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Zach Teutsch is the founder of Values Added Financial, and a former leader at the Consumer Financial Protection Bureau. He’s also a husband, father of two, and a master of weaving big-picture life principles into day-to-day parenting.In this episode, Zach and I talk about building independence in kids, creating household shortcuts to reduce decision fatigue, and why boredom is one of the best gifts you can give your children. He shares his unique frameworks for parenting, money, relationships, and emotional resilience. We discussed:Parenting with the end in mind: Zach shares how picturing his kids as independent, kind 18-year-olds shapes his daily parenting choices and guides when to step back versus step in.Fostering independence and confidence: Why letting kids take on age-appropriate challenges, from solo store trips to handling money, builds resilience and reduces anxiety.Teaching money through experience: Zach’s allowance and charitable giving system helps kids make “safe” mistakes and understand value, trade-offs, and generosity.You can’t change feelings: The science behind why emotions can’t be reasoned away in the moment, and how validating kids’ experiences builds trust and emotional maturity.Boredom as a virtue: How slowing down, resisting screens, and embracing quiet moments leads to more creativity, mindfulness, and deeper connections.Where to find Zach TeutschLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/zach-teutsch/ Bluesky: https://bsky.app/profile/zteutsch.bsky.social Where to find Adam FishmanFishmanAF Newsletter: www.FishmanAFNewsletter.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjfishman/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/startupdadpod/ In this episode, we cover:(00:00) Introducing Zach Teutsch, founder at Values Added and dad of two(02:58) Parenting with the end in mind(04:25) Raising confident, independent kids(12:02) Teaching kids about money early(17:48) Why you can’t change feelings(26:52) Advice Zach wishes he had(31:22) Being your kids’ emotional go-to(32:38) Simple rules for parenting(33:43) The power of showing up(36:25) Boredom as a parenting superpower(38:45) Being a kid is hard(42:44) Relationship principles that work(49:09) Talking AI with your kids(53:10) Lightning round: parenting wins, fails, and quirksResources From This Episode:How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1451663889 Bluey (TV Series): https://www.imdb.com/title/tt7678620/ My Cousin Vinny (Film): https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0104952/ Claude AI: https://claude.ai/ Values Added Financial: https://valuesaddedfinancial.com/ Consumer Financial Protection Bureau: https://www.consumerfinance.gov/complaint/Carla’s Episode: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qcrzFhbeIVsLaw & Order SVU: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0203259/George Kinder: https://www.georgekinder.com/Duolingo: https://www.duolingo.com/ @zteutsch.bsky.socialzach@valuesadded.comMelatonin: https://www.mayoclinic.org/drugs-supplements-melatonin/art-20363071 —For sponsorship inquiries email: podcast@fishmana.com.For Startup Dad Merch: www.startupdadshop.com

Jeremy King, co-founder and CEO of Ocean Orchestra and former CEO of Attest, shares his journey as a founder, ocean advocate, and father of two daughters.In this episode, Jeremy opens up about building systems for both his family and his startups, why ocean conservation is personal to him, and how parenting has informed his leadership style. We discussed:Blending startup leadership with family life: Jeremy reveals how he and his wife, both busy professionals, use calendar “parenting time” to protect family routines. He explains why blocking time for his daughters on the calendar is non-negotiable.Parenting by design, not default: From food to sleep schedules, Jeremy shares how he applies science and structure to family life. He talks about the influence of the book Save Our Sleep and the “no choices on food” philosophy that’s helped his kids develop adventurous tastes.Impact at home and beyond: Jeremy discusses his role as chair and board member at Reach Two, a UK nonprofit transforming primary schools. He reflects on how improving outcomes for kids at scale has changed his perspective on equity, systems, and the basics that matter at home and in education.Adventures, travel, and core memories: The Kings’ family travels stretch from London to Melbourne, and Jeremy shares practical advice for surviving epic flights with little kids. He also highlights the moments that matter most like standing up for your child in the big moments, and creating core memories that build trust and resilience.Technology, ocean advocacy, and looking ahead: As a founder working at the intersection of tech and conservation, Jeremy discusses how he wants to introduce his daughters to technology, why he’s bullish on AI for ocean impact, and how parenting is shaping his approach to building solutions for the planet.Where to find Jeremy KingLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeremykingjk/ Website: https://www.askattest.com/ Ocean Orchestra: https://www.oceanorchestra.ai Where to find Adam FishmanFishmanAF Newsletter: www.FishmanAFNewsletter.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjfishman/ Instagram: https://ww.instagram.com/startupdadpod/ In this episode, we cover:(00:00) Introducing Jeremy King(01:33) From business to marine life(03:24) Nature's lessons for business(06:28) Parenting strategies for busy professionals(09:35) Improving UK education(16:04) Long flights tips for traveling with kids(19:53) Unique accents and vocabulary(22:51) Parenting principles: no food choices(24:49) Favorite foods and cultural influences(26:11) Parenting principles: standing up for your kids(27:05) Birthday party drama(29:56) Technology and kids(34:51) AI in parenting(37:05) Playground adventures(39:28) Sea otter presentation(42:34) Lightning Round: Groclocks and Magic Misties Magical Crystal BallResources from this episode:Groclock: https://www.tommeetippee.com/en-gb/product/groclock-sleep-trainer-clockDog Man: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt10954718/The Goonies: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0089218/Flight of the Navigator: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0091059/Magic Mixies Magical Crystal Ball: https://www.amazon.com/Magic-Mixies-S2-Crystal-Ball/dp/B09Q4B7CZH?th=1Anchorman: The Legend of Ron Burgundy: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0357413/ Attest: https://www.askattest.com/ Reach Two: https://www.reach2.org/ Ben William’s Episode: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p5ex9UczN5w Harvard: http://harvard.edu/ MIT: https://www.mit.edu/Kindle: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CNVCQZG1?ref_=MARS_NAVSTRIPE_desktop_kindle_kindle&th=1 Finding Dory: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt2277860/ Mckinsey: https://www.mckinsey.com/Tizzie Hall, Save Our Sleep: https://www.saveoursleep.com/baby-whisperer/Church of England: https://www.churchofengland.org/ Angler Fish: https://www.mbari.org/animal/deep-sea-anglerfish/Henry VIII: https://www.royal.uk/henry-viiiMulti Academy Trust: https://alumnismat.org/multi-academy-trusts/NFL: https://www.nfl.com/Peppa Pig: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCAOtE1V7Ots4DjM8JLlrYggClaude.ai—For sponsorship inquiries email: podcast@fishmana.comFor Startup Dad Merch: www.startupdadshop.com

In this episode of Startup Dad, Adam Fishman sits down with Jeff Selingo, a bestselling author, journalist and education expert, to discuss the complexities of college admissions and how parents can help their kids find their "Dream School." Jeff has spent over two decades researching higher education and is the author of Dream School: Finding the College That's Right for You, Who Gets in and Why: A Year Inside College Admissions, There Is Life After College: What Parents and Students Should Know About Navigating School to Prepare for the Jobs of Tomorrow, and College Unbound:  The Future of Higher Education and What it Means for Students.  As a dad of two nearly college-bound kids, Jeff offers a unique perspective on navigating the college decision-making process from the lens of a parent and expert. We discussed:Breaking down the college admissions process: Why it’s important to look beyond the Ivy League schools and focus on the best fit for your child.The concept of "Dream Schools": What makes a school the right fit and how to identify it.Parents' influence on the process: How societal pressures and the desire for prestige can shape college decisions.Finding value in education: The importance of ROI, Merit Aid, and balancing prestige with affordability.Tools for parents: Resources like the College Scorecard and how to use them to make informed decisions.Where to find Jeff SelingoLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeffselingo/ X: https://x.com/jselingoInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/jselingoWebsite: https://jeffselingo.com/ Where to find Adam FishmanFishmanAF Newsletter: www.FishmanAFNewsletter.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjfishman/ X: https://x.com/fishmanafInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/startupdadpod/ In this episode, we cover:(00:00) Introducing Jeff Selingo(02:22) Inspiration behind Dream School(06:45) The college application boom(08:59) The role of colleges in the application frenzy(14:20) The Moneyball approach to college selection(18:49) Early decision and early action explained(23:17) Parents' role in college admissions(25:16) Research insights from 'Dream School'(28:54) Skipping over rankings(29:19) The value of college prestige(30:04) Choosing a major for the right reasons(31:51) Defining your dream school(33:14) Underappreciated factors in college fit(35:15) Addressing neurodiversity in college admissions(37:16) Examples of lesser-known dream schools(42:43) Future outlook on college education(50:55) Lightning Round: Quick takes on college myths and advice for parentsResources From This Episode:Dream School: Finding the College That's Right for You: https://jeffselingo.com/books/dreamschool/ College Confidential: https://collegeconfidential.com/ Reddit Threads on College Admissions: https://www.reddit.com/r/ApplyingToCollege/ Next Newsletter by Jeff Selingo: https://jeffselingo.com/next-newsletter/ Future U Podcast: https://www.futureupodcast.com/ Dickinson College: https://www.dickinson.edu/ St. Olaf College: https://wp.stolaf.edu/ Denison University: https://denison.edu/ Furman University: https://www.furman.edu/ Michigan State University: https://msu.edu/ Barrett Honors College at Arizona State University: https://barretthonors.asu.edu/ SEC: https://www.sec.gov/ Arizona State University: https://www.asu.edu/ Gordian Knot: https://www.britannica.com/topic/Gordian-knot Who Gets In and Why: https://jeffselingo.com/books/who-gets-in-and-why/Common App: https://www.commonapp.org/Us News and World Report: https://www.usnews.com/Bill Royall: https://news.vcu.edu/article/Bill_Royall_former_vice_rector_of_the_VCU_Board_of_Visitors_andMoneyball Book: https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/1301.MoneyballMoneyball Movie: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt1210166/New York Yankees: https://www.mlb.com/yankeesCollege Scorecard: https://collegescorecard.ed.gov/UCLA: https://www.ucla.edu/Harvard: https://www.harvard.edu/ Yale: https://www.yale.edu/ Princeton: https://www.princeton.edu/ Stanford: https://www.stanford.edu/Ithaca College: https://www.ithaca.edu/Toy Story: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0114709/Karate Kid: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0087538/ —For sponsorship inquiries, email: podcast@fishmana.comFor Startup Dad Merch: www.startupdadshop.com

Peter Kazanjy is the best-selling author of Founding Sales and co-founder of Atrium. He’s also a dad to a seven-year-old son, Michael, and husband to Tracy, a designer and entrepreneur.In this episode, Pete reflects on building companies, building capabilities, and building a family. He talks about the grit and perseverance behind their seven-round IVF journey, delivery room chaos, and how he now teaches his son to embrace responsibility, reduce entropy, and take pride in doing things well. We talked about: The road to parenthood: Pete shares his seven-round IVF journey, what he wishes he’d known sooner, and why he champions fertility education.Making time on purpose: Pete breaks down his calendar philosophy and how he builds in quality time, from Muni rides to museum visits.Raising with purpose: He talks about teaching values like grit and responsibility—whether it’s cleaning up after others or training for soccer.Tiger Light parenting: Pete models excellence without pressure, helping his son stick with hard things and celebrate progress.Why sound matters: He reflects on recording audio memories—and how a child’s voice can bring back moments photos can’t.Where to find Peter KazanjyLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kazanjy/ X:  https://x.com/kazanjy   Where to find Adam FishmanFishmanAF Newsletter: www.FishmanAFNewsletter.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjfishman/ Instagram: https://ww.instagram.com/startupdadpod/ In this episode, we cover:(00:00) Introducing Pete Kazanjy(02:13) Pete’s family and personal life(06:20) The IVF journey to parenthood(13:00) Michael’s birth story(17:38) Balancing fatherhood and entrepreneurship(23:53) Instilling values and duty in children(27:02) The importance of grit and a growth mindset(34:53) Capturing memories: the power of audio(37:00) Balancing professional and personal life(41:52) Technology and parenting(55:05) Lightning round: silly stories and smart solutionsShow references:Founding Sales (book by Pete!): https://www.foundingsales.com/Atrium: https://www.atriumhq.com/ UCSF Center for Reproductive Health: https://fertility.ucsf.edu/ Modern Fertility: https://modernfertility.com/ 23andMe: https://www.23andme.com/ Exploratorium: https://www.exploratorium.edu/ California Academy of Sciences: https://www.calacademy.org/ The Goal by Eliyahu M. Goldratt: https://www.amazon.com/Goal-Process-Ongoing-Improvement/dp/0884271951/ The Five Dysfunctions of a Team by Patrick Lencioni: https://www.tablegroup.com/product/the-five-dysfunctions-of-a-team/ The Phoenix Project: https://itrevolution.com/product/the-phoenix-project/ Use of Knowledge in Society by Friedrich Hayek: https://fee.org/articles/the-use-of-knowledge-in-society/ Brain Flakes: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00N8GWZ4M Lego: https://www.lego.com/ Blippi: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC5PYHgAzJ1wLEidB58SK6Xw Avatar: The Last Airbender: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0417299/ Ghostbusters: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0087332/ —For sponsorship inquiries email: podcast@fishmana.com.For Startup Dad Merch: www.startupdadshop.com

James Currier is a serial entrepreneur, founding partner at NFX, and a father of 4 boys. Known for his sharp insights into human behavior and startup dynamics, James brings that same clarity and intention to his parenting. He’s not just raising kids, he’s cultivating creators, adventurers, and independent thinkers.In this episode, James shares how he designed his family life with the same care and foresight as he would a startup. From helping his son sail solo across the Atlantic at 16, to building secret passageways in their home, James offers a deeply personal and practical look into parenting with purpose. We discussed:Parenting with realism and intention: James explains why he doesn’t take too much credit as a parent, and how genetics, not just parenting techniques, shape a child’s destiny. Parenting inevitably includes heartbreak, so embrace the ride without trying to control every outcome.Fostering entrepreneurship and self-reliance: James never gave allowances. Instead, he paid his kids a dollar for every new business idea and had them pitch startup concepts at the dinner table. Adventure and risk as tools for growth: Rather than shielding his kids from danger, James leaned into it. He saw risk as a necessary ingredient for confidence. His boys climbed 80-foot trees, explored Burning Man, and one even became the youngest person to sail solo across the Atlantic. The goal? Face the wild and learn who you are.The seven-to-one rule for feedback: James shares a powerful framework for encouraging positive behavior. For every one piece of correction, offer seven moments of genuine, specific positive reinforcement. It works for parenting and leadership.On technology, phones, and the limits of control: Despite thoughtful efforts, James admits that his kids were guinea pigs for the smartphone era. He reflects honestly on what worked, what didn’t, and why he believes delaying access to tech, and encouraging real-world adventure is more important than ever.Where to find James CurrierLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jamescurrier/ X: https://x.com/jamescurrier Where to find Adam FishmanFishmanAF Newsletter: www.FishmanAFNewsletter.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjfishman/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/startupdadpod/ In this episode, we cover:(00:00) Introducing James Currier, general partner at NFX and dad of four(02:52) Fostering entrepreneurship in kids(05:19) The neuro camp initiative(06:47) Teaching kids about money and avoiding entitlement(14:12) The importance of a strong marriage(27:39) The importance of wilderness experiences(28:15) Learning new skills with your kids(29:50) Prioritizing individual time with each child(31:44) Building projects and secret layers(34:25) Focusing on who your kids hang out with(36:05) Positive reinforcement over reprimanding(38:59) Talking to kids like adults(42:03) The role of a dog in the family(43:20) Managing technology in the household(47:12) Lightning Round: Parenting insights and embarrassing momentsResources From This Episode:300 (Graphic Novel): https://www.amazon.com/300-Frank-Miller/dp/1569714029 300 (Film): https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0416449/ White Noise Machine: https://a.co/d/6YqDwMMBaby Einstein: https://www.kids2.com/pages/baby-einsteinMadagascar: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0351283/Star Wars Episode IV: A New Hope: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0351283/—For sponsorship inquiries email: podcast@fishmana.com.For Startup Dad Merch: www.startupdadshop.com

Mike Malloy is the founder of Malloy Industries, a firm that connects scaling entrepreneurs with vetted fractional executives. He's also a Georgetown professor, a husband, and the father of Max, the company's self-declared Chief Cuteness Officer. Mike’s life is an intersection of serious business systems and silly dad jokes, all woven together by an intentional approach to work-life integration.In this episode, Mike shares how building a business around his family values helped him show up better both as a parent and as a professional. We discussed:Parenting in public: From potty training during a client call to his son interrupting meetings to demand frisbee time, Mike embraces the chaos of parenting while working from home, and sometimes those interruptions help close deals.The transition to camp and growing independence: Mike opens up about the emotional milestone of sending his son to camp for the first time after three years of full-time care. Designing a business with family in mind: Mike started Malloy Industries not just to serve founders, but to reclaim his own time. After losing his mom and learning he was about to become a dad, he redesigned his business to run without relying solely on him, and has since built a network of 400+ fractional executives.Time-blocking and nightly maps: Mike walks us through his framework for managing energy and focus throughout the week, including why he blocks off Wednesday mornings for uninterrupted dad adventures.Dad jokes, magnet tiles, and parenting hacks: Whether he’s swapping jokes at the library or bringing a second monitor to Panera for a “crush-it day,” Mike brings levity and intentionality to every corner of life as a founder and a father.Where to find Mike MalloyLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mwmalloy/ X: https://x.com/mwmalloyInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/mwmalloy/Website: https://malloyindustries.com/ Where to find Adam FishmanFishmanAF Newsletter: www.FishmanAFNewsletter.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjfishman/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/startupdadpod/ In this episode, we cover:(00:00) Introducing Mike Malloy(02:35) Max the deal-closer and executive artist(04:50) First day of camp and emotional milestones(07:17) Starting Malloy Industries and the fractional future(10:07) Grieving his mom and preparing for fatherhood(14:28) The "who not how" mindset shift(15:35) Be where your feet are and present parenting(19:35) The great cheese stick negotiation(23:28) Pro dad hacks for books and lullabies(24:36) Time blocking and scheduling around energy(29:16) Monthly “crush it” days and managing flow(30:54) Nightly maps and intentional daily planning(34:37) The wooden box and tech boundaries(38:08) Chef Jacques and using AI to plan meals(41:18) Modeling tech habits and setting rules(43:56) Advice to his pre-dad self during nap traps(46:23) Lightning round: parenting quirks and dad jokesResources From This Episode:Daddy and Me: https://www.amazon.com/Daddy-Me-Tiya-Hall/dp/1680524526Never Touch a Porcupine: https://www.amazon.com/Never-Touch-Porcupine-Believe-Ideas/dp/1788439856A Crack in the Track (Thomas and Friends): https://www.amazon.com/Crack-Track-Thomas-Friends/dp/0375827552Fox is Coming!: https://www.amazon.com/Fox-Coming-James-Patterson/dp/0316572837Like a Boss Play Kit: https://shopping.mattel.com/en-gb/products/fisher-price-2-in-1-like-a-boss-activity-center-hbm26-en-gbLewis Library Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/lewisulibrary/Zootopia: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt2948356/Mickey Mouse Clubhouse: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0784896/Cars: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0317219/Blank Check: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0109287/Empire Records: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0112950/Santa Clause: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0111070/ Cal Newport: https://calnewport.com/Georgetown U: https://www.georgetown.edu/Who Not How: The Formula to Achieve Bigger Goals Through Accelerating Teamworkby Dan Sullivan, Benjamin Hardy: https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/who-not-how-dan-sullivan/1136703973The Daily Dad: 366 Meditations on Parenting, Love, and Raising Great Kidsby Ryan Holiday: https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/the-daily-dad-ryan-holiday/1141941652Good Inside: A Guide to Becoming the Parent You Want to Beby Becky Kennedy: https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/good-inside-becky-kennedy/1140501121Nir Eyal’s Episode: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GqogSRDhzeUNotion: https://www.notion.com/Door knob safety cover: https://www.amazon.com/Door-Knob-Covers-Child-Safety/dp/B071GWJX4DMuppet Babies: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0086764/Super Wings: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt3600266/?ref_=nv_sr_srsg_0_tt_8_nm_0_in_0_q_suoper%2520wingsToy Story: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0114709/?ref_=nv_sr_srsg_1_tt_7_nm_0_in_0_q_toy%2520storyGoofy Movie: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0113198/?ref_=fn_all_ttl_1Mini Magnatiles: https://magnatiles.com/products/micromags-travel-set?srsltid=AfmBOopwJyPjVfhLblqNFq2f1QIUtupBKjvD0tqIrY8kydu8LlX00XYH—Help Support Startup Dad:For sponsorship inquiries email: podcast@fishmana.comFor Startup Dad Merch:

Michael Leibovich is the Head of Growth at Adobe, but at home, he’s dad to a curious two-and-a-half-year-old and husband to a full-time working partner. With a previous career as a touring musician and a current career in creative tech leadership at companies like Vimeo and Abstract, Michael brings an emotionally grounded, inventive lens to fatherhood.In this episode, Michael shares how parenting has reshaped his worldview from his leadership style at work to his daily routines at home. Patience in parenting and work: Michael reflects on the contrast between startup urgency and toddler-paced mornings. Learning to slow down and “trust the process” has become a guiding principle both at home and professionally.Changing the channel: One of Michael’s favorite frameworks for toddler meltdowns is simple: change the channel. Whether it’s bath-time resistance or cereal drama, he shares how quick pivots can shift the energy and restore peace.Tech meets parenting: Michael talks about building a custom AI-powered meal-planning app called Picky Eater to handle his daughter’s shifting food preferences, and how it's just one example of tech meeting real-life parenting.Parenting without Google: Instead of doomscrolling for answers, Michael and his wife formed a text thread with parents they admire. It’s a real-time advisory board filled with insight, lived experience, and calm advice.Music, creativity, and messy art: A former touring musician, Michael is intentional about nurturing creativity at home. From drum time to digitizing toddler scribbles, he shares how he’s creating space for curiosity.Where to find Mike LeibovichLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/michaelleibovich/ Where to find Adam FishmanFishmanAF Newsletter: www.FishmanAFNewsletter.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjfishman/ Instagram: https://ww.instagram.com/startupdadpod/ In this episode, we cover:(00:00) Introducing Michael Leibovich(02:02) The patience of parenting a toddler(03:41) Balancing work and family life(05:13) Navigating toddler tantrums(07:44) Caring for aging parents(11:09) Nurturing creativity in children(14:41) The torrent of preschool artwork(16:38) Michael's musical journey(19:47) Transition from music to tech(20:38) Unique parenting advice approach(28:43) Emergency c-section and complications(31:55) First moments with daughter(34:40) Advice for expecting parents(42:23) Balancing parenting approaches(46:03) Technology and parenting(48:07) AI Solution for picky eaters(51:26) Advice to younger self(54:43) Lightning Round: Parenting products and hacksResources From This Episode:Fidget Spinner Suction Cup: https://www.amazon.com/Suction-Spinner-Sensory-Popping-Auditory/dp/B0BVGZGN3QNoseFrida: https://frida.com/products/nosefrida The Goonies: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0089218/Back to the Future: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0088763/Adobe: https://www.adobe.com/Behance: https://www.behance.net/AppFolio: https://www.appfolio.com/Vimeo: https://vimeo.com/Abstract: https://www.abstract.us/Ben Erez Episode: youtube.com/watch?v=st2qxaybgw8Severance: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt11280740/Adobe Fresco: https://www.adobe.com/products/fresco.htmlPure Volume: https://www.purevolume.com/Napster: https://www.napster.com/us/Limewire: https://limewire.com/Cal Poly: https://www.calpoly.edu/Myspace Records: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/MySpace_RecordsHanson: https://hanson.net/homeGin Blossoms: https://www.ginblossoms.net/Jimmy Eat World: https://www.jimmyeatworld.com/The Curious Case of Benjamin Button: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0421715/The Giving Tree by Shel Silverstein: https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/the-giving-tree-shel-silverstein/1100830900Lovable: https://lovable.dev/Bolt: https://bolt.new/https://open.spotify.com/Crocs: https://www.crocs.com/—Support this podcast:For sponsorship inquiries email: podcast@fishmana.com.For Startup Dad Merch: www.startupdadshop.com

Lauren Dugan and Neil Vidyarthi are the husband-and-wife co-founders of Feel Good Games, creators of Little Magic Stories, an AI storytelling platform designed to spark creativity and independence in kids. They’re also parents of two boys (ages 3 and 8), longtime partners in both life and work, and startup veterans bringing a playful, grounded perspective to the founder-parent journey.In this episode, Neil and Lauren talk about how parenting fuels their creativity, how they’ve evolved their marriage while running a company together, and why their son insists he’s the real CEO. We discussed:From bedtime stories to startup idea: How their son’s early-morning storytelling sessions inspired the vision for Little Magic Stories, and why they included him as “co-creators” from day one.Building a company with your spouse: What Neil and Lauren have learned about navigating startup stress, creative tension, and parenting chaos as co-founders and partners and the systems they use to stay grounded.Parenting with freedom and play: Why they embrace a “gardener not engineer” model of parenting, how they balance screen time and independence, and the moments that made them rethink control and creativity.The case for structured chaos: From timeboxing and project boards to flexible rituals and tag-team parenting, Neil and Lauren share the habits that help them stay focused while juggling business, marriage, and raising two kids.Redefining success as parent-founders: Why they believe having children has made them more ambitious, not less, and how they’ve reshaped their values around creativity, joy, and freedom.Where to find Lauren DuganLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/laurendugan/ X: https://x.com/lauren_dugan?lang=enhttps://www.instagram.com/laurencdugan/Where to find Neil VidyarthiLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/neilv/X: https://x.com/neilvidyarthiInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/neilv9999/Where to find Adam FishmanFishmanAF Newsletter: www.FishmanAFNewsletter.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjfishman/ Instagram: https://ww.instagram.com/startupdadpod/ In this episode, we cover:(00:00) Introducing Neil Vidyarthi and Lauren Dugan(02:56) The dynamics of working with family(05:29) Balancing work and family life(13:52) Inspiration behind Feel Good Games(18:30) Advice for founders and parents(33:30) Parenting challenges and social media(34:20) Ash's CEO video(36:09) Parenting philosophies and boundaries(39:20) Kids and technology(43:12) Creative uses of AI in parenting(44:50) Parenting mistakes and lessons(47:59) Connecting with Feel Good Games(49:43) Lightning round: routines, quirks, and family timeShow references:Yoto: https://eu.yotoplay.com/Wipes Warmer: https://urbanessentials.com.ph/products/prince-lionheart-ultimate-wipes-warmer-dispenserGreat Wolf Lodge: https://www.greatwolf.com/Super Mario Brothers: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt6718170/My Neighbor Totoro: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0096283/The Karate Kid: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0087538/Beetlejuice: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0094721/Todoist: https://www.todoist.com/Polygon: https://www.polygon.com/Avail: https://www.avail.co/landlords/featuresFeel Good Games: https://www.feelgoodgames.xyz/Little Magic Stories: https://www.littlemagicstories.com/Robert Wolfe’s Episode: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9bsi-iOjodMPokemon: https://www.pokemon.com/usPomodoro: https://pomofocus.io/Time Boxing: https://clockify.me/timeboxingThe Freedom App: https://freedom.to/Jay Vidyarthi - Reclaim Your Mind: https://www.jayvidyarthi.com/Game of Thrones: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0944947/Netflix: https://www.netflix.com/Reed Hastings: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Reed_HastingsArachnaphobia: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0099052/The Tao of Parenting The Ageless Wisdom of Taoism and the Art of Raising Children By Greta K. Nagel: https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/331083/the-tao-of-parenting-by-greta-k-nagel/Cry Babies: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt11067738/—For sponsorship inquiries email: podcast@fishmana.com.For Startup Dad Merch: www.startupdadshop.com

Aaron White, founder of six companies including Appy People, Profitwell, Boundless and Blissfully discusses the intersection of startup life and fatherhood. In this episode, he shares how the challenges of becoming a parent have reshaped his approach to leadership, the unexpected lessons he's learned, and his evolving perspective on success. We discussed:The unpredictable journey of parenthood: Aaron talks about the trauma of his son’s premature birth, the shock of an emergency C-section, and the mental toll of navigating the NICU. Through it all, Aaron reflects on how he and his wife adapted, growing through the challenges and celebrating their son’s healthy arrival.The realities of modern parenting: With no extended family nearby, Aaron describes the strain of modern, nuclear family dynamics. He discusses the unnatural pressure on parents to "do it all" and the importance of asking for help, especially in those exhausting first few months. His mantra: don’t feel guilty about getting help.Learning new strengths as a parent: Parenting has brought out a new side of Aaron that he didn’t expect. He shares how he’s surprised himself with his patience, endurance, and the emotional connection he has developed with his son. Parenting has tested him in ways far beyond his previous experiences with endurance sports.Just say yes: Whether it’s career, parenthood, or life, Aaron advocates saying yes to opportunities. From taking on new projects to engaging with his son, he believes saying yes to difficult things leads to growth.Your child becomes who you believe them to be: Aaron explains how a positive perspective and belief in his son’s potential have shaped their relationship and how he approaches fatherhood.Where to find Aaron WhiteLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/aaronmwhite/ X: https://www.linkedin.com/in/aaronmwhite/ Website: www.appy.aiWhere to find Adam FishmanFishmanAF Newsletter: www.FishmanAFNewsletter.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjfishman/ Instagram: https://ww.instagram.com/startupdadpod/ In this episode, we cover:(00:00) Introducing Aaron White(01:50) Diving into API AI and building businesses with AI(02:52) The future of AI and its impact(05:43) Balancing startup life and parenthood(16:41) Modern parenting and embracing help(20:14) Surprising discoveries of fatherhood(29:18) Reengaging with the world as a parent(33:26) Empathy and Leadership as a Parent(40:25) The importance of partnership in parenting(44:23) Technology and parenting in the modern age(47:02) Creative uses of AI for parenting(48:40) Advice for future founders and dads(51:02) Lightning round: wipe warmers and hatch nightlightsShow references:Wipe warmers: https://www.amazon.com/Best-Sellers-Diaper-Wipe-Warmers/zgbs/baby-products/677976011Hatch Nightlights: https://www.amazon.com/Hatch-Baby-Machine-Trainer-Soother/dp/B08QVG9759?th=1Mushed Parnips: https://www.allrecipes.com/recipe/239206/mashed-parsnips/What Does The Fox Say?: https://youtu.be/jofNR_WkoCE?si=Glykjvv2W3wP0OaJThe Goonies: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0089218/The Ewok Adventure: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0087225/Kilimanjaro: https://education.nationalgeographic.org/resource/kilimanjaro/Suno: Suno.com—For sponsorship inquiries email: podcast@fishmana.com.For Startup Dad Merch: www.startupdadshop.com

Olav Sindre Kriken is a four-time founder, husband, and father of three who’s currently leading Tana, an AI-powered productivity startup. Originally from a small town in Norway, Olav now lives in Palo Alto, and splits his time between scaling a company and staying deeply present for his family. He believes his family is the most important startup he’ll ever build.In this episode, Olav reflects on what it means to raise resilient, independent kids in a tech-saturated world, how parenting frameworks shape his decisions as a founder, and why being a dad made him rethink everything about success and legacy. We discussed:From dad dates to startup deadlines: Why Olav sets aside sacred, tech-free time with each of his kids every week, and how that ritual strengthens their relationships, even during long stretches apart.Parenting with one voice: Olav shares how he and his wife approach disagreements as co-founders of their family, and why behind-the-scenes alignment helps create stability for their kids.Letting kids struggle: How growing up in Norway taught Olav that adversity is essential, and why he believes challenge, failure, and independence are some of the greatest gifts you can give your children.The power of modeling: From bedtime story world-building to watching their dad lead a company, Olav’s kids are already writing business plans and experimenting with entrepreneurship, all without being told to.Tech is not the enemy: Olav makes the case for embracing technology at home, from ChatGPT storytime to self-taught art via YouTube. He explains how AI can support creativity and learning when paired with values and conversation.Where to find Olav Sindre KrikenLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kriken/ X: https://x.com/OlavSindreWhere to find Adam FishmanFishmanAF Newsletter: www.FishmanAFNewsletter.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjfishman/ Instagram: https://ww.instagram.com/startupdadpod/ In this episode, we cover:(00:00) Introducing Olav Sindre Kriken(00:58) Kids come through You, not from you(01:54) Parenting in Norway vs. the US(08:36) Dad Dates are quality time with kids(10:39) Balancing startup life and family time(12:38) Unified parenting approach with one voice(22:23) Parenting frameworks and philosophies(29:38) Modeling entrepreneurship for kids(32:00) Daughter's mask business(32:46) Parenting through example(33:36) Embracing technology for kids(36:57) Creative uses of AI in parenting(39:08) The story of the son and the window(41:12) Say “Yes” More(44:57) Lightning Round(49:28) Funniest and Most Embarrassing Parenting MomentsShow references:Rocking chair with vibration: https://www.amazon.com/Massage-Recliner-Vibration-Ergonomic-Overstuffed/dp/B0D41M8TRV?th=1 First Time Dad by Jason Petterson: https://www.amazon.com/First-Time-Dad-Understanding-Parenthood/dp/1088045677Salish: https://www.youtube.com/@salishmatterCars: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0317219/Star Wars: https://www.imdb.com/list/ls070150896/Tana: https://tana.inc/Magnus Hillestad: https://www.linkedin.com/in/magnushillestad/Sanity: https://www.sanity.io/The Five Dysfunctions of a Team: A Leadership Fable, 20th Anniversary Edition by Patrick M. Lencioni: https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/the-five-dysfunctions-of-a-team-patrick-m-lencioni/1100520484The Prophet by Kahlil Gibran: https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/the-prophet-kahlil-gibran/1116648147Home Depot: https://www.homedepot.com/Etsy: https://www.etsy.com/ChatGPT: Chatgpt.comYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/YouTube Kids: https://www.youtubekids.com/The Catcher in the Rye by J. D. Salinger: https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/the-catcher-in-the-rye-j-d-salinger/1100192775Liverpool FC: https://www.liverpoolfc.com/Manchester United: https://www.manutd.com/Frozen: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt2294629/Richard Branson: https://www.virgin.com/branson-family/richard-bransonBeyonce: https://beyonce.com/Capybara: https://www.nationalgeographic.com/animals/mammals/facts/cabybara-facts—For sponsorship inquiries email: podcast@fishmana.com.For Startup Dad Merch: www.startupdadshop.com

Roger Einstoss is the founder of Braintly, a software development company specializing in helping U.S.-based companies build and scale their engineering teams in Latin America. He's also a husband, father of two young kids, and passionate about balancing work and family while maintaining emotional intelligence in his parenting.In this episode, Roger shares his unique perspective on parenting in Argentina, how he approaches fatherhood as a team effort with his wife, and how his entrepreneurial journey allowed him the flexibility to be present for his family. We discussed:Parenting as a team: Roger and his wife approach parenting as a true partnership, where both share responsibilities equally. He discusses how their teamwork allows them to stay present in their children’s lives, even while both manage demanding careers.Parenting in Argentina vs. the U.S.: Roger compares parenting styles between Argentina and the U.S., noting key differences in how children leave home for university and how families prioritize close-knit bonds.The importance of emotional intelligence: Growing up without a focus on emotional intelligence, Roger reflects on how he learned to model it for his own children. He shares practical strategies for fostering emotional awareness and resilience in his kids.Work-life balance and quality time: With two young kids and a demanding job, Roger discusses how he maximizes quality time with his family, including how he manages travel and work commitments while staying emotionally connected.Entrepreneurship and family flexibility: Roger explains why he chose to build his own company to gain the freedom to be a present father, emphasizing the importance of flexibility in both work and family life.Where to find Roger EinstossLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/rogereinstoss/ X: https://x.com/reinstossWhere to find Adam FishmanFishmanAF Newsletter: www.FishmanAFNewsletter.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjfishman/ Instagram: https://ww.instagram.com/startupdadpod/ In this episode, we cover:(00:00) Introducing Roger Einstoss, founder of Brantley and dad of two(02:00) Growing up in Argentina and starting coding at 15(04:30) Family inspiration and advice from Roger’s uncle(05:01) Balancing family and business life(06:33) Parenting differences between Argentina and the U.S.(08:00) The importance of living near extended family in Argentina(09:00) Shared parenting responsibilities with Karina(11:20) Both parents working from home: Balancing family and career(16:21) Economic challenges in Argentina and the impact on families(18:34) Starting Brantley and connecting Argentine talent with U.S.(21:08) Roger’s approach to teaching emotional intelligence to kids(23:48) Advice to his younger self: Relax, and embrace flexibility in parenting(25:30) Defining quality time with kids and staying present(28:30) Staying connected with family while traveling for work(32:10) Struggles and rewards of balancing business travel and family life(36:15) Parenting through the eyes of an entrepreneur(38:40) The role of emotional intelligence in shaping family dynamics(40:00) Roger’s perspective on being a present, involved dad(44:30) Lightning round: Parenting must-haves and quirksResources From This Episode:Skibidi Toilet: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt27814427/ Skibidi Toilet: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Skibidi_ToiletDiana and Roma / Kids Diana Show:https://www.youtube.com/c/KidsDianaShow Inside Out: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt2096673/Braintly: https://www.braintly.com/Lionel Messi: https://www.intermiamicf.com/players/lionel-messi/The Simpsons: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0096697/Mercado Libre: https://mercadolibre.com/Lego: https://www.lego.com/en-usWhatsApp: https://www.whatsapp.com/ChatGPT: www.chatgpt.comBath kneeler: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B09Y3YP5FTDiana and Roma: https://www.youtube.com/@KidsRomaShowMarvel Series: https://www.marvel.com/—For sponsorship inquiries email: podcast@fishmana.com.For Startup Dad Merch: www.startupdadshop.com

Dan Fishman is a husband, a lawyer, and a relatively new parent. He’s also Adam’s brother, and the very special guest for the 100th episode of Startup Dad. By day, Dan is Associate General Counsel at Redwood Trust, but at home, he’s going through fatherhood for the first time by navigating toddler teething, sleep deprivation, and the occasional lemon tree massacre. He’s still  figuring out what kind of dad he actually wants to be.In this episode, Dan reflects on the surprises of new parenthood, what he’s borrowing from how he was raised, and why he’s still not sure he identifies as “Dad.”Letting go of the old identity: Why Dan doesn’t fully relate to the label “dad” just yet, how parenting has shifted his priorities and time management, and what it means to enjoy the ride without “going full Dad.”Channeling childhood joy: From chasing his daughter around the house with their Scottish terriers to dance parties with the Beatles, Dan shares how he’s making space for silliness and spontaneity.Fugue states and yard work: How a COVID brain fog, a teething baby, and a pair of pruning shears led to the total annihilation of the family lemon tree, and why Dan and Sophie now laugh about it.Simple frameworks for staying sane: Why Dan leans on intuitive parenting, presence over perfection, and the rule of “don’t compare workloads” to keep his household and partnership healthy.A love letter for the future: Dan shares a message for his daughter to hear when she’s 21, with the lessons he hopes to pass down, including a serious warning about law school and a reminder that her dad will always be her biggest fan.Where to find Daniel FishmanLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/daniel-f-45731916Where to find Adam FishmanFishmanAF Newsletter: www.FishmanAFNewsletter.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjfishman/ Instagram: https://ww.instagram.com/startupdadpod/ In this episode, we cover:(00:00) Introducing Daniel Fishman(02:08) Parenting reflections and surprises(04:27) The work-life balance of Dan and  “Work Dan”(05:51) Fatherhood changes and early memories(11:11) Parenting advice and decisions(20:48) Favorite books and music for kids(24:46) Parenting frameworks and challenges(28:45) The Lemon tree incident(29:22) Household strife and COVID fugue state(30:22) Parenting frameworks and humor(32:32) Anna's relationship with technology(33:52) Anna's first birthday and future skills(36:15) Dad jokes and future messages(38:51) Lightning Round: Parenting Products and HacksShow references:Redwood Trust: https://www.redwoodtrust.com/Sega Genesis: https://asia.sega.com/genesismini/Severance: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt11280740/Scottish Terrier: https://www.akc.org/dog-breeds/scottish-terrier/Bruce Springsteen: https://brucespringsteen.net/The Beatles: https://www.thebeatles.com/Grateful Dead: https://www.dead.net/Stern Grove Festival: https://www.sterngrove.org/Hardly Strictly Bluegrass: https://hardlystrictlybluegrass.com/Golden Gate Park: https://sfrecpark.org/770/Golden-Gate-ParkThom York: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Thom_YorkeRadiohead: https://www.radiohead.com/Jon Klassen The Hat Trilogy Series: https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/series/G6I/the-hat-trilogy/Julia Donaldson: https://www.juliadonaldson.co.uk/Nose Frida: https://frida.com/Chatgpt.comTraining a Tiger: A Father's Guide to Raising a Winner in Both Golf and Life by Earl Woods: https://www.amazon.com/Training-Tiger-Fathers-Raising-Winner/dp/0062701789The Elephant and the Bad Baby: https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/1095518.The_Elephant_and_the_Bad_Baby Baby Shusher: https://babyshusher.com/Puffs: https://www.gerber.com/shop-by-product/snacks Terminator 2: Judgement Day: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0103064/Ratatouille: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0382932/Minecraft: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt3566834/The Simpsons: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0096697/Neverending Story: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0088323/Larry David: https://www.imdb.com/name/nm0202970/—For sponsorship inquiries email: podcast@fishmana.com.For Startup Dad Merch: www.startupdadshop.com

Alex Egeler is a former engineering executive turned parent career coach. He’s also a father of four boys, a husband, and a stay-at-home dad who helps other working parents navigate meaningful careers that support, not strain their families. In this episode, Alex opens up about the unpredictable reality of parenting, the generational mental health patterns he’s determined to break, and how becoming a dad transformed how he views success. We discussed:Letting go of the career script: How Alex’s first paternity leave revealed the emptiness of his “perfect job” and led him to walk away, and how each child helped him rewrite what meaningful work really looks like.Undoing generational pressure: Why the deaths of Alex’s father and grandfather pushed him to question everything he believed about work, identity, and what it means to be a good dad.Parenting with emotional honesty: Alex shares how he learned to show all emotions and not just the “good” ones, and how that shift helped his kids build trust, empathy, and resilience.Supporting a child with bipolar disorder: Why Alex and his wife approach parenting as a tag team, how they talk openly about mental health with their 12-year-old son, and what they’ve learned about showing up differently in crisis vs. calm.Building flexible careers for parents: How Alex coaches other working parents to question old assumptions, set realistic job goals, and own their value in the job market — especially in roles that support both career and caregiving.Where to find Alex EgelerLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/alex-egeler-empathic-egg/ Empathic Egg: https://www.empathicegg.com/Where to find Adam FishmanFishmanAF Newsletter: www.FishmanAFNewsletter.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjfishman/ Instagram: https://ww.instagram.com/startupdadpod/ In this episode, we cover:(00:00) Introducing Alex Egeler(02:10) How becoming a dad reshaped Alex’s career path(05:08) The false promise of boundaries between work and family(09:12) When Alex realized his job wasn’t meaningful anymore(12:06) Four generations of men and mental health struggles(16:15) Grieving his father through the eyes of his own son(20:20) How Alex and his wife talk about depression with their child(24:05) The invisible support team behind every successful parent(27:15) Why stepping back from work was harder emotionally than socially(31:00) Parenting four boys including surprise twins(34:30) The sibling dynamics that no one prepares you for(38:15) Teaching emotional regulation to young kids(44:30) Using Dr. Becky’s “Good Inside” framework in daily life(54:40) The power of reframing parenting as support, not punishment(01:03:00) Lightning round: must-haves, mindsets, and momentsShow references:Inside Out: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt2096673/Batteries Not Included: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0092494/ ‘Alex’s LI: https://www.linkedin.com/in/alex-egeler-empathic-egg/Stanford: https://www.stanford.edu/Fibonacci Sequence: https://www.mathsisfun.com/numbers/fibonacci-sequence.htmlGood Inside, Dr. Becky: https://www.goodinside.com/Company of Dads/Paul Sullivan: https://thecompanyofdads.com/Paul Sullivan’s Episode: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GJSbH8uydFoMidjourney: https://www.midjourney.com/homeChatGPT.comIf I Built a House by Chris Van Dusen: https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/if-i-built-a-house-chris-van-dusen/1109327478Caillou: https://en.caillou.com/—For sponsorship inquiries email: podcast@fishmana.com.For Startup Dad Merch: www.startupdadshop.com

Ben Erez is a former founder and product leader turned solopreneur and instructor. He teaches a popular Maven course for aspiring product managers, hosts the podcast Supra Insider, and is a proud girl dad living in Brooklyn. In this episode, Ben shares what it’s like raising a daughter while building a portfolio career on his own terms. We discussed:How solo parenting can feel easier: Why Ben finds weekday solo parenting less stressful than co-parenting, and how clarity in routine helps him stay grounded.Making the leap to fatherhood: The pros and cons exercise Ben used to think through becoming a parent and what ultimately pushed him to take the leap.What makes a portfolio career work: How Ben structures his time across fractional work, teaching, building an AI product, and podcasting without feeling overwhelmed.Structure as a path to freedom: Why routines have become essential for Ben and how they help him stay present, productive, and connected to his family.Handling disagreements as partners: Ben reflects on navigating different parenting styles with his wife and how they’ve built a process for staying aligned.Creating connection through community: How a local dad group gave Ben a deeper sense of belonging and why it’s made parenting feel a little less isolating.Where to find Ben ErezLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/benerez/ X: https://x.com/viableben Where to find Adam FishmanFishmanAF Newsletter: www.FishmanAFNewsletter.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjfishman/ Instagram: https://ww.instagram.com/startupdadpod/ In this episode, we cover:(00:00) Introducing Ben Erez(01:12) Raising a toddler and golden retriever(04:29) Experiencing the magic of girl dad life(08:42) Building a sustainable portfolio career(14:56) Rethinking job security as a solopreneur(18:35) The pros and cons of having kids(22:36) Discovering the ease of solo parenting(27:31) Why weekends feel less flexible now(30:02) Feeling at home while traveling with kids(34:28) Bedtime routines that actually work(38:20) Handling disagreements with your partner(42:22) How a dad group changed everything(47:47) Navigating screen time and tech exposure(53:08) Lightning round: morning vs. evening routinesShow references:YouTube Kids: https://www.youtubekids.com/iPad: https://www.apple.com/Perplexity.ai: https://www.perplexity.ai/Khan Academy: https://www.khanacademy.org/Sound Machine: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00A2JBMRE?th=1Table top changing pad: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08KHD615KUnspeakable: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCwIWAbIeu0xI0ReKWOcw3egBlippi: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC5PYHgAzJ1wLEidB58SK6XwMoana: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt3521164/Ghostbusters: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0087332/Porsche: https://www.porsche.com/usa/—For sponsorship inquiries email: podcast@fishmana.com.For Startup Dad Merch: www.startupdadshop.com

Jamie Lee is the Founder of JME Labs, a consulting business supporting startups and small businesses. Her husband, Jeff Okita, is the VP of Product at Tilt, a leave management platform. Together, they’re raising their 14-month-old daughter while managing demanding careers and a shared vision of parenting. We talked about:Building a strong support system: How Jamie and Jeff rely on an extended team of experts, family, and tools to make daily life manageable.Creating structure through rituals and check-ins: The methods they use to stay coordinated, including weekly planning and monthly reviews.Designing life around core values: Why they prioritize individual and shared time to stay connected to who they were before becoming parents.Traveling with a baby across continents: What 15 flights and two international trips have taught them about adaptability and preparation.Reevaluating the role of work: How becoming parents led both of them to rethink what success and fulfillment mean in their careers.Connection as a two-way street: Jeff’s take on bonding as a non-birthing parent and the moments that helped him feel truly needed.Challenging traditional roles in parenting: The decisions they’ve made to balance the mental, physical, and emotional load of raising a child.Preparing for an AI-powered future: Their early thoughts on how to raise a child in a world shaped by fast-moving technology.Where to find Jamie LeeLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jamieannlee/ JME Labs: https://www.jamiealee.com/ Where to find Jeff OkitaLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeffokita/ Tilt: https://hellotilt.com/ Where to find Adam FishmanFishmanAF Newsletter: www.FishmanAFNewsletter.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjfishman/ Instagram: https://ww.instagram.com/startupdadpod/ In this episode, we cover:(00:00) Introducing Jamie and Jeff(02:20) What is the “extended team” in their household(04:35) Emergency childcare plans and calendar blow-ups(05:08) The four C’s of parenting: Coordination, Communication, Compromise, Creativity(06:06) Running, nursing, errands, and multitasking hacks(07:27) Rituals for communication and monthly check-ins(08:38) Me, Me, and We Nights(11:09) Where their parenting systems came from(13:33) Hiring a postpartum doula and learning on the fly(14:22) 15 flights with a baby and international travel strategies(17:39) Potato, plant, and puppy phases of babyhood(20:14) Blowouts on the road and travel horror stories(24:34) Not losing yourself post-baby(28:59) Rethinking the role of work after having a child(34:07) Building connection with your baby and rejecting the parenting default(54:57) Lightning Round: parenting quirks, pre-baby routines, and toddler travel winsResources from this episode:ChatGPT.comDie With Zero: Getting All You Can from Your Money and Your Life by Bill Perkins: https://bndl.co/3XlKH6eBlank Check: https://imdb.to/3Vjc3T5Planet Earth: https://imdb.to/3XlYoTo—Want to sponsor this podcast? Email podcast@fishmana.comFor Startup Dad Merch: www.startupdadshop.com

David Apple is the Founder of Shark Tooth Biotech, a company focused on developing treatments for CMT 1A, a rare genetic disease affecting his oldest son. Previously an executive at Typeform, Notion, and Zingtree, David stepped away from startup life to become his son’s full-time advocate. He’s also a father of two, a board member of the CMTA, and a first-time children’s book author. We talked about:Leaving tech to prioritize advocacy: Why David chose to walk away from a successful career to support his son through a difficult diagnostic journey.Facing resistance in the medical system: What it took to push past early dismissals from doctors and finally get answers through genetic testing.Shifting expectations of fatherhood: How caring for a child with CMT changed David’s perception of strength, patience, and what it means to be a parent.Building a purpose-led biotech company: What inspired David to launch Shark Tooth and how he’s working to fill a critical research gap for CMT 1A.Protecting presence over legacy: Why David believes being present with his kids outweighs any long-term pursuit of recognition or success.Frameworks for family and marriage: From structured “me time” to clear communication tools, David shares the systems that help him stay grounded.Where to find David AppleLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/appledavid/ X: https://x.com/davidcappleShark Tooth Biotech: https://www.sharktooth.bio/ Where to find Adam FishmanFishmanAF Newsletter: www.FishmanAFNewsletter.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjfishman/ Instagram: https://ww.instagram.com/startupdadpod/ In this episode, we cover:(00:00) Introducing David Apple(03:58) Leaving a CRO role to advocate full-time(06:13) Getting real answers through genetic testing(11:20) Misconceptions about being a stay-at-home parent(14:27) How CMT shaped Ari’s creative side(16:39) Using AI tools and finding support(22:50) Why CMT research remains underfunded today(27:12) Creating Shark Tooth Biotech with real purpose(32:14) Advocacy matters more than expert opinions(39:55) Letting go of legacy, focusing now(44:04) Turning life’s obstacles into personal growth(46:35) Lightning roundShow references:CMT 1A: https://rarediseases.info.nih.gov/diseases/1245/charcot-marie-tooth-disease-type-1aTypeform: https://www.typeform.com/Notion: https://www.notion.com/Zing Tree: https://zingtree.com/UCSF: https://www.ucsf.edu/Stanford: https://www.stanford.edu/https://chatgpt.com/CMTA: https://www.cmtausa.org/Animal Yoga by Flowerpot Press, Brian Fitzgerald (Illustrator): https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/animal-yoga-flowerpot-press/1143842943Cystic Fibrosis: https://www.cff.org/https://www.tiktok.com/en/Cosmos: A Spacetime Odyssey, Neil deGrasse Tyson:  https://www.imdb.com/title/tt2395695/Paul Campillo: https://paulcampillo.com/Munchkin Warm Glow Wipe Warmer: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B000CNOIQ2Momcozy Convertible Double Stroller: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0DJXX76MNMarine Layer: https://www.marinelayer.com/Coco Melon: https://www.cocomelon.com/Bluey: https://www.bluey.tv/Les Visiteurs: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0108500/Reach an audience at the intersection of startups and parenting - For sponsorship inquiries email podcast@fishmana.com.Support the show -  For Startup Dad Merch: www.startupdadshop.com

Alex Medick is the Director of Marketing at TensorWave, an AI infrastructure company. Prior to this role, he served as the President and Chief Marketing Officer of Inside.com. He’s also a single dad to two kids, a son and a daughter, navigating the challenges of parenting while leading in the startup world.  We discussed:- Balancing parenting with startup demands: How Alex manages being the primary parent while navigating the challenges of working at a fast-paced startup.- Communicating with kids during a separation: The approach Alex took to talk to his young children about his separation and how it affected them.- Unexpected fulfillment from fatherhood: How becoming a dad has brought a deeper sense of fulfillment and perspective to Alex’s life.- Giving yourself grace as a parent: Why Alex’s motto is to give yourself grace, especially during the hectic and overwhelming times.- The “sucky” moments that create lasting memories: Alex shares how saying yes to the challenging moments, like chaotic travel and events, leads to some of the most memorable experiences.- Old school parenting in modern times: Alex talks about his approach to parenting, influenced by older generations, and why he believes kids need more structure and less coddling.Where to find Alex MedickLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ajmedick/  X: https://x.com/ajmedickTensorWave: https://tensorwave.com/ Where to find Adam FishmanFishmanAF Newsletter: www.FishmanAFNewsletter.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjfishman/ Instagram: https://ww.instagram.com/startupdadpod/ In this episode, we cover:(00:00) Introducing Alex Medick(02:10) Balancing parenting with startup life(03:15) Talking to kids about separation(08:15) Unexpected fulfillment from fatherhood(10:06) Giving yourself grace and embracing imperfection(16:20) Old school parenting in modern times(19:31) Hospital quarantine story and new perspective(22:28) Travel chaos, flight disasters, and survival tips(33:29) Raising kids with tech: balance needed(36:03) Empathy and life principles guiding Alex(39:50) Lightning round: must-haves and parenting quirksShow references:YouTube Kids: https://www.youtubekids.com/iPad: https://www.apple.com/Perplexity.ai: https://www.perplexity.ai/Khan Academy: https://www.khanacademy.org/Sound Machine: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00A2JBMRE?th=1Table top changing pad: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08KHD615KUnspeakable: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCwIWAbIeu0xI0ReKWOcw3egBlippi: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC5PYHgAzJ1wLEidB58SK6XwMoana: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt3521164/Ghostbusters: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0087332/Porsche: https://www.porsche.com/usa/—For sponsorship inquiries email: podcast@fishmana.com.For Startup Dad Merch: www.startupdadshop.com

Jordan Gal is the CEO of Rosie, an AI answering service for small businesses. He’s also a five-time founder, husband, and dad to three daughters. Born in Israel and raised in an immigrant entrepreneur household, Jordan shares how that upbringing shapes his parenting and how he and his wife work to combine their very different childhood experiences. We discussed:Talking to kids about money: How Jordan brings business lessons into everyday moments without oversharing or creating pressure.Being family first in a startup world: Why Jordan sees business as a tool to support his real priorities.Nudging kids toward ownership: The subtle ways he introduces the value of equity, risk, and autonomy.Managing stress without passing it on: How Jordan handles emotional spillover and what he shares with his kids.Modeling healthy conflict in marriage: Why he believes transparency and disagreement are both part of partnership.Challenging assumptions through travel: How 18 months of nomadic living reshaped what his family needed and what they didn’t.Where to find Jordan GalLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jordangal  X: https://x.com/jordangal Rosie: https://heyrosie.com/ Where to find Adam FishmanFishmanAF Newsletter: www.FishmanAFNewsletter.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjfishman/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/startupdadpod/ In this episode, we cover:(00:00) Introducing Jordan Gal(01:59) Growing up in an immigrant entrepreneur household(04:13) Leaving investment banking for freedom and risk(05:54) Blending two very different parenting styles(08:33) What being “extremely family first” really looks like(11:49) Living nomadically with a toddler and a pack and play(17:37) Why Jordan’s family left Portland for the Chicago suburbs(23:14) Talking to kids about money in everyday situations(28:05) Gently guiding kids toward entrepreneurship(30:08) Managing startup stress without bringing it home(36:47) Being honest with your partner about startup risk and tradeoffs(48:01) Lightning round: minivans, Bee Movie, and doing the wormShow references:For sponsorship inquiries email: podcast@fishmana.com.For Startup Dad Merch: www.startupdadshop.comLinks for Jordan GalRosie: https://heyrosie.comAaron’s LI: https://www.linkedin.com/in/aarondfrancis/Aaron Francis’ Episode: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SntR9LmO4oUDorit Lemel: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dorit_KemsleyUniversity of Michigan: https://umich.edu/Harvard Business School:https://online.hbs.edu/Kibbutz:https://www.britannica.com/topic/kibbutzDavid Foster Wallace, This is Water: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DCbGM4mqEVwPack N Play: https://www.gracobaby.com/shop/home-and-gear/pack-n-play-playardsMarine Layer: https://www.marinelayer.com/Vuori: https://vuoriclothing.com/Bee Movie: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0389790/The Wonder Years: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0094582/Parenthood: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt1416765/Schindler’s List: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0108052/

Sol Kennedyi is the founder of BestInterest which helps co-parents navigate the messiness of that complex relationship. He is a serial founder who has built and sold multiple companies and has been the head of product at Dropcam, a PM at Google and an angel investor in companies like Coinbase, Gitlab and Instacart. In addition to being a serial entrepreneur he’s also a single, half-time dad of two kids and a co-parent. We discussed:* Navigating divorce and co-parenting* Important lessons he’s learned from his co-parenting role* The adversarial system that exists in family court and treats parents like criminals* The emotional rollercoaster of half-time parenting as a single Dad* His experience taking an extended time off to be a full-time Dad when his daughter was young* Mistakes he’s made as a parent that have helped him grow into the Dad he is today.* How your kids help you heal your own relationship with your parents* The importance of patience and slowness when raising kidsWhere to find Sal Kennedy* LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/solkennedy/* BestInterest App: bestinterestapp.com* Sol’s Podcast: https://podcast.coparentingbeyondconflict.com/Where to find Adam Fishman* FishmanAF Newsletter: www.FishmanAFNewsletter.com* LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjfishman/* Instagram: https://ww.instagram.com/startupdadpod/_In this episode, we cover:[1:55] Welcome[2:11] Professional background[3:53] Kids & divorce[6:17] Co-parenting[10:34] Advice for those going though this/co- parenting[13:26] Being a half-time dad[17:35] Strategies for setting boundaries with kids[20:33] Decision to be a full-time dad and then back into work-force[25:49] Does his own family use Best Interest?[26:07] Most surprising things you’ve discovered as a dad?[29:04] how having kids helped heal his relationship with his own parents[32:08] Advice to younger Sol[34:10] Transition from 1 to 2 kids[36:48] Frameworks for parenting[40:22] Kid’s relationship with tech[44:48] Mistake as a dad[49:05] Follow along[49:59] Lightning round[1:00:07] Thank you—Show references:Coinbase: https://www.coinbase.com/GitLab: https://about.gitlab.com/Instacart: https://www.instacart.com/Bug catcher: https://www.amazon.com/toys-Battat-Bungalow-Insect-Catching/dp/B01M0V474YBaby sock monitor (Owlet): https://owletcare.com/products/owlet-dream-sockPixar: https://www.pixar.com/Star Wars: https://www.starwars.com/Mini Cooper: https://www.miniusa.com/—For sponsorship inquiries email: podcast@fishmana.com.For Startup Dad Merch: www.startupdadshop.comProduction support for Startup Dad is provided by Tommy Harron athttp://www.armaziproductions.com/

Nikunj Kothari is a former investor with Khosla Ventures and a product and growth leader from companies like Opendoor, Shyp, and LinkedIn. He’s now out on his own advising, investing and spending time as a husband and a father of two, including a brand new son! We discussed:* The false dichotomy between ambition and parenting and the support structures needed to achieve it* The work it takes to prioritize your partner after the arrival of a new baby* How execution as a Dad is only part of the problem set* Big mistakes he’s made as a Dad* How the relationship with his own parents changed since becoming a father* Top tips for international flights with young kidsWhere to find Nikunj Kothari* LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/nikunjk/* X: https://x.com/nikunj* Website: https://www.nikunjk.com/Where to find Adam Fishman* FishmanAF Newsletter: www.FishmanAFNewsletter.com* LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjfishman/* Instagram: https://ww.instagram.com/startupdadpod/—In this episode, we cover:[2:00] Welcome[2:17] What Nikunj is up to these days[3:08] Four generations in the home/dad feedback[3:58] Childhood[5:25] Family now[8:33] Decision to start a family[10:35] Ambition and parent dichotomy[13:22] Would you rewind the clock?[17:33] Who needs help in the newborn stage[21:36] Paying attention to invisible labor[23:45] Mistakes as a dad/prioritize making time for partner[26:39] Funny story of his daughter sleeping through the night[30:07] Traveling with young children[34:26] Relationship to own parents in fatherhood[38:20] How parenting changed from kid to kid[40:28] Go-to activity[41:46] Aligning with partner[45;05] Kid’s relationship with tech[49:34] Favorite books to read to kids[50:44] Follow along[51:37] Lightning round[58:03] Thank you—Show references:Khosla Ventures: https://www.khoslaventures.com/Opendoor: https://www.opendoor.com/SIDS: https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/sudden-infant-death-syndrome/symptoms-causes/syc-20352800Children’s Creativity Museum: https://creativity.org/Ms. Rachel: https://www.youtube.com/@msrachelCoco Melon: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCbCmjCuTUZos6Inko4u57UQSpring is here (Bear and Mole Series) by Will Hillenbrand: https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/spring-is-here-will-hillenbrand/1103442878Baby Merlin’s Magic Sleepsuit: https://www.magicsleepsuit.com/Home Alone: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0099785/Home Alone: 2: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0104431/Dunston Checks In: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0116151/Moana: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt3521164/Kal Ho Naa Ho:Blow up flight bed: https://www.flyawaydesigns.com/products/flyaway-kids-bed—For sponsorship inquiries email: podcast@fishmana.com.For Startup Dad Merch: www.startupdadshop.comProduction support for Startup Dad is provided by Tommy Harron athttp://www.armaziproductions.com/ This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit startupdadpod.substack.com