Startup Dad

Pranav Piyush is the co-founder and CEO of Paramark, a marketing analytics company, and a dad to two young children. On his entrepreneurial journey, Pranav has faced health challenges, raised kids without a local support network, and balanced family life with the demands of running a startup. In this conversation, he shared his parenting philosophy alongside his founder wisdom. We discussed:The hero at home: How Pranav’s wife, Charu, has played a key role in supporting his entrepreneurial journey and balancing family life.Startup struggles and family life: The challenges Pranav faced starting a company with two young kids and without a local support system.The balance of 9-9-6: Pranav’s personal take on balancing work and parenting by dedicating quality time to his kids, especially on weekends.Parenting through health challenges: How a major health scare for one of his daughters shaped his perspective on family and resilience.Challenging kids to think: Pranav’s approach to fostering curiosity and critical thinking in his children, including using trivia and custom GPT tools.Building responsibility and agency: Why Pranav believes it’s crucial to instill a sense of personal accountability and how he applies this in his parenting.Where to find Pranav PiyushLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/pranavp/ X: https://x.com/pranavpiyushWhere to find Adam FishmanFishmanAF Newsletter: www.FishmanAFNewsletter.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjfishman/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/startupdadpod/ In this episode, we cover:(00:00) Welcome Pranav Piyush, Co-Founder and CEO at Paramark(02:10) The hero at home: how Pranav’s wife supports his entrepreneurial dreams(06:02) Raising a family as immigrants: the challenges and rewards(22:03) Parenting principles: joining your kids in fun activities and creating memories(25:38) Challenging your kids: encouraging curiosity and critical thinking(30:24) Enjoying the small moments: family time, digital detox, and connecting(32:52) Education: why pranav believes it’s broken and needs change(33:20) Boredom in school: how it reflects a systematic issue(34:52) Solutions beyond school: the search for engaging education(35:49) The role of AI in education: will technology revolutionize learning?(36:30) Why college still matters: the importance of traditional education(41:25) Teaching personal accountability: how pranav instills responsibility in his kids(45:11) Technology and kids: setting boundaries and encouraging real-world experiences(47:16) Exciting family plans: what’s next for Pranav and his kids(49:57) Lightning round: the SNOO, unlimited iPad time, and other parenting hacksResources From This Episode:Paramark: https://paramark.com/ SNOO (and other Happiestbaby products): https://www.happiestbaby.com/ Zootopia 2 (Film): https://www.imdb.com/title/tt5042066/ Back to the Future (Film): https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0088763/Taylor Swift (Artist/Music): https://www.taylorswift.com/The Warriors (Basketball Team): https://www.nba.com/warriors/CocoMelon (TV Show): https://www.cocomelon.com/Toyota Sienna (Car Model): https://www.toyota.com/sienna/ Honda Odyssey (Car Model): https://www.honda.com/odyssey GTMN (Podcast): https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/gtmn/id1845001203  Brandformance (Podcast): https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/brandformance/id1746064786  —Support Startup DadFor sponsorship inquiries, email: podcast@fishmana.com.For Startup Dad Merch: www.startupdadshop.com

Jason Smith is the Co-Founder and CEO of Klue, an AI-powered competitive intelligence platform. He’s a five-time startup founder, Ernst & Young Entrepreneur of the Year, and a father of two daughters. But his most transformative experience wasn’t raising capital or scaling companies. It was stepping away from it all to travel the world with his wife and kids.When his daughters were just 8 and 9, Jason and his wife quit their jobs, pulled the kids out of school, and spent a full year traveling across 11 countries. We discussed:Leaving work to reconnect: What prompted Jason to walk away from startup life and plan a year-long trip around the world with his wife and two daughters.When things go wrong: Why Jason believes travel disasters make the best family memories and how they used setbacks to teach adaptability and problem-solving.Building deep connections off-grid: How spending 24/7 together changed their family dynamic, from independent dinners to hard conversations.Teaching self-reliance through discomfort: Jason shares his philosophy on preparing kids for the real world and why he sees challenge as essential, not optional.From startup grind to dad mode: The binary approach Jason takes to work and parenting, and why he believes being all-in matters more than balance.How his daughters see him now: Why watching their dad work hard, and then totally disconnect, influenced how his kids think about careers, failure, and ambition.Where to find Jason SmithLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/onemoresmith/  Where to find Adam FishmanFishmanAF Newsletter: www.FishmanAFNewsletter.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjfishman/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/startupdadpod/ In this episode, we cover:(00:00) Welcoming Jason Smith, Co-Founder and CEO at Klue(01:09) What sparked a year-long trip around the world(02:21) How planning the journey went from 6 weeks to 12 months(05:08) The wild story of renting their house before quitting their jobs(06:33) Early travel struggles and breakthrough moments(09:54) Teaching kids on the road and bringing learning to life(12:48) Volunteering in Peru and breaking the privilege bubble(17:03) Favorite travel memories and embracing the unexpected(24:51) Why real connection takes getting off the grid(36:17) How his daughters see startups and business now(39:35) Navigating AI and the new rules of work(41:15) Building resilience by leaning into hard things(46:27) United front parenting and avoiding the ‘ask mom, ask dad’ trap(48:26) How the parent-child relationship evolves over 20 years(51:44) Teaching work ethic and financial independence(01:00:49) Lightning round: parenting quirks, movie picks, and minivan takesResources From This Episode:Klue: https://klue.com/ Jason’s Travel Video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O1vMnTDHe6c One More Smith (Jason’s Blog): https://onemoresmith.com/ Jolly Jumper: https://jollyjumper.com/ The Matrix (Film): https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0133093/ Frozen (Film): https://www.imdb.com/title/tt2294629/ Support Startup DadFor sponsorship inquiries, email: podcast@fishmana.com.For Startup Dad Merch: www.startupdadshop.com

Dr. Emilio Galán is a former medical student, entrepreneur, and now a full-time stay-at-home dad. He took a drastic turn in his career, moving from building a successful AI-driven company to focusing on family life after stepping away from the startup world. Dr. Galán shares how he navigated autoimmune health challenges, the difficult decision to leave his medical career behind, and the challenges of being a stay-at-home parent to his young children. We discussed:The pivot from entrepreneurship to fatherhood: Dr. Emilio Galán’s decision to leave his startup career behind and become a stay-at-home dad after stepping away from his company.Balancing health challenges with career demands: How Dr. Galán manages four autoimmune conditions and the toll his previous career took on his body.Building a family-first life: The struggles and rewards of becoming a full-time parent to two young children and how this shift allowed him to reconnect with his family.The philosophy of “Wipe the Butt”: Dr. Galán explains his approach to parenting, teaching responsibility, and maintaining boundaries while staying emotionally available to his kids.Finding contentment in the "dopamine desert": How Dr. Galán adjusted to life without the constant hustle of the startup world and learned to find joy in small, everyday moments.Self-care as a priority: How Dr. Galán incorporates practices like flexibility exercises and the Happy Body method to manage his physical and mental well-being while raising his kids.Where to find Dr. Emilio GalánLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/emiliogalan/ X: https://x.com/emilio_galanWhere to find Adam FishmanFishmanAF Newsletter: www.FishmanAFNewsletter.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjfishman/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/startupdadpod/ In this episode, we cover:(00:00) Welcome Dr. Emilio Galán, former co-founder of Robin Healthcare, now a stay at home dad(03:03) Early life and aspirations of becoming a doctor(06:12) The struggles and realities of medical school(09:04) Founding Robin: the start of his entrepreneurial journey(12:51) Transitioning from startup life to stay-at-home dad(17:26) Finding balance: self-care, family, and health(21:16) Navigating parenthood, resentment, and expectations(31:51) Advice for founders who are parents(37:43) The long-awaited family project: creating meaningful work(38:49) Understanding emotions, needs, and communication(39:34) Creative expression and setting requests in parenting(42:21) Celebrating personal growth and change as a dad(43:55) Contrarian take: why shyness doesn’t exist(47:08) Contrarian take: the “Wipe the Butt” philosophy(50:51) The taco episode: a parenting breakdown moment(58:21) Lightning round: parenting insights and funny dad momentsResources From This Episode:The Happy Body Method: https://thehappybody.com/the-happy-body-program/ Jordan Peterson: https://www.jordanbpeterson.com/Brene Brown: https://brenebrown.com/Gabor Maté: https://drgabormate.com/Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy: https://www.selfleadership.org/Nonviolent Communication: https://www.cnvc.org/Alexa: https://alexa.amazon.com/Google Home: https://store.google.com/us/product/google_home Land Before Time (Fil): https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0100507/Jumanji (1995) (Film): https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0113497/Dead Poets Society (Film): https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0097165/Patch Adams (Film): https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0129290/Frida Baby (Butt Frida): https://www.fridababy.com/products/windi-the-wind-reliever Frida Baby (Nose Frida): https://www.fridababy.com/products/nosefrida-the-snot-sucker —Support Startup DadFor sponsorship inquiries, email: podcast@fishmana.com.For Startup Dad Merch: www.startupdadshop.com

Michael Goodbody is the former Global Head of Marketing & Communications at Robinhood, CMO at Dave, and VP Marketing  at Credit Karma. A year ago, he resigned from his executive job at Robinhood to homeschool his children while traveling to 21 countries in just nine months.Michael, a British expat married to a German partner, shares what it was like stepping away from a demanding executive career to prioritize global experiences with his family and a deep connection with his kids. We discussed:Ditching routine for the unknown: What drove Michael and his wife to finally say yes to a long-held dream of traveling the world with their kids.Homeschooling while abroad: How they navigated state regulations, picked a suitable curriculum, and stayed on track academically from Tanzania to China.Teaching math in paradise: Michael shares what it was like to turn a beach in French Polynesia into a classroom and how he helped his daughter jump two grade levels in math.Genetic testing and pregnancy stress: The emotional rollercoaster of discovering a rare genetic match mid-pregnancy and what they learned from it.Redefining success: Why Michael believes happiness matters more than grades or accolades, and how he’s shaping his parenting philosophy around presence over pressure.Parenting far from family: The pros and cons of raising kids without extended family nearby and why Michael and his wife chose to stay in the US.Where to find Michael GoodbodyLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/michaelgoodbody/ Twitter: https://x.com/mcgunomeWhere to find Adam FishmanFishmanAF Newsletter: www.FishmanAFNewsletter.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjfishman/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/startupdadpod/ In this episode, we cover:(00:00) Introducing Michael Goodbody, former Global Head of Marketing & Communications at Robinhood(01:06) Leaving a top exec job to homeschool and travel(02:36) Quitting Robinhood and chasing a dream(05:04) Homeschooling logistics across 21 countries(07:35) How they planned financially for a year off(09:46) Learning through travel: science, history, and volcanoes(22:50) Safari in Tanzania and chasing pandas in China(26:28) What it’s like coming home after the journey(29:28) A genetic testing scare during pregnancy(33:50) Why fatherhood surprised Michael in a good way(36:42) What he’d tell his pre-dad self(40:05) Two principles that guide Michael’s parenting(44:31) A/B testing parenting styles with two kids(47:57) Redefining success for your kids(52:02) Using AI to win parenting arguments(58:20) Lightning round: parenting quirks, travel hacks, and dad skillsResources From This Episode:Robinhood: https://robinhood.com/ Generation Genius: https://www.generationgenius.com/ Waldorf Education: https://www.waldorfeducation.org/ Alexa: https://alexa.amazon.com/ Curious Kid (Podcast): https://www.curiouskidpodcast.com/ Greeking Out (Podcast): https://www.nationalgeographic.com/podcasts/greeking-out Million Bazillion (Podcast): https://www.marketplace.org/shows/million-bazillion Crystal Palace F.C.: https://www.cpfc.co.uk/ Short Circuit (Film): https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0091949/ Raiders of the Lost Ark (Film): https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0082971/ —Support Startup DadFor sponsorship inquiries email: podcast@fishmana.com.For Startup Dad Merch: www.startupdadshop.com

Andrew Song is the co-founder of Make Sunsets, a climate startup working to slow global warming by deploying reflective aerosols in the stratosphere. A longtime startup operator, Andrew has spent his career taking contrarian paths, from early work in AI to now building one of the most debated climate interventions in the world. At Make Sunsets, he focuses on translating complex science into practical action, raising capital through unconventional channels, and pushing forward a mission-driven company designed to buy humanity time as temperatures rise.But Andrew’s most demanding role is being a full-time single dad to his two young sons. After gaining sole custody due to their mother’s struggles with bipolar disorder, Andrew has learned to navigate parenting, entrepreneurship, and mental health advocacy all at once. Living in the Bay Area near extended family, he relies on community, resilience, and regimented prioritization to raise his boys while building a startup on hard mode. We discussed: Why climate change became personal: How Andrew’s motivation to cool the planet is rooted in building a safer future for his kids.Building a startup on hard mode: What it’s like to raise venture capital, run a climate company, and be a full-time single dad at the same time.Navigating mental health and custody: Andrew’s experience gaining sole custody of his sons and why normalizing conversations around mental illness matters.Creating a village of support: How living near family and leaning on community makes single parenting and entrepreneurship possible.Choosing purpose over comfort: Why Andrew believes it’s possible to live modestly in the Bay Area while prioritizing meaningful work.Raising resilient, curious kids: From RV road trips to using AI as a learning tool, how Andrew encourages independence, curiosity, and grit at home.Where to find Andrew SongLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ajsong/ Twitter: https://x.com/ASong408Where to find Adam FishmanFishmanAF Newsletter: www.FishmanAFNewsletter.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjfishman/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/startupdadpod/ In this episode, we cover:(00:00) Introducing Andrew Song, co-founder at Make Sunsets(02:25) What Make Sunsets does and why Andrew started the company(04:05) How reflective aerosols work to cool the planet(07:01) Funding climate tech through individual “climate dads”(09:04) From AI to climate intervention: Andrew’s unconventional career path(10:49) Almost becoming a Catholic priest and choosing fatherhood instead(13:27) Gaining sole custody and navigating parenting amid mental illness(17:36) Explaining a parent’s absence to young children with honesty(19:28) The isolation of being a single-dad-founder and seeking community(20:47) Building a startup while raising two kids alone(23:24) Living modestly in the Bay Area on a startup salary(30:06) Relying on family support and rebuilding the “village”(35:55) Traveling the West Coast in an RV with toddlers(45:37) Lightning round: Legos, road trips, AI, and minivansResources From This Episode:Make Sunsets: https://www.makesunsets.com/Termination Shock - Neal Stephenson: https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/57094295-termination-shockTerraform Industries: https://www.terraformindustries.com/Y Combinator: https://www.ycombinator.com/Bloomberg: https://www.bloomberg.com/ChatGPT: https://chat.openai.com/Sora: https://openai.com/soraAlva Learning App (Educational app used by Andrew’s kids): https://www.alvalearning.com/Scale AI: https://scale.com/Monarch Money (Personal finance app Andrew references): https://www.monarchmoney.com/World Book Encyclopedia: https://www.worldbook.com/Doom: https://doom.com/Pinocchio: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt1488589/Star Wars: Episode IV – A New Hope: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0076759/Joshua Tree National Park: https://www.nps.gov/jotr/index.htmiPad: https://www.apple.com/ipad/—Support Startup DadFor sponsorship inquiries email: podcast@fishmana.com.For Startup Dad Merch: www.startupdadshop.com

This special episode looks back at the most powerful moments from Startup Dad in 2025. Host Adam Fishman reflects on a year of raw, honest conversations with 46 founders, operators, and leaders who are also Dads (and sometimes, Moms) navigating the chaos of startup life while raising families.From redefining balance and sharing mental load to leading through crises and building parenting systems that actually work, this episode captures the hard-earned wisdom from a community trying to do both: build companies and raise kids without losing their minds. We discussed: What balance really means: Why Startup Dad guests reject work-life balance in favor of integration, trade-offs, and showing up fully wherever they are.Systems that protect what matters: From calendar blocks to structured rituals, the frameworks Dads use to stay present and sane.Raising resilient kids: Why letting kids fail, struggle, and make decisions is key to building confidence and grit.Mental load and invisible work: How Dads are learning to share not just chores, but the cognitive labor of running a household – and how far we still have to go.Building true partnerships: What it takes to communicate clearly, divide responsibilities, and support each other in parenting and work.Letting kids lead: From college choices to daily decisions; why modern fatherhood means preparing kids to own their path.Where to find Adam FishmanFishmanAF Newsletter: www.FishmanAFNewsletter.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjfishman/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/startupdadpod/ In this episode, we cover:(00:00) Startup Dad’s biggest year yet and what’s coming next(02:12) Why balance is a myth and integration is the goal(09:23) Letting kids struggle so they grow stronger(13:54) When everything falls apart and you keep going anyway(21:55) What it really means to be the lead parent(25:41) The invisible work that’s burning parents out(30:05) Tech boundaries that actually work at home(37:37) Guardrails for parenting when you’re tired and overwhelmed(44:31) Becoming a dad doesn’t happen all at once(47:05) Helping your kid own their journey after high school(50:09) Making marriage and startups work at the same time(52:10) Why you need a village (even if it’s a group chat)Support Startup DadFor sponsorship inquiries email: podcast@fishmana.com.For Startup Dad Merch: www.startupdadshop.com

Daniel Borok is a Managing Partner at nvp capital, an early-stage venture firm investing in founders building the next generation of vertical AI companies. With a focus on B2B applications, Dan spends his days meeting visionary entrepreneurs, making high-conviction bets at the pre-seed and seed stages, and helping early teams build durable companies. Before nvp, he held operating and investing roles across finance and tech, giving him a sharp eye for both product-market fit and founder grit.But Dan’s most demanding portfolio companies might be his two young kids. He and his wife, Abby, a real estate investor, are raising their family in Manhattan’s West Village, just blocks from where he grew up. Whether he’s sprinting to catch the school bus, navigating dual-career logistics, or caddying for his daughter in junior golf tournaments, Daniel brings the same thoughtful, systems-driven mindset to parenting as he does to investing. We discussed:Why mornings are sacred: How Daniel and his wife start every day as a family, despite their busy careers.Balancing careers and family: From nannies to grandparent backup, Dan shares how they manage the scheduling puzzle.Letting kids fail on the golf course: Dan reflects on caddying for his daughter and learning to let go of control.Raising kids in New York City: Why Dan believes the city is one of the best places for kids to grow up.The importance of practice at work and home: Lessons from sports that translate into career and parenting growth.Why he tracks family time like OKRs: Dan shares the analog system he uses to ensure he’s prioritizing what matters most.Where to find Daniel BorokLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dborok/ X: https://x.com/danielborokWhere to find Adam FishmanFishmanAF Newsletter: www.FishmanAFNewsletter.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjfishman/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/startupdadpod/ In this episode, we cover:(00:00) Introducing Daniel Borok, Managing Partner at nvp capital(02:10) Balancing two careers in a dual-working household(04:35) How the family manages childcare and travel schedules(07:10) Starting a family later in life(08:45) Raising kids in Manhattan vs. the suburbs(14:40) The family’s big sports focus and weekend logistics(17:34) Dan’s experience as his daughter’s golf caddy(20:12) Most surprising parts of parenting(23:43) How Dan thinks about tech exposure for his kids(26:26) Using a weekly checklist like OKRs for parenting(30:35) How he uses AI to reflect on weekly habits(35:01) How he uses AI tools with his kids(37:39) Helping kids discover their passions(39:31) Applying sports practice frameworks to venture investing(42:03) Lightning round: walkie-talkies, golf tees, dishwasher chaosResources From This Episode:nvp capital: https://nvpcap.com/ The Disengaged Teen (Book by Jenny Anderson and Rebecca Winthrop): https://www.thedisengagedteen.com/ Training a Tiger (Book by Earl Woods): https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/546636.Training_a_Tiger Atomic Habits (Book by James Clear): https://jamesclear.com/atomic-habits Scooby Doo, Where Are You! (TV Show): https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0063950/ Bunk’d (TV Show): https://www.imdb.com/title/tt4591680/ The Goonies (Film): https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0089218/ iPad: https://www.apple.com/ph/ipad/ —Support Startup DadFor sponsorship inquiries email: podcast@fishmana.com.For Startup Dad Merch: www.startupdadshop.com

Oji Udezue is an AI Product Expert at ProductMind, and a veteran product leader with more than 25 years of experience across Typeform, Twitter, Calendly, Atlassian, Bridgewater, and Microsoft. He’s known for his deep thinking on product craft, leadership, and the future of work. He’s also the co-author (with his wife, Ezinne Udezue)  of Building Rocket Ships, a guide for builders and operators navigating high-stakes decision-making in fast-moving environments.In this episode, we explore Oji’s philosophy on parenting through the lens of resilience, how it’s shaped, why it matters, and the role adversity plays in preparing kids for the real world. Oji shares a perspective informed by his multicultural upbringing, his frameworks for fostering independence, and the intentional choices he and his wife have made while raising two teenagers in a dual-career household. We discussed:Building resilience: What resilience means to Oji and why discomfort and challenge are essential for kids.Independence through decisions: How his 10,000-hour framework helps kids practice choice-making and responsibility.Learning through mistakes: Why micro-failures matter and how parents can stop rescuing children from small consequences.Kids as expanders: How children rise to expectations and adapt when treated as capable from an early age.Shepherding, not owning: Why parents should guide their kids’ path rather than shape them as extensions of themselves.Balancing careers and family: How he and his wife navigate dual careers and maintain steady routines and connections.Where to find Oji UdezueLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ojiudezue/ X: https://x.com/ojiudezueWebsite: https://www.productmind.co/Where to find Adam FishmanFishmanAF Newsletter: www.FishmanAFNewsletter.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjfishman/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/startupdadpod/ In this episode, we cover:(00:00) Introducing Oji Udezue(03:12) Starting a family while holding high-pressure, fast-growing careers(05:26) Early parenting years: maintaining identity and bringing kids into adult life(07:16) Defining resilience and why modern parenting often gets it wrong(10:45) The 10,000 hours of independent decisions framework(13:16) Lessons from Nigerian boarding school and developing early autonomy(17:15) Letting kids fail safely: micro-failures, consequences, and growth(19:51) Evaluating resilience through reactions under pressure(22:31) Kids and career visibility: why children don’t care what you do for work(24:27) Individuation: why Oji’s teens want their own paths, not his(26:21) Rituals, routines, and staying connected in a dual-career household(28:13) Advice for new parents: clarity of purpose, instinct, and overcoming fear(31:17) Core parenting frameworks: oxygen mask, expanders, and shepherds(43:10) AI, technology, and raising creative lateral thinkers in a changing world(50:19) Lightning round: humor, parenting quirks, and closing reflectionsResources From This Episode:Building Rocket Ships (Book by Oji Udezue & Ezinne Udezue): https://a.co/d/0nMe2WM  ProductMind (Substack Newsletter): https://productmind.substack.com/ ProductMind.co (Website): https://productmind.co/ Lenny’s Podcast (Episode featuring Oji & Ezinne): https://www.lennysnewsletter.com/p/how-ai-is-reshaping-the-product-roleThe Time Machine (Book by H.G. Wells): https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/2493.The_Time_MachineTypeform: https://www.typeform.com/Calendly: https://calendly.com/Atlassian: https://www.atlassian.com/Bridgewater Associates: https://www.bridgewater.com/Microsoft: https://www.microsoft.com/Amazon Echo: https://www.amazon.com/echo Big Hero 6 (Film): https://www.imdb.com/title/tt2245084/—Support Startup DadFor sponsorship inquiries email: podcast@fishmana.com.For Startup Dad Merch: www.startupdadshop.com

Allison Daminger is an Assistant Professor of Sociology at the University of Wisconsin-Madison, where she specializes in gender, family dynamics, and social inequality. She’s also the author of What’s on Her Mind: The Mental Workload of Family Life, which explores the often invisible cognitive labor that drives the daily operations of households.In this episode, we talk about the concept of cognitive labor, how it’s defined, why it’s disproportionately placed on women in heterosexual partnerships, and the emotional and mental toll it takes. Allison shares insights from her years of research, including interviews with over 170 individuals in diverse family structures, shedding light on how cognitive labor impacts both professional and personal lives. We discussed:What is Mental Load and Cognitive Labor: Defining and explaining these concepts and her research.Understanding cognitive labor: How the mental work of anticipating needs, making decisions, and following through often falls disproportionately on women.Real-world examples: The everyday household tasks where cognitive labor shows up and how couples can divide this invisible work more equally.The Superhuman and The Bumbler: How gendered expectations shape household dynamics, with women often taking on the “Superhuman” role and men the “Bumbler” role.Breaking the mental load myth: Why cognitive labor isn’t about personality traits but about societal pressures and norms that influence how responsibilities are shared at home.Strategies for rebalancing: Practical ways couples can collaborate on household responsibilities, including setting up routines, improving communication, and managing expectations.Where to find Allison DamingerLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/allisondaminger/ Website: https://www.allisondaminger.com/Substack: https://allisondaminger.substack.com/Where to find Adam FishmanFishmanAF Newsletter: www.FishmanAFNewsletter.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjfishman/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/startupdadpod/ In this episode, we cover:(00:00) Introducing Allison Daminger, assistant professor of sociology at the University of Wisconsin-Madison(02:44) Defining cognitive labor in the home and workplace(04:27) Real-life examples of cognitive labor(07:56) The invisible mental load: What it means for parents(13:42) Research on cognitive labor and family dynamics(19:53) Household dynamics and gender roles in domestic labor(26:01) Rationalizing the imbalance in cognitive labor at home(46:56) Exploring gender roles in household leadership(48:11) Motherhood and cognitive labor: The unseen work(48:43) Ideologies vs realities of balanced households(49:15) Career dynamics and household roles: The juggling act(49:54) Challenges in achieving cognitive labor equality(55:04) Balanced households: Structures for satisfaction(01:15:36) Personal insights and reflections on cognitive labor(01:27:47) Lightning Round: Final Thoughts and Quick TipsResources From This Episode:What's On Her Mind (Book by Allison Daminger): https://www.amazon.com/Whats-Her-Mind-Mental-Workload/dp/069124538X The Daminger Dispatch (Newsletter): https://allisondaminger.substack.com/ The Second Shift (Book by Arlie Hochschild): https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/51848.The_Second_Shift Fair Play (Book by Eve Rodsky): https://www.amazon.com/Fair-Play-Game-Changing-Solution-When/dp/0525541942 Love To Dream Swaddle: https://lovetodream.com/ The Little Mermaid: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0097757/ University of Wisconsin, Madison: https://www.wisc.edu/NYT Wirecutter: https://www.nytimes.com/wirecutter/gifts/—Support Startup DadFor sponsorship inquiries email: podcast@fishmana.com.For Startup Dad Merch: www.startupdadshop.com

Jamie Nacht is the co-founder and CEO of Havium, a company he built from the ground up with his wife and co-founder, Cristin. Together, they’re raising two young kids while juggling the nonstop realities of startup life, marriage, and modern parenting, all as a fully integrated team.In this episode, Jamie shares his honest and often hilarious take on building a company with your spouse, creating parenting systems that actually work, and why sometimes the best way to help your kid process big emotions is to scream right along with them. We discussed: The value of routines and structure: How simple systems like Pizza Friday and bedtime rituals help reduce friction and create predictability for young kids.Why “screaming it out” works: Jamie shares how he defuses tantrums by yelling alongside his kids, helping them process their emotions without shame.Teaching negotiation and responsibility: From chore taxes to bedtime story debates, Jamie’s approach helps his kids understand how the world really works.Practicing perspective as a parenting superpower: Whether it’s a hard week at work or spilled art projects, Jamie explains how he reframes moments to build resilience.“Anything is possible” parenting: How Jamie’s confidence borders on delusional (his wife’s words), and why he’s intentionally passing that belief on to his kids.Where to find Jamie NachtLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jamienacht/ Website: https://havium.com/Where to find Adam FishmanFishmanAF Newsletter: www.FishmanAFNewsletter.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjfishman/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/startupdadpod/ In this episode, we cover:(00:00) Introducing Jamie Nacht, co-founder and CEO of Havium(01:56) Building a startup with your spouse while raising kids(06:58) Parenting frameworks that actually work(07:05) Why perspective is Jamie’s superpower(09:32) How much of your kid’s personality is already baked in(15:06) Pretending to be a mermaid changed my parenting(27:51) Teaching negotiation and real-world responsibility(33:34) Your kids hear everything (even when you think they don’t)(35:57) The rule we use for yelling in our house(37:25) Giving kids tech that’s just annoying enough(40:04) Using AI to make custom coloring books for your kids(42:51) Why my in-laws moved 5 minutes away(48:09) The bond with your kid doesn’t always start right away(51:58) What I hope my kids learn from me(56:35) Lightning Round: Must-haves, Laughs, and Dad hacksResources From This Episode:Havium: https://havium.com/Do Not Ring Doorbell Sign: https://a.co/d/4AK9A3j Amazon Fire 7 Kids Tablet: https://a.co/d/glUlvO5 Bluey (TV Show): https://www.imdb.com/title/tt7678620/ Sword In The Stone (Film): https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0057546/ Ferris Bueller’s Day Off (Film): https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0091042/ The Little Mermaid: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt5971474/Migration: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt6495056/?ref_=fn_t_1Kia EV: https://www.kia.com/us/en/ev—Support Startup DadFor sponsorship inquiries email: podcast@fishmana.com.For Startup Dad Merch: www.startupdadshop.com

Dave Simnick is the founder and CEO of Soapbox, a company with a mission to provide personal care products while donating soap to those in need. He's also a husband and the father of a one-year-old son, Noah.Listen to the whole episode for an amazing discount code at Soapbox! In this episode, Dave shares insights about the changes he faced when becoming a parent and how he’s adjusted his role as a CEO to manage his new responsibilities at home. We talked about the systems he and his wife have in place, the challenges of balancing work and parenting, and his personal frameworks for being a present and intentional Dad. We discussed:Parenting adjustments: How becoming a dad led Dave to shift his focus and say no to professional commitments to be more present with his son.Family support systems: The importance of clear communication and shared responsibilities with his wife to manage their dual-working household.Time management lessons: How being a parent has made Dave more intentional with his time, balancing professional and personal priorities.Parenting frameworks: The trifecta of clear communication, consistent boundaries, and overflowing affection, all modeled after his experience in education.Leadership lessons from fatherhood: How watching Noah learn to walk has taught Dave about perseverance and leadership.Where to find Dave SimnickLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/davidsimnick/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/davidsimnick/Soapbox: https://www.soapboxsoaps.com/ Where to find Adam FishmanFishmanAF Newsletter: www.FishmanAFNewsletter.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjfishman/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/startupdadpod/ In this episode, we cover:(00:00) Welcome Dave Simnick, founder and CEO at Soapbox, and Dad of one(02:12) Preparing for fatherhood as a CEO(05:47) Adjusting time management after becoming a parent(07:07) Saying no to professional commitments for family time(09:05) Balancing work and parenting responsibilities(11:12) Family systems for a dual-working household(13:39) Learning from being a parent: the surprising aspects(15:36) Time management hacks post-parenthood(17:04) Parenting frameworks: communication, boundaries, and affection(19:36) Embracing imperfection in parenting(22:39) Leadership lessons from fatherhood(25:09) Advice for younger self about parenting(30:53) Parenting disagreements and challenges(33:00) Soapbox’s mission and global impact(37:10) Parenting superpower: joy(41:00) Lightning Round: Parenting hacks and travel tipsResources From This Episode:Soapbox: https://www.soapboxsoaps.com/ Teach for America: https://www.teachforamerica.org/ Bum Brush (Poop Spatula): https://a.co/d/2ONUFid Bluey: https://www.bbc.co.uk/cbeebies/shows/bluey Mulan: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt1856101/ The Sandlot: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0108037/Kia Carnival: https://www.kia.com/us/en/carnivalKia Telluride: https://www.kia.com/us/en/telluride Mike Malloy’s episode: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eJ9K0oR1nt4Discount code: startupdad15Baby Brezza: https://babybrezza.com/Tulum: https://www.tulum.com/Little Blue Truck: https://www.littlebluetruckbooks.com/books/—Support Startup DadFor sponsorship inquiries, email: podcast@fishmana.com.For Startup Dad Merch: www.startupdadshop.com

In this episode of Startup Dad, Adam Fishman sits down with Chet Kittleson, serial founder and co-founder of Tin Can, an analog phone for kids that helps families stay connected without screens. He’s also a dad of three, building a hardware company from his kitchen table while raising a young family in Seattle.Chet opens up about the inspiration behind Tin Can, how his childhood landline shaped the idea, and why he believes kids need more analog connections in a digital world. He talks candidly about the challenge of being “distracted dad” while building something he’s intensely passionate about, how he and his wife run their household like a startup, and why learning to unplug is still a daily work in progress. We discussed: Creating balance at home: The systems, boundaries, and frameworks that help Chet stay grounded as a founder and father.Lessons from failure and obsession: What Chet’s learned about being present when work and family both demand everything.The art of analog parenting: How Chet and his wife teach their kids healthy relationships with technology and boredom.Raising kids is like running a business: From household “OKRs” to making space for unstructured family time.Hope for the next generation: Why Chet believes we’re entering an analog revival and what it means for parents raising digital natives.Where to find Chet Kittleson:LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ckittleson/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tincan.kids/Tin Can: https://tincan.kids/  Where to find Adam FishmanFishmanAF Newsletter: www.FishmanAFNewsletter.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjfishman/ X: https://x.com/fishmanafInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/startupdadpod/ In this episode, we cover:(00:00) Introducing Chet Kittleson(02:31) The childhood inspiration that sparked the idea for Tin Can(11:13) Finding balance between family life and startup life(13:38) Lessons learned from building, failing, and trying again(16:21) Partnering in parenting and business with his wife(21:34) Building Tin Can from an idea to a real product(35:22) How parenting priorities shift as kids grow(36:16) What team dynamics look like inside a family-led startup(37:14) Early prototypes and how the family helped shape Tin Can(38:50) Seeing kids’ real reactions to the analog phone(40:02) Teaching kids to balance tech time and real-world connection(46:38) Finding optimism and practical solutions for modern parenting challenges(50:11) How to support Tin Can’s mission to connect families(53:10) Lightning round: paper calendars, dad hacks, and dishwasher rulesResources From This Episode:Tin Can: https://tincan.kids/ Paper calendar: https://a.co/d/dbPXEsG Brooks: https://www.brooksrunning.com/ The Anxious Generation (book): https://www.anxiousgeneration.com/ Brick (app): https://getbrick.app/ The Hundred-Foot Journey: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt2980648/ Chef: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt2883512/ Toy Story: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0114709/ The Mighty Ducks: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0104868/ Honey, I Shrunk the Kids: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0097523/ Freaky Friday: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0322330/ Freakier Friday: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt31956415/ The Parent Trap: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0120783/ Little Big League: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0110363/ Rookie of the Year: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0107985/ The Green Mile: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0120689/ Rewind & Play: ABC The Millennial Way (book): https://a.co/d/6GI6tdC Tween Magazine: https://tweenmag.com/ —For sponsorship inquiries, email: podcast@fishmana.comFor Startup Dad Merch: www.startupdadshop.com

In this episode of Startup Dad, Adam Fishman sits down with Colin Anawaty, technologist and founder of Flying A Capital. He’s also a single dad of two boys, navigating the challenges of fatherhood and entrepreneurship after divorce.Colin opens up about how his kids have become his greatest teachers, why he believes accountability and independence should start young, and how joining a men’s group helped him prioritize relationships, including the one with himself. From Montessori principles to Mario Kart lessons, Colin shares how parenting frameworks and founder mindsets overlap in surprising ways. We discussed: Parenting through divorce: What it’s like to reset life as a single dad and how his kids’ resilience has inspired him.Learning from mistakes: How modeling vulnerability and apologizing to his kids has built trust and maturity.Resilience vs fragility: Why Colin believes kids are more robust than we give them credit for.Why no dad has it all figured out: Colin’s honest take on navigating career, parenting, and personal growth.The role of technology and AI: From skepticism to playful experiments, turning kids’ crayon drawings into Pixar-style characters.Where to find Colin Anawaty:LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/colinanawaty/ X: https://x.com/colinInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/colinanawaty/Where to find Adam FishmanFishmanAF Newsletter: www.FishmanAFNewsletter.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjfishman/ X: https://x.com/fishmanafInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/startupdadpod/ In this episode, we cover:(00:00) Introducing Colin Anawaty(02:13) Adjusting to life as a single dad of two young boys(05:37) Why Colin joined a men’s group and what he learned(09:43) Taking stock of good and bad parenting lessons from past generations(11:49) Kids as teachers and the power of apologizing as a dad(14:31) Why kids are more resilient than we think(16:29) Teaching accountability at an early age(20:22) Montessori principles at home: independence, structure, fewer toys(23:50) Parenting lessons from Mario Kart and screen time boundaries(28:22) Bonding through haircut sessions with his boys(31:27) Helping his 6-year-old overcome fear of surfing(33:51) Social media dangers for kids and for parents(37:43) What relationship Colin wants his kids to have with technology(40:54) Using AI for parenting frameworks and creative projects(46:17) Why no dad has it all figured out(49:10) Lightning round: Parenting gear, funniest moments, and dad quirksResources From This Episode:5 Types of Wealth by Sahil Bloom: https://a.co/d/0H7Evju The Big Book of Silly Jokes for Kids: https://a.co/d/12730G0 The Expectant Father: The Ultimate Guide for Dads-to-Be: https://a.co/d/ji8u48g The New Father: A Dad's Guide to the First Year: https://a.co/d/chjTYyA Montessori Method: https://montessori.org/ Dad Jokes Instagram (Logan Lisle): https://www.instagram.com/loganlisle/ Potty Training Seat: https://a.co/d/54kwn6oLEGO: https://www.lego.com/ The Karate Kid: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0087538/ Endless Summer: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0060371/ Swiss Family Robinson: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0054357/ Cars: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0317219/ The Grinch: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt2709692/ Inside Out: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt2096673/ Indiana Jones and the Temple of Doom: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0087469/ Nintendo Switch: https://www.nintendo.com/switch/ Duke Nukem: https://2k.com/games/duke-nukem/20th-anniversary/ Super Mario Bros: https://mario.nintendo.com/characters/ Mario Kart: https://mariokart8.nintendo.com/ Milo and Chip: https://www.youtube.com/@miloandchip/videos Athena Health: https://www.athenahealth.com/Alex’s Episode: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OOa9mS-CIuQJosh Jones-Dilworth & Culturati: https://culturati.info/—For sponsorship inquiries, email: podcast@fishmana.comFor Startup Dad Merch: www.startupdadshop.com

Chad Pytel is the founder and CEO of thoughtbot, a product development consultancy, and co-founder of 12 Sided Studios, a gaming and production company. He’s also the longtime host of the Giant Robots Smashing Into Other Giant Robots podcast, a husband, and the father of two teenagers.In this episode, Chad and I talk about raising kids while running companies, blending family life with creative projects, and the importance of designing systems at home, just as you would at work. He shares stories about parenting teenagers, shaping company culture around sustainable pace, and why even the smallest rituals matter when time with your kids feels fleeting. We discussed:Building systems at home: How collaborating with his kids on routines turned daily battles into shared ownership.Parenting teenagers with balance: Why being relaxed, supportive, and flexible helped his kids thrive through responsibility and independence.Dinner as a cornerstone: The daily ritual that kept his family connected through the busiest startup years.Redefining company culture: How Thoughtbot built practices like sustainable pace and four-day client weeks to make room for life outside of work.Embracing differences: The importance of parenting each child as an individual, not a template, and adjusting expectations along the way.Where to find Chad PytelLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/cpytel/ X: https://x.com/cpytelWhere to find Adam FishmanFishmanAF Newsletter: www.FishmanAFNewsletter.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjfishman/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/startupdadpod/ In this episode, we cover:(00:00) Introducing Chad Pytel, founder and CEO at thoughtbot and dad of two(04:37) Exploring the aging space with AI(06:06) Starting a gaming and production company(08:43) Navigating teenage years(18:33) Balancing work and family life(19:23) Sustainable pace and company culture(23:48) Parenting realizations(24:56) Frameworks for parenting(25:21) Daily routines and systems(27:17) Sunday date concept(29:50) Parenting styles and screen time(35:34) Halloween traditions(37:37) Keeping up with the Joneses(41:19) Lightning Round: Being a relaxed and reasonable dadResources From This Episode:Giant Robots Smashing Into Other Giant Robots (Podcast): https://podcast.thoughtbot.com/thoughtbot: https://thoughtbot.com/12 Sided Studios: https://12sidedstudios.com/ Critical Role (Actual Play Series): https://critrole.com/ Dimension 20 (Actual Play Series): https://www.dropout.tv/dimension-20 American Society on Aging: https://www.asaging.org/ Wall-E (Film): https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0910970/Monty Python and the Holy Grail (Film): https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0071853/Kia Rondo (Car Model): https://www.edmunds.com/kia/rondo/ thoughtbot: https://thoughtbot.com/ 12 Sided Studios: https://12sidedstudios.com/ —For sponsorship inquiries email: podcast@fishmana.com.For Startup Dad Merch: www.startupdadshop.com

Jonathan Jamil, founder and CEO of Springboard, shares his story of growing up in a two-bedroom apartment with six family members, building a business powered by stay-at-home moms, and raising two daughters while redefining what success means.In this episode, Jonathan opens up about his entrepreneurial journey, the lessons he has carried from his upbringing, and the realities of being a dad and founder at the same time. We discussed:Why work-life balance doesn’t exist: Jonathan explains why he believes balance is a myth, and instead focuses on being fully presentRedefining success as a father and founder: He shares how his definition of success shifted from chasing cars and houses to prioritizing comfort, family health, and presence.Breaking generational patterns with love: From hugs to family vacations, Jonathan reflects on how intentional affection and kindness help him parent differently than he was raised.Partnership and parenting: He talks about how he and his wife share the load, why he ignores outdated cultural norms around gender roles in parenting, and the promise he kept to support her becoming a stay-at-home mom.Why nice guys don’t finish last: Jonathan describes how leading with empathy and kindness has shaped Springboard’s culture, strengthened client trust, and fueled growth.Where to find Jonathan JamilLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jjthatcxguy/ Springboard: https://www.springboardhq.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thejonathanjamil/ X: https://x.com/jjthatcxguyWhere to find Adam FishmanFishmanAF Newsletter: www.FishmanAFNewsletter.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjfishman/ Instagram: https://ww.instagram.com/startupdadpod/ In this episode, we cover:(00:00) Welcome Jonathan Jamil(03:55) Starting Springboard and working with stay-at-home moms(06:41) Why Springboard never posts job listings(08:33) Building a business while raising a newborn(10:19) Why work-life balance doesn’t exist(13:27) Redefining success as a dad(14:46) Why you can’t parent alone without community(16:06) Advice to his younger self before becoming a dad(18:23) Never stop dating your wife(20:35) The power of vacation and taking breaks(24:14) His simple fatherhood framework: Show up, listen, love(26:22) Espresso-fueled speeding ticket during the colic phase(28:54) Parenting disagreements: Screen time and sugar(30:56) Tech boundaries and raising daughters in a digital world(32:55) Using AI to plan family vacations(34:39) Why “nice guys finish last” is a myth(37:14) Lightning round: Parenting wins and toy assembly failsResources from this episode:Jambys: https://www.jambys.com/Disney Store: https://www.disneystore.com/toys-plush/toys/ Lime Green Bed Sheets: https://www.amazon.com/Lime-Green-Bedding/s?k=Lime+Green+BeddingCocomelon: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCbCmjCuTUZos6Inko4u57UQWreck-It Ralph: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt1772341/Ratatouille: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0382932/Home Alone: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0099785/ The Santa Clause: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0111070/Play-Doh: https://shop.hasbro.com/en-ca/play-dohToyota Sienna: https://www.toyota.com/sienna/Siqi Chen’s Episode: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I2Nm5Mkj0s0Cape May: https://www.capemay.com/Ocean City: https://www.ocnj.us/Rehoboth Beach: https://www.rehobothbeachde.gov/Disney World: https://disneyworld.disney.go.com/UPPAbaby: https://uppababy.com/Boppy: https://www.boppy.com/Jamby’s: https://www.jambys.com/—For sponsorship inquiries email: podcast@fishmana.comFor Startup Dad Merch: www.startupdadshop.com

In this episode of Startup Dad, I sit  down with Adam Lieb, the founder and CEO of Gamesight, a marketing technology company that helps video game studios connect with players and launch their biggest titles. Adam started his first gaming business at just 11 years old and has spent his entire career building in the industry ever since.As a dad of 11-year-old twins and husband to Camille, a lawyer who now leads the legal team at Gamesight, Adam shares what it’s like to grow a company and a family at the same time. From the challenges of raising twins to why he doesn’t believe in separating work mode from dad mode, Adam offers an honest look at the overlap of parenting and entrepreneurship. We discussed: Raising twins while building a company: Why he compares it to running three startups at once.The sleep training strategy: How it became the most important defensive move for survival with twins.Work mode vs dad mode: Why Adam believes in being the same person everywhere.AI at home: Creative ways his kids use AI for learning, projects, and fun.The mantra “show up and try”: Why presence is the foundation for leadership and parenting.Where to find Adam Lieb:LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamslieb/ X: https://x.com/adamslieb Where to find Adam FishmanFishmanAF Newsletter: www.FishmanAFNewsletter.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjfishman/ X: https://x.com/fishmanafInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/startupdadpod/ In this episode, we cover:(00:00) Introducing Adam Lieb(02:16) What Gamesight does and how Adam started in gaming(05:32) Raising 11-year-old twins with his wife, Camille(07:38) Running “three startups” at once: company and twins(09:34) Working with his wife inside the business(10:01) What’s unique about having twins, and why sleep training mattered(16:05) Why doesn’t Adam separate dad mode and work mode(18:30) Cheering from the baseball field while sending emails(20:13) The mantra that guides parenting and leadership: show up and try(24:30) Lessons learned since becoming a dad and mistakes along the way(26:17) The balance between coaching your kids and supporting them(29:16) Aligning with his wife on parenting philosophy(31:29) Setting limits on video games and tech at home(39:46) Raising kids with AI and creative projects they’ve built(47:16) Lightning round: indispensable products, useless gear, quirks, and dad superpowersResources From This Episode:Gamesight: https://gamesight.io/ Collapsible Wagon: a.co/d/dmFVnSI Table For Two: https://buytablefortwo.com/ Alexa: https://alexa.amazon.com/ Happy Gilmore: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0116483/Happy Gilmore 2: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt31868189/ The Lord Of The Rings: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0120737/ —For sponsorship inquiries, email: podcast@fishmana.comFor Startup Dad Merch: www.startupdadshop.com

In this episode of Startup Dad, Adam Fishman sits down with Rishabh Jain, the CEO of FERMÀT Commerce, a company he launched when his oldest daughter was just a few weeks old. He’s also a husband and father of two kids under the age of four.In this conversation, Rishabh shares why he believes parenthood actually makes entrepreneurship easier, how he manages family life alongside scaling startups, and the frameworks that help him stay focused and balanced. We discussed:Starting a company as a parent: Why Rishabh believes kids force you to prioritize what really matters.Advice to colleagues: Why he seriously tells stressed-out founders to “have kids” and how it improves their work.Family as an anchor: How a strong marriage allows him to take big risks in his professional life.Balance through kids: How playing, creating, and connecting at home helps him show up sharper at work.Technology in parenting: Using AI and voice assistants to answer kids’ questions and prepare them for a tech-driven world.Where to find Rishabh JainLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/rishabhmjain/ X: https://x.com/rishabhmjain The Intelligent Marketer: https://www.intelligentmarketerpod.com/Where to find Adam FishmanFishmanAF Newsletter: www.FishmanAFNewsletter.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjfishman/ X: https://x.com/fishmanafInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/startupdadpod/ In this episode, we cover:(00:00) Introducing Rishabh Jain(02:10) Why starting a company as a parent is easier(05:14) Advice to stressed-out colleagues: “Have kids”(07:18) Traveling internationally with toddlers(09:44) Hacks for surviving long flights with young kids(12:40) Starting FERMÀT Commerce with a newborn at home(16:56) Why kids should see parents doing what they love(18:21) Raising expectations of adults and patience with kids(21:02) Morning routines for balance and presence(25:56) How time with kids makes work more energizing(33:25) Technology and AI as parenting tools(41:35) Lightning Round: Dad superpowers, minivans, and moreResources From This Episode:FERMÀT Commerce: https://www.fermatcommerce.com/ The Bum Brush:  https://www.amazon.com/Bumco-Diaper-Cream-Spatula-Mom-Invented/dp/B00LYQ53JW What to Expect When You’re Expecting: ​​https://www.amazon.com/What-Expect-When-Youre-Expecting/dp/0761187480 Twitter: @rishabhmjainRishabh’s Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-rishabh-jain-show-marketing-podcast-for/id1656571291Rishabh’s Website: https://www.therishabhjain.com/Zootopia: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt2948356/ Lion King: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0110357/?ref_=fn_all_ttl_1 Iron Man: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0371746/?ref_=fn_all_ttl_1 VW Electric Bus: https://www.vw.com/en/models/id-buzz.html —For sponsorship inquiries, email: podcast@fishmana.comFor Startup Dad Merch: www.startupdadshop.com

Zach Teutsch is the founder of Values Added Financial, and a former leader at the Consumer Financial Protection Bureau. He’s also a husband, father of two, and a master of weaving big-picture life principles into day-to-day parenting.In this episode, Zach and I talk about building independence in kids, creating household shortcuts to reduce decision fatigue, and why boredom is one of the best gifts you can give your children. He shares his unique frameworks for parenting, money, relationships, and emotional resilience. We discussed:Parenting with the end in mind: Zach shares how picturing his kids as independent, kind 18-year-olds shapes his daily parenting choices and guides when to step back versus step in.Fostering independence and confidence: Why letting kids take on age-appropriate challenges, from solo store trips to handling money, builds resilience and reduces anxiety.Teaching money through experience: Zach’s allowance and charitable giving system helps kids make “safe” mistakes and understand value, trade-offs, and generosity.You can’t change feelings: The science behind why emotions can’t be reasoned away in the moment, and how validating kids’ experiences builds trust and emotional maturity.Boredom as a virtue: How slowing down, resisting screens, and embracing quiet moments leads to more creativity, mindfulness, and deeper connections.Where to find Zach TeutschLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/zach-teutsch/ Bluesky: https://bsky.app/profile/zteutsch.bsky.social Where to find Adam FishmanFishmanAF Newsletter: www.FishmanAFNewsletter.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjfishman/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/startupdadpod/ In this episode, we cover:(00:00) Introducing Zach Teutsch, founder at Values Added and dad of two(02:58) Parenting with the end in mind(04:25) Raising confident, independent kids(12:02) Teaching kids about money early(17:48) Why you can’t change feelings(26:52) Advice Zach wishes he had(31:22) Being your kids’ emotional go-to(32:38) Simple rules for parenting(33:43) The power of showing up(36:25) Boredom as a parenting superpower(38:45) Being a kid is hard(42:44) Relationship principles that work(49:09) Talking AI with your kids(53:10) Lightning round: parenting wins, fails, and quirksResources From This Episode:How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1451663889 Bluey (TV Series): https://www.imdb.com/title/tt7678620/ My Cousin Vinny (Film): https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0104952/ Claude AI: https://claude.ai/ Values Added Financial: https://valuesaddedfinancial.com/ Consumer Financial Protection Bureau: https://www.consumerfinance.gov/complaint/Carla’s Episode: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qcrzFhbeIVsLaw & Order SVU: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0203259/George Kinder: https://www.georgekinder.com/Duolingo: https://www.duolingo.com/ @zteutsch.bsky.socialzach@valuesadded.comMelatonin: https://www.mayoclinic.org/drugs-supplements-melatonin/art-20363071 —For sponsorship inquiries email: podcast@fishmana.com.For Startup Dad Merch: www.startupdadshop.com

Jeremy King, co-founder and CEO of Ocean Orchestra and former CEO of Attest, shares his journey as a founder, ocean advocate, and father of two daughters.In this episode, Jeremy opens up about building systems for both his family and his startups, why ocean conservation is personal to him, and how parenting has informed his leadership style. We discussed:Blending startup leadership with family life: Jeremy reveals how he and his wife, both busy professionals, use calendar “parenting time” to protect family routines. He explains why blocking time for his daughters on the calendar is non-negotiable.Parenting by design, not default: From food to sleep schedules, Jeremy shares how he applies science and structure to family life. He talks about the influence of the book Save Our Sleep and the “no choices on food” philosophy that’s helped his kids develop adventurous tastes.Impact at home and beyond: Jeremy discusses his role as chair and board member at Reach Two, a UK nonprofit transforming primary schools. He reflects on how improving outcomes for kids at scale has changed his perspective on equity, systems, and the basics that matter at home and in education.Adventures, travel, and core memories: The Kings’ family travels stretch from London to Melbourne, and Jeremy shares practical advice for surviving epic flights with little kids. He also highlights the moments that matter most like standing up for your child in the big moments, and creating core memories that build trust and resilience.Technology, ocean advocacy, and looking ahead: As a founder working at the intersection of tech and conservation, Jeremy discusses how he wants to introduce his daughters to technology, why he’s bullish on AI for ocean impact, and how parenting is shaping his approach to building solutions for the planet.Where to find Jeremy KingLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeremykingjk/ Website: https://www.askattest.com/ Ocean Orchestra: https://www.oceanorchestra.ai Where to find Adam FishmanFishmanAF Newsletter: www.FishmanAFNewsletter.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjfishman/ Instagram: https://ww.instagram.com/startupdadpod/ In this episode, we cover:(00:00) Introducing Jeremy King(01:33) From business to marine life(03:24) Nature's lessons for business(06:28) Parenting strategies for busy professionals(09:35) Improving UK education(16:04) Long flights tips for traveling with kids(19:53) Unique accents and vocabulary(22:51) Parenting principles: no food choices(24:49) Favorite foods and cultural influences(26:11) Parenting principles: standing up for your kids(27:05) Birthday party drama(29:56) Technology and kids(34:51) AI in parenting(37:05) Playground adventures(39:28) Sea otter presentation(42:34) Lightning Round: Groclocks and Magic Misties Magical Crystal BallResources from this episode:Groclock: https://www.tommeetippee.com/en-gb/product/groclock-sleep-trainer-clockDog Man: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt10954718/The Goonies: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0089218/Flight of the Navigator: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0091059/Magic Mixies Magical Crystal Ball: https://www.amazon.com/Magic-Mixies-S2-Crystal-Ball/dp/B09Q4B7CZH?th=1Anchorman: The Legend of Ron Burgundy: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0357413/ Attest: https://www.askattest.com/ Reach Two: https://www.reach2.org/ Ben William’s Episode: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p5ex9UczN5w Harvard: http://harvard.edu/ MIT: https://www.mit.edu/Kindle: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CNVCQZG1?ref_=MARS_NAVSTRIPE_desktop_kindle_kindle&th=1 Finding Dory: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt2277860/ Mckinsey: https://www.mckinsey.com/Tizzie Hall, Save Our Sleep: https://www.saveoursleep.com/baby-whisperer/Church of England: https://www.churchofengland.org/ Angler Fish: https://www.mbari.org/animal/deep-sea-anglerfish/Henry VIII: https://www.royal.uk/henry-viiiMulti Academy Trust: https://alumnismat.org/multi-academy-trusts/NFL: https://www.nfl.com/Peppa Pig: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCAOtE1V7Ots4DjM8JLlrYggClaude.ai—For sponsorship inquiries email: podcast@fishmana.comFor Startup Dad Merch: www.startupdadshop.com

In this episode of Startup Dad, Adam Fishman sits down with Jeff Selingo, a bestselling author, journalist and education expert, to discuss the complexities of college admissions and how parents can help their kids find their "Dream School." Jeff has spent over two decades researching higher education and is the author of Dream School: Finding the College That's Right for You, Who Gets in and Why: A Year Inside College Admissions, There Is Life After College: What Parents and Students Should Know About Navigating School to Prepare for the Jobs of Tomorrow, and College Unbound:  The Future of Higher Education and What it Means for Students.  As a dad of two nearly college-bound kids, Jeff offers a unique perspective on navigating the college decision-making process from the lens of a parent and expert. We discussed:Breaking down the college admissions process: Why it’s important to look beyond the Ivy League schools and focus on the best fit for your child.The concept of "Dream Schools": What makes a school the right fit and how to identify it.Parents' influence on the process: How societal pressures and the desire for prestige can shape college decisions.Finding value in education: The importance of ROI, Merit Aid, and balancing prestige with affordability.Tools for parents: Resources like the College Scorecard and how to use them to make informed decisions.Where to find Jeff SelingoLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeffselingo/ X: https://x.com/jselingoInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/jselingoWebsite: https://jeffselingo.com/ Where to find Adam FishmanFishmanAF Newsletter: www.FishmanAFNewsletter.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjfishman/ X: https://x.com/fishmanafInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/startupdadpod/ In this episode, we cover:(00:00) Introducing Jeff Selingo(02:22) Inspiration behind Dream School(06:45) The college application boom(08:59) The role of colleges in the application frenzy(14:20) The Moneyball approach to college selection(18:49) Early decision and early action explained(23:17) Parents' role in college admissions(25:16) Research insights from 'Dream School'(28:54) Skipping over rankings(29:19) The value of college prestige(30:04) Choosing a major for the right reasons(31:51) Defining your dream school(33:14) Underappreciated factors in college fit(35:15) Addressing neurodiversity in college admissions(37:16) Examples of lesser-known dream schools(42:43) Future outlook on college education(50:55) Lightning Round: Quick takes on college myths and advice for parentsResources From This Episode:Dream School: Finding the College That's Right for You: https://jeffselingo.com/books/dreamschool/ College Confidential: https://collegeconfidential.com/ Reddit Threads on College Admissions: https://www.reddit.com/r/ApplyingToCollege/ Next Newsletter by Jeff Selingo: https://jeffselingo.com/next-newsletter/ Future U Podcast: https://www.futureupodcast.com/ Dickinson College: https://www.dickinson.edu/ St. Olaf College: https://wp.stolaf.edu/ Denison University: https://denison.edu/ Furman University: https://www.furman.edu/ Michigan State University: https://msu.edu/ Barrett Honors College at Arizona State University: https://barretthonors.asu.edu/ SEC: https://www.sec.gov/ Arizona State University: https://www.asu.edu/ Gordian Knot: https://www.britannica.com/topic/Gordian-knot Who Gets In and Why: https://jeffselingo.com/books/who-gets-in-and-why/Common App: https://www.commonapp.org/Us News and World Report: https://www.usnews.com/Bill Royall: https://news.vcu.edu/article/Bill_Royall_former_vice_rector_of_the_VCU_Board_of_Visitors_andMoneyball Book: https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/1301.MoneyballMoneyball Movie: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt1210166/New York Yankees: https://www.mlb.com/yankeesCollege Scorecard: https://collegescorecard.ed.gov/UCLA: https://www.ucla.edu/Harvard: https://www.harvard.edu/ Yale: https://www.yale.edu/ Princeton: https://www.princeton.edu/ Stanford: https://www.stanford.edu/Ithaca College: https://www.ithaca.edu/Toy Story: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0114709/Karate Kid: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0087538/ —For sponsorship inquiries, email: podcast@fishmana.comFor Startup Dad Merch: www.startupdadshop.com