very first Quickie episode, I take you inside a moment from my Paint Your Pleasure event, where we guided a room full of people through a consent-based touch practice that cracked everyone open in the softest, sweetest ways. From neon lights to body paint to dry brush strokes on skin, the entire night was designed to invite people out of performance and into their real desires, and the transformation was electric. We explore how powerful it is to name the touch you want to receive, the touch you want to give, and how liberating it feels when your boundaries are honored without hesitation. I talk about the beauty of watching bodies melt as they ask for slower movement, firmer pressure, lighter tickles, and how meaningful it was for people to practice saying no and witness that nothing bad happened.This is an invitation to bring that same energy into your own intimacy. Let pleasure become specific instead of assumed. And let consent be playful, sexy, collaborative, and deeply nourishing, because the way you ask for touch is part of your erotic power.JOIN MY BLACK FRIDAY GIVEAWAY: https://www.patreon.com/c/cometalkwithaimee/membershipElevate Your Intimacy with Lubify Lux lube. Use code AIMEE20 at checkout: https://ilubify.com/?srsltid=AfmBOorPNdYi9J1NN0TWDq4iO8PYcwNxzwi5nmACAU2aseFBxVms8RO6 Stay Connected with Come Talk with Aimee:Website: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimeeTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimeeYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@cometalkwithaimee

TRIGGER WARNING: Domestic Violence There is a kind of harm that does not leave bruises, yet leaves a mark on your entire life.In this episode, I sit with speaker and advocate Eunice Brownlee for a conversation that brings clarity to the subtle, confusing, and often invisible experience of coercive control. Eunice shares how a situationship that felt casual and harmless slowly shifted into a dynamic filled with manipulation, fear, and emotional exhaustion, long before she had the language to recognise it as abuse.This conversation is an offering of validation and understanding for anyone who has ever felt confused, unsafe, or unsure of their own perceptions. If you are navigating a complicated relationship, healing from one, or loving someone who is, may this episode remind you that your intuition matters, your story is real, and there is nothing wrong with you for surviving the way you had to.Connect with Eunice Brownlee: Website: https://eunicebrownlee.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/eunicebrownlee/National Domestic Violence Hotline: https://www.thehotline.org/JOIN MY BLACK FRIDAY GIVEAWAY: https://www.patreon.com/c/cometalkwithaimee/membershipElevate Your Intimacy with Lubify Lux lube. Use code AIMEE20 at checkout: https://ilubify.com/?srsltid=AfmBOorPNdYi9J1NN0TWDq4iO8PYcwNxzwi5nmACAU2aseFBxVms8RO6 Stay Connected with Come Talk with Aimee:Website: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimeeTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimeeYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@cometalkwithaimee

There is no shame in pleasure, and there is no shame in kink.In this episode, I’m joined by certified sexologist and educator Bre Green for a conversation that’s equal parts healing and hot.Bre shares how she went from growing up in a deeply religious environment to reclaiming her sexuality through exploration, curiosity, and kink. We talk about why kink isn’t just about pain or power, rather it’s about safety, trust, and self-knowledge.From pleasure mapping and sensory play to negotiation, communication, and aftercare, Bre breaks down what safe, intentional exploration really looks like. We also talk about how kink can be a space to rebuild confidence, learn your desires, and reconnect with your body after shame or suppression. This is an invitation to unlearn the guilt, lean into play, and give yourself permission to explore what feels good because pleasure is your birthright.Connect with Bre Green: Website: asesexualwellness.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/bre.ase/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@bre_aseDon’t miss the Candlelit Connection: A Massage Candle & Waxplay Workshop November 2nd 2-4 PM in Dallas, TX Join us for a wellness experience where you can create your own massage candle & learn fun, safe ways to explore sensual wax play! Limited seats available, save your spot now! Tickets at candlelitconnection.eventbrite.comTake the BDSM Quiz! https://bdsmtest.org/select-langStay Connected with Come Talk with Aimee:Website: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimeeTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimeeYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@cometalkwithaimee

What if the most sacred thing you could do was not to “preserve your purity” but to reclaim your pleasure?In this episode, I sit down with Lacey Bond, a certified sex, relationship, and intimacy coach whose work focuses on purity culture, kink, and polyamory. Together, we dive into how growing up in religious purity culture can shape your relationship with your body, your boundaries, and your ability to feel safe in intimacy and how kink offers a way home to yourself.If you’ve ever been curious about how power play can be healing, what aftercare really looks like, or how consent can change everything, then this conversation is for you.Connect with Lacey BondWebsite: https://www.intimacylacey.com/Instagram: http://instagram.com/intimacylaceyTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@intimacylaceyStay Connected with Come Talk with Aimee:Website: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimeeTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimeeYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@cometalkwithaimee

What if intimacy could feel like play? In this conversation, we take touch, connection, and communication out of the serious zone and make it fun again.In this episode, I’m joined by Candace Johnson, the creator of Touchy Feely, a game designed to help people connect more deeply through the power of touch and conversation. We talk about why touch isn’t just physical, how emotional intimacy shapes connection, and the different “levels” of closeness that make this game a total heart-opener.This game (and this conversation) is flirty, it’s soulful, and it might just change the way you think about connection.Connect with Candace JohnsonWebsite: touchyfeelygame.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/touchyfeelygame/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@touchyfeelygameLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/touchyfeelygame/Stay Connected with Come Talk with Aimee:Website: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimeeTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimeeYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@cometalkwithaimee

Ghosting isn’t just something we do to others. We do it to ourselves when we stay too long, avoid the truth, or ignore what we really want. So how do you leave well, without abandoning yourself in the process?In this episode, I sit down with Naomi Hattaway, author and consultant on the art of Leaving Well. We dive into why endings feel so messy, how to know when it’s time to walk away, and what it really looks like to close a chapter with clarity and dignity.Naomi breaks down the difference between kindness and niceness, how to spot when power dynamics get in the way of leaving, and why “quiet power” can be your strongest tool during a breakup or transition. From ghosting and breadcrumbing to breakup rituals and friendship fades, this conversation is packed with real talk on how to stop overexplaining, honor your truth, and leave without ghosting yourself. Whether you’re navigating a breakup, a situationship, a friendship, or even leaving a job, this episode is your permission slip to choose yourself and move forward without shame.Connect with Naomi HattawayWebsite:https://www.naomihattaway.comTransition Archetype Quiz:https://www.naomihattaway.com/quizInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/naomihattawayStay Connected with Come Talk with Aimee:Website: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimeeTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimeeYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@cometalkwithaimee

What if the key to hotter, more pleasurable sex was hiding in your pelvic floor? Most of us only hear about it after pregnancy, but pelvic floor health is for everyone. And yes, it can take your orgasms to the next level.In this episode, I sit down with movement coach and pelvic floor expert Elyse Sparkes to break down everything you need to know about your pelvis. We talk about why pelvic floor health matters beyond childbirth, how it impacts pleasure in the bedroom, and the biggest myths that need to be retired once and for all.Elyse shares how to spot the red flags of pelvic floor issues, why “tight is right” is a damaging myth, how breath and movement play into better sex, and what simple exercises can reconnect you to your body. Whether you’re looking to reduce pain, improve sensation, or just turn up the heat, this conversation will change the way you think about your pleasure.Connect with Elyse Sparkeshttps://elysesparkes.comhttps://www.instagram.com/elysesparkesStay Connected with Come Talk with Aimee:Website: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimeeTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimeeYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@cometalkwithaimee

What happens when you date three dominant men — blindfolded — and one of them is your ex? In this episode of Come Talk with Aimee, I sit down with Amanda, The Kink Consultant, and producer/host Catherine Drysdale to go behind the scenes of The Ex Factor, the bold live show where kink, chemistry, and past relationships collided on stage.We get into why Amanda said yes, how Catherine brought it to life, and what it means to center desire and sexual preferences in dating.Raw. Playful. Provocative. This is The Ex Factor, unmasked. Connect with Catherine Drysdale hi@catherinedrysdale.com https://www.catherinedrysdale.com/https://www.instagram.com/iamcatherinedrysdale/https://www.tiktok.com/@iamcatherinedrysdaleConnect with Amanda Dames https://www.amandadames.com/https://www.instagram.com/the_kinkconsultant/https://www.tiktok.com/@thekinkconsultantConnect with Come Talk with Aimee https://www.cometalkwithaimee.comhttps://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimeehttps://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimeehttps://www.youtube.com/@cometalkwithaimeeChapters00:00 Introduction to the Guests01:03 The Concept of The Ex Factor02:59 Dynamics of Blind Dating with Exes04:44 The Role of Blindfolds in Dating06:50 Creating a Unique Dating Experience08:30 Kink and Sexuality on Stage10:57 The Importance of Kink Education13:35 Understanding Kink Dynamics15:13 Sexual Compatibility in Relationships17:43 Breaking Down Societal Norms21:47 Navigating Rejection and Societal Expectations21:47 Empowerment in Dating: Flipping the Script22:24 Redefining Relationships: The Role of Community24:50 The Experiment: Revisiting Past Relationships27:33 The Reality of Dating: Chemistry vs. Compatibility33:50 Changing the Narrative: Dating in Modern Culture40:05 The Role of Influencers in Dating Dynamics42:45 Catherine's Journey as a Host45:15 The Importance of Sexual Compatibility47:47 Navigating Vulnerability in Relationships50:08 The Power of Communication in Kink56:34 The Role of Family in Relationships56:41 Future Plans for The Ex Factor57:53 Coming to Completion: Kink or Cringe?

What if love didn’t come with rules? Relationship anarchy challenges everything you think you know about commitment, desire, and connection—and it’s hotter than you might expect. 🔥In this episode of Come Talk with Aimee, I sit down with the brilliant Adriana Smith to explore how to craft relationships on your own terms—where honesty, autonomy, and radical desire lead the way. We talk about breaking free from labels, rewriting the “relationship escalator,” and embracing love that’s unapologetically yours.Whether you’re curious, adventurous, or ready to ignite your own love revolution, this episode is your wild invitation.Connect with Adriana Smith https://www.instagram.com/adrimundo43https://www.tiktok.com/@adrimundo43 Connect with Come Talk with Aimeehttps://www.cometalkwithaimee.comhttps://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimeehttps://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimeehttps://www.youtube.com/@cometalkwithaimeeChapters00:00 Introduction to Relationship Anarchy02:11 Understanding Relationship Anarchy04:34 Communication and Agreements in Relationships06:31 Exploring Intimacy and Connection12:04 Pleasure and Sexuality in Relationship Anarchy16:08 Self-Discovery and Understanding Needs17:41 Understanding Intentions in Relationships20:05 Navigating Relationship Challenges22:22 Communicating Compatibility and Connection23:16 Exploring Relationship Anarchy23:59 Applying Relationship Anarchy to Life25:41 Coming to Completion

Hot take: there’s nothing wrong with your desire—it just has a flavor, babe. Join Aimee and Angie Enger as they spill the tea on spontaneous vs. responsive desire, why ‘low libido’ is a total myth, and how to turn frustration into exploration. It’s time to stop feeling broken and start owning your unique, sexy blueprint.Connect with Angie Engerhttps://www.angieenger.com/https://www.angieenger.com/consultation-request-formhttps://www.angieenger.com/resources https://www.instagram.com/angieengercoachhttps://www.tiktok.com/@angieengercoachConnect with Come Talk with Aimeehttps://www.cometalkwithaimee.comhttps://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimeehttps://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimeehttps://www.youtube.com/@cometalkwithaimeeChapters00:00 Introduction to Self-Intimacy and Desire01:11 Understanding Desire Types02:56 Exploring Arousal and Sensation06:16 Personal Experiences with Desire07:56 The Impact of Life Changes on Desire11:37 Desire Types and Their Misunderstandings14:08 The Role of Communication in Relationships17:51 Shame and Societal Expectations21:33 Creating Safe Spaces for Conversations23:40 Navigating Different Desire Types in Relationships27:15 Exploring Myths of Desire29:08 Cultural Conditioning and Its Impact33:04 Understanding Desire Types38:11 Communication in Relationships42:21 Nervous System and Trauma44:38 Self-Assessment of Desire49:29 Reconnecting with Desire51:40 Coming to Completion

Ready to blow the lid off your pleasure potential?In this juicy convo, Aimee and certified sex coach Amari Leigh dive deep into the world of orgasms, sexual wellness, and self-empowerment. From the orgasm gap in heterosexual dynamics to the power of self-exploration and communication, they unpack why so many of us are disconnected from pleasure — and how to reclaim it.You’ll learn:The difference between 40 types of orgasms (yes, really)Why the orgasm gap still exists — and how to challenge itHow to communicate your desires with more confidenceWhy your body holds more pleasure than you’ve been taughtWhether you’re looking to expand your orgasmic toolkit or just want to feel more at home in your body, this episode is a must-listen.Connect with Amari Leighhttps://www.sexcoachingbyamari.comhttps://www.sexcoachingbyamari.com/sex-guides-for-everyone/p/types-of-orgasmshttps://www.instagram.com/sxcoachingbyamarihttps://www.tiktok.com/@sxcoachingbyamariConnect with Come Talk with Aimee https://www.cometalkwithaimee.comhttps://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimeehttps://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimeehttps://www.youtube.com/@cometalkwithaimeeChapters00:00 Introduction to Orgasms11:14 Understanding the Types of Orgasms15:21 The Pressure of Climaxing16:57 Distinguishing Orgasm from Ejaculation18:39 Exploring Lesser-Known Orgasm Types22:45 Energy and Cervical Orgasms24:43 Overlapping Orgasms and Their Experiences26:07 Exploring Factors Affecting Sexual Experience27:50 The Importance of Play in Sexual Exploration29:21 Reclaiming Orgasms: A Personal Journey31:24 Communication: The Key to Sexual Satisfaction33:38 Understanding the Orgasm Gap36:09 Prostate Orgasms: Breaking Taboos38:41 The Role of Lubrication in Pleasure39:56 Coming to Completion: Orgasmic Preferences

We’re kicking off Anal August with a bold convo on anal sex, female pleasure, and why butt stuff should absolutely be on the brunch menu. 🍑✨Aimee is joined by Whitaker Cohen, founder of AmorSui, to talk anatomy, aftercare, and how to center your pleasure — with zero shame. Whether you’re new to backdoor play or already a baddie, this one’s for you.We get into:Why anal play is about more than penetrationHow to center female pleasure in anal sexTalking about butt stuff with your partner & besties (yes, even at brunch)Emotional safety, boundaries, and anal prep basicsAnd so much more! Connect with Whitaker Cohenhttps://loveamorsui.com/https://loveamorsui.com/collections/allhttps://www.instagram.com/loveamorsui/Connect with Come Talk with Aimee https://www.cometalkwithaimee.comhttps://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimeehttps://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimeehttps://www.youtube.com/@cometalkwithaimeeChapters00:00Introduction to AmorSui and Whitaker Cohen02:00The Inspiration Behind AmorSui04:07Breaking the Taboo: Conversations Around Anal Play10:09Understanding the Stigma of Anal Play13:23Education and Unlearning Shame16:18Exploring Pleasure: The Journey of Anal Play18:46Getting Started with Anal Play20:27Supporting Partners in Exploration24:39The Role of Products in Enhancing Pleasure28:39Creating an Approachable Brand for Anal Play29:20Cultural Expectations and Women's Pleasure30:05Empowerment Through Open Conversations31:57Claiming Anal Pleasure32:27Inclusivity in Anal Play33:36Brunch Conversations About Butt Stuff38:23Myth Busting in Anal Play42:10The Importance of Aftercare47:39 Come To Completion AKA Rapid Fire Questions on Anal Play